1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:01,360 Speaker 1: Fits in with us. 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 2: We just wanted to speak to these two lovely young 3 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 2: ladies that we have on the line. 4 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: Now they're up in the Blue Mountains. 5 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 2: We've got Karen who is a single mum living with 6 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 2: her eight year old daughter Trinity, and they join us now. 7 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: Welcome lady show, Hi guys. We wanted to get you. 8 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,760 Speaker 2: On, Karen, because you are a trooper and absolute truper. 9 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 2: You've been doing it pretty tough lately. You've been having 10 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 2: a few seizures. You've got chronic kidney issues, and Trinity 11 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 2: is your little life saver. 12 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: Of this little girl sitting next to you, isn't she Karen? 13 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 3: She is, She's my little hero, my precious apple. 14 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 4: Karen, tell us about the condition you've got. 15 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 3: I've got two chronic kidney conditions in both kidneys, chronic 16 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 3: gloomin neuphritis and chronic polynuphritis. It's where the kidneys don't 17 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 3: feel too properly right. 18 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 4: How does that play out for you? 19 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 3: Rough times? I tell you? 20 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: So, what are you? 21 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: Are you in a lot of pain, Karen? Or is 22 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 2: it just the body shuts down? 23 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 3: Sometimes I can soldier on and then all of a sudden, yeah, 24 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 3: it's help. 25 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: So and You can't get a kidney replacement, can you, 26 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: because you've got to wait for your kidneys to basically 27 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 2: collapse before they can get the green light for that. 28 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 3: That's correct. I'm not even down to fifteen. 29 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 4: Percent, right, So when the kidneys hit a certain level, 30 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 4: you're an excruciating pain. 31 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 3: Oh horrific? So do whats than child bursts? 32 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god? 33 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 2: Is it hard seeing mum go through that pain? Sometimes? 34 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 5: Yes, it is hard to see. 35 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 3: Her go through it. 36 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: Can you tell me some occasions where you've walked in 37 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 2: and you thought or Mum might be in a little 38 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 2: bit of trouble? 39 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: Here? 40 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 5: Once was I was at my friend's house and Mam 41 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 5: was and she was in a bit of pain. Then 42 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 5: she ended up have thing to go to hospital? 43 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 4: Right, Okay, so you've called triple zero yourself. Haven't you 44 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 4: a little life savior? Trinity? 45 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: And do you know first day? Trinity? Have you been 46 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: taught first aid? 47 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 3: Yes? 48 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: Have you ever done that any of that on mum before? 49 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 5: Yes? CPR? 50 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: Have you done CPR on mum? Are you quite calm 51 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: with that now? Trinity? 52 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 2: Are you all right with that? Or do you still 53 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: freak out a bit when you see Mum like that? 54 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 5: I don't really freak out as much as I used to, 55 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 5: but I freak out a tiny bit. 56 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 4: Let's play on your mind. Also, what Trinity is going 57 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 4: through with the situation you're in. 58 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 3: It breaks my heart. Um, I wish that she never 59 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 3: went through it. I don't wish it on anybody. No 60 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 3: family and friends that have seen what goes on and 61 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 3: they feel so helpless that they can't help. 62 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: You must be so proud of her though, what she's. 63 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 2: Done over the years. 64 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 3: I am pink, like, what little eight year old we 65 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: do that for her? 66 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 5: Mum? 67 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 4: She really is a lifesaver. 68 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 1: You two look like best mates sitting there next to 69 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: each other. 70 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 4: Thieves, thick as thieves. 71 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 1: A trinity as well. 72 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:18,399 Speaker 2: There's a whisper going around that you're a pretty good 73 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 2: singer and dancing. 74 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: Is that true? 75 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 3: Yes? 76 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 2: There's also a whisper that you want to loarn guitar 77 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 2: at some stage as well. 78 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 1: Do you like the guitar? 79 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 5: Yes? 80 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: Oh? 81 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 4: Man, gosh. 82 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 2: Careen your story. And it's hard for you because you 83 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: are a single mum. You're renting out your place up 84 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 2: there in the Blue Mountains. You can't work, You're. 85 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: In this pain. 86 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 2: Trinity is your little life saver there as well. Girls, 87 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: we wanted to get you on today. We think it's 88 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 2: such a beautiful relationship that you have, and also we 89 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 2: wanted to say that we've got your back. We're going 90 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 2: to give you three thousand dollars to go on a 91 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: shopping spree. Go mad girls in the city. 92 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 3: Are you kidding me? 93 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: Trinity? 94 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 3: Goodness, we have got she's crying. 95 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: Trinity. 96 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 2: We're going to give you singing lessons with our very 97 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 2: talented barista Reagan here. 98 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: He's a performer in music teacher. He's going to give. 99 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 2: You singing lessons, and Trinity, we're going to get your 100 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 2: guitar lessons as well. 101 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. Oh she's crying. 102 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: Goy, she make it me cry? Now have you got 103 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: a guitar? 104 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 5: Trinity? 105 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 1: What does that mean to you? Yeah? 106 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 3: That's beautiful. Thank you so much. 107 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 4: It's a lot to take. 108 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 2: Well, Karen, we're going to give you even more upset 109 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 2: because we're also going to give you five thousand dollars 110 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 2: for your rent as well to help you out. 111 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 3: Oh you're kidding me? Oh my goodness, oh my. 112 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: Oh my. 113 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 4: Will you guys deserve a break. 114 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 3: She is such a miracle, Like we would told we 115 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 3: could never have children. And because of my kidneys, and 116 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 3: she's my little miracle. I only have one ovary and 117 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 3: to have her, you know, create her with one ovary 118 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 3: is a miracle in itself. 119 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: But she's all you need. 120 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 3: She's just like she's my rock, my sunshine, my little hero, 121 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 3: and I'd be so lost without her angel, such a 122 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 3: such a special bond that could never ever ever be broken. 123 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 1: For an eight year old, she is so mature for 124 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:35,039 Speaker 1: an eight year old. 125 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 2: I can't believe what she has seen and what she 126 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 2: has to go through. 127 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 3: It's horrific, it really is. And for her to be 128 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 3: so strong through everything that she goes through, she just 129 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 3: soldiers on. 130 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: What is What does mom mean to you? Trinity? 131 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, And we want to send you both and Grandma 132 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 2: and you're going to come into Sydney for a night 133 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 2: and start the QT Sydney. 134 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 1: We're going to give you breakfast and you guys would 135 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: get a trip away in. 136 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 2: Sydney because when's the last holiday that you had, Karens 137 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: we have. 138 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 3: We haven't had one for so so long. 139 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 4: This will be perfect. It's a beautiful hotel. 140 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 5: You know. 141 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 4: The good thing about coming into the city at this 142 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,239 Speaker 4: time of the year as well. 143 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: There's nobody around yourself. We're giving you the whole city yours. 144 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 4: It's a lovely spot called Sydney and it's for you. 145 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: And QT Sydney is magnificent. 146 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 2: We have to say a big thanks to them that 147 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 2: they're a quirky little designer boutique little hotel in the 148 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 2: city and you guys are going. 149 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: To love that. And we get bring We're bringing Grandma 150 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: inton't you we could. 151 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:53,799 Speaker 3: The other thing is Mum. She was here after Trinny 152 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 3: called Triple. 153 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 5: And last year she did over a thousand compressions on them. 154 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 3: She and Triny wanted to learn CPR after that. 155 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 2: Wow, Karen, we want you to keep your chin up 156 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: in Trinity. You're a little hero in our eyes. Enjoy 157 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: that weekend please because we love what you're doing. 158 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: And thanks for coming on the fit. 159 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 5: A quick question, Yeah, when is the. 160 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 2: You girls get you girls get to choose whatever weekend 161 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 2: you want to come. 162 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: Down and you want to go now, you get to choose. 163 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: You can choose. 164 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 2: You get to choose when you want to do it 165 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 2: and have a girls trip away. Okay, that's BEAUTI. 166 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: Love your girls. Thanks for coming on the show. 167 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 3: Thank you so much guys for everything 168 00:07:51,520 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: Your girls