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Speaker 1: This is the Fitting In with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about can I say the art of cheating?

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you're a cheater, there's obviously a craft

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Speaker 1: to getting away with it.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's an art. There's an art there.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you're artistic, though.

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Speaker 1: Well, you need to be clever, you need to be strategic.

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Speaker 2: You might say, well, I suppose some are better than others,

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Speaker 2: aren't they. So there is an art to doing it

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Speaker 2: better than other people.

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Speaker 1: If you're in a relationship. And I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: sat next to a friend the other day at dinner

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Speaker 1: and she's a little bit older than me, and she

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Speaker 1: was saying her friends that are in the age between

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Speaker 1: fifty fifty to fifty five is where she is seeing

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Speaker 1: people break up. And she's got ten couples that have

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Speaker 1: just broken up that she knows in her social world.

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Speaker 2: Ayala, she's not divorce lawyers doing very well.

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Speaker 1: Of course they've seen ten couples broke up. In fact,

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Speaker 1: they had fifteen on Monday. No, that's not what we're

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Speaker 1: looking at here. She's just saying in her social circle,

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Speaker 1: and I would suggest it's quite broad. If you've got

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Speaker 1: ten couples that have broken up recently, and it's just

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Speaker 1: because people change and they want different things. But when

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Speaker 1: it comes to cheating a lot of I was saying, well,

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Speaker 1: there's so much cheating going on, and she said, there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of people that have seemed to be having

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Speaker 1: affairs overseas. Okay, is that how it happens? Is that

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Speaker 1: what goes on until they don't care anymore and they

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Speaker 1: come out and say I don't want to be with you,

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Speaker 1: and my happier life is over there. Anyway, I've gone

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Speaker 1: off track there. Let's get back to how you cheat.

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Speaker 1: This was an interesting one because if you think about

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Speaker 1: how a lot of people get busted, and we've spoken

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Speaker 1: about this before on the show, did you get busted

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Speaker 1: using technology? Did technology dob you in? You know, if

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Speaker 1: your phone sinks with iPads and then a message comes

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Speaker 1: through and one of the kids is on it and

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Speaker 1: you run up to and say, what's this, Oh, don't

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Speaker 1: ask some get out of here, got some new lingerie.

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Speaker 2: Mum, that's amazing. That's not me, that's not mum, that's

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Speaker 2: not mum.

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Speaker 1: What you can do, and I had no idea about this,

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Speaker 1: is you can actually share your notes feature on your phone,

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Speaker 1: So where you would just make a note if you

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Speaker 1: were writing down what you had to get from the

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Speaker 1: corner store, you can actually share that with someone privately

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Speaker 1: and it goes to their notes instead of goes to

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Speaker 1: any of their other messages. Have a listen to this.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people worry about those secret messaging apps

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Speaker 3: or those calculators that hide secret photos, but what a

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Speaker 3: lot of people are using these days is much simpler

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Speaker 3: and much harder.

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Speaker 1: The spot.

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Speaker 3: It's the humble notes out. Yeah, that same place you

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Speaker 3: used to pop grocery lists and all those draft angry.

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Speaker 2: Texts your ex.

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Speaker 3: If you've got an iPhone, you can create a shared

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Speaker 3: note with someone else, put notes in there to each other,

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Speaker 3: delete them when you're done. You can even put a

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Speaker 3: password on it so no one else can access it.

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Speaker 2: Think about it.

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Speaker 3: A suspicious partner is probably going to check your text messages,

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Speaker 3: maybe even hop on Messenger, but they really going to

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Speaker 3: remember to go and check the notes out.

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Speaker 1: Think about it? Ok?

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Speaker 2: So then net they giving there's chips that you can

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Speaker 2: get on TikTok now on how to cheat? Is there overload?

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Speaker 1: So I mean she's obviously a serial cheat of that girl.

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Speaker 1: I mean she's sharing how you should be cheating in

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Speaker 1: relationships and the smartest way to cheat in relationships. Do

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Speaker 1: you know that?

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