WEBVTT - WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER CHEATING? 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:03.800 Matt, you are looking absolutely glowing today. What's your secret? 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:06.840 Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning myss 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:08.399 called Goldy B with two e's. 0:00:08.880 --> 0:00:10.959 I have to check it out. I've never heard of it. 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:12.959 Go to their instagram. 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:16.000 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:17.800 she How. 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:18.000 Do I put? 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:18.160 This? 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.320 Isn't a fan of my kissing. 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:23.960 Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. 0:00:24.040 --> 0:00:27.120 He's in a trash bit. He's non recyclable. Catching him mu. 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:29.600 I love being love. 0:00:29.960 --> 0:00:32.800 I love love. I knew you were going to think 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:35.400 you were secure. You're so not secure. 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:42.839 Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:48.240 things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:51.200 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:59.800 intimate details, advice, and much more. Good morning, Anna. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:03.800 Hello, the sun is shining. I'm feeling good. How are you? 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:06.720 I'm good. I'm feeling good as well. Actually you know 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:09.600 what I'm not. That's let's start off with my ick turnoff. 0:01:09.720 --> 0:01:11.560 Oh week, cat straight into it. 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:14.200 I am so My turn off is a couple of 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:18.640 weeks ago. I played flag football NFL flag football. You 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:20.200 know how much I love American football. 0:01:20.319 --> 0:01:22.120 You do, absolutely froth it. 0:01:22.360 --> 0:01:25.040 Love it. Got invited to play flag, which is a 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:28.800 how do you put it? It's a variation of NFL. 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:31.000 So it's all the same except you can't tackle. Yeah, 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:32.640 so you got to pull the flags off people. That's 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:33.280 technically the. 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:37.080 Tackle, right, it's like a bit more like you know. 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:40.560 Kid friendly, say yeah, say that did not stop me 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:46.000 from being so fucking sore. I have never felt so 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:47.639 sore in my life, my lower back. 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:51.400 So it's just not as fit as you used to be. 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:52.040 That's the thing. 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:55.280 Well, that is my that's my ick, is that we 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:58.720 are getting old. I'm now twenty nine, am I? No, 0:01:58.760 --> 0:02:03.240 I'm twenty eight. Sorry you're acting I'm twenty eight. Your 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:05.720 what are you know? Thirty one? Thirty one? 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:07.559 Thirty one and having some fun? 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:10.359 Well, everyone listenings like they're not old. They're not old, 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:13.320 or you might be listening going geez, that's old. 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:17.200 You know what's funny and interesting is I remember when 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.360 I was in my modeling days and I think I 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:23.280 was about twenty four and there was a girl who 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:26.399 I knew was older, and I remember saying, how old 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:28.880 are you? And she said to me, I'm thirty one, 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:32.800 and I remember thinking, geez, she's getting on. And I 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:35.839 remember actually saying to her, which is so offensive now 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:37.560 as a thirty one year old for people to say 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:37.800 to me. 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:41.000 I went, oh, but you look so good for thirty one. 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:43.880 I literally said that to her, and so. 0:02:45.360 --> 0:02:46.600 I've got secondhand embarrassment. 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:52.360 Someone has actually recently, a younger influencer actually said to me, 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:54.519 I can't believe you're thirty one. 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:57.079 You look so young. And I was like, but I 0:02:57.120 --> 0:02:59.480 am young at heart. 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:01.160 I used to work with the gard when I was 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:03.240 on the tools and I was twenty four and he 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:07.079 was thirty. Yeah, and I used to or six years difference, 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:08.520 so I was twenty two. He was my age twenty 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:10.760 eight and I should be like, you are fucking old. 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:12.760 And I was like, oh, I'll never get that old, 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:15.640 and here I am, but yet you do get you 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:18.720 do it. And here I am fucking old and I'm 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:19.280 feeling it. 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:21.960 But do you know what, we're actually as young as 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:25.040 will ever be. And that's every time I think of myself. 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:27.040 Like I said to Michael the other day, I was like, 0:03:27.120 --> 0:03:29.520 do you know we're middle aged? Like we're middle aged 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:34.080 aged couple. But then I was like, no, but I'm 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:36.360 as young as I'll ever be, So I think in 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:39.120 my mind, I'll always think of myself as young, because 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.240 in this very moment that we're in right now, we're 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.520 all as young as we're ever going to be, and 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:46.800 it's only getting worse. 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.920 I thought, I still think I'm young. I mean, before 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:52.280 the game, people were doing stretches and warming up, and 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:55.720 I was like, I've never stretched in my life. A minute, 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:58.920 they're like stretching, so they're all stretching and I've pulled 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:01.200 up so sore, and I like, I said, it's surprising 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:02.960 that I pulled up saw from a game which is 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:03.760 no tackling. 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:07.680 Matt's like not stretching and he's seeming to be stretched off. 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:11.800 Lily right, that was a good one. That's literally what happened. 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:14.520 But don't get me wrong, the game was fun. I 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:16.919 had an amazing time. Tammy came to watch me. I 0:04:16.920 --> 0:04:17.960 appreciate it so much. 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:20.240 Okay, do you know what's really cute is that she 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:21.800 wore the Zukowski top. 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:25.040 That's such a vibe. Yeah, I was like, that's very cute. 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:26.200 On like, for both of. 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:29.240 You wearing that, that was very It turned me on 0:04:29.320 --> 0:04:30.680 a bit I love that. 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.160 Like, if Michael had a Staples top, I would love 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:34.080 to wear a Staples top. 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:35.800 He just doesn't, he doesn't have ones. 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.000 That was an absolute vibe her wearing that. I found 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:39.600 that very hot. 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.360 Yeah, that is hot. That's very cute. 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:47.120 My ech of the week is that, I mean, I'm 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.400 going to give you guys, guys a little bit of honesty. 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:52.800 At the moment, I've had some issues with one of 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:57.080 my friends. We've been disagreeing on some things, and it's 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:58.239 just been really hard. 0:04:58.360 --> 0:04:59.880 And I think, like you. 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:02.560 Know, as you said, we are older. It's something that 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:06.560 doesn't happen often, so it's really taken a mental toll 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:11.160 on me. I've been really upset about it four months actually, 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:15.159 and yeah, it's just really hard. And I know that 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.640 a lot of people on our Facebook page have asked 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:22.960 us to talk about going through a friendship breakup and like, yeah, 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:25.440 I don't know where things stand with us at the moment, 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:26.920 but yeah. 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:29.559 It's been really challenging. So that's my ech of the week. 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:32.279 Just you know, it's pretty rough what you're going through. 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:36.000 I couldn't imagine going through it. Yeah, I just think that, 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.880 like it's yeah, I've seen how rough it's been for 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:40.800 you and how much of a toll it's taken on you. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:44.479 Yeah, Like Michael has said to me that the most 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:48.440 stressed out he's seen me throughout our whole relationship is 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:51.800 to do with that situation constantly, Like it's like a 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:55.279 reoccurring thing. So not me when I'm being difficult, I 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:57.880 mean you and You're being difficult is difficult. But I 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:00.400 do feel like it doesn't last that long when we 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:03.760 have disagreements, Like we are quick to resolve things, and 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:05.880 I think that's due to the fact that, like we 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:09.440 both don't like things to drag on. Like I know 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:12.040 that when we fight, I get anxiety and I know 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.840 that you also get anxiety, and we both have anxiety, 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:18.640 so we repair quickly, whereas this is like an ongoing issue, 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:20.640 and so I think, yeah, that's. 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:24.880 It's probably the most. Yeah, it's stressful and difficult. 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:28.000 It's been challenging, and it's definitely being dragged out like 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:28.720 you said. 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:33.800 For years, I mean essentially it's come to a peak, yeah, 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:36.520 over the last four months. Yeah, So anyway, I'm not 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:38.880 going to go into detail out of respect, but you know, 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:43.920 it's it's definitely something that I that's been kind of 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:48.159 weighing me down recently, and yeah, I just somehow pray 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:51.240 that it can get resolved. I don't know how, but yeah, 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:54.240 it's just hard. It's hard anyway. I'm feeling a little 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:56.760 bit deflated now, so I'm gonna go over to you 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:58.039 to light the mood. 0:06:58.160 --> 0:06:59.679 What's your turn on of the week? 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.800 My turn on for the week is, actually you guys 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:06.960 might be thinking it's just so obvious. Baths. 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:08.480 Baths. 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:09.480 Yeah, baths. 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:11.960 Oh, having a bar. Oh I love a ba. 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:15.480 So I was never really big on baths. I'm six 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:16.880 foot five, six foot six. 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:19.240 Trying to find a bath that you get along with? 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:24.080 Yeah, literally, But Tammy and myself, I mean, we stayed 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:26.760 in a lot of hotels for a bit over the 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:29.680 start of our relationship, and we would always well not always, 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:31.280 but we've had a bath in one of them, and 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:33.160 I started running the bath and I was like, let's 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:35.640 have a bath tonight. She was a bit like, I'm 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:38.800 a ring. End up hopping in the bath. Had the 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:42.400 best time ever when going to details so good. And 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.600 now I'm just completely on bath. So whenever we'd get 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:46.680 a hotel, we'd always ask for a bath so we 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:47.679 could have a bath together. 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:51.560 Well, speaking of Tammy, I actually saw on a post 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:54.560 the other day that you guys are now saying the 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:57.960 album and I just kind of want to take it 0:07:58.000 --> 0:07:59.520 back a little bit because I didn't know. 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:00.960 I'm and I know. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:03.040 That you guys are deeply in love with each other, 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:05.560 but I kind of want to know the first time 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:07.240 you said I love you to each other. 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:10.720 So the first time I said I love you too 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:17.280 Tammy was actually she was in Melbourne. We're actually about 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:19.000 to meet my family, so we're about to meet my mum, 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:21.920 my two sisters, and she was getting a little bit 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:24.680 nervous to meet them, as you do, like I was 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:26.920 nervous to meet her family. And We're sitting on the 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:28.720 couch in the hotel room and I just said, hey, 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:31.840 look like I love you. It's going to be fine, 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:34.640 and I want you to meet my family. And then 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:36.680 she said it back, she said I love you too. 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:38.480 It was a very cute moment. 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:41.400 That's really sweet. So you were like reassuring, reassuring. 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:43.000 I said, I love you, and I couldn't. I can't 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:44.480 wait for you to meet them, and they're going to 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:45.960 love you as well as much as I do. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:51.199 When did you realize that you love her. 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:54.160 I never really believed in love at first sight. Like 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:57.200 I always thought, yeah, that's that's not real, Like you know, 0:08:57.280 --> 0:09:00.280 that doesn't happen. But I'm not going to lie. The 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:03.560 first time I met Tammy, when she walked up to me, 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:05.840 I got like I'm not gonna lie. I got very 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:09.440 like butterflies in my stomach and got like real nervous. 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:13.720 And really, you don't get nervous, I don't do. You 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:17.000 don't get nervous like we sometimes like we have like 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.360 these big interviews and we do all of this crazy 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:22.079 stuff and like there could be like thousands of people 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:22.800 and you just. 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:26.240 Don't get nervous. Yeah, I got big butterflies. I don't know. 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:28.360 I don't know. It's like she was just walking up 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:30.480 and then like we were in the elevator together going 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:32.480 up to the hotel room, and I just remember like 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:34.679 she was just standing there. She kept staring at me, 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:35.959 and I kept looking at her, and I was like, 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:38.720 I wouldn't say love, but looking back, it was a 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:42.120 very strong feeling of like lust and emotion towards someone. 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:43.960 And I just knew I'd already had, like we'd already 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.000 spoken for a couple of weeks before that, so I 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:48.120 knew that there was like, you know, I knew there 0:09:48.120 --> 0:09:52.240 was that connection there already, and that chemistry chemistry, And 0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:54.520 what I kept saying was she like understood me and 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:56.720 still does like gets me and gets like my personality 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:58.720 and all that. So like I knew it was good. 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:01.679 I remember you said to me, I don't know if 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:05.240 I'm ever gonna date anyone who gets me because I'm 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:09.200 hard work. And then you met Tabby and you were like, 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:12.760 she gets me, and you were like, shocks. 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.360 Yeah, it's just it's so easy. And it's more that 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:17.880 like even when she doesn't get stuff or I don't 0:10:17.880 --> 0:10:21.920 get stuff about her, it's just so healthy and respectful 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:24.080 in the way we try and understand each other and 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:27.640 navigate the situation. Yeah, Like there's no toxic like stuff, 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:31.080 Like I'll literally give her like tips for the next 0:10:31.080 --> 0:10:33.120 time and she takes them on board and vice versa, 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:35.800 how to handle situations and how to like you know, 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:37.000 get the best from each other. 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:39.760 That's what you want though, right, Like you want to 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:41.680 be able to take on a little bit of feedback 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:44.520 or to be able to take it without feeling attacked, 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:46.800 Like Michael gives me feedback and I'm like, Okay, I'll 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:49.079 do it. I'll do that next time, And it's so healthy. 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:52.200 Do you believe like I think that like people say 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:55.240 it should be it's easy, I don't think it's ever 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:57.360 going to be easy. Two people are different. I've always 0:10:57.360 --> 0:10:59.560 said that two people are different. Like for it to 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:03.000 be easy, I feel like somebody has to be very 0:11:03.040 --> 0:11:07.040 submissive or very just fucking chilled. Well, yeah, two people 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:09.120 have to be very chilled. Tammy and I aren't two 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:11.720 very chilled people, but we're two people that respect each other. Yeah, 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:14.040 I want to get the best from the relationship. 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:15.280 It's all about respect. 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:18.480 Like I've had times when I've been in relationships, and 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:21.240 I can openly admit with ex boyfriends, I just didn't 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:24.760 respect them. So I was willing to, you know, say 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:28.280 things that probably were hurtful, and I wasn't like coming 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:31.920 at them with the most tact in respect. I wasn't 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:33.520 trying to get the best out of the situation because 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:35.840 I didn't care as much. Whereas like I would never 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:39.120 say anything to Michael. I mean even if I did, 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:41.960 I would immediately like want to apologize and men things. 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:45.520 But like I will always come at Michael with respect 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:48.920 and with kindness, and like even if I get like 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:51.600 snappy or something, we're cuddling and loving on each other 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:54.400 the next minute. So it's like, you know that two 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:57.400 way street of just like I don't know. 0:11:57.440 --> 0:12:00.400 I think, yeah, I think we've I've said to her that, like, 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.840 just let's just keep respecting each other and this will 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:06.080 be cruisy. I reckon love his patient, love his kind 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:08.280 and love is about respect and that's what we have, 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:09.240 those three things. 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:16.400 Yeah, that's cute. Okay, well my turn on of the week. 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:19.880 Yes is the fact. And this happened a few weeks ago. 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:24.200 But Coldplayer coming to Melbourne, and you know how big 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:26.400 of a fan I am of Chris Mantin. He is 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:30.160 my celebrity hall pass crush, whatever you want to call it. 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:31.800 And I photo of him and I didn't get it. 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:32.439 I don't get it. 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:34.960 I think it's just like the British and he's like, 0:12:35.000 --> 0:12:37.440 you know, like an older attractive guy. 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:40.679 I don't mind the songs. He's like, I really like 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:42.120 cold Play. I'm probably gonna listen to him on the 0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:43.120 way home now after this. 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:46.720 Maybe we should get tickets, yeah, to the concert. Maybe 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:48.880 we should do a Double Day that could be cute. 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:52.880 I just think like his music is incredible, He's amazing, 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:54.400 and like, I. 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:55.080 Am dying to go. 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:57.680 So they initially when they came to Australia, they only 0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:01.160 went to Perth, but now there's it's available from Melbourne, 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.080 so I'm like excited. 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.320 We don't do what you did with this Taylor Swift 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:07.400 and not clue me in. And now I'm not going 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:10.959 to fucking Taylor Swift. If I'm spewing about Travis might 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:14.000 be there fucking fanboy over him. 0:13:16.120 --> 0:13:19.080 I've never heard you talk about Travis before in my life, 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:20.760 and now you fucking love. 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:23.000 Him because you don't listen to me When I do 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:25.120 talk to you about NFL. It's in one ear out 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:27.200 the other. You wouldn't even know if I was. 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:29.840 This is true, but I've never heard you talking about 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:32.439 Travis Kelcey. Is that his last name, Travis Kelsey? 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:33.600 Yeah. 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:39.760 Anyway, on celebrity crushes, let's get into that. So and 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:42.360 I saw this TikTok the other day, you know, me 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:45.720 laying TikTok scrolling, it's all I do. And it was 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:49.040 about people who have celebrity crushes or huge fans of 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:51.240 celebrities are actually a happier people. 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:52.240 Really. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:54.440 I don't know why. 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:56.600 Maybe because they're putting them on a pedestal and they're 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:59.319 getting a lot of joy and happiness from them. I mean, 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:03.160 I have a friend Maddie who is obsessed with Shawn Mendees, 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:06.400 like to an unhealthy level, and she would she would 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:07.239 even admit. 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:08.480 That, like she is obsessed. 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:12.200 I think when her Spotify rap for the Year came in, 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:14.080 she was like the top one percent of people who 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:17.600 listened to Shawn Mendes. Yeah, she was like proud of it. 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:20.280 She was like, fuck yeah, like I've you know, I'm like. 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:21.520 One of the number one fans. 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:22.520 What's one of these songs? 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:28.480 I can't write one song that's sort of value, you know. 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:31.400 That song not resonating with you? 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:34.160 Well, Matt, you actually sent me this video and doctor 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:37.680 Nikola Thomas says that it actually acts as a reprieve 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:39.400 from life stresses. So if you've got like a really 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:43.160 stressful life, then you can turn to your celebrity crush 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:45.520 or your idol maybe listen to their music and it 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:46.720 kind of like takes. 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:50.240 The weight off. Is that surprising to you? Yeah, I 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:51.640 can see how it works. 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:53.960 What do you mean, like you're dissociating from what you're 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:55.480 doing sort of thing, and you're. 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.160 Like, well, maybe you're like living in the reality of 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:00.600 the celebrity as opposed to your real life, which could 0:15:00.640 --> 0:15:01.680 be like difficult or. 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:06.560 Stressful or yeah, I'm but wouldn't that be the same 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:10.440 as like, you know, like I used to do that 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:11.080 with wrestling. 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:13.880 Yeah, like getting involved in a hobby. Absolutely, it's like 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:15.320 a distraction. 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:18.240 Or watching it. So that would be like my outlet. 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:22.080 So I'd be obsessed with wrestling and wrestlers and wrestlers. 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:24.880 Yeah, So that's definitely exactly like that, exactly like. 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:27.160 That, and that would dissociate me from my reality and 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:28.160 I'd be focused on that. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:31.200 My celebrity crush used to be Heath Ledger. I was 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:34.800 like a die hard Heath Ledger fan, and when he died, 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:38.080 I was super upset. But I used to love watching 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:40.440 Ten Things I Hate About You. Have watched it hundreds 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:43.000 of times, I reckon, and it's always like so stress 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:46.320 free and light and fun and like, you know, I 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:47.760 just love that movie. 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:49.840 I watched that movie and the girl was like, it's 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:51.920 such a red flag because I'm laughing at all the 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:54.640 jokes by that the bad guy in there, the villain. 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:56.640 No, what was that that? 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:59.160 Because you know, I like, I loved the guy who's 0:15:59.200 --> 0:16:01.680 like that must be No with the bree or she 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:05.920 had like his face face things and they're like, that's 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:08.320 such a red flag that you find him funny and 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:09.520 none of the rest of it funny. 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:12.200 I like that movie Ten Things I Hate About You 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:14.840 is a classic and there are some classic lines like 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:16.880 that's Niger with the bree is a classic line. I 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:18.440 hate about you. 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:22.160 It's good, It's really good. Okay, say one last time 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:23.360 for everyone, Well. 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:28.880 That must be Niger with the bree. Anna. 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:31.920 You think you know me, I do know you quite well. 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:34.640 Well, we're going to put that to the test. Our 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:37.320 producer Amber has written a bunch of questions that we're 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.840 going to ask each other. We've got a pen and paper. 0:16:39.960 --> 0:16:42.040 We're going to write him down so there's no cheating, 0:16:42.480 --> 0:16:44.640 and we're going to see if we get the right 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:45.600 answers about each other. 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:47.720 You guys can play along as well and see if 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:50.560 you guys know as well. I feel like I know 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:54.040 you well, but I feel like random questions like you know, 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:56.560 what's your favorite color? I might not know the answer to. 0:16:58.000 --> 0:17:00.440 I mean mine's is an obvious one. So will at 0:17:00.440 --> 0:17:01.880 me like you're disappointed already. 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:03.120 I'm feeling the pressure. 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:05.040 Speed Rice. 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:08.640 Okay, so we both have a piece of pen and paper. 0:17:09.480 --> 0:17:13.040 Let's just do me and then you. So okay, So Matt, 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:17.639 the first question is what is my favorite color? Write 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:20.520 it down and see if they both match. 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:22.040 Three. 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:24.760 Now, my writing looks like a. 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:29.399 That's okay, six year old that is so insecure about 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:30.080 his handwriting. 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:31.520 I think your handwriting is not. 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:34.240 Me uploaded a note I wrote the other day and 0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:35.919 there was a bunch of people saying it looked like 0:17:36.000 --> 0:17:38.960 Posey wrote it. 0:17:39.520 --> 0:17:40.880 You have my handwriting? 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:45.040 All right? So your favorite color is pink? 0:17:45.320 --> 0:17:49.200 Yes, that's so easy though, Okay my favorite color? 0:17:49.480 --> 0:17:53.639 Okay, I'm trying to cheat. 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:57.720 I feel like, oh my god, I'm gonna get this wrong. 0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:03.960 Okay ready three? Two, red, black, and gold. You have 0:18:04.040 --> 0:18:04.880 to be serious. 0:18:05.240 --> 0:18:08.400 That is my favorite color. Had people tell me I'm 0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:11.560 immature for that, but it's Essendon winning the Grand Final. 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:13.200