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Speaker 1: Apogee Production.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode ab am I a Bad

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Speaker 2: Mom Podcast. We're on Instagram too, at am I a

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Speaker 2: Bad Mom?

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Speaker 3: We are I've been really a lot of those because

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Speaker 3: it has been a hot topic around our household and

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Speaker 3: the rest of the world.

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Speaker 1: That's six seven thing? Have you seen one? Six seven?

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Speaker 1: I said, I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: It's actually an old thing. Like it's not a new thing.

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Speaker 2: It's been brought back.

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Speaker 1: Katie.

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Speaker 3: We used to go to school, and it was never

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Speaker 3: at school when we were at school.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't mean like older, like like ancient. It's

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Speaker 2: not back in our day like it. Okay, but it's

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Speaker 2: something that was maybe a year or so ago. I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: And then I don't get it, you know. He brought

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Speaker 2: it back. Kim Kardashian. There was a video of her

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Speaker 2: with Jimmy Kimmel. No, who's the other one, Jimmy Fallon. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and they're doing like this video which must have been

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Speaker 2: for socials. He said, oh, what are you bringing back?

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Speaker 2: And she did all these like old yeah, you know

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Speaker 2: when people said dab and that kind of stuff, And

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Speaker 2: she said, I can bring anything back. Watch me, and

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Speaker 2: she did the six seventh thing, and now everyone's doing

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Speaker 2: the six seventh thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, well that makes me stop again.

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Speaker 2: I'm not one hundred percent whether it was just her

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Speaker 2: that started it again, but I definitely saw that she

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Speaker 2: did do that.

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Speaker 3: I was having a laugh only today with a friend

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Speaker 3: and I she said something along the lines and it

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Speaker 3: was Kim Kardashian related, which always makes me think of you.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, what about Kim Kardashian bringing out

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Speaker 1: the G string with the hair on it? Oh? Have

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Speaker 1: you seen it?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 2: That sounds gross.

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Speaker 3: It's pubit care on the outside of a G string

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Speaker 3: and she's selling it and they were sold out. Katie

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Speaker 3: old out skim thing, Yes, and they've sold out. Now

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Speaker 3: this says more about us. What is humanity doing buying this?

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Speaker 3: We've spent so much money.

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Speaker 2: Hang on for a second. My first thought is what

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Speaker 2: she's making pubic hair fashionable again? Because the years I've

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Speaker 2: done of laser That's what I'm like with the eyebrows, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I brod about how she's like, I can bring back anything.

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Speaker 3: Now she's trying to bring back the bush.

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Speaker 1: But it's sold out. So what does that say about us? Public?

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Speaker 1: That is buying that.

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Speaker 2: I'm not buying that. I'm not buying that at all.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what they're called? Aren't they called Amercans

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Speaker 2: a pubic week?

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Speaker 3: Well, this is on a G string, so it's a

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Speaker 3: bit more fancy, and it's from a brand.

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Speaker 1: It's like Kim Kardashian.

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Speaker 2: But how is that? Is that supposed to be sexy?

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Speaker 1: I have no idea, Katie, I find a hideous. I'm

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Speaker 1: not a fan of her, as you can tell, and I.

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Speaker 2: See I am a fan, but I am not wearing

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Speaker 2: a fur.

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Speaker 1: Like she said on that I can bring back anything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's got to be a joke, right, the people

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Speaker 3: that are buying that, Why are they buying it?

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Speaker 2: I reckon she's having a laugh with it?

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Speaker 1: Why are you buying hair on a G string?

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Speaker 3: I don't know when you've gone through all of that

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Speaker 3: trouble to get rid of her hair?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't get it. She's not wearing that, surely,

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Speaker 2: I reckon. It's not having a laugh. She's having a laugh.

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Speaker 1: She's taking the preece. She's laughing at.

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Speaker 3: All of these other people that are buying millions buying

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Speaker 3: hair on a strap.

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Speaker 2: But when they say sold out, how many did she produce? God,

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't know twenty.

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Speaker 3: It's so embarrassing if you bought one DMR someone.

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Speaker 2: Am I a bad mum for not cooking dinner anymore?

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Speaker 1: To stop?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I decided this last night. I'm not doing dinner anymore.

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Speaker 3: You know, why for you or like as in for

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Speaker 3: the four of you or just for you and yeah,

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Speaker 3: as in just the children.

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Speaker 2: I'm still going to have dinner. I'll still make myself dinner,

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Speaker 2: and I'll make to a dinner sometimes, and probably Amelia

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Speaker 2: because she wasn't really involved in this, but I, like

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Speaker 2: many parents, get sick of my kids go every time

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Speaker 2: I say what's for dinner? It doesn't matter what it is.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, could be gold class food and that's

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Speaker 3: still going to be frowned upon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I started a while ago saying what my mum used

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Speaker 2: to say to me. And so I'd go, Mum, what's

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Speaker 2: for dinner? And she'd say, wait and see pie. And

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Speaker 2: so I say that to the girls, because what happens

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Speaker 2: is I call up and go girls dinner, and then

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Speaker 2: one of two things happens. Either they completely ignore me

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Speaker 2: and don't come until I've said it. Another three or

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Speaker 2: four times, or they go what is it? And I

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Speaker 2: know that that means what is it? I want to

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Speaker 2: find out whether it's worth me coming down for or not,

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Speaker 2: because if it's something I don't want to just take

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Speaker 2: a long time. That's exactly what they're thinking. And so

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Speaker 2: I go, wait and see pie come on. And then

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Speaker 2: last one down clears up. Yeah yeah, yeah, So it

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Speaker 2: come down between the two of them. They have to

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Speaker 2: hurry up. Because my girls are vegetarian, I often do

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Speaker 2: two dinners every night, and it's a pain in the ass.

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Speaker 2: Or what I try and do is I know what

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Speaker 2: Jay and I are having, and then I'll do like

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Speaker 2: the sides or mostly similar for them, but then just

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Speaker 2: substitute the meat for something else. So last night, for example,

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Speaker 2: had steak, vegetables and potatoes. I did vegetables and potatoes,

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Speaker 2: and then they had a kishe yep, And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: okaysha's pretty good. Like it's got egg in it, spinach

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Speaker 2: and stuff like that. At least they're getting some protein

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Speaker 2: with off. I do not like keiche. Both of them

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Speaker 2: actually ate about half of it, and then went o

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Speaker 2: came putting it in the binner, and you're not putting

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Speaker 2: that in the bin. I've literally just bought that, So

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Speaker 2: that's like putting money straight into the bin, like literally,

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Speaker 2: And I feel like it's emphasized when you've literally just

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Speaker 2: bought it as opposed to it. And so then I'm

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Speaker 2: arguing with them about not eating dinner, blah blah blah,

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Speaker 2: and then Holly turns around and she says, I don't

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Speaker 2: even know why we have to eat dinner. Why do

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Speaker 2: we have to sit here and you tell us what

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Speaker 2: dinner we have to eat because I paid for it,

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Speaker 2: because I've paid for it. Well, I don't want that dinner.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, Well, then you make your own dinner.

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Speaker 2: You go to the shop on the weekend.

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Speaker 1: I'm not paying for uber eat because you're going to

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Speaker 1: choose what you want.

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Speaker 2: No, No, absolutely not. I said, I will give you

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Speaker 2: a budget of what I would have spent on your dinner.

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Speaker 2: And then there's rules around it too, because you're not

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Speaker 2: just buying yourself, Like, yeah, that's not happening. So there

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Speaker 2: needs to be a protein, two veg, and a carbohydrate

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Speaker 2: for your dinner. You work out what it is and

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Speaker 2: you can buy it and then you cook it yourself.

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Speaker 2: She's not going to want to cook it. Would I've

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Speaker 2: started it tonight, right tonight, dinner for herself. I will

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Speaker 2: fill you in on what happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't wait because I can guarantee no.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, the argument got so bad because I was just

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Speaker 2: in the mood last night where I was like, I

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Speaker 2: am not laying down and taking this. You are going

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Speaker 2: to understand that you are privileged to have had your

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Speaker 2: dinner cooked for you and a separate dinner because you

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Speaker 2: choose to be vegetarian. When I was a kid, it

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Speaker 2: was get what you're given, whether that man I sat

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Speaker 2: there for hours picking out the bits of leak from

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Speaker 2: the castle, role, which I did do. That was how

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Speaker 2: was I get where you get?

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Speaker 1: You ate it, didn't you? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I ate it because I didn't have a choice. And

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Speaker 2: so I told Holly how privileged she was that someone

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Speaker 2: else is making dinner for her and mostly clearing up

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Speaker 2: after dinner TI and letting her go up and do

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Speaker 2: whatever homework she needs to get on with. She turned

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Speaker 2: around to me and she said, you have an obligation

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Speaker 2: as a parent to do my dinner until I'm eighteen. Oh,

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Speaker 2: when first of all, looked over at Jay. He's grabbed

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Speaker 2: his phone. I can see he's googling or age. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure sixteen's like you can remember yourself. I so,

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Speaker 2: first of all, you sound so entitled. I don't have

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Speaker 2: an obligation. And then I wrote a list rach because

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Speaker 2: I sat and thought about it and stewed on it.

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Speaker 1: What was Amelia doing.

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Speaker 2: Amelia was being very quiet and didn't get involved because

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Speaker 2: she also knew that it was not going well for

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Speaker 2: Holly because we were both Jay and I were both

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Speaker 2: getting really angry, and we were both talking about how

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Speaker 2: we shouldn't even be doing vegetarian options. They should get

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Speaker 2: what they're given, they should eat what they're told. If

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Speaker 2: she's got a problem with it, she can her own food.

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Speaker 2: She can cook her own dinner, which she never does.

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Speaker 2: Like Amelia is like watching on going This is not

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Speaker 2: I'm just going to eat. I'll just eat it. It's

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Speaker 2: not going well. And then I turn around to Holly

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Speaker 2: and I said, actually, there's no legal requirement to buy

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Speaker 2: a child in Apple Mac. There's no legal requirement to

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Speaker 2: get them an iPhone and pay for their phone, Billy,

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Speaker 2: there's no legal requirement to take them to Europe or

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Speaker 2: America or Bali or any of the privileged places you've been.

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Speaker 2: There's no legal requirement to put you through private schooling.

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Speaker 2: There's no legal requirement to pay for your streaming services

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Speaker 2: or Spotify. And the list goes on and on and on,

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Speaker 2: and then Jay then pipes.

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Speaker 1: Up with He's waiting in the background.

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Speaker 2: He's then added to it. There's no obligation to drive

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Speaker 2: them for a hundred hours, pay for their driving lessons.

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Speaker 2: He's not going through what the current things are. And

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Speaker 2: then he's turned around and go and actually the age

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Speaker 2: of sixteen, which is perfect. So we've fed you up

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Speaker 2: until now. Now you confirm for yourself.

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Speaker 1: Oh good, I can't wait to see what happens.

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Speaker 3: You know, Like it's just that age where they just

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Speaker 3: know everything and they don't really give a fuck about

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Speaker 3: anyone else or anything else, and you're just like in

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Speaker 3: the firing one of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and all you've really done is cook them dinner.

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Speaker 2: I had a friend that was telling me recently that

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Speaker 2: they with their teenagers, got to the point where they

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Speaker 2: made them each cook one meal a week for the family,

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Speaker 2: so they had to do it for everybody. She said,

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Speaker 2: I sat there and got served up cheese toasties dinner. Oh.

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Speaker 2: I didn't say anything. They don't want to ask them

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Speaker 2: to do, and they made it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know if I what cheese?

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Speaker 1: Oh me neither that's or I go oh, I don't

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Speaker 1: think I could deal with that. I don't think I

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Speaker 1: could deal with that at all.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, I'll keep posted.

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Speaker 1: Is in store for your night ahead?

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Speaker 2: You know what I've got every I'm so tempted to

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Speaker 2: cook J and I and Amelia like something really nice

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Speaker 3: Tonight, or get us three takeaways that or get takeaway

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Speaker 3: do it