Speaker 1: Matt, you are looking absolutely glowing today. What's your secret?
Speaker 2: Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning myss
Speaker 2: called doldy b with two e's.
Speaker 1: I have to check it out. I've never heard of it.
Speaker 2: Go to their instagram.
Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale, I want the prince charming
Speaker 1: she how.
Speaker 2: Do I put this? Isn't a fan of my kissing.
Speaker 1: Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in
Speaker 1: a trash bin. He's non recyclable catching them mu.
Speaker 2: I love being love, I love love. I've got a
Speaker 2: nose job.
Speaker 1: No, how would I've had a no shop? He tak
Speaker 1: me like three days ago. Where's Your Head At is
Speaker 1: a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV,
Speaker 1: trending shows, and everything in between.
Speaker 2: This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,
Speaker 2: intimate details, advice, and much more.
Speaker 1: Hello. Hello, we are back in this year. We've got
Speaker 1: our iced lattes in hand because we're in the peak
Speaker 1: of summer high that Hello.
Speaker 2: Anna, we were nervous, said I wasn't going to make
Speaker 2: it today. Virgin messaged me last time checking it now
Speaker 2: at like what like three pm or something, saying we
Speaker 2: advise the Gold Coast, whether might impact your flight. I
Speaker 2: sent it across you. I was like, damn, we might
Speaker 2: not make it that hurricane, but it hasn't hit the
Speaker 2: Gold Coast at also are fine.
Speaker 1: We've had a couple of those messages like since like
Speaker 1: when you're in Gold Coast, I feel like those messages
Speaker 1: come up a lot.
Speaker 2: I'm like, why did you see when I print screened
Speaker 2: had sent you the message me replying to him one
Speaker 2: of them it doesn't go through, but I was like,
Speaker 2: please don't delay my flight.
Speaker 1: Please, with the love of God.
Speaker 2: It didn't actually go through, but I always send messages
Speaker 2: back to him.
Speaker 1: Our podcast listeners Needa.
Speaker 2: They need us to come in. Well, we have our lattes. Yes,
Speaker 2: but guess what, Anna, actually, guess what.
Speaker 1: What, Matthew.
Speaker 2: I have been writing down my IX and turn ons now,
Speaker 2: so yeah, has that come out that episode where I
Speaker 2: is it where I say that I don't I don't
Speaker 2: write them down? Well, here I do. I've been riding Leaf. Yeah,
Speaker 2: new Leaf knew me. So my ear is getting.
Speaker 1: Straight in He's like, I've got through. Yeah, I've got it.
Speaker 2: Well this week was so this morning I got on
Speaker 2: the plane and the air conditioning wasn't working.
Speaker 1: I actually that gives me so much like severe anxiety.
Speaker 1: Well it's severe, yeah, I reckon.
Speaker 2: It was like thirty degrees already on the Gold Coast
Speaker 2: this morning when I was on the plane, and it's
Speaker 2: a cylinder sitting in the sun with bodies everywhere, and the.
Speaker 1: End everyone's warm breath, Yeah, like.
Speaker 2: Warm bodies, warm everything. And we're sitting there and I
Speaker 2: was sweating, and I think they were trying to fix
Speaker 2: the air conditioning, so we weren't taking off, so we're
Speaker 2: sitting there even longer. Reckon, We're sitting there for like
Speaker 2: half an hour, thirty five minutes. Oh, it was. It
Speaker 2: was brutal, Like I had like my the emergency thing,
Speaker 2: you know, the pamphlets, myself down.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: The fanning thing, though, is an old lifestail because once
Speaker 2: you stop fanning, because you've been moving your body so much,
Speaker 2: you're actually hot and you've got no cool. So for
Speaker 2: it to work, you have to keep fanning yourself.
Speaker 1: I was at the Australian Open and I was in
Speaker 1: direct sunlight this is last week, and I was like
Speaker 1: I got given a fan and I was fanning myself
Speaker 1: the whole time, and it literally saved me because at
Speaker 1: the Australian Open, they kept opening the roof so I
Speaker 1: would get into the shade and then they'd open the
Speaker 1: roof more and I was like.
Speaker 2: Dad, I was sitting in a control box as your
Speaker 2: moving seats. Yeah, So the engndition didn't work. It eventually
Speaker 2: came on when we took off, then went off again,
Speaker 2: and then that was funny because the person in front
Speaker 2: of me I was actually laughing. So I was like,
Speaker 2: I could imagine if I was on this flight with Tammy,
Speaker 2: I'd be getting so irritable because his misso was like
Speaker 2: laying on him and I could tell he was like
Speaker 2: sweating and getting real like get off. And I was like,
Speaker 2: I'd fee the same because I'd be like the same,
Speaker 2: like a sweaty mess. And his girlfriend was like what
Speaker 2: what baby, and he was like I'm sweating and he
Speaker 2: was full mess. So that was my ick of this week.
Speaker 1: That should be illegal to put people on a flight
Speaker 1: if the aircon's not working, Like just don't put people
Speaker 1: on the flight until it's actually on.
Speaker 2: I actually think sometimes they will cancel the flight, and
Speaker 2: I think that would have been worse because I'd be
Speaker 2: right now still on the gold Coast, so not in here.
Speaker 2: So I was like, I'd rather sweat this out than
Speaker 2: be stuck at the airport.
Speaker 1: Poor air quality, like I feel like on flights you're
Speaker 1: so likely to get sick because of everyone's germs in
Speaker 1: the one cylinder, Like you.
Speaker 2: Said, does the air con circulate the air though, I
Speaker 2: think it's just cold air. I'm not sure. I'm not
Speaker 2: an engineer of a plane. Also, I've got another ic
Speaker 2: Oh we.
Speaker 1: Got two today, making up for last week, making up one.
Speaker 2: I so this is for Melbournian's only Michaelam Road McDonald's.
Speaker 2: You are the worst. Sorry if you work there, no, no, Actually,
Speaker 2: if you work there or you know someone that works there,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but I've had nothing but bad experiences.
Speaker 1: Where is that? What suburb are we talking?
Speaker 2: It's opposite. I'm going to say Gladstone Park. It's on
Speaker 2: the way to the airport. It's the one right for
Speaker 2: the airport that you get off Melbourne Airport.
Speaker 1: Melbourne Airport if you ever been heard of Gladston Park?
Speaker 1: So what they just give you bad orders?
Speaker 2: They order r So today I ordered an oat lass
Speaker 2: ice laste and I ordered a sausage egg McMuffin with
Speaker 2: barbecue sauce. They gave me a normal ice last hay
Speaker 2: and no barbecue sauce. But that's that's not the start
Speaker 2: of it. I remember I went in there one time.
Speaker 2: My mum picked me up from the airport because the
Speaker 2: drive through wasn't working again problem. So he went in
Speaker 2: and the girl literally like threw me my coffee. Even
Speaker 2: my mum was like, well that was a bit much.
Speaker 2: It was weird as I've had. I've gone there before,
Speaker 2: I've ordered a large they gave me a small coffee.
Speaker 2: Like nothing but bad experiences.
Speaker 1: That man, this is becoming a full blown call out.
Speaker 1: Matt is airing his personal grievances to all of us
Speaker 1: and we don't actually care.
Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying, that's my ear.
Speaker 1: You're just saying, like, if you are passing the airport
Speaker 1: McDonald but.
Speaker 2: It's an establishment that don't go it's to that one. Well,
Speaker 2: it's meant to be a finest publishment that you get
Speaker 2: off the freeway, you go through the drive through, you
Speaker 2: have a nice experience to jump back on the freeway,
Speaker 2: or you're on your way to the airport, you do
Speaker 2: the same thing. You know what I mean. I think
Speaker 2: there is amount of trust that we put into that
Speaker 2: McDonald's and they have left us.
Speaker 1: I've heard it all now, I swear to God, I've
Speaker 1: heard it all now.
Speaker 2: So if you're working there, I know someone that working there.
Speaker 2: I accept apologies through inbox.
Speaker 1: Here's absolutely sick. What's your I have a real grievance
Speaker 1: this week. So I've had a couple of inbox messages
Speaker 1: today because a YouTube video went up today and I
Speaker 1: have been included in this guy's YouTube video. What do
Speaker 1: you mean I haven't so Matt has no idea about this.
Speaker 1: This is like, if you're hearing this fresh for the
Speaker 1: first time, I'm going to let you and everyone else
Speaker 1: listen to this and then I want to get your raw,
Speaker 1: genuine reaction. But all I will say is I was
Speaker 1: the most pissed off person on the planet this morning.
Speaker 1: I had another inch of the week that was put
Speaker 1: into the bin.
Speaker 2: And this is Now, are you like in the background
Speaker 2: or something or is it you?
Speaker 1: So he like compiles girls at the gym and like
Speaker 1: puts them into his YouTube video whilst he has this
Speaker 1: like opinion. Anyway, that's all I'm gonna say. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: play it now. Put your headphones on. Get ready for
Speaker 1: this shit. It's wild.
Speaker 3: The question for you, should women be able to wear
Speaker 3: whatever they want at the gym?
Speaker 2: No, No, they shouldn't. Okay, I'm being a bit facetious.
Speaker 3: You should be able to wear whatever you want anywhere,
Speaker 3: but sometimes what you choose to wear has a few
Speaker 3: repercussions attached to it. I'm not saying you should be
Speaker 3: assaulted or attacked in any way, but much like looking
Speaker 3: into the sun, sometimes men at the gym cannot help.
Speaker 2: But look at your.
Speaker 4: Entire ass that is exposed because you're wearing booty shorts
Speaker 4: that are being eaten by your ringer. What I'm talking
Speaker 4: about in this video is this massive trend that's happening
Speaker 4: right now on TikTok and Instagram.
Speaker 2: It's filled with.
Speaker 3: Women in their twenties complaining that men keep looking at
Speaker 3: them at the gym. But here's the thing, you can
Speaker 3: see their assholes, and in reality, in these videos, all
Speaker 3: that's really happening is people are glancing at them as
Speaker 3: they walk past because you can see their assholes. Now,
Speaker 3: I don't want anyone to feel uncomfortable at the gym.
Speaker 3: You should be able to go there and train and
Speaker 3: that's it. But if you are wearing basically underwear, people
Speaker 3: are gonna look in the same vein that if you're
Speaker 3: a man and you're looking good at the gym and
Speaker 3: you're wearing you're just underwear and everyone can see your.
Speaker 2: Cock, people are gonna look at it. Male, female, everyone.
Speaker 2: People are just gonna look.
Speaker 3: This video isn't about genuine creeps that make people feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 3: That's not what this video is about at all. And
Speaker 3: the videos that tend to go viral online they're not
Speaker 3: about genuine creeps either.
Speaker 2: They're just people just slightly glancing.
Speaker 1: Okay, I just want to know from that, what is
Speaker 1: your initial thoughts on that video, because I've got a
Speaker 1: lot to say.
Speaker 2: Well, that guy's clearly a misogynist, and I feel like
Speaker 2: he's doing that for like views and for reaction and
Speaker 2: clear like surely he doesn't actually think that honestly.
Speaker 1: Watching that video this morning boiled my blood. So I
Speaker 1: posted a video on TikTok and I think it was
Speaker 1: like me doing squats, and I was like, reasons why
Speaker 1: I hate going to the gym, and then it was
Speaker 1: only one reason. It was like number one men staring
Speaker 1: at me, which is true. Like I don't go to
Speaker 1: gyms because of that reason, because it doesn't make me
Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable. That's like a very lived, true experience. Why
Speaker 1: are you smiling?
Speaker 2: Because I'm just like, do you go to the gym ever?
Speaker 1: I've started running, I'm like now a runner, so like
Speaker 1: I like exercise in my own free time, or like
Speaker 1: I'll go swimming at the pool. But like you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, I don't really like owing gyms because
Speaker 1: I do feel like there's eyes on you. Anyway, this
Speaker 1: fucking loser is compiling all of this tiktoks, me being
Speaker 1: one of them, and he's having these like crazy stupid
Speaker 1: opinions like saying, Oh, I'm not saying you should get assaulted. Well, no, shit,
Speaker 1: of course we shouldn't get assaulted. What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: That's women's exercising clothing, Like that's what all women wear.
Speaker 1: That's so just Oh, I'm just like so angry.
Speaker 2: How long is that video goes for a while? Does
Speaker 2: he still go on for like a whole.
Speaker 1: Eighteen minutes bangs on about it? And I just anyway,
Speaker 1: we're not going to listen to more of it because
Speaker 1: I don't even want to give this back anytime. I'm
Speaker 1: not even mentioning his name, but I was just like,
Speaker 1: how could you be so dumb? Also, like, don't include
Speaker 1: my video that's a real lived experience. Don't like poo
Speaker 1: poo it just because you're a misogynistic fuck face.
Speaker 2: I know that my my sisters had problems without a
Speaker 2: gym like this, like people stare at her when she
Speaker 2: works out and makes her feel uncomfortable, so she's moved
Speaker 2: gyms as well.
Speaker 1: Like, for instance, if I got the gym, I literally
Speaker 1: put my air pods in and I'm like focused on
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. My eyes aren't wondering, I'm not looking
Speaker 1: around seeing he's around. Like I don't know. I just
Speaker 1: think like it's just uncalled for. And I just think,
Speaker 1: to the gym, girls wear leggings, right, and even if
Speaker 1: they are booty shorts, leggings still show your bum, right,
Speaker 1: So like what are we supposed to do about that?
Speaker 1: Like he's kind of like implying, oh, well, it's your
Speaker 1: own fault.
Speaker 2: What he meant to we like baggy trackies, So then
Speaker 2: how do you work out and work out properly?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not our fault. I think, like, keep
Speaker 1: your fucking eyes to yourself, you freak, and just carry
Speaker 1: on with your workout.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and if some people do want some good active
Speaker 2: wear that fits perfectly, go get some, baby. I know.
Speaker 2: I agree, Like that guy's a fucking muppets and I
Speaker 2: think he's doing that for like, you know, the reaction
Speaker 2: and the like you said, cloud and like the views,
Speaker 2: and he's trying to ruffle feathers.
Speaker 1: It just scares me because he has like two million
Speaker 1: YouTube followers, and I'm like, us.
Speaker 2: A bunch of ignorant misogynists as well.
Speaker 1: Probably, yeah, I know, but that's scary to me because
Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck, like, that's a lot of people who
Speaker 1: are subscribing to this guy tuning in like probably like
Speaker 1: a lot of like young guys would be like regurgitating
Speaker 1: things that he says. I think that's really scary to me.
Speaker 2: Well, if you know a guy that follows him, that's
Speaker 2: probably a red flag. You probably shouldn't shouldn't go near
Speaker 2: that guy speaking about me plugging my fiance stuff. And
Speaker 2: I've got to eat somehow. My turn on of the
Speaker 2: week is that her book is dropping this week, or
Speaker 2: it would have dropped yesterday.
Speaker 1: She's mabe She's got a book coming out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's called show Up, Show Up. Yeah, it's called
Speaker 2: show Up. So it's comes out. She's written a book.
Speaker 2: I'm very proud of her. She's been sending a lot
Speaker 2: of nights editing it and going over it. So I'm
Speaker 2: excited to read. It's probably the first book I read.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I told her that, and I'll
Speaker 2: probably start to finish and I don't know. I mean
Speaker 2: the last book I read start to finish was Goosebumps
Speaker 2: in like year three. I'm still My hero is Arnie Schwartzninger,
Speaker 2: and I'm still reading his book and it's I reckon.
Speaker 2: I started that when I was speaking, finished that when
Speaker 2: I was eight.
Speaker 1: You told me you read that whole thing, you liar?
Speaker 2: Well have you seen how big it is? Total recall
Speaker 2: my unbelievable life story.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a slow reader, so like I cannot
Speaker 1: even give you shade on that one because I'm like
Speaker 1: still reading the same book that I was reading in
Speaker 1: Bali on that Girl's trip when Michael proposed to me.
Speaker 2: So it's called show Up. It's about her life story,
Speaker 2: and it's got some motivation in there as well.
Speaker 1: Do you get a special mention in there.
Speaker 2: I'm not. I don't think so what I actually just
Speaker 2: messaged her saying book name, and then she goes, are
Speaker 2: you joking? It's called how to Murder Your Husband? It's
Speaker 2: called Show Up. It's available to pre order on Penguin,
Speaker 2: Big w Amazon and booked. Hope, you are pretty much everywhere.
Speaker 2: The link is in her bio.
Speaker 1: Ah, look at you plugging your fiance. I love to
Speaker 1: see it. Very cute.
Speaker 2: What is your turn on for the week? Anna?
Speaker 1: So do you notice anything different about me?
Speaker 2: Hair? No, teeth, No, not a nose job.
Speaker 1: No, how would I have had a nose shop? He
Speaker 1: took me like three days ago.
Speaker 2: Give me your lips.
Speaker 1: Yes, And I told you I was getting this done,
Speaker 1: so you should.
Speaker 2: Have remembered your lip dissolved ages ago.
Speaker 1: No, not that tatoo. Fucking now, it took you long enough, Jesus.
Speaker 2: That's because you weren't answering my phone calls while you're
Speaker 2: getting it done.
Speaker 1: And then yeah, I was literally said to him, I'm
Speaker 1: going in to get my lips tattooed. And he's like
Speaker 1: and then like literally two hours later, he's like, are
Speaker 1: you dead? I was like, rude, I got a face tattoo.
Speaker 2: Did it hurt? Is it a normal tattoo style?
Speaker 1: Like the guy out full blown? So obviously you can't
Speaker 1: tell that it it's been done. It's very natural, like
Speaker 1: you literally can't tell. But I have like nothing on
Speaker 1: my lips normally every time I come in to record here,
Speaker 1: I have like lip liner, I have lip stick or gloss. Nothing.
Speaker 2: I just woke up, Like, so they put it into
Speaker 2: your lip.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So basically as you get older, your lip outline
Speaker 1: starts to go like white or it gets like less.
Speaker 1: And obviously I get married, we all know. I keep
Speaker 1: going on about it in like one hundred and twelve
Speaker 1: days very soon, and I was like, I feel like
Speaker 1: I want to get a lip tattoo, But this could
Speaker 1: be like the worst idea I've ever had. Like imagine
Speaker 1: if they fuck it up and I'm going into my
Speaker 1: wedding and then I'm like, like there's nothing I can do,
Speaker 1: like it's a tattoo, and then I'll have to start
Speaker 1: getting laser tattoo removal, like it could just be an
Speaker 1: absolute disaster. Luckily it wasn't a disaster. I went to
Speaker 1: Cosmetic Tattooing Skin and laser there in Saint Kilda.
Speaker 2: So it takes two hours for them to tattoo your.
Speaker 1: Took about three hours.
Speaker 2: To get really swollen afterwards.
Speaker 1: Not really, I mean I did look like I had
Speaker 1: a little bit of lip filler and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh I look good. Michael's like, oh, there's Liz. I
Speaker 1: was like a big lip liner gal and lipstick gal,
Speaker 1: like literally always putting it on. And now I haven't
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: A lot of girls that you slip liner.
Speaker 1: Everyone basically, I mean not everyone, but like a lot
Speaker 1: of people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it's the pencil you draw on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just like Drew like.
Speaker 2: At the top of his nose, like I've seen it
Speaker 2: done before.
Speaker 1: I'm just going to be living the own natural life
Speaker 1: out in Corfu.
Speaker 2: Amazing, amazing, So.
Speaker 1: Recommend if you're if you've been thinking about it. I
Speaker 1: was thinking about it for a couple of years and
Speaker 1: I just you know, ripped the band aid off, did it,
Speaker 1: and I'm happy I did it. And that couldn't even
Speaker 1: tell so maybe it wasn't even worth it.
Speaker 2: Who knows? Should I get it done?
Speaker 1: Done? Do it? So I just came back from the dentists.
Speaker 1: I said last week or a couple of weeks ago
Speaker 1: that I was going into the dentists because my wisdom
Speaker 1: teeth have been coming through and they've been kind of aching,
Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm teething and it's just been
Speaker 1: annoying really, And turns out I have three wisdom teeth
Speaker 1: in my mouth. Two of them have already come through.
Speaker 1: So when I was complaining the other week about how
Speaker 1: my wisdom teeth saw, it's come through during that time,
Speaker 1: so like it doesn't hurt, like they have. Two of
Speaker 1: them are fully through, so it's like done, and I
Speaker 1: have heaps of space in my mouth, so I'm not
Speaker 1: going to need any wisdom teeth removed, so it's like
Speaker 1: crisis averted. Also, the dentist told me that apparently when
Speaker 1: your wisdom teeth come through, that it doesn't actually move
Speaker 1: your other teeth, so that's a myth supposedly, which I felt.
Speaker 1: I thought that was pretty interesting because that was like
Speaker 1: the number one thing that I was worried about, like
Speaker 1: moving my teeth.
Speaker 2: So Timmy and I were hungover yesterday and we started
Speaker 2: watching in Bed Love on the Spectrum.
Speaker 1: Which God, how good is it?
Speaker 2: Which people would say, if you're an advert listener of
Speaker 2: this podcast, Matthew, you should have watched that when you
Speaker 2: interviewed Michael. Well, no, I didn't guess what guys, I didn't.
Speaker 1: I just I was wrong. That was wrong of you
Speaker 1: to not watch it. I should have watched it.
Speaker 2: I started it.
Speaker 1: Remember, now you're realizing how good it is.
Speaker 2: I'm realizing how good it is.
Speaker 1: I'm just so wholesome.
Speaker 2: I did start it before we interviewed Michael, and then
Speaker 2: I think I watched one episode and then just you
Speaker 2: know what, you know what I'm like when it comes
Speaker 2: to watching the shows.
Speaker 1: You're just not a big TV guy. Like you love movie,
Speaker 1: love movies.
Speaker 2: But shows I just can't. Yeah, I don't know unless
Speaker 2: they really get me. Like this season did of Love.
Speaker 1: On the Sectu. Yeah, how cute Tanna. He's like the
Speaker 1: tall guy. He's like got a big smile, he's super friendly.
Speaker 1: He works at the hotel.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was cute as well.
Speaker 1: He's like literally everything I love, Like the star.
Speaker 2: I loved the couple they were on a for Ari,
Speaker 2: Abby and David.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love Abby and David. And when
Speaker 1: they sing to each other, it's really sweet, is it.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna give you any spoilers to people if
Speaker 2: they're still watching it because it's new, isn't it.
Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's just come out in Just come on
Speaker 1: Netflix in Australia if you're listening, if you're watching in Australia,
Speaker 1: I don't know about America, but such a good show,
Speaker 1: so wholesome, so feel good, and it's just nice, Like
Speaker 1: I love seeing people fall in love. We love love here.
Speaker 1: It wears your head out, So it's just nice seeing
Speaker 1: people like meet their matches.
Speaker 2: Is Michael going to be on this season? Because I
Speaker 2: was so sure?
Speaker 1: I think he's in London at the moment filming a movie.
Speaker 1: He's living his London dreams.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing. Good on him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, remember he told us he was gonna he's an
Speaker 1: actor in some movie. Yeah, so we'll definitely have to
Speaker 1: circle back and tune in with him and also watch
Speaker 1: that movie when it comes out.
Speaker 2: But yeah, congrats on that. That's awesome.
Speaker 1: Another show that's come out this week is Married at
Speaker 1: First Sight Australia. I am going to definitely tune in
Speaker 1: and I just love it every year and obviously last
Speaker 1: year we had clear on and you know, we just
Speaker 1: love maths. Will you commit to watching Married at First
Speaker 1: Sight this year because we could we could actually watch
Speaker 1: it as a whole podcast and we could kind of like,
Speaker 1: I reckon, people will be keen. It's like the number
Speaker 1: one show in Australia. I feel like we have to
Speaker 1: watch it.
Speaker 2: Do you remember when I were in Sydney and you
Speaker 2: went on that Maths podcast and I was I was
Speaker 2: going to go on and I had to quickly binge
Speaker 2: watch that week of Maths and I was hating my
Speaker 2: life in my hotel room.
Speaker 1: And then last minute they were like, you don't have
Speaker 1: to come in, and you were like, thank god, I
Speaker 1: hate this show.
Speaker 2: There was arguments that were genuinely giving me anxiety, like
Speaker 2: the actual arguments. I was watching the guy and the
Speaker 2: girl have an argument and it was just giving me
Speaker 2: like PTSD of arguments at I been in where the
Speaker 2: miscommunication was so just prominent. I was just like, oh,
Speaker 2: it was giving me full fucking anxiety. I was like ugh.
Speaker 1: But also I reckon. When you watch shows like that,
Speaker 1: you can see where people go wrong in the communication,
Speaker 1: like you can see it from both angles, and you're like, fuck,
Speaker 1: if only they just came together a little bit, a
Speaker 1: little bit nicer to each other, like things could be different.
Speaker 1: And I reckon. Like when you watch things like that
Speaker 1: that can get really toxic, you can implement it into
Speaker 1: your own life and it can make your own relationships better.
Speaker 1: Like when I watch Maths, I'm like, fuck me and Michael,
Speaker 1: I have a good relationship.
Speaker 2: I mean, you're not on TV and everyone's watching you.
Speaker 2: Are you watching Love Island All Stars?
Speaker 1: I have started watching that as well. So my shows
Speaker 1: for like this start of the year are going to
Speaker 1: be Love Island All Stars. Really, I'm loving it, Married
Speaker 1: at First Sight Australia, and Love on the Spectrum. So
Speaker 1: if you guys want to keep up with the shows
Speaker 1: that I'm watching, and I'm pretty sure you're going to
Speaker 1: be watching too, I think that should be the ware's
Speaker 1: your head out shows for this start of the year.
Speaker 2: We started Love Island All Stars and loving it. Wow.
Speaker 2: We diouldn't get that far in because you know how
Speaker 2: it showed like Love Island HQ at the Star. No,
Speaker 2: it was like the Love Isrond HQ right at the
Speaker 2: Star and like showing the things. I said to Temmy,
Speaker 2: I was like, that's not actually their office. I've been
Speaker 2: to their actual office and then she was like I'm
Speaker 2: over this. I've got a shit and turned it off
Speaker 2: and then.
Speaker 1: Being like a know it all, like let me tell
Speaker 1: you all the secrets of that.
Speaker 2: She was like, I'm done with this and we didn't.
Speaker 1: Watch Enabe should just watch it and pease, like even
Speaker 1: for me, Like sometimes like if they're playing a game
Speaker 1: like that we played on our season, I have to
Speaker 1: bite my tongue and be like, this is not about Eanna.
Speaker 1: This is love album is a long time ago, smooth
Speaker 1: on with life. Like I literally have to be like,
Speaker 1: don't say we're watching We're watching this now, like this
Speaker 1: is their time. We've had our time.
Speaker 2: Well if we give it another shot, but.
Speaker 1: It's a story about me that I can't.
Speaker 2: Telling down on my fist whole She's like, what do
Speaker 2: you weise your hand like bite marks, I'm trying to
Speaker 2: hold it. So I came across this tournament diagram or bracket.
Speaker 2: I'll call it a bracket, you call it to diagram.
Speaker 1: If you don't know what that is, maybe just give
Speaker 1: it a quick Google, because we tried to explain it
Speaker 1: before and it was absolutely no Google butchered it.
Speaker 2: Really we went around the office and literally asked everyone
Speaker 2: to call it here in the studio and we finally
Speaker 2: got there. So it's the biggest dating red flags in men.
Speaker 2: And I thought that we.
Speaker 1: Would find the number one, the.
Speaker 2: Number one winner and see what it is and warn
Speaker 2: all you guys.
Speaker 1: So we have to go in rounds. So we're going
Speaker 1: to go through like fifteen rounds.
Speaker 2: We'll make a quick guys, still make a quick time.
Speaker 2: Don't leave us, and we'll throw some guys and stories
Speaker 2: in there as well for you guys to hear you
Speaker 2: trust me, it's worth it.
Speaker 1: You don't bribe them to stay.
Speaker 2: I'll give you a Fredo frog if you stay till
Speaker 2: the end. Yes, Okay, So round one. The biggest dating
Speaker 2: red flag in men is says all his ex'es are
Speaker 2: crazy or has black Air Force ones.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna definitely say says all his exes are crazy.
Speaker 1: It's like the number one thing they tell you to
Speaker 1: look out for us women.
Speaker 2: But I do say that a lot because a lot
Speaker 2: of my exit.
Speaker 1: I also think like men can make women crazy. Like
Speaker 1: you believe that, yeah, Like I reckon I can be
Speaker 1: two different types of people in a relationship. Like if
Speaker 1: you're pushing me to crazy town, I'll fucking go. I'll
Speaker 1: take myself to crazy town. But if you're being kind, considerate,
Speaker 1: level headed. I'm a saint, an angel, so that.
Speaker 2: Women make men crazy as well. People that aren't meant
Speaker 2: to go together make each other crazy.
Speaker 1: True, but I'm going to say says all his exes
Speaker 1: are crazy. Moving to the next round, so put it
Speaker 1: in it in just.
Speaker 2: A quick argument. If that was black no, sorry. If
Speaker 2: that was red sneakers, I've always said that all red
Speaker 2: sneakers are a red flag. I remember my sister's boyfriend
Speaker 2: rocked up with red.
Speaker 1: Current boyfriend, yeah.
Speaker 2: Sneakers, and I was like, Emma, he's got to go, mate,
Speaker 2: look at those shoes. He's never worn him back since. Okay,
Speaker 2: the next round is and I'm personally taking offense to
Speaker 2: this too good at their skincare routine or or favorite
Speaker 2: movie is Wolf of Wolf Street.
Speaker 1: Favorite movie is Wolf of Fall Street.
Speaker 2: I agree? I mean, what are you an eighteen year
Speaker 2: old in twenty thirteen, Like, no one's favorite movie anymore
Speaker 2: is Wolf of Wolf Street shooting people down? Who listen me?
Speaker 1: Like, oh fuck.
Speaker 2: If you are a grown man and that's your favorite movie, a.
Speaker 1: Lot of grown men's favorite movie is Wolf of Wall Street,
Speaker 1: I think you'd be surprised it was.
Speaker 2: My favorite movie when I was it's when I was eighteen,
Speaker 2: it was, and I've done.
Speaker 1: It's a good movie. You can't say it's not. But
Speaker 1: it's just a bit of a red flag.
Speaker 2: It's not your favorite movie when you're thirty years old. Sorry,
Speaker 2: Round three, personally attacked again. I think this whole thing
Speaker 2: is going to be me getting personally attacked.
Speaker 1: Maybe you're just a bit of a red flag. Who
Speaker 1: thought about that?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Maybe cannot cook at all versus does not have
Speaker 2: basic cleaning supplies. Now, I have always said, and everyone
Speaker 2: that lives with me agrees, I am hygienic, but I'm messy.
Speaker 2: So I have a lot of cleaning supplies. I'm just messy.
Speaker 2: I'm hygienic, but I'm messy.
Speaker 1: I think if you don't have basic cleaning supplies, that
Speaker 1: to me is more of a red flat.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't cook.
Speaker 1: Maybe, like, if you can't cook, you could still be
Speaker 1: eating well by ordering good uber eaeds, or you could
Speaker 1: have like maybe your mum's bringing food over.
Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe you've ordered, like you know, you
Speaker 2: go buy healthy meals like you foods and chef good
Speaker 2: and all that.
Speaker 1: Sort of suff you could be ordering in some good food. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I do think it's attractive when a man has
Speaker 1: like a really good dish, signature dish that he can cook.
Speaker 1: I think that's like attractive.
Speaker 2: I was in the uber to the airport this morning
Speaker 2: and I was like, next time I go up there,
Speaker 2: I was thinking about the episode we did with Tammy,
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm going to cook her something.
Speaker 1: What are you going to cook her? Just steak? Yeah,
Speaker 1: just make sure it's like a good quality cut of steak.
Speaker 2: Put garlic butter on it go with, does not have
Speaker 2: basic cleaning to.
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely that one's through to the next round round four.
Speaker 2: Fish photos on a dating app or claims he's a
Speaker 2: nice guy.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say I claims he's a nice guy only
Speaker 1: because I reckon like the biggest fuck boys that I've
Speaker 1: ever met, they always have bad reputations, and like me
Speaker 1: being me, I would like bring it up with them,
Speaker 1: Oh apparently you like don't have the best reputation and
Speaker 1: they always claim they are a nice guy. And they claim,
Speaker 1: oh no, that was with other people, not with you.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: That is a red flag, like don't claim your anything.
Speaker 1: Just be that. And then let people say it about you.
Speaker 2: I agree. I think that fish photos on Instagram are
Speaker 2: a nogo if you're a guy listening trying to find
Speaker 2: a girl, like, no girl wants to see you holding
Speaker 2: a fish.
Speaker 1: I love fishing, well, I was saying, you see the
Speaker 1: other day, we love goldfishing.
Speaker 2: It's so fun on the gold cord. I think it's like,
Speaker 2: I've got to either take up fishing or surfing, like
Speaker 2: either one. And I know I can't stand up on a.
Speaker 1: Surfboard so six.
Speaker 2: I've tried to paddleboard once it was failed, so I
Speaker 2: think I might have to take up fishing.
Speaker 1: Fishing is really fun. It's also really peaceful because you
Speaker 1: have to be quiet, so it's like, you know, you're
Speaker 1: just waiting.
Speaker 2: I think it could be good for you. I heard
Speaker 2: that's an old wife's tale. That's just what they say
Speaker 2: the fish. I've heard that's an old wife's tale. But
Speaker 2: it's just what people say to shut people up. That
Speaker 2: there with.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna say.
Speaker 2: I'm going to say, claims he's a nice guy, because
Speaker 2: if he's claiming he's a nice guy, Because if he
Speaker 2: claims he's a nice guy, he's not a nice guy.
Speaker 2: That's a red flag exactly what happens if he is
Speaker 2: a nice guy.
Speaker 1: Well, then you wouldn't claim to be a nice guy
Speaker 1: because you just be one and people would say it
Speaker 1: about you. You don't need to be self proclaimed.
Speaker 2: You just claim. But round five is mattress on the
Speaker 2: floor or long pass code on their phone, which is
Speaker 2: hilarious because I whoever, I saw a dated this girl
Speaker 2: one time and I actually was in between moving houses
Speaker 2: and my mattress was on the floor and then she
Speaker 2: sent me a meme and it was like, not all
Speaker 2: guy has all these things and it was like I
Speaker 2: can't ret the other two or a bed frame and.
Speaker 1: You didn't have a bed frame.
Speaker 2: That's hilarious myself.
Speaker 1: Definitely the mattress on the floor for me, but also
Speaker 1: like what's a long pass code?
Speaker 2: So like when they lock their phone to get back in,
Speaker 2: it's like a lot of numbers. Mine is so obvious.
Speaker 2: I probably shouldn't tell what mine is. I don't tell
Speaker 2: someone slides my phone, but I've had mine since the
Speaker 2: day I got my phone in year nine. Yeah, it's
Speaker 2: the same four digits.
Speaker 1: I think, like if you're dating, I think the mattress
Speaker 1: on the floor is worse because like, you're not really
Speaker 1: going to look in someone's phone, so who cares if
Speaker 1: they have a long password? And then if you start dating,
Speaker 1: like you'll know it anyway.
Speaker 2: You have a long pass code, it means they're trying
Speaker 2: to hide something. I feel.
Speaker 1: I'm still going to say, mattress on the floor.
Speaker 2: Round six, And this one is the most personal I've
Speaker 2: ever had. It has a podcast, versus has temper tantrums.
Speaker 1: That zukowsk you eat your heart out. Why is having
Speaker 1: a podcast a red flag? Like if I've had a
Speaker 1: guy who heard a podcast, I'd be like, oh, that's cool,
Speaker 1: and then I'd like binge it and be like, let
Speaker 1: me find out everything about you.
Speaker 2: Sounds about right, doesn't it.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it has temper tantrums is definitely more
Speaker 1: of a red flag. It's like, grow up a little bit.
Speaker 2: Well, we watched Star Wars over the weekend, and anyone
Speaker 2: who's familiar with Star Wars, Anakin is trying to rise up.
Speaker 2: Patame Queen Amadalla. This is going over your head.
Speaker 1: Over my head.
Speaker 2: But he starts having I turned to Tammy and I'm like, boy,
Speaker 2: he's having ten per tantrums way too early with this
Speaker 2: girl that he's trying to like, you know, tune and
Speaker 2: he was like, have it and then yeah, as a
Speaker 2: bit of a red flag, he does turn into Dart
Speaker 2: Fader spoil it anyone. So she probably should have seen
Speaker 2: that red flag.
Speaker 1: You see a temper tantrum while I was dating someone,
Speaker 1: run lady.
Speaker 2: They're going to turn into Darth Vader. So temper tantrums
Speaker 2: has won that round.
Speaker 1: Round seven.
Speaker 2: Obsessed with weightlifting or follows an excessive amount of Instagram models.
Speaker 1: Oh but this is a no brainer. Follows an excessive
Speaker 1: amount of Instagram models? Why would that? That's not even.
Speaker 2: Well in the running. I wouldn't say I'm obsessed with weightlifting,
Speaker 2: but I feel like I weightlift a lot, and I
Speaker 2: think that if you are into that, it shows that
Speaker 2: you're into health and into well being and looking after yourself. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I have unfollowed everyone. We spoke about this last week.
Speaker 1: Is going aslutely on about unfollowing everyone. Everyone's going to
Speaker 1: go to who you're following now and feel like looking
Speaker 1: to make sure and to be fair.
Speaker 2: And I've said this before in a podcast episode years ago,
Speaker 2: I said that, like it's been unfair because I know
Speaker 2: people through the modeling industry, and I've now gone and
Speaker 2: unfollowed everyone, so.
Speaker 1: My still followed.
Speaker 2: I think you may. I think you made the cut.
Speaker 1: It's been tough out there.
Speaker 2: So follow an excessive amount of Instagram models.
Speaker 1: No brainer?
Speaker 2: Okay, last one around one weirdly close with his mum
Speaker 2: or guy who plays the guitar when no one asks.
Speaker 1: So you're weirdly close with your mom and Michael plays
Speaker 1: the guitar. So are we going to say.
Speaker 2: The guitar.
Speaker 1: I think being weirdly close to your mom is nice.
Speaker 1: I mean, what does weirdly close mean? Though?
Speaker 2: What's weirdly close? Like I mean she doesn't tuck me
Speaker 2: into bed or anything like that. Like I mean, I
Speaker 2: just go to a fruit bar I go to her
Speaker 2: advice and we chat.
Speaker 1: I think that's nice playing guitar. If you play guitar,
Speaker 1: then you could be in a band like Michael.
Speaker 2: No one's asking him to play, and it's on that
Speaker 2: ken on Barbie, like him pulling out the guitar.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's probably guitar.
Speaker 2: It's guitar.
Speaker 1: It's definitely a guitar.
Speaker 2: Sorry, honey, So we moved to the next bracket, says
Speaker 2: all his ex'es are crazy, or favorite movie is Wolf
Speaker 2: of Wall Street.
Speaker 1: Says all his ex'es are crazy.
Speaker 2: I agree, does not have basic cleaning supplies, claims he's
Speaker 2: a nice guy, claims he's a nice guy.
Speaker 1: Doesn't have basic cleaning supplies Like that is a bit
Speaker 1: of a red flag.
Speaker 2: But who doesn't have basic cleaning supplies? Spray and wife
Speaker 2: or something at some point? Okay, okay, so bed on
Speaker 2: the floor versus has temper tantrums.
Speaker 1: Temper tantrums all the way getting down to the nitty gritty.
Speaker 2: Next one is follows an excessive number of Instagram models
Speaker 2: or the guy who plays a guitar where no one.
Speaker 1: Asks ig models.
Speaker 2: I agree, the semifinals down.
Speaker 1: To the final four. I hope you guys like feel
Speaker 1: like we're making the right choice.
Speaker 2: And if we don't, let us know on our Facebook
Speaker 2: page which one we should have gone with. So it
Speaker 2: is now says all of his exes are crazy, or
Speaker 2: says he's a nice guy.
Speaker 1: Says all of his exes are crazy. Do you agree?
Speaker 2: Yes? I agree? The next one is has temper tantrums
Speaker 2: or follows an excessive amount of Instagram models. That is
Speaker 2: a hard one.
Speaker 1: IG models like temper tantrums aren't good good, but following
Speaker 1: IG models like their eyes are looking elsewhere.
Speaker 2: Okay, I agree. So we're down to the final two.
Speaker 2: Says all these ex'es are crazy or follows an excessive
Speaker 2: amount of IG models. I know what I'm going to
Speaker 2: go for on the count of three.
Speaker 1: So what are you going to say? You're either going
Speaker 1: to say x'es are crazy or IG models? Yeah, three models.
Speaker 1: So basically the biggest red flag and man is if
Speaker 1: they follow IG models and it's they're in plain sight
Speaker 1: for everyone to see. Literally, it's literally there for Tom
Speaker 1: Dick and Harry, your mom and dad and all people
Speaker 1: of the world.
Speaker 2: So let us know if you agree or disagree. If
Speaker 2: we missed one out even or one should have made
Speaker 2: it to the final that we didn't have, go to
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