1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:13,721 Speaker 1: Appod shape, production, life stuff, life, parenting. 2 00:00:14,281 --> 00:00:16,361 Speaker 2: We're doing life together and we're just going to. 3 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:17,161 Speaker 3: Tell you all about it. 4 00:00:17,601 --> 00:00:19,441 Speaker 1: I hate the word pairing menopause. 5 00:00:20,041 --> 00:00:20,521 Speaker 3: I can't. 6 00:00:20,681 --> 00:00:21,881 Speaker 1: We're not in menopause. 7 00:00:21,961 --> 00:00:23,001 Speaker 3: Like it's like ca me angry. 8 00:00:23,761 --> 00:00:24,041 Speaker 2: What? 9 00:00:27,441 --> 00:00:31,121 Speaker 1: Welcome back to a bonus episode of who even are We? 10 00:00:31,161 --> 00:00:34,161 Speaker 1: Where we're gonna chat about the funny things that we 11 00:00:34,241 --> 00:00:36,401 Speaker 1: thought we would never hear ourselves say. 12 00:00:36,561 --> 00:00:38,961 Speaker 2: I'm going to start with a story though that I 13 00:00:39,081 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 2: would have thought I would never hear myself say, but 14 00:00:41,801 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: I'm going to say it. I described a coffee prior 15 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 2: to us recording across the road, and I was like, wow, 16 00:00:48,561 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 2: I've got twenty five minutes before I have to be 17 00:00:51,881 --> 00:00:54,361 Speaker 2: here podcasts. I'm going to have my coffee here in 18 00:00:54,401 --> 00:00:57,041 Speaker 2: a cup, like a proper cup. So I sat down 19 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,801 Speaker 2: next to another table and there was a man and 20 00:00:59,801 --> 00:01:02,961 Speaker 2: a woman. Now first thought is, oh, yeah, a husband 21 00:01:03,001 --> 00:01:05,681 Speaker 2: and wife, like you know, just assumption. It's an assumption 22 00:01:05,801 --> 00:01:07,801 Speaker 2: this should be peaceful because they probably won't want to 23 00:01:07,801 --> 00:01:10,281 Speaker 2: talk to each other. And then I'm just like drinking 24 00:01:10,321 --> 00:01:14,321 Speaker 2: my coffee and the conversation Katie. I looked in my 25 00:01:14,441 --> 00:01:17,681 Speaker 2: own handbag three times for AirPods that I had not 26 00:01:17,721 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 2: found on the first occasion because I just need It 27 00:01:20,441 --> 00:01:22,881 Speaker 2: was like a first date, and I thought I would 28 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:27,161 Speaker 2: never say this, But listening to that first date, I 29 00:01:27,241 --> 00:01:28,481 Speaker 2: know that he was trying hard. 30 00:01:28,521 --> 00:01:28,961 Speaker 3: I get it. 31 00:01:29,321 --> 00:01:32,081 Speaker 2: They were both like middle age probably actually, I do 32 00:01:32,161 --> 00:01:34,161 Speaker 2: remember hearing both of them had kids. 33 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,481 Speaker 3: So I feel like it's a first date and they've 34 00:01:36,481 --> 00:01:37,681 Speaker 3: both been there and done it before. 35 00:01:37,681 --> 00:01:41,841 Speaker 2: But they're highly nervous and he is overspeaking. But I 36 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: never thought i'd come to the point where I'd say fuck, 37 00:01:44,681 --> 00:01:47,521 Speaker 2: I never want to go on a first date like that. 38 00:01:48,641 --> 00:01:51,241 Speaker 2: There was even a part where he said to her, oh, gosh, 39 00:01:51,281 --> 00:01:55,601 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm over speaking. I wanted to turn 40 00:01:55,641 --> 00:01:58,721 Speaker 2: around and respond to him and go, you are and 41 00:01:58,801 --> 00:02:02,481 Speaker 2: you are just big noting and it's annoying. And I 42 00:02:02,561 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 2: don't even know how she sat here this long with you. 43 00:02:04,601 --> 00:02:07,161 Speaker 2: That would have ended for me before you'd even started. 44 00:02:07,481 --> 00:02:10,041 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have laughed at me, actually said that 45 00:02:10,521 --> 00:02:12,281 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm over to Yes, you are. 46 00:02:12,561 --> 00:02:15,281 Speaker 3: Pipes up from that, I feel like I want to 47 00:02:15,281 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 3: do so About Katie, I was like, I felt like 48 00:02:17,001 --> 00:02:19,601 Speaker 3: going is it wrong? Would this have ever? 49 00:02:19,921 --> 00:02:21,601 Speaker 2: I don't even know where my life is at I'm 50 00:02:21,601 --> 00:02:24,201 Speaker 2: sitting here listening to a first date to middle age 51 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 2: like a middle aged couple, and all I want to 52 00:02:26,321 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 2: do is turn around and give him feedback and go, 53 00:02:28,561 --> 00:02:29,081 Speaker 2: do you know what? 54 00:02:29,361 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 3: Stop talking? Have you asked her a question yet? 55 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:35,281 Speaker 1: What a weird time of day to have a date 56 00:02:35,321 --> 00:02:37,841 Speaker 1: as well, which obviously eight drop off eight thirty on 57 00:02:37,881 --> 00:02:38,641 Speaker 1: a Wednesday. 58 00:02:39,121 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 3: Even her body language was so invested. 59 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,321 Speaker 2: I looked over twice, maybe three times, because he kept 60 00:02:44,321 --> 00:02:47,441 Speaker 2: talking about like places in Brisbane. Have you heard about 61 00:02:47,441 --> 00:02:49,121 Speaker 2: this place? And Oh, this is what they do and 62 00:02:49,161 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 2: do you know the story behind it? And I was like, Oh, 63 00:02:51,721 --> 00:02:53,641 Speaker 2: it's just a fucking cross Hunt restaurant. 64 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:54,361 Speaker 3: Shut up. 65 00:02:55,441 --> 00:02:55,721 Speaker 1: What. 66 00:02:56,321 --> 00:02:59,841 Speaker 2: I never thought I'd come to this point in my life, Katie. 67 00:03:00,481 --> 00:03:02,601 Speaker 2: Now today we're going to talk about things we swore 68 00:03:02,761 --> 00:03:05,241 Speaker 2: we'd say, but we'd never say. But we're gonna say it. 69 00:03:05,361 --> 00:03:07,521 Speaker 2: And I'm starting with the first one because it gave 70 00:03:07,601 --> 00:03:12,921 Speaker 2: me a really good roll. Let's leave before the traffic starts. 71 00:03:13,041 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, babe, I've said it so many times. 72 00:03:15,881 --> 00:03:17,201 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do that. 73 00:03:17,401 --> 00:03:22,481 Speaker 2: I made the girls leave Gracie Abram's concert one song 74 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,161 Speaker 2: early so I didn't have to walk out with the 75 00:03:24,161 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: rest of the people. A. 76 00:03:25,881 --> 00:03:27,641 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh no, I totally get it. You get it. 77 00:03:27,721 --> 00:03:31,161 Speaker 1: Yeah, I absolutely do not want to be at a 78 00:03:31,201 --> 00:03:34,761 Speaker 1: concert during the last song. And the last song is 79 00:03:34,841 --> 00:03:35,521 Speaker 1: the best song. 80 00:03:35,641 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 3: We all know it. 81 00:03:37,161 --> 00:03:38,481 Speaker 1: It's going to be the first one. It's going to 82 00:03:38,561 --> 00:03:40,001 Speaker 1: be the one that you know and that you love. 83 00:03:40,041 --> 00:03:42,001 Speaker 1: It's going to be the reason that you bear it's 84 00:03:42,081 --> 00:03:44,201 Speaker 1: to go to the concert. And then you're going to 85 00:03:44,321 --> 00:03:47,641 Speaker 1: leave for it. Girls you're listening outside, absolutely not my 86 00:03:47,761 --> 00:03:51,361 Speaker 1: staying till the end. That's two people. It's too much 87 00:03:51,401 --> 00:03:52,801 Speaker 1: going on. I don't want to touch, I don't want 88 00:03:52,801 --> 00:03:54,521 Speaker 1: to cute. I don't get out of the car park. 89 00:03:55,081 --> 00:03:55,721 Speaker 3: Yeah no. 90 00:03:56,081 --> 00:03:58,001 Speaker 2: And the other part for me, like and the girls 91 00:03:58,121 --> 00:04:01,001 Speaker 2: always say it, and now that it's like a laughing joke. 92 00:04:01,161 --> 00:04:03,481 Speaker 2: Every Broncos home game, not that we go to every 93 00:04:03,481 --> 00:04:06,241 Speaker 2: Broncos home game, but any of the home games that 94 00:04:06,281 --> 00:04:09,361 Speaker 2: we do go to, they know if there's four minutes 95 00:04:09,401 --> 00:04:11,201 Speaker 2: to go on the buzz actually out of there. 96 00:04:11,281 --> 00:04:13,921 Speaker 3: I don't care scores. I do not care. 97 00:04:14,001 --> 00:04:16,281 Speaker 1: If there's penalties, doesn't matter. 98 00:04:16,641 --> 00:04:19,001 Speaker 3: I don't care. Joined out of the score on the 99 00:04:19,001 --> 00:04:23,841 Speaker 3: way home. I've used it so many times. We'll put 100 00:04:23,841 --> 00:04:26,001 Speaker 3: it on the car. We'll put it on in the car. 101 00:04:26,201 --> 00:04:28,081 Speaker 3: We don't want to listen to the results in the car. 102 00:04:28,281 --> 00:04:31,361 Speaker 1: We were at the game, we had tickets. Yeah, no, 103 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,321 Speaker 1: we'll just listen to the result in the car on 104 00:04:33,401 --> 00:04:33,961 Speaker 1: the way home. 105 00:04:34,681 --> 00:04:34,921 Speaker 3: Yeah. 106 00:04:35,121 --> 00:04:37,681 Speaker 1: I'm totally with you because there's also a part for 107 00:04:37,761 --> 00:04:40,961 Speaker 1: me that also it's like I'm a real hermit when 108 00:04:41,001 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: it comes to being at home. I never thought I 109 00:04:44,081 --> 00:04:45,601 Speaker 1: would say it. I just want to be at home. 110 00:04:45,921 --> 00:04:47,201 Speaker 1: I don't want to know. I don't want to go 111 00:04:47,241 --> 00:04:48,681 Speaker 1: out anywhere. I just want to stay home. 112 00:04:48,801 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 3: I just need a quiet night in. 113 00:04:52,721 --> 00:04:55,641 Speaker 2: What what when did we get here? 114 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I don't know. 115 00:04:57,801 --> 00:05:01,241 Speaker 2: Quiet night in for me, Katie, a quiet night in. 116 00:05:01,961 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 2: I don't want to hang out with anyone. Not my kids, 117 00:05:05,041 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 2: it's not my dogs, not my cat. 118 00:05:08,001 --> 00:05:10,081 Speaker 3: If Sam's around the house, I don't want to hang 119 00:05:10,081 --> 00:05:13,241 Speaker 3: out with him. I just but it really doesn't go 120 00:05:13,401 --> 00:05:13,721 Speaker 3: like that. 121 00:05:14,121 --> 00:05:15,601 Speaker 2: So in my head I was like, just quite, I 122 00:05:15,601 --> 00:05:18,041 Speaker 2: didn't What would that feel like? What does it feel 123 00:05:18,081 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 2: like to like just lay in your bed and watch 124 00:05:19,721 --> 00:05:22,041 Speaker 2: Netflix on a show that you really want to watch? 125 00:05:22,121 --> 00:05:25,841 Speaker 1: Can you imagine just put this out there? Can you 126 00:05:25,921 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: imagine sleeping in on a weekend day and just watching movies. 127 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:35,641 Speaker 3: Like staying in your pajamas. All yeah, imagine it. Done that. 128 00:05:35,721 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 3: I mean I have to be literally dying in a hospital. 129 00:05:38,761 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, do that. 130 00:05:40,641 --> 00:05:42,641 Speaker 1: I can't remember the last time I did it. Imagine 131 00:05:42,641 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: the guilt. I would guilt myself for the fuck up. 132 00:05:47,001 --> 00:05:48,881 Speaker 1: There's so much you could have done untill. 133 00:05:48,761 --> 00:05:51,921 Speaker 3: Days missed the whole day. I'm the worst. Also when 134 00:05:51,921 --> 00:05:55,001 Speaker 3: you're traveling and like, I've done that before. Got to 135 00:05:55,521 --> 00:05:59,041 Speaker 3: New York for a trip. Miss my alarm. 136 00:06:00,161 --> 00:06:02,681 Speaker 2: I slept until two thirty pm on the first day 137 00:06:02,681 --> 00:06:03,521 Speaker 2: of being in New York. 138 00:06:04,081 --> 00:06:06,641 Speaker 3: I got up. I was into Yeah, I miss that's 139 00:06:06,761 --> 00:06:09,001 Speaker 3: jet Like I missed half of my day. I've missed. 140 00:06:09,041 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 3: It's two thirty pm. I missed the day. 141 00:06:11,201 --> 00:06:13,481 Speaker 2: I'm wasted a whole day of being at New York. 142 00:06:13,521 --> 00:06:16,081 Speaker 2: I was devastated, Katie. He cried, and then I got 143 00:06:16,081 --> 00:06:18,921 Speaker 2: over it because you carry on with your day. Another 144 00:06:19,001 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 2: one that made you lol. 145 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:23,121 Speaker 3: It's just too loud in here. I say it all 146 00:06:23,161 --> 00:06:23,561 Speaker 3: the time. 147 00:06:23,961 --> 00:06:26,881 Speaker 1: It is too loud in here, and especially when you've 148 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: got teenage children like I have. My house comes alive 149 00:06:30,481 --> 00:06:33,241 Speaker 1: at like nine pm when I want to wrap it 150 00:06:33,361 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: up and start thinking about going to bed. The house 151 00:06:36,201 --> 00:06:39,521 Speaker 1: it gets noisy. There's music on, Yeah, there's people talking. 152 00:06:39,601 --> 00:06:40,121 Speaker 3: They want to. 153 00:06:40,081 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: Come down tell me about the whole day. At like 154 00:06:42,081 --> 00:06:45,481 Speaker 1: ten pm, I'm like, it's too loud. 155 00:06:45,201 --> 00:06:48,361 Speaker 2: In here, it's too busy, and that's so bad because 156 00:06:48,401 --> 00:06:51,041 Speaker 2: you're like, I just I want to switch off. I 157 00:06:51,081 --> 00:06:54,401 Speaker 2: care about you and I care about your day, but 158 00:06:54,481 --> 00:06:56,601 Speaker 2: just not at ten o'clock at night, Like you're not 159 00:06:56,641 --> 00:06:59,881 Speaker 2: going to get me going here at the solutions I've 160 00:06:59,921 --> 00:07:02,161 Speaker 2: come up with you to deal with that girl tomorrow 161 00:07:02,241 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: at school at ten pm. 162 00:07:03,841 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 3: No, I can't. 163 00:07:06,761 --> 00:07:10,881 Speaker 2: So I do it when the TV is on in 164 00:07:10,921 --> 00:07:13,561 Speaker 2: the background, and I'm guilty of it. I turn the 165 00:07:13,601 --> 00:07:16,241 Speaker 2: TV on a lot in the background when I'm cooking dinner. 166 00:07:16,281 --> 00:07:19,201 Speaker 3: I've owned this. Is it good for you? Is it not? No, 167 00:07:19,361 --> 00:07:20,121 Speaker 3: I don't know. 168 00:07:20,401 --> 00:07:23,201 Speaker 2: But at the same time, that background just white noise, 169 00:07:23,361 --> 00:07:25,641 Speaker 2: Like I get lonely. It's lonely when the kids are 170 00:07:25,681 --> 00:07:27,641 Speaker 2: doing their own thing and there, you know, in the 171 00:07:27,681 --> 00:07:30,321 Speaker 2: movie room or whatever, and then you're cooking dinner and 172 00:07:30,361 --> 00:07:33,761 Speaker 2: you're just like talking to the fucking plant behind the stove, 173 00:07:33,881 --> 00:07:37,361 Speaker 2: Like it gets boring. But at the same time, when 174 00:07:37,361 --> 00:07:40,201 Speaker 2: the ad flicks on and it's blaring, and you're like. 175 00:07:40,681 --> 00:07:43,681 Speaker 3: What so loud? Turn the TV down. You only get 176 00:07:43,721 --> 00:07:44,481 Speaker 3: yourself to blame. 177 00:07:44,521 --> 00:07:47,881 Speaker 1: You're like, I do the same thing that dinner time. 178 00:07:47,961 --> 00:07:51,081 Speaker 1: I turn the TV on too, because it feels like 179 00:07:52,161 --> 00:07:56,721 Speaker 1: there's people in that same feeling. It feels lonely when 180 00:07:56,881 --> 00:07:58,721 Speaker 1: you don't have some sort of hum on in the back. 181 00:07:58,841 --> 00:08:00,121 Speaker 3: I'm not even listening. I'm not here. 182 00:08:00,201 --> 00:08:02,641 Speaker 2: That's what my mom goes. Oh, you should be ashamed 183 00:08:02,641 --> 00:08:05,561 Speaker 2: of yourself watching this news. It's just generic news. And 184 00:08:05,601 --> 00:08:07,521 Speaker 2: I was like, I have no fucking idea what they're 185 00:08:07,521 --> 00:08:10,361 Speaker 2: talking about. No, it's just background. I'm not actually paying attention. 186 00:08:10,481 --> 00:08:11,481 Speaker 2: I'm not invested. 187 00:08:12,001 --> 00:08:12,721 Speaker 3: It's just noise. 188 00:08:13,081 --> 00:08:13,361 Speaker 1: Yeah. 189 00:08:13,481 --> 00:08:15,801 Speaker 2: But then sometimes it just gets a little bit too much, 190 00:08:15,801 --> 00:08:18,321 Speaker 2: and I hear myself make that comment of like it's 191 00:08:18,321 --> 00:08:19,281 Speaker 2: just too loud in here. 192 00:08:19,321 --> 00:08:21,801 Speaker 1: I do it in the car too, when one's trying 193 00:08:21,801 --> 00:08:23,361 Speaker 1: to tell me a story, the other one's trying to 194 00:08:23,561 --> 00:08:25,681 Speaker 1: finish their story, I'm like, it's too loud in here. 195 00:08:26,121 --> 00:08:28,441 Speaker 1: I was a person Rache that would have my music 196 00:08:28,561 --> 00:08:29,521 Speaker 1: on full blast. 197 00:08:30,161 --> 00:08:31,881 Speaker 3: I now when. 198 00:08:31,721 --> 00:08:33,801 Speaker 1: Someone's talking or telling a story in the carture and 199 00:08:33,841 --> 00:08:36,601 Speaker 1: turn it right down. Oh, I can't have that and 200 00:08:36,641 --> 00:08:38,361 Speaker 1: that happening at the same time, or you. 201 00:08:38,401 --> 00:08:40,761 Speaker 2: Forget and then you go, I'm just going to reverse 202 00:08:40,801 --> 00:08:43,001 Speaker 2: into this park. Do you turn the radio down while 203 00:08:43,001 --> 00:08:44,001 Speaker 2: you're reversing your debut? 204 00:08:44,241 --> 00:08:45,121 Speaker 3: I'm not there yet. 205 00:08:45,241 --> 00:08:49,241 Speaker 1: I am not Does day can't have anybody talking? Well, 206 00:08:49,321 --> 00:08:52,641 Speaker 1: he's trying to concentrate on parking. I think, why does 207 00:08:53,121 --> 00:08:59,161 Speaker 1: Why does talking stop your eyesight when you're driving. One 208 00:08:59,201 --> 00:09:01,481 Speaker 1: of the other things that I say all the time 209 00:09:01,561 --> 00:09:02,521 Speaker 1: is I'm not paying for that. 210 00:09:03,001 --> 00:09:04,761 Speaker 3: I'm not paying for that. What don't you pay for 211 00:09:05,041 --> 00:09:06,281 Speaker 3: I don't like paying for parking. 212 00:09:06,881 --> 00:09:10,561 Speaker 2: No one likes paying for parking, especially when you live 213 00:09:10,601 --> 00:09:12,721 Speaker 2: in Brisbane. Because I think we're up there with the 214 00:09:12,841 --> 00:09:17,001 Speaker 2: highest parking rate in like the world. Well I think 215 00:09:17,001 --> 00:09:20,081 Speaker 2: we're actually number three. Like it's crazy to park. 216 00:09:19,841 --> 00:09:20,401 Speaker 3: In the city. 217 00:09:21,001 --> 00:09:24,001 Speaker 2: Is nearly up to seventy five dollars a day or 218 00:09:24,041 --> 00:09:26,281 Speaker 2: something in some places, not all. 219 00:09:26,401 --> 00:09:28,921 Speaker 1: If I do need to park in the city, if 220 00:09:29,001 --> 00:09:31,321 Speaker 1: I'm organized enough, you can book it online the day 221 00:09:31,321 --> 00:09:33,001 Speaker 1: before and it's a fraction of the price. 222 00:09:33,441 --> 00:09:35,001 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's still expensive. 223 00:09:35,681 --> 00:09:37,681 Speaker 1: I don't like paying for the tunnel. I don't like 224 00:09:37,681 --> 00:09:41,721 Speaker 1: paying tolls, and I do because it's my time worth 225 00:09:41,841 --> 00:09:43,481 Speaker 1: more than well. 226 00:09:43,521 --> 00:09:46,601 Speaker 2: Nowadays it's fuel feel so expensive that you go through 227 00:09:46,601 --> 00:09:48,601 Speaker 2: a tunnel and you like, am I weighing up paying 228 00:09:48,841 --> 00:09:50,841 Speaker 2: six dollars for this tunnel because I'm going to use 229 00:09:50,881 --> 00:09:53,601 Speaker 2: thirty dollars worth of fuel And you're like, oh. 230 00:09:53,481 --> 00:09:55,961 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's a good way. Will we know it 231 00:09:56,001 --> 00:09:58,241 Speaker 3: is expensive and then you have to weigh that up. 232 00:09:58,521 --> 00:10:03,881 Speaker 2: Mine is usually time because I am usually I fucking 233 00:10:03,921 --> 00:10:06,401 Speaker 2: love that go Between bridge. I reckon I've paid for 234 00:10:06,481 --> 00:10:08,601 Speaker 2: the go Between bridge with the amount of tolls that 235 00:10:08,641 --> 00:10:11,481 Speaker 2: have paid going out that cob Matrien Bridge because it 236 00:10:11,521 --> 00:10:13,481 Speaker 2: cuts off so much time, but not only that, the 237 00:10:13,601 --> 00:10:17,161 Speaker 2: location of it. It is just so much easier than 238 00:10:17,241 --> 00:10:20,201 Speaker 2: trying to wrangle your way around through Roma Street. 239 00:10:20,321 --> 00:10:24,521 Speaker 1: It's yeah, I don't like paying for bags, like paying 240 00:10:24,561 --> 00:10:27,921 Speaker 1: for shopping bags, because I am the person that has, 241 00:10:28,081 --> 00:10:31,921 Speaker 1: like many of us, the full boot full of bags 242 00:10:32,281 --> 00:10:34,401 Speaker 1: and then I go in and I forget to take 243 00:10:34,441 --> 00:10:37,561 Speaker 1: the bags or I'm doing something else and I go, oh, 244 00:10:37,681 --> 00:10:39,401 Speaker 1: just pop into the shop and get something. Oh shit, 245 00:10:39,441 --> 00:10:41,241 Speaker 1: I don't have any bags on me. And then I'm 246 00:10:41,241 --> 00:10:45,281 Speaker 1: buying another bag and I'm hating myself buying the bag 247 00:10:45,801 --> 00:10:47,761 Speaker 1: and it's like twenty cents. 248 00:10:47,481 --> 00:10:49,401 Speaker 2: And my girls make out all the time. Mum, why 249 00:10:49,401 --> 00:10:51,481 Speaker 2: have you got so many bags in the boot? That's 250 00:10:51,521 --> 00:10:53,241 Speaker 2: a great question because I keep buying them. 251 00:10:53,361 --> 00:10:57,241 Speaker 1: Wouldn't you love or not love for someone to add 252 00:10:57,321 --> 00:10:58,801 Speaker 1: up how much you've spent on bag? 253 00:10:58,881 --> 00:11:00,881 Speaker 3: No, I don't want to know that. 254 00:11:01,001 --> 00:11:03,281 Speaker 1: Remember the days where we actually just had They just 255 00:11:03,361 --> 00:11:06,561 Speaker 1: gave you a plastic bag. I mean, not good for 256 00:11:06,601 --> 00:11:08,681 Speaker 1: the environment whatever buying so many. 257 00:11:08,481 --> 00:11:09,961 Speaker 3: When you get a bicyc bag and now you're like 258 00:11:10,201 --> 00:11:10,961 Speaker 3: my environment. 259 00:11:11,401 --> 00:11:17,201 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm the person that will carry out my groceries 260 00:11:18,001 --> 00:11:23,241 Speaker 1: in my arms, and I've got like cana tuna under 261 00:11:23,281 --> 00:11:26,241 Speaker 1: my chin, and I'm balancing it because I'm thinking I 262 00:11:26,241 --> 00:11:29,081 Speaker 1: don't want to pay another fifteen cents for another bag. 263 00:11:29,201 --> 00:11:32,481 Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself, it's fifteen cents, fucking idiot bag, 264 00:11:32,481 --> 00:11:33,481 Speaker 1: because you're gonna do worse. 265 00:11:33,401 --> 00:11:36,641 Speaker 3: When you fucking drop it and everyone's laughing at you sense. 266 00:11:36,521 --> 00:11:41,361 Speaker 1: Carrying out your groceries, or or if it's a big shop, 267 00:11:41,601 --> 00:11:45,121 Speaker 1: I put it all back in the truckually and then 268 00:11:45,201 --> 00:11:47,001 Speaker 1: I get to the boot, I can put it out. 269 00:11:46,881 --> 00:11:47,281 Speaker 3: In the bag. 270 00:11:47,321 --> 00:11:50,121 Speaker 2: You're shopping at aldi, I might as well throw your 271 00:11:50,161 --> 00:11:53,201 Speaker 2: products from where they swipe it into the trolley, because 272 00:11:53,201 --> 00:11:54,761 Speaker 2: that's how fast they're swiping it down. 273 00:11:54,641 --> 00:11:56,961 Speaker 1: In Aldi is not good for me anymore because of 274 00:11:57,001 --> 00:11:57,961 Speaker 1: the special buys. 275 00:11:58,121 --> 00:12:01,001 Speaker 3: Because I will gut it. I'm good for my personal. 276 00:12:00,881 --> 00:12:02,801 Speaker 1: I will go in for dinner, and you know what 277 00:12:02,841 --> 00:12:04,481 Speaker 1: I came out with the other day. I needed to 278 00:12:04,481 --> 00:12:06,801 Speaker 1: get dinner. I went in and got dinner stuff, I 279 00:12:06,841 --> 00:12:09,081 Speaker 1: got lunchbox stuff. I came out with an ottoman. 280 00:12:12,881 --> 00:12:14,201 Speaker 3: Don't you're me wrong? I love it. 281 00:12:14,681 --> 00:12:17,001 Speaker 1: But an I was like, I didn't come in for 282 00:12:17,041 --> 00:12:23,521 Speaker 1: an ottoman. That's the problem with Aldi. 283 00:12:25,161 --> 00:12:30,321 Speaker 2: I've never gone in and bought an ottoman. It was nice, right, 284 00:12:31,601 --> 00:12:35,361 Speaker 2: reasonably Skiker I lined up for skegeer from Aldi because 285 00:12:35,401 --> 00:12:37,321 Speaker 2: everyone was telling me how good it is, and it's 286 00:12:37,361 --> 00:12:41,161 Speaker 2: like European quality and YadA YadA, it really is. It's lasted, 287 00:12:41,201 --> 00:12:44,401 Speaker 2: the distance been wonderful and the pricing was so good. 288 00:12:44,481 --> 00:12:48,161 Speaker 2: But yeah, no, no ottoman purchases for me. I'll just 289 00:12:48,161 --> 00:12:50,201 Speaker 2: grab the chicken wings and an ottoman please. 290 00:12:52,321 --> 00:12:55,361 Speaker 1: Honestly, I had a real chuckle to myself as I 291 00:12:55,401 --> 00:12:58,921 Speaker 1: was carrying out the ottoman in the Saturday afternoon. 292 00:12:59,401 --> 00:13:03,481 Speaker 3: Oh grabbed debris the biggies, Yeah, some prosudo, Yeah, that'd 293 00:13:03,481 --> 00:13:03,721 Speaker 3: be good. 294 00:13:03,721 --> 00:13:07,041 Speaker 2: And the Ottoman thanks, what the fuck are you going 295 00:13:07,041 --> 00:13:09,401 Speaker 2: home to suit on your ottoment to eat your cheese board? 296 00:13:09,521 --> 00:13:10,361 Speaker 3: What do it have? 297 00:13:10,601 --> 00:13:14,721 Speaker 1: So many unnecessary purchases that day I bought the Nando's 298 00:13:14,881 --> 00:13:20,761 Speaker 1: Perry Perry sauce the Ottament very nickers. Also, I'm the 299 00:13:20,801 --> 00:13:25,721 Speaker 1: person that stops there for a whole while and thinks, 300 00:13:26,041 --> 00:13:30,521 Speaker 1: do I need this avocado slicer or can I just 301 00:13:30,801 --> 00:13:34,081 Speaker 1: use a normal knife like I've done my whole life. 302 00:13:35,161 --> 00:13:38,721 Speaker 3: I think I need the avocado slicer. Look at it, 303 00:13:38,161 --> 00:13:39,601 Speaker 3: it makes it perfect. 304 00:13:39,761 --> 00:13:43,881 Speaker 2: You're throwing it out because you're so irritated that it 305 00:13:43,921 --> 00:13:46,721 Speaker 2: didn't work like the packaging said that it was gonna work. 306 00:13:47,161 --> 00:13:49,841 Speaker 1: Every avocado is different, and I'm just finding myself using 307 00:13:49,841 --> 00:13:54,441 Speaker 1: a knife like I always have done. Yeah, paying for stuff, 308 00:13:54,601 --> 00:13:57,241 Speaker 1: it's funny because I really am that person who I 309 00:13:57,321 --> 00:14:01,761 Speaker 1: don't mind spending on certain quality. There's certain brands of 310 00:14:01,801 --> 00:14:04,521 Speaker 1: food that I really love. I'm perfectly fine to buy 311 00:14:04,601 --> 00:14:06,961 Speaker 1: home brands and on some stuff, but there are some 312 00:14:07,001 --> 00:14:10,001 Speaker 1: stuff that I'm like, don't substitute that, no. 313 00:14:09,841 --> 00:14:12,641 Speaker 2: Doubt, no, no, no, because no one I don't substitute anything 314 00:14:12,681 --> 00:14:14,761 Speaker 2: because you don't know what the person that's putting it in. 315 00:14:14,841 --> 00:14:16,761 Speaker 3: What they're what they're thinking, what they're thinking. 316 00:14:16,921 --> 00:14:20,321 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to not taking anything away from 317 00:14:20,321 --> 00:14:24,401 Speaker 2: like Wooley's Packers, but I don't know what your brand 318 00:14:24,481 --> 00:14:27,401 Speaker 2: substitute is going to be before what I've purchased, like 319 00:14:27,561 --> 00:14:30,481 Speaker 2: free range chicken. Let's use that as an example. If 320 00:14:30,481 --> 00:14:33,641 Speaker 2: I've ordered free range chicken, I don't want you substituting 321 00:14:33,681 --> 00:14:36,841 Speaker 2: me with normal chicken. Yeah, because there's a purpose of 322 00:14:36,881 --> 00:14:38,321 Speaker 2: why you're purchasing one for the other. 323 00:14:39,401 --> 00:14:42,721 Speaker 1: But there are certain things which makes me laugh. The 324 00:14:42,761 --> 00:14:46,401 Speaker 1: bag things a great example. Fifteen cents, Like you think 325 00:14:46,441 --> 00:14:48,121 Speaker 1: of some of the things you've spent your money on 326 00:14:48,161 --> 00:14:51,681 Speaker 1: in your time. Fifteen cents. I'm absolutely not buying a bag. 327 00:14:51,881 --> 00:14:55,321 Speaker 2: Yeah, just on the bag sitch. I think most people 328 00:14:55,401 --> 00:14:59,361 Speaker 2: boycotted our local Drake's Ida. I think as it's called 329 00:14:59,401 --> 00:15:03,161 Speaker 2: Local Drake's Ida because the bags were costing us like 330 00:15:03,441 --> 00:15:06,641 Speaker 2: twenty cents or fifteen cents. But every time you put 331 00:15:06,681 --> 00:15:09,441 Speaker 2: like four things in it, it would fucking split as 332 00:15:09,441 --> 00:15:11,401 Speaker 2: you walk out the door. And it ended up getting 333 00:15:11,401 --> 00:15:14,921 Speaker 2: to the point where everyone was like, nut your bags 334 00:15:15,081 --> 00:15:18,241 Speaker 2: that's shit. So embarrassing when you're walking out and you've 335 00:15:18,241 --> 00:15:20,241 Speaker 2: got four things and they've gone all over the floor. 336 00:15:20,401 --> 00:15:23,841 Speaker 1: Yeah, I will drive an extra ten kilometers to go somewhere. 337 00:15:23,761 --> 00:15:25,481 Speaker 3: While we're boycotting your bags. 338 00:15:25,601 --> 00:15:28,001 Speaker 2: Boycotting your bags, no one is ever going to purchase 339 00:15:28,041 --> 00:15:30,401 Speaker 2: another bag from there. And I think they did change 340 00:15:30,441 --> 00:15:33,441 Speaker 2: it because there was so many complaints and they're the 341 00:15:33,441 --> 00:15:35,081 Speaker 2: ones that going to try and like, you know, you 342 00:15:35,121 --> 00:15:37,161 Speaker 2: imagine buying a jar of stuff and you just get 343 00:15:37,161 --> 00:15:40,201 Speaker 2: out and it goes straight through the floorm. You're going 344 00:15:40,281 --> 00:15:45,401 Speaker 2: to be changing that over. I hate paying for bad service. 345 00:15:45,921 --> 00:15:48,521 Speaker 2: I don't say anything. I'm not that Karen that goes 346 00:15:48,561 --> 00:15:50,721 Speaker 2: out and like makes a point of going, oh, that 347 00:15:50,801 --> 00:15:53,441 Speaker 2: was such bad service, Like I don't I don't put 348 00:15:53,441 --> 00:15:55,281 Speaker 2: it online, don't do anything like that. 349 00:15:55,841 --> 00:15:59,001 Speaker 3: Might not go back, yeah, if it's that bad. 350 00:15:59,081 --> 00:16:01,081 Speaker 2: But otherwise, you know, like they stand there and they 351 00:16:01,121 --> 00:16:03,761 Speaker 2: expect a tip the whole like put the dollar amount 352 00:16:03,841 --> 00:16:06,041 Speaker 2: into the f POS machine and then pet there in 353 00:16:06,081 --> 00:16:08,881 Speaker 2: front of you whilst they're standing there, or. 354 00:16:08,761 --> 00:16:11,161 Speaker 1: They say would you like to leave a tip? And 355 00:16:11,201 --> 00:16:14,361 Speaker 1: you then have to have the awkward moment of going. 356 00:16:14,161 --> 00:16:17,201 Speaker 2: No, no, thinks I've just paid forty five different tips 357 00:16:17,241 --> 00:16:18,041 Speaker 2: on this which. 358 00:16:18,041 --> 00:16:22,001 Speaker 1: I do not tip in Australia unless it's outstanding because 359 00:16:22,121 --> 00:16:23,161 Speaker 1: the food's expensive. 360 00:16:23,441 --> 00:16:26,961 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but like some people are really fucking 361 00:16:27,001 --> 00:16:28,441 Speaker 2: good at their jobs. 362 00:16:28,201 --> 00:16:30,041 Speaker 1: Well the employers should pay the more. 363 00:16:30,961 --> 00:16:32,521 Speaker 3: I do think that. I agree. 364 00:16:32,681 --> 00:16:36,361 Speaker 1: They they do get paid well, get paid. This is 365 00:16:36,361 --> 00:16:39,881 Speaker 1: not like America is different. Yeah, they get paid well 366 00:16:39,961 --> 00:16:43,601 Speaker 1: in Australia. And I do think that if a restaurant 367 00:16:43,641 --> 00:16:48,081 Speaker 1: is charging that much for food, particularly a nice expensive restaurant, 368 00:16:48,361 --> 00:16:51,161 Speaker 1: they're charging that much for food, they can tip their 369 00:16:51,201 --> 00:16:53,961 Speaker 1: staff for doing a good joke. Why should I be 370 00:16:54,041 --> 00:16:56,601 Speaker 1: paying that much money for food and then. 371 00:16:56,521 --> 00:16:58,721 Speaker 3: Tipping on top of that. Yeah, I agree. 372 00:16:58,801 --> 00:16:59,921 Speaker 1: I don't like tipping either. 373 00:17:00,201 --> 00:17:03,001 Speaker 3: Me neither. I don't go out very much likely. 374 00:17:03,081 --> 00:17:05,801 Speaker 1: Is there anything else that we say that we'd never thought. 375 00:17:05,921 --> 00:17:07,721 Speaker 1: I say to my kids all the time, money doesn't 376 00:17:07,721 --> 00:17:08,400 Speaker 1: grow on trees. 377 00:17:08,641 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 2: I have had to pull myself up and go like, 378 00:17:11,521 --> 00:17:13,681 Speaker 2: I've made a comment a few times and it kind 379 00:17:13,681 --> 00:17:15,521 Speaker 2: of a gives me the ick about myself. 380 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:17,201 Speaker 3: And then the other. 381 00:17:17,041 --> 00:17:19,561 Speaker 2: Part of it is you can't keep comparing because times 382 00:17:19,561 --> 00:17:22,241 Speaker 2: have changed, Rachel. But I do the whole like back 383 00:17:22,281 --> 00:17:24,881 Speaker 2: in my day, yeah, back in my day, we were 384 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:28,241 Speaker 2: doing this. Yeah, back in my day, and I. 385 00:17:28,441 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 3: Go, it's not your day. Stop referring to that. I say, 386 00:17:32,801 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 3: think it's a change. Now things are different. 387 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,681 Speaker 1: I say, you should think yourself lucky because I had 388 00:17:37,681 --> 00:17:40,041 Speaker 1: to do this. Yeah, my mom didn't come and pick 389 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:42,961 Speaker 1: me up. Yeah school as soon as school finished, I 390 00:17:43,041 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 1: had to walk half an hour, catch two buses. 391 00:17:46,961 --> 00:17:49,120 Speaker 2: And some of the stories that Luke and I still 392 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:50,881 Speaker 2: have from those days that we had to walk ten 393 00:17:50,961 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 2: gays to get home up there with some of the 394 00:17:52,721 --> 00:17:56,121 Speaker 2: funniest stories in our childhood. But at the same time, yeah, 395 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:58,481 Speaker 2: I make my girls very aware that, you know, back 396 00:17:58,521 --> 00:18:00,160 Speaker 2: in my day I had to catch a bus and 397 00:18:00,201 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 2: then walk ten k and I still had fun, But 398 00:18:03,521 --> 00:18:06,041 Speaker 2: I also didn't have forty five four different things on 399 00:18:06,201 --> 00:18:08,441 Speaker 2: after school now that my mum was driving me to. 400 00:18:08,521 --> 00:18:11,481 Speaker 1: You're privileged, that's another one. That's another thing I say 401 00:18:11,481 --> 00:18:11,921 Speaker 1: all the time. 402 00:18:12,001 --> 00:18:14,001 Speaker 2: That one is like yeah, but then I feel like 403 00:18:14,321 --> 00:18:16,441 Speaker 2: it's a double whammy because you're like, you're a privileged 404 00:18:16,441 --> 00:18:18,761 Speaker 2: little sod, but at the same time, you're the fuck 405 00:18:18,801 --> 00:18:20,321 Speaker 2: it that keeps making them privilege. 406 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I. 407 00:18:22,441 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 2: Know, so you're like that, Oh, I can't say that 408 00:18:25,241 --> 00:18:30,001 Speaker 2: anymore because I'm the one that is continuing that. Yeah, anyway, 409 00:18:30,041 --> 00:18:33,281 Speaker 2: on that note wrapping it, didn't think we'd ever get 410 00:18:33,321 --> 00:18:36,640 Speaker 2: to the point of saying, let's see early because of 411 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 2: the tropic don't even go out. 412 00:18:39,241 --> 00:18:41,441 Speaker 3: Don't believe that I've owned it, but I like that. 413 00:18:41,801 --> 00:18:44,681 Speaker 2: I'm also that other person that's always like the smoke brob, 414 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:47,400 Speaker 2: so people they just don't expect anything more from me. 415 00:18:47,521 --> 00:18:49,001 Speaker 3: So it's kind of a right. I do know that 416 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 3: about you. Yeah, where's Rachel going? She's gone. She's gone. 417 00:18:53,001 --> 00:18:55,441 Speaker 3: Didn't even say goodbye. Yep, I'm out of here.