WEBVTT - Dad's a celebrity, get him out of there!

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<v Speaker 1>Apod Shape Production.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to another episode of Am I A Bad Mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast? Am I A Bad Mom?

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<v Speaker 2>Is the question we are constantly asking ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>We just like to sit here in a reflective sense,

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<v Speaker 3>and I guess support each other through that, don't We like,

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<v Speaker 3>because some weeks are great and then some weeks you're like,

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<v Speaker 3>could have done that better?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you lose your shit. It's almost like it's instant

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<v Speaker 2>the guilt. It's like, yes, I have every right to

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<v Speaker 2>lose my shit because they've done this whatever. Not listening.

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<v Speaker 2>I asked them to put the washing away the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>I recognized said it like five times, and in my head,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going, I could have just put that away. We

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<v Speaker 2>have taken me five minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>But we're not teaching them anything. So this is where

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<v Speaker 3>we come up with that whole damned if you do,

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<v Speaker 3>damned if you don't, because if we did that for

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<v Speaker 3>then they're going to become obnoxious, selfish little shits.

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<v Speaker 2>More. Mikeirl say to me, why do you have to

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<v Speaker 2>drink wine? Like, why do you have to drink so

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<v Speaker 2>much wine? I'm like, because I'm a parent, it's your

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<v Speaker 2>ful And then you go, oh, they're gonna be in

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<v Speaker 2>therapy one day, going mum said it was our fault.

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<v Speaker 2>Heat was driven to drink therapy.

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<v Speaker 3>Am I a bad mum for keeping secrets from them?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I need to address the elephant in the room.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>With that, I'm going to play.

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<v Speaker 3>Some music right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So last night we found out that your husband

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<v Speaker 2>Sam It's gone into the African jungle and I'm a celebrity.

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<v Speaker 3>Get me out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a text from Rach yesterday morning saying, good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Just wanted to let you know as it's gone into

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<v Speaker 2>the press. Sam It's currently in Africa and he's in

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a celebrity, get me.

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<v Speaker 3>Out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to read it a couple of times. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, what, Sorry, I haven't been able to say anything.

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<v Speaker 2>We signed an NDA, so haven't been able. The girls

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<v Speaker 2>will find out tonight when they watched the show for

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<v Speaker 2>the first time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So I followed it up with a phone call,

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<v Speaker 3>didn't I because I had to explain myself a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit more along the lines of going, look, I feel

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<v Speaker 3>shit for having to hold out on you because we've

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<v Speaker 3>spoken about like how many times you'd ask me in

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<v Speaker 3>the last couple of weeks, where Sam. How is he?

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<v Speaker 3>What is he doing? And I'm like, ah, he's great.

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<v Speaker 3>Where is he Sydney? What is he doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Work?

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<v Speaker 3>That's all I've given you for weeks. That's not normally me,

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<v Speaker 3>which is probably where you would have seen through that

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit. So, yes, he is in Africa, he

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<v Speaker 3>is on celeb Slave Get me out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is so funny to me because you've never

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<v Speaker 2>watched I've never watched the show.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel terrible saying that, but I'll own it and

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<v Speaker 3>say the only reality show that which is shit to

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<v Speaker 3>say now that I say it that caught me it

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<v Speaker 3>was Maths because it's like a train wreck. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>that whole like don't want to look but I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>can't look away kind of situation because it's such a

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<v Speaker 3>train wreck.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it's embarrassing, but you said it out loud.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's so embarrassing. That's the only thing that I've

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<v Speaker 3>sort of watched. And I know that you love the show,

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<v Speaker 3>You've watched it many.

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<v Speaker 2>I was excited to watch the show anyway before I

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<v Speaker 2>knew that Sam was going to be on there, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I was just like so excited yesterday. Honestly, you

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<v Speaker 2>should have seen this last night because I had to

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<v Speaker 2>do FaceTime with my dad at the time that the

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<v Speaker 2>show was going to start, and so I was like, Okay, Dad,

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<v Speaker 2>need to just make this really quick because I want

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<v Speaker 2>to watch I'm here, and so then I've set it

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<v Speaker 2>up to record and then it's not working. I'm on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone to Foxtael had to record it in another room.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we had to.

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<v Speaker 2>Watch it for an hour in the other room before

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<v Speaker 2>we could go back in. It was a bloody plava.

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<v Speaker 3>I've got two kids now sitting down and they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>why is this on? And I'm like, oh, let's watch

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<v Speaker 3>a movie. But I'm just tiling up some dishes and

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<v Speaker 3>stuff like that. And they're like, well, let's watch the

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<v Speaker 3>start of it, and I went, oh, yeah, if you want,

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<v Speaker 3>but I don't really want to watch I think it

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<v Speaker 3>was like Miss Congeniality, I really want to watch that.

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<v Speaker 3>So we need to start watching it decoy and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, yeah, that's what we'll do. And then they

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<v Speaker 3>started to watch it, and then the intro took so long.

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<v Speaker 3>Katie I was like, when is he coming on? Because

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<v Speaker 3>obviously we carried this out all the way through the day.

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<v Speaker 3>Now we got leaked yesterday that he was going to

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<v Speaker 3>be in there, and so then I was like right,

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<v Speaker 3>and then thinking, okay, now I need to think of

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<v Speaker 3>all the ways that I need to bubble wrap my

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<v Speaker 3>two girls for the day so that I can continue

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<v Speaker 3>the surprise, like Sam and I had agreed on. I

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<v Speaker 3>felt bad because everyone else knew, and then I think

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<v Speaker 3>I said that to you. I feel bad because my

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<v Speaker 3>girls don't know, but now everyone else knows.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and Gracie has a watch, doesn't he When she doesn't,

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<v Speaker 2>her friends can message her. So you needed to avoid

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<v Speaker 2>the watch being used so none of her friends could go, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Your dad's going to be on TV tonight. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 3>that was like that, And then they pick up my

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<v Speaker 3>mom's phone all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Nanadini's per part of the phone. We had the problem

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<v Speaker 2>with the tooth fairy. Yeah, and the text that you'd

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<v Speaker 2>sent about the tooth Fairy coming, which then one.

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<v Speaker 3>Of your girls, Elsie, just recently in December.

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<v Speaker 2>Dangerous, nanade, come on, change your password. So you got

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<v Speaker 2>to the stage where they hadn't got wind of anything,

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<v Speaker 2>they hadn't been in touch with their friends, no one

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<v Speaker 2>had been able to ruin the surprise. And then they

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<v Speaker 2>say on the lounge and you had the TV on

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<v Speaker 2>and then this was what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Dad, Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like it went from oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>it's Dad, I knew it to all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 2>Gracie going everyone's going to see him on TV.

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<v Speaker 3>I think Gracie's side of it is like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>what is he going to do that is going to

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<v Speaker 3>embarrass this ship out of me?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because she's got to that age. And obviously for

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<v Speaker 2>those who know Sam was a football player for the

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<v Speaker 2>Brisbane Broncos for years and years, but your girls were

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<v Speaker 2>so little then. I know they did see him on

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<v Speaker 2>TV and stuff, but I think it's very different now

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<v Speaker 2>they're older. They were either going to be super excited

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<v Speaker 2>and impressed by it or they were going to go

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<v Speaker 2>the other way and be embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 3>And oh my god. I think we went through everything

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<v Speaker 3>last night, everything you can think of. Like obviously that

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<v Speaker 3>was the first moment that was their initial reaction and

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<v Speaker 3>they were like, oh my gosh. And then I think

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<v Speaker 3>they went straight into like what you call a challenge,

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<v Speaker 3>and then Sam was doing the challenge and it was

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<v Speaker 3>like brought out another whole side of the girls. They

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<v Speaker 3>were like, oh my god, Elsie becomes competitive with him,

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<v Speaker 3>even though he's on a TV and she's at home

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<v Speaker 3>telling him he can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my daughters. As I always tell him, Gracie, Elsie

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<v Speaker 1>takes one second to be brave. It takes one second

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<v Speaker 1>to be brave.

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<v Speaker 2>And so he's walking out on a led really really higher.

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<v Speaker 3>Now that star provided their first dinner of the night,

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't it. So there was no way he was jumping

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<v Speaker 3>and missing that start. Sam.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the thing that we keep laughing at because I

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<v Speaker 2>think he's going to be really great at all the challenges.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think he will have problems with any of them,

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<v Speaker 2>the eating challenges, the spiders, and then I think he'll

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<v Speaker 2>do good. However, I think he will be very hungry.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, I was like, this would be great for you.

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<v Speaker 3>He loves a snack. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember one of his teammates back in the day,

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<v Speaker 2>Tavita Panguy Junior. I remember him saying that the only

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<v Speaker 2>problem he had with Sam as a roommate was that

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<v Speaker 2>he liked to just sit there and eat peanut brittle.

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<v Speaker 3>Loves to snack. Food might be the thing that provides

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<v Speaker 3>him a.

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<v Speaker 2>Challenge and the lack of So do you think he

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<v Speaker 2>made the right decision not telling the girls and letting

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<v Speaker 2>it be a surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think from our conversation yesterday and another good

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<v Speaker 3>friend of mine had said, look at it this way, Rach,

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<v Speaker 3>even though they're missing him and they'll miss him like crazy,

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<v Speaker 3>like if he's gone for the I think it's the

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<v Speaker 3>entirety is like five to six weeks or something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>At the same time, they're still getting to watch him

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<v Speaker 3>live every single day. And then you had sort of

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<v Speaker 3>said to me to sell it as a surprise. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Sam and I had spoken about it as being a surprise,

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<v Speaker 3>But I think the enormity of what yesterday was, which

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<v Speaker 3>was leaked in the press, so it was on papers,

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<v Speaker 3>it was like interviewed, it was, you know, so much

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<v Speaker 3>of it that I was like, Okay, now I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like the world knows and my girls don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Hmmm.

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<v Speaker 3>So you feel as I felt a bit shitty about

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<v Speaker 3>holding out on them for that part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>You could not have told them beforehand, No, because you

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<v Speaker 2>know what kids are like.

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<v Speaker 3>You could not have like.

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<v Speaker 2>There is no way kids can't make secrets.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't have told Nanady. Half of Brisbane would have known.

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<v Speaker 2>So, yeah, you couldn't have told the girls previously because

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<v Speaker 2>you were worried that they I'd be like.

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<v Speaker 3>Why didn't you tell us? Yes, and so I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeah, make it about them. This was about we

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to surprise you. It's exciting that kind.

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<v Speaker 3>Of They loved it. In the end, we went through

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<v Speaker 3>all emotions. Actually, I have to say there was highs

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<v Speaker 3>and lows. And I think by this second advert, after

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<v Speaker 3>he had come on, finally I sort of turned to

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<v Speaker 3>Gracie and she's in tears, and I was like, what's up, mate,

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<v Speaker 3>Like what are you crying for? You know, remembering that

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<v Speaker 3>I have been with them permanently attached for the whole

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<v Speaker 3>entire week. So my quota of feeling sorry for you

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<v Speaker 3>because you're crying, it's just not there, because it's like

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<v Speaker 3>also eight o'clock at night. So I was like, what's

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<v Speaker 3>up mate? Really, like why are we crying for? He

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<v Speaker 3>won't be able to see me go to high school.

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<v Speaker 3>He won't be able to see me in my uniform,

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<v Speaker 3>and so she wanted to go down that route. I

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<v Speaker 3>understand that, I said, but you're saying it like he's

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<v Speaker 3>chosen like this over you. It's not like that I'm here,

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<v Speaker 3>me still here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Dylan, Like I said yesterday as well, is that

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<v Speaker 2>it's a decision for the family. I know it's a

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<v Speaker 2>TV show and it looks fun and all the rest

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<v Speaker 2>of it doesn't look fun.

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<v Speaker 3>But like it comes updoors.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a TV guy, he's a but he needed to.

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<v Speaker 3>Really push himself. There is an element in there of

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<v Speaker 3>going like how far can I push myself out of

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<v Speaker 3>comfort zone? Because there's nothing comfortable about what I saw

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<v Speaker 3>last night?

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<v Speaker 2>And he said to you before he went to Africa,

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<v Speaker 2>what have I done?

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<v Speaker 3>I can't do this?

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<v Speaker 1>He is.

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<v Speaker 2>I've made vision for his own mental health and self esteem,

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<v Speaker 2>all of those things, Like this is going to be

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<v Speaker 2>like a life changing thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope, So I do hope so for him individually,

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<v Speaker 3>like yes, for the family, Yes, for his career and

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<v Speaker 3>all of those sorts of things. But personally on a

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<v Speaker 3>personal level, like we've been made since grade eight, this

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<v Speaker 3>is going to be wonderful for him. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And the other thing is that you're potentially going to

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<v Speaker 2>be solo parenting your kids for six weeks. How much

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<v Speaker 2>he enjoy watching those horrible trials to eat.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have any Yeah, I don't have any sympathy there.

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<v Speaker 3>I think last night was something like his dinner and

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<v Speaker 3>the dinner sort of got dropped in and then they

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<v Speaker 3>like opened it up and it was like chook's feet

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<v Speaker 3>or something, and I was like, sweet, what did you have?

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<v Speaker 1>Steak?

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<v Speaker 3>I had.

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<v Speaker 2>Steak and prawns. When you have moments of the kids

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<v Speaker 2>getting too much for you, just take yourself out of

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<v Speaker 2>for dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>Fuck. I hadn't consider that, but maybe I'll take myself

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<v Speaker 3>out for dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to think about your dinners so much over

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<v Speaker 2>the next six weeks, and you're going to just enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>them so much. Thinking about what Sam's do?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? The one thing and I'm just going

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<v Speaker 3>to wrap this up because this is relevant to all

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<v Speaker 3>mums and dads. Majority would be very reliant on one coffee,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe two a day. Sam was at four. His throat

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<v Speaker 3>will be cut over. Yes, number one it would be food,

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<v Speaker 3>but number two would be coffee. Yeah, so every time

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<v Speaker 3>I do have a coffee, which is like I'm in

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<v Speaker 3>that quota of two a day, Yeah, think of him.

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<v Speaker 3>I have one, and I think Jesus is nice. So

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<v Speaker 3>selfish hats off to him. Good luck, Sam, good luck

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<v Speaker 3>to be amazing. I'll just hold the fort for everything else.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do you ever do that thing? I do know

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<v Speaker 2>couples that do this that go okay, you've gone away

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<v Speaker 2>to kind of know, I'm owed a weekend away sort

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<v Speaker 2>of thing, like you've got six weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>I know this, and we're both turning forty this year,

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<v Speaker 3>and one hundred percent people that know me very well

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<v Speaker 3>yesterday in phone calls because it was a very busy day,

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<v Speaker 3>was oh my gosh, you've got six weeks. A crude,

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<v Speaker 3>if he gets the finals, you've got six weeks. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, fuck, yes, that is European summer here.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't What do you want to do for your

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<v Speaker 2>fortieth raight, I'm just gonna go away six weeks on

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<v Speaker 2>my own.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Oh, don't even worry. It's crossed my mind several times.