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Speaker 1: Is it fitting in with Kate Riki podcast.

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Speaker 2: This is a hot topic. How long has it been

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Speaker 2: since they said I love you? Well? Really, I want

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Speaker 2: to know if you're in a relationship and I still

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Speaker 2: haven't said it yet. Some people get carried away, and

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Speaker 2: like you said, Kate Richie, I love you can mean

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Speaker 2: a lot of things, a lot of different things to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think, yeah, go fit.

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Speaker 4: Can I give you a life improve a hack? Saying

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Speaker 4: the words I think I'm falling in love with you

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Speaker 4: can be a good way to lead.

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Speaker 2: You into it.

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Speaker 3: You mean, by your time.

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Speaker 4: Because you know we're talking about being keeno before. That

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Speaker 4: up with I think I'm falling in love with you,

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Speaker 4: I mean, first of all, the other person is going

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Speaker 4: to be going, oh my gosh, it's amazing. I feel

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Speaker 4: the exact same way. Then you can go I love you.

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Speaker 4: Then you can bring it out. But if you start

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Speaker 4: with I think I'm falling in love with you, Kate,

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Speaker 4: it sort of softens the blow.

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Speaker 3: And you're feeling your way a little bit more, gauging

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Speaker 3: how they might feel and if it's not something that

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Speaker 3: perhaps you grew up saying a lot of like you know,

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Speaker 3: I mean, we said I love you a lot, and

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Speaker 3: I say it a thousand times a day. I think

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Speaker 3: my daughter, I wouldn't go an hour without saying it.

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Speaker 2: Say it to your TV.

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Speaker 5: We do.

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Speaker 4: I do.

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Speaker 3: In all the posters of me in the office, I

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Speaker 3: love you, God, You're amazing, we love you.

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Speaker 4: I think this is we're talking about humans, you, not

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Speaker 2: So yeah, okay, I'm back.

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Speaker 3: But I think you've got to practice those things. If

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Speaker 3: it doesn't come naturally to say the words I love you,

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Speaker 3: and it hasn't been said to you a lot, perhaps

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Speaker 2: It's it's loaded. I think you need to be careful

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Speaker 2: in a relationship and that I've kind of always adopted.

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Speaker 2: I don't say it if you don't mean it some people.

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Speaker 2: Some people will say it just keep the peace where

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Speaker 2: knowing that the other party wants to hear it. But

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Speaker 2: I went out with a girl once and she would

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Speaker 2: that shirt and I'd go very good, very good for

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Speaker 2: you bad, But I think at the same time it's

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Speaker 2: really good. I mean. This article goes on to say

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Speaker 2: the average time that somebody says I love you in

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Speaker 2: a relationship from the start to the first I love

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Speaker 2: you is six weeks.

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Speaker 4: Really, that's how many dates are you doing in six weeks?

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Speaker 2: You don't want to wake here.

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Speaker 4: You can't say I loved I can't, I can't I

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Speaker 4: love you when you've only been out for six or

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Speaker 4: seven I think you can love.

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Speaker 3: I do think you can love somebody in six weeks.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's the same kind of love you

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Speaker 2: I don't think you say it in the start of

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Speaker 2: both working towards. Don't you think that's dangerous to throw

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Speaker 3: Well, it's better than saying. It's better than saying when

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Speaker 2: I used to look at it. You love me?

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Speaker 3: That's nice, cute.

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Speaker 2: There's one time you should never say it. Never say

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Speaker 2: it for the first time in the throes of passion.

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Speaker 2: Why not, because I mean that could be lust talking

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Speaker 3: It's not lazy. It might get you over the line.

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Speaker 3: Not it gets you over the line, but it might.

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Speaker 3: It might, like get you hunt.

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Speaker 2: What it means if you've got a line in your

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Speaker 3: What I mean is it might be such a difficult

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Speaker 4: We're talking Latrell Mitchell here or of context, Kate, what

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Speaker 3: I mean, you just don't want to get out of it.

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Speaker 2: Don't be scared of the words when you don't when

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Speaker 2: don't want to throw it like, oh my gosh, their

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Speaker 2: pants have hit the floor. What I just thought that

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Speaker 3: Get over the line, what I mean, gives you the courage,

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Speaker 3: That's what I meant.

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Speaker 2: How long with you? Tomin Inger? Oh? You're friends for

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Speaker 4: Triends and then housemates maybe liked you.

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Speaker 2: Sort of fantasize for long to be about three months?

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Speaker 3: Did you when she was your friend?

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Speaker 2: I think I probably did.

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Speaker 7: Looking back on it, that being a dole that you

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Speaker 7: I somewhat described that as a dead giveaway fits and

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Speaker 4: But yeah, that lot was made out of dead people too.

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Speaker 2: But I had to use it as a power play

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Speaker 2: because Lisa was in a situation where she wasn't sure

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Speaker 2: to use it to show how I felt. That's my

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Speaker 2: power you say no, she doesn't make me say it.

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Speaker 2: She said, I'm just not sure, and I said, well,

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Speaker 4: Because you're in a relationship at the time.

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Speaker 2: Is that no, mate? Sorry? No, I got that wrong.

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Speaker 4: There was definitely no great that that was right at

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Speaker 2: There was no gray area.

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Speaker 3: So she asked you, you know how you know? She

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Speaker 3: I love you.

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Speaker 2: She didn't really say she didn't ask question. She just

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Speaker 2: you how sure I am.

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Speaker 4: Oh God, it's amazing that it survives, isn't it off you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I have you in the dark.

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Speaker 2: I was eating and then with mud crab in front

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Speaker 2: of him. Do you know what we had mud crab

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Speaker 7: Did?

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Speaker 2: She said? This brings back horrible memories.

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Speaker 4: Mud crab is such a waste of that's new fish

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Speaker 4: markets after that incident, and they knew just to get

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Speaker 2: In Pistol, Pete from Pecton's giving us a call, What's

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Speaker 2: your story radio in the background chat.

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Speaker 7: That sorry, sorry, Yeah, that's better.

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Speaker 2: I've got you great.

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Speaker 3: What are your thoughts, Peter?

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Speaker 8: Oh, definitely, like I've got a mate overseas Greek Island, Santorini.

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Speaker 8: He's done with not six weeks, four weeks. It's just

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Speaker 8: amplified because he's on holidays, met this girl, put it

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Speaker 8: out there, love you done, mud crabs, sea foodles meding,

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Speaker 8: diet sucking. So yeah, so I was just thinking, does

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Speaker 8: it implify if you if it's the you're on holiday,

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Speaker 8: isn't it someone?

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Speaker 2: It's really interesting? Interesting?

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Speaker 3: Course, Yeah, it's very interesting.

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Speaker 4: So did he Obviously he was keen of continuing and

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Speaker 4: when you have when when it's time to go home,

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Speaker 4: obviously the girl that he's met might go, well, he's

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Speaker 4: drop the el bomb, Pete.

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Speaker 2: Did it work? It worked?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: One hundreds. So yeah, I waiting for him to move

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Speaker 8: in together and unpack their suitcases and see how they go.

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Speaker 8: But they's gone head first yea.

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Speaker 2: And are they.

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Speaker 8: So they're just sorting out there logistics and then what's

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Speaker 3: Peter? That's a bit of a bit of negativity around love, Peter.

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Speaker 2: But sometimes a holiday romance should simply be a holiday romance.

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Speaker 3: Put it in its place, keep it in its lane.

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Speaker 3: And they say that at the beginning, you know, this

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Speaker 2: No more than a physical physical, an emotional No more

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Speaker 2: bondover like minded, entertaining stories with each other in the morning.

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Speaker 2: That's all it is. That's all it needs to be. Okay,

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Speaker 2: not even physical.

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Speaker 3: Let's stop talking about love, Hay, it.

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Speaker 2: Fits in with chie podcast. Let's talk dating guys, just

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Speaker 2: far off, like romance music or something. This is an

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Speaker 2: sort of awkward moments of is this the kiss? Do

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Speaker 2: you go in? Do I go in? Maybe there's some

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Speaker 4: You're not going to touch a leg before supporting role

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Speaker 2: No, No, it's not from a physio point of view.

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Speaker 4: It's more just a corky sign of affections advance.

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Speaker 2: What is that to me? Somebody in there just shocking,

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Speaker 2: very pain. That's not what I'm talking about. Well, you

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Speaker 2: mean we have a sign of affection.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you might not get another date after that.

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Speaker 2: We had a very very formal singles party a while

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Speaker 2: ago on the show, and we're looking to do another

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Speaker 2: one bigger and better. Really. Yeah, we're going to take

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Speaker 2: over lunar part fill a full of singles. Kiss kiss, kiss,

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Speaker 2: bang bang bang. This is an interesting one though, because

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Speaker 2: what happens on dating apps a little bit as you

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Speaker 2: of eyes out there about what people really are. In

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Speaker 2: thirteen twenty four ten love to know the biggest lie

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Speaker 2: that you've heard on your first date? What did they

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Speaker 2: go with? What did they try and sell in to

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Speaker 2: impress you? And then you found out that's not really them.

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Speaker 2: What's happened here is women have been using AI to

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Speaker 2: catch out blokes lying about their height. Oh how does

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Speaker 2: AI know your height?

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Speaker 2: So, if you've got up to four photos, right, and

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Speaker 4: I'll come on.

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Speaker 2: You send yourself in. That's what Whip does.

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Speaker 4: Always says that he's six foot six.

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Speaker 3: Four Cuban heels or something. Isn't there a story about

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Speaker 2: Height doesn't matter at all.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know if you know, if you

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Speaker 2: He's sells houses.

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Speaker 4: And you know what it works. Girls love someone that

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Speaker 3: I don't know who you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: Was going to get a mentioned on the show this morning,

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Speaker 2: Soft Launch of Girlfriend Fits. I did see that.

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Speaker 3: What was was what was the households was the.

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Speaker 2: Lawn was on a boat and it was a photo

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Speaker 4: What's the TV show Luxe Listings? He sells some of

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Speaker 3: But you're not allowed to make those jokes because you're

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Speaker 2: Mates are still picking on the little guys. That's not fair.

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Speaker 3: How tall are you, Tommy?

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Speaker 2: I'm one eighty three, so just six just six fortun

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Speaker 4: My old man's five foot eleven and a half and

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Speaker 2: That fits is that one eight one?

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Speaker 4: He's half an inch of Yeah, I think he is. Yes,

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Speaker 2: We want to know about extreme lies on dates. Amanda

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Speaker 2: in Hawkesbury, Hello, Hi, how are you Amanda? What was

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Speaker 2: the lie? What happened? What did you hear?

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Speaker 1: No, he was wearing blue contact lengus. He has brown eyes.

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Speaker 2: He was wearing.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful blue contact lenses, beautiful brown and to see with

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Speaker 2: Oh what did he think? How long did he? How

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Speaker 2: long could he keep up that charade for?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: How going to be married twenty three years?

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Speaker 8: Now?

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Speaker 2: Oh? How far into the relationship did he take?

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Speaker 1: The Apparently he went out, he went out to a

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Speaker 4: Chi Camden, Chari, You've had your I love, You've had

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Speaker 6: I was getting to the point of being ridiculous where

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Speaker 6: it hilarious. And they're calling me Samantha Sex and the

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Speaker 6: City because I just have so many dad dates.

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Speaker 2: Let's start. Let's start off with one of the best.

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Speaker 2: What do you got?

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Speaker 8: Well?

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Speaker 6: I had two? Like I went out with one guy

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Speaker 6: and he said he was my age and as soon

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Speaker 6: And he said he said he could dance. And when

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Speaker 6: we were chatting with texts. I asked what he did

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Speaker 6: I said what do you do for a living? I said,

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Speaker 6: So I wasn't lying. I do. I do look after real.

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Speaker 2: Estate property manager. Could he dance? Cherie?

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Speaker 6: Well, here's the thing I like to always think, you know.

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Speaker 6: I spent two hours, two hours getting ready. I drove

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Speaker 6: for an hour and I was so I won't swear

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Speaker 6: him and I said.

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Speaker 2: Well, can you dance?

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Speaker 1: And he said yes I can.

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Speaker 6: So I thought, well, let's not waste the night. Went downstairs,

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Speaker 6: and let me tell you, he was like a ballroom dancer.

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Speaker 6: He summed me around the dance floor and I just

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Speaker 8: And that was it.

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Speaker 2: A kiss on the night.

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Speaker 3: Ch Oh, God, no, no thanks.

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Speaker 4: I love Citi. Yeah, I'm in a real estate I'm

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Speaker 2: Surely it's not fair, is it.

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Speaker 3: No, it's not good luck, Chari. Maybe if we have

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Speaker 3: another singles ball, you'll have to get you there.

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Speaker 2: What did you want to say, Charre? Thank you?

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Speaker 6: I was just going to say one thing. I feel

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Speaker 6: like that I should start a business because I'm giving

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Speaker 6: my time to men. They're having a great night, they're

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Speaker 6: getting to chat to a lovely lady. And then I

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Speaker 6: business where I help these men how to give better

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Speaker 6: profiles and how to interact with women because I'm making

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Speaker 6: their nights. I'm making their nights.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're not making the effort.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's good when we give yourself that kind of credit,

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Speaker 3: So you should.

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Speaker 2: Can we hold on to Shari's details for maybe a

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Speaker 2: traffic dating Yeah, great idea. Shari, would you be open

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Speaker 5: On the radio if you can find me a guy

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Speaker 5: with teeth, a guy with a little bit of hair,

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Speaker 5: a guy that's my height five foot seven, not short,

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Speaker 5: doesn't lie, and is my age?

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Speaker 1: Look?

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Speaker 6: I will thank you forever you're asking.

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Speaker 2: We're just checking.

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Speaker 3: Way too much, Chary lower his standards.

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Speaker 2: Well, get away, from an area of insurance.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I don't mind bold man, but just maybe see.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we'll go for teeth over here every day of

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Speaker 2: It fits in with podcast. I want to throw it

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Speaker 2: out there if you've caught a trade is slacking on

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Speaker 3: The thing about trade is is they're either the hardest

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Speaker 3: working people you have ever met or the Oppositey, I

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Speaker 3: don't know if there's a lot of middle ground.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what the difference is? It's the bloke

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Speaker 2: who owns the business. He's the one that's working hard.

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Speaker 2: And then when he couldn't find any trades and ended

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Speaker 2: that's when they don't work very hard.

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Speaker 4: Do you know where I think it breaks down a

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Speaker 4: little bit as well? When trades have to deal with

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Speaker 4: other trades, that's where everything just goes to.

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Speaker 3: Well, they start mustlinging on like who's who's what?

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 3: First, I didn't do.

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Speaker 2: Now that was the trade before me.

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Speaker 4: That I'm not coming back and fixing it?

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Speaker 2: No way, Well, who's going to do it? Says the owner?

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Speaker 2: I'm reading reading from this book that we're doing anyway.

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Speaker 2: I want to show this footage because this guy is

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Speaker 2: a sander. He's standing the plasterboard. Now you'll hear. Let know,

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Speaker 2: have you got the audio there of the owner coming

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Speaker 2: home and you're here the sand are working very hard?

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Speaker 6: You much not annoying?

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Speaker 4: Is that?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So what I'll show you now on the screen though,

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Speaker 2: because that's what it sounds like, is you'll see that

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Speaker 2: the sander is fast asleep on the floor, and what

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Speaker 2: you're actually hearing is the speaker plugged in to a

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Speaker 2: from a YouTube clip of a guy sanding plaster board.

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Speaker 2: That's what you're going to do on the block. It's

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Speaker 2: not fad, is it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if you just don't want to get through

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Speaker 4: to the next round of the block, that's you just

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Speaker 3: He's shown an initihitty, hasn't he. He does look a

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Speaker 3: bit like he's had a bit of a maybe he's

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Speaker 3: had a big night. He's got his overalls on without

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Speaker 2: Little Yeah, he might be. But I wondered, though, Kate Richie,

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Speaker 2: if he's carrying the speaker, he must know that this

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Speaker 2: is a tactic he's he used before.

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Speaker 3: Oh he's done this a thousand times.

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Speaker 2: That's not his first. First radio Tommy Williams.

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Speaker 4: Tommy Williams went through about three builders when he did

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Speaker 4: if you ever do it, he goes, just set up

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Speaker 4: a camera, time lapse camera. He goes, It's the best

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Speaker 4: thing I ever invested in.

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Speaker 2: Because he would.

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Speaker 4: Regularly come home and then he would confront the builder

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Speaker 4: and go, mate, okay, so you had you you had

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Speaker 4: and they know they didn't know they didn't And Tommy

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Speaker 4: will go, we'll come over you mate, Just come and

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Speaker 4: over and look at.

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Speaker 2: My computer and let's just go through the videos. What

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Speaker 3: The whole time, being paid by the hour.

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Speaker 2: I remember her maid of mine was moving out of

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Speaker 2: I'm concerned they're not doing anything. Do you reckon? You

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Speaker 2: can pop in? So I marched up the stairs of

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Speaker 3: He must have been exhausted, had a little best rest.

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Speaker 2: I slept on the floor. I made it sound like

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Speaker 2: someone was seending the plastor here for three weeks. Somebody

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Speaker 2: The guy who's cleaning the place out like a leaving

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Speaker 2: a property clean is sitting on the floor with a beer,

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Speaker 2: going through an old CD case, looking at which CDs

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Speaker 2: he might like to keep. And he goes, oh, just

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Speaker 2: having a break, said you've been here for five hours,

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Speaker 2: there's nothing in here. I ended up kicking him out.

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Speaker 2: I said, made good news. You can keep all those CDs.

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Speaker 2: They're left here because we don't want them off here

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