WEBVTT - THE LOVE LANGUAGES GIFT GUIDE

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<v Speaker 1>Matt, you are looking absolutely glowing today. What's your secret?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning myss

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<v Speaker 2>called Goldie B with two e's.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to check it out. I've never heard of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Go to their instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the Prince Charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She How do I put?

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<v Speaker 1>This?

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't a fan of my kissing style.

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<v Speaker 1>Boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in a

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<v Speaker 1>trash bin. He's non recyclable, catching her.

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<v Speaker 2>Muf I love being love, I love love Once.

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<v Speaker 1>My rotainer is in nothing is happening. It's like, ain't

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<v Speaker 1>nothing going down in my bedroom that night? Where's Your

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<v Speaker 1>Head At Is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups,

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<v Speaker 2>This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,

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<v Speaker 2>intimate details, advice, and much more. Merry Christmas out and

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<v Speaker 2>everyone else. It's my favorite time of the fucking year.

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<v Speaker 1>So aggressive, excited, so aggressive christ This is about cheer

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<v Speaker 1>and happiness and fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your favorite Christmas? Carol?

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<v Speaker 2>Matt? It's either run Rudolph that one.

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<v Speaker 1>Run Rudolph's actually rude of one. I love that one.

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<v Speaker 1>Run Rudolph. That's not on my list.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all holy jolly Christmas, have a holy jolly Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>I love jingle bell rock, jingle bell, jingle bell, jingle bell.

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<v Speaker 2>Rack, mingos, girls slap that is hot.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're all Christmas y like NAT's looking festive. He's

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<v Speaker 1>got his festive Christmas tree, green jumper with gold stars attached, and.

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<v Speaker 2>This sparkly.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a Christmas like, this is what I've bought

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<v Speaker 1>for Christmas. And also because album weather, it is freezing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's long sleeve, so I was like, I'm wearing this

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<v Speaker 1>for our Christmas episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Very festive. Anna so much Judge, I should have brought

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<v Speaker 2>you a jumper. I don't even know why I had

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<v Speaker 2>this in my car. To be fair, I think I

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<v Speaker 2>had it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I actually, to be honest, thought I would be

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<v Speaker 1>getting one from you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I had this in my car from when I

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<v Speaker 2>was going to pick the Christmas tree. But I realized

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<v Speaker 2>I wore it last year, so I was just in

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<v Speaker 2>the boot.

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<v Speaker 1>You do have a lot of Christmas jumpers.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a box at my Mum's just full of

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas jumpers, Christmas tops, Christmas everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. What about Mariah Cairo. We didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the og song. That's just my go to song.

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<v Speaker 2>It's everyone's it's the best.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing can beat it. Do you think any song in

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<v Speaker 1>our lifetime will beat that song?

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<v Speaker 2>As a Christmas song?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Last Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Last Christmas, I gave you my Heart.

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<v Speaker 2>That's probably close.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's not close for me. It's close ish, but

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<v Speaker 1>still not.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you seen the movie Last Christmas? No, it's I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to spoil it, okay, but it's based off

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<v Speaker 2>that song.

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<v Speaker 1>Thatt is my go to person to ask Christmas movie advice,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm like, what's a good Christmas movie on Netflix?

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<v Speaker 2>Go?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like this on this one? This one?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, my turn on this week is hall Mark Christmas movies.

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<v Speaker 1>We love them.

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<v Speaker 2>I love them so much good. You've seen the tiktoks

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<v Speaker 2>I've been seeing. You have people taking the piss out

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<v Speaker 2>of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're hilarious, Like I left my glove on the footpath?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there gonna be a romantic night and Shining Armor

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<v Speaker 1>can't pick it up?

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<v Speaker 2>Or they're like they're like, there's a Christmas bake off

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<v Speaker 2>I have to do in time and a bakery so good.

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<v Speaker 2>I watched one the other day and it was they

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<v Speaker 2>had to I don't know, drop all these gifts and

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<v Speaker 2>then the governments trying to shut it down and then

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<v Speaker 2>they got it in time, and you know, the government's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>let's do it, and they get all involved. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. It's so good.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, look, my turn on of the week is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like for you, kind of obviously we're now both engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>Last year before Christmas we got engaged and honestly, nothing

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<v Speaker 1>is better than being newly engaged over Christmas. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>my turn on of the week for you and Tammy.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it's so fun being newly engaged.

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<v Speaker 2>It isn't well, I'm part of Tammy's family now, part

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<v Speaker 2>of a new big family, and I love it, like

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<v Speaker 2>I just I can't wait for Christmas with her and

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<v Speaker 2>her family.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's the plan.

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<v Speaker 2>I will have Christmas with my mum and my sisters

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<v Speaker 2>and their partners. Tammy won't come to that because that's

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<v Speaker 2>on Christmas Eve. So we'll have a Christmas dinner with

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<v Speaker 2>her the week before and she'll fly down to Melbourne,

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<v Speaker 2>so then I'll have that on Christmas Eve. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to miss that. That's like, I love that too much. Eventually,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe next year, the year i'll probably you know, not

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<v Speaker 2>so much be there. I'll be with my new family.

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<v Speaker 1>But for now I want to be a new families

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<v Speaker 1>sound like an wolfhan.

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<v Speaker 2>Well you know what I mean. Like I'm obviously part

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<v Speaker 2>of another family, but I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Your mum and stuff will be able to come up.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, were im pretty sure they're invited that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>invited this year. But you know, they've obviously all got

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<v Speaker 2>their own things, their own their family, their partner's stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know that Christmas Eve is so special

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<v Speaker 2>in my family, like it's a it's a great night.

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<v Speaker 1>Like we always looks like a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is, like Emma cook's the best meals I make.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on cocktail duty, so I make like Christmas cocktails.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fun listening to.

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<v Speaker 1>Carols, and it always impresses me how much effort you

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<v Speaker 1>put into your Christmas cocktails, like they always really look amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you had the Grinch.

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<v Speaker 2>Cocktail, jack Cross, the jingle Bell one, and I bought

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<v Speaker 2>those what do you call them ball balls and put

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<v Speaker 2>it in there so you pour it into.

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<v Speaker 1>Your gass yeah, very creative.

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<v Speaker 2>Jelly one, Santa hats.

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<v Speaker 1>I love a jelly shot.

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<v Speaker 2>And then yeah, so Christmas morning, I'll fly up to

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<v Speaker 2>the Gold Coast and spend it with Tammy and the Hembros.

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<v Speaker 1>How fun, Yes, very so fun. And I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas is about kids and having kids around and seeing

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<v Speaker 1>how excited they are about Santa coming, Like nothing beats that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, Tammy's doing alf on a shelf at the

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<v Speaker 2>moment with the kids, and.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so fun. Yeah, there's some wild ones going around

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<v Speaker 1>social media.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think she'll let me do them, because I

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<v Speaker 2>was sending a sum that I saw on TikTok and

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<v Speaker 2>they're probably between appropriate.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the inappropriate ones you was send?

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<v Speaker 2>But there was one where they were using like a

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<v Speaker 2>candy cane as like the cock and like it was

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<v Speaker 2>watching this like photo of this elf in like lingerie.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't do that. Or the

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<v Speaker 2>one where they filled the toilet bowl and they said,

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<v Speaker 2>I filled the toilet bowl with a cereal here's your breakfast.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so funny. I saw like an elf in the

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<v Speaker 1>shelf one and they put the elf on top of

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<v Speaker 1>the toilet lid. Seat and then they put like pooh

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<v Speaker 1>coming down as if it was like pooing in the toilet,

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<v Speaker 1>and the elf had like a little speech bubble saying something,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Saw one where they a flower and it looked like

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<v Speaker 2>it was on a big night.

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<v Speaker 1>Elf in the shelf was just not a thing when

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<v Speaker 1>we were younger. But it's also like really fun for kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm totally about it, like I'm like, yeah, why not.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, like trying to think of one every night, it's

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<v Speaker 2>pretty hard, So good luck to people doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>You need that in going on social media.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your turn off this week?

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<v Speaker 1>Anna, Well, my turn off of the week is that

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like my teeth are moving, so obviously, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, wedding season is upon me. Tea minus five

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<v Speaker 1>to six months.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you have braces?

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<v Speaker 1>I had braces. I had a wire underneath my teeth

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<v Speaker 1>and I got it taken off recently to get a visaline.

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<v Speaker 1>And also I've heard a lot about like heavy metal

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<v Speaker 1>poisoning with having that metal wire in your mouth. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, get it off. But now I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like my teeth are somewhat moving, so I'm like I

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<v Speaker 1>need to wear my retainer every single night. My wedding

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<v Speaker 1>is coming off. Like I've had straight teeth for like

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<v Speaker 1>the past I don't know, fifteen years since I had braces,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, this is not a good time for

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<v Speaker 1>my teeth to start.

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<v Speaker 2>Movie well, and there's three things that are guaranteed in

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<v Speaker 2>life death taxes, and I'm going to sleep with my

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<v Speaker 2>retainer in.

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<v Speaker 1>Say and your teeth movie Well, I yeah, literally are

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<v Speaker 1>religious about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally I've gone away like in the past for a

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<v Speaker 2>weekend and absoutely weaked out because I forgot my too.

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<v Speaker 1>If I go on holiday without it, yeah, I need

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<v Speaker 1>to bring it with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to Just like I almost think my retainer

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<v Speaker 2>it's like you know when they train dogs to ring

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<v Speaker 2>a bell and it knows food's coming. It's like that

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<v Speaker 2>I put it in. I put it into nap even

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm gonna nap for twenty minutes. Yeah, people think

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<v Speaker 2>it's the weirdest thing ever.

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<v Speaker 1>See Number one. I hate retainer breath. It's just gross.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just hate that. If I'm like thinking like

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<v Speaker 1>me and Michael are gonna get like freaky in the sheets,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like not wearing it that night.

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<v Speaker 2>So if I know if I've put it in not

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<v Speaker 2>thinking anything's gonna happen, and then like Tammy's made a

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<v Speaker 2>movie to tick, she carries up on the bedside table.

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<v Speaker 1>See, once my retainer is in, nothing is happening. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't nothing going down in my bedroom that night, Run to.

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<v Speaker 2>The bathroom, just put it on the bedside table.

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<v Speaker 1>Occasionally I have, but like I would be like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's going in, it's in.

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<v Speaker 2>For the night. If I have a feeling something's gonna happen,

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<v Speaker 2>I just get the vibe. I'll brush my teeth and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll bring the retainer with.

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<v Speaker 1>Me just in case.

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<v Speaker 2>It's sitting on the bedside table.

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<v Speaker 1>Deciphering the codes of where the rotainer is at in

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<v Speaker 1>the mouth side table.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, to know whether you can make a move or

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<v Speaker 2>not on me.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, that is my turn off of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your turn off of the week.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, mine is a bit not it's not funny, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a bit heavy. I obviously am so open about my infertility,

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<v Speaker 2>and I really you know, I don't I don't care

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm open about it. I obviously have this situation.

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<v Speaker 2>I've learned to live with it. With being open about

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<v Speaker 2>something comes people thinking that they have a right to

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<v Speaker 2>say stuff. And I understand that, Like I get that,

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<v Speaker 2>you can you think that, like now that I'm so

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<v Speaker 2>open about that, I'll be chill about it. But like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like I got messaged by someone and I

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<v Speaker 2>looked at her photos and I was just like, you

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<v Speaker 2>have kids, and imagine if you weren't blessed to have kids.

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<v Speaker 2>And she was like missed fertile Matt with like a laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>Faces the way she sent you a DM just some

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<v Speaker 1>random follow me.

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<v Speaker 2>Mister infertile Matt or mister Matt infertile like a laughing

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<v Speaker 2>emoji face, and I sent it to you and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, this is bullsh Like, you know, like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>putting myself out there. I want to bring attention to

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<v Speaker 2>it for the right reasons, not the wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Reasons, and she's taking the piss out of you, taking the.

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<v Speaker 2>Piss out of me. I see a lot of comments

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<v Speaker 2>on obviously the new situation with Tammy. Everyone's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>here's father number whatever, blah blah blah, and people like

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<v Speaker 2>he's infertile and all this sort of stuff, and like

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<v Speaker 2>like haha, well lucky for her. Lucky then, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like it's making a mockery of you essentially,

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<v Speaker 1>well not even.

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<v Speaker 2>That you're like this it's a serious like a serious thing,

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<v Speaker 2>and I get it. I'm open about it, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>leaving myself open and being vulnerable, and that the general

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<v Speaker 2>public see someone being vulnerable and want to be nasty

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<v Speaker 2>about it just makes me feel sad for society and

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<v Speaker 2>just sad in general.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, when you sent me that message from that woman saying,

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<v Speaker 1>mister in fertile.

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<v Speaker 2>That now carry what way it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was, whatever it is, my blood boiled because I know

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<v Speaker 1>how hard that conversation was to have with you. Even

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<v Speaker 1>to do that first episode for us talking on our

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<v Speaker 1>podcast about giving infertile was like a back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't just like we were like, okay, let's do

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<v Speaker 1>an episode on it. No, this was like like do

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<v Speaker 1>we don't we? This is going to be out there

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<v Speaker 1>for everyone to see. Now, this is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>public information. How like, in what way can we do

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<v Speaker 1>this in a really respectful way of you and other

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<v Speaker 1>people who are infertile? Like it's a huge, huge topic,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think for someone not just the lady who

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<v Speaker 1>sent you that message, which is discussing, by the way, discussing,

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<v Speaker 1>but also on Tammy's photos and videos, I see constantly

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<v Speaker 1>things about baby daddy number three, Oh he's infertile, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's very just like thrown around, and that's something that's

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<v Speaker 1>really personal and something it's you know, we've seen your

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<v Speaker 1>mom get upset over it, your dad get upset, you

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<v Speaker 1>crying over it, and it's like for people to make

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<v Speaker 1>a mockery of it, it's not okay. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>the difference is if you were a woman, people would

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<v Speaker 1>not dare say anything about your infertility, But because you're

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<v Speaker 1>a male, people think that they have the right to

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<v Speaker 1>make a joke of it, to laugh about it, to

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<v Speaker 1>sastily comments about it, and it's absolutely not of.

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<v Speaker 2>It's disgusting behavior. And like I said, it just makes

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<v Speaker 2>me just think that there's like just a cartlett. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's people out there that can be so just like

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<v Speaker 2>the word disgusting, sad and low. And like the girl

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<v Speaker 2>that's the one I have, that's the only one I've seen,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I haven't seen and I just clicked on a profile.

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<v Speaker 2>Shit One, she doesn't follow me, like fuck off. Two

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<v Speaker 2>she has kids in her photos and I'm like imagine

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<v Speaker 2>if you can, how dare you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And if you couldn't have those yeah, and then you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to like really kill someone else because they're open

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<v Speaker 2>about it and trying to, you know, bring people out

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<v Speaker 2>there that are going through the same thing, make them

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<v Speaker 2>feel like they're not alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we've said it before. Think about what you say online.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very detrimental not only to you personally, but to

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<v Speaker 1>other people who potentially want to be open about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Or there are so many people who are probably infertile

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<v Speaker 1>who you don't actually know they're infertile, and then even

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<v Speaker 1>seeing those comments directed at you could have a negative

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<v Speaker 1>impact on them. So just be careful with your words. Okay, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>let's change the pace. It is Christmas. After all, we

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<v Speaker 1>are getting jolly, we're getting happy, we're getting the negative

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<v Speaker 1>energy out of our lives.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck, then we're still pissed.

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<v Speaker 1>We've stopped that segment and we're like, we are pissed,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think we have every right to be. But look,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about first Christmases. You are having your first

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas with Tammy and her family. Are you guys making

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<v Speaker 1>any new traditions together? What's happening there?

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<v Speaker 2>We were going to do a corny Christmas photo just

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<v Speaker 2>the two of us.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I was going to do that too.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to do that, but just we haven't had

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<v Speaker 2>the time this year. I think next year there's.

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<v Speaker 1>One in Hampton. The lady actually messaged you the other

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<v Speaker 1>day and I was like, I really want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe when Tammy's down we could all go do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well I wanted to do it, and I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to print it off and like write like so she

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't it. She was a bit like, well, when I'm

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<v Speaker 2>saying this, I want to print them off right on

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<v Speaker 2>the back, like a recap of our year, like but

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<v Speaker 2>like not like a serious stop points but nobody. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like like like a stupid one, like just dumb shit,

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<v Speaker 2>like I went to the Servo six. You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just using examples of just shit that like people don't

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<v Speaker 2>care about and write like a list of just shit

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<v Speaker 2>that people would not care about and like give them

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<v Speaker 2>to all their friends and family.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a lot of effort, you know, me.

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<v Speaker 2>Full tilt, full time. I do don't do things by

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<v Speaker 2>half asked.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, look, let's talk about love languages and gift giving

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<v Speaker 1>because everyone has a different love language, right, Yes, So

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<v Speaker 1>we want to help you guys give the perfect gift

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<v Speaker 1>to your loved one specifically based on they love languages.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, what's your love language? Anna?

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm physical touch and words of affirmation with a

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<v Speaker 1>little side of gift giving.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you receive love?

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<v Speaker 1>And also acts service? I'm all of them we've spoken about.

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<v Speaker 2>I would I say that I'm not very gift giving

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<v Speaker 2>or receiving. You are physical touch, physical touch, and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think I'm wording of affirmation, but people think I am.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think. I like to tell people I love them,

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<v Speaker 2>and I like to give them compliments in that and

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<v Speaker 2>I like to hear them, but I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 2>my love language. Quality time.

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<v Speaker 1>Quality time is yours.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely called physical touch and physical touch.

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<v Speaker 1>They're my top two as well. But I would I

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<v Speaker 1>think that everyone somewhat likes all of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Not big on acts of service.

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<v Speaker 1>So if someone was to bring you a coffee, like

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<v Speaker 1>I just brought your coffee this morning, are you not

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<v Speaker 1>big on that? I'm grateful, but I'm not like you're

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<v Speaker 1>like I could have got it myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, not even that. I think growing up with

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<v Speaker 2>my mum, god lover just do acts of service all

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<v Speaker 2>the time. So in my head, it's normal. It's normal.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like something to be appreciate something.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I appreciate it, don't get me wrong. I'm grateful

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<v Speaker 2>for it, but I just don't express it as much.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean? You don't need I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>It's weird, like I won't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you don't need it because you've already got it.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's true. Like I wouldn't say thank you to

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<v Speaker 2>my mum every time, like like every time she did

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<v Speaker 2>my washing every time, Like do you know I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I was just expecting it. It sounds bad. It sounds bad,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I know what you mean.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's start with gift giving. That what is the

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<v Speaker 1>perfect way to give a gift for someone who's acts

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<v Speaker 1>of service is gift giving.

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<v Speaker 2>So if someone's love language is gift giving, I, like

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I'm not big on receiving or giving gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>So what I rely on heavily is I'm very sentimental.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll try and pick up on things that they've

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<v Speaker 2>said during the year or things I've noticed or things

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<v Speaker 2>I see that they want, or I also will stick

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<v Speaker 2>to stuff that like is a tradition sort of thing,

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<v Speaker 2>or like something that's like you know, I regularly get them,

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<v Speaker 2>or something that like you know, like it's something that's

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<v Speaker 2>sentimental to both of us. That's what I like to do,

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<v Speaker 2>because I don't. I just always been like awkward receiving

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<v Speaker 2>gifts or giving gifts. Like, don't get me wrong, I

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<v Speaker 2>love getting gifts, yeah, but like you know, it's just

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<v Speaker 2>I don't, like I feel uncomfortable, don't you like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like no, I don't I like getting gifts, but

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<v Speaker 1>like okay, So basically what Matt's trying to say is

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<v Speaker 1>if someone is a gift giver, then pick up on

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<v Speaker 1>things that they tell you throughout the year, like oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my favorite perfume, or you know I wear

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<v Speaker 1>gold jewelry, then this is my favorite brand. Like go

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<v Speaker 1>in that direction, because if someone likes to receive gifts,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to kind of nail that gift.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I've already got my gift for timing. I've gone

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<v Speaker 2>sentimental as well, but still it's a big gift. But

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<v Speaker 2>still it's got Like I've heard her talk about it

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<v Speaker 2>multiple times. You tell us what it is as before Christmas?

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't Yeah, maybe listen.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you can tell us in the New Year's Eve

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<v Speaker 1>episode next week. Okay, let's talk about if someone's love

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<v Speaker 1>language is physical touch, what should you get them.

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<v Speaker 2>You could get them a massage voucher.

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<v Speaker 1>Lots of physical touch.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a lot of physical touch, lots of kisses. Wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>go straight to give him that, Maybe like give him

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<v Speaker 2>a cozy night where you can curl up on the

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<v Speaker 2>couch together and watch a movie. Tammy and I were

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<v Speaker 2>watching a movie last night which I recommend Fresh to

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<v Speaker 2>anyone on Disney Plus and we were just laying there

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<v Speaker 2>watching it. I was like, I love this. This is

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<v Speaker 2>my love language.

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<v Speaker 1>Just doing this even like a sexy board game like

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<v Speaker 1>Monogamy told you.

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<v Speaker 2>We did that in the Old Eyes, unbelievable game.

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<v Speaker 1>Lots of physical touch, really going to fill the cup

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<v Speaker 1>for those physical touch people. A bit of lingerie, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>getting people into the move, laying role playing, all of

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<v Speaker 1>the above. Okay, words of affirmation. Let's talk about what

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<v Speaker 1>to get someone who loves words of affirmation. This one's

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<v Speaker 1>an obvious one. A really beautifully handwritten card is so important,

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<v Speaker 1>and so many people forget when they give a gift

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<v Speaker 1>over Christmas to include a card. If someone's love languages

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<v Speaker 1>are words of affirmation, make sure that card is really

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<v Speaker 1>good and sentimental.

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<v Speaker 2>Something as well. Always read the card before you open

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<v Speaker 2>the present.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree, it's just like common courtesy.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree. Yeah. I've given presents to people and they

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<v Speaker 2>don't read the card first, and I'm just like, I think,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's rude.

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<v Speaker 1>Especially because you're sentimentalist. You're like, well, what about my

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<v Speaker 1>nice words?

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<v Speaker 2>What about my nice words in the card? So I'll

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<v Speaker 2>always read the card before I open the present.

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<v Speaker 1>Also doing something romantic like some you know, personalized poetry. Michael,

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<v Speaker 1>I've told you this before on the podcast. I have

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<v Speaker 1>like a little poetry book. So every time we have

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<v Speaker 1>a memorable moment in our life, he writes me a

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<v Speaker 1>poem about it, Like you wrote me a poem about

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<v Speaker 1>our first date, our engagement, you know, launching a business.

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<v Speaker 1>All of these milestones and I have a poem about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Are rhyming poems.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they rhyme.

0:20:00.200 --> 0:20:03.800
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't do that. My dyslexic rhymes.

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<v Speaker 1>With even like a game, like a conversation starter type

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<v Speaker 1>of game is perfect for words of affirmation person. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's so important.

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<v Speaker 2>One of those card games where you ask each other, Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>The next one is acts of service, So you could

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<v Speaker 2>give him a nice home cooked meal, love that, clean

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<v Speaker 2>the apartment for them.

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<v Speaker 1>Make them a morning coffee my dream.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not hard to get.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not hard to just get a morning coffee or tea,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it's just such an effortless thing, and I

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<v Speaker 2>can I can see how, like getting a coffee brought

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<v Speaker 2>to you in bed is nice. Tammy's done that before,

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<v Speaker 2>and I find it nice and cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're just like, I feel so loved. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>like a small gesture and even like I love to

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<v Speaker 1>repay that paper as well and do the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>in return. It's so nice. What about a spa treatment

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<v Speaker 1>like a facial for someone who likes acts of service?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, another one could be if you're saving for a

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<v Speaker 2>holiday together, put some money towards it. Yeah, that could

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<v Speaker 2>be nice.

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<v Speaker 1>To get someone a gift card. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>My favorite one quality time. So you know, it's the

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<v Speaker 2>festive season, it's the pointing end of the year. Everyone

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<v Speaker 2>gets busy at this time of year, and they neglect

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<v Speaker 2>the quality time or time with their partners because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you biz working. Everyone's work seems to get very busy

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<v Speaker 2>before the end of the year, trying to get stuff done,

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<v Speaker 2>and then they get home and then the next thing,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you've got to go to like this event

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<v Speaker 2>at work, break up a friend, miss another family event,

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<v Speaker 2>so you neglect time with your partner. So I think

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<v Speaker 2>something good to even m gift should be some like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, promises that you're going to spend quality time

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<v Speaker 2>with them, or vouchers to maybe an experience together that

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<v Speaker 2>you could do, like a like gold class tickets or

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like a balloon, red balloon thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, picnics, picnics by the beach, watch the sunset together.

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<v Speaker 1>There's all little things like the sunsets every day or

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<v Speaker 1>the sun rises every day. Pick one of those times

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<v Speaker 1>to go watch the sunset together. It's such a small thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Michael and I did it the other day and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, why don't we do this more? Every time

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<v Speaker 1>I watch the sunset or sunrise, I'm like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>just beautiful. It's so simple. It's peaceful. You hear the

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<v Speaker 1>ocean in the background, like I love that form of

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<v Speaker 1>quality time.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, red flag, green flag, Anna, what is this week's

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<v Speaker 2>red flag? Green flag?

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<v Speaker 1>Is a bit of a grinch at Christmas?

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<v Speaker 2>Red flo red flag, red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a blatant red flag. Like if you can't

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<v Speaker 1>get into the happy season, like Christmas is all about

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<v Speaker 1>family and love and happiness and being jolly, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and eating and spending all of this quality time with

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<v Speaker 1>the people you love, how can you possibly hate that.

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<v Speaker 2>My sister Emma is like the epitome of a Christmas lover.

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<v Speaker 2>She loves it, goes all out of Christmas, even decorates

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<v Speaker 2>her bedroom. Her partner isn't so much, But because he

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<v Speaker 2>loves her, he gets around it. Where's Christmas pajamas? I

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<v Speaker 2>seen walking around the house in Christmas? I watch Christmas

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<v Speaker 2>movie every night. So that's just you know, if your

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<v Speaker 2>partner loves it, there's no harm in getting involved in it.

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<v Speaker 2>To give the person that you love and get involved

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<v Speaker 2>in what they love.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, and I mean, let's just all be happy, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's a happy time of year. Let's enjoy I.

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<v Speaker 2>Like to watch only Christmas movies in December. Sam and

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<v Speaker 2>I've had people in the past Feld who's watching something

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<v Speaker 2>but Christmas movie And I'm like, na, no, no, this

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<v Speaker 2>is how we roll it. Get rid of it or

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<v Speaker 2>ship off.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, guys, Merry Christmas, have the best Christmas to all

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<v Speaker 1>of our wars your head at FAM, we love you

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<v Speaker 1>so much. Enjoy this festive season with your friends and family,

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<v Speaker 1>and until next time.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye,