WEBVTT - ‘I WAS BULLIED INTO GETTING ONLYFANS’ ** ft Phoebe Thompson** 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.680 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:06.040 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.080 --> 0:00:07.400 my kissing style. 0:00:08.400 --> 0:00:11.119 Boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in a 0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:13.840 trash bin. He's non recyclable, catching hemmer. 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:19.320 I love being love, I love love. On today's episode 0:00:19.360 --> 0:00:21.960 of Where's Your Head At, we have Phoebe Thompson, our 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:23.720 fellow season two Love Islander. 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:27.840 We'll be talking all things at personal websites, her portrayal 0:00:27.960 --> 0:00:31.120 on Love Island, and her love life post show. 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:38.159 Stay tuned. Where's Your Head At. 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:42.440 Is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, 0:00:42.760 --> 0:00:44.960 trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:48.000 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:50.320 intimate details, advice, and much more. 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:57.520 Hey Phoebe, welcome. 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:00.120 I know you. 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:00.720 I know. 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:02.840 I haven't seen you guys in so long. 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:05.520 Yes, we've been wanting to catch up with you, and 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:07.840 we've been so flat out that we were like, we 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:09.640 have to get her on the podcast. Then we can 0:01:09.720 --> 0:01:13.120 just have like a massive session just having a chat. 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:14.360 And like, I know I was. 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:16.640 Saying to Anna before, you might be good friends with Anna, 0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:19.080 but I was pushing for you to get on this podcast, 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:20.440 if not more than Anna was. 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:22.880 Really it's not a competition. 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:25.160 It is what I was saying. I was saying, I 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:26.600 really want to have a chat with Phoebe on this 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:30.120 podcast about some of these topics. So let's get her on. 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:33.840 I'm pretty sure I missed you as well. 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:35.840 You know you did message me no, thanks, Mat, I 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:36.440 really appreciate it. 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:40.600 Just to be clear, I really wanted you. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:45.280 Yes, that shows how much I wanted you on. Okay, 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:47.760 all right, So how's your life been since leaving the 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:48.600 Love Island villa. 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:53.160 Honestly, it's kind of like very up and down, very emotional, 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:55.720 you know. I feel like I've come a long way 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:58.560 in the past two years, and especially like coming out 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:02.200 of Love Island and being triggered by everything and being 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:06.400 extremely sensitive to now kind of like kind of rolling 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:07.840 with it, if that makes sense. 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:09.840 Do you think it like it almost like made you 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:11.679 more mature and grow up a little bit more. 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:12.639 Yeah, definitely. 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:16.960 And it's made me see television and social media and 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:20.320 everything in a completely different life, and especially the people, 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:24.119 even the influences and how everything kind of worked. It's 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:26.400 made me see that in completely different life. And it's 0:02:26.840 --> 0:02:29.440 it's not a positive one I wouldn't say, but. 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:33.440 In generally and just how kind of fake. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:40.480 And how everything's very controlled and people aren't really who 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:43.120 they who they say they are, who they're you know, 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:45.600 trying to portray themselves to be on social media. 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:48.560 It's all kind of it's a brand, right, It's everything's 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:49.080 a brand. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:53.400 And it's always disappointing when you see someone online and 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:56.080 you're like, oh, you're really inspiring or you're this or 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:57.720 you're that, and then you meet them in real life 0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:00.560 and you're super disappointed with what you get. 0:03:00.600 --> 0:03:03.440 You're like, oh shit, Like that's such a letdown. 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:07.520 Yeah, that's happened so many times with people, and they're 0:03:07.560 --> 0:03:11.960 just like they're really narcissistic and they're really rude, and 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:14.840 they're cold, and they don't have time for anyone or anything, 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:18.600 or they need to be the center of attention all 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:20.520 the time, and if they're not getting that attention then 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:21.400 they almost sulk. 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:22.840 I've been in situations like that. 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:24.560 It's so embarrassing for them. 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:25.720 Also. 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:28.720 I've had interactions with people as well where they only 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:31.280 give people time of day if you have like a 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:34.639 certain amount of followers, or if you're like if you. 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:35.880 Can do better for their brand. 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.920 Yeah, if you have something to offer them, and I 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:41.920 think it's all transactional, correct, And that's like a real 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:44.080 testament when you meet someone and you have nothing to 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:47.200 offer them and they're just kind and like a genuine person, 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.160 And that's so rare to find these days. 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.440 Like we've spoken about this as well. 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:53.600 It's just it's hard, and as you said, it is 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.200 disappointing when you meet people and they're a bit of 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:56.880 a letdown. 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:57.560 Yeah. 0:03:57.600 --> 0:03:59.680 Absolutely, it happens quite often. 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:04.240 Let's go back to Love Island because I remember us 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:05.080 being on Love Island. 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:07.720 We entered the villa together, and I remember you were 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:08.160 having a. 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:10.840 Really tough time when we first got in there, like 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:13.840 obviously there's cameras on you twenty four to seven, and 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:14.680 you were just like. 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:18.279 Anna, what the fuck have I signed up for? 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:21.800 Like this is too much, Like I knew I signed 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:24.040 up to be on a reality TV show. I remember 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:26.480 you saying this, but like I don't even have any 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:28.200 privacy to like go to the toilet. 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:29.520 I don't know if it. 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:33.080 Was our particular season, because I've seen, you know, maybe 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:35.880 in other countries or even this very last season there 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:37.320 was all I don't know if it's to deal with 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:38.000 like money. 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:41.440 But I just don't feel like it was very. 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:44.400 Comfortable in what way, Like how like the. 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:47.120 Villa, like how we were living, how everything was kind 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:47.880 of set up. 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:50.000 I feel like it was very rushed. I felt like 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:51.000 they didn't have enough money. 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:52.280 Yeah, the whole live was. 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.360 Set up to not make us feel comfortable. I felt 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:57.240 like I agree, like like the bright lights, the bright 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:00.200 even down to how they had set the kitchen up, 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:02.480 like things are put in an annoying places. 0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:04.920 Yeah, yeah, no, that's so true to like. 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:06.440 Walk from one side of the kitchen to get it 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:08.400 was just all to fuck with us. I felt so. 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:11.760 You're constantly on edge, You're constantly out of your comfort zone, 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:14.560 and like like something like tiny could happen and you're 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:15.279 like bully your right. 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:15.839 Yeah it was. 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:18.920 It was so emotional. I wasn't even in there that long, 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:19.440 and I. 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:20.760 Feel how long were you in there for? 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:21.960 I don't even know. 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:24.320 A week or something. 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:27.200 I remember we used to call you now quite mean 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:32.200 negasaurus Rex walk around all negative. 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:35.400 I was so off it, like, I was so off. 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:37.400 I was like, what the fuck is this? 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.400 But you know what, I just feel like you were 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:41.880 saying what everyone was thinking, like, I was, what the 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:43.000 fuck have I signed up for? 0:05:43.120 --> 0:05:45.400 But I was like and I just like keep going, 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:47.120 keep pushing forward. 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:47.520 Keep pushing forwar. 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:49.200 But you were like no, this, I was like. 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:51.800 This, I'm very much like that. 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:54.839 I find it very hard to like, like, I'm quite 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:57.920 an emotional person and I have no filter. 0:05:57.720 --> 0:05:58.479 A lot of the time. 0:05:58.680 --> 0:05:59.720 Yeah, I just. 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:04.040 Felt like I got fucked over. Yeah, I just in 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:08.440 more ways than one coming in there. Yeah, I almost feel. 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:12.919 Like reality TV in Australia especially, it's just not for 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:14.719 people of color. 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:16.640 Yeah. 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:19.799 I didn't haven't watched all of the most recent season, 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:24.280 but I feel like even with Taku, who was very 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:28.120 popular at the beginning, it's kind of like they looked 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:29.839 at our season, We're like, oh, we can't just have 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:32.600 any token black people. Yeah, they need to have some 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:36.040 sort of, you know, main character. So they had Taku, 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:38.479 who was like really popular at the beginning, and then 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:42.479 cue the aesthetic white couple and then Taku gets no 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:44.720 airtime because they've ticked off that box. 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:47.479 And I just I don't know, it's like, do you 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:49.120 reckon that's what it was, or do you reckon? 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:50.960 He just couldn't find a connection because. 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:53.840 We did recaps of Love Island, and we were like 0:06:54.040 --> 0:06:56.400 really wanting him to find a connection, and every single 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:58.800 person that he kind of got with, he was like, nah, 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:01.599 no connection, no connection, which hats off to him. He 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:05.320 was like true to himself. But watching it, it felt. 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:07.520 Like, and they're going to follow someone that's single the 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:08.000 whole time. 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:10.000 I guess so, but you never know. 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:13.400 You never know with the editing is going on, because 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:17.280 anyone they can make out any situation to be something 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:19.360 that it's not, so we just never know. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:20.400 You just never know. 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.680 But like at the same time, coming to Love Island, 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.760 I was kind of like, I don't think any of 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:27.520 the boys in here are actually attracted to me. 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:34.800 I wouldn't say that. I think a lot of the 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:38.080 boys were attracted to you. I think that because of 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:40.040 the state of mind you're in and how you were 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:42.000 just like not enjoying the thing. I think it was 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:43.440 hard for anyone to actually like. 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:45.160 Yeah, I push I push people away? Would I do? 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:45.920 In relationship? 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:48.520 I'm like, I make it very hard for people to 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:50.200 even get close to. 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:53.520 Clo and I do like, yeah, so do you regret 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:54.080 going on then? 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:58.800 I don't regret going on it because it obviously opened 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:00.760 up a lot of avenues for me. I made some 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:03.560 like amazing friends. I wish I had a little bit 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:05.800 more support. I wish I had a better understanding of 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:08.160 what I was going into. And I kind of do 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:10.400 feel a little bit played by the producers because they 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:12.240 were like, you know, they scouted me. 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:14.760 And they were said, promise me that there was going 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:15.600 to be, you. 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:19.160 Know, a grown man, a tall. 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:21.680 Grown man who was going to be into me. Like, 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:22.480 do you know what I mean? 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:24.800 Yeah? 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:25.920 Was I not there? 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:31.520 Phoebe Literally your head was in Vanessa's art. 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:36.120 Like, yeah, look, if I had my time again, we 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:38.480 won't get into that. I've never gone there. 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:40.480 I mean, look, I think one of the best things 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.439 about Love Island is we all made really great friends. Yeah, 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:46.240 I know you live with Cassie. Still, yeah, you live 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:50.480 with Cassie. I want to talk about Vanessa because you guys, 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:52.520 you guys came. 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:55.840 Off the show we're friends, weren't friends. 0:08:56.440 --> 0:09:00.839 Then there was the photo where I think you guys 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:03.559 had taken some photos. Vanessa had posted it on her 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:07.839 social media, pretended on her only fans that you were 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:08.640 up there when. 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:11.640 You weren't, and you were kind of like, what's going on? 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:14.400 That wasn't so me and Vanessa were friends. 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:17.440 No, Actually, when she came out of Love Island she 0:09:17.559 --> 0:09:18.720 called me a snake. 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:19.040 In an interview. 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:23.960 She called everyone everything, but I didn't. 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:24.960 I don't really care about that. 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:29.000 And then we became close, and then that's not even 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:30.760 what the problem was and why we stopped talking. 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:33.520 We're fine now, so you guys are friends again. 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:34.440 We're friends again. 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:37.319 Okay, we're fine. Fine, she stopped talking. 0:09:38.679 --> 0:09:40.959 Well, I'm gonna have to bring up another cast member. 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:42.920 Okay, that's fine, Cartier. 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:48.320 Okay, So you stopped talking to Vanessa because of Cartier. 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:51.320 I don't know, because I'm going to be opening up 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:54.440 another can of worms, and it's just like, I'm not 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:57.040 friends with Cartier anymore. I'm gonna put that out there 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:59.120 and I never will be friends with her ever again. 0:09:59.240 --> 0:09:59.440 Yeap. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:03.400 Right from the start, Vanessa could see something in Cartier 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:07.640 that a lot of other people couldn't, And so after 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:10.360 the show I was close with Vanessa and Vanessa I 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:14.520 feel like she was quite sensitive about me hanging out 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:15.120 with Cartier. 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:17.120 Oka, like, you know, we had. 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:20.360 A little tiff over this the photograph. Yeah, and not 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:22.080 that I have any issues with the photograph. Of her 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:26.720 posting it, but I had an issue with just like insinuating. 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:27.680 That I was on her only fans. I wasn't. 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:30.080 I kept getting like a million messages from people, and 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:31.560 it was I just felt a bit overwhelmed. 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:33.480 I think it was a big deal when she did 0:10:33.480 --> 0:10:36.320 that because it was insinuating that you were on her 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:39.120 only fans when you weren't. And you also didn't have 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:42.040 any sort of website or anything like that at the time, 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:45.040 so that was like pushing you out of your comfort zone. 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:48.840 Yeah, it mean it was like she did ask me 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:50.880 if she could post the photo. I was fine with it, 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:54.360 but I didn't like what I wasn't okay with was 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:56.600 insinuating that I was on on the. 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:58.640 Website, which is totally fair enough. 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.880 Yeah, So I just said to her like, just like, 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:03.720 let me know if you're gonna post stuff like that, 0:11:03.840 --> 0:11:05.199 and I just don't want people to think that I'm 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:07.280 on there when i'm not because I'm getting so many messages. 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:10.520 And then that sort of put a rift in our relationship, 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:14.280 and then obviously the Cartier stuff and then she stopped 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:16.600 talking to me, like I tried to reach out with her, 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:18.160 and I was like, I don't want to lose lose 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:21.000 our friendship, but she just cut me off. 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:25.160 Wow, are you friends with anyone else from the show? Still? Yeah? 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:28.880 I talked to I think I talked to pretty much everyone, 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:31.760 apart from obviously. I don't talk to the Twins. Yep, 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:34.559 don't talk to Cartier Jared. 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:37.120 Oh, and I don't talk to Jared. 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:42.320 I mean, I'll reply to a couple of your close 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:44.760 friends stories so I can find him quite funny sometimes. 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:46.480 Can we talk about what happened with Jared? 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:48.679 Because I don't think this is like public knowledge, and 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:49.720 I just think it's. 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:52.079 Like, mate Jared. 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:56.440 Okay, I actually think Jared is a harmless like. I 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:59.120 don't even give him a thought in the day. He's 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:04.080 just yeah whatever. But you know, how he behaved on 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:06.280 Love Island, there were some things that were not shown, 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:08.360 and how he behaved I did not agree with. But 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:10.000 I didn't make a big deal about it because I'm 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.920 trying to focus on my own life. But then afterwards, 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:17.320 I just kept seeing this stuff on Instagram that was 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:23.720 just like kind of very I found it very misogynistic, yeah, 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:28.200 and just kind of ridiculous. And I made one little 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:35.160 comment on one of his posts and and he just 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:38.720 got he had his sister on me. He had like 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:42.679 he just can't take any criticism whatsoever. And I think 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:44.920 what he does on social media is he deletes any 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:48.200 negative comment or anyone disagreeing with him. But pretty much 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:52.959 it was he just kept insulting females in the fitness industry. 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:55.560 I think he was trying to copy what's his name, 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:57.200 Paul Alima. 0:12:57.679 --> 0:12:58.079 Yeah. 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:00.160 The thing that triggered me the most is when he 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:03.800 did this post about like, if you're an alcoholic, just 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:05.480 stop drinking, like, and. 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:07.560 He went random on about all this stuff. 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:09.440 And I was like, first of all, if you're an 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:12.040 alcoholic and you like it depending on alcohol, and you 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:13.720 just stop cold turkey, you can die. 0:13:14.040 --> 0:13:15.520 Yeah, Like he just. 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:17.720 And then I saw this other post where he was 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:21.520 talking about women who have had babies, and I was like, mate, 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:25.439 you're like twenty four. You come from a very privileged family. 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:26.439 Yeah. 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:27.120 The way he. 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:31.160 Delivers information, especially when it's about female or female issues 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:35.320 or female people in the fitness industry, it's just so misogynistic. 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:37.960 And I just made one little comment and he couldn't 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:38.400 handle it. 0:13:38.559 --> 0:13:40.520 And you know what, I actually take my hat off 0:13:40.559 --> 0:13:43.079 to you because I remember you. He was kind of 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:45.480 like trying to call people out because he's a pet 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:47.960 I think, and being like, no one can give advice, 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:50.280 and I like, I should only be able to give advice. 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:52.760 And he was calling other people out now season for 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:57.600 doing fitness or like nutritional things or whatever. And then 0:13:57.640 --> 0:13:59.800 I think a guy did it and he said nothing, 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.000 shut up. But the moment a girl was doing something wrong, 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:05.440 he was all over it or what he classified as 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:05.920 being wrong. 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:07.120 He was all over them. 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:10.079 And I was like, wow, like, why do you have 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:12.880 like one rule for women and one rule for men. 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:13.640 It's not cool. 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:17.679 He's got issues with women. Yeah, all right, So. 0:14:17.640 --> 0:14:20.360 On Love Island, you obviously didn't build a connection with 0:14:20.400 --> 0:14:22.520 any of the guys. Yeah, I blame you. 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:27.480 That's you know what. 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:29.280 Actually got along with Adam really well. 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:31.680 And I feel like, yeah, you knew that I got 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:32.880 along with Adam really well. 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.720 You guys are always talking. It was like I could 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.120 see that there was a connection with you guys. But 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:41.080 then I found it weird because Adam was the one 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:44.200 who essentially kicked you out of the villa, I know, 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:46.600 which was just kind of like, and. 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:48.160 We talk now. I feel like I have quite a 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:49.200 good relationship with him. 0:14:49.200 --> 0:14:51.640 Now, yeah, but I know for a fact that it 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.400 was him and not Cartier, who is like the leader 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:56.400 in that decision. So that's I was kind of like, 0:14:56.840 --> 0:15:03.800 that's so strange. But anyway, maybe it's because maybe it's 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:05.440 because he was in love with me. 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:11.080 I think he's like, I hit the golden goosey here, 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:12.000 I need to get rid of the. 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:14.080 I'm joking. 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:16.160 I'm joking, all right, So you didn't build a connection 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:18.240 with any of the guys, so you ended up coupling 0:15:18.280 --> 0:15:21.880 with Cassie in a Love Island first, the first girl 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:25.240 girl couple. A lot of people said that wasn't genuine? 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:26.840 Was it genuine? 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:31.000 I mean, I can only speak on my behalf. It 0:15:30.240 --> 0:15:32.880 wasn't not genuine. I was like, if I have to 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:35.200 pick someone who I feel like I have the strongest 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:37.920 connection to and I have attraction to, it would have 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:38.760 been cass Cassie. 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:40.240 I mean, it was a huge moment. 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:43.480 Like, you guys basically hadn't told your families that you 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:47.360 were both attracted to women, and I guess on national television, 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:50.320 you guys basically put your hands up like, hey, this 0:15:50.360 --> 0:15:52.600 is who I am like, and you know, it was 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.760 a really like amazing moment like I was so proud 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:56.200 of you as a friend. I was like, wow, this 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:58.440 is so cool. It was. 0:15:58.120 --> 0:15:59.480 It was awesome. 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:03.760 Shit when the camera's like stopped rolling and like, you know, 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:07.880 you guys hung out in Sydney and like, you know, whatever. 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:11.760 Did anything ever happen or go further with you? Guys? 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:17.520 Everyone wants Even two years later, I still have messages 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:19.720 like people like I've had messages from people being like 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:22.080 you and Cassie live together now and they think that 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:23.800 like we're actually secretly together. 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:27.440 Really I see where their heads out on. 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:31.960 That currently there's nothing going on between me and Cassie. 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:34.320 But the question is you're asking has there ever and 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:36.440 what does that mean? And you're asking if we've been intimate? 0:16:36.640 --> 0:16:44.880 Yeah maybe, I guess so. Yeah, so you technically like 0:16:45.000 --> 0:16:49.880 live with your ex in a way I can't. I honestly, 0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:52.840 you can't think of these love Island little thingies is 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:54.120 like relationship. 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:55.200 Yeah, it's just. 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:58.920 Like it's just like you know, Well, when I caught 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:00.920 up with her after the show, she said she considers 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:01.640 me as her ex. 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:04.480 I did, but she said she does. Yeah, she's just 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:07.439 trying to do And my dumb ass was. 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:13.320 Like, yeah, okay, you were like, I can't imagine, Like. 0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:16.040 Okay, Phoebe has a new business venture and we're going 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:17.240 to talk about that next. 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:22.800 All right, Phoebe, so we've seen you have a new 0:17:22.840 --> 0:17:25.200 business venture. Can you tell us a little bit about that? 0:17:25.400 --> 0:17:29.959 Pretty much, I'm doing essentially only fans, but I'm not 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:32.600 on only fans. I have my own website, which is 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:38.600 Phoebe Thompson dot com, subscribe plug it, So I, honestly 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:41.240 I have to feel like, with talking about my website, 0:17:41.280 --> 0:17:43.280 I have to go back to how I was portrayed 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:43.919 on Love Island. 0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:45.520 Yeah, and what came from that. 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:49.560