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Speaker 1: With Kate Richie podcast. I want to talk about love.

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Speaker 2: Go on.

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Speaker 1: Don't we all love?

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Speaker 3: Love?

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Speaker 1: And you know what? I also love? This is hilarious

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Speaker 1: when people investigate their partner or they start snooping on

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Speaker 1: their partner.

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Speaker 4: It's not a good sign, is it.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not. It's I find it intriguing because I

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Speaker 1: you could get away with anything. No, because I don't

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Speaker 1: have the skill set.

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Speaker 2: You've never you've never done anything.

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Speaker 4: You're on Cops La see I thought you were a grade.

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Speaker 1: Detective Samantha Cooper. You remember one of your favorite characters

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Speaker 1: on Australian TV. I know, so give us a call

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Speaker 1: thirteen twenty four ten and tell us the lengths that

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Speaker 1: you have gone to snoop into your you know, your partner,

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Speaker 1: what they might be doing behind your back? Done by

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Speaker 1: Major Investigation Drive by.

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Speaker 2: No, never looked at a partner's phone.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I would have, but I don't. I actually

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Speaker 1: think it's a very slippery slope. You can't because then

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Speaker 1: you get in your own head and then you start

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Speaker 1: creating things that don't even really exist, and then you

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Speaker 1: doubt you're Oh my goodness, it's never Indeed.

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Speaker 3: You remember we did this on air but remember we

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Speaker 3: we I found out BEJ was catching up with the girls,

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Speaker 3: the mums stand at a local cafe. And remember we

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Speaker 3: set up cameras and I rang her and she she

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Speaker 3: screened me.

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Speaker 2: She icknowed, oh.

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Speaker 1: She ignored the phone call?

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Speaker 2: Did she wasn't great day for shits.

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Speaker 1: That's actually hilarious. But I don't think you're allowed to

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Speaker 1: set up cameras.

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Speaker 5: Well.

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Speaker 3: It's but see then you when you ring again, you

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Speaker 3: think that's an emergency.

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Speaker 4: She didn't pick up again. It was twice she didn't

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Speaker 4: pick up, which was a.

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Speaker 1: Weird having an affair. We're talking about this because there's

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Speaker 1: a there's a a TikTok. It's gone, it's gone viral,

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Speaker 1: and that's what this woman has said. Come on, this

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Speaker 1: is how far I've gone to investigate my partner. I

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Speaker 1: want to hear from you. And the comments have come

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Speaker 1: through thick and fuss more. You're going to love them.

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Speaker 1: Thirteen twenty four ten if you've got anything to compare

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Speaker 1: to these. Okay, this woman called McDonald's as if I

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Speaker 1: want to order food under his phone number. I told

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Speaker 1: them that's my second number that has the address saved,

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Speaker 1: and they gave me lists of the saved addresses to

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Speaker 1: choose delivery to, so you're getting extra addresses. This woman, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to read them. Faked a credit check

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Speaker 1: in his name to find out how much debt he

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Speaker 1: was in.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's interesting.

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Speaker 1: How about this check live traffic jams in the area

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Speaker 1: he was in to see where he was going. So

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Speaker 1: this woman's like following the car. Oh my god. How

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Speaker 1: about this saw his car parked in an apartment building,

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Speaker 1: so I pulled the fire alarm to see who he

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Speaker 1: came down with.

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Speaker 4: Ah, oh, this is this is crazy.

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Speaker 1: This changed his ex's contact This is actually my favorite.

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Speaker 1: Changed his ex's contact info to her best friend's phone number,

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Speaker 1: so that if he ever reached out, it would be

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Speaker 1: my friend and she would alert me. If he's extraordinary

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Speaker 1: reached out to the X, that text message would go

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Speaker 1: directly to her best friend. That's a maaze.

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Speaker 2: That is really good, isn't it?

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Speaker 4: That is really good. I'm doing it as we speak.

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Speaker 2: Anymore?

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Speaker 4: Hurry up, but I think Beja's coming back.

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Speaker 1: Okay, one more, one more call his phone company, pretending

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Speaker 1: to be his accountant to get the past years breakdown

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Speaker 1: of calls and texts. Safe to say she got them

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Speaker 1: emailed straight to her within twenty minute.

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Speaker 3: God, Alisha in Horsley Park, did you investigate your partner?

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Speaker 4: Did it nearly backfire on you? Alisha?

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Speaker 5: Okay, so it wasn't nearly backfire. It completely blew up

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Speaker 5: in my face.

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Speaker 6: Oh no.

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Speaker 5: So I had a friend of mine. I used to

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Speaker 5: be with the circus and I had a friend of

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Speaker 5: mine who I said, Hey, can you go to this circus?

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Speaker 5: She got a job there. I was like, fantastic. IAU

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Speaker 5: said he needed to. I need to just file my

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Speaker 5: partner at the time. It's now my ex obviously, and

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Speaker 5: she was like, yep, no worries. You know this happened.

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Speaker 5: This went on for about a year and a half,

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Speaker 5: and I thought, I said, okay, she used to like

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Speaker 5: report back to me with things that were happened. Was

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Speaker 5: happening like women he was getting with, and then it

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Speaker 5: all stopped. Then six months later I find out they're

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Speaker 5: getting married.

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Speaker 4: Was the one cheating on you?

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Speaker 6: The one?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 5: And I had no idea until I found out. He

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Speaker 5: messaged me he said, hey, look such and such and

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Speaker 5: I getting married, And I'm like, what the.

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Speaker 2: Heck, isn't that wild?

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Speaker 1: So she made you guys break up so she could

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Speaker 1: have him all to herself.

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Speaker 5: She did, and now they've got a child together. They're

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Speaker 5: married and could be honest, I'm happy for them. He's

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Speaker 5: still my family, but at the end of the day,

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Speaker 5: I needed to do what was right for me my kids.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, I get it.

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Speaker 2: It great story.

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Speaker 1: Can I just tell you one more before we go?

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Speaker 1: As a bit of an incentive, brought my playboy X

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Speaker 1: to my female friend's houses to see if his phone

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Speaker 1: connected to their Wi Fi house and it's what it does.

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Speaker 1: We are taking new calls. But can I just tell

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Speaker 1: you another couple. They're brilliant. This woman spent over three

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Speaker 1: hundred pounds on Uber, following him and his friends the

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Speaker 1: entire night. Me and the Yuba driver are now good friends.

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Speaker 1: And this one, I mean and this would be so

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Speaker 1: nerve wracking. And just imagine, just picture this, how fast

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Speaker 1: your heart would be beating. Used his fingerprint to unlock

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Speaker 1: his phone while he was sleeping, adding my fingerprint, then

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Speaker 1: going through everything while he was while he was gone

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Oh how about this? Okay, Oh my goodness,

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Speaker 1: this is amazing. How my friend get a job at

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Speaker 1: his local pizza joint, so she could do pizza deliveries

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Speaker 1: to his house to see if he was indeed alone.

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Speaker 6: It was.

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Speaker 2: That is magical.

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Speaker 4: It's a lot of effort.

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Speaker 1: It is a lot of effort.

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Speaker 2: Reagan and Marobra, Hello, Hi, how.

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Speaker 6: Are you going? Didn't quite go to those leaves. But

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Speaker 6: I was really really suspicious of an ex boyfriend, and

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Speaker 6: I went snooping and found a little black book that

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Speaker 6: he kept, and he sillily wrote everything down in this

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Speaker 6: little black book. And I couldn't believe it. So I

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Speaker 6: got revenge instead. I oiled his surfboards, I put Denko

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Speaker 6: rub in his underwear. I washed his toothbrush down the toilette,

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Speaker 6: and I threw all of his belongings over the balcony

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Speaker 6: and changed the lock on the door.

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Speaker 1: Oh so fun.

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Speaker 4: I don't mind that.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what the saddest part about that is?

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Speaker 2: I hope you got to see you Did you see

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Speaker 2: the reaction of the danker rub in the undies, because

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Speaker 2: without that certainly did.

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Speaker 3: Actually, Oh, that's really painful.

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Speaker 2: I do it.

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Speaker 3: I do it most days quite a lot, just to

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Speaker 3: get just to get a bit of a kindred of

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Speaker 3: the buzz.

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Speaker 2: Reagan, what was in the little black book? What did

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Speaker 2: you find out?

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Speaker 6: What all sorts of things, just who we'd been sleeping

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Speaker 6: with out with in the star? Does that?

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Speaker 4: Who does that?

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Speaker 3: There was?

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Speaker 4: Remember there was a guy that we knew who had

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Speaker 4: it in his phone.

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Speaker 3: He was He had videos that he'd recorded and just

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Speaker 3: kept for years, so he wouldn't forget all the ladies

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Speaker 3: that he was hooking up with.

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Speaker 4: Why would you have evidence in your phone if you're marry?

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Speaker 3: If you married, and I mean there was, why would

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Speaker 3: you do it in the first place?

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Speaker 1: It's less about keeping the evidence and recording somebody without

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Speaker 1: their knowledge is pretty foul and.

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Speaker 3: Testing Wesley, how far did you go test to investigate?

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Speaker 6: Well, my partner was a pilot and he used to

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Speaker 6: say that he was going on these jobs.

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Speaker 5: But when I looked up the flight, that flight didn't exist. No, No,

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Speaker 5: I found out he'd been lying to me all this time.

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Speaker 2: I got a flight of Germany on the weekend.

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Speaker 6: He's in Broken Hill for three days, but kept saying

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Speaker 6: he was going away, but of course he was having

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Speaker 6: an affair.

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Speaker 2: From you.

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Speaker 4: Was he an actual pilot though? Tested?

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Speaker 2: You find out he was the pilot And what happened

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Speaker 2: when you broke it to him that you were kind

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Speaker 2: of you'd caught on to what was happening.

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Speaker 6: He just denied it.

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Speaker 5: But of course there's proof of flight data.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there is now all the flight.

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Speaker 6: Arrivals and all the flight departures.

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Speaker 1: And messed with how many ladies?

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Speaker 3: How many ladies was he coming into land on? Tests?

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Speaker 6: No idea.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I want to know now.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to know the details that it was

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Speaker 1: happening too much mile high, you might say, Tess, Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 1: I've got one more. I just love this. And because

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Speaker 1: I love this stuff, because I wouldn't even think, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't even know how to do this time what I said,

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Speaker 1: drove to his house and connected my car to his

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Speaker 1: phone so I could go through his messages on car play.

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Speaker 2: Oh you need to part close enough to the living

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Speaker 2: room and it would connect.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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