WEBVTT - THE WEDDING COUNTDOWN IS ON WITH TAMMY & MATT 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.160 At one point he turned around and like backed up 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:04.400 on me. I was like, please do not do that. 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:10.280 In our first sance it's booty shaky. I was like, no, no, sweety. 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:18.760 Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:24.160 things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:27.120 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:35.519 intimate details, advice, and much more. Welcome back, Anna to 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:37.120 another episode of Where's Your Head At. 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:41.239 I'm feeling good. I've got my barbecue or not barbecue. 0:00:41.240 --> 0:00:43.120 I've got my pizza shapes with me at the moment. 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:46.159 I don't know why, I'm just loving them. How are you? 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:49.319 I'm good. I got up today. I think like three 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:51.800 point thirty me and the family. This is might turn 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:56.680 on for the week. Actually, Me, Tammy, Posey, Saskia and 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:58.280 Wolf flew down. 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:00.160 To the're all here. 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:05.160 They flew down from the Gold Coast. So we're spending 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:08.319 the weekend in Melbourne. 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:10.120 Here and Tammy's going to come on a little bit 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:12.800 later to have a little chat with us wedding plan 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:15.000 about the wedding. Very exciting. 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:16.440 What's your turn on this weekend? 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:18.759 My turn on of the week is that your wedding 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:22.480 is in two weeks. I can't believe it. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.040 I keep forgetting I keep thinking it's like longer away. 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:28.399 It's actually so soon. And I feel like you must 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:29.840 be so stressed out. 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:33.840 Yeah, we spoke about this before. We'll get tammy On 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:37.720 talk about it. Yeah, I'm stressed out. The only stress 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:40.160 I really have is I went to do a suit 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:42.520 fitting and I did my original. 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:44.800 Your only stress is the suit fitting? You reckon? 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:50.240 Okay, well I did my original measurements. Oh, probably was 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:53.400 out August starting a starge. You line maybe started August. Yeah, 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:55.560 and get this, because I've been trying to, you know, 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.520 lean up for the wedding lifting. 0:01:57.840 --> 0:01:59.320 Are you doing a web shread? I am. 0:01:59.520 --> 0:02:03.320 I've put six centimeters on my shoulders, so the jacket. 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:04.960 So wait, did you want that or is that not 0:02:05.000 --> 0:02:05.400 what you want? 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:07.520 Well, I came in with the theory I'm going to 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:09.639 like lift weights to lose weight, and it's just put 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:10.080 size on. 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:15.280 He's just showing off. 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:18.680 They had to can you believe it? Yeah, they have 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:20.880 to release the jacket to make it fit me. But 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:21.639 it was annoying. 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:26.119 But you know it's annoying. I've just grown six centimes. 0:02:26.160 --> 0:02:29.480 I've leaned up. I leaned up. But yes, two weeks away, Anna, 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:30.720 it's very close now. 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:34.240 It's so exciting, and I can just only imagine the 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:36.800 stress before the wedding. I know that all of the 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:39.520 invoices started to come through for me in the last 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:41.280 month and I was like, oh my god, I can't 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:43.720 cope with it. So they're coming to you alright, yeah 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:47.320 I can. I can only imagine. What's your turn off 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:48.120 of the week, Matt. 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:50.400 My turn off of the week is I'm going to 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:54.079 I'm going to blame myself here. So Tammy and I 0:02:54.200 --> 0:02:58.080 ran through our first dance and if you know, yeah, 0:02:58.120 --> 0:03:01.840 you know me. I have no rhythm. I have two 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:04.640 left feet, and she's just got all this rhythm and 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:05.440 knows what she wants to do. 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.560 Cammy is a good dancer, I will say that, Yeah, 0:03:07.560 --> 0:03:08.200 a great dancer. 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:11.520 Yeah. I just sit there like stand there, sorry, just uncoordinated. 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:13.040 I don't even know where to look half the time 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:14.040 or what to do with my arms. 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:16.959 It's because you're tall as well. I feel like being 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:19.799 tall you have a disadvantage with dancing. Like have you 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:21.639 ever seen a really good dancer. They're always like a 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.120 little pocket rocket, like you know, what I mean, They've 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:25.560 just got more rhythm. I don't know. That's what I 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:27.760 tell myself to sleep at night because I can't dance. 0:03:27.880 --> 0:03:30.880 I honestly have. It's funny. I paid no attention to 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:34.840 dancing whatsoever. People out of my mind, outside out of mind. 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:37.280 I can't do that. I don't want to know about it. 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:39.240 And now that I'm trying to find out, I really 0:03:39.320 --> 0:03:40.920 found out that I cannot dance. 0:03:41.440 --> 0:03:43.760 Remem from my first dance at my wedding, Yeah. 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.600 Michael was like talking to you the whole time. It 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:48.960 reminds me of stressful. Reminded me of wrestling when I 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:50.760 wrestle and you talk to someone the whole time, telling 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:51.040 them what. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.280 To do because they don't know what's next. Do you 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:56.200 know what's so funny about the first dance is throughout 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:58.440 the whole rehearsals, I was telling him off. I was 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:00.400 like left foot, right foot, and I was like up 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:03.440 and I was like literally telling him, And as soon 0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:06.440 as everyone's eyes around me, I was like, I don't 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:08.280 think I can do this. Like I can talk in 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:11.840 front of a crowd, I can do whatever, But dancing 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:14.840 that's where I draw the line. I'm like, nah, I 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:15.440 can't do it. 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:20.240 Luck, I'll be final performer, performer, but. 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:21.280 A dancing performer. 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:26.880 Well this is this is my PSA to everyone. I 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:27.520 can't dance it. 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:29.799 Don't expect miracles, don't step on feet. 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:34.960 I'm just Tammy's reaction. So your turn off. 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:38.440 Of the wake anna, Okay, So I said my turn 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:40.920 on of the week was that we're going to Byron 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:44.640 for your wedding. Anyway, I was on TikTok the other 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:48.800 day minding my own business, and I came across this 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:52.440 viral video about the fact that there is a serial 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:56.360 killer in Byron Bay. You've sent this to me, and 0:04:57.240 --> 0:05:02.280 apparently they've been kill or people have been disappearing since 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:06.480 the nineteen seventies until about two thousand and six ish. 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:09.120 I don't know if they've specifically released it, but the 0:05:09.160 --> 0:05:12.160 TikTok sounded legitimate, and then everyone was chiming in. And 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:17.000 I mean, apparently there's been sixty four murders slash disappearances 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:20.640 in Barron Bay since the nineteen seventy It's pretty scary stuff. 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:25.320 Anyway, Sorry, you nervous, well, look not to put. 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.480 A death for her on the wedding. But I did 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:28.600 see that, and I was like, oh my. 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:31.160 God, so the guy hasn't been actively murdering since two 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:31.920 thousand and six. 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:35.279 Yeah, well he would be old, Like think about it 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:37.800 if he was. Let's just say he was twenty in 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:40.280 nineteen seventy. I know this is not a good math podcast, 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:42.840 but like, he'd be older, have. 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:45.280 Anything to worry about? What you know, he's probably like. 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:45.960 On a walking stick. 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.599 But it will be good with Michael. When you go out, 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:52.600 I always say, Michael, don't get in, don't hitch hike. 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:55.040 Maybe I've never hitchhiked in my life. 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:56.600 Have you No, I haven't. 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:59.520 Yeah, I don't plan on ever hitch hiking. 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:01.640 I would get picked up. I wouldn't have thought anyway. 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:05.240 I'd be too scared to hitch hike. Like you have 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:07.839 to be. You have to have pretty big balls to 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:14.640 just be like, you know, whoever comes by in Byron, 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:17.680 Oh my gosh, she could have died. 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:20.240 She could have been one of the seventy. 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:24.560 People before two thousand and six. Oh my god, before. 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:27.200 You're liking great, you were in what like, No, it wasn't, Yeah, 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:28.880 it was she was like in year seven, year eight 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:29.360 or something. 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:31.400 We need to actually when she comes on the podcast, 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:34.120 we need to ask her about that, because that's wild. 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.160 Should we get her on and talk about this? 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:38.680 Yeah, let's bring her on now, why not. 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:45.080 Welcome back to the podcast, Babe, Who are you hi, Tammy? 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:48.560 I'm good, Thanks for having me. Guys, we're lucky to 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:51.200 have you in the studio because apparently you've hitch hiked 0:06:51.240 --> 0:06:51.880 in Byron. 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:56.400 So I was probably like fifteen or sixteen at the time, 0:06:56.480 --> 0:06:59.120 and it's like super it was super normal. But like 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:03.520 all that, I knew one of my best friends lived 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.240 in Byron and I would always go there to see 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:09.479 her and we hit typed like often. It was just 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:13.679 like one time, but yeah, usually like a girl would 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:14.440 like pick us up. 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:16.760 And be like I don't want anyone like scary picking 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:18.440 these girls up because we were just like young girl. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:23.360 But yeah, I really like didn't even think about it. 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:27.720 But apparently, like the serial is it's past two thousand 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:28.040 and six. 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:29.000 Oh is it? 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:33.400 That's what I've heard, but I don't know. 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.560 I don't I was trying to just debunk it a 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:37.440 bit because I was like, that's sorry, the way to 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:38.920 be fuming out for all going there. 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:42.680 Yeah, it's a bit scary, like my little sisters and stuff. 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:45.720 Is staying in Barron, and I was like, don't like 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:48.880 roam the streets by yourself. Definitely, don't always have a 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:51.200 partner with someone with you at all times. 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:53.320 Well, I don't think they're going to be coming to 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:54.080 our wedding. 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:55.280 So I think they're going to be old as well. 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:57.360 People. He's not going to be the wedding. He's not 0:07:57.360 --> 0:08:01.000 going to get or she could be. Yea, yeah, I 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.360 watched enough Criminal Mind, so I could probably. 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:07.880 Solve the case. Yeah, you usually busy getting. 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:11.200 Married, so yeah, we're getting married. 0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:15.280 You guys, are are you excited? I'm so excited. 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:19.440 But it's just been so stressful, Like so much goes 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:22.120 into planning a wedding that I just did not realize, Like, 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:25.200 how were you feeling a few weeks out? 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:28.800 I think like a month out, I was so stressed 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:32.720 because there's just all of the last minute things that 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:34.719 you have to do that you've put off to the 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:36.320 side because you're like, I need to get the main 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:38.920 thing sorted, and then they all just creep up at 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:41.520 once and all the invoices start coming through, so you're 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:42.640 like so overwhelmed. 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:44.760 Yeah, I feel like I'm definitely at that stage where 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:46.920 it's all like, all the big things are sorted, but 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:49.320 it's all the little things that I'm like having to 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:53.600 just rush through and it's so stressful. Yeah, Like I'm 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:55.680 pretty much on my phone all day every day to 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:58.680 like my wedding planners or my assistant or someone, or 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:02.320 I'm like running errands, you know, trying to choose different things, 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:05.720 and it's just it's so much, and I'm yeah, I 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:06.520 just can't wait. 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:07.560 Like it's going to be worth it. 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:11.040 Yeah, the day is going to be amazing, but yeah, 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:12.680 I can't wait for the planning to be over. 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:15.040 Yeah that's what I said. I was like, I can't 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:17.560 wait to never have another zoom meeting again with them. 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:23.120 As much as we love Matthew, like, it was a 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:25.520 bit upset. We had a zoom meeting the other day 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:28.400 with our photographer and he couldn't get on and he's 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:31.319 texting me like so angry and I'm just on this call. 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:34.440 It was a five minute call that he didn't need to, 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:39.040 like I actually, but every time you're involved, babe, you 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:43.440 always say like some strange thing that isn't even like 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:45.680 relevant at all, and I have to be like, babe, No, 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:48.960 matt came in pretty hot He was like, I am 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:52.320 a groomzilla, I'm going to be so involved. Oh yeah, 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:55.520 I think like maybe you've somewhat taken a step back 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:57.920 because when I asked, are you stressed out? Tammy was 0:09:57.960 --> 0:10:02.400 like yes, and you were like no, I feel great 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:03.400 about it. 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:06.800 I was saying before, I'm pretty stressed about my dancing. 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:11.240 Though, yeah, I'm stress about your dancing. Also, we practiced 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:13.720 our first dance and then immediately after I was like 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:16.960 looking up, like, who can give us some lessons before. 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:20.840 The day, just like how bad is he on? You 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:22.280 know what? It's like. 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:25.360 It's been very romantic and sweet every time we've practiced, 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:28.760 but it's just like it's not his actual dancing. 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.000 Yeah, we just need like a little bit of help. 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:35.320 Well, without going into the song, there's certain like. 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:36.800 Bits to moments. 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:42.079 Yeah, and I don't have what's the word rhythm rhythm. 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:44.560 At one point he turned around and backed up on me. 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:46.880 I was like, please do not do that in our 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:50.640 first dance. It's booty shaky ye was. 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:56.840 I was like, no, no, no, strictly the dancer is that. 0:10:57.120 --> 0:10:59.720 Yeah, I didn't no freestyle, but you know what I 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:02.280 feel like, will just sort of like figet in the 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:03.400 moment anyway. 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:04.360 And just just enjoy each other. 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:09.360 Yeah, probably be making out if all else spells and 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:14.120 the routine goes to ship, just make out all cheer. Honestly, 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.480 I just don't know how people do it without a 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:19.160 wedding planner, Like how how would you do it? 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:19.760 Yeah? 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:21.800 My wedding planners have been so good. 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:25.680 They're called Nuptial Collective, and they are honestly amazing. They've 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:29.960 handled every single thing and just like taken so much 0:11:30.000 --> 0:11:30.720 stress off me. 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:33.719 Yeah, I honestly wouldn't have. I wouldn't be able to 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:36.520 get married if I didn't have, right, Like, how would 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:38.040 you even know all of the things that you need 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:38.760 to organize? 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:41.760 Like yeah, yeah, I wouldn't even know half the stuff. 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.640 Yeah you'd have to do Yeah, no, he even think 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:52.360 of all that little stuff wedding planners. 0:11:53.080 --> 0:11:55.199 And you obviously had your wedding couple of months ago, 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:55.840 and you know it feels like. 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:58.320 Yes, a couple of months. Yeah, I was like seven 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:04.280 eight months ago. I know, crazy quickly time flies and 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:05.040 you're having fun. 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:08.600 You got any advice for us? Yeah? 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:13.320 For the day, Yeah, okay, just triple check all of 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:16.480 the songs are right, like the key songs, so just 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:18.880 make sure that's all right, I would say, just like 0:12:19.679 --> 0:12:21.720 I didn't really have like too much to drink. I 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:24.000 probably had like five or six drinks, so I like 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:27.480 remember the whole day, but then like on the after party, 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:30.000 I don't really remember a lot of by the end 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:34.120 of it. The recovery, Yeah, recovery, I don't know. I 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:36.439 think like the lead up is part of the fun, 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:39.520 Like this, like two weeks is so stressful, but it's 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:41.880 also so cool, like the fact that you guys are 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:44.280 gonna have like people coming and all of your family 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:47.520 and friends around you, Like those moments are really special 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:50.400 as well. The morning of the wedding just goes so fast. 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:53.400 It's really weird. Like I was like, this is so strange, 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:55.160 Like I'm just getting my makeup done, like I have 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:57.720 millions of times. This is for a wedding, Like what 0:12:57.800 --> 0:12:59.959 the hell? I feel like I'm gonna be so nuh 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:02.400 Do you think You're going to be emotional on the 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:05.640 day or are you going to be Like I think, oh, well, 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:06.920 it could go one of two ways. 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:09.160 I'm either going to be like so so emotional or 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:11.560 I'm going to be so nervous that it like makes it, 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:15.440 like you know, but every single time I've like tried to, well, 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:17.600 I'm finished my vows now, but every single time I've 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:20.240 like written them or like looked at them, I bawled 0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:24.400 my eyes out crying. So I feel like we could both. 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.559 Be up there crying. 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:28.520 I kind of like I hope that, like when he 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:30.480 proposed me, we both cried, like. 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:33.319 All nice, that's so cute. 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:36.360 So yeah, but I'm so nervous and I'm a crier 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:38.840 as well at the best till so yeah, you are 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:39.200 as well. 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.959 So have you written your vowels? Matt? I told him 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:45.160 to like go over them with our celebrant, not for. 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:47.440 Anything I've got in my own head, because I don't 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:49.360 know how Michael did it or any other dude does it. 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:52.000 Like I googled how to structure because I do. That's 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:55.079 really overwhelm because there's all different sort of like structures 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:56.280 and all this sort of stuff. So I'm just going 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:57.280 to go over it with the celebrate. 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:01.000 We did like this, we did our what was it 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:03.040 with our celebrant? We just did like a questionnaire with 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:07.200 our celebrant. And because I've been like worried a little 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:11.479 worried about like are they going to be like romantic, 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:15.520 you know, like what you like the most, like romantic, 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:17.400 but no, you're very romantic. 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:20.400 But yeah, I just had no idea how it was 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:20.800 going to go. 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:23.320 Yeah, and then we went through some of our questions 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:26.360 in this questionnaire to our celebrant, and his answers were 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:29.640 like so sweet. I literally wanted to cry, and I 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:31.280 was like, I have nothing to worry about, Like if 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.160 this man is the sweetest. 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:35.000 It's not so much what I'm actually going to say, 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:38.360 it's how to structure it or how to like the grammar. Yeah, 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:39.160 the grammar is. 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:44.200 Just likely so you can read it like you don't 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:44.800 worry about this. 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.640 We've also been doing this thing as well. We've we've 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:51.200 got these journals and every night we've been answering these 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:52.440 questions in these journals. 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:56.840 It's called Words of Lovers. It's like a guided relationship journal. 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:59.800 They're actually so good, so we've been doing them every night, 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:02.800 like you know, we want to feel like all connected 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:04.280 to the wedding. 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:07.040 What are the questions? 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:09.720 Some of them is just like how do you like 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:13.320 see yourself in three years, five years, blah blah, And 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:15.040 you meant to like write your answers out. 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:16.760 And then you swap journal because I'm going to cry. 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:17.280 This is same. 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:20.160 Yeah, we've been doing like a page to night and 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:23.200 it's just like it's really it's really cute, like and 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:26.120 just have like a cup of tea and read each 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:29.840 other's answers. 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:33.920 That's so cute. Yeah, you guys look like so cute, 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:37.200 closer than ever, just like very connected. Well I think 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:40.600 I think I need to invest. That's so good. 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:42.760 I've been telling like all my friends what is it 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:47.240 called again, words of lovers, words of thank you? 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:50.720 Sounds great, It's very cute. I feel like I'm going 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:52.800 to be like bulling my eyes out, like you were 0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:55.400 at my wedding. I'll just see that. Yeah, I was. 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:57.840 I was a mess at your wedding. That's why I'm like, 0:15:58.040 --> 0:16:01.720 I was so the whole or you can think about 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:03.200 a three piece suit. 0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:08.400 No, I was. I was emotional, but like I was, remember. 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:13.120 You guys have a disagreement about this, Yeah, because she 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:17.960 was crying, crying, I was like, you better cry. He 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:24.400 turns to me and I was like. 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:23.080 Yeah, because I was in a three piece suit in 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:24.480 the sun, and I was. 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:27.280 Like expecting him to say something like emotional about like 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:29.480 what's happening right now. He's just going on about how 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:30.760 hot I. 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:34.920 Was in the middle of what was in July. Yeah. 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:38.200 Thing often it will see through. 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:40.880 Yeah, I feel about nothing. The guy's always happening. 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:45.960 I said when jumping and his wedding was amazing. It 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:46.680 was beautiful. 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:47.480 Oh, it was. 0:16:47.520 --> 0:16:48.640 So stunning wedding. 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:53.720 It made me so excited, Like it was so beautiful. Yeah. 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:56.480 It's also just so fun to go to someone's wedding 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:58.600 with your partner because like the lover is just in 0:16:58.640 --> 0:17:01.080 the air and you can just be That's what I 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:03.440 love about weddings. It just feels you can feel like 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:04.800 the like love. 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:08.359 Yeah, spoke about it as well when we went to 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:09.200 Love Canal. 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:15.160 Oh yeah, that was awesome channel of Channel four wheelers, 0:17:15.200 --> 0:17:17.560 and we all just solidified our love. We can't break 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:26.160 up because we all made out simultaneously in the Love Canal. Yeah. 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:29.480 My brother got a later, but I had. Yeah. Well, 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:33.520 we like we always just became. We always wanted friends 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:38.399 with them, but engrace, Yeah, hung with them like the 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:42.600 whole time. Yeah. No, it's so cute. I'm excited to 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:44.560 have him there as well. I don't really see him 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:47.560 as much because he's in the Sunshine Co. So now 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:49.360 he's in Sydney. I don't know where he is. He's 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:50.040 always moving. 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:53.280 Around for work, but in a different place, which. 0:17:54.480 --> 0:17:56.720 Yeah, I know, I didn't pick up Matt's call ones 0:17:56.880 --> 0:17:59.440 And so then he like calls my brother and then 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:01.879 at like four five minutes, once they've been talking, like 0:18:01.920 --> 0:18:07.159 screenshots and goes next best thing. I was like, rude, 0:18:09.920 --> 0:18:13.320 what are you guys most excited about about the day? Like, 0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:15.800 is there something that you're really looking forward to? 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:20.280 Personally? I'm excited for like after it's all done. Tammy 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:23.160 and I have discussed having like after the ceremony, having 0:18:23.200 --> 0:18:25.800 like fifteen minutes but just the two of us, and 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:27.679 I'm like, I feel like that's going to be the 0:18:27.680 --> 0:18:30.919 most emotional part. What do you call it? 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:34.159 Registered legal document? 0:18:34.240 --> 0:18:36.520 Yeah, then we're going to like have fifteen minutes and 0:18:36.600 --> 0:18:39.440 have a glass of champagne, which I'll be collecting that cork. 0:18:39.520 --> 0:18:40.560 That'll be a very important call. 0:18:41.040 --> 0:18:42.680 You should collect the glasses for that. 0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:45.480 I've actually asked the wedding planners if they can keep 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:47.720 all the corks really just. 0:18:47.800 --> 0:18:53.359 The wedding wedding cooks, tell me what's your Yeah, I 0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:57.520 feel like I'm definitely excited for that. I'm also excited for, like, 0:18:57.680 --> 0:19:00.520