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Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gaddigal Land Always was, always

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Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land.

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Speaker 2: Hey chicks, I'm out and I'm sal and this is

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Speaker 2: two rote Chicks, the show that shares life lessons to

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Speaker 2: give you tips to be rich in life.

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Speaker 3: That's not it, but we'll run with it, chicks, No

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Speaker 3: where you are.

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Speaker 2: I started, I started like listening to my voice, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, am I my boy?

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Speaker 3: I was going to say, your voice was sounding a

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Speaker 3: bit sexy.

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Speaker 4: Recording our audio book this week from like tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, anyway, today we have the best year of the show.

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Speaker 4: I'm so excited that you're back.

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Speaker 5: Maddie McCrae. Welcomes, Hi, cheecks, how are you?

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Speaker 3: Thanks for coming back?

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Speaker 6: No, never, I love you guys.

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Speaker 4: That is the best I message. And I was like,

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Speaker 4: we need to guess today.

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Speaker 6: Did you come in?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I was already here. I was recording my plot this morning.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, so I just went and had some lunch

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Speaker 6: and then came back. I'm coming. I love you.

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Speaker 5: Divine intervention exactly and on the theme.

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Speaker 2: Because today we're talking zero dollar antidotes for a shitty day,

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Speaker 2: because I think we all have capacity to like write

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Speaker 2: off day when like something one either minor inconvenience happens

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Speaker 2: or one major inconvenience happens, and we're like, oh, today

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Speaker 2: just sucks it. And it's okay to like have those moments,

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Speaker 2: but it's good to put in the effort to turn

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Speaker 2: it around a little bit. So we're going to discuss

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Speaker 2: our favorite things to do. But before we start, we

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Speaker 2: have our life lesson of the week.

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Speaker 4: I have a fucking do.

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Speaker 6: What is it bad?

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Speaker 2: My phone didn't work this weekend because I would have

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Speaker 2: told you about it already, but I'm glad I kept

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Speaker 2: it under racts. So I was at my boyfriend's parents'

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Speaker 2: house this weekend and we stayed over, and they just

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Speaker 2: are like the most wonderful, wholesome family ever.

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Speaker 5: Like it's just they all love each other and hang

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Speaker 5: out and I love it.

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Speaker 4: I'm like I'm part of it too.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, we went out that night with some of my

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Speaker 2: of like, like, ROB was a bit sleepy and they're

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Speaker 2: go to the bathroom. I was like, oh, I think

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Speaker 2: I've got my period. So I went to the bathroom

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Speaker 2: and like the first day of my period is like omageddon.

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Speaker 6: Yes, She's like, yeah.

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Speaker 2: The road, I swear I have like fifty percent of

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Speaker 2: my period in the first day. And in the next

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Speaker 2: four days it's just like so and I'm like, just

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Speaker 2: was like Jesus Christ, and I've cleaned myself up and

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Speaker 2: I've done it all and I have to use I

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Speaker 2: end up using like a whole bloody roller toilet paper.

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Speaker 2: That's an embellishment, but you know what I mean. And

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Speaker 2: then I flashed the toilets out. I flashed the toilet, Maddie.

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Speaker 2: I guess what doesn't flush the toilet. I've blocked the

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Speaker 2: toy toilet at my boyfriend's parents' house with blood. With

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Speaker 2: blood I would have rather ship because then I could

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Speaker 2: have blamed it on Rob. But it looks like I

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Speaker 2: have done a Satanic ritual in this toilet.

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Speaker 7: It's murderer on the pilet.

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Speaker 2: And I'm looking and I was like and it just

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Speaker 4: I break down.

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Speaker 5: I'll let it, I'll let it go down, and I'll

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Speaker 5: have a showers and you come in.

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Speaker 6: The water will break down the exact paper right exactly, exactly.

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Speaker 4: No, No.

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Speaker 5: I was in the shower like half and now Rob

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Speaker 6: I was shop, what did you do?

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Speaker 5: I had to call in him and I was like, I.

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Speaker 6: Period is less embarrassing than a big ship, though I agree.

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Speaker 2: At the end of the day, the toilet bowl is

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Speaker 5: It was all boiling.

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Speaker 6: Your way to test if they're feminists.

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Speaker 5: Or yeah, but it ends up.

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Speaker 4: Rob was like, I was like, you have to say

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Speaker 6: He was like, how could it not be any say

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Speaker 5: I was like, you have to say it was you

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Speaker 3: I had like a noseblade and you chuck the toilet paper.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, toilet. But then I started panicking.

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Speaker 2: I was like, they're going to think I put a

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Speaker 6: I have a life hack on how to flush. What's

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Speaker 6: the word clogged? Toilet. Oh yeah, you just need like

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Speaker 6: a bucket of water. So you could have filled up

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Speaker 6: What do you mean that bucket and you just you

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Speaker 3: So it just needs something to like a wave.

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Speaker 4: That would have been nice on Saturday.

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Speaker 6: Morning if he had a bottle of water, like a

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Speaker 6: force of it pushes it under the spend. So that's

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Speaker 6: life lesson for your chicks.

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Speaker 5: The next time I block my boyfriend's parents.

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Speaker 6: Toilet, that's a sligh way to test.

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Speaker 2: It's the second time I toilet period. That's just been

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Speaker 2: a human I just think maybe I've been a bit

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Speaker 7: Also, like do the courtesy flush, like if whether it's

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Speaker 7: just like flush halfway through, so you're not like feeling

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Speaker 7: people do that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't, but I know that people do.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the courtesy flush Yeah, okay, I've learned a lot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a good one for like public toilets.

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Speaker 2: The life lesson here is have a boyfriend that'll take

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Speaker 2: the fall for you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and if they won't, jumps them.

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Speaker 3: And the bucket tricky.

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Speaker 4: There's like three life lessons in that.

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Speaker 3: Are we done?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: That is an episode.

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Speaker 7: Actually, bye, we did say for a shitty day.

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Speaker 6: Oh well time. I love that.

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Speaker 5: Great works out Getty Race. Okay.

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Speaker 7: My life lesson is boring, And it's just a reminder

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Speaker 7: they had been overcharging a ship time, much like hundreds

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Speaker 7: what because we knew that our rates had gone up.

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Speaker 5: Do you remember you.

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Speaker 4: Told me what your electricity sally, what have you been doing?

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Speaker 5: Oh that's like no, believe that's correct.

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Speaker 7: But it had gone up even more and then more again,

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Speaker 7: and I was like, there's no way, and.

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Speaker 3: Then so Chris called them.

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Speaker 7: They're like, oh, yeah, sorry, we've been overcharging you.

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Speaker 5: What the final bill was that you were like something?

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Speaker 3: It was nine hundred dollars three months.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, nine hundred dollars.

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Speaker 7: So we now have an eight hundred dollars credit on

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Speaker 6: You had called that out, would they have said no way?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 6: Okay, yes, great life lesson.

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Speaker 7: So just same with your phone bill anything like that,

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Speaker 7: because they're not going to be.

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Speaker 3: Like, oh sorry, like they don't really give a fuck.

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Speaker 3: So you have to do the calling.

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Speaker 4: And it took luk.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it took like ten minutes as well. And also

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Speaker 3: I got Chris to do it.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, so get a boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all the life lessons.

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Speaker 3: I have a partner.

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Speaker 2: My life lesson wouldn't have happened if I don't have

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Speaker 2: a boy friends, you know what.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I'm working on it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, great life lessons everyone, job.

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Speaker 4: I really like the support I had on mind.

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Speaker 6: Thanks.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm gonna say stave.

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Speaker 2: So babes, Maddie, Yeah, let's catch up, okay, because I

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Speaker 4: In age traveling heat in l A l at Glen Powell.

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Speaker 6: I did.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so here's the thing you've met Glen Powell, Yes,

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Speaker 2: Jason Moa and I need a third who's like a

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Speaker 6: Luke Newton. He's currently in Bridgeton.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Colin Mary kill, Glenn Powell, Jason Momoa and Luke Newton.

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Speaker 6: Okay, all right, I'm going to fuck Jason Momoa of course. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: climb that way. I would marry Glen Powell, and I

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Speaker 6: probably like Luke Newton. He's cute.

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Speaker 5: We won't say, we won't say cay, We'll say put

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Speaker 6: Put on the bench, you know, because he's having his

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Speaker 6: moment in Bridgeton and I'm here for it.

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Speaker 5: But you saw the wink, didn't you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah no, Actually that was episode one and I was like, no,

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Speaker 2: Do you know what? They would have done a lot

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Speaker 2: better if they let him keep his s double in

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I agree. Yeah, I think he's just trying a

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Speaker 6: bit too hard. Yeah, he didn't need to. Yeah, it's like, oh,

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Speaker 6: I have to have riz now, and it's like, but

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Speaker 6: you already had it.

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Speaker 4: He's got in his interviews. Yeah, as Colin, no, I'm

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Speaker 4: not sure.

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Speaker 6: I'm not here for it. Then I hope that he

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Speaker 6: redeems himself in the last four episodes excited for it.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, that was that's who. Yeah, I meeting lots

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Speaker 6: of celebrities. It's star struck. Yeah, it's been wilds, just

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Speaker 6: a bunch of like celeb and I met Chris Emsworth

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Speaker 6: and you Tailor Joy. It's just been like a couple

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Speaker 6: of months of meeting celebs.

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Speaker 2: I don't have jobs like a celeb hunter, apparently I'm not.

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Speaker 6: It's going to be like a TikTok correspondent to meet

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Speaker 6: all the celebrities. It's wild. It's foulating you because.

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Speaker 2: You've been on a journey in terms of your career,

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Speaker 2: because you've been pursuing acting, which I can imagine would

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Speaker 2: have a lot of highs and lows in acting, mostly lows.

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Speaker 4: Well, talk us through it. What's the lows with that?

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean, in terms of being an actor, you're

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and like why shut the door on opportunities that

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Speaker 3: Always good.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I live with mine, my pillow. I can't anymore

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Speaker 2: But I think that's a good point in terms of,

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Speaker 3: The day it's over, like clean slate. If the tabs

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Like put my phone on do not disturb. But

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Speaker 2: Put like the lace ones one hundred and twenty steps exactly.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And it also shows me that like it's so

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like the key thing across like what

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Speaker 2: That Like, you know, technology gives us so many opportunities,

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Speaker 5: Whereas when I was working.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, I mean anything, but having that clear

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Speaker 2: cost you money. It's just okay, that's done. And you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, leave the house, leave it behind. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well I mean not everyone can just like leave probably

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Speaker 3: But that's the thing. It's like finding the thing that.

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Speaker 7: Like, if you can't get up and leave your job,

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Speaker 7: maybe it's a matter of like opening up your notebook

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Speaker 8: And that's what it sound. I used to do when

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Speaker 5: And this is this was only when they like really

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Speaker 3: So when we wanted someone out of our lives.

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Speaker 6: This is feeling.

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Speaker 2: Very witchy, okay. So basically what we would do is

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Speaker 2: you write down their names favor and then you get

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Speaker 2: like a ziplock bag and you feel a ziplock bag

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Speaker 2: and then you put in the freezer and you freeze them.

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Speaker 6: Oh oh, my god, you're physically freezing them out. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: My mum taught me that when I was like in

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, wow, that is very witchy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you have to do it with like good intentions.

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Speaker 3: It can't be that like you wish any ill will.

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Speaker 4: No holds the bag.

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Speaker 7: It's just like you just want them out of your life.

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Speaker 7: I don't want anything bad to happen to them.

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Speaker 3: You just want them.

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Speaker 6: Out of your life, out of mind.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and like even if it doesn't work and it's

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Speaker 3: Like, well, I put a curse on you, so no.

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Speaker 2: You know, when I was like sixteen, I tried to

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 5: It was really dumb.

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Speaker 5: Love spell you had, I'm trying to remember it.

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Speaker 2: You wrote down their name and then you had to

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Speaker 2: like kiss it in red lipstick, and.

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00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:18,320
Speaker 5: Then you had to burn it with a red candle.

448
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:22,040
Speaker 6: I'm going to do this.

449
00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:27,600
Speaker 2: We'll get into the dating series waiting.

450
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:29,240
Speaker 5: Let me segue.

451
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,879
Speaker 6: Wait, I have one more tip about how to get

452
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:36,080
Speaker 6: yourself out of a shitty day. You haven't mentioned. Listen

453
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 6: to a good podcast Guys Two Broke Chicks. Yes, sometimes funny,

454
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:47,880
Speaker 6: always awkward. I come here for the Yeah.

455
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 5: On that note, it's like with podcasts as well.

456
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,560
Speaker 2: There's this one that I listened to and they just

457
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,879
Speaker 2: like talk about movies that I watched like growing up,

458
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 2: and it's but.

459
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:03,720
Speaker 4: It's Britney Spears. You would have seen them.

460
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 6: On and Brain with an E b are e T

461
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 6: T and yeah, but that's clever.

462
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 2: They're fabulous creator and they just feel like the funniest person.

463
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 2: And it's like one of those because I think, as well,

464
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 2: we need to find the time for self betterment and

465
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 2: then we need to find the time.

466
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 6: To just exist just a brain rot brain.

467
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,400
Speaker 4: It's just it can be a bit hard.

468
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:33,159
Speaker 2: Like I've found recently that with podcasts as well, that

469
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,480
Speaker 2: like a lot of the podcasts I do listen to

470
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 2: have are always like, you know, about motivation, motivation and

471
00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 2: doing better in career, your own productivity. And then recently

472
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 2: I've just been a bit like.

473
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just want to not really think.

474
00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:51,200
Speaker 2: You need to find the things that are just there

475
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 2: for you to have fun and are just an interest,

476
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 2: and listening to a podcast.

477
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:56,439
Speaker 1: Is one of them.

478
00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 5: But yeah, my love spell works.

479
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,679
Speaker 2: And then we started dating and then he gave me

480
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:03,440
Speaker 2: glandular fever.

481
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 5: Was really annoyed about it, so I dumped.

482
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:06,480
Speaker 6: Him red flag.

483
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 7: I was like fifteen, by the way, being like some

484
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,159
Speaker 7: witchcraft something backfired.

485
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:14,679
Speaker 2: And then the universe was like, no, it's giving the

486
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 2: fact that we were fifteen years old and everyone hooked

487
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 2: up with each other.

488
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:20,920
Speaker 6: At because of it.

489
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 7: Is this episode not actually the Practical Magic remake. You know.

490
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,119
Speaker 8: It was so good as well because I had to

491
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 8: sit in the doctors with my dad and they were like,

492
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 8: they will give me the blood desk back, and he's like, yeah,

493
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 8: you've got glandula fever also known as the kissing disease.

494
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 5: And I was like, you knew exactly what you were doing.

495
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, so much rounded you might as well have showed

496
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 6: up with a hickey.

497
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 4: So, speaking of the kissing disease, there it comes.

498
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 5: You've recently launched a new dating series. Use about it please.

499
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 6: I've decided that I'm on the Bachelorette, except that I

500
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:02,439
Speaker 6: make my own edits.

501
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:03,680
Speaker 5: Are you giving yourself the villain?

502
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 6: I get the good edit? Of course, the princess the

503
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 6: Princess edit. I've started a dating series because I've been

504
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 6: single for almost four years now, and I make comedy

505
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:14,959
Speaker 6: content and I wanted to kind of like make some

506
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,400
Speaker 6: more lifestyle content. But that wasn't just to get ready

507
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 6: with me or like a come on this blog. I

508
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 6: was like, what can I share that people would be

509
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 6: interested in that I would be interested in making? And

510
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 6: I was like, I have to share my dating life.

511
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,440
Speaker 6: But it's also been a really great way to actually

512
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 6: force me to go on dates because I haven't been.

513
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 6: I've been really bad at it. It's like I really

514
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,399
Speaker 6: want to meet someone, but I work from home and

515
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,439
Speaker 6: I never leave my house, So like, when's that going

516
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 6: to happen. I'm not going to meet someone out in

517
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 6: the wild the postman, yeah, or like the people that

518
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 6: I meet on my walks, which are like just other

519
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 6: women my age, do you know what I mean? So

520
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,719
Speaker 6: it's just like I'm not going to meet someone if

521
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 6: I just never leave my house. I was like this,

522
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,400
Speaker 6: I like, I regret starting it, but I also don't

523
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,880
Speaker 6: because I've started it and it's had a really positive response.

524
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 6: But it's made me have to go on dates because

525
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,399
Speaker 6: I have a new account of it's keeping me accountable

526
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 6: and so I'm having to like actually get out of

527
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 6: my comfort zone and go on them. But it's been

528
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 6: really fun. I've posted five dates so far, and it's

529
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 6: not they're not first date. So some of these are multiple.

530
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 6: So I've gone on like multiple dates with people. I

531
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 6: am actually currently up to date ten. I just haven't

532
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:21,640
Speaker 6: posted it. Why Well, because I've I feel like we're

533
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 6: maybe kind of seeing each other, but it's like more

534
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 6: like it's situationally.

535
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 2: It's wait, so is this dates five to ten like

536
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 2: you've been dated this past?

537
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 6: Okay?

538
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 7: No?

539
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,959
Speaker 6: For date five, date five is one person that I've posted,

540
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 6: six and seven is one person, eight is another person,

541
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 6: and then nine and ten is this guy that I'm

542
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 6: still seeing. I was literally at his house last night.

543
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I like want to get into that, but

544
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 2: I want to take it back to like date number one. Yeah,

545
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 2: and out of dates one to ten, has there been

546
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 2: one that's been absolutely dismal that you yes? What the fuck?

547
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,920
Speaker 6: Okay? Yes, So I haven't posted it yet, this will

548
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 6: be date eight. If you're keeping tabs on check it out.

549
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 6: I went on this date with a guy. We were

550
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 6: there for like an hour maybe, and it was a

551
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 6: day drinking date on a on a weekend, so we

552
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 6: met it like three or something. When we finished the date,

553
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 6: I cut it short. The only thing he could tell

554
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 6: me about me was my name. That's it.

555
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 5: So we just talked the whole time.

556
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 6: He talks the whole time. And you know, when you're

557
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 6: having a conversation with someone, you input without them asking.

558
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 6: You're like, oh, that reminds me of this, so then

559
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 6: you'll put something in, and that's how a conversation works.

560
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 6: He would pause to let me say my bit and

561
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 6: then would go back to his story as if I'd

562
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 6: interrupted him.

563
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 8: I think I've done that, but you still are a

564
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 8: good conversationalist, Like it always come back right.

565
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 2: But if I'm mid story and it's a really good story,

566
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, yep, I wasn't done yet.

567
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 6: But then you come and then you come back to it,

568
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 6: like I could tell you like where he grew up,

569
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 6: how many siblings he had, what his career goals were,

570
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 6: Like I'm not an extra and ask him all these

571
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 6: questions and maybe like ten minutes in like of me

572
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 6: trying to contribute to the conversation, I was like, I'm

573
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 6: going to test him and just not actually contribute and

574
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 6: see if he asks me back.

575
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 5: No, no, no, it's fun.

576
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 6: No. He doesn't even know what I do for work,

577
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 6: he doesn't know anything about me. He knows my name

578
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 6: is Maddie, he knows what's on.

579
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 4: Me, and ask his single question what No.

580
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 6: And so then after an hour, I was like, this

581
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 6: has been nice.

582
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 5: I'm going to leave for an hour.

583
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 6: That's yours?

584
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 4: So nice.

585
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 6: I just finished the drink that I had fair Yeah,

586
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 6: so that's get that in there. But I'm also I

587
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 6: think the reason I didn't end it earlier than an

588
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 6: hour is because I also am still a bit of

589
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,679
Speaker 6: a people pleaser, and so like I couldn't just be

590
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 6: like this is fuck. I couldn't call him out. I

591
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 6: would love to have called him out and been like

592
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:44,440
Speaker 6: this is fuck. Are you going to ask me a question?

593
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 6: I'm going to leave. So I stayed there for what

594
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 6: I thought was a reasonable amount of time for a

595
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 6: first date. And then when I'm going to go, you know,

596
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 6: I'm going to go take my dog for a walk

597
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,119
Speaker 6: before it gets dark. So this was really lovely. And

598
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 6: then he never texted me. I never texted him, so

599
00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 6: see you later.

600
00:26:58,840 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 3: I wasn't meant to be.

601
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 7: I feel like you have to stick it out a

602
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,479
Speaker 7: little bit as well for the sake of the content.

603
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 6: Maybe, like sometimes when I'm not feeling like going on

604
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 6: a date at all, Like sometimes I would call it

605
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 6: and I'm like, oh god, ah, gotta make the video.

606
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 6: You know, yeah, I guess, And I'm excited to post

607
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:17,640
Speaker 6: that because I feel like it's relatable, but it's also

608
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 6: like what a dud date.

609
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 2: That's what I've really enjoyed with this series is I

610
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,919
Speaker 2: feel like you're really.

611
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 5: Tapping into the relatableness.

612
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 4: I started strong with my journalism and then I take.

613
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 2: But like it's really relatable in the way that you're

614
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 2: showing both the highs and the lows in terms of

615
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 2: like people will get really invested and they'll be like,

616
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm so excited for you, and then

617
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 2: you're like, okay, guys, I'm sorry, got bad news.

618
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 5: It didn't work out.

619
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 2: And I feel like that's like definitely this thing that

620
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: especially like obviously in a relationship now.

621
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 4: But it was similar to you we single for like

622
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 4: three years.

623
00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 2: That it can be really really hard navigating the dating

624
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 2: world because you get your hopes up.

625
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 5: And then they'll drop off. And you know, I'm sure

626
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 5: that you've experienced that as well.

627
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 2: So how do you kind of pick yourself up and

628
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: dust yourself off and make yourself feel better after a

629
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 2: shitty date?

630
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 6: Just like start a dating series that forces you. And

631
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 6: I mean like, I've had those moments I've had, Like

632
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 6: I literally have video content of me last year crying

633
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 6: because a guy canceled on me for the third time

634
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 6: and I'd never met him, but it was more so

635
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 6: like that repetitiveness of always being left on red or ghosted,

636
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 6: and I was like, what am I doing wrong? I

637
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 6: just feel like, I mean, I will get to the

638
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 6: like making yourself feel better in a second, but I

639
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 6: just feel like dating app culture is like it's changed

640
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 6: the nature of dating because there's so much choice available

641
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 6: and I feel like even I'm guilty of it. It's

642
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 6: like I'm liking these people and I'm contacting them, but

643
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 6: I have other options.

644
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 5: It's a game of hot on all.

645
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 2: It's fucked Like it's literally a game that people are

646
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 2: playing on their phone.

647
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 5: It's not people behind a screen, and.

648
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 6: Is it like, am I going to get a better offer? So, like,

649
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 6: I'm not going to invest in you just in case

650
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 6: someone better comes along.

651
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 4: There's a backup. There's a world of thousands.

652
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 5: And hundreds and millions and jillions of backup.

653
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 6: There's no accountability. It's not like they have to give

654
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 6: me a reason why they can just unmatch with me

655
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 6: and then I would never find a way to contact them.

656
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 6: Like it's just that. Yeah, it's really crazy, and it

657
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 6: has been disheartening in the past. And last year I

658
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 6: had a really bad year of dating and it was awful.

659
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 6: It was just really sad.

660
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 5: I remember we were talking about it.

661
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 6: Yes, but I think going on more dates has made me.

662
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 6: I think forcing myself to just go on more has

663
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 6: made me more confident with it. And it really is yeah,

664
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 6: and it actually has made me have more fun. It's

665
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 6: made me set better boundaries for myself as well. Like

666
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 6: I mean an hour, I still committed to but I

667
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 6: think the last year I probably would have stayed for

668
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 6: longer just to be a people pleaser. But I was like, no,

669
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 6: I'm going to call this and end it here and

670
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 6: I'm not going to talk to him and.

671
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 2: Do you think it's been going on the dates that

672
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 2: has given you those boundaries and forced you.

673
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 6: To Yeah, because I think it's just like really boosted

674
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 6: my confidence. And it's just like, although it is a game,

675
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 6: you just got to play it, you know, put that

676
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 6: shit on a show.

677
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 5: So how do you come back from feeling really shitty

678
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 5: after a date?

679
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 6: I mean, I always feel better the next day after everything,

680
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 6: you know, so like having i mean like not writing

681
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 6: off the day and like it's good that a date

682
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 6: is at the end of the day because you close

683
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 6: to bedtime, but I always feel better. I always tell

684
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 6: myself that the next morning, I'm going to feel better.

685
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 6: But also just having a good like rant to a

686
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 6: friend on the phone is the best way. And now

687
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 6: I'm kind of doing it to you know, my audience

688
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 6: as well. We have a little debrief at the end

689
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 6: of the video, but like calling a good friend and

690
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 6: just being like, let me tell you about this fuck

691
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 6: date or this fuck thing that's happened. My other single

692
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 6: friends as well, like because they're kind of going through it.

693
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,959
Speaker 6: We're in the trenches together, so that's been really helpful

694
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 6: to get me out of it. But mostly, yeah, I

695
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 6: just have an awarank and a sleep and then I'm

696
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 6: good the next morning.

697
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know there's literally.

698
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 2: Well like probably not many of them could do it anyway,

699
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 2: but I feel like that's the biggest, Like I know,

700
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 2: the whole thing is like turning around a shitty day,

701
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 2: but I do think that is the fail safe that

702
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 2: you have that like, whatever you're going through, whatever emotion

703
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 2: is weighing you down, sleeping it off is literally the cure.

704
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 6: All you will be fine. You know, in a week's time,

705
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 6: you won't even remember what their name was. You know,

706
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 6: you to be a funny story. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's

707
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 6: all about perspective. Doing it for the plot, yeah, doing

708
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 6: it for the And I.

709
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 2: Do think like whatever time of the day it is,

710
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 2: whether it's a shitty day, whether it's a bad day

711
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 2: at work, relying on other people to pick you up

712
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 2: when you can't pick yourself up is going to be

713
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 2: one of the best things you can learn to do.

714
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 4: It is a bit hard though, to get past, like

715
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 4: the mental.

716
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 5: Barrier of being like I don't want to be annoying.

717
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to pest my friends, but like you said,

718
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 2: like we're all in the trenches together.

719
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 6: Whatever that is, because like if they're going to pick

720
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 6: you up this time, you know, there's going to be

721
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 6: a time when they're going to need you to pick

722
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 6: them up. You know. That's what a good friendship and

723
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 6: relationship is.

724
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 5: There's a certain therapy to having a bitch.

725
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, definitely.

726
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a difference between like bitching, gossiping, inventing.

727
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, you guys made this video. It's like, you don't

728
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 6: have a diary. You are your human diaries. Yeah, that's

729
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 6: what you have friends for.

730
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, exactly, And as well.

731
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 7: I just find that it stops you from spinning your

732
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 7: wheels on a topic in your own head. Like you'll

733
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 7: have one conversation with someone, they'll validate you and then

734
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,719
Speaker 7: you're like okay, cool, like I'm done. Yeah, Versus if

735
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 7: you are just talking to your own brain, you're like, yeah,

736
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 7: and remember this.

737
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 6: I know we.

738
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 7: Spoke about this five minutes ago, but let's talk about

739
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 7: it again.

740
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it just goes around over and over.

741
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 7: You can verbally physically get it out to somebody else

742
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 7: and it's like I don't know why, but it's like

743
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 7: it's just I'm over it now.

744
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, we love it.

745
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 2: On that note, there was this book that I found

746
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 2: in my house, which I don't even know where it

747
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 2: came from, and it was I think it's called it's

748
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 2: like a little pocketbook and it has it's like a

749
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 2: little book.

750
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 5: Of life, the little rules of life, and it has

751
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 5: like an inscription in the front.

752
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 4: Again, I don't know where this.

753
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 6: Book came from.

754
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 5: Which he speakyver, which he is Speakyver.

755
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 2: And it's got these little rules in it to just

756
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 2: like fulfill your life.

757
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 5: And one of them is to ask someone three questions

758
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 5: about their day.

759
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 2: We'll just ask someone like three questions whenever I've had

760
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 2: a shitty day, I kind of want to just know

761
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 2: that someone else had a good one. Yeah, So like

762
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 2: I'll ask I'll call my mom and I'll just talk

763
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 2: to her about her day and it takes my mind

764
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: off my day. Or I'll like ask my partner when

765
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 2: he gets home and I'll be like, what was your

766
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 2: favorite thing that you ate today?

767
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 5: And like he'll be.

768
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 6: Like, oh, but me.

769
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 5: Every time, Or like I'll tell you, I'll ask mom.

770
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 4: I'll be like, what was the highlight of your day?

771
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 2: And just like doing little things like that just resets

772
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 2: and kind of is that whole thing.

773
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 5: That's my favorite thing? That I don't ever stop talking about.

774
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,839
Speaker 2: But is like you were like tiny little speck just

775
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 2: on a rock and nothing matters and that's it, Like

776
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,319
Speaker 2: that's all you have. And I was telling Sal about

777
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 2: this that we had.

778
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 4: It's a bit more bird, a bit sad.

779
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 5: We had a chick send in in our Broke Chicks club.

780
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 2: She was asking for recommendations on like affordable wedding arrangements

781
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 2: because unfortunately her partner was diagnosed with stage four bow

782
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,439
Speaker 2: cancer Oh my god, and was given fourteen months to live,

783
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 2: and like, it just stayed with me the whole day.

784
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 5: I just kept thinking about this and.

785
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 2: Just how horrible it would be, whether it was you know,

786
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 2: like a family member or a partner or a friend,

787
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 2: and just how like And then I was like what

788
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 2: would I do?

789
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 4: I was like, what would I do if I.

790
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 5: Had fourteen months to live? And I was like, I

791
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 5: wouldn't care. I wouldn't care about anything.

792
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 2: I wouldn't let like the little tiny things that like

793
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 2: annoy me during the day, pissed me, or you know,

794
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 2: those little things people say and you're like, oh that

795
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 2: hurt my feelings, Like you just wouldn't care, And just

796
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:12,439
Speaker 2: really trying to remind myself that like there is such

797
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 2: a privilege in having as much time as we do,

798
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 2: and it was like the biggest thing that I've like

799
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 2: and that was only a week ago that I saw that.

800
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 5: But every now and again it's just like.

801
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, stuck with me one thousand percent, but yeah, what

802
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: about you, Siah.

803
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,760
Speaker 7: One of my like zero dollar ways to get myself

804
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,760
Speaker 7: out of a shitty day is I don't.

805
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 3: Know if this is going to be like so niche

806
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 3: to me, but whatever.

807
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 5: It's watching fairy porn. That's shit. Wait, it's coming together,

808
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:47,919
Speaker 5: going bag.

809
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 7: Sorry, But it sort of relates to like allowing other

810
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 7: people to help pick you up. And I always ask

811
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 7: my boyfriend when he comes home to shrink me down,

812
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 7: And basically it means that I like get in like

813
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 7: the fetal position or whatever, and he like will wrap

814
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 7: all of his like limbs around me and like squeeze

815
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,720
Speaker 7: me so tight, and I imagine that I'm like shrunk

816
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 7: down to like the size of like a little like

817
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 7: baby chick or something, you know what I mean, like

818
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 7: just tiny, and he like puts compression on my head

819
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 7: and like around my body and just like makes me

820
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 7: feel like it's okay again, Like you would this big.

821
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 7: It's okay, Like I'm here to like protect you. Tell

822
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,399
Speaker 7: me what's happening, talk, talk me through it. And it's

823
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 7: just like in those moments, I feel like the physicalness

824
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 7: of that and feeling just like safe and that literally

825
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 7: getting a big, full body hug from someone can like

826
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 7: immediately turn my day around. Yeah, and it's that easy,

827
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 7: but I can't please shrink me down so cute and

828
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 7: it works.

829
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:54,399
Speaker 3: A trait every time.

830
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, very good.

831
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 3: Yeah he's a weird babby, But that's the thing. It's

832
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 3: like you just have to you need to know what

833
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 3: works for you.

834
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:05,720
Speaker 7: But also like just be willing to ask people for help,

835
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 7: like even if you don't have a partner, or you

836
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 7: live with housemates or you still live at home, like

837
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 7: ask your roommate to give you a big hug, or

838
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 7: like sit down with your mum.

839
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 3: And be like can I please just like rant to

840
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 3: you for ten minutes.

841
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 7: And just don't be afraid to ask people for help

842
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 7: in whatever way suits you, because not everybody's a physical

843
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 7: touch person like me.

844
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 6: Say, get a dog. Yeah, I'm not a physical touch

845
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:33,919
Speaker 6: person either. Maybe a weighted blanket, Yeah, yeah, I love

846
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,479
Speaker 6: that having a rant can be like to a loved

847
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 6: one can be just as helpful as a hug, though

848
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 6: if you're not a physical touch person.

849
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 2: True, yeah, do you find that ever since you got

850
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 2: a pet, though, Like navigating all those emotions has been

851
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 2: a lot easier.

852
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 6: He changed my life. Yeah, I was having like a

853
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 6: real like the mental health last year was like he

854
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 6: mostly rather than physical touch, gave me a routine, and

855
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 6: he got me out of my house like what you

856
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 6: said before, because I have to take him for walks

857
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 6: and I'm caring for something other than myself, got me

858
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 6: out of my own head. And so yeah, he's been

859
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 6: really great. I mean a dog is a lot of work.

860
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 6: You know, if you want something a little more low

861
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 6: maintenance and go for a cat, probably you could attest

862
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 6: to that. Yeah, he's been really great. He gets me

863
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 6: on my walks for my mental health.

864
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 3: We love it also unconditional love. Yeah, Like it's so nice.

865
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 6: He always loves me no matter what. It's the best.

866
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 2: It just peels it back and I feel like that's

867
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 2: like been the whole essence of this episode is like

868
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 2: it just gets so complicated, and people make it complicated,

869
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 2: like going on dates.

870
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,760
Speaker 4: It's like there's these weird written rules.

871
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, like screw the rules, but that's what I mean,

872
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 6: but it's there.

873
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 2: Yes, weird rules or like changing your career, Like at

874
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 2: the end of the day, you can make whatever decision

875
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 2: you want to do, and you've done that, and like,

876
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 2: I don't know, watching you've just flourish on social media,

877
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 2: which you have done since I've met you, has just

878
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 2: been like such a pleasure and watching you step into

879
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,399
Speaker 2: your own and I feel like you're glowing so much

880
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 2: more after making such a hard decision.

881
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it's been hard. But yeah, once you like

882
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 6: find it, find your pathway, yeah, it does. It changes everything.

883
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 2: I can't wait to be like twenty years from now

884
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 2: and we're like sitting around like complaining about I don't know,

885
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:15,880
Speaker 2: younger people I know, and we're going to like all

886
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 2: be where we're supposed to be. It's going to be

887
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 2: so exciting and we'll be like remember that podcast episode

888
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:23,359
Speaker 2: on a massive transition And.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I also in the same vein love seeing

890
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 6: you guys thrive, Like it's so crazy. But yeah, in

891
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 6: twenty years time, yeah, being like those little things that

892
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 6: didn't matter.

893
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: We'll do do two Broke Chicks reunion specials and we'll

894
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 2: have like all the best geests like.

895
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 3: Shy, two Broke Chicks, all Stars.

896
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 5: Yes, we'll give tips for menopause.

897
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 2: Okay, well, everyone's homework for this episode. I think they

898
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 2: have to find three things that costs them zero dollars

899
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 2: that reset their day. Whether that's doing your skincare, having

900
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,240
Speaker 2: a shower, going for a walk, having a bitch to someone,

901
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,399
Speaker 2: or having a wank, whatever that is.

902
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 3: Those are just some examples that we love.

903
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 2: Watch some fairy porn. Yeah, watch, but it's ready.

904
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 5: And I really want to sure, I really want to

905
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Speaker 5: firm that. I don't think I would like that, But.

906
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 6: I reckon Akatar has been so popular that that's going

907
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 6: to surely be made into a series.

908
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 4: It's being made into a TV series.

909
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 6: There you go. That's going to be fairy porn.

910
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 2: There you go.

911
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 6: Very soon.

912
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,919
Speaker 5: I hope they do it. See here's the thing. I

913
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 5: know a tangent now, but have.

914
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 6: You read it? I started, I can't get into it.

915
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 6: Is it good? You know how you have to get

916
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 6: a certain point. I'm only like three chapters in. You

917
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 6: have to when you start in your series.

918
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 5: To come on to my room.

919
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 6: I'm not a reader. I don't read.

920
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:55,359
Speaker 3: I try book.

921
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 6: I'm not I'm not a book girl.

922
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 3: I need to wait till the show. Okay, you'll enjoy

923
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:01,360
Speaker 3: the show.

924
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 5: And lucky.

925
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 2: So across your journey throughout you know, acting and moving

926
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 2: into more creator TikTok led stuff and also dating, what's

927
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 2: been your biggest life lesson?

928
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know it's that's a big question. My biggest

929
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 6: life lesson, I guess is just like, roll with it.

930
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 6: Just go with the flow, do it for the plot, yeah,

931
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 6: you know, and just see where it takes you. Like, yeah,

932
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 6: trust the process. Don't hold onto things so tightly, like

933
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 6: let things are going to change and be different to

934
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 6: what you expected. Just roll with it. Do shit for

935
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 6: a good story, because you'll never know, Like if you

936
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 6: just stay in that one kind of like where you

937
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 6: feel safe, you'll never know what the what could have happened,

938
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 6: you know, like yourself. Yeah, and like your future. Your

939
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 6: future is going to be what your future is like,

940
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 6: You're never going to know what the other option is,

941
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 6: so just go with it.

942
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 3: So true, love that I don't regret what's never going to.

943
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 6: Happen exactly exactly. Just go with it, do it for

944
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 6: the plot. God love you made.

945
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can stay forever. Okay, good Molan, I would

946
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:10,280
Speaker 2: like to stay for dinner? Would I stay forever? Well,

947
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 2: we well start.

948
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:12,399
Speaker 5: Quoting the whole movie.

949
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is a wrap.

950
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 5: Thank you so much for training us.

951
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 6: I'm excited for the reunion tour.

952
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 2: See when I'm sixty, I won't give a fuck exactly,

953
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 2: I'll be like you.

954
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, put it in the freezer.

955
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 2: I'm going to sell my love spell on Etsy.

956
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 6: I don't have anyone to write me. Oh yeah, to

957
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 6: break chicks.

958
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:40,399
Speaker 2: I think that's very because I do already love you,

959
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 2: don't need to make you love me.

960
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 3: Do it about what?

961
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Speaker 7: Like?

962
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 5: Who's your like hall past crush, because let's be honest,

963
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 5: you might meet them?

964
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:50,360
Speaker 6: Yeah maybe yeah, well it used to be suck Efron,

965
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 6: but currently my current boy crush is THEO James great One.

966
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 5: So this guy maybe from Divergent.

967
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 3: Yeah there's possibility. I can see that in your future.

968
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 5: Yeah all right, maybe we'll do it for you.

969
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 3: Yeah all manifest Yeah, wait, let's all a love spell.

970
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 4: Let's have a sleepover.

971
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 5: Sell your chicks can come to me a love spell book.

972
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 4: That's right.

973
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 5: And I got her after my ex stump me and

974
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,439
Speaker 5: then my mum looked at it. And she went, don't

975
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 5: you dire.

976
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 2: For that?

977
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 3: No, it's like not with him, with other people.

978
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,879
Speaker 6: I literally went to a clairvoyant this week. She told

979
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 6: me my future.

980
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 5: What what did she Maddie, you're marrying the lead. We

981
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 5: just wrapping the episode.

982
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 6: What did she say? Well, I mean like mostly she

983
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 6: said I was meeting my person this year, so the

984
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 6: dating series. She didn't say when, but she said very soon.

985
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 6: And she said I'm gonna have two babies, which I

986
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 6: found wild. Oh my god, that's probably the most profound thing.

987
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 4: Was she like accurate?

988
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know because it hasn't happened yet.

989
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 5: Well, we can be two babies.

990
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 6: Yeah. But she did say some really profound things about

991
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 6: my ex, which I found like, yeah, because I had

992
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 6: a really toxic relationship the last one. And I said

993
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 6: her name and then she just went, oh, I just

994
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 6: feel like I have to vomit, and.

995
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 4: I want to tell you something. It was me and

996
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 4: a wig, al she makes me more vomit. Go with

997
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 4: the guy.

998
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 5: I love it.

999
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 4: Thank you so much chicks for having us in your

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00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 4: ear holes.

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00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 2: We absolutely little to be here, and if you know

1002
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 2: anyone else that needs little pick me up.

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Speaker 4: Whereas having a bad day.

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Speaker 5: Feel free to check on this episode or chuck it

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00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 5: in the group cha yet also go follow Maddie Where

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00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 5: can they Get You?

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00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 6: Maddie McCrae, bind me And thanks to m I k

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00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 6: Made for making today's episode happened.

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Speaker 3: Bye Chick, Bye bye