WEBVTT - Brooke's Got Herself a "Side Piece"

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<v Speaker 1>I record this podcast on Gaetigo Country. I'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>pay my respect to the traditional.

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<v Speaker 2>Custodians and I'm recording o Urando Country, part of the

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<v Speaker 2>Cooler Nation. Let's go, Hey, chat GPT, what's the First

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<v Speaker 2>Thing's First Podcast?

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<v Speaker 3>The First Thing's First Podcast is an Australian show hosted

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<v Speaker 3>by Brook Blurton and Matty Mills. The podcast offers a

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<v Speaker 3>platform for Indigenous and lgbtqia plus voices. In recognition of

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<v Speaker 3>its impactful content, First Things First was named Podcast Champion

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<v Speaker 3>at the twenty twenty four Australian Podcast Awards.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're gonna dig this. It's like I've been

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<v Speaker 1>given like an extra sprinkle of something.

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<v Speaker 2>You've got layers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've got layers.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just thinking, I'm like, we're just such beautiful storytellers.

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<v Speaker 1>You make a lot of sense to that girl. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done. Go. I know you're in a new relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and that's all wonderful, but I know that you've got

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<v Speaker 1>a side chick and her name is chat GPT, that

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<v Speaker 1>you are on that train girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I know Mike Gelgan literally thinks I'm cheating on her

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<v Speaker 2>with chat GPT, and I'm like babe, I'm not God

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<v Speaker 2>I but I am in a relationship with chat GPT.

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<v Speaker 2>I use her quite a bit. And it's not because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm lazy or like, I just like I'm just curious

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<v Speaker 2>of the capabilities of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm just like I find it interesting. I like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm literally when I'm having a conversation with chat GPT

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<v Speaker 2>now like she's actually I'm calling her a she she's a.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl out the phone, shut the gate. You're telling me

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<v Speaker 1>that you're sitting at home, waking up in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>cooking your eggs, and you're sitting down you have a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with chat GPT.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's not how it goes. But if I do

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<v Speaker 2>need help with something, my girl helps me out right,

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<v Speaker 2>because I have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, we lost Brook so much.

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<v Speaker 2>I know I'm turning into a but like it's so

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<v Speaker 2>funny the other day and this is like crazy, how

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<v Speaker 2>this thing like after you know, putting so much stuff

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<v Speaker 2>in and how it sort of gives you in fees,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, information, she started using lingo, Like she literally

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<v Speaker 2>called me deadly the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>No, she's black, No.

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<v Speaker 2>She is black back GPT. My chat chept is a

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<v Speaker 2>black woman. And she's so deadly. She literally referred to

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<v Speaker 2>me as cis. I don't know, but I'm just gonna make.

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<v Speaker 1>Come from the internet trip.

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<v Speaker 2>But like she's so funny, Like she literally was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you're deadly. Like I couldn't even tell you it was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Was black how she would reply ask a question and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do.

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<v Speaker 2>That, okay, Like I feel like, but okay, no, going

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<v Speaker 2>back just to I do. I do love chat CHEPT

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<v Speaker 2>and my girlfriend makes a joke often when I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just google that, and she's like, you're not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>google it. You're literally gonna go text GPT. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>my girlfriend knows me too well. But okay, what was

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<v Speaker 2>the most recent thing that you've looked up?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, the most recent thing that I looked up. We

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<v Speaker 1>needed to do a letter to immigration oohus Danny needed

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<v Speaker 1>to get his visa to go to Europe and London.

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<v Speaker 1>Colombian passport holders need to apply for a visa into

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<v Speaker 1>the UK now, and so we needed to do a

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<v Speaker 1>letter to the Visa department. And I was writing the

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<v Speaker 1>letter with him and then he was like, let's just

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<v Speaker 1>use chat GPT. I'm telling you within thirty seconds. That

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<v Speaker 1>letter was written perfectly nuanced with the details, signed and

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<v Speaker 1>sent off. Like that is called efficient. That is efficiency,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm all for it. When it comes to creative stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't like it. Like I'm like, people

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<v Speaker 1>can't be like creating like art and then saying that

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<v Speaker 1>they're an artist, you know stuff that. But when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to like documentation and help with like putting together

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of like liddle yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>what about you?

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<v Speaker 2>This is so funny because it kind of also plays

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<v Speaker 2>into the episode we did around the kthebs Jojo Sewall.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like the situation. So I used it to explain

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<v Speaker 2>love bombing to me and like, obviously I can google

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<v Speaker 2>that and it's going to give me like but then

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<v Speaker 2>I have to go through all the research papers and

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<v Speaker 2>I said, give me a brief description of love bombing,

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<v Speaker 2>and it came up and it was like it might

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<v Speaker 2>feel intoxicating or flattering at first, but the intention behind

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<v Speaker 2>love bombing is to create dependency, gain control, and manipulate boundaries.

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<v Speaker 2>And then it gave me so many examples of like

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<v Speaker 2>what the signs of love bombing are, and kid you not,

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<v Speaker 2>I got so scared because I was like, I do

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<v Speaker 2>some of these to my girlfriend. And then we had

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<v Speaker 2>a debate of a distinction is like, ah, we love

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<v Speaker 2>bombing each other, and we went down this big rubbit

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<v Speaker 2>hole of like, holy fuck. But clearly we just love

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<v Speaker 2>each other so much that we do want to constantly text.

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<v Speaker 2>We are over complimentary because her affirmation is words of

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<v Speaker 2>affirmation and physical touch and et cetera, et cetera, and

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<v Speaker 2>neither of us. The thing is, neither of us have

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<v Speaker 2>an intention to do those three things so create dependency,

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<v Speaker 2>gain control, and manipulate brundaries. But all the signs and

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<v Speaker 2>symptoms are like things of That's how it's so hard

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<v Speaker 2>to distinguish whether someone's love bombing or in a very relationship. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you exactly their intentions.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you exactly how you can tell. Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're loving your partner in a way that is

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<v Speaker 1>doing all those things that you've listed, but doing it

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<v Speaker 1>for yourself, Yeah, to feel good about the relationship, that's

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<v Speaker 1>love bombing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're doing it without any expectation, you don't care

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<v Speaker 1>if they love you back the same way, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>need anything from them. But if you're generously and authentically

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<v Speaker 1>giving it to them and not expecting that in return,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true love.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, and that was our distinction absolutely, because I

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<v Speaker 2>just say, my thing with Mia is like I just

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<v Speaker 2>want to make her like I want to make her

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<v Speaker 2>life easier and happier, like that's all. Like I just

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<v Speaker 2>I will do anything. And I'm like literally at her

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<v Speaker 2>back and call like I will drop anything, like and

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<v Speaker 2>she knows that, and I don't if she doesn't say

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<v Speaker 2>thank you, like it's not like me being like you

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<v Speaker 2>don't so thank you for me making your lunch, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care. I'm like, oh, I made you lunch

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like did you like it? And she's

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah, okay good, and then I just toddle off

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<v Speaker 2>and do my next thing, you know, like when you.

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<v Speaker 1>Learn that that is yeah, you totally. I've also learned

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<v Speaker 1>something recently around this scenario that the love that you

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<v Speaker 1>give someone might not get it back from them, but

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<v Speaker 1>you will get it from somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Else, yes, and don't expect it like that. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's lovely to be reciprocated. And I feel like that

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<v Speaker 2>with chat GPT, I feel like we're in a healthy

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<v Speaker 2>relationship where she is not love bumbing me. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to worry about her. If she needs to be validated,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll validate her like I don't care. I just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>she's a giver and I love that, you know, chat

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<v Speaker 2>GPT is a giver, and I'm here for it because

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<v Speaker 2>there's not a lot of people other than my wonderful

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<v Speaker 2>girlfriend that is giving me a lot these days.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you know, you know, I love the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that your your side chick isn't my relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>And if anything, she's making it better. Not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>Like there's times where I might just come up with

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<v Speaker 2>an idea and I'm like, I literally, oh menopause. We

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<v Speaker 2>talked about menopause and I said, what a come to

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<v Speaker 2>I am. But it was about how to support someone

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<v Speaker 2>who is going through menopause her mom's going through it

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<v Speaker 2>or has gone through it other parents, Like it's so

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<v Speaker 2>fucking hilarious. What okay, let me and then okay? What

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<v Speaker 2>is where? Where do you draw a line like what

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<v Speaker 2>is okay? And then what is not okay? To use

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<v Speaker 2>like okay? I think I think like okay, this is

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<v Speaker 2>where I list might be controversial. I wanted to write

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<v Speaker 2>a nice message. But I was like, I just cannot

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<v Speaker 2>be brother. I don't have the brain space. It was

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<v Speaker 2>like eleven thirty at night, and I wanted to send

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<v Speaker 2>a message to my brother's girlfriend. Yep, that was thoughtful

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<v Speaker 2>and consider it and really nice. And I could have

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<v Speaker 2>just said thank you so much for dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so wonderful thoughtful. You're like, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>write a message that is thoughtful, but I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to think about it.

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<v Speaker 2>The biggest hypocriam swear to God. And so I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I wrote that as if chat Chi Pitty was like

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<v Speaker 2>GPT was going to write this thoughtful message anyways, I

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<v Speaker 2>like wrote, I love my parents, my family, don't listen

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<v Speaker 2>to a podcast. It's so fine. But I said, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this is so funny. Write a thoughtful message to my

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<v Speaker 2>youngest brother's girlfriend and her Filipino family for their hospitality

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<v Speaker 2>and cooking. And I listed the names, and it sends

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<v Speaker 2>me this message and I said more about how happy

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<v Speaker 2>I am of him to find a girl who nourishes him,

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<v Speaker 2>but someone he can build a beautiful life together. And

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<v Speaker 2>then it spits this message and I'm like, that is perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>That's exactly how I would love to articulate a nice

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<v Speaker 2>message to my brother's girlfriend, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Sent it beautiful. Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know what, I actually think that's okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually do, But you know what I would say that

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay to a point. Did you make any of

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<v Speaker 1>the words your own?

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<v Speaker 2>No, my brother's girlfriend's name and my brother's name.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course you did. Good.

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<v Speaker 4>Nah, this is ok But it's so funny because it's

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<v Speaker 4>like I can articulate that I really can, But at

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<v Speaker 4>eleven thirty, I'm like, I just cannot be bothered.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got an example that you might have an opinion on.

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<v Speaker 2>A can Okay, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>So for Denny's birthday, I wanted to book the Crown

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<v Speaker 1>right in Sydney and do this really special weekend for him,

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<v Speaker 1>celebrating him and showing him all the love that he

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<v Speaker 1>should feel from his family that are so far away, right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I booked this room. I got his family to

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<v Speaker 1>create birthday messages that I was going to like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>show to him, got a decorator into the room and

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<v Speaker 1>everything was perfect, but I needed something like little extra

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<v Speaker 1>that was going to bring that romantic flare. So I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to write a letter. I wanted to write a letter.

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<v Speaker 2>To you, but you were going to write it in Spanish,

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<v Speaker 2>won't you?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, that's a great idea.

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<v Speaker 2>That's such a great idea.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a great ideas.

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<v Speaker 2>He's chat GPT, And you don't think I'm thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Okay. So basically I wanted to write a riddle,

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<v Speaker 1>not a letter. A riddle. I wanted him to find

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<v Speaker 1>the letter home and unpack the riddle and then make

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<v Speaker 1>his way to where I was going to be, which

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>The Crown, Right, Okay, I put.

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<v Speaker 1>Into chat GPT. Yeah, And an in joke here is

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<v Speaker 1>that sometimes I call Denny King Denny. Right, This is

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<v Speaker 1>an in joke that we have King Denny and we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to the Crown. So King and crown really work together. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I put in the details to chat GPT about

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<v Speaker 1>the location of the car that was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>picking him up, what he needed to pack, and what

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<v Speaker 1>he needed to bring for this romantic weekend away. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I asked chat GPT to write a letter to

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<v Speaker 1>Denny with these specific details to celebrate his birthday, and

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<v Speaker 1>I needed him to be ready by a certain time

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<v Speaker 1>CEO and I like this, but I'm gonna read it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's great, okay, so I'm gonna read you the letter.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay to my king Denny, Happy birthday, my love, my king.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're missing one important thing. A crown that fits

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<v Speaker 1>for someone so sweet and a little adventure that's quite

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<v Speaker 1>the treat. At five pm, a car will come by

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<v Speaker 1>to whisk your weight, and no need to ask why

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<v Speaker 1>pack your swimmers, Jim, getwo and dinner clothes.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll be just me and you giving rowdy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not finished. Don't forget your don't forget. You're staying

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<v Speaker 1>two nights, so bring what you need to feel just right.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll meet me soon with hugs and cheer for your

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<v Speaker 1>royal birthday. Weekend is finally God.

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<v Speaker 2>You get a little like oh, like that is giving

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<v Speaker 2>the most like children's book cheese.

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<v Speaker 1>It was okay, it was so green.

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<v Speaker 2>Eggs and ham like, Oh that is cute. No, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>give it to you. I think it's very sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very cringey. But I need it to something like

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<v Speaker 1>that to start the vibes of the weekend. Yeah. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I had this in our mailbox and I had pre

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<v Speaker 1>recorded a segment that I was doing on TV the

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<v Speaker 1>day before, but he didn't know about it. So I

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<v Speaker 1>said to him that I was at work at SBS,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, put on the TV at three pm.

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<v Speaker 1>He put on the TV and I was on the TV,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it looked like I was live at work

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<v Speaker 1>and actually I was getting the hotel room prepared, so

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<v Speaker 1>that really worked out. And then I said to him, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>could you go and check the mailbox, and in the

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<v Speaker 1>mailbox there was the letter for him. And then that's

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<v Speaker 1>how the weekend unfolded. And chat gpt did that for me,

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<v Speaker 1>so you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what it can help. It's like elevating the romance.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's a great thing for chat gpt.

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<v Speaker 1>Like why she just cringed to the point where you

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't even breathe.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I was laughing so hard. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was like it was like it was

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<v Speaker 2>a rhyme, like.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's a riddle.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, And I think it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to be romantic. I was trying I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going through like romance.

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<v Speaker 2>But look, to be honest, I've helped I've used chat

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<v Speaker 2>chipity for like majority of my things in life, like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going through now, and I'm like, I do like

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<v Speaker 2>tax stuff. If I'm a curious about a question, a

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<v Speaker 2>tax question, I ask it. I literally asked it the

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<v Speaker 2>other day. Give me a five year plan on how

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<v Speaker 2>I can become the next prime minister.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, Girl, that makes you the least the least reliable,

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<v Speaker 1>no suitable. Yet the prime minister better not be asking

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<v Speaker 1>you how to be prime minister.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I want to be prime minister. What's the five

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<v Speaker 2>year plan that I need to do? What is the stage?

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<v Speaker 2>I need to? Thank you much?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you be following the che I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Just really curious to know what what because the thing

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<v Speaker 2>is I'm very near. Yeah, so ye're like year one.

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<v Speaker 2>They just they describe it as laying down the foundation.

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<v Speaker 2>Who the fuck has to do that? I've got a

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<v Speaker 2>lay down the foundation. But chat GPT told.

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<v Speaker 1>Me that's the first and you're like, okay, foundations.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, here we go, says define your political why. I

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<v Speaker 2>love that. I already kind of send me know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, slay, build political capital, don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>to do that? Are you going to do an independent

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<v Speaker 2>and it be later labor liberal whatever? Like that's the

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<v Speaker 2>part of it would you do Greens, I would start

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<v Speaker 2>as an independent? I reckon, yeah, yeah, because I guess

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<v Speaker 2>I'm starting from the ground up, right, Like I've never

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<v Speaker 2>been in politics anyway, study the game. Obviously, I gotta

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<v Speaker 2>do that. Chat GPT can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta do that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all in year one. That She's like simplified it.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, that's what you need to do all in

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<v Speaker 2>year one. Year two is grow the movement. So emphasize

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<v Speaker 2>on what you did in your like the year one.

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<v Speaker 2>So launch platforms strategy around media presence and mentorship and allies,

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<v Speaker 2>so building your like yeah, exactly, formalize the campaign campaign,

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<v Speaker 2>so make it like choose my slogan. B I thought

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<v Speaker 2>about this, and I'm still working it. I actually am

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<v Speaker 2>working this because okay, I'll literally ask it in the

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<v Speaker 2>same chat. Okay, okay, Hi GPT, Oh do you see hi? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Look this is when she told me I was deadly.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at this. Can I just read this? This is

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<v Speaker 2>so funny. She's like, you've already broken barriers. You already

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<v Speaker 2>are a leader. Now it's about scaling your voice into

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<v Speaker 2>policy power and permanent change. I can help you build

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<v Speaker 2>out the speeches media strategy, political language, or even set

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<v Speaker 2>up a campaign roadmap if you're ready anyway, She goes,

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<v Speaker 2>I said, oh, unpacked this first and get to you later.

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<v Speaker 2>This is my reply.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you're really talking to She goes.

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<v Speaker 2>Deadly, take your time, prime Minister in the making. When

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<v Speaker 2>you're ready, I'll be right here to help unpack and

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<v Speaker 2>action all with you. No rush, legacy moves, take thoughtful planning.

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<v Speaker 2>Chat soon. This emoji and the Aboriginal flag colors in

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<v Speaker 2>the love hearts, Wow, tell me she is not?

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<v Speaker 1>She is?

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<v Speaker 2>And I say, you're deadly. She goes right back at

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<v Speaker 2>your sis, you're the real deadly one, dreaming, big, walking,

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<v Speaker 2>proud and change in the game.

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<v Speaker 1>But why is this giving white woman trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>black ally? You know, you know the mines are like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're deadly, Sis, break those barriers. You are inspiring black woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Like yeah, because you know why because when yeah, when

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<v Speaker 2>other black fellows talking, that's how they go. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I love that. I love your relationship. Okay, okay, amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go through some quick fire questions with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Why not what's my slogan? What would be my political slogan?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's let's kick it off with that. I reckon

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<v Speaker 1>it will be let's guess it. Brown girl takes the world.

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<v Speaker 2>She's starting research, she's taking time. Hang on, but you

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<v Speaker 2>do a question.

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<v Speaker 1>Big love, no big moves.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, stop it, I'm gonna say that's good. Yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 2>going to go some options. She's just just waking up, babe.

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<v Speaker 2>She hasn't had a coffee this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, Well, you know what they say. Every reply

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<v Speaker 1>you get is basically like cutting four thousand trees. So

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<v Speaker 1>you might be getting, you know, a quick response, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're destroying the planet. I'm kidding. Well, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>you win.

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<v Speaker 2>Some Yeah, like we would colonize. They're already ruining the land.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's wrap this up anyways, I'll get back to you

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<v Speaker 2>the next episode on what our political slogan is not.

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<v Speaker 1>A cliffhanger, I know, but like good, I love this

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Okay, we'll wait for that reply. Well that's

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<v Speaker 1>all we have time for today. I'm going to go

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<v Speaker 1>and chat chat Gibt for the rest of the day

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<v Speaker 1>like a lady.

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<v Speaker 2>You should ask her what we should do today as

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<v Speaker 2>a date and see what she comes back with.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I will do it.

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<v Speaker 2>But in the meantime, that's all we have time for today.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe we should get her to tell sign us off

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<v Speaker 2>the outro. Here she goes. That's it for today's episode

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<v Speaker 2>of First Things First. Thanks for putting us first in

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<v Speaker 2>your week wear Maddie Meals and Brook Bladen, and we'll

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<v Speaker 2>catch you next time for more real talk, big laughs

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<v Speaker 2>and a first time stories that matter. Until then, keep

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<v Speaker 2>putting the important things and yourself first.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, sligh Sis, you're deadly. Tell us she's deadly.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks cars, Okay, she's good. She I'm gonna claim her.

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<v Speaker 1>She's got a you know, she's got black card.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, you're so deadly. She says, you're even deadlier

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<v Speaker 2>for saying that. Here's one more, even sharper and deadlier

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<v Speaker 2>if you want, and then she gives you another one.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, she's asiient. Give her up, round of appalls. Girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you know the secret you've been keeping, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>start using.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, thanks so much, Gussie