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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, welcome back to another Close Friends episode. We
Speaker 1: have gotten a spicy email.
Speaker 2: Well that's not that spicy, but it's prompting for a
Speaker 2: good conversation it is.
Speaker 1: Let's read it out.
Speaker 2: As you know, we have our email, which is scrollers
Speaker 2: at novas dot com. Yes, sorry, it was just a
Speaker 2: triple checking. I was making sure you knew what was
Speaker 2: going on. And we get emails all the time, and
Speaker 2: as always, you can send us an email let us
Speaker 2: know if you'd rather stay anonymous on the pod or
Speaker 2: anything like that. But sometimes we decide to answer your
Speaker 2: questions in a Close Friends episode. That's what we're doing today.
Speaker 1: Hey, Britt and Matt long term follower slash scroller here,
Speaker 1: we're talking twenty fourteen Britain, Matt.
Speaker 2: Which is crazy because I started in twenty fifteen. So
Speaker 2: what was she doing stalking me at the sand?
Speaker 1: Close enough? Close enough?
Speaker 2: Really, so wait, that might not be right, because I
Speaker 2: did ten years this year. Yeah, No, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen,
Speaker 2: twenty one, two three four, that's ten years.
Speaker 1: Okay. Recently you have both discussed how much your opinions
Speaker 1: and ways of living have changed over time and as
Speaker 1: you have gotten wiser. I've definitely seen this happen with
Speaker 1: the both of your lives and resonate with this myself.
Speaker 1: For example, years ago, Britt never wanted to own a house.
Speaker 1: She said she wanted to rent exclusively. I will elaborate
Speaker 1: on that and express her opinion about marriage and children.
Speaker 1: Now Britt owns and is renovating, owning a massive company,
Speaker 1: and more.
Speaker 2: She also says, and Matt, being Matt like myself, always
Speaker 2: saying what they think could be bs, but then maybe
Speaker 2: a month or so later, realizing it wasn't the worst
Speaker 2: decision or idea they'd heard of. I'll elaborate on that also,
Speaker 2: or what his life in Sydney will look like. But then,
Speaker 2: with the cost of living and rent going up, thinking
Speaker 2: of moving to somewhere like Newcastle or Paramatta, somewhere I
Speaker 2: thought that I'd never moved to.
Speaker 1: So in saying this, what are your opinions now on
Speaker 1: all things living, housing, career, education, friends, families, building a family,
Speaker 1: you name it. Part of me is just curious and nosy,
Speaker 1: but there is part of me wondering, as I've watched
Speaker 1: you guys grow up yourself, how much your opinion has
Speaker 1: changed over time. For me, it was only a few
Speaker 1: years ago. I was early twenties, doing my teaching degree,
Speaker 1: thinking of renting away from home with my boyfriend, eventually
Speaker 1: getting married and having kids. When I was early thirties,
Speaker 1: you know how things were meant to go. I've got
Speaker 1: a lot of opinions on that too. But now, at
Speaker 1: the end of twenty twenty four, I'm finding myself moving
Speaker 1: into a brand new home my partner and I built,
Speaker 1: same guy in Newcastle where I grew up, not married
Speaker 1: nor engaged, no kids in sight. I know that's how
Speaker 1: life works. But I guess what I am trying to
Speaker 1: relate to you by? What steps were made to get
Speaker 1: to where you are today? Wow? What a ramble. But
Speaker 1: I don't often have a chance to actually write down
Speaker 1: questions I have when listening to you guys.
Speaker 2: Well, Firstie, thank you so much for taking the time
Speaker 2: to email us. Yes, I saw this email, and I
Speaker 2: was like, that's actually such a good topic to talk
Speaker 2: about because I know you have a lot of thoughts
Speaker 2: and opinions, particularly on change and when people say things
Speaker 2: like you've changed and all the rest of that, and
Speaker 2: how you know it correlates to growth in life and
Speaker 2: if you're not changing, you're not growing.
Speaker 1: Yes, I think one of the hard things about being
Speaker 1: online is people will take what you say and like
Speaker 1: run with that and if you ever, like do like
Speaker 1: opposite of something that you said so long ago, like
Speaker 1: they cling onto it. And I think we've seen it
Speaker 1: through like our youtubing days. I know I did for sure,
Speaker 1: Like people would comment, you know, three years into my
Speaker 1: YouTube journey and say you've changed, as if though like
Speaker 1: you're not allowed to or like it's a negative thing,
Speaker 1: but like, hello, like we all changed. I think the
Speaker 1: older we get, the more we realize like change is normal.
Speaker 1: If anything, we should embrace it, oh for sure, Like
Speaker 1: and I'm all for it. Like we've already spoken about this.
Speaker 1: I at one point thought that getting a boob job
Speaker 1: was a good idea, and then I undid that because
Speaker 1: I thought I changed my fucking mind. So I guess
Speaker 1: I'll start on my questions. First ages ago a Jane,
Speaker 1: I had always rented, and I was just on my
Speaker 1: story talking as I always fucking do every single night
Speaker 1: about something random. And I've found I don't know about
Speaker 1: you as much, Matt, but in my career, the two questions,
Speaker 1: three questions that I got asked the most throughout my
Speaker 1: whole youtubing careers when are you having kids? When are
Speaker 1: you buying a house? And when are you getting married?
Speaker 2: Which is so funny because I never get any of
Speaker 2: those three questions.
Speaker 1: So they are my most commonly asked questions. And the
Speaker 1: other day I randomly went live on TikTok and the
Speaker 1: comments were when are you and aj having kids? I've
Speaker 1: been asking those questions all the time, and Agent and
Speaker 1: I were renting forever, lived in a million houses. This
Speaker 1: is this is I don't know if this is like
Speaker 1: COVID times and people were asking when are you gonna
Speaker 1: buy a house, blah blah blah. So I went on
Speaker 1: this massive rent on my story and I was just
Speaker 1: essentially saying, this is before rent was what it fucking
Speaker 1: is now as well, mind you, this is when rent
Speaker 1: was not wild like it fucking is. And I went
Speaker 1: on my story one night, and I was just kind
Speaker 1: of saying, like, what's so bad if we choose to
Speaker 1: rent for the rest of our lives. It wasn't me
Speaker 1: saying fuck buying a house. Fuck it, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: do that, But it was more so like me challenging,
Speaker 1: Like I think I've always been one to kind of
Speaker 1: try to challenge like the norms that society sets out
Speaker 1: for us. And so I jumped on my story and
Speaker 1: I'm like, so, what like if we spend the rest
Speaker 1: of our lives renting and we're happy with where we're living, Like,
Speaker 1: why does everyone keep saying to us like when are
Speaker 1: you buying? When are you buying? Like when are you
Speaker 1: going to get engaged? Like I was like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was in a like angry mood that day, and
Speaker 1: I was like, so what if we just decide that
Speaker 1: we want to rent and we're happy renting? And I
Speaker 1: said that back then because that's what we were happy
Speaker 1: doing in that moment. That house will probably be a
Speaker 1: fucking fortune now. But that's what I said back then.
Speaker 2: But you also did some like little calculations and things
Speaker 2: like that. I remember the stories you were like saying
Speaker 2: and from my understanding the way that I watched it,
Speaker 2: the insinuation was that renting was better than owning a
Speaker 2: house though me for you, yeah, back, not for everyone,
Speaker 2: but for you, yeah at.
Speaker 1: That time, like we were like I was happy doing that,
Speaker 1: And that's what I was saying, Like, so what you know,
Speaker 1: because I feel like society has made everyone feel like
Speaker 1: if you and this is what I said on my stories,
Speaker 1: I'm like, society has made everyone feel like if you
Speaker 1: don't buy a house, then you haven't fucking ticked the box.
Speaker 1: But that's what I was trying to say on my story, you.
Speaker 2: Haven't lived until you've had kids.
Speaker 1: Yes, like this, And I get these questions all the time,
Speaker 1: Like people still are like when are you and AJ
Speaker 1: going to get engaged? When are you and AJ gonna
Speaker 1: have kids? And I would get that question all the
Speaker 1: time about buying a house too. I'm like, you don't
Speaker 1: have to buy a house to be successful in life.
Speaker 1: You can do lots of other things. And like that's
Speaker 1: what I was getting at back then. I was like,
Speaker 1: we're happy renting, Like we're happy with the rent that
Speaker 1: we're paying. Mind you, this was four years ago. Maybe
Speaker 1: rent was a lot cheaper back then. Now it's fucking
Speaker 1: different because you used to rent to then be able
Speaker 1: to eventually afford a house, but now it's like, if
Speaker 1: you're renting.
Speaker 2: You can't afford house.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so a lot has happened since I said that
Speaker 1: on my story. But even then agent and I actually
Speaker 1: had this goes really deep, like into my family and
Speaker 1: stuff with my mum. But I never had any interest
Speaker 1: in buying a house. The whole idea came about because
Speaker 1: I was trying to mend a relationship with my mum.
Speaker 1: Were not men, but I was trying to. I don't
Speaker 1: want to go too into it because it's like touchy.
Speaker 1: I know, I make jokes about it, but essentially, my
Speaker 1: mum was working for me. She isn't anymore. I think
Speaker 1: everyone knows that by now. I don't know, but then
Speaker 1: again people still ask about her. My mum was working
Speaker 1: for us. I knew how much that we were paying her,
Speaker 1: and I knew how much rent she was paying, and
Speaker 1: so me being me and trying to like make our
Speaker 1: relationship great, like the whole First of all, the whole
Speaker 1: thing came about because we were going to buy an
Speaker 1: apartment for my mum to live in. This is how
Speaker 1: this whole thing started. Age and I were going to
Speaker 1: continue renting.
Speaker 2: Like investment property vies, but it's your mum as the tennis.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, so I even we went because there's all
Speaker 1: these new developments like happening in Newcastle, and so I
Speaker 1: went to like look at the showroom, got the paperwork.
Speaker 1: I paid a little deposit, and then we were going
Speaker 1: to buy an investment property and probably live in it
Speaker 1: ourselves for the first six months or whatever the fuck
Speaker 1: you have to do, and then Shad's was going to
Speaker 1: move into it. I paid a deposit and everything. That's
Speaker 1: how this whole house thing came about, all because like
Speaker 1: I was trying to do good by her, which bit
Speaker 1: me in the ars down the track, but anyway, we
Speaker 1: won't say to him on the internet. And then that
Speaker 1: fell through because my solicitor said it was like a
Speaker 1: red flag because you know when you're buying something off
Speaker 1: the plan blah blah blah. And so that fell through,
Speaker 1: and then that's when plan B came about. All right, well,
Speaker 1: we're not buying this investment property for her to live in,
Speaker 1: so let's fucking buy a house. But the whole deal
Speaker 1: was it needs to have a granny flat in the back.
Speaker 1: So that's how the whole thing came about of us
Speaker 1: buying a house. And then now Shadows doesn't live in
Speaker 1: that house and she's not in.
Speaker 2: My life, so you've renovated everything.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, so that's how it all came to be.
Speaker 2: Was a plan to renovate originally anyway when you because
Speaker 2: it was like.
Speaker 1: A really old house, like old fashioned, so we're always
Speaker 1: going to renovate it. But like, the whole reason that
Speaker 1: this whole thing of us buying a house came about
Speaker 1: was because we were going to buy the apartment and
Speaker 1: then it fell through and we're like, all right, well
Speaker 1: we're not going to get that apartment. Oh well, let's
Speaker 1: just buy a house and she can live out the back.
Speaker 1: So that's my story why.
Speaker 2: You decided to buy a house. Yeah. Nice. She's also said,
Speaker 2: you know, Matt always saying what I think could be bullshit,
Speaker 2: and then maybe a month or so realizing it.
Speaker 1: Was yeah maybe not.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I've changed my mind halfway through a segment,
Speaker 2: like I've been like, he's just so stupid, and then
Speaker 2: by the end of the conversation, I go, actually, you
Speaker 2: know what, maybe I retract everything I said, that's always
Speaker 2: been my thing. I'm always learning. I'm always learning.
Speaker 1: I think one of the hardest things about being online is,
Speaker 1: like I said at.
Speaker 2: The start of this episode, yeah, you say something and.
Speaker 1: That people take what you say and then like, that's
Speaker 1: that's your belief and like if you ever change your
Speaker 1: mind on that, then no, because you said this that time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: I think that's like the tricky thing about being online
Speaker 1: and like having a podcast or chatting on your story
Speaker 1: is people will like take it and be like, but
Speaker 1: you said, and I'm like, yeah, that was five years ago. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like people like you said, changed their mind during a conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yep. So basically I think it's healthy too.
Speaker 1: I think it's healthy to change your mind.
Speaker 2: Change your mind, change your life. Yes, change whatever you want.
Speaker 2: And I'm all about like change. Like when people go
Speaker 2: you've changed, I'm like, well, what do you want? Can
Speaker 2: you imagine me staying the same as I was in
Speaker 2: twenty and thirteen?
Speaker 1: Do we wear in vests? Matt Oh, this is the
Speaker 1: thing is that that can you please wear a T
Speaker 1: shirt with a vest? One?
Speaker 2: They're selling Christmas vests at kmart. You need to literally
Speaker 2: Christmas tuxedo ves and I said to Sky when we
Speaker 2: walked past, I said, imagine I still wore vess that
Speaker 2: one would have been coming home with me, no questions asked.
Speaker 2: It's absolutely ridiculous. So she said, in saying this, what
Speaker 2: are your opinions now on all things living? I don't
Speaker 2: really know what that means, she.
Speaker 1: Said, all things living, housing, career, education, friends, families, building family,
Speaker 1: you name it.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, right now, at this point in my life,
Speaker 2: building family kneel interests me too. That could change in
Speaker 2: the future, but right now Sky and I are both like,
Speaker 2: we are too selfish with our money. It's fucking expensive
Speaker 2: to raise a child, and for me, adoption, surrogacy, whatever
Speaker 2: it might be. That shit's expensive. I would rather not
Speaker 2: spend that money. I'd actually rather take us to fucking Italy. Sorry,
Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? Like, That's where I'm
Speaker 2: at at the moment. We're both on the same page
Speaker 2: with that. Even a dog we both love. I've always
Speaker 2: I've had a few dogs in my life, Like, I've
Speaker 2: always wanted to have a dog of my own, and
Speaker 2: Sky just loves dogs so much. We want one, But
Speaker 2: right now our lifestyles do not align and it would
Speaker 2: be unfair of us to actually get a dog because
Speaker 2: we don't have the time to commit to raising a puppy.
Speaker 2: So if we can't do that, fuck bringing a kid
Speaker 2: into the mix, you know what I mean. That's my
Speaker 2: opinion on that opinion on opinion on education. Okay, I
Speaker 2: never got any sort of education at all, never went
Speaker 2: to university, never went to university. I struggled with knowing. Okay,
Speaker 2: here's actually we'll get a bit deep and meaningful as
Speaker 2: to why I don't I feel I don't have an education.
Speaker 2: Is because growing up queer is you are five steps
Speaker 2: behind everyone else, because everyone else just kind of gets
Speaker 2: to hit the ground running with knowing exactly who they are,
Speaker 2: whereas I was obviously very confused for a lot of
Speaker 2: my developing years. I knew I didn't fit in with
Speaker 2: anyone else. So while everyone else is learning their times tables,
Speaker 2: my brain's going I think, I like boys. I'm distracted,
Speaker 2: and so I have, like, I really believe that as
Speaker 2: queer people, we have a what do you call it,
Speaker 2: like a handicap almost on life because there's so much
Speaker 2: figuring out that happens in those very early years, and
Speaker 2: especially when we're at school, and I feel that as
Speaker 2: queer people here we go this will this will be
Speaker 2: a statement that I'm sure when I die, like they'll
Speaker 2: put this quote in the daily fucking mail. I think
Speaker 2: as queer people, we spend so much of our time
Speaker 2: trying to figure out who we are that we don't
Speaker 2: have enough time to figure out what we want to be.
Speaker 2: So right up until year twelve, I couldn't give a
Speaker 2: shit what I did after high school. I was trying
Speaker 2: to figure out who I was that day, Like, what's
Speaker 2: going on inside my brain at this current moment. I
Speaker 2: don't care for tay or university or anything like that.
Speaker 2: I can't even think about five years in the future
Speaker 2: because I'm still like, I don't know if I want
Speaker 2: to wear a dress or put makeup on or not today.
Speaker 2: Like it's like that's kind of what was occupying my brain.
Speaker 2: So by the time I got to year twelve, no
Speaker 2: idea what I wanted to do. That meant I didn't
Speaker 2: give a shit about my scores in in the HSC
Speaker 2: and things. So about four or five weeks before the HC,
Speaker 2: I went I want to be a speech pathologist, and
Speaker 2: that's what I wanted to be I wanted to help
Speaker 2: little kids speak if they had speech impediments. It's because
Speaker 2: I had a boyfriend at the time had a speech impediment,
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm going to be a speech pathologist.
Speaker 2: But I genuinely, for the first time in my life,
Speaker 2: was like, this is what I want to do. And
Speaker 2: I was like, I am so determined to get a
Speaker 2: score good enough in the HSC that it will take
Speaker 2: me to university. And I was like, this is all
Speaker 2: the things I have to study, These are all the
Speaker 2: things I have to do. I was like, I've got
Speaker 2: five weeks. Let's fucking crush this. I'm going to be
Speaker 2: a speech pathologist. I had so much passion for it,
Speaker 2: but unfortunately, the way that the system works here in
Speaker 2: New South Wales is your assignments throughout the year count
Speaker 2: towards your HSC result. And I did the like Atar
Speaker 2: calculator to calculate the score that I would get, and
Speaker 2: I was like, even if I got one one hundred percent,
Speaker 2: which is impossible, but even if I got one hundred
Speaker 2: percent in all my exams in the HC, my number
Speaker 2: would still be like twenty less than the number I
Speaker 2: would need to be a speech pathologist, which is quite high.
Speaker 2: So then my dreams were crashed and I was like, well,
Speaker 2: nothing to live for whatever then, and then I just
Speaker 2: flunked the whole HC went fuck the Lottiers, and I
Speaker 2: ended up with I didn't get a dot. You get
Speaker 2: a dot if your score was like less than thirty
Speaker 2: or something. But yeah, I think my atar was really
Speaker 2: really low. And I don't want to be an asshole,
Speaker 2: but I would argue that my life has turned out
Speaker 2: fucking better than some of those other people who spent
Speaker 2: every waking moment studying and doing all of that. And
Speaker 2: it's funny that I just feel like everything worked out
Speaker 2: in the end, and everything kind of happened for a reason,
Speaker 2: because imagine I did go on to speech pathology, I
Speaker 2: never would have worked the Santa photography job, never would
Speaker 2: have met you, We wouldn't be sitting here today.
Speaker 1: Everything always has a way of working out, even if
Speaker 1: it's not what you had planned. And I think like
Speaker 1: that I've always felt this way, Like I feel like
Speaker 1: I always have been mentally conscious of like trying to
Speaker 1: go against the grain, like I don't care for education
Speaker 1: at all, Like fair enough if you want to be
Speaker 1: like a doctor, or a psychologist, like those careers out
Speaker 1: there where you need that fucking education, then absolutely, But
Speaker 1: especially like in my world that I'm in, like all
Speaker 1: my staff that come into my roles, I couldn't care
Speaker 1: less what you knew they went to or what degree
Speaker 1: they did, because we're in creative roles where you learn
Speaker 1: on the fucking job and if you can bring some
Speaker 1: creativeness to the table, then you've got the social media
Speaker 1: job or whatever for sure. So that's I'm the same
Speaker 1: about education. I don't have an education other than year eleven,
Speaker 1: and even then I just didn't care about being there.
Speaker 2: I will say as well, the landscape has changed so
Speaker 2: much different.
Speaker 1: Now you can get a job by posting a TikTok
Speaker 1: and the brand notices you and you get yourself an interview.
Speaker 2: I mean like in high school. If I was leaving
Speaker 2: high school today, there would be roles that I would
Speaker 2: be passionate about.
Speaker 1: Exactly we didn't have. We didn't have the as options
Speaker 1: back then.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, we sound like fucking boomers. It was so
Speaker 2: much harder for us. But genuinely, if there was a
Speaker 2: fucking social media marketing degree of some sort, which I'm
Speaker 2: sure something like that exists, I'd probably have jumped at
Speaker 2: that because that's up my alley. But at the time,
Speaker 2: there was nothing, like there was not much creative stuff
Speaker 2: to do unless you were going to go to Nider
Speaker 2: or something like that and go to the dramatic arts school.
Speaker 2: I think the other thing as well is I truly
Speaker 2: believe that the year twelve my school, it got a
Speaker 2: bit culty towards the end, and they basically were like
Speaker 2: drilling into our heads if you don't get an atar,
Speaker 2: you are going to die. You will die, you will
Speaker 2: not have a good life, you will fail life.
Speaker 1: I don't believe that at all.
Speaker 2: I don't believe that at all either. I now know
Speaker 2: like the people who because I remember being in school
Speaker 2: and the people who left in like at the end
Speaker 2: of year ten to become tradees and things like that.
Speaker 2: And there was this one guy who I remember dropped
Speaker 2: out of school, you know, wasn't really the best at
Speaker 2: education and things like that, and I remember him dropping
Speaker 2: out to become a trade and I remember all of
Speaker 2: us who were still in school to get out ata
Speaker 2: all of us laughing and going, oh, good luck to him,
Speaker 2: like he's gonna go be a trainee like lo like
Speaker 2: we're gonna get atys and got a YEARNI and blah
Speaker 2: blah blah. Like I'm not saying that me personally. That
Speaker 2: was the conversation I was having with That was just
Speaker 2: the That was just the understanding in the school is
Speaker 2: that anyone who dropped out and went to TAFE or
Speaker 2: they're never going to amount to anything. Let me tell you,
Speaker 2: this motherfucker has a construction business, employees, hundreds and hundreds
Speaker 2: of employees, and by the looks of it, earns millions
Speaker 2: of dollars while the rest of us, like, not me personally,
Speaker 2: I guess because I didn't get the atar, but the
Speaker 2: rest of us sat around looking for that atar, And
Speaker 2: now what salary are you on compared to this one
Speaker 2: that's gone. So realistically, no matter what education you get,
Speaker 2: it does not define where you will end up in
Speaker 2: life and the money you will make or could make,
Speaker 2: or the businesses you will run, et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker 2: So for anyone who I know, we don't have that
Speaker 2: many young listeners in high school, but I feel like
Speaker 2: for people who have left high school and maybe didn't
Speaker 2: get as good of an education as they as they wanted.
Speaker 2: Take it from two fucking bogans from the Central Coast
Speaker 2: in Newcastle who also didn't get it, didn't get an education.
Speaker 1: Is that you know you can still do it.
Speaker 2: You can still do it for sure.
Speaker 1: To sum it up, do whatever the fuck you want,
Speaker 1: say whatever the fuck you want, except that people we
Speaker 1: changed throughout our lives. I'm sure all the shit that
Speaker 1: we sit here and say on this podcast now in
Speaker 1: twenty twenty four, I bet you a million dollars in
Speaker 1: two years from now, we will completely disagree with the
Speaker 1: things that we're saying today.
Speaker 2: I think about that from episodes from three months ago.
Speaker 2: People bring things up I say, and I go, I
Speaker 2: don't really think that anymore.
Speaker 1: But that's finally, and that's normal, and that's part of life.
Speaker 2: It's part of life. And remember life is short. Any
Speaker 2: of us could die tomorrow. So today, let's not waste
Speaker 2: it harping on, you know, ridiculous bullshit like whether someone's
Speaker 2: changed or not. Let's just enjoy every moment.
Speaker 1: And can people stop asking me when I'm fucking getting
Speaker 1: engaged in having kids please respectfully.
Speaker 2: The kids one pisses me off as well, because they
Speaker 2: don't know whether you could. You know, you don't have
Speaker 2: had miscarriages. You could be on an IVF journey, blah
Speaker 2: blah blah. You never know, you may be you may
Speaker 2: be infertile and never be able to have kids. So
Speaker 2: I think asking people when you're gonna have kids is
Speaker 2: really rude. It is, and I still get I never
Speaker 2: would I would never ask anyone that.
Speaker 1: But for the record, I'm just not fucking interested right now.
Speaker 1: I really like sleeping through the night. It's not interested
Speaker 1: in changing a nappy or hearing screaming. Like genuinely, I'm
Speaker 1: not that it does not interest me. Could that interest
Speaker 1: me in three years? Yes? And if that does interest
Speaker 1: me in three years, don't say well you said, because
Speaker 1: shut the fuck up. Everyone says things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well it's getting heated. It is, it's
Speaker 2: getting heated, So we better wrap this up. But thank
Speaker 2: you for listening to another episode of Close Friend Scrollers.
Speaker 1: Guess what see your next Tuesday, Your next Tuesday.