1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apologie Production. 2 00:00:10,641 --> 00:00:16,601 Speaker 2: Welcome to She Rises, Freaky Friday Girls Secrets, Horror Scandal, 3 00:00:16,881 --> 00:00:18,281 Speaker 2: Hysterios Smiled. 4 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:23,801 Speaker 1: Welcome back to another Freaky Friday episode. This one is 5 00:00:24,201 --> 00:00:27,681 Speaker 1: a bit confusing and I've got a lot of questions. 6 00:00:28,441 --> 00:00:29,721 Speaker 1: All right, that's set you ready? 7 00:00:29,721 --> 00:00:30,721 Speaker 2: Should we get stuck into it? 8 00:00:30,801 --> 00:00:34,001 Speaker 1: Okay? Hey, ladies, I love your work. So I had 9 00:00:34,081 --> 00:00:36,361 Speaker 1: been sleeping with this guy for a few months. He 10 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 1: has no children. Then one night he tells me he 11 00:00:39,241 --> 00:00:42,721 Speaker 1: has a four day old baby with his ex girlfriend, 12 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: which I found out later it was his friend's girlfriend 13 00:00:45,921 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 1: he slept with to make an Only Penns video that 14 00:00:48,601 --> 00:00:51,841 Speaker 1: his partner did not want to be involved in. What 15 00:00:53,081 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: Apparently she has fallen pregnant in a result of this 16 00:00:56,361 --> 00:00:59,241 Speaker 1: and kept the child. Was already in a relationship and 17 00:00:59,361 --> 00:01:02,841 Speaker 1: having children with him, and another child to a previous man. 18 00:01:03,281 --> 00:01:05,961 Speaker 1: I'm after some advice around all of this, and who 19 00:01:06,001 --> 00:01:08,601 Speaker 1: the fuck keeps another man's baby well in a relationship 20 00:01:08,641 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: from the making of an OnlyFans video? 21 00:01:11,961 --> 00:01:14,841 Speaker 2: This is tactic. I need context. So he has no children. 22 00:01:15,081 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 3: Then one night he tells me he has a four 23 00:01:16,481 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 3: day old baby with his ex girlfriend, which I find 24 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:23,161 Speaker 3: out it was his friend's girlfriend he slept with to 25 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,201 Speaker 3: make a baby. So your friend's girlfriend kept the baby 26 00:01:26,241 --> 00:01:27,801 Speaker 3: with your partner or the men that. 27 00:01:27,761 --> 00:01:28,481 Speaker 2: You're sleeping with. 28 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: It's so confused. 29 00:01:29,401 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 2: That's so messy. 30 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: It's so messy. The baby is a result of Ann's video, Yeah, 31 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,121 Speaker 1: just from doing an only fans video. Oh, she kept 32 00:01:37,161 --> 00:01:40,041 Speaker 1: the baby, and she kept the baby, goodness, while she's 33 00:01:40,081 --> 00:01:42,601 Speaker 1: in a relationship with another man and has children. 34 00:01:42,761 --> 00:01:45,121 Speaker 2: Sounds like some straight out of a TV series. Goodness. 35 00:01:45,441 --> 00:01:47,721 Speaker 1: I mean when you've said, who the fuck keeps another 36 00:01:47,721 --> 00:01:51,001 Speaker 1: man's baby was in a relationship for making only fans video? 37 00:01:51,321 --> 00:01:53,601 Speaker 1: That's her decision, it's her body. Maybe she doesn't leave 38 00:01:53,601 --> 00:01:56,001 Speaker 1: an abortion and that's okay. Yeah, you know that's not 39 00:01:56,081 --> 00:01:59,201 Speaker 1: something that we're gonna judge either. It's just a really 40 00:01:59,401 --> 00:02:02,281 Speaker 1: messy situation. But you've been sleeping with the guy for months. 41 00:02:02,801 --> 00:02:05,921 Speaker 1: It sounds like you're quite overwhelmed from the situation. You've 42 00:02:05,921 --> 00:02:07,561 Speaker 1: got a lot of judgment on it, which is fine, 43 00:02:07,641 --> 00:02:09,841 Speaker 1: it's a lot. Maybe this isn't the guy that you 44 00:02:09,841 --> 00:02:11,761 Speaker 1: want to be spending time with and sleeping with. I 45 00:02:11,761 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: think maybe pull yourself away and go find someone else. 46 00:02:14,761 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 3: I think you should leaved. Yeah, I don't like Tootie. 47 00:02:17,601 --> 00:02:19,441 Speaker 3: You're not obviously in a relationship with him. You're not 48 00:02:19,481 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 3: there for that by the sounds of it. Yeah, keeping together. 49 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:22,841 Speaker 1: Sounds very messy. 50 00:02:23,001 --> 00:02:24,641 Speaker 2: Just seems like a whole lot of chaos and drama 51 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:25,721 Speaker 2: that you don't need in your life. 52 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,081 Speaker 1: He probably needs me just investing time into looking after 53 00:02:28,121 --> 00:02:30,361 Speaker 1: his baby. And that's a question you've got to ask 54 00:02:30,401 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: yourself too. If you're going to stay with this man, 55 00:02:31,881 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: you're going to become the step mum too. 56 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:35,641 Speaker 2: Oh is it just really something that you want to 57 00:02:35,641 --> 00:02:36,281 Speaker 2: be involved in? 58 00:02:36,441 --> 00:02:38,041 Speaker 1: Don't think so by the sound of it. So I 59 00:02:38,041 --> 00:02:41,161 Speaker 1: would just be removing myself from that and allowing him 60 00:02:41,201 --> 00:02:42,681 Speaker 1: to just step in and be a dad and you 61 00:02:42,761 --> 00:02:44,161 Speaker 1: take care of his child. 62 00:02:44,281 --> 00:02:46,401 Speaker 3: Like, let everyone do what they want to do. Yeah, 63 00:02:46,881 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 3: choose what you want to have and allow in your life. 64 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:50,641 Speaker 3: And if this is not it, like it's time to go. 65 00:02:50,601 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: Which is fair enough because it is a lot. Yeah, 66 00:02:52,401 --> 00:02:54,361 Speaker 1: there's a lot happening there. I don't think i'd be 67 00:02:54,441 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: wanting to insert myself and my energy into a situation 68 00:02:57,960 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: like this. 69 00:02:58,281 --> 00:03:00,841 Speaker 2: There's no way I would be one hundred percent protect 70 00:03:00,841 --> 00:03:02,281 Speaker 2: my piece. This is not worth my time. 71 00:03:02,401 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: I am out yes, I think it's just time to 72 00:03:04,761 --> 00:03:05,921 Speaker 1: remove from the situation. 73 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you already know your answer. 74 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,441 Speaker 1: I think so too, But with an update, what are 75 00:03:10,441 --> 00:03:12,001 Speaker 1: you going to do? Are you going to have a conversation? 76 00:03:12,041 --> 00:03:14,521 Speaker 1: You're going to completely cut ties? And I think just like, 77 00:03:14,641 --> 00:03:17,281 Speaker 1: let them live their life. They've made these decisions, and 78 00:03:17,321 --> 00:03:20,041 Speaker 1: there there's to live with now and continue making and 79 00:03:20,041 --> 00:03:23,601 Speaker 1: live with and each to their own. That's all I got. 80 00:03:23,641 --> 00:03:24,321 Speaker 2: It's not for us. 81 00:03:24,401 --> 00:03:28,121 Speaker 1: It's not for us. Thanks for writing in, though we 82 00:03:28,201 --> 00:03:30,521 Speaker 1: appreciate it. Yeah, Freaky Friday is about bringing in this 83 00:03:30,561 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: stuff that you might not be able to bring in 84 00:03:31,841 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: anywhere else. And there is no judgment and shame. It's 85 00:03:34,201 --> 00:03:37,321 Speaker 1: just about unpacking it and chatting about it and looking 86 00:03:37,321 --> 00:03:41,041 Speaker 1: at the different options and different situations. And this son's 87 00:03:41,041 --> 00:03:41,641 Speaker 1: a messy one. 88 00:03:41,681 --> 00:03:42,721 Speaker 2: This one is a messy one. 89 00:03:42,721 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: It's a lot. 90 00:03:43,201 --> 00:03:45,041 Speaker 3: I mean, it's pretty freaky. There's a lot going on. 91 00:03:45,201 --> 00:03:48,441 Speaker 3: It's a lot going on, a lot going on. Yeah, 92 00:03:48,561 --> 00:03:51,681 Speaker 3: I don't I don't envy everyone in this. No, this dynamic, 93 00:03:52,361 --> 00:03:54,641 Speaker 3: it'd be so hard. Got a lot of energies to 94 00:03:54,681 --> 00:03:57,361 Speaker 3: manage and check in and like who's having the kid 95 00:03:57,401 --> 00:04:01,121 Speaker 3: where Like there's a lot happening. Goodness, she's a busy girls. 96 00:04:02,041 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: She's a busy girl. She's a busy Yeah, she really is. Oh, 97 00:04:09,321 --> 00:04:10,921 Speaker 1: we're sending you lots of love. I really hope you 98 00:04:10,921 --> 00:04:13,761 Speaker 1: find someone that aligns with your values and that you 99 00:04:14,121 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: feel good with and you can trust. And there isn't 100 00:04:16,121 --> 00:04:18,241 Speaker 1: all of this I don't say baggage, but there is. 101 00:04:18,241 --> 00:04:20,241 Speaker 1: There's a lot happening here that you would have to 102 00:04:20,281 --> 00:04:21,881 Speaker 1: take on, and you would have to be involved with 103 00:04:22,281 --> 00:04:25,841 Speaker 1: and navigate and build relationships and co parenting with the 104 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,241 Speaker 1: other people that are involved. And there's a lot of 105 00:04:27,241 --> 00:04:28,241 Speaker 1: people involved. 106 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:29,281 Speaker 2: And morally you have to be in the cap of 107 00:04:29,281 --> 00:04:31,001 Speaker 2: the situation. And by the sounds that you're not. So 108 00:04:31,081 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 2: that's already that's your answer, A pretty stating that this 109 00:04:33,801 --> 00:04:34,241 Speaker 2: is not you. 110 00:04:34,601 --> 00:04:37,761 Speaker 1: Yeah us, good luck, give us an update. 111 00:04:37,841 --> 00:04:39,721 Speaker 2: Yea, we love that. Yeah, all right, we'll see you 112 00:04:39,761 --> 00:04:40,281 Speaker 2: on the next one. 113 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:41,881 Speaker 1: Bye bye,