Speaker 1: At one point he turned around and like backed up
Speaker 1: on me. I was like, please do not do that.
Speaker 1: In our first sance it's booty shaky. I was like, no, no, sweety.
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Speaker 1: I'm feeling good. I've got my barbecue or not barbecue.
Speaker 1: I've got my pizza shapes with me at the moment.
Speaker 1: I don't know why, I'm just loving them. How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm good. I got up today. I think like three
Speaker 2: point thirty me and the family. This is might turn
Speaker 2: on for the week. Actually, Me, Tammy, Posey, Saskia and
Speaker 2: Wolf flew down.
Speaker 1: To the're all here.
Speaker 2: They flew down from the Gold Coast. So we're spending
Speaker 2: the weekend in Melbourne.
Speaker 1: Here and Tammy's going to come on a little bit
Speaker 1: later to have a little chat with us wedding plan
Speaker 1: about the wedding. Very exciting.
Speaker 2: What's your turn on this weekend?
Speaker 1: My turn on of the week is that your wedding
Speaker 1: is in two weeks. I can't believe it.
Speaker 2: I keep forgetting I keep thinking it's like longer away.
Speaker 1: It's actually so soon. And I feel like you must
Speaker 1: be so stressed out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we spoke about this before. We'll get tammy On
Speaker 2: talk about it. Yeah, I'm stressed out. The only stress
Speaker 2: I really have is I went to do a suit
Speaker 2: fitting and I did my original.
Speaker 1: Your only stress is the suit fitting? You reckon?
Speaker 2: Okay, well I did my original measurements. Oh, probably was
Speaker 2: out August starting a starge. You line maybe started August. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and get this, because I've been trying to, you know,
Speaker 2: lean up for the wedding lifting.
Speaker 1: Are you doing a web shread? I am.
Speaker 2: I've put six centimeters on my shoulders, so the jacket.
Speaker 1: So wait, did you want that or is that not
Speaker 1: what you want?
Speaker 2: Well, I came in with the theory I'm going to
Speaker 2: like lift weights to lose weight, and it's just put
Speaker 2: size on.
Speaker 1: He's just showing off.
Speaker 2: They had to can you believe it? Yeah, they have
Speaker 2: to release the jacket to make it fit me. But
Speaker 2: it was annoying.
Speaker 1: But you know it's annoying. I've just grown six centimes.
Speaker 2: I've leaned up. I leaned up. But yes, two weeks away, Anna,
Speaker 2: it's very close now.
Speaker 1: It's so exciting, and I can just only imagine the
Speaker 1: stress before the wedding. I know that all of the
Speaker 1: invoices started to come through for me in the last
Speaker 1: month and I was like, oh my god, I can't
Speaker 1: cope with it. So they're coming to you alright, yeah
Speaker 1: I can. I can only imagine. What's your turn off
Speaker 1: of the week, Matt.
Speaker 2: My turn off of the week is I'm going to
Speaker 2: I'm going to blame myself here. So Tammy and I
Speaker 2: ran through our first dance and if you know, yeah,
Speaker 2: you know me. I have no rhythm. I have two
Speaker 2: left feet, and she's just got all this rhythm and
Speaker 2: knows what she wants to do.
Speaker 1: Cammy is a good dancer, I will say that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: a great dancer.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just sit there like stand there, sorry, just uncoordinated.
Speaker 2: I don't even know where to look half the time
Speaker 2: or what to do with my arms.
Speaker 1: It's because you're tall as well. I feel like being
Speaker 1: tall you have a disadvantage with dancing. Like have you
Speaker 1: ever seen a really good dancer. They're always like a
Speaker 1: little pocket rocket, like you know, what I mean, They've
Speaker 1: just got more rhythm. I don't know. That's what I
Speaker 1: tell myself to sleep at night because I can't dance.
Speaker 2: I honestly have. It's funny. I paid no attention to
Speaker 2: dancing whatsoever. People out of my mind, outside out of mind.
Speaker 2: I can't do that. I don't want to know about it.
Speaker 2: And now that I'm trying to find out, I really
Speaker 2: found out that I cannot dance.
Speaker 1: Remem from my first dance at my wedding, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Michael was like talking to you the whole time. It
Speaker 2: reminds me of stressful. Reminded me of wrestling when I
Speaker 2: wrestle and you talk to someone the whole time, telling
Speaker 2: them what.
Speaker 1: To do because they don't know what's next. Do you
Speaker 1: know what's so funny about the first dance is throughout
Speaker 1: the whole rehearsals, I was telling him off. I was
Speaker 1: like left foot, right foot, and I was like up
Speaker 1: and I was like literally telling him, And as soon
Speaker 1: as everyone's eyes around me, I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: think I can do this. Like I can talk in
Speaker 1: front of a crowd, I can do whatever, But dancing
Speaker 1: that's where I draw the line. I'm like, nah, I
Speaker 1: can't do it.
Speaker 2: Luck, I'll be final performer, performer, but.
Speaker 1: A dancing performer.
Speaker 2: Well this is this is my PSA to everyone. I
Speaker 2: can't dance it.
Speaker 1: Don't expect miracles, don't step on feet.
Speaker 2: I'm just Tammy's reaction. So your turn off.
Speaker 1: Of the wake anna, Okay, So I said my turn
Speaker 1: on of the week was that we're going to Byron
Speaker 1: for your wedding. Anyway, I was on TikTok the other
Speaker 1: day minding my own business, and I came across this
Speaker 1: viral video about the fact that there is a serial
Speaker 1: killer in Byron Bay. You've sent this to me, and
Speaker 1: apparently they've been kill or people have been disappearing since
Speaker 1: the nineteen seventies until about two thousand and six ish.
Speaker 1: I don't know if they've specifically released it, but the
Speaker 1: TikTok sounded legitimate, and then everyone was chiming in. And
Speaker 1: I mean, apparently there's been sixty four murders slash disappearances
Speaker 1: in Barron Bay since the nineteen seventy It's pretty scary stuff.
Speaker 2: Anyway, Sorry, you nervous, well, look not to put.
Speaker 1: A death for her on the wedding. But I did
Speaker 1: see that, and I was like, oh my.
Speaker 2: God, so the guy hasn't been actively murdering since two
Speaker 2: thousand and six.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well he would be old, Like think about it
Speaker 1: if he was. Let's just say he was twenty in
Speaker 1: nineteen seventy. I know this is not a good math podcast,
Speaker 1: but like, he'd be older, have.
Speaker 2: Anything to worry about? What you know, he's probably like.
Speaker 1: On a walking stick.
Speaker 2: But it will be good with Michael. When you go out,
Speaker 2: I always say, Michael, don't get in, don't hitch hike.
Speaker 1: Maybe I've never hitchhiked in my life.
Speaker 2: Have you No, I haven't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't plan on ever hitch hiking.
Speaker 2: I would get picked up. I wouldn't have thought anyway.
Speaker 1: I'd be too scared to hitch hike. Like you have
Speaker 1: to be. You have to have pretty big balls to
Speaker 1: just be like, you know, whoever comes by in Byron,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she could have died.
Speaker 2: She could have been one of the seventy.
Speaker 1: People before two thousand and six. Oh my god, before.
Speaker 2: You're liking great, you were in what like, No, it wasn't, Yeah,
Speaker 2: it was she was like in year seven, year eight
Speaker 2: or something.
Speaker 1: We need to actually when she comes on the podcast,
Speaker 1: we need to ask her about that, because that's wild.
Speaker 2: Should we get her on and talk about this?
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's bring her on now, why not.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to the podcast, Babe, Who are you hi, Tammy?
Speaker 1: I'm good, Thanks for having me. Guys, we're lucky to
Speaker 1: have you in the studio because apparently you've hitch hiked
Speaker 1: in Byron.
Speaker 3: So I was probably like fifteen or sixteen at the time,
Speaker 3: and it's like super it was super normal. But like
Speaker 3: all that, I knew one of my best friends lived
Speaker 3: in Byron and I would always go there to see
Speaker 3: her and we hit typed like often. It was just
Speaker 3: like one time, but yeah, usually like a girl would
Speaker 3: like pick us up.
Speaker 1: And be like I don't want anyone like scary picking
Speaker 1: these girls up because we were just like young girl.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I really like didn't even think about it.
Speaker 3: But apparently, like the serial is it's past two thousand
Speaker 3: and six.
Speaker 1: Oh is it?
Speaker 3: That's what I've heard, but I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't I was trying to just debunk it a
Speaker 1: bit because I was like, that's sorry, the way to
Speaker 1: be fuming out for all going there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a bit scary, like my little sisters and stuff.
Speaker 1: Is staying in Barron, and I was like, don't like
Speaker 1: roam the streets by yourself. Definitely, don't always have a
Speaker 1: partner with someone with you at all times.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't think they're going to be coming to
Speaker 2: our wedding.
Speaker 1: So I think they're going to be old as well.
Speaker 2: People. He's not going to be the wedding. He's not
Speaker 2: going to get or she could be. Yea, yeah, I
Speaker 2: watched enough Criminal Mind, so I could probably.
Speaker 1: Solve the case. Yeah, you usually busy getting.
Speaker 2: Married, so yeah, we're getting married.
Speaker 1: You guys, are are you excited? I'm so excited.
Speaker 3: But it's just been so stressful, Like so much goes
Speaker 3: into planning a wedding that I just did not realize, Like,
Speaker 3: how were you feeling a few weeks out?
Speaker 1: I think like a month out, I was so stressed
Speaker 1: because there's just all of the last minute things that
Speaker 1: you have to do that you've put off to the
Speaker 1: side because you're like, I need to get the main
Speaker 1: thing sorted, and then they all just creep up at
Speaker 1: once and all the invoices start coming through, so you're
Speaker 1: like so overwhelmed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I'm definitely at that stage where
Speaker 3: it's all like, all the big things are sorted, but
Speaker 3: it's all the little things that I'm like having to
Speaker 3: just rush through and it's so stressful. Yeah, Like I'm
Speaker 3: pretty much on my phone all day every day to
Speaker 3: like my wedding planners or my assistant or someone, or
Speaker 3: I'm like running errands, you know, trying to choose different things,
Speaker 3: and it's just it's so much, and I'm yeah, I
Speaker 3: just can't wait.
Speaker 1: Like it's going to be worth it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the day is going to be amazing, but yeah,
Speaker 3: I can't wait for the planning to be over.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's what I said. I was like, I can't
Speaker 1: wait to never have another zoom meeting again with them.
Speaker 1: As much as we love Matthew, like, it was a
Speaker 1: bit upset. We had a zoom meeting the other day
Speaker 1: with our photographer and he couldn't get on and he's
Speaker 1: texting me like so angry and I'm just on this call.
Speaker 1: It was a five minute call that he didn't need to,
Speaker 1: like I actually, but every time you're involved, babe, you
Speaker 1: always say like some strange thing that isn't even like
Speaker 1: relevant at all, and I have to be like, babe, No,
Speaker 1: matt came in pretty hot He was like, I am
Speaker 1: a groomzilla, I'm going to be so involved. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I think like maybe you've somewhat taken a step back
Speaker 1: because when I asked, are you stressed out? Tammy was
Speaker 1: like yes, and you were like no, I feel great
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 2: I was saying before, I'm pretty stressed about my dancing.
Speaker 3: Though, yeah, I'm stress about your dancing. Also, we practiced
Speaker 3: our first dance and then immediately after I was like
Speaker 3: looking up, like, who can give us some lessons before.
Speaker 1: The day, just like how bad is he on? You
Speaker 1: know what? It's like.
Speaker 3: It's been very romantic and sweet every time we've practiced,
Speaker 3: but it's just like it's not his actual dancing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we just need like a little bit of help.
Speaker 2: Well, without going into the song, there's certain like.
Speaker 1: Bits to moments.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't have what's the word rhythm rhythm.
Speaker 3: At one point he turned around and backed up on me.
Speaker 3: I was like, please do not do that in our
Speaker 3: first dance. It's booty shaky ye was.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, no, strictly the dancer is that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't no freestyle, but you know what I
Speaker 3: feel like, will just sort of like figet in the
Speaker 3: moment anyway.
Speaker 2: And just just enjoy each other.
Speaker 1: Yeah, probably be making out if all else spells and
Speaker 1: the routine goes to ship, just make out all cheer. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I just don't know how people do it without a
Speaker 1: wedding planner, Like how how would you do it?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: My wedding planners have been so good.
Speaker 3: They're called Nuptial Collective, and they are honestly amazing. They've
Speaker 3: handled every single thing and just like taken so much
Speaker 3: stress off me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I honestly wouldn't have. I wouldn't be able to
Speaker 1: get married if I didn't have, right, Like, how would
Speaker 1: you even know all of the things that you need
Speaker 1: to organize?
Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, I wouldn't even know half the stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah you'd have to do Yeah, no, he even think
Speaker 1: of all that little stuff wedding planners.
Speaker 2: And you obviously had your wedding couple of months ago,
Speaker 2: and you know it feels like.
Speaker 1: Yes, a couple of months. Yeah, I was like seven
Speaker 1: eight months ago. I know, crazy quickly time flies and
Speaker 1: you're having fun.
Speaker 2: You got any advice for us? Yeah?
Speaker 1: For the day, Yeah, okay, just triple check all of
Speaker 1: the songs are right, like the key songs, so just
Speaker 1: make sure that's all right, I would say, just like
Speaker 1: I didn't really have like too much to drink. I
Speaker 1: probably had like five or six drinks, so I like
Speaker 1: remember the whole day, but then like on the after party,
Speaker 1: I don't really remember a lot of by the end
Speaker 1: of it. The recovery, Yeah, recovery, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think like the lead up is part of the fun,
Speaker 1: Like this, like two weeks is so stressful, but it's
Speaker 1: also so cool, like the fact that you guys are
Speaker 1: gonna have like people coming and all of your family
Speaker 1: and friends around you, Like those moments are really special
Speaker 1: as well. The morning of the wedding just goes so fast.
Speaker 1: It's really weird. Like I was like, this is so strange,
Speaker 1: Like I'm just getting my makeup done, like I have
Speaker 1: millions of times. This is for a wedding, Like what
Speaker 1: the hell? I feel like I'm gonna be so nuh
Speaker 1: Do you think You're going to be emotional on the
Speaker 1: day or are you going to be Like I think, oh, well,
Speaker 1: it could go one of two ways.
Speaker 3: I'm either going to be like so so emotional or
Speaker 3: I'm going to be so nervous that it like makes it,
Speaker 3: like you know, but every single time I've like tried to, well,
Speaker 3: I'm finished my vows now, but every single time I've
Speaker 3: like written them or like looked at them, I bawled
Speaker 3: my eyes out crying. So I feel like we could both.
Speaker 1: Be up there crying.
Speaker 3: I kind of like I hope that, like when he
Speaker 3: proposed me, we both cried, like.
Speaker 1: All nice, that's so cute.
Speaker 3: So yeah, but I'm so nervous and I'm a crier
Speaker 3: as well at the best till so yeah, you are
Speaker 3: as well.
Speaker 1: So have you written your vowels? Matt? I told him
Speaker 1: to like go over them with our celebrant, not for.
Speaker 2: Anything I've got in my own head, because I don't
Speaker 2: know how Michael did it or any other dude does it.
Speaker 2: Like I googled how to structure because I do. That's
Speaker 2: really overwhelm because there's all different sort of like structures
Speaker 2: and all this sort of stuff. So I'm just going
Speaker 2: to go over it with the celebrate.
Speaker 3: We did like this, we did our what was it
Speaker 3: with our celebrant? We just did like a questionnaire with
Speaker 3: our celebrant. And because I've been like worried a little
Speaker 3: worried about like are they going to be like romantic,
Speaker 3: you know, like what you like the most, like romantic,
Speaker 3: but no, you're very romantic.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just had no idea how it was
Speaker 1: going to go.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then we went through some of our questions
Speaker 3: in this questionnaire to our celebrant, and his answers were
Speaker 3: like so sweet. I literally wanted to cry, and I
Speaker 3: was like, I have nothing to worry about, Like if
Speaker 3: this man is the sweetest.
Speaker 2: It's not so much what I'm actually going to say,
Speaker 2: it's how to structure it or how to like the grammar. Yeah,
Speaker 2: the grammar is.
Speaker 1: Just likely so you can read it like you don't
Speaker 1: worry about this.
Speaker 2: We've also been doing this thing as well. We've we've
Speaker 2: got these journals and every night we've been answering these
Speaker 2: questions in these journals.
Speaker 1: It's called Words of Lovers. It's like a guided relationship journal.
Speaker 1: They're actually so good, so we've been doing them every night,
Speaker 1: like you know, we want to feel like all connected
Speaker 1: to the wedding.
Speaker 2: What are the questions?
Speaker 3: Some of them is just like how do you like
Speaker 3: see yourself in three years, five years, blah blah, And
Speaker 3: you meant to like write your answers out.
Speaker 1: And then you swap journal because I'm going to cry.
Speaker 1: This is same.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've been doing like a page to night and
Speaker 3: it's just like it's really it's really cute, like and
Speaker 3: just have like a cup of tea and read each
Speaker 3: other's answers.
Speaker 1: That's so cute. Yeah, you guys look like so cute,
Speaker 1: closer than ever, just like very connected. Well I think
Speaker 1: I think I need to invest. That's so good.
Speaker 3: I've been telling like all my friends what is it
Speaker 3: called again, words of lovers, words of thank you?
Speaker 1: Sounds great, It's very cute. I feel like I'm going
Speaker 1: to be like bulling my eyes out, like you were
Speaker 1: at my wedding. I'll just see that. Yeah, I was.
Speaker 1: I was a mess at your wedding. That's why I'm like,
Speaker 1: I was so the whole or you can think about
Speaker 1: a three piece suit.
Speaker 2: No, I was. I was emotional, but like I was, remember.
Speaker 1: You guys have a disagreement about this, Yeah, because she
Speaker 1: was crying, crying, I was like, you better cry. He
Speaker 1: turns to me and I was like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I was in a three piece suit in
Speaker 2: the sun, and I was.
Speaker 1: Like expecting him to say something like emotional about like
Speaker 1: what's happening right now. He's just going on about how
Speaker 1: hot I.
Speaker 2: Was in the middle of what was in July. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Thing often it will see through.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel about nothing. The guy's always happening.
Speaker 2: I said when jumping and his wedding was amazing. It
Speaker 2: was beautiful.
Speaker 1: Oh, it was.
Speaker 2: So stunning wedding.
Speaker 1: It made me so excited, Like it was so beautiful. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It's also just so fun to go to someone's wedding
Speaker 1: with your partner because like the lover is just in
Speaker 1: the air and you can just be That's what I
Speaker 1: love about weddings. It just feels you can feel like
Speaker 1: the like love.
Speaker 2: Yeah, spoke about it as well when we went to
Speaker 2: Love Canal.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was awesome channel of Channel four wheelers,
Speaker 1: and we all just solidified our love. We can't break
Speaker 1: up because we all made out simultaneously in the Love Canal. Yeah.
Speaker 1: My brother got a later, but I had. Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: we like we always just became. We always wanted friends
Speaker 1: with them, but engrace, Yeah, hung with them like the
Speaker 1: whole time. Yeah. No, it's so cute. I'm excited to
Speaker 1: have him there as well. I don't really see him
Speaker 1: as much because he's in the Sunshine Co. So now
Speaker 1: he's in Sydney. I don't know where he is. He's
Speaker 1: always moving.
Speaker 2: Around for work, but in a different place, which.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I didn't pick up Matt's call ones
Speaker 1: And so then he like calls my brother and then
Speaker 1: at like four five minutes, once they've been talking, like
Speaker 1: screenshots and goes next best thing. I was like, rude,
Speaker 1: what are you guys most excited about about the day? Like,
Speaker 1: is there something that you're really looking forward to?
Speaker 2: Personally? I'm excited for like after it's all done. Tammy
Speaker 2: and I have discussed having like after the ceremony, having
Speaker 2: like fifteen minutes but just the two of us, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, I feel like that's going to be the
Speaker 2: most emotional part. What do you call it?
Speaker 1: Registered legal document?
Speaker 2: Yeah, then we're going to like have fifteen minutes and
Speaker 2: have a glass of champagne, which I'll be collecting that cork.
Speaker 2: That'll be a very important call.
Speaker 1: You should collect the glasses for that.
Speaker 2: I've actually asked the wedding planners if they can keep
Speaker 2: all the corks really just.
Speaker 3: The wedding wedding cooks, tell me what's your Yeah, I
Speaker 3: feel like I'm definitely excited for that. I'm also excited for, like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, the first time we see each other
Speaker 3: on the day, like when I when I'm about to
Speaker 3: walk down the aisle.
Speaker 1: I just I'm really excited for that moment. It's so surreal.
Speaker 2: Because we're not we're not spending the night together.
Speaker 1: We probably should have done that insight, we were meant to,
Speaker 1: but it's really hard, Like I feel like it's going
Speaker 1: to be hard. It's so hard, like I was fully
Speaker 1: doing it and then I had to say goodbye and
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I'm not saying about that. I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm not gonna want to, but I feel
Speaker 1: like it will.
Speaker 2: It'll be hard, but it will make that moment the
Speaker 2: next day I think like super special.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think it will make it.
Speaker 1: Like wow, yeah, yeah, because I see that's why they
Speaker 1: used to do it. I feel yeah, yeah, I know.
Speaker 1: I also told Michael that for the month leading up
Speaker 1: to our wedding we weren't going to have sex. That
Speaker 1: didn't work. It's like I'm reftnizing.
Speaker 2: Yeah no, no, none of that, but that would make
Speaker 2: the consummating the marriage even more specially, Yeah.
Speaker 1: You want to do that, do you know we didn't
Speaker 1: consonate the marriage.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Really, it's like it was just our songs. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I understand that even the next day we did it.
Speaker 1: That's like, it's definitely happy. I was speaking of the devil.
Speaker 1: My brother's calling me. Hey, you're on the podcast.
Speaker 2: Hey, b o time he's here as well.
Speaker 1: Hi.
Speaker 2: OHI you going. Thanks for screening my calls.
Speaker 1: Mat I call you're on the podcast. Well you can
Speaker 1: answer on the podcast minutes ago. Oh so you called
Speaker 1: that first, and then Peter So called me. We're not
Speaker 1: you dog, Okay, got it, girl, I'll talk to you soon.
Speaker 1: Love you say, I'll.
Speaker 2: Call you later.
Speaker 1: I'm actually shut. I wasn't even gonna answer that. Now
Speaker 1: I know he's called you. Okay, So obviously I got
Speaker 1: married this year. You guys are about to get married
Speaker 1: on the brink of getting married, and I use the
Speaker 1: Easy Weddings app, which basically puts you in touch with
Speaker 1: heaps of different vendors so makes it super easy, especially
Speaker 1: if you're not getting a wedding planner. And they have
Speaker 1: just come out with a report. So I'm going to
Speaker 1: go through that with you guys, and I'm going to
Speaker 1: ask you what you guys are doing for your weddings. Okay,
Speaker 1: so how many people did you guys want to invite
Speaker 1: versus how much you ended up inviting. I feel like
Speaker 1: Matthew wanted to invite a lot more than me. Like
Speaker 1: I I'm I have like my family and then I
Speaker 1: have like a few friends.
Speaker 3: Matthew, I was like every person who's like over math.
Speaker 1: But our guest list is pretty even.
Speaker 3: But we did initially want a bit more than we
Speaker 3: ended up inviting.
Speaker 1: Well, I would have added people, but you couldn't hold Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't. We were torn. So apparently, on average, couples
Speaker 1: wanted to invite one hundred and sixteen but ended up
Speaker 1: inviting I think that's like like the I'm pretty sure
Speaker 1: that's how examptly that's hilarious. But apparently couples ended up
Speaker 1: inviting eighty eight on average. Pretty interesting. Okay, let's talk
Speaker 1: about wedding gifts, because there was an influencer page who
Speaker 1: spoke about how you guys wanted two thousand dollars per
Speaker 1: guess four gifts for the wedding, and I thought that
Speaker 1: was so wild. But I just want to clarify because
Speaker 1: I'm going to this sweating in two weeks and I'm
Speaker 1: going to give some cash money, and I was just wondering,
Speaker 1: do you guys want two thousand dollars? Absolutely not.
Speaker 3: I just put a wishing well, yeah, because I thought
Speaker 3: that's like what you do.
Speaker 1: It is what you do, like everyone does. I honestly
Speaker 1: like could really not care that much.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but my wedding planners were like, so do you
Speaker 3: want a registerry or wishing well or this that, And
Speaker 3: I was like, you choose.
Speaker 2: Well, we don't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't really need like so no, we're not
Speaker 3: like we're not expecting anything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not going to say like we want new
Speaker 2: homewear and all that, which is like the traditional thing,
Speaker 2: like that's all that.
Speaker 1: I do want new homework, like actually too late to change. Well.
Speaker 1: On average, close friends and family are spending two hundred
Speaker 1: and eighty eight dollars on gifts for the couple. Two
Speaker 1: hundred and eighty eight guys.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's reasonable.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's pretty good for close friends and family. Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: average age of couples getting married they're making out, how
Speaker 1: old are you guys? Thirty and twenty nine. On average,
Speaker 1: the brider is thirty two and the groom is thirty three.
Speaker 2: Wasn't that your mirage?
Speaker 1: You were thirty I was thirty one and he was
Speaker 1: thirty five. How many people do you guys have in
Speaker 1: your wedding party? I just have my four sisters. So
Speaker 1: I just said to him, like, pick four people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what.
Speaker 3: I was so easy because I didn't have to choose
Speaker 3: between like my friends and stuff.
Speaker 1: Because I have four sisters. I was like perfect.
Speaker 2: It was difficult.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I struggled best mates.
Speaker 2: I'm a best man from a while ago. Done, and
Speaker 2: then I had to like, I mean that sounds nasty
Speaker 2: to the boys that I had picked, but no, no, no,
Speaker 2: I'm trying to face I had like like it was
Speaker 2: like I knew I wanted them, but I could have
Speaker 2: had more.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but sometimes you just have to like have
Speaker 1: a specific Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well that's like even with the invites to the wedding,
Speaker 3: it sucks, like there's some people like I would have
Speaker 3: liked to invite, couldn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, absolutely, well, you guys had eight and on
Speaker 1: average it's eight to ten people are in the bridal parties,
Speaker 1: so all together.
Speaker 2: Ten would be a massive line up the top of
Speaker 2: imagine ten.
Speaker 1: No, like all together like four four or five h no.
Speaker 1: I actually, when I was in Bhali, I was staying
Speaker 1: at this hotel and in the middle of the hotel
Speaker 1: there was a wedding going on and it was really sad.
Speaker 1: The guy had one groomsman and the girl had like
Speaker 1: thirty bridesmaids. They just kept coming. I could not believe it.
Speaker 1: I was it was like never ending, a never ending trail,
Speaker 1: and like the bridesmaids line was fucked. It was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god. And going all the way back out
Speaker 1: of the he had one guy. I was like, he's
Speaker 1: gonna have a good night to night. This is really interesting.
Speaker 1: I thought this one was interesting. The most popular month
Speaker 1: to get married any bets April, I was gonna say April,
Speaker 1: it's November. Fifteen percent of couples get married in November
Speaker 1: fifteen percent. I feel like November it was like wedding season. Yeah,
Speaker 1: summer in Australia. I feel like the wayther's going to
Speaker 1: be good as well. Touch Wood, yeah, bar and Bay. Yeah. Surely,
Speaker 1: surely is there like a long term like for class
Speaker 1: that you can see. I started doing that before.
Speaker 3: I don't even want to look like just whatever happens happens, true.
Speaker 1: I don't want to know.
Speaker 2: No one do any rain dancers on the day.
Speaker 1: Do you know it's good luck? Though, it's good luck.
Speaker 2: So it's good luck to rain at a wedding.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good luck. It rained on my parents wedding
Speaker 1: this altogether, so man, it didn't rain on my.
Speaker 2: Have I stressed how hot it wasn't yours?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have mentioned a couple of times. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's great, guys. I'm honestly so excited for your wedding.
Speaker 1: It's going to be so much fun. Any last words
Speaker 1: or thoughts as I don't want to say single because
Speaker 1: you're not single, but like you know, before you get married,
Speaker 1: like your premarital thoughts.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited to move forward into the next chapter
Speaker 2: of my life with you.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking forward to the future.
Speaker 1: Yeah. We're so excited from that, Tammy, and we're sending
Speaker 1: them so much positive energy and love and hopefully you
Speaker 1: guys just feel the love from everyone because you both
Speaker 1: deserve it.
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1: Thanks for coming in, Tammy.
Speaker 2: We're going to get our rinks, We're.
Speaker 1: Doing our wedding bank. How exciting. Okay, enjoy guys. See
Speaker 1: you probably at the wedding t