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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the Where's Your Head Out Hotline, our

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<v Speaker 1>weekly show where we catch up with each other and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in. Hello and

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning? And I'm all right. I'm actually surprised I

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<v Speaker 2>came in today. I woke up. I've woken up the

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<v Speaker 2>last two days with the absolute most pounding migraine, So

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<v Speaker 2>sorry if I'm a little bit. What's the word of

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<v Speaker 2>we're in the dumps? Yeah, well I'm not in the dumps,

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<v Speaker 2>but like geez, driving in was hard. Getting out of bed,

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<v Speaker 2>I get the usual bed fog like when I brain

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<v Speaker 2>fog when I get out of bed, but this was

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<v Speaker 2>like next level. It feels like I've had like last night,

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<v Speaker 2>I drank four bottles or spent a night on the prosecco.

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<v Speaker 1>Does your vision go blurry with migraines?

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<v Speaker 2>Not blurry? But I tend to like if you watch me.

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<v Speaker 2>I was walking up the stairs, and I was like

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<v Speaker 2>it came like even it starts like throbbing really hard,

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<v Speaker 2>and like I've closed my eyes, like.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, behind the pain.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I like sort of closed my eyes and

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<v Speaker 2>clinch to try get rid of it. Clinch or clench, clench, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>just to just try to get rid of that pain

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<v Speaker 2>because it just fucking like, yeah, it sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we appreciated that you've come into this very bright studio.

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<v Speaker 2>This morning, I was picturing myself in bed because I

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<v Speaker 2>woke up like a little bit earlier than normal because

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<v Speaker 2>this headache. Yeah, migrain So I'm not even gonna underplay

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<v Speaker 2>it with the headache migraine. And I was like thinking

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<v Speaker 2>of myself in here literally with a pair of sunglasses.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just doing the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have. I would not have complained.

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<v Speaker 2>If I thought, though the vibe would probably be on

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<v Speaker 2>the videos that I'm hungover because I'm sitting there like

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<v Speaker 2>this like some sunning is on.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, nah, well, look, as someone who

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<v Speaker 1>suffers from migraines, I really empathize with you. It sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually saw this thing recently saying that apparently having

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<v Speaker 1>one apple a day keeps the migraines away. Really, so

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<v Speaker 1>maybe go home and have an apple after this. Definitely

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<v Speaker 1>apparently it's supposed to help. I mean, once you've got

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<v Speaker 1>a migraine, there's really like it's hard to get rid of.

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<v Speaker 2>It's sort of like saying, like I said that apple

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<v Speaker 2>a day keeps the doctor away. Because I was laying

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<v Speaker 2>in bed and I was like, there's no way I'm

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<v Speaker 2>doing a podcast. I'm going to the doctors. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is fucked.

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<v Speaker 1>When I get a migraine, I literally have to go

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<v Speaker 1>into a dark room my vision, like my vision is gone,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm like I vomit. Like that's how severe

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<v Speaker 1>it is. And I was saying to Michael because I

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<v Speaker 1>had a migraine a couple of months ago, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, imagine if on my wedding day and I

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<v Speaker 1>mean touched.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't even say it, don't even put out no, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's actually because my migraines are so severe and

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<v Speaker 1>like if I woke up on my wedding day with one,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have to cancel the wedding. Like there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>that I can do other than spend half the day

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<v Speaker 1>in bed. Once one starts coming on, it's that scary.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just like I say, to be healthy, drink

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<v Speaker 1>lots of water, all of the things, all of the things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know. Maybe have an apple in your

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<v Speaker 2>wedding day.

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<v Speaker 1>Then haven't got one hundred apples?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you need? You're like apples, just apples, apples

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Four degrees this morning, very very cold morning in Melbourne.

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<v Speaker 2>I had this conversation with my mum the other day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I believe that this winter's warmer than last year. Though.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there has been a couple of like sunny days, but.

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<v Speaker 2>It's beautiful now.

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<v Speaker 1>Been icy, really been icy. I know in Mildura it's

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<v Speaker 1>like zero degrees as well. I'm expecting half to see

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<v Speaker 1>snow in the coming week.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I haven't yet. When I get up. I've always

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<v Speaker 2>got up at the same time to go to my

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<v Speaker 2>car at this time last year and this time this year,

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't poured water on the windscreen for ice. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>so that makes me think it's warmer.

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<v Speaker 1>Get ready for the next couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Reckon, it's coming in August.

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<v Speaker 1>It's coming. I mean, when it gets to this, it's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like you prefer it just to be like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>minus ten, so you get a bit of snow. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you could go sledging, make a snowman, do all the

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<v Speaker 1>wintery fun stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Unpopular opinion. Yeah I like colder weather.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, but think about yourself, like on a beach with a.

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<v Speaker 2>Cocktail, But think about you working in the hot and

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<v Speaker 2>going about your everyday life in warm weather. I reckon

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<v Speaker 2>it's better in the cold.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, nah, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean my ideal temperature in life is like twenty

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<v Speaker 1>three degrees yeah, heaven, it's like not too hot, not

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<v Speaker 1>too cold, can still be like not wearing a jumper.

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<v Speaker 2>But oh I hate the discomfort of being hot though,

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<v Speaker 2>while you're doing your everyday stuff and you're in your

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<v Speaker 2>shorts and T shirt and you're still sweating, Like that's

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<v Speaker 2>that makes you feel gross? I hate that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, look I have a confession to make.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, my child, Welcome to the confession. Boot.

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<v Speaker 1>I broke my dry July. On Saturday. I had two events.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had a long lunch with Michael's friends that

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<v Speaker 1>was booked in for like three months, even before drive

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<v Speaker 1>July was a thing. This was booked in. And then

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<v Speaker 1>on top of that, we had Michael's best friend's birthday

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<v Speaker 1>at the espie and anyway, I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna have a couple of drinks. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go ott. I'm just gonna like have a couple.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a break drive ul, I'm gonna buy a token.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay. Anyway. One of the wars your Head at

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<v Speaker 1>a fam.

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<v Speaker 2>No Way was at the ESBI. I knew this would

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<v Speaker 2>happen if I want to us, but I'm gone out

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<v Speaker 2>and drunk. So it's like, I'm happier to you.

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<v Speaker 1>And she came up to me and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing dry July tonight? Are you in the mocktails?

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, I'm sorry, I fail, And then

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<v Speaker 3>I felt really guilty and then like yesterday I was

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<v Speaker 3>just in the dump, so I was like, why did

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<v Speaker 3>I drink?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I wasn't even that upset about it. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay, like, you know, we have splendid this week

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<v Speaker 1>and probably going to drink potentially there, but then again

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<v Speaker 1>we'll I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know did they did. The girl that came up to you,

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<v Speaker 2>was she doing drive your Life?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. If she was like I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>because of you, and now you're out here drinking and

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<v Speaker 1>now you're breaking it. I know it was you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if one of those events were on Saturday, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have broke it. But because it was a double event,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I feel like I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Allowed trying to rationalize it.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to rationalize it in my head.

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<v Speaker 2>Rain, Yeah, No, I haven't. I haven't broken it since

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<v Speaker 2>the first day. I have seen no need to. Like

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<v Speaker 2>my family was around last night for you know, they

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<v Speaker 2>were all having like wine years and I was just like,

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<v Speaker 2>nam or, I'll stick to my diet lemonade, sugar free,

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<v Speaker 2>but now.

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<v Speaker 1>Where's your head out? Fam? Up in arms about you

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<v Speaker 1>and your diet lemonade.

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<v Speaker 2>I have laid off a little bit like this week

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<v Speaker 2>because of the feedback I got, so I wasn't as

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<v Speaker 2>strong on it. But it's there. It's definitely there.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that you can cut it out? There

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<v Speaker 1>could be someone sitting at home who's like a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>dit coke feene and they're like, well, if Matt will

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<v Speaker 1>do it, I'll do it. You just it's unnecessary.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. I could replace it for sparkling water.

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<v Speaker 1>Or water water or lemon water. Or tea. You're British.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I literally hairble tea. Yeah, yesterday, I just bought a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of more teas. They're on special at coals. There's

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<v Speaker 2>my recommendation. And I got like a digestive one as well,

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<v Speaker 2>some more Kama male. I love it with honey and vanilla.

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<v Speaker 1>I got this tea I think it's from Twinings and

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<v Speaker 1>it has probiotics in it, and it's like a cleanse.

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<v Speaker 1>It has like ginger turmeric. It's like maybe also what

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<v Speaker 1>I got plus probiotics, and I was like, wow, probiotics

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<v Speaker 1>in your tea. I mean talk about hitting a double wam. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I don't whammy. What did I say?

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<v Speaker 1>Double whammy?

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<v Speaker 2>Whammy?

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that It's not about whammy, double whammy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's from a COVENI is that guy? Yeah? I love

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<v Speaker 2>my tea. So I have a I have like a

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<v Speaker 2>cameo mile every night. If I have a normal ty

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<v Speaker 2>in English breakfast before bed, I'm waking up like twice

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<v Speaker 2>to take a pierce. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice, Oh no, not nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I was listening, don't cut that out.

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<v Speaker 1>I got really distructed.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, if I was like, if you if

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<v Speaker 2>you want to get up and go for two pieces

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<v Speaker 2>a night, well that's up to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Even one p night is too much for me. Like

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<v Speaker 1>that is just like, yeah, no.

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<v Speaker 2>It's brutal. I will sleep through. I've mastered the art

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<v Speaker 2>of like sleeping through in my old house since I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Killed up, so they work bladder yeat.

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<v Speaker 2>The bathroom was on the other end of the house.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, there is in that haunted house I

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<v Speaker 2>used to live. I was like, there's no chance I'm

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<v Speaker 2>getting up and walking down there, like zero chance.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, speaking of houses, Michael and I have gone from

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<v Speaker 1>having two bathrooms so one each to one. And let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you the adjustment period has been real.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you like a match every time? After this? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you say keep clear from no?

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<v Speaker 1>We have we have vipoo. Have you ever tried vipoo?

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<v Speaker 2>I used it this morning actually because I want tom.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so good. Really yeah. Do you have like a

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<v Speaker 1>little like pink purple one? We have the pink one

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<v Speaker 1>and it is justified. I love the smell of vipoo.

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<v Speaker 2>Pink one. I'll look into that one and then the

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<v Speaker 2>yellow ones downstairs at mums. I know that I can't

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<v Speaker 2>smell Glen twenty. So Glen twenty triggers me from when

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<v Speaker 2>we were renovating the bathroom. Yeah, and there was we

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<v Speaker 2>left well, the builder left a hole in where the

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<v Speaker 2>water comes out from the bath and birds nested under

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<v Speaker 2>the bath and they like that. The eggs hatched and

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't. The eggs died, like the baby birds died

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<v Speaker 2>and it was the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so sad.

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<v Speaker 2>But could you imagine like rotting dead birds covered by

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<v Speaker 2>Glenn twenty. It was like the in the bathroom you

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<v Speaker 2>were showering and getting ready, and it was the worst

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<v Speaker 2>smell I have ever smelled. Whenever I smelled Glen twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyone in my family that's listening to this will say

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<v Speaker 2>the same thing. They'll be like it just triggers me

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<v Speaker 2>straight away and trigger them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like still more upset about like the little

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<v Speaker 1>ducklings that died or not ducklings birds.

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<v Speaker 2>Who knows what they were, what breed of bird. But

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<v Speaker 2>you know that's nature.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not nature getting stuck onto a fucking bar. That's

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<v Speaker 1>such a shame. But anyway, one toilet. It's like in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning we wake up and it's like a race

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<v Speaker 1>to the toilet, like who's at first? Because I like

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<v Speaker 1>to relax in the toilet.

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<v Speaker 2>Take my tongue, So you're more worried about like timing wise,

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<v Speaker 2>who's on the toilet, not the smell of the aftermath.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no vipooh covers in masks at all.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, you know, would you go to the toilet

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<v Speaker 2>in front of.

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<v Speaker 1>Michael to do a number two?

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>No? Would you?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, I wouldn't. I'm just asking you.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine, like I ever, ever, ever, ever going

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<v Speaker 1>for a number two in front of anyone on the planet,

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<v Speaker 1>Like no one will ever be close enough to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe my future child, but even then I wouldn't really

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<v Speaker 1>want to like subject anyone to that, Like it's like

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<v Speaker 1>alone time. It's a mean time.

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<v Speaker 2>I love. I love going to the shitter, like just

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<v Speaker 2>spending my time in there. I love it. It's the best.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll sit on tiktokpat all over the mic.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. But I was I know couples that

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<v Speaker 2>will go to the toilet in front of themselves. It's

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<v Speaker 2>pretty common.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that common. There's no way.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's take it to the Facebook, because guys, let us know.

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<v Speaker 2>I I remember I had an X that there was

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<v Speaker 2>two bathrooms, so I'd go in mine and go to

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<v Speaker 2>the toilet at her house and she would just kick

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<v Speaker 2>the door open, and I'd be sitting there and I'd

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<v Speaker 2>be like, seriously, like I need this is my alone time,

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<v Speaker 2>Like give me some space.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be so mad about that, Like I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>even like pretend to be cool about it. I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>get the fuck out right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my shit doesn't stink, So I'm not worried about that, Matte,

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<v Speaker 2>Yes it does.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know why you have this ongoing dialogue

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<v Speaker 1>with yourself about that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so wid you just convinced.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>When you decided to make that alf and just roll

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<v Speaker 1>with it for about three years and no one's question

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<v Speaker 1>to accept me. I absolutely just can't believe that unless

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<v Speaker 1>you're eating water and cardboard. I'm sure your ship has

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<v Speaker 1>stunk before, very rare. Don't smell okay, okay, we have

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<v Speaker 1>no one cares.

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<v Speaker 2>You wouldn't even know that, free.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, Splendor. We're heading to.

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<v Speaker 2>Byron Bay Thursday morning.

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<v Speaker 1>This Thursday, So if you're going to Splendor, guys, four pm.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt and I will be in the podcast tent called

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<v Speaker 1>the Forum. We're going to be doing a forty five

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<v Speaker 1>minute show. We're going to talk about all things how

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<v Speaker 1>to at a festival, the good, the bad, the ugly,

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<v Speaker 1>and all the tips. And we have some pretty wild

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<v Speaker 1>festival stories. So if you're going to Splendor, make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that you come and see us, Come say hi, and

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<v Speaker 1>if not, that episode will go live next week.

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<v Speaker 2>And also, if you guys want your voice played over

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<v Speaker 2>the loud speakers at Splendor in the grass, could be

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<v Speaker 2>something in achievement you want to tick off, send us in.

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<v Speaker 2>Send us in a horror story you have from a festival.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to hear it.

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<v Speaker 1>We have actually a couple of fucked up festival horror stories,

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<v Speaker 1>so if you do have one, make sure you send it.

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<v Speaker 2>Could not be any well probably it couldn't be any

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<v Speaker 2>worse than the ones we have, but if it is,

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<v Speaker 2>i'll you know what could off? I want to hear it.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to challenge except yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Challenge except it. So last Friday, an I went in

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<v Speaker 2>to see a psychiatrist. That's right, So about my ADHD.

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<v Speaker 2>My first appointment. It's one of I think I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>sure exactly, he said, there'll be another one. I have

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<v Speaker 2>to bring a family member or someone that knows me

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<v Speaker 2>well in with me, and he will ask them questions.

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<v Speaker 2>But he asked me a bunch of questions. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>going to go too much into detail. It's obviously personal

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<v Speaker 2>that sort of stuff, but I'll be as open and

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<v Speaker 2>as transparent about it as possible, just you know, the

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<v Speaker 2>usual questions about like ADHD, like what do you like

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<v Speaker 2>about your tension? How do you do this? You feel

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<v Speaker 2>in a form? All that sort of stuff. At the

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<v Speaker 2>end he said to me, he was like, look, I've

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<v Speaker 2>done this for twenty two years. I've seen anywhere between

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<v Speaker 2>twelve hundred and fifteen hundred patients that have ADHD. Matt,

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<v Speaker 2>it's you. You have ADHD. So it was look, I'd

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie. I knew going in that that

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<v Speaker 2>was going to be the result. I think it was

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<v Speaker 2>quite obvious about the way I lived my life of

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of the stuff that I've realized over the

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<v Speaker 2>couple of last three to four months that I've been

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<v Speaker 2>doing research about it. So I think I still got

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<v Speaker 2>emotional when he told me. I like teared up a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously it's not so much validation, but it's sort of

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<v Speaker 2>And what I said to him as well was, this

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<v Speaker 2>isn't an excuse for my bad behavior. I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>it to be an excuse for why I do this,

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<v Speaker 2>why I do that, Why in certain situations I act

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<v Speaker 2>like this, I said, I don't want it to be

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<v Speaker 2>an excuse. I want it to be more a solution

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<v Speaker 2>and a tool that I can use for future relationships

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<v Speaker 2>and for people around me, so they know that this

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<v Speaker 2>is how I'll get in these situations or for myself.

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<v Speaker 2>So I know that when I'm reacting or like doing

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<v Speaker 2>something that isn't so much like not frown upon but

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<v Speaker 2>not like acceptable in that situation, that I can adapt

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<v Speaker 2>and easily learn from it. So yeah, so's he's said

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<v Speaker 2>he wants to try me on medication. I'm obviously open

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<v Speaker 2>to whatever. I've you know, put a lot of my

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<v Speaker 2>body over the years, so I'm willing to try the medication.

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<v Speaker 2>I think a little bit of it scares me from

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<v Speaker 2>what I've done the research on it. That like they

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<v Speaker 2>say that, like because as someone with AHD has like

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<v Speaker 2>orbiting thoughts and then to know that that sort of

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<v Speaker 2>switches off and it's just one dialogue in your head.

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<v Speaker 2>Sort of scares me because I've obviously gotten used to

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<v Speaker 2>so many so much for like not voices. That sounds like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, but like an orbiting amount of thoughts going

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<v Speaker 2>darting from thought to thought, So like that scares me,

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<v Speaker 2>but also at the same time, I'm sort of excited.

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<v Speaker 2>He also said to me as well, he said, he said, look,

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<v Speaker 2>this isn't a bad thing, and he started listing the

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<v Speaker 2>pros of having ADHD, and look, it isn't all bad.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of pros that come out of it

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<v Speaker 2>as well.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the prose that he said?

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously people, they're really well around people, adapting to people

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<v Speaker 2>and like the people. Person working memories a con of ADHD,

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<v Speaker 2>So when you put someone on the spot like that,

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard to list them. Obviously, in high stressful situations

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<v Speaker 2>you're good at like adapt like not adapting, but you're

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<v Speaker 2>good at, like in pressure situations, thinking clearly and remain

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<v Speaker 2>and remaining calm, which it's been something my whole life,

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<v Speaker 2>which like I just thought was me, Like, I've listed

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of things. When he said that that, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like that, Fuck, I can't remember him now. My working

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<v Speaker 2>memory obviously.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit I've no, that's all good. I mean, it must

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<v Speaker 1>feel pretty validating for you. I remember when you first

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<v Speaker 1>brought it up with me and you're like, I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure I have ADHD. You know the psychologists was a psychologist,

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<v Speaker 1>the psychologist on Love Island said that they think I

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<v Speaker 1>have it. I've kind of put it off. It must

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<v Speaker 1>be nice to just be like, okay, I was right, yeap,

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<v Speaker 1>Like this is me And I think you're so accepting

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself and it's so great to see. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think so many people around us have it. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>only now that people are starting to understand what ADHD

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<v Speaker 1>is and it's I think I think back in the

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<v Speaker 1>day it was seen as a negative, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>people who are so much more accepting and just it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's normal, right, like if not everyone is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be the same, and everyone's differences are well.

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<v Speaker 2>When I had to chat with a couple of my

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<v Speaker 2>mates to be on I got a couple of reactions

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<v Speaker 2>from a couple of them, Oh you as well, you

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<v Speaker 2>think you've got it? That sort of thing. I was joking.

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<v Speaker 2>It was banter, but like, I think it's gone so

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<v Speaker 2>much that way now that everyone's like, oh, everyone's getting it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think the awareness about how much it fluctuates

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<v Speaker 2>from person to person means that a lot more people

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<v Speaker 2>have it. Because back in the day when we were

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<v Speaker 2>at school, ADHD was just that troubled guy in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like one kid out of the class. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like I saw a stout being like two out of

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<v Speaker 1>three people apparently have ADHD, which is a crazy amount,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's insane.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was the kid that just in the corner

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<v Speaker 2>I would be like, you know, like fight someone for

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<v Speaker 2>no reason or punch a wall or throw a desk. Like.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't the me, the class clown who was distracting everyone,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. That was sort of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>he's just like, you know, not interested in school. But

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<v Speaker 2>that was why because I had ADHD, I wasn't I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't concentrate, so I distract everyone with me. Hopefully now

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<v Speaker 2>in schools they're like they're addressing it a lot earlier

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<v Speaker 2>and getting onto it. And then because like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I imagine knowing like, fuck, you know twenty.

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<v Speaker 1>Years ago, does it feel to be diagnosed at twenty eight?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Like fuck, I don't I don't have regrets or change anything.

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<v Speaker 2>It just explains so much, like so much of my

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<v Speaker 2>decisions I've made in life or situations that I've been

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<v Speaker 2>in and the way I've reacted and stuff like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it validates you, Yeah, it validates Yeah. Like one sample

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<v Speaker 2>was like I don't know, like I was sinking back

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<v Speaker 2>to love, aren't and how I was like so emotional,

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<v Speaker 2>like crying, like it was obviously that you've got You're tired,

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<v Speaker 2>they're not they're sleep depriving you, all that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up in a household where like you could

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<v Speaker 2>express your feelings, but like I felt, I feel thing

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<v Speaker 2>so much more stronger than people that don't have it.

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<v Speaker 2>So like when I feel something, it's fucking like it's

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<v Speaker 2>really immense full amount of like feelings than the average person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So just even that that, like it just explains that.

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<v Speaker 2>And then like there's just so many things in life

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<v Speaker 2>that's just explained. Yeah from it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, when you called me to tell me like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got the diagnosis I have ADHD, my response was

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm so happy for you, Like, I'm so happy

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<v Speaker 1>for you that you found out that you can now

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, do as you please. Like you can

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<v Speaker 1>take medication, you cannot take medication. You can do what's

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<v Speaker 1>right for you. But yeah, like all of the things

0:20:11.440 --> 0:20:15.040
<v Speaker 1>and the ways that you act which might be somewhat

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<v Speaker 1>different to someone else, you're now like, Okay, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>reason why.

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<v Speaker 2>The reason why I've done like this sort of stuff

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<v Speaker 2>why I just want to bring awareness to it as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I mean, if you've got a kid out there

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<v Speaker 2>that you think, this is someone out there that you

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<v Speaker 2>think has it, or a kid or like your friend,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe just encourage them to get tested. That's essentially how

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<v Speaker 2>I went and got tested.

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<v Speaker 1>A friend of mine, a close friend of mine, her

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<v Speaker 1>friend just got diagnosed with ADHD. And then she said

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<v Speaker 1>to one of my best friends, I think you have it.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was talking me through some of the symptoms,

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<v Speaker 1>some of them quite similar to yours actually, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, it's so interesting because people think that people

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<v Speaker 1>are all like with ADHD, people are jumping on the bandwagon,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's actually not that. It's that the more people

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<v Speaker 1>who bring awareness to it, and the more people start

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<v Speaker 1>to understand the actual symptoms of it, the easier it

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<v Speaker 1>is to pick it out in other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And like you said, it's two and three people,

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<v Speaker 2>so that's like over half people have it. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's what I think everyone's like, Oh everyone's dropping

0:21:17.040 --> 0:21:19.280
<v Speaker 2>on the bandwagon, blah blah blah. But it's not. It's

0:21:19.320 --> 0:21:21.480
<v Speaker 2>that there's awareness around it, and you stop on one

0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:24.240
<v Speaker 2>TikTok of it. You know, your algorithm completely changes like

0:21:24.280 --> 0:21:26.000
<v Speaker 2>ADHD and then you're a far I've got the same

0:21:26.040 --> 0:21:28.520
<v Speaker 2>thing as that, Like, that's exactly how I am. I've

0:21:28.560 --> 0:21:30.240
<v Speaker 2>got this trait. I've got that trait, you know what

0:21:30.280 --> 0:21:32.760
<v Speaker 2>I mean. Yeah, and not all traits fall into everyone.

0:21:32.800 --> 0:21:35.160
<v Speaker 2>Not everyone has everything. He was explaining that there's either

0:21:35.880 --> 0:21:38.680
<v Speaker 2>you can more. I can't remember exactly what he said,

0:21:38.720 --> 0:21:40.919
<v Speaker 2>but like it was either like you're more like you

0:21:41.040 --> 0:21:44.560
<v Speaker 2>get distracted easily, or it was something else and I

0:21:44.720 --> 0:21:46.919
<v Speaker 2>fall somewhere in the middle. He was saying, where I

0:21:46.960 --> 0:21:49.000
<v Speaker 2>can hyper focus on things, but at the same time

0:21:49.000 --> 0:21:49.800
<v Speaker 2>I get distracted.

0:21:50.040 --> 0:21:50.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:21:50.600 --> 0:21:52.639
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh that was a positive actually, that you can

0:21:52.720 --> 0:21:55.520
<v Speaker 2>hyper focus on things that you like and like achieve

0:21:55.560 --> 0:21:57.560
<v Speaker 2>and you don't take no for an answer when you

0:21:57.600 --> 0:22:01.840
<v Speaker 2>see something you don't you look at it for well,

0:22:01.840 --> 0:22:03.159
<v Speaker 2>you know my opinion on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that I might have it, but girls, will you.

0:22:08.080 --> 0:22:10.760
<v Speaker 2>Girls show it a lot differently to how guys do. Yeah,

0:22:10.960 --> 0:22:14.119
<v Speaker 2>so they're a lot better at disguising it, yeah than

0:22:14.160 --> 0:22:16.720
<v Speaker 2>a guy is. Yeah. So I think you have a

0:22:16.720 --> 0:22:19.240
<v Speaker 2>lot of traits of it. Yeah, you fall maybe somewhere

0:22:19.240 --> 0:22:20.080
<v Speaker 2>on the spectrum of it.

0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:20.639
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:22:21.160 --> 0:22:24.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Like I said, people show it differently, and it's like,

0:22:24.800 --> 0:22:26.440
<v Speaker 2>have it different traits of it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, look, we're going to talk so much more

0:22:30.040 --> 0:22:33.480
<v Speaker 1>on this podcast now about adhd adhd in relationship.

0:22:33.600 --> 0:22:35.720
<v Speaker 2>I would love to get an expert on about relationships.

0:22:35.760 --> 0:22:38.199
<v Speaker 2>Obviously a lot of my relationships would have run a

0:22:38.200 --> 0:22:40.320
<v Speaker 2>lot smoother if I had known this. So I want

0:22:40.359 --> 0:22:42.480
<v Speaker 2>to get an expert on or someone from TikTok that

0:22:42.520 --> 0:22:44.679
<v Speaker 2>talks about it and interview them about it.

0:22:44.880 --> 0:22:47.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you can kind of also like tell us

0:22:47.359 --> 0:22:50.200
<v Speaker 1>more about your appointments and things that go on. Yeah,

0:22:50.280 --> 0:22:52.119
<v Speaker 1>you know, I might get tested just to see if

0:22:52.200 --> 0:22:55.040
<v Speaker 1>that's right. Look at him looking at me, It's like

0:22:55.320 --> 0:22:56.240
<v Speaker 1>you definitely have that.

0:22:56.400 --> 0:22:58.960
<v Speaker 2>You have a lot of traits. I'll say that I'm

0:22:58.960 --> 0:23:01.480
<v Speaker 2>the first. Yeah, now I remember you can I can

0:23:01.520 --> 0:23:03.560
<v Speaker 2>see it in people actually will not see it. Sorry,

0:23:03.560 --> 0:23:05.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm not like Chia tresplaining stretch of the imagination, but

0:23:05.960 --> 0:23:08.199
<v Speaker 2>like I can see traits and people remember. And then

0:23:08.240 --> 0:23:09.760
<v Speaker 2>I said, that person, why I didn't tell you, but

0:23:09.840 --> 0:23:11.000
<v Speaker 2>I thought that person had it. Then we went on

0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:12.920
<v Speaker 2>their Instagram and they were talking about it. Yeah, yeah,

0:23:12.960 --> 0:23:14.199
<v Speaker 2>and I was like I knew at the moment I

0:23:14.240 --> 0:23:16.000
<v Speaker 2>was like talking to him, I was like, they definitely

0:23:16.000 --> 0:23:16.240
<v Speaker 2>have it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's so interesting. It's such an interesting It's kind

0:23:21.200 --> 0:23:22.640
<v Speaker 1>of like a whole new world. Like I've never even

0:23:22.640 --> 0:23:25.879
<v Speaker 1>thought about ADHD in my life until you mentioned and

0:23:25.880 --> 0:23:27.199
<v Speaker 1>started talking about it, and I was like, well, what

0:23:27.280 --> 0:23:28.680
<v Speaker 1>are the traits? Like what is this?

0:23:28.840 --> 0:23:28.919
<v Speaker 2>Like?

0:23:29.400 --> 0:23:32.240
<v Speaker 1>What what even is ADHD? What does it mean?

0:23:32.400 --> 0:23:34.200
<v Speaker 2>Like I said before, it was always just that kid

0:23:34.320 --> 0:23:36.960
<v Speaker 2>in the corner that was like running a muck and

0:23:37.000 --> 0:23:39.399
<v Speaker 2>like being disruptive. If it was never like, you know,

0:23:39.560 --> 0:23:42.040
<v Speaker 2>the charming, funny guy or the you know, the girl

0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:45.159
<v Speaker 2>that just wouldn't say no for an answering like that.

0:23:45.160 --> 0:23:46.800
<v Speaker 2>That was never what anyone thought of it.

0:23:47.320 --> 0:23:51.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, okay, well look back on that note, let's

0:23:51.400 --> 0:23:55.679
<v Speaker 1>jump into our hot land. Hello, you've reached Anna and

0:23:55.760 --> 0:23:57.959
<v Speaker 1>that we can't get to the phone right now, but

0:23:58.080 --> 0:24:00.760
<v Speaker 1>please leave us a message on our hot line after

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<v Speaker 1>the beep.

0:24:02.359 --> 0:24:06.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so this hotline comes in from Meg, So just a.

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<v Speaker 4>Bit of an embarrassing story for you. So for a

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<v Speaker 4>bit of context, I've had pretty bad bow problems in

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<v Speaker 4>the past and recently. And one day I went into work,

0:24:19.000 --> 0:24:21.879
<v Speaker 4>so I worked by myself in this little retail store.

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<v Speaker 4>So if I ever need to go to the toilet,

0:24:23.320 --> 0:24:25.760
<v Speaker 4>I've got to kind of run anyway. So I'm sitting

0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:29.600
<v Speaker 4>there by myself. I just started and I kind of

0:24:29.680 --> 0:24:33.840
<v Speaker 4>just felt this like liquidy, schoolishy sensation in my pants.

0:24:34.440 --> 0:24:37.600
<v Speaker 4>So I've stood up and all I could smell was

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:42.320
<v Speaker 4>just shit. So I ran to the toilet and pulled

0:24:42.359 --> 0:24:47.000
<v Speaker 4>down my pants. It's just destroyed my jeans and my undies.

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<v Speaker 4>So had to throw my undies in the bin, tried

0:24:51.040 --> 0:24:53.479
<v Speaker 4>my best to wipe it up in my jeans as

0:24:53.480 --> 0:24:56.040
<v Speaker 4>best as possible, but the toilet we have is just shit,

0:24:56.840 --> 0:25:02.080
<v Speaker 4>so I still had who in my pants, and I

0:25:02.200 --> 0:25:05.840
<v Speaker 4>ran back into the shop, hopefully, like you know, for

0:25:05.880 --> 0:25:08.679
<v Speaker 4>no one to be in there, no customers, I had

0:25:08.680 --> 0:25:11.119
<v Speaker 4>to serve anything, so I could just quickly get some

0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:13.280
<v Speaker 4>wet wipes and just wipe my jeans clean and then

0:25:13.320 --> 0:25:16.120
<v Speaker 4>I'd be good to go. But then when I've run

0:25:16.880 --> 0:25:22.120
<v Speaker 4>back into the store, there's just customers everywhere. So I'm

0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:26.840
<v Speaker 4>serving all of these customers with still shit in my pants,

0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:29.520
<v Speaker 4>Like all you can smell from me is just shit.

0:25:30.680 --> 0:25:33.840
<v Speaker 4>And I've served these customers whatever did that, it was fine.

0:25:34.600 --> 0:25:36.760
<v Speaker 4>And then when they were all gone, I didn clean

0:25:36.800 --> 0:25:38.879
<v Speaker 4>myself up. It was good to go, and then I

0:25:38.960 --> 0:25:41.080
<v Speaker 4>just worked the rest of the day. I had wet

0:25:41.119 --> 0:25:43.879
<v Speaker 4>pants from the wet wipes, still smelled like shit, and

0:25:43.960 --> 0:25:49.280
<v Speaker 4>I couldn't even wear my undies. So yeah, anyways, thanks.

0:25:53.359 --> 0:25:55.360
<v Speaker 2>Thank you for sharing that with us. Meg.

0:25:56.400 --> 0:26:00.120
<v Speaker 1>There's a very vulnerable moment share fucking.

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<v Speaker 2>Irritual bow syndrome. I know someone I know used to

0:26:04.320 --> 0:26:06.480
<v Speaker 2>well still I guess has it, And they were telling

0:26:06.520 --> 0:26:08.800
<v Speaker 2>me a story about how they couldn't make it home

0:26:09.400 --> 0:26:11.560
<v Speaker 2>and they did it in the car like they like

0:26:11.720 --> 0:26:13.520
<v Speaker 2>stood up trying to hold onto it, like sat up

0:26:13.560 --> 0:26:15.639
<v Speaker 2>like that, and it would all over the seat, all

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:16.120
<v Speaker 2>over them.

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:19.280
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's so that sucks because it's kind of like

0:26:19.320 --> 0:26:21.280
<v Speaker 1>it's out of your control. But then you have to

0:26:21.320 --> 0:26:24.280
<v Speaker 1>deal with like the ramifications of being like this shitty,

0:26:24.280 --> 0:26:29.360
<v Speaker 1>stinky person. Wouldn't you wear like maybe a nappy? Well,

0:26:29.400 --> 0:26:35.200
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say more like a padd.

0:26:33.119 --> 0:26:35.480
<v Speaker 2>Would hold on too. I don't know any pads, but

0:26:37.280 --> 0:26:38.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's I think it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like an actual hard ship. I think it's like water.

0:26:42.440 --> 0:26:44.160
<v Speaker 1>So wouldn't it just like soak it up? Maybe?

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.159
<v Speaker 2>Jeez, you'd know more about a pad than I do.

0:26:48.200 --> 0:26:49.560
<v Speaker 2>I've never personally used one.

0:26:51.080 --> 0:26:54.280
<v Speaker 1>Maybe a n fuck. I would wear a nappy like

0:26:54.440 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 1>just because I would be like a little worried. Okay,

0:26:57.560 --> 0:26:59.399
<v Speaker 1>and un less you can bin the nappy.

0:26:59.480 --> 0:27:01.480
<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean. I'm gonna tell your story

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:04.280
<v Speaker 2>so you don't feel alone. This might not make it

0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:06.879
<v Speaker 2>to the actual final cart. Let's just tell it and

0:27:06.880 --> 0:27:07.800
<v Speaker 2>we'll see what happens.

0:27:08.160 --> 0:27:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh god man.

0:27:09.280 --> 0:27:11.920
<v Speaker 2>So it's Australia Day with all my mates sitting around

0:27:12.000 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 2>drinking at a friend's house.

0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm so worried.

0:27:14.920 --> 0:27:17.359
<v Speaker 2>It's not that bad. It had everyone shut had a

0:27:17.359 --> 0:27:21.000
<v Speaker 2>fart that's followed through, or shot themselves. I haven't, you haven't. No,

0:27:22.440 --> 0:27:25.600
<v Speaker 2>let's just see how this goes. And we're all sitting

0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:27.760
<v Speaker 2>there drinking over I was sitting around talking to people

0:27:28.320 --> 0:27:30.840
<v Speaker 2>and I was like that one, I need a fart.

0:27:31.200 --> 0:27:32.280
<v Speaker 2>One followed through?

0:27:33.240 --> 0:27:35.080
<v Speaker 1>What followed through became a ship.

0:27:35.240 --> 0:27:37.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a little bit like came out. Should I tell this? Yeah?

0:27:38.880 --> 0:27:41.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean you're already telling it.

0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:42.840
<v Speaker 2>It's not that bad. It's not that bad.

0:27:43.240 --> 0:27:43.919
<v Speaker 1>Shout yourself.

0:27:44.000 --> 0:27:45.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And I was like fuck. Like it was like

0:27:45.520 --> 0:27:47.159
<v Speaker 2>a house party. Everyone was there in the middle of

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:48.919
<v Speaker 2>the afternoon. I was like, fuck, what do I do?

0:27:49.320 --> 0:27:51.840
<v Speaker 2>I quickly ran to the bathroom. There was girls all

0:27:51.840 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 2>in the bathroom. I was like, fuck, I can't go here,

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:55.720
<v Speaker 2>you know. And I was like, you know what, Fuck,

0:27:55.800 --> 0:27:57.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna go home. It was around the corner

0:27:57.240 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 2>from my house. I was like, fuck it, I'm just

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:00.920
<v Speaker 2>gonna go home. So I booked Uber. I remember that

0:28:01.000 --> 0:28:02.960
<v Speaker 2>I was out the front. People were arriving and they're

0:28:02.960 --> 0:28:05.920
<v Speaker 2>trying to talk to me, and I was like nope, nope.

0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:10.719
<v Speaker 2>I like scurried, scurried away, hopped in the Uber and

0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:13.440
<v Speaker 2>it just fucking stunk. And I remember like winding down

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:16.120
<v Speaker 2>the window and I was like, sorry, mate, I keep dropping. Fuss.

0:28:16.359 --> 0:28:20.400
<v Speaker 2>It's nothing I could do. Got a sore stomach.

0:28:21.840 --> 0:28:24.919
<v Speaker 1>You were dressed it with the Uber driver. He's probably like,

0:28:24.960 --> 0:28:27.520
<v Speaker 1>this is the worst fucking job.

0:28:28.040 --> 0:28:32.359
<v Speaker 2>Rating has never gotten ratings ever recovered from that. You

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:35.359
<v Speaker 2>were out of five, got yeah, got home through the

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:38.040
<v Speaker 2>unders out. But yeah, so it happens to the best

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:39.600
<v Speaker 2>of us. So Meg, you're not alone there.

0:28:40.440 --> 0:28:43.800
<v Speaker 1>Well, Matt, thank you for making Meg not feel alone therefore,

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:45.719
<v Speaker 1>whilst also outing yourself.

0:28:45.960 --> 0:28:49.200
<v Speaker 2>Look and I feel like like it's happened, you don't

0:28:49.560 --> 0:28:50.560
<v Speaker 2>hasn't happened to you.

0:28:50.800 --> 0:28:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, no one that I know has ever talked

0:28:52.760 --> 0:28:54.800
<v Speaker 1>about it happening. But I mean maybe it's happened and

0:28:54.840 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 1>people don't admit to it. It.

0:28:56.640 --> 0:28:58.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well I've kept that I reckon that was probably

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:00.720
<v Speaker 2>one of my da that was vaulted. Yeah, that was

0:29:01.080 --> 0:29:03.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm telling my ex and she was like, probably don't

0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:08.400
<v Speaker 2>tell anyone that story. Here I am on a podcast

0:29:08.920 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 2>telling everyone, not a podcast, our podcast. Yeah true, on

0:29:12.800 --> 0:29:16.560
<v Speaker 2>my podcast telling everyone about it. Geez what look yeah, no,

0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:18.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't judge me. It was I was young. I

0:29:18.240 --> 0:29:21.320
<v Speaker 2>was twenty one. I just you know, had had a

0:29:21.320 --> 0:29:23.400
<v Speaker 2>couple too many beers and no judgment.

0:29:23.440 --> 0:29:26.920
<v Speaker 1>But at least Meg had irritable bounce. She had an

0:29:26.960 --> 0:29:33.160
<v Speaker 1>excuse that does suck for her, like fuck, yeah, well.

0:29:33.680 --> 0:29:35.040
<v Speaker 2>How do you like, you said, how do you get

0:29:35.040 --> 0:29:36.000
<v Speaker 2>around it? What do you do?

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:38.400
<v Speaker 1>Like? You just have to shower? You just need to change,

0:29:38.520 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 1>like you need to go home, hey, sap like you did.

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:43.040
<v Speaker 2>But what do you reckon that? Like if she's had

0:29:43.080 --> 0:29:45.120
<v Speaker 2>a workplace, how do you get around that? Like a

0:29:45.240 --> 0:29:47.760
<v Speaker 2>retail thing? Slap the back in ten minutes, go the

0:29:47.800 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 2>little shower, Yeah, put the.

0:29:48.960 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 1>Little put the little side back in thirty minutes and

0:29:51.840 --> 0:29:53.840
<v Speaker 1>then they literally don't come back, and you're like.

0:29:53.800 --> 0:29:56.440
<v Speaker 2>Where I go have a shower, change, Maybe have a

0:29:56.480 --> 0:29:58.000
<v Speaker 2>spare pair of underwear in your.

0:29:59.440 --> 0:30:02.120
<v Speaker 1>In your car pair of underwear and pad. I think

0:30:02.160 --> 0:30:03.200
<v Speaker 1>from now on, Meg.

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:07.800
<v Speaker 2>Nappy is as black what's the word as it sounds.

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:09.480
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have to be like a nappy. It could

0:30:09.480 --> 0:30:13.080
<v Speaker 1>just be like an oversized like nightpad maybe.

0:30:12.760 --> 0:30:16.680
<v Speaker 2>With Grandma rundies on. Yeah, and then if that happens,

0:30:16.760 --> 0:30:18.880
<v Speaker 2>just throw it out. You could never wear a g stree.

0:30:21.800 --> 0:30:24.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm actually having the worst visuals in my.

0:30:26.720 --> 0:30:33.600
<v Speaker 2>I decided this string this is. We've just really lowered

0:30:33.640 --> 0:30:34.680
<v Speaker 2>the tone of this podcast.

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 1>Move on.

0:30:35.800 --> 0:30:37.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So that's all we've got time for on today's

0:30:37.600 --> 0:30:40.160
<v Speaker 2>Hot Loane Guys, As always, we want you to send

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:42.320
<v Speaker 2>those hotlines and we love hearing. And look, Meg just

0:30:42.480 --> 0:30:45.680
<v Speaker 2>outed herself for shitting herself like it could be anything

0:30:45.720 --> 0:30:46.920
<v Speaker 2>we want to hear from you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, guys, until next time, soa bye