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Speaker 1: Welcome back to another Freaky Friday episode. This one is
Speaker 1: a bit confusing and I've got a lot of questions.
Speaker 1: All right, that's set you ready?
Speaker 2: Should we get stuck into it?
Speaker 1: Okay? Hey, ladies, I love your work. So I had
Speaker 1: been sleeping with this guy for a few months. He
Speaker 1: has no children. Then one night he tells me he
Speaker 1: has a four day old baby with his ex girlfriend,
Speaker 1: which I found out later it was his friend's girlfriend
Speaker 1: he slept with to make an Only Penns video that
Speaker 1: his partner did not want to be involved in. What
Speaker 1: Apparently she has fallen pregnant in a result of this
Speaker 1: and kept the child. Was already in a relationship and
Speaker 1: having children with him, and another child to a previous man.
Speaker 1: I'm after some advice around all of this, and who
Speaker 1: the fuck keeps another man's baby well in a relationship
Speaker 1: from the making of an OnlyFans video?
Speaker 2: This is tactic. I need context. So he has no children.
Speaker 3: Then one night he tells me he has a four
Speaker 3: day old baby with his ex girlfriend, which I find
Speaker 3: out it was his friend's girlfriend he slept with to
Speaker 3: make a baby. So your friend's girlfriend kept the baby
Speaker 3: with your partner or the men that.
Speaker 2: You're sleeping with.
Speaker 1: It's so confused.
Speaker 2: That's so messy.
Speaker 1: It's so messy. The baby is a result of Ann's video, Yeah,
Speaker 1: just from doing an only fans video. Oh, she kept
Speaker 1: the baby, and she kept the baby, goodness, while she's
Speaker 1: in a relationship with another man and has children.
Speaker 2: Sounds like some straight out of a TV series. Goodness.
Speaker 1: I mean when you've said, who the fuck keeps another
Speaker 1: man's baby was in a relationship for making only fans video?
Speaker 1: That's her decision, it's her body. Maybe she doesn't leave
Speaker 1: an abortion and that's okay. Yeah, you know that's not
Speaker 1: something that we're gonna judge either. It's just a really
Speaker 1: messy situation. But you've been sleeping with the guy for months.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you're quite overwhelmed from the situation. You've
Speaker 1: got a lot of judgment on it, which is fine,
Speaker 1: it's a lot. Maybe this isn't the guy that you
Speaker 1: want to be spending time with and sleeping with. I
Speaker 1: think maybe pull yourself away and go find someone else.
Speaker 3: I think you should leaved. Yeah, I don't like Tootie.
Speaker 3: You're not obviously in a relationship with him. You're not
Speaker 3: there for that by the sounds of it. Yeah, keeping together.
Speaker 1: Sounds very messy.
Speaker 2: Just seems like a whole lot of chaos and drama
Speaker 2: that you don't need in your life.
Speaker 1: He probably needs me just investing time into looking after
Speaker 1: his baby. And that's a question you've got to ask
Speaker 1: yourself too. If you're going to stay with this man,
Speaker 1: you're going to become the step mum too.
Speaker 2: Oh is it just really something that you want to
Speaker 2: be involved in?
Speaker 1: Don't think so by the sound of it. So I
Speaker 1: would just be removing myself from that and allowing him
Speaker 1: to just step in and be a dad and you
Speaker 1: take care of his child.
Speaker 3: Like, let everyone do what they want to do. Yeah,
Speaker 3: choose what you want to have and allow in your life.
Speaker 3: And if this is not it, like it's time to go.
Speaker 1: Which is fair enough because it is a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a lot happening there. I don't think i'd be
Speaker 1: wanting to insert myself and my energy into a situation
Speaker 1: like this.
Speaker 2: There's no way I would be one hundred percent protect
Speaker 2: my piece. This is not worth my time.
Speaker 1: I am out yes, I think it's just time to
Speaker 1: remove from the situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you already know your answer.
Speaker 1: I think so too, But with an update, what are
Speaker 1: you going to do? Are you going to have a conversation?
Speaker 1: You're going to completely cut ties? And I think just like,
Speaker 1: let them live their life. They've made these decisions, and
Speaker 1: there there's to live with now and continue making and
Speaker 1: live with and each to their own. That's all I got.
Speaker 2: It's not for us.
Speaker 1: It's not for us. Thanks for writing in, though we
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Yeah, Freaky Friday is about bringing in this
Speaker 1: stuff that you might not be able to bring in
Speaker 1: anywhere else. And there is no judgment and shame. It's
Speaker 1: just about unpacking it and chatting about it and looking
Speaker 1: at the different options and different situations. And this son's
Speaker 1: a messy one.
Speaker 2: This one is a messy one.
Speaker 1: It's a lot.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's pretty freaky. There's a lot going on.
Speaker 3: It's a lot going on, a lot going on. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't I don't envy everyone in this. No, this dynamic,
Speaker 3: it'd be so hard. Got a lot of energies to
Speaker 3: manage and check in and like who's having the kid
Speaker 3: where Like there's a lot happening. Goodness, she's a busy girls.
Speaker 1: She's a busy girl. She's a busy Yeah, she really is. Oh,
Speaker 1: we're sending you lots of love. I really hope you
Speaker 1: find someone that aligns with your values and that you
Speaker 1: feel good with and you can trust. And there isn't
Speaker 1: all of this I don't say baggage, but there is.
Speaker 1: There's a lot happening here that you would have to
Speaker 1: take on, and you would have to be involved with
Speaker 1: and navigate and build relationships and co parenting with the
Speaker 1: other people that are involved. And there's a lot of
Speaker 1: people involved.
Speaker 2: And morally you have to be in the cap of
Speaker 2: the situation. And by the sounds that you're not. So
Speaker 2: that's already that's your answer, A pretty stating that this
Speaker 2: is not you.
Speaker 1: Yeah us, good luck, give us an update.
Speaker 2: Yea, we love that. Yeah, all right, we'll see you
Speaker 2: on the next one.
Speaker 1: Bye bye,