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Speaker 1: To on action and you're really wondering what me and

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Speaker 1: Tuesday gathered garsday, My.

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Speaker 2: You're about to find out on my own poker.

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Speaker 3: Hi do welcome back to Hotter than Yesterday. Happy Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: I've got two of my gals.

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Speaker 2: Hi go, hi, Hi?

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Speaker 4: Where do you want that to be?

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Speaker 1: Here?

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Speaker 3: I really have, I really did, But if you couldn't

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Speaker 3: tell by the voices, we've got Madison and Tuesday Madison

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Speaker 3: Brose and Tuesday Lily Granger. Oh here I got the

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Speaker 3: middle the Madison rose by a hop Oh you got

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Speaker 3: it right? A lot of people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, I called her Crogo Grengu's insane Granger.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, come on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry guys.

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Speaker 3: I'm just I Madison Mayor Hoof, I said, Maya Holf's cool,

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Speaker 3: but you've been like watching, we've been like we've known,

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Speaker 3: Yeah we've known for a while.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we've known. But I'm just the roommate. She keeps

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Speaker 2: introducing me to people as this is my roommate.

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Speaker 3: I do that to to I think all the time,

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Speaker 3: I always my roommate and she goes bro People know

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Speaker 3: my name, like say it, but it's just like context.

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Speaker 4: Is great, but I want everyone to know the context,

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Speaker 4: because she's my beautiful, beautiful friend, but I'm also like,

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Speaker 4: this is the person I'm my home with. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 4: not my home but our home.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, we've all just become really close in the last

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Speaker 2: I'm here and.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I've tracked it up for a couple a

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Speaker 3: couple of months seeing how I go. And she say,

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Speaker 4: Local, I'm a local, semi local.

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Speaker 3: Semi local, but you've kind of adopted us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah into were you into my own little home? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're grateful for that. So we've all kind

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Speaker 2: We actually didn't even meet until a couple months ago.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which were going to unpack today how we all

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Speaker 4: Really, they're probably already sick of us.

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Speaker 3: We see each other like every second day, every day

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Speaker 3: and everything. Yeah, oh guys, they have the nicest apartment.

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Speaker 3: It's so And I was like a bit sad on

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Speaker 2: No, she said, no, come over. We get locked out

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they try to scare me and then they both

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Speaker 3: look at each other. Three hundred dollars later, three hundred

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Speaker 1: We deserve we deserved the rotting session because we sat

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Speaker 4: I think it was the time to get out of

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Speaker 2: Can for three days. I didn't move.

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Speaker 3: That's you needed that though, because I had texted you

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Speaker 3: can go into like things that you would give advice of,

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Speaker 3: the first six weeks you actually are okay. It's after

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Speaker 4: Like because once Mad's got here, we thought we were

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Speaker 1: But I'm just actually like that. And I think Sydney's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think two and two. I'm like, I

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Speaker 4: When you stopped, you were like, oh my god, like,

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Speaker 2: Yes, depression.

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Speaker 4: I literally went into a room and I said, I

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Speaker 2: She was.

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Speaker 4: She was really not herself.

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Speaker 2: Because I had nothing to do.

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, it's Valentine's Day, everybody's out with her. Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm just alone, like in this apartment.

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Speaker 4: I really tried not to leave my baby girl, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I said, you need to go, like, don't

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Speaker 2: No, I'm good now.

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Speaker 3: But sometimes you need to have days where you just

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Speaker 4: But she needs to. It's gonna help her adapt to

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Speaker 4: like there will be many times where like they're that

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Speaker 3: Living alone and that's like no, but like you not

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Speaker 3: that when we need a babysit, Matty, but like you

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Speaker 3: because it's like you actually have to fall in love

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Speaker 3: put you into your subconscious comes into your subconscious and

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Speaker 3: that's when you comes into your conscious. Sorry. Yeah, and

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Speaker 3: that's when you work through the stuff.

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Speaker 3: So it's like you actually do grow so much more

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Speaker 1: I think that's why it's good that Tuesday has a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, which we already have been. We do these things

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Speaker 4: It's like we've like bonded over that but also like

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Speaker 4: We're always doing these things like just to be careful

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Speaker 3: But I think it's that's what it was first, like

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Speaker 4: That it's like you just turn on you you're just

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Speaker 3: Like sometimes a little come and see in my room,

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Speaker 1: Now, like we definitely had that stage. But also the

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Speaker 2: So now we're actually.

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Speaker 4: Segether every night, so you haven't move because our beds

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Speaker 4: come on Friday and we're just I was just like

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Speaker 1: Just like we've made it so sacred and like all

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, So you're coming a little bit codependent,

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Speaker 3: that's okay, it's fine, that's sure.

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Speaker 4: And we're gonna you know, yeah, I think once we

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Speaker 2: That this Friday, it's going to feel more like we're.

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Speaker 4: Doing something a step further to make it our home

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Speaker 4: and it's going to be nice. Yeah, but until then

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Speaker 2: I'm putting both lunches out because Eve's coming as well.

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Speaker 3: So we're going to have like that's cute, sumbar. I

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Speaker 3: can't wait, got YouTube baby, a little little party on

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Speaker 3: the girls, girls night, So snacks.

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Speaker 4: Snacks, hungry girls not looking at each other out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can cut on to your boyfriend this appointment.

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Speaker 3: We're going to fall in appreciate that. Okay, So diving in,

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Speaker 3: We're going to touch a lot of subjects today. We're

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Speaker 3: going to get into dating. We're going to answer some

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Speaker 3: of the dilemmas that the girls have their burning ass

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Speaker 3: because I feel like you guys are also love girls,

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Speaker 3: yeah all of us met and yeah, how it all started.

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Speaker 1: So I've been always so secluded back in Perst, so

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Speaker 2: So I became fans of you guys, like I'm like

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Speaker 4: First hour, I don't know if it was the first.

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Speaker 1: I went to a White Fox event and then Tuesday

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Speaker 1: I just need to do that.

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Speaker 2: Really, we sometimes said we looked like twins today.

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Speaker 3: I also think.

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Speaker 4: Back then too, we looked a lot more alike. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: well maybe now I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys look completely different to me.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, anyway, yeah, so we are.

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Speaker 1: I asked for a photo and then every event which

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Speaker 2: We'll make it a tradition every event.

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Speaker 1: And then I posted on TikTok that I want to

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is after Like, this isn't just like sprung

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Speaker 4: upon a random time we hung out like previously. In

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Speaker 4: this time we'd been messaging.

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Speaker 3: We went for lunch.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like comeover. Yeah, we weren't like we weren't close.

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Speaker 3: Like I think that's sometimes best when you move in

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Speaker 1: And then I was like it was I was going

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Speaker 3: I was like, what the fuck has gone on or something?

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Speaker 4: Ye.

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Speaker 3: Literally, And then I think I added you to my

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Speaker 2: And that was like two years ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we were just kind of like online friends, but

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Speaker 1: not really online friends because you're really bad at replying

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, it's but I always had you in the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I felt I felt that spot there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's distance. And then I found out that I

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Speaker 2: No, like we were nose to nose talking.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 4: I still don't think deep if you know what I

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Speaker 3: I like, I honestly she's that. I recounted my whole

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Speaker 3: like since I was three days old, Like I went

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Speaker 4: You want to do that again on Sunday night.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, undred percent, we'll do just fucking ask. I literally

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Speaker 3: when you've become friends or like yeah, when you're not

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Speaker 2: The most like craziest stories I went here when there

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Speaker 1: I'm just like sh like I can't really match his energy,

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Speaker 1: but like I've got all ears for you right now.

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Speaker 1: But I think that's why we click, because we're both

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Speaker 2: Yeah, open, open, open. I feel like that energy. We

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no like, no hurrying back.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, although I'm like, yeah I can.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's an energy thing. Yeah it is,

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Speaker 3: because it's massive.

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Speaker 4: I also want I need that like reciprocation, Like I

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Speaker 4: need that back because yeah, I'm not going to go yep, yep,

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Speaker 4: yep unless I know that I can trust you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And how did we meet? Do we meet on

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Speaker 3: the body? Was that the best time?

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Speaker 4: Which wasn't long ago at all?

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Speaker 3: What that was November? Yeah, in November December, but we

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Speaker 4: And I was like just come, yeah, and like yeah

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She disappeared off to Perth and.

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Speaker 2: Like oh yeah, I remember that.

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Speaker 3: Next second, and I was like, okay, I think when

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Speaker 3: we're hanging out two pm today, but it's fine.

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Speaker 1: I'm on my way to a first when you were

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Speaker 1: like are you going? And I was like yeah, question mark,

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Speaker 1: and You're like I'm coming. I'm on a plane, like

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Speaker 2: Would have been lit though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you missed out. I did, Okay, So well that's

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Speaker 3: how we met. That's all how we met.

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Speaker 2: The origin story.

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Speaker 3: And how did you start in social media mats?

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Speaker 2: I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: I just started doing it ages ago, but like it's

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Speaker 3: Okay, like when did you start earning a living of it?

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Speaker 2: Probably last year?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was making like I could just live off

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Speaker 4: Which is it's also just like moved so well and

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Speaker 4: so fast for you. Yeah, I feel like you're finally

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Speaker 4: like in a place where you've always kind of like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like I'm living my dream literally every day, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited about it.

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Speaker 3: And it's something so good about Maddie. If you guys

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Speaker 3: grateful and it's really I feel like you would also

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Speaker 3: but because you haven't come, like don't come to Sydney,

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Speaker 3: lot more. And it's like stuff the way around all

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Speaker 3: the time that like the novelty does wear off and

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Speaker 3: like you're just like used to things like that refreshing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's very refreshing, Like you even like for events

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Speaker 4: it's been our job for a while. And then mad

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Speaker 4: you're freaking out.

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Speaker 3: Guys, and we're insane. This is insane. I've had this

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Speaker 3: I've been manifesting this, like oh my god, Like guys,

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Speaker 3: when you really going to this event, like this is

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Speaker 3: crazy And not to sound ungrateful, but we're sitting there

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Speaker 3: which is like as time wears off, as I said,

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Speaker 3: the time, it is fucking insane.

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Speaker 4: Though, yes, with any job, with anything, with any life,

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Speaker 4: like it's gonna happen with everyone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but but there's nothing like it in Perth really no.

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Speaker 3: So then like having you come in, it's like and

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Speaker 3: that's why I also love living with Lily is because

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Speaker 3: like she's a constant reminder of like how amazing my

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Speaker 3: are just like a once in a lifetime thing because

445
00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,240
Speaker 3: she works like a full time job. So like you've

446
00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:23,480
Speaker 3: also been here in Sydney and you it's like seeing

447
00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:26,160
Speaker 3: it through your eyes. It's like a big refreshment movie,

448
00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:27,520
Speaker 3: like and now this is amazing.

449
00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,000
Speaker 4: It's amazing. You start to feel like you start to

450
00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:31,920
Speaker 4: look at the bigger picture and you start to feel

451
00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:32,880
Speaker 4: a bit more grateful when.

452
00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,640
Speaker 1: Because sometimes you feel like big, big creators, it's like

453
00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:37,640
Speaker 1: it becomes just a job. But it's like, yeah, this

454
00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:40,560
Speaker 1: is actually a dream job, like you're getting to do

455
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Speaker 1: do you know what I mean?

456
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Speaker 2: Like it's actually insane.

457
00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:46,400
Speaker 1: Even we drove the Anzac Bridge and I was like, oh,

458
00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:49,040
Speaker 1: are we on this the Harbor Bridge?

459
00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:52,000
Speaker 4: And I know it's just right on the left over there.

460
00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:53,880
Speaker 4: She was like, oh my god, I didn't even care,

461
00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:56,000
Speaker 4: like I'm on the Inzact Bridge, Like this is insane.

462
00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,520
Speaker 2: It's so cool, which is sod.

463
00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:58,760
Speaker 4: That's it.

464
00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,080
Speaker 3: I also think it's one of the best qualities about

465
00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:04,840
Speaker 3: you is that you just see the beauty in everything.

466
00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:06,439
Speaker 1: But it makes me feel a little bit like a kid,

467
00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,360
Speaker 1: because like I feel like, fuck, I'm just am I.

468
00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:11,160
Speaker 2: Like twelve, like so geeked about everything I see.

469
00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, But that's God. That's why

470
00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,840
Speaker 4: you've like how you've kind of manifested the life that

471
00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:20,359
Speaker 4: you because you're solar. You're so happy, so grateful.

472
00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,320
Speaker 1: Well, I think that's the biggest way to manifest is

473
00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,119
Speaker 1: gratitude and being grateful, Like that's the highest frequency to

474
00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,639
Speaker 1: like manifest what you want. Yeah, and like I've literally

475
00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,440
Speaker 1: manifested everything that's happened to me, Like there's not even

476
00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,160
Speaker 1: any like you can't really even social climb in Perth.

477
00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,040
Speaker 2: There was like it's just been me. I'm not even

478
00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:36,480
Speaker 2: in the city.

479
00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:38,560
Speaker 1: I'm in the bush, like so far away, Like it's

480
00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:43,119
Speaker 1: everything I've gotten is literally just from yourself made manifesting it,

481
00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:44,680
Speaker 1: you know, and it's just crazy.

482
00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:48,040
Speaker 3: You're also such a hard worker, Like you're such a

483
00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:48,680
Speaker 3: hard work.

484
00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,680
Speaker 4: I've definitely gotten a rude, rude shock since living with

485
00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,000
Speaker 4: Maths because I was like, yeah, like it's fine, like

486
00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:55,440
Speaker 4: I'll do it later, and she's like, we're doing it

487
00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:57,520
Speaker 4: right now, get up. Go. Yeah. It was like six

488
00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:00,600
Speaker 4: o'clock last night and we like I had done all

489
00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,200
Speaker 4: of the rest of our work, and then it got

490
00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:05,159
Speaker 4: to nine pm and she goes, no, no, we need to

491
00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:06,879
Speaker 4: clean both of our bathrooms because we need to do

492
00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:08,600
Speaker 4: the Year of the Horse and if we don't do it,

493
00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:10,480
Speaker 4: then it's ruined and we're not gonna have a good year.

494
00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:12,439
Speaker 4: And I was like, I'm not cleaning my bathroom at

495
00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:13,280
Speaker 4: nine thirty.

496
00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:15,320
Speaker 1: At night, and so I just went and started scrubbing,

497
00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,080
Speaker 1: and then she's like, pop, fine, to do it, so

498
00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:17,880
Speaker 1: we're now scrubbing.

499
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Speaker 3: Like but I that's what I was gonna say about

500
00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,840
Speaker 3: you Tuesday, is like you've done social media since you

501
00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:26,880
Speaker 3: were what sixteen and in now twenty two. He said

502
00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:30,239
Speaker 3: that the other day, and like, I think when it

503
00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,680
Speaker 3: does happen and like you're not seeing like instant reward

504
00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:34,760
Speaker 3: and grows and the next thing and next thing and

505
00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:36,960
Speaker 3: next thing, you do get a bit knocked down. But

506
00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:41,320
Speaker 3: like I think seeing you reunite with Mads, you've like

507
00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:43,280
Speaker 3: found your love for it again, my.

508
00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:44,240
Speaker 4: Like my fire.

509
00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:47,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I like I took it off like save

510
00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:48,600
Speaker 3: the kiss for later.

511
00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:55,040
Speaker 4: I took like a little bit of time, not like purposely,

512
00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,520
Speaker 4: but kind of purposely in a sense like I've really

513
00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,040
Speaker 4: like lost my love for social media. And I I

514
00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,119
Speaker 4: just look at mine's in such like love and light

515
00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:04,679
Speaker 4: because when I started social media, I was so like

516
00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:07,399
Speaker 4: exactly like her. I was like, this is insane. I

517
00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,480
Speaker 4: was surrounded by like a bunch of older girls that

518
00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,120
Speaker 4: like kind of took me under their wing, but they

519
00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,800
Speaker 4: weren't that excited. And then I was like this is insane,

520
00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:15,680
Speaker 4: Like what's going on?

521
00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:17,760
Speaker 2: Do you feel like that spot kind of got taken

522
00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:18,560
Speaker 2: away from me a little bit.

523
00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:19,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, a little bit.

524
00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,840
Speaker 3: I think when you like, yeah, I do associate people

525
00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:23,879
Speaker 3: with people that have been in the industry for a

526
00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:26,320
Speaker 3: long time, like you look up to them, and then

527
00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:28,719
Speaker 3: it is like the thing of like never meet your

528
00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,320
Speaker 3: idols is like when you then meet those people and

529
00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,479
Speaker 3: they're kind of different in real life and it's like

530
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,920
Speaker 3: a bit of like a oh, like you're not even

531
00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,159
Speaker 3: excited about this stuff, like yeah, okay, well I have

532
00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:39,879
Speaker 3: to act not excited, and then it's almost like you

533
00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,600
Speaker 3: do convince yourself to like act so chill about it

534
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:43,919
Speaker 3: when it's like not a fucking thing.

535
00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:46,159
Speaker 1: I think that's been a shock for me because like

536
00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:49,240
Speaker 1: I've been over in Perth and I've idolized so many

537
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,160
Speaker 1: creators like oh my god, I can't wait to get

538
00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,320
Speaker 1: to where you guys are and like just idolizing you guys,

539
00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 1: and then there's there's so many like.

540
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Speaker 2: I don't know if I if I should say it.

541
00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:01,080
Speaker 1: Like you say it, I know, there's just like a

542
00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:02,840
Speaker 1: lot of mean girl energy that it's like I don't

543
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:04,439
Speaker 1: even know if I want to be associated with these

544
00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:06,000
Speaker 1: people that I idolized, you know what I mean.

545
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like.

546
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,720
Speaker 1: It kind of does ruin the excitement of being an influencer,

547
00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 1: Like it scares me off because I'm still at the

548
00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,000
Speaker 1: very beginning. I don't even really know that many creators,

549
00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:15,720
Speaker 1: but it does scare me off to be involved.

550
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 4: I'm just like being there, done that, Like, Yeah, I

551
00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:19,359
Speaker 4: went through multiple times over again.

552
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,560
Speaker 3: And I think that's why you really know yourself as

553
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:24,199
Speaker 3: an individual. And you're kind of lucky that you not

554
00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 3: that you're old, but like you do have a little

555
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:27,040
Speaker 3: bit of age on us, like both of us started

556
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:30,040
Speaker 3: when we were like in our late teens, like early twenties.

557
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,400
Speaker 3: That like every chick, I can't name one person who

558
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,240
Speaker 3: hasn't gone that social media or not social media, who

559
00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,320
Speaker 3: hasn't had falling outs with their friends at that age.

560
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,359
Speaker 3: It is a massive life changing jump once you finish

561
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 3: school and you transition and you go all go into

562
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 3: like your own ventures of life, and it's a choice

563
00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 3: to be friends with them, and it's a choice. Not

564
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:50,120
Speaker 3: everyone has falling out at the same time. You're watching

565
00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:53,119
Speaker 3: nineteen twenty twenty one year olds. Yeah, figure out who

566
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 3: the fuck they are yea, And if you don't fuck

567
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,320
Speaker 3: with them, you leave them. And then it gets heightened

568
00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:00,800
Speaker 3: because you have hundreds of thousands of people watch you. Yeah,

569
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 3: but like at the end of the day, everyone's gone

570
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,920
Speaker 3: through that. Yeah, So like I think you shouldn't be

571
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,320
Speaker 3: scared of that because you do have a bit more

572
00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 3: age on you that you do almost know who you

573
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:10,840
Speaker 3: are as an India.

574
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Speaker 4: She's got that like respect for herself that we not respect.

575
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 4: But she has more of a backbone than probably what

576
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 4: we had are Yeah, like sixteen seventeen eighteen, where we

577
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 4: were just these little like girls that would.

578
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 3: Run around and will multiple and like I didn't know

579
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,040
Speaker 3: what I wanted. Yeah, I didn't know what was right

580
00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 3: for me and what wasn't right for me, So I

581
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,920
Speaker 3: was probably doing things differently, And like, yeah, I have

582
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,240
Speaker 3: had like you and I could probably relate in this

583
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 3: of like we have had falling out with other people

584
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:41,119
Speaker 3: that are in social media, and it's just exacerbated only

585
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 3: because they were all in social media. Yeah that like

586
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, it's probably not that deep,

587
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:46,280
Speaker 3: I think, But I think it's.

588
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,159
Speaker 4: Also hard too because like not only as there like

589
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,959
Speaker 4: a friend falling out, but it's within your work, So

590
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 4: like that's even hard, And then it also gets ten

591
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 4: times more clickier, like when if it would happen in

592
00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 4: high school, it's like, oh, it's just our friends, yeah,

593
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 4: but now it's both And I think that's what what's

594
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 4: mostly shit about it, because yeah, I.

595
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 3: Swear, yeah, I think I said that on TikTok Live

596
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:11,679
Speaker 3: once that Like I think, yeah, people need to kind

597
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 3: of realize is that we are low key or work colleagues.

598
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 3: You are going to be closer with some work colleagues

599
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 3: compared to the other. Then you're going to make those

600
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 3: friendships outside of work with your work colleagues, like everyone

601
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 3: does in the industry, but like ours just has people

602
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 3: watching it.

603
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,640
Speaker 4: So like, well, I just think when girls talk, it's

604
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 4: like how do I explain this? Like when girls kind

605
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 4: of talk about a friendship and how it ended in

606
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,920
Speaker 4: this and that, and when people everyone is entitled to

607
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 4: their own opinion, but a lot of the time it's

608
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 4: not an opinion and it's a shit talk. And also

609
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,199
Speaker 4: when you're like down in the dumps, the last thing

610
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,400
Speaker 4: you want to do is work. Yeah, but when it's

611
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 4: your work that's doing it, it's like it's just like

612
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 4: a really really vicious.

613
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Speaker 1: Toxic off online like you have to make videos with

614
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 1: your face. It's just like, that's the last thing you'd

615
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:54,159
Speaker 1: want to do.

616
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:55,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, it fucking sucks.

617
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Speaker 1: Well that's why I called you the other day and

618
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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, okay, yeah, you gonna concut.

619
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Speaker 4: It on it.

620
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,439
Speaker 3: So I'm reading this Male Robins book. Guys, we're going

621
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 3: in a bit of a tenent, but this is just

622
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 3: what we do. I was reading this Meles Robin's book today.

623
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 3: I would recommend everyone to read it. It's read it.

624
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 3: It's called the high five Theory, and it's talking about

625
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 3: like your self confidence and your self worth and everything

626
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 3: that you should high five yourself in the mirror every

627
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,640
Speaker 3: single day because you associate like when I'm high fiving you,

628
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 3: that's like a positive reward, like I'm rewarding you for

629
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 3: doing something good and we're celebrating, and it's just like

630
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 3: you should high five yourself every day. It boosts your

631
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,400
Speaker 3: levels in like your hormone nevers and everything, because you're

632
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 3: boosting your self confidence saying like you can got that,

633
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 3: You've got this, you can do this, like everything like that.

634
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 3: And it literally is saying like the more you talk

635
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,679
Speaker 3: about yourself like that, the more you're gonna believe it,

636
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 3: and the more you're gonna do that, and there's this

637
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 3: thing called I forgot what it's called the rass, something

638
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 3: in your brain where your brain like processes thirty four

639
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 3: gigabytes of data technically in your brain every single day.

640
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 3: But because some of those things like don't even cross

641
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 3: your mind because like your brain's like taught not to

642
00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 3: how to and hate on the internet doesn't even cross

643
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 3: my mind as like a hate anymore because my brain's

644
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 3: literally trade myself not to think about it.

645
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, like it's just something that flies by.

646
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 3: It's just like everyone's like, oh, sending you love, which

647
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 3: is so nice because my friend's looking out for me.

648
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 3: But it's almost like my friends can see how much

649
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,160
Speaker 3: this could potentially hurt me more than it actually does

650
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 3: because it's like I'm literally like prone to it. Yeah,

651
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 3: it's so weird all that someone's like, oh my god,

652
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 3: you get so much hate. I'm like I do. And

653
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,479
Speaker 3: that's what makes me conscious about it because it's literally

654
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 3: like blacked out in my brain, which.

655
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,360
Speaker 4: Is like really wrong and yeah sad, but also it's

656
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 4: probably like also a good thing. I think you've taught

657
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 4: yourself to be strong. Yeah, I think that's what your

658
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 4: brain's telling you. It's to just be strong because you've

659
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 4: probably gone through it so many times. Yeah that you're

660
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 4: just like there's nothing else that I can do now

661
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,479
Speaker 4: except for be strong and like show up for yourself.

662
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Speaker 1: I'm actually grateful that I don't really get hate touch

663
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 1: to it. Everyone just comes fucking slamming me. No, I

664
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: don't really get that much hate, which.

665
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 3: Is yeah, no either do I.

666
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 4: But I just feel like I don't think I don't

667
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 4: put myself my Content's never been putting myself out there

668
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 4: enough to get hate. Like you get those them little comments,

669
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 4: but that's like on a make up video, like always

670
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 4: your face so like sweating, like you know what I mean.

671
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 4: I'm all right, man, but like you guys, you guys

672
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 4: are like a personality on the internet. Like both of

673
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 4: youse guys put so much out.

674
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,880
Speaker 3: There that people stab right where it hurts. Yeah, I know.

675
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,919
Speaker 1: But people became with the whole cheating scandal that I

676
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: was getting bullied for that because I was like you respect.

677
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 2: Yeah I know. I'm like, I got cheated on. Next week,

678
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 2: I got back together.

679
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 3: But in the way and everyone's like, oh no, what

680
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 3: is she doing? Three weeks it's over.

681
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 2: I know.

682
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: I learned my lesson and that's why camera man is

683
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 1: camera man and not my man.

684
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

685
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:47,880
Speaker 3: Well, this is a perfect segue into love your loved

686
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 3: up Tuesday. I loved your Yours is very good of

687
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,719
Speaker 3: like private but not secret. Yeah, like you don't know

688
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 3: anything about your relationship, but you post him.

689
00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 4: I've been single for three years, right wow, and it

690
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 4: like honestly is the best thing that I could have

691
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 4: ever done for myself ever. And like growing up, I

692
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 4: was always reliant on my friends, never a man like

693
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,639
Speaker 4: I just wasn't brought up like that. But I just

694
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 4: think if I was in relationships this whole time, I

695
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,199
Speaker 4: wouldn't wouldn't have grown the way I've grown as a person.

696
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 4: It's just good. Like I'm just happy, and I think

697
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 4: my friends have noticed that I haven't been this happy

698
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 4: in a very long time.

699
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 3: And energy radiated.

700
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, And a lot of people will get girls I

701
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 4: haven't seen in years, or like I haven't spoken to

702
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 4: you in months, They're like, I haven't spoken to you,

703
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 4: and now I'm speaking to you. Just you're just glowing

704
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 4: like from inside out.

705
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 2: Which someone does when they get treated right by.

706
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 4: But also that's so nice when like you just don't

707
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 4: think about it, and then when someone says that, you're like, oh.

708
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like seeing you two at your birthday. Imagine.

709
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 4: I was just like he was a bit shy in

710
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 4: front of my foot block, like.

711
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 3: Who's seeing each other person? Yeah, you guys have been

712
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 3: so loved up, like it was really cute to see

713
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 3: and that's that. I were just like, chow, No, he's beautiful.

714
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 4: It's nice to be treated nicely.

715
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 3: And how long have you been together for.

716
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 4: Seeing each other for like six seven months? Cut that out? Sure, yeah,

717
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 4: about like that time, and then we've only got six

718
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 4: seven and then we've only been dating since January nine.

719
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 4: But he's also like a little rage betar, So he

720
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 4: was just trying to see how long he could hold

721
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 4: off for.

722
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 3: I know, don't beat that.

723
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 4: At the end of the day, he's still beautiful. But

724
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 4: he's still a man. He's still a man.

725
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's not a boy.

726
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 4: No, he's not. He is a man and he's beautiful.

727
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 4: That's like we're growing together in a good way and

728
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 4: in a good pace.

729
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:50,199
Speaker 3: Love. What about yours?

730
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:52,919
Speaker 2: I'd rather just no comment.

731
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 3: I don't have a man neither.

732
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 4: What that's not what you guys have told me.

733
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 3: I just had a Valentine.

734
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 4: How was in Valentine's Day?

735
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 3: It was really cute. I get really awkward talking. Yeah,

736
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 3: he bought me so many flowers.

737
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:12,120
Speaker 2: That's really cute. Yeah, I've got for the first time.

738
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I didn't know that was a thing. Same

739
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 3: but everyone's like, oh yeah, mister roses.

740
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:18,959
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I don't think it is a thing

741
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 2: in Perth.

742
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 3: Oh I don't even get Melbourne either.

743
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 2: But I like came with the vis and everything.

744
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, Bill got the same, so cute. Yeah, he was like,

745
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 3: do you think I can boast this because posted I'm like, dude,

746
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 3: it's just the same company. It's not that deep. I know.

747
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 3: It was so cute. Yeah, I got fifty roses, so.

748
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 2: Wearing one for one. Who's better.

749
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 3: Or you're in a relationship or you not.

750
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 4: I'm not.

751
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: I'm not in a relationship, but you're closed off. Yeah,

752
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: like I'm closed off. But I'm just like that naturally. Yeah,

753
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: Like even if I'm interested in someone, like I'm just

754
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 1: closed off.

755
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 3: I'm the same.

756
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: I could just meet you and like you and now

757
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm closed off. So yeah that's yeah, I'm just a

758
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: loyal person. Yeah, but that's because I believe in karma

759
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 1: to an extent where like I cannot do anything, like

760
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: it will take over your Lifeyeah, the gear will take

761
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 1: over my life and all bad things.

762
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 4: But that's just run like that anyway. Even if you

763
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 4: didn't have that gear, you'd still.

764
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 2: Be like, yeah, I'm just yet loyal to my core.

765
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, close it off.

766
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm like, after one, like one hangout, like

767
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 3: the first time I met you, if I like decide

768
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 3: I want you, Like, yeah, we're in a relationship, like

769
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 3: we're dating, like yeah, like we're not going to speak

770
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 3: to other people. Yeah, so yeah you're closed off.

771
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I have commitment issues.

772
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 3: Oh she's just unpacked. Uh, you don't want to.

773
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 2: I think that's like a whole episode. If you come back,

774
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 2: let me know, put it in the comments.

775
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, because like I feel like relationships is just so

776
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 1: like a whole nother thing that we could touch on.

777
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

778
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 3: Perfect, we'll have you back, coolly back and speak. So

779
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 3: we are obviously going to get into some dilemmas. The

780
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 3: girls that always sent in dilemmas. I'm going to read

781
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 3: the dilemma aunt to you. Please excuse I'm very bad

782
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,239
Speaker 3: at reading out loud, So okay, cool, you guys are

783
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 3: going to give your opinions as lover girls as data girls, okay,

784
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 3: and don't hold back. Okay. Hey babe, So one of

785
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 3: my best friends is dating my ex behind my back.

786
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 3: The way I found out was totally fucked up. She

787
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 3: lied to me the whole timeline, even when I asked

788
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 3: about specifics. We aren't friends anymore, but she remains in

789
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 3: my friendship group. I have to see photos of my

790
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 3: ex and people that I care about, and I just

791
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 3: leave myself out of situation so I don't have to

792
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 3: be near either of them. How do I just accept

793
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 3: it and move on? I don't care that they are together,

794
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 3: but it says more about her than it does me.

795
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 3: But I struggle to understand, accept and let it go,

796
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 3: especially now that he's around friends of mine and will

797
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 3: be at places where I am Advice on this little

798
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 3: dilemma would be fab.

799
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 4: I have two things, okay, real, blunt, quick, two things.

800
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 4: The first thing is it should have stopped at my

801
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 4: best friend is dating my ex boyfriend this. Yeah, you

802
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 4: don't even have to elaborate on that, because don't fucking

803
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 4: do that. Yeah, Yeah, that's done. That's question over. She's

804
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 4: in the wrong very wrong done. Second thing is when

805
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 4: she said I don't know how to what she said,

806
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 4: I don't know how to accept except you don't have

807
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 4: to accept that. Sorry, you don't have to accept that behavior.

808
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 4: You don't have to accept the people in your friendship group.

809
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 4: You do not actually have to deal with that.

810
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 2: And stand on business.

811
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,239
Speaker 3: Yes, my thing a motherfucking business. Yea.

812
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 4: You don't have to like be you always have to

813
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 4: be kind to people and not you don't need to

814
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 4: start unnecessary drama. But also you don't owe anything to

815
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 4: these people anymore. You don't want the fairby. Also, don't

816
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 4: have to be the bigger person. I'm sick of being

817
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 4: the bigger person. Like it just actually doesn't.

818
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 3: Have to happen.

819
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you are so patient with every scenario, and I'm like,

820
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:29,959
Speaker 1: can you just like stand on business because she's just

821
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: so patient.

822
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 4: But I just feel like my life on them. Yeah,

823
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 4: but that's my karma. You know, you said you believe

824
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 4: in karma.

825
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

826
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 4: My thing is if someone does something to me, they're karma.

827
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 4: Is me doing amazing in life?

828
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 3: Yea, yeah, I'm like that. Yeah, I'm like I don't

829
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 3: need to have the last or like I could bite

830
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 3: back and tell tell people the truth of what actually

831
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 3: happened and what you did to me and all of

832
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 3: that stuff. But I'm like, I'm not going to do

833
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 3: that because I don't need to ruin your life to

834
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 3: make mine better. I don't need to put you down

835
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 3: and make you feel small, because karma's going to hit you, yeah,

836
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 3: in one way or another. And I'm not going to

837
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 3: be the one who gives you the car just just

838
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 3: trying to find out in something else in your life,

839
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 3: it's going to hit you in the fact.

840
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 1: Like also it also, I just feel like maybe getting

841
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: it off your chest because I'm such like a that

842
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: will eat away at me until I be able to

843
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: say how. I feel like I need to know that

844
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: you know what you did to hurt me.

845
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 3: Would you suggest having a conversation with the girl and.

846
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 2: Being like fuck you dumb bit, no, don't know, no,

847
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 2: don't cut up.

848
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: No, Like yeah, having a conversation, but not like how

849
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: would you go about the not being nasty and not

850
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,959
Speaker 1: like like not making up with her, just being like

851
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 1: I'm so like I don't know where, like I'm so disappointed,

852
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: like you've really hurt me, and I hope you know that,

853
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 1: like you will not have access to me in my

854
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: life anymore. Just knowing that she knows that you hurt you,

855
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a good way to heal, Like

856
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 1: just you.

857
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 4: Know what you're doing something that foul you know you're

858
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 4: hurting someone.

859
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the only thing I don't respect is

860
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 3: like the fact that like you're all instill in a

861
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 3: friendship group and your other friends or having said something

862
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 3: like if you did that, I would be like, I

863
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 3: would also probably cut you off because it doesn't alye

864
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 3: with my role. So that's the only thing I'm confused about.

865
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 3: Your friends don't actually have your back as much, and

866
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 3: maybe you need to think will you broadly and.

867
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 4: Be like situation, Yeah, I'd.

868
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 3: Be like, are your friends actually being your true friends?

869
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 3: Like I would maybe speak to another girl that you're

870
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 3: really close in that friendship group and be like, am

871
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 3: I going crazy for feeling this way? Or like like,

872
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 3: what do you also feel like this said? Why you

873
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 3: expect me back.

874
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 4: To the girl who's doing the issue, go to the

875
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 4: friends and be like one if they might be giving

876
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 4: her support, we don't know that yet, but just say like,

877
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 4: I'm not getting the support I need from you girls,

878
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 4: And that's saying enough as is because we already know

879
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 4: who the loser is.

880
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 2: And also just like you can elevate and find a

881
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 2: new friend group.

882
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I also think something that you really do if

883
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 3: you do decide to have a conversation with her, like

884
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 3: Maddie suggested, my mum always said, and my mom's a teacher,

885
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 3: and in like pastial care with like kids, you always

886
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 3: come from the feeling of like this has made me

887
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 3: feel And you speak in like I statements, and you

888
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 3: don't speak like you did this, you do that and

889
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 3: put the blame on her. Obviously she knows deep down

890
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 3: that she's done something wrong, but you go, I feel

891
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 3: like this, this has made me feel like this. I

892
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 3: feel like this instead of going you you, you, you

893
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 3: all the time because it's just gonna you can go

894
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 3: back and forth. Yeah, and you're just gonna get aggressive

895
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 3: and yeah, reason how you feel exactly. So if you

896
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 3: speak about it from your perspective, then yeah, I don't know.

897
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 3: I would honestly talk about more of like talk to

898
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 3: your friends first about being like, why don't you have

899
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 3: my back in this? Because I feel like maybe you

900
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 3: could be a little bit younger than us and flick

901
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 3: them off like, well, I wouldn't do that.

902
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 4: Just focus on yourself. Yeah, that's the best thing that

903
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 4: you can do. And if your friends aren't even being

904
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 4: there for you, you need to go find a new

905
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 4: friendship group that fulfills you. And they've got your background

906
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 4: matter what.

907
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: And it's kind of good they're showing their true colors

908
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,399
Speaker 1: because there's obviously better friends waiting for you.

909
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 3: Period. Okay, next dilemma. Hey, Sam, here's my dilemma here.

910
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:56,959
Speaker 3: A couple of months ago, one of my really close

911
00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:00,959
Speaker 3: friends had a casual situationship type thing with this during

912
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 3: the same time I was seeing one of his best friends,

913
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 3: so we all hung out together dream dream. The guy

914
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 3: she was seeing, let's call him Matt, would fake flirt

915
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 3: with me and pretend he was into me, which really

916
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 3: fucked with my head, but we knew we were just

917
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 3: really good friends and I didn't think much of it.

918
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,879
Speaker 2: Sorry, is this the friends man? Yeah?

919
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 3: I think so.

920
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:20,280
Speaker 2: Okay.

921
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 3: The guy she was seeing with.

922
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 2: Why would that fuck with her head?

923
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 3: She'd be like, well, why are you flirting with me?

924
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 3: You're with my mate, so you're seeing a guy.

925
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 4: I'm seeing a guy and your guys flirting with me? Yeah,

926
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 4: behind your back.

927
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,720
Speaker 3: You'd be like, why are you doing that? Yeah? Okay, yeah, yep. Anyway,

928
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 3: fast forward to recently, I found out the guy I

929
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 3: was seeing had still been sleeping with his ex the

930
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 3: whole time, and my friend let's call her Sophie, just

931
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 3: mutually ended things with Matt. You up to date? Yeap.

932
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 3: Me and Matt will randomly message and have conversations, which

933
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 3: I feel quite guilty about. Yeah. It originally That's.

934
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 2: Why I said why did it fuck with you?

935
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 3: Herd?

936
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: Because I know it was going somewhere. Guys, I'm already

937
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: fuckings a head. Okay, I'm much homer.

938
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 3: It originally started when my friend Sophie had been getting

939
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,840
Speaker 3: close with my ex and hanging out in groups, and

940
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 3: it made me extremely uncomfortable considering how how much he

941
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 3: sucked me over. Oh this is so messy. Anyways, I

942
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 3: can't help but think I might have feelings for Matt,

943
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 3: and I'm so torn on how to handle this. Wait,

944
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 3: it's Sophie with the X, so Sophie. So Sophie cut

945
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 3: it off with Matt. But Sophie has been getting quite

946
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,240
Speaker 3: close with my ex and hanging out in groups.

947
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:36,720
Speaker 2: So I ex girl her friend is Sophie.

948
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 3: No, so it's Sophie. So it's Sophie and her and Matt.

949
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 3: Sophie were seeing Matt yep, and she had another ex.

950
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 3: That now Sophie's hanging out with Sophie's.

951
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 4: Not how I wrapped my head around that wall.

952
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: I've rapped it, I've rubbed it, and Sophie's a dog.

953
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 1: But so they're just going x X so they're kind

954
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: of even Stevie.

955
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's not her situationship, it's her ex boyfriend.

956
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 4: Okay, well wait, so so so madis is so hard?

957
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:09,760
Speaker 4: Mad is seeing a guy? Yes, I'm seeing a guy. Yes,

958
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 4: my guy was still seeing his ex. Yes, that's gone. Yes,

959
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 4: your guy was flirting with me secretly.

960
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 2: Yes, so now use her a thing.

961
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 3: So there, you're still messaging after you had done it off.

962
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 3: It's happening with she's now speaking to her ex boyfriend,

963
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 3: not the ex situationship. She's still friends with.

964
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 4: Her justified as if Oh, it's okay.

965
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 3: Because she's still sleeping with my ex or her I'm

966
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 3: so confused. It's like you and with her ex. She's

967
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 3: with my ex situationship. Yes, so Sophie, So you're speaking

968
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,879
Speaker 3: of her ex situationship and you're she's seeing she's still

969
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,720
Speaker 3: friends with your ex boyfriend not her ex situationship.

970
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 2: Yes, so they're both.

971
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 3: They're even they're kind of dogging each other. Ye are

972
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 3: we comprehending? Is everyone on the podcast? So she kind

973
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 3: of wants she's torn on how to handle this as

974
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 3: she has no idea how Sophie will react, although she

975
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 3: is seeing a new guy and I've really liked this

976
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 3: guy for a few years, so Sophie's already onto the

977
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 3: new one the two Yep, No, so she's just she's

978
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 3: just friends with the X and speaks to the ex

979
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 3: quite regularly. Okay, I don't think they're really hooking up,

980
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 3: but they just hang out in a group. But she's

981
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 3: Sophie's got a new guy, Johnny, and this girl wants

982
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 3: to talk to Matt, and she doesn't know how to

983
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 3: handle this situation or approach it with Sophie.

984
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,720
Speaker 4: But this girl is saying this, the girl that Sophie

985
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 4: is seeing Johnny, she has liked Johnny for a while.

986
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 3: You fucked it?

987
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 2: No, you lost it?

988
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 4: You lost it? Okay, Well, can we just understand that she.

989
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 3: I get it in in conclusion, Sophie, I mean, this

990
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 3: girl wants to know how to approach Sophie about potentially

991
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 3: speaking to Matt, which is Sophie's X situation.

992
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: I think it just depends how deep they were in.

993
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: Did Matt fox Sophie over? Was mad a dog? Did

994
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 1: they were they close to dating?

995
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,399
Speaker 3: The Sophie ended it with Matt was your dog?

996
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 4: One thing to conclude this whole thing, and we've had

997
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 4: I think we've had this conversation before. I look at

998
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:10,839
Speaker 4: all of my friends boyfriends off limits, you, no, not

999
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 4: even off well, yes, off limits, but I look at

1000
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 4: them as a little toy, a little excessive like brother.

1001
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 4: That's yeah, that's my my friends.

1002
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 3: But it's a situation ship she's trying to justify even

1003
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 3: like I just don't because why are you getting to

1004
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 3: the point where you're getting close to that person You

1005
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 3: should that should be completely off bound.

1006
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 4: You shouldn't be messaging this person, Like the reason that

1007
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 4: you've got the feelings for them is because you've been

1008
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 4: messaging them. But you shouldn't be messaging them because they

1009
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 4: should be off limit. She shouldn't even be looking at

1010
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 4: them like that.

1011
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 3: I just think, yeah, you're you're you're tretching on dangers.

1012
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 2: That's actually going for Valentine.

1013
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, she would be writing this if she didn't know

1014
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 4: she's doing something wrong. Yeah, so that's so.

1015
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 3: I think you just but I think if you want

1016
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 3: to continue seeing Matt, I'm going to give you a

1017
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 3: hard truth, Babe. If you want to continue seeing Matt,

1018
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 3: prepare to have a big blow up with Sophie and

1019
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,359
Speaker 3: your fucking friendship because at the end of the day,

1020
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 3: you are dogging her.

1021
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 4: Also, no guys worth that ever put.

1022
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 3: Yourself in Sophie's shoes? Is Sophie a good friend? Do

1023
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 3: you want to be friends with Sophie? Do you want

1024
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 3: to continue being friends with Sophie if you don't hook

1025
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 3: up with Matt. But you shouldn't want to.

1026
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 4: No, you shouldn't want to.

1027
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we're just so we'd just say, be prepared

1028
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 3: to lose her.

1029
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, be prepared to lose her.

1030
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 3: And it's probably some other friends.

1031
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 4: She made a lot nice to you and she's a

1032
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 4: good friend.

1033
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 2: Then, But I feel like, what if they're like so mates?

1034
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: Yeah I did think that, Like, what if they're genuinely

1035
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 1: like they've got a future of marriage and kids and

1036
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 1: Sophie's just like randomly just had a little root and

1037
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 1: boot situation.

1038
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 2: Sophie's with every different guy, like she doesn't really care.

1039
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 2: I'm trying to go from point of.

1040
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,760
Speaker 3: View, Yeah yeah, I know. I think it's really hard.

1041
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 3: But like, yeah, if you just put it into context

1042
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 3: for me of like if you went for Valentine man, yeah,

1043
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 3: I would be like if that's friendship ending, yeah, like yeah,

1044
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 3: wear a situation ship, but like it's just quite a

1045
00:40:58,480 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 3: serious situation.

1046
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 4: Anymore context about how long was it? Was it a

1047
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 4: root boot or was it just like a was it

1048
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,839
Speaker 4: actually like a serious couple months? I was saying for

1049
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 4: what like two months? And I was like, I love

1050
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 4: this man, you know what I mean. So if and

1051
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 4: then we stopped seeing each other, obviously I still love

1052
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 4: him because that's laugh. Like I've said I love you.

1053
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 4: If you started seeing my man, I'd be like that's cooked.

1054
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.

1055
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 4: If it was a room boot and it was they

1056
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 4: were all open, weird friendship vibes, then I don't know.

1057
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 3: You just have to ask.

1058
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 1: I just talk to Sophie just about Sophie, how would

1059
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:29,479
Speaker 1: you feel like.

1060
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:31,359
Speaker 2: And don't come from an angle of like I really

1061
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 2: want to fuck.

1062
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 3: Matt, you know, but also if you don't think you

1063
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 3: were going to date Matt. I don't even think it's

1064
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 3: worth a conversation because Sophie's gonna have.

1065
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 1: Finally feel like there's potential there al, So you need

1066
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: to see where you've.

1067
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 4: Just said, I'm having feelings for Matt. Does Matt have

1068
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 4: feelings for you?

1069
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 3: Like you need to have that much of validation. Yeah,

1070
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,879
Speaker 3: and he's probably just speaking to you because he's upset

1071
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 3: that Sophie left it.

1072
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, we need to have a lot of I

1073
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 1: think I'm bad at dilemmas because like I think I'm

1074
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: an EmPATH a little bit, and I'm like, I just

1075
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 1: want everyone to be Okay, you know what I mean.

1076
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 3: Okay, last dilemma. I think this is from a boy.

1077
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 2: Okay.

1078
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 3: The love of my life left me a few months ago.

1079
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 3: The relationship faded because of our circumstances, and I know

1080
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,280
Speaker 3: that there's still so much love there. She started dating

1081
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 3: someone new, but I know it's a rebound. How do

1082
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 3: I move on when I only want to move on

1083
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 3: and grow for when we get back together. I know

1084
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 3: she'd want me to grow, and so I will, but

1085
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 3: I will always want to grow for her. I don't

1086
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 3: know if I can grow for the possibility of someone

1087
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,479
Speaker 3: new fuck are you? I can.

1088
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:39,439
Speaker 1: I think you're off track a little bit, because why

1089
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 1: are you growing for anyone that you should always be

1090
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: just growing for yourself. He's like, I don't want to

1091
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 1: grow for I want to grow for her, not for

1092
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 1: someone else, but just grow for you.

1093
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 4: You can't actually grow for someone because it'll end up.

1094
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 1: To shit, and you to be living for anyone either,

1095
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: like live for yourself and who's meant to be there.

1096
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 4: Will be there, and she also and not resenting you

1097
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,320
Speaker 4: if you you've just changed purely for her, because all

1098
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 4: under all that change and growth that was meant to

1099
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 4: be for your relationship was secretly just for her, not

1100
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,959
Speaker 4: and yeah that's going to strip away one day. Yeah.

1101
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 3: Well, I can empathize and completely relate to this dilemma

1102
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 3: because the whole reason me and my ex and we

1103
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 3: dated for almost three years, broke up is because we

1104
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 3: needed to grow that we no longer bought that there

1105
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 3: was still so much love there, but we no longer

1106
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 3: like we're putting the effort into the relationship anymore, and

1107
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 3: the relationship was kind of abandoned, and like both of

1108
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 3: us said, like we are going to break up to

1109
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 3: grow to eventually get back together like that was in

1110
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 3: the back of our minds, and that's kind of what

1111
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 3: we told each other, we both told each other. But

1112
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 3: as I grew over the last like over the years,

1113
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 3: years and everything, and like we would still check in

1114
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 3: catch up, like there would be back and forth and

1115
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 3: everything like that. But as I continue to grow and

1116
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 3: continue to put love in for myself, I then eventually

1117
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 3: grew out of the idea of wanting him because what

1118
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 3: he bought in a relationship and who he was as

1119
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 3: the person I outgrew h and I didn't. I no

1120
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 3: longer aligned with that. So yeah, you can have in

1121
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 3: the mind, yeah, I'm going to grow and I'm going

1122
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 3: to become a better person to hopefully get her back

1123
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 3: and be with her. But as you grow and as

1124
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 3: you heal, you'll start to realize what you really want,

1125
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 3: that you don't want that anymore.

1126
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 4: And also that's that could regardless of whether he thinks

1127
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 4: that that's a rebound, he's probably doing everything that you

1128
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 4: said you were doing this relationship. So she's probably Okay,

1129
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 4: this is really sad and mean, But like everyone grows,

1130
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 4: everyone changes, she could be growing and changing. She could

1131
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 4: be having a rebound and miss you. So much and

1132
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 4: be so frustrated in you that you couldn't.

1133
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:31,839
Speaker 3: Change for her fucking oath.

1134
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 4: It's just like if you want someone bad enough, like

1135
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 4: it shouldn't even be in your mind, like to you

1136
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 4: should just be showing up like you should be.

1137
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 3: You should always treat someone like you're going to lose them.

1138
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:43,800
Speaker 3: And everyone never becomes.

1139
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 4: A second chance. Everyone deserves to be happy. But you

1140
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,919
Speaker 4: just if you can't give her what she wanted, Like.

1141
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 2: I love how does you're a man sear the problem?

1142
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you are, if you're a man like you are

1143
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 3: the problem, like it literally will be anybody.

1144
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 4: My thing is which just like if you wanted to

1145
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 4: we would.

1146
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 3: I always just say, if you're meant to be together,

1147
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 3: you'll find your way back, like the string theory, Like

1148
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 3: there's a thing of like if you go to the

1149
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 3: cafe at eight fifty eight, he might come in at

1150
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 3: nine oh two, but you weren't meant to see each other,

1151
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 3: Like if you were meant to see someone, you will

1152
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,320
Speaker 3: see them again. Not in your situation.

1153
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 4: We just not go there.

1154
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 3: Not in your situation. That was just fao, that was

1155
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 3: just too much.

1156
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 4: My thing that concludes this is I feel like no

1157
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 4: it doesn't conclude. Sorry, I'm like, after this, we're done.

1158
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 4: But my thing is that, like, just go talk to her,

1159
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 4: grab a conversation with her, just how you feel.

1160
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 3: I think you need to tell her how you feel

1161
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 3: to get your healing on the way.

1162
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 2: Yea, Like what I said before, Communication is key.

1163
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 4: Communication is key.

1164
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 3: Do you have anything to leave off with the women today?

1165
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:46,280
Speaker 3: With the women, like any insight, any nice quote.

1166
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:50,720
Speaker 4: Everyone just needs to be more mindful of other people.

1167
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 4: And I think that and lead with love and communication,

1168
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 4: because like, how is anyone meant to know anything if

1169
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 4: you're not talking about it? Yeah, and like just I

1170
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 4: love it, girl, It's really easy to be a good person.

1171
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 2: You should see every day we're like just talking so positively.

1172
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 4: We should have seen our chat last night till thirty am.

1173
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 2: It was really good.

1174
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 4: I love this.

1175
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 3: I'm going to get you guys do so much more

1176
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 3: about your das because we all have very different differences.

1177
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 2: I feel like major story times. Yeah, you should let's

1178
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:20,799
Speaker 2: get it out there and say what do you want? Yeah?

1179
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 3: What do you guys?

1180
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,439
Speaker 4: Want to comment in the comments section if you want

1181
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 4: us bag?

1182
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I'll see you guys next week and maybe

1183
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 3: you'll see Tuesday Maddie soon. If not, you can probably

1184
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 3: look at our tiktoxically posted from the weekend. And we

1185
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 3: hung out on Thursday, so prepared.

1186
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 4: To be Sunday.

1187
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 3: We might go live alright, love, Oh my god, no

1188
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 3: tweet okay, guys will say okay, bye guys,