Speaker 1: Matt, you are looking absolutely glowing today. What's your secret?
Speaker 2: Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning myss
Speaker 2: called Goldie B with two e's.
Speaker 1: I have to check it out. I've never heard of it.
Speaker 2: Go to their instagram.
Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale. I want the Prince Charming.
Speaker 2: She How do I put?
Speaker 1: This?
Speaker 2: Isn't a fan of my kissing style.
Speaker 1: Boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in a
Speaker 1: trash bin. He's non recyclable, catching her.
Speaker 2: Muf I love being love, I love love Once.
Speaker 1: My rotainer is in nothing is happening. It's like, ain't
Speaker 1: nothing going down in my bedroom that night? Where's Your
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Speaker 2: This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,
Speaker 2: intimate details, advice, and much more. Merry Christmas out and
Speaker 2: everyone else. It's my favorite time of the fucking year.
Speaker 1: So aggressive, excited, so aggressive christ This is about cheer
Speaker 1: and happiness and fun.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 1: What's your favorite Christmas? Carol?
Speaker 2: Matt? It's either run Rudolph that one.
Speaker 1: Run Rudolph's actually rude of one. I love that one.
Speaker 1: Run Rudolph. That's not on my list.
Speaker 2: It's all holy jolly Christmas, have a holy jolly Christmas.
Speaker 1: I love jingle bell rock, jingle bell, jingle bell, jingle bell.
Speaker 2: Rack, mingos, girls slap that is hot.
Speaker 1: And we're all Christmas y like NAT's looking festive. He's
Speaker 1: got his festive Christmas tree, green jumper with gold stars attached, and.
Speaker 2: This sparkly.
Speaker 1: This is a Christmas like, this is what I've bought
Speaker 1: for Christmas. And also because album weather, it is freezing.
Speaker 1: It's long sleeve, so I was like, I'm wearing this
Speaker 1: for our Christmas episode.
Speaker 2: Very festive. Anna so much Judge, I should have brought
Speaker 2: you a jumper. I don't even know why I had
Speaker 2: this in my car. To be fair, I think I
Speaker 2: had it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I actually, to be honest, thought I would be
Speaker 1: getting one from you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had this in my car from when I
Speaker 2: was going to pick the Christmas tree. But I realized
Speaker 2: I wore it last year, so I was just in
Speaker 2: the boot.
Speaker 1: You do have a lot of Christmas jumpers.
Speaker 2: We have a box at my Mum's just full of
Speaker 2: Christmas jumpers, Christmas tops, Christmas everything.
Speaker 1: I love it. What about Mariah Cairo. We didn't even
Speaker 1: talk about the og song. That's just my go to song.
Speaker 2: It's everyone's it's the best.
Speaker 1: Nothing can beat it. Do you think any song in
Speaker 1: our lifetime will beat that song?
Speaker 2: As a Christmas song?
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: Last Christmas.
Speaker 1: Last Christmas, I gave you my Heart.
Speaker 2: That's probably close.
Speaker 1: No, it's not close for me. It's close ish, but
Speaker 1: still not.
Speaker 2: Have you seen the movie Last Christmas? No, it's I
Speaker 2: don't want to spoil it, okay, but it's based off
Speaker 2: that song.
Speaker 1: Thatt is my go to person to ask Christmas movie advice,
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, what's a good Christmas movie on Netflix?
Speaker 2: Go?
Speaker 1: And he's like this on this one? This one?
Speaker 2: Well, my turn on this week is hall Mark Christmas movies.
Speaker 1: We love them.
Speaker 2: I love them so much good. You've seen the tiktoks
Speaker 2: I've been seeing. You have people taking the piss out
Speaker 2: of them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're hilarious, Like I left my glove on the footpath?
Speaker 1: Is there gonna be a romantic night and Shining Armor
Speaker 1: can't pick it up?
Speaker 2: Or they're like they're like, there's a Christmas bake off
Speaker 2: I have to do in time and a bakery so good.
Speaker 2: I watched one the other day and it was they
Speaker 2: had to I don't know, drop all these gifts and
Speaker 2: then the governments trying to shut it down and then
Speaker 2: they got it in time, and you know, the government's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: let's do it, and they get all involved. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I love it. It's so good.
Speaker 1: Well, look, my turn on of the week is kind
Speaker 1: of like for you, kind of obviously we're now both engaged.
Speaker 1: Last year before Christmas we got engaged and honestly, nothing
Speaker 1: is better than being newly engaged over Christmas. So that's
Speaker 1: my turn on of the week for you and Tammy.
Speaker 1: I just think it's so fun being newly engaged.
Speaker 2: It isn't well, I'm part of Tammy's family now, part
Speaker 2: of a new big family, and I love it, like
Speaker 2: I just I can't wait for Christmas with her and
Speaker 2: her family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the plan.
Speaker 2: I will have Christmas with my mum and my sisters
Speaker 2: and their partners. Tammy won't come to that because that's
Speaker 2: on Christmas Eve. So we'll have a Christmas dinner with
Speaker 2: her the week before and she'll fly down to Melbourne,
Speaker 2: so then I'll have that on Christmas Eve. I don't
Speaker 2: want to miss that. That's like, I love that too much. Eventually,
Speaker 2: maybe next year, the year i'll probably you know, not
Speaker 2: so much be there. I'll be with my new family.
Speaker 1: But for now I want to be a new families
Speaker 1: sound like an wolfhan.
Speaker 2: Well you know what I mean. Like I'm obviously part
Speaker 2: of another family, but I'm sure.
Speaker 1: Your mum and stuff will be able to come up.
Speaker 2: Of course, were im pretty sure they're invited that I'm
Speaker 2: invited this year. But you know, they've obviously all got
Speaker 2: their own things, their own their family, their partner's stuff.
Speaker 2: But I don't know that Christmas Eve is so special
Speaker 2: in my family, like it's a it's a great night.
Speaker 1: Like we always looks like a lot of fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is, like Emma cook's the best meals I make.
Speaker 2: I'm on cocktail duty, so I make like Christmas cocktails.
Speaker 2: It's fun listening to.
Speaker 1: Carols, and it always impresses me how much effort you
Speaker 1: put into your Christmas cocktails, like they always really look amazing,
Speaker 1: Like you had the Grinch.
Speaker 2: Cocktail, jack Cross, the jingle Bell one, and I bought
Speaker 2: those what do you call them ball balls and put
Speaker 2: it in there so you pour it into.
Speaker 1: Your gass yeah, very creative.
Speaker 2: Jelly one, Santa hats.
Speaker 1: I love a jelly shot.
Speaker 2: And then yeah, so Christmas morning, I'll fly up to
Speaker 2: the Gold Coast and spend it with Tammy and the Hembros.
Speaker 1: How fun, Yes, very so fun. And I feel like
Speaker 1: Christmas is about kids and having kids around and seeing
Speaker 1: how excited they are about Santa coming, Like nothing beats that.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, Tammy's doing alf on a shelf at the
Speaker 2: moment with the kids, and.
Speaker 1: That's so fun. Yeah, there's some wild ones going around
Speaker 1: social media.
Speaker 2: I don't think she'll let me do them, because I
Speaker 2: was sending a sum that I saw on TikTok and
Speaker 2: they're probably between appropriate.
Speaker 1: What was the inappropriate ones you was send?
Speaker 2: But there was one where they were using like a
Speaker 2: candy cane as like the cock and like it was
Speaker 2: watching this like photo of this elf in like lingerie.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't do that. Or the
Speaker 2: one where they filled the toilet bowl and they said,
Speaker 2: I filled the toilet bowl with a cereal here's your breakfast.
Speaker 1: That's so funny. I saw like an elf in the
Speaker 1: shelf one and they put the elf on top of
Speaker 1: the toilet lid. Seat and then they put like pooh
Speaker 1: coming down as if it was like pooing in the toilet,
Speaker 1: and the elf had like a little speech bubble saying something,
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Saw one where they a flower and it looked like
Speaker 2: it was on a big night.
Speaker 1: Elf in the shelf was just not a thing when
Speaker 1: we were younger. But it's also like really fun for kids.
Speaker 1: I'm totally about it, like I'm like, yeah, why not.
Speaker 2: Well, like trying to think of one every night, it's
Speaker 2: pretty hard, So good luck to people doing that.
Speaker 1: You need that in going on social media.
Speaker 2: What's your turn off this week?
Speaker 1: Anna, Well, my turn off of the week is that
Speaker 1: I feel like my teeth are moving, so obviously, like
Speaker 1: you know, wedding season is upon me. Tea minus five
Speaker 1: to six months.
Speaker 2: Did you have braces?
Speaker 1: I had braces. I had a wire underneath my teeth
Speaker 1: and I got it taken off recently to get a visaline.
Speaker 1: And also I've heard a lot about like heavy metal
Speaker 1: poisoning with having that metal wire in your mouth. Anyway,
Speaker 1: I was like, get it off. But now I feel
Speaker 1: like my teeth are somewhat moving, so I'm like I
Speaker 1: need to wear my retainer every single night. My wedding
Speaker 1: is coming off. Like I've had straight teeth for like
Speaker 1: the past I don't know, fifteen years since I had braces,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, this is not a good time for
Speaker 1: my teeth to start.
Speaker 2: Movie well, and there's three things that are guaranteed in
Speaker 2: life death taxes, and I'm going to sleep with my
Speaker 2: retainer in.
Speaker 1: Say and your teeth movie Well, I yeah, literally are
Speaker 1: religious about it.
Speaker 2: Literally I've gone away like in the past for a
Speaker 2: weekend and absoutely weaked out because I forgot my too.
Speaker 1: If I go on holiday without it, yeah, I need
Speaker 1: to bring it with you.
Speaker 2: I need to Just like I almost think my retainer
Speaker 2: it's like you know when they train dogs to ring
Speaker 2: a bell and it knows food's coming. It's like that
Speaker 2: I put it in. I put it into nap even
Speaker 2: if I'm gonna nap for twenty minutes. Yeah, people think
Speaker 2: it's the weirdest thing ever.
Speaker 1: See Number one. I hate retainer breath. It's just gross.
Speaker 1: Like I just hate that. If I'm like thinking like
Speaker 1: me and Michael are gonna get like freaky in the sheets,
Speaker 1: I'm like not wearing it that night.
Speaker 2: So if I know if I've put it in not
Speaker 2: thinking anything's gonna happen, and then like Tammy's made a
Speaker 2: movie to tick, she carries up on the bedside table.
Speaker 1: See, once my retainer is in, nothing is happening. It's like,
Speaker 1: ain't nothing going down in my bedroom that night, Run to.
Speaker 2: The bathroom, just put it on the bedside table.
Speaker 1: Occasionally I have, but like I would be like, you know,
Speaker 1: if it's going in, it's in.
Speaker 2: For the night. If I have a feeling something's gonna happen,
Speaker 2: I just get the vibe. I'll brush my teeth and
Speaker 2: I'll bring the retainer with.
Speaker 1: Me just in case.
Speaker 2: It's sitting on the bedside table.
Speaker 1: Deciphering the codes of where the rotainer is at in
Speaker 1: the mouth side table.
Speaker 2: Yeah, to know whether you can make a move or
Speaker 2: not on me.
Speaker 1: So anyway, that is my turn off of the week.
Speaker 1: What's your turn off of the week.
Speaker 2: Well, mine is a bit not it's not funny, it's
Speaker 2: a bit heavy. I obviously am so open about my infertility,
Speaker 2: and I really you know, I don't I don't care
Speaker 2: like I'm open about it. I obviously have this situation.
Speaker 2: I've learned to live with it. With being open about
Speaker 2: something comes people thinking that they have a right to
Speaker 2: say stuff. And I understand that, Like I get that,
Speaker 2: you can you think that, like now that I'm so
Speaker 2: open about that, I'll be chill about it. But like,
Speaker 2: you know, like I got messaged by someone and I
Speaker 2: looked at her photos and I was just like, you
Speaker 2: have kids, and imagine if you weren't blessed to have kids.
Speaker 2: And she was like missed fertile Matt with like a laughing.
Speaker 1: Faces the way she sent you a DM just some
Speaker 1: random follow me.
Speaker 2: Mister infertile Matt or mister Matt infertile like a laughing
Speaker 2: emoji face, and I sent it to you and I
Speaker 2: was like, this is bullsh Like, you know, like I'm
Speaker 2: putting myself out there. I want to bring attention to
Speaker 2: it for the right reasons, not the wrong.
Speaker 1: Reasons, and she's taking the piss out of you, taking the.
Speaker 2: Piss out of me. I see a lot of comments
Speaker 2: on obviously the new situation with Tammy. Everyone's like, oh,
Speaker 2: here's father number whatever, blah blah blah, and people like
Speaker 2: he's infertile and all this sort of stuff, and like
Speaker 2: like haha, well lucky for her. Lucky then, and.
Speaker 1: It's just like it's making a mockery of you essentially,
Speaker 1: well not even.
Speaker 2: That you're like this it's a serious like a serious thing,
Speaker 2: and I get it. I'm open about it, and I'm
Speaker 2: leaving myself open and being vulnerable, and that the general
Speaker 2: public see someone being vulnerable and want to be nasty
Speaker 2: about it just makes me feel sad for society and
Speaker 2: just sad in general.
Speaker 1: Honestly, when you sent me that message from that woman saying,
Speaker 1: mister in fertile.
Speaker 2: That now carry what way it.
Speaker 1: Was, whatever it is, my blood boiled because I know
Speaker 1: how hard that conversation was to have with you. Even
Speaker 1: to do that first episode for us talking on our
Speaker 1: podcast about giving infertile was like a back and forth.
Speaker 1: It wasn't just like we were like, okay, let's do
Speaker 1: an episode on it. No, this was like like do
Speaker 1: we don't we? This is going to be out there
Speaker 1: for everyone to see. Now, this is going to be
Speaker 1: public information. How like, in what way can we do
Speaker 1: this in a really respectful way of you and other
Speaker 1: people who are infertile? Like it's a huge, huge topic,
Speaker 1: and I think for someone not just the lady who
Speaker 1: sent you that message, which is discussing, by the way, discussing,
Speaker 1: but also on Tammy's photos and videos, I see constantly
Speaker 1: things about baby daddy number three, Oh he's infertile, Like
Speaker 1: it's very just like thrown around, and that's something that's
Speaker 1: really personal and something it's you know, we've seen your
Speaker 1: mom get upset over it, your dad get upset, you
Speaker 1: crying over it, and it's like for people to make
Speaker 1: a mockery of it, it's not okay. And I think
Speaker 1: the difference is if you were a woman, people would
Speaker 1: not dare say anything about your infertility, But because you're
Speaker 1: a male, people think that they have the right to
Speaker 1: make a joke of it, to laugh about it, to
Speaker 1: sastily comments about it, and it's absolutely not of.
Speaker 2: It's disgusting behavior. And like I said, it just makes
Speaker 2: me just think that there's like just a cartlett. Yeah,
Speaker 2: there's people out there that can be so just like
Speaker 2: the word disgusting, sad and low. And like the girl
Speaker 2: that's the one I have, that's the only one I've seen,
Speaker 2: Like I haven't seen and I just clicked on a profile.
Speaker 2: Shit One, she doesn't follow me, like fuck off. Two
Speaker 2: she has kids in her photos and I'm like imagine
Speaker 2: if you can, how dare you?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: And if you couldn't have those yeah, and then you're
Speaker 2: going to like really kill someone else because they're open
Speaker 2: about it and trying to, you know, bring people out
Speaker 2: there that are going through the same thing, make them
Speaker 2: feel like they're not alone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've said it before. Think about what you say online.
Speaker 1: It's very detrimental not only to you personally, but to
Speaker 1: other people who potentially want to be open about that.
Speaker 1: Or there are so many people who are probably infertile
Speaker 1: who you don't actually know they're infertile, and then even
Speaker 1: seeing those comments directed at you could have a negative
Speaker 1: impact on them. So just be careful with your words. Okay, Matt,
Speaker 1: let's change the pace. It is Christmas. After all, we
Speaker 1: are getting jolly, we're getting happy, we're getting the negative
Speaker 1: energy out of our lives.
Speaker 2: Fuck, then we're still pissed.
Speaker 1: We've stopped that segment and we're like, we are pissed,
Speaker 1: and I think we have every right to be. But look,
Speaker 1: let's talk about first Christmases. You are having your first
Speaker 1: Christmas with Tammy and her family. Are you guys making
Speaker 1: any new traditions together? What's happening there?
Speaker 2: We were going to do a corny Christmas photo just
Speaker 2: the two of us.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was going to do that too.
Speaker 2: We're going to do that, but just we haven't had
Speaker 2: the time this year. I think next year there's.
Speaker 1: One in Hampton. The lady actually messaged you the other
Speaker 1: day and I was like, I really want to do that.
Speaker 1: Maybe when Tammy's down we could all go do it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well I wanted to do it, and I wanted
Speaker 2: to print it off and like write like so she
Speaker 2: wasn't it. She was a bit like, well, when I'm
Speaker 2: saying this, I want to print them off right on
Speaker 2: the back, like a recap of our year, like but
Speaker 2: like not like a serious stop points but nobody. Yeah,
Speaker 2: like like like a stupid one, like just dumb shit,
Speaker 2: like I went to the Servo six. You know, I'm
Speaker 2: just using examples of just shit that like people don't
Speaker 2: care about and write like a list of just shit
Speaker 2: that people would not care about and like give them
Speaker 2: to all their friends and family.
Speaker 1: It sounds like a lot of effort, you know, me.
Speaker 2: Full tilt, full time. I do don't do things by
Speaker 2: half asked.
Speaker 1: Well, look, let's talk about love languages and gift giving
Speaker 1: because everyone has a different love language, right, Yes, So
Speaker 1: we want to help you guys give the perfect gift
Speaker 1: to your loved one specifically based on they love languages.
Speaker 2: First of all, what's your love language? Anna?
Speaker 1: So I'm physical touch and words of affirmation with a
Speaker 1: little side of gift giving.
Speaker 2: How do you receive love?
Speaker 1: And also acts service? I'm all of them we've spoken about.
Speaker 2: I would I say that I'm not very gift giving
Speaker 2: or receiving. You are physical touch, physical touch, and I
Speaker 2: don't think I'm wording of affirmation, but people think I am.
Speaker 2: I don't think. I like to tell people I love them,
Speaker 2: and I like to give them compliments in that and
Speaker 2: I like to hear them, but I don't think it's
Speaker 2: my love language. Quality time.
Speaker 1: Quality time is yours.
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely called physical touch and physical touch.
Speaker 1: They're my top two as well. But I would I
Speaker 1: think that everyone somewhat likes all of them.
Speaker 2: Not big on acts of service.
Speaker 1: So if someone was to bring you a coffee, like
Speaker 1: I just brought your coffee this morning, are you not
Speaker 1: big on that? I'm grateful, but I'm not like you're
Speaker 1: like I could have got it myself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, not even that. I think growing up with
Speaker 2: my mum, god lover just do acts of service all
Speaker 2: the time. So in my head, it's normal. It's normal.
Speaker 1: It's not like something to be appreciate something.
Speaker 2: Well, I appreciate it, don't get me wrong. I'm grateful
Speaker 2: for it, but I just don't express it as much.
Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? You don't need I don't.
Speaker 2: It's weird, like I won't like it.
Speaker 1: Maybe you don't need it because you've already got it.
Speaker 2: Maybe that's true. Like I wouldn't say thank you to
Speaker 2: my mum every time, like like every time she did
Speaker 2: my washing every time, Like do you know I mean,
Speaker 2: I was just expecting it. It sounds bad. It sounds bad,
Speaker 2: but you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I know what you mean.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's start with gift giving. That what is the
Speaker 1: perfect way to give a gift for someone who's acts
Speaker 1: of service is gift giving.
Speaker 2: So if someone's love language is gift giving, I, like
Speaker 2: I said, I'm not big on receiving or giving gifts.
Speaker 2: So what I rely on heavily is I'm very sentimental.
Speaker 2: So I'll try and pick up on things that they've
Speaker 2: said during the year or things I've noticed or things
Speaker 2: I see that they want, or I also will stick
Speaker 2: to stuff that like is a tradition sort of thing,
Speaker 2: or like something that's like you know, I regularly get them,
Speaker 2: or something that like you know, like it's something that's
Speaker 2: sentimental to both of us. That's what I like to do,
Speaker 2: because I don't. I just always been like awkward receiving
Speaker 2: gifts or giving gifts. Like, don't get me wrong, I
Speaker 2: love getting gifts, yeah, but like you know, it's just
Speaker 2: I don't, like I feel uncomfortable, don't you like I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like no, I don't I like getting gifts, but
Speaker 1: like okay, So basically what Matt's trying to say is
Speaker 1: if someone is a gift giver, then pick up on
Speaker 1: things that they tell you throughout the year, like oh,
Speaker 1: this is my favorite perfume, or you know I wear
Speaker 1: gold jewelry, then this is my favorite brand. Like go
Speaker 1: in that direction, because if someone likes to receive gifts,
Speaker 1: you want to kind of nail that gift.
Speaker 2: Well, I've already got my gift for timing. I've gone
Speaker 2: sentimental as well, but still it's a big gift. But
Speaker 2: still it's got Like I've heard her talk about it
Speaker 2: multiple times. You tell us what it is as before Christmas?
Speaker 2: Doesn't Yeah, maybe listen.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can tell us in the New Year's Eve
Speaker 1: episode next week. Okay, let's talk about if someone's love
Speaker 1: language is physical touch, what should you get them.
Speaker 2: You could get them a massage voucher.
Speaker 1: Lots of physical touch.
Speaker 2: That's a lot of physical touch, lots of kisses. Wouldn't
Speaker 2: go straight to give him that, Maybe like give him
Speaker 2: a cozy night where you can curl up on the
Speaker 2: couch together and watch a movie. Tammy and I were
Speaker 2: watching a movie last night which I recommend Fresh to
Speaker 2: anyone on Disney Plus and we were just laying there
Speaker 2: watching it. I was like, I love this. This is
Speaker 2: my love language.
Speaker 1: Just doing this even like a sexy board game like
Speaker 1: Monogamy told you.
Speaker 2: We did that in the Old Eyes, unbelievable game.
Speaker 1: Lots of physical touch, really going to fill the cup
Speaker 1: for those physical touch people. A bit of lingerie, you know,
Speaker 1: getting people into the move, laying role playing, all of
Speaker 1: the above. Okay, words of affirmation. Let's talk about what
Speaker 1: to get someone who loves words of affirmation. This one's
Speaker 1: an obvious one. A really beautifully handwritten card is so important,
Speaker 1: and so many people forget when they give a gift
Speaker 1: over Christmas to include a card. If someone's love languages
Speaker 1: are words of affirmation, make sure that card is really
Speaker 1: good and sentimental.
Speaker 2: Something as well. Always read the card before you open
Speaker 2: the present.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, it's just like common courtesy.
Speaker 2: I agree. Yeah. I've given presents to people and they
Speaker 2: don't read the card first, and I'm just like, I think,
Speaker 2: I feel like it's rude.
Speaker 1: Especially because you're sentimentalist. You're like, well, what about my
Speaker 1: nice words?
Speaker 2: What about my nice words in the card? So I'll
Speaker 2: always read the card before I open the present.
Speaker 1: Also doing something romantic like some you know, personalized poetry. Michael,
Speaker 1: I've told you this before on the podcast. I have
Speaker 1: like a little poetry book. So every time we have
Speaker 1: a memorable moment in our life, he writes me a
Speaker 1: poem about it, Like you wrote me a poem about
Speaker 1: our first date, our engagement, you know, launching a business.
Speaker 1: All of these milestones and I have a poem about it.
Speaker 2: Are rhyming poems.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they rhyme.
Speaker 2: I couldn't do that. My dyslexic rhymes.
Speaker 1: With even like a game, like a conversation starter type
Speaker 1: of game is perfect for words of affirmation person. I
Speaker 1: think that's so important.
Speaker 2: One of those card games where you ask each other, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2: The next one is acts of service, So you could
Speaker 2: give him a nice home cooked meal, love that, clean
Speaker 2: the apartment for them.
Speaker 1: Make them a morning coffee my dream.
Speaker 2: It's not hard to get.
Speaker 1: It's not hard to just get a morning coffee or tea,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's just such an effortless thing, and I
Speaker 2: can I can see how, like getting a coffee brought
Speaker 2: to you in bed is nice. Tammy's done that before,
Speaker 2: and I find it nice and cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're just like, I feel so loved. It's just
Speaker 1: like a small gesture and even like I love to
Speaker 1: repay that paper as well and do the same thing
Speaker 1: in return. It's so nice. What about a spa treatment
Speaker 1: like a facial for someone who likes acts of service?
Speaker 2: Well, another one could be if you're saving for a
Speaker 2: holiday together, put some money towards it. Yeah, that could
Speaker 2: be nice.
Speaker 1: To get someone a gift card. Yeah.
Speaker 2: My favorite one quality time. So you know, it's the
Speaker 2: festive season, it's the pointing end of the year. Everyone
Speaker 2: gets busy at this time of year, and they neglect
Speaker 2: the quality time or time with their partners because you know,
Speaker 2: you biz working. Everyone's work seems to get very busy
Speaker 2: before the end of the year, trying to get stuff done,
Speaker 2: and then they get home and then the next thing,
Speaker 2: you know, you've got to go to like this event
Speaker 2: at work, break up a friend, miss another family event,
Speaker 2: so you neglect time with your partner. So I think
Speaker 2: something good to even m gift should be some like,
Speaker 2: you know, promises that you're going to spend quality time
Speaker 2: with them, or vouchers to maybe an experience together that
Speaker 2: you could do, like a like gold class tickets or
Speaker 2: you know, like a balloon, red balloon thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, picnics, picnics by the beach, watch the sunset together.
Speaker 1: There's all little things like the sunsets every day or
Speaker 1: the sun rises every day. Pick one of those times
Speaker 1: to go watch the sunset together. It's such a small thing.
Speaker 1: Michael and I did it the other day and I
Speaker 1: was like, why don't we do this more? Every time
Speaker 1: I watch the sunset or sunrise, I'm like, this is
Speaker 1: just beautiful. It's so simple. It's peaceful. You hear the
Speaker 1: ocean in the background, like I love that form of
Speaker 1: quality time.
Speaker 2: Okay, red flag, green flag, Anna, what is this week's
Speaker 2: red flag? Green flag?
Speaker 1: Is a bit of a grinch at Christmas?
Speaker 2: Red flo red flag, red flag.
Speaker 1: It's just a blatant red flag. Like if you can't
Speaker 1: get into the happy season, like Christmas is all about
Speaker 1: family and love and happiness and being jolly, you know,
Speaker 1: and eating and spending all of this quality time with
Speaker 1: the people you love, how can you possibly hate that.
Speaker 2: My sister Emma is like the epitome of a Christmas lover.
Speaker 2: She loves it, goes all out of Christmas, even decorates
Speaker 2: her bedroom. Her partner isn't so much, But because he
Speaker 2: loves her, he gets around it. Where's Christmas pajamas? I
Speaker 2: seen walking around the house in Christmas? I watch Christmas
Speaker 2: movie every night. So that's just you know, if your
Speaker 2: partner loves it, there's no harm in getting involved in it.
Speaker 2: To give the person that you love and get involved
Speaker 2: in what they love.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, and I mean, let's just all be happy, like
Speaker 1: it's a happy time of year. Let's enjoy I.
Speaker 2: Like to watch only Christmas movies in December. Sam and
Speaker 2: I've had people in the past Feld who's watching something
Speaker 2: but Christmas movie And I'm like, na, no, no, this
Speaker 2: is how we roll it. Get rid of it or
Speaker 2: ship off.
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, Merry Christmas, have the best Christmas to all
Speaker 1: of our wars your head at FAM, we love you
Speaker 1: so much. Enjoy this festive season with your friends and family,
Speaker 1: and until next time.
Speaker 2: Bye,