1 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: Hello, I'm Tory Archbold. For two decades, I've nurtured the 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:09,880 Speaker 1: world's top performing retail brands and celebrities. Now I'm asking entrepreneurs, CEOs, 3 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: and influencers to share their own secrets to success. They're 4 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: high as their lows, the game changing moments, and how 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: they got to where they are today. It's a podcast 6 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 1: equivalent of opening the best Little Black Book of Contacts. Ever. 7 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: If this resonates with you and you're ready to step 8 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 1: outside of your comfort zone and into your power zone, 9 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: I invite you to join my exclusive community via our website, 10 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: The Powerful Josh Steps dot com. 11 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: Welcome to Powerful Leadership, a collaboration between Powerful Steps and 12 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: Fear and Greed. This is the second episode of our 13 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 2: six part series examining leadership and becoming the leader you 14 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 2: want to be. Now episode two. Once again, I'm joined 15 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 2: by Tory Archball from Powerful Stories. Today, Tory, we're talking 16 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 2: more about the power of brand and hopefully getting to leadership. 17 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 2: My favorite topic roll right, Why do people need a story? 18 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 2: Everyone has a story that very few people own that story. 19 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 2: And I believe that the best leaders around the world 20 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 2: are the ones that are raw, authentic. They show empathy, 21 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 2: and compassion because they're not afraid to share the experiences 22 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 2: of how they got to the top of their game. 23 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 2: It's hard to own your story though. 24 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 1: It's very hard. Look, I was a girl in the 25 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: little black dress. In fact, I had sixty little black 26 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: dresses in my career with Torsta. Seriously, I'm probably about 27 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: thirty Morebery handbags because they kept giving them to me 28 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: year after year after year. So I was the person 29 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: that pulled the leavers for the CEOs, for the board directors, 30 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: for the movers and shakers, celebrities and influencers. And I 31 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: didn't pull any for myself. And it wasn't until I 32 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: understood the true power of my story and created powerful 33 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: steps that I understood that Sean, you and I are 34 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: the brands. Yep, anyone can become a brand out there. 35 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: You just need to understand the powerful steps to take 36 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: to do it. 37 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 2: So tell me give me your example of taking powerful 38 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 2: steps to do it to become the brand. 39 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. I first had to take ownership of who I was, 40 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: which means that you really need to look at who 41 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 1: you are, Like I say, break it down into five parts. Yeah, 42 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: So you could be starting out in your career or 43 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: you could be a CEO and you can do this exercise, 44 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: and I do this with CEOs all around the world, 45 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 1: and they absolutely love it because they learn about themselves, 46 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: They understand the patterns of life, but most importantly, they 47 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: understand what their superpower is. So the first part of 48 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: your stories is where did you grow up, What kind 49 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: of a family did you come from, How did you 50 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: feel what did you want to become? Second part is 51 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: when you left school, what happened, who mentored you, what 52 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: was your first role, What was that kick ass moment 53 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 1: in your career where you're like, I'm on the right 54 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: road or I'm going to switch and I'm going to 55 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: try another direction. Third part is always okay, well your 56 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: career is rocking. Now what are those successful high points? 57 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: What are those achievements that you're so proud of? Right, 58 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: those results driven achievements. Write them all down. Fourth part 59 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: is always that game changing moment. And I always say 60 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: it's a fuck you from the universe. I hope we 61 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: can swear on you can we swear that, but it 62 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: is it's that Moment's that live or die moments. So 63 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: for me, that live or die moment is I'm at 64 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 1: the top of my game. I'm working with the best 65 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: of the best around the world, but then all of 66 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:33,359 Speaker 1: a sudden, I'm lying in hospital, I catch stepta semia 67 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: from my PANDIX bursting, and I've got a rise from 68 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: the ashes. How do you do it? What are those challenges? 69 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: What did you learn through that process? And we all 70 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: have a moment like that in this lifetime. Then the 71 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: fifth is like, where are we today? What do we 72 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: want to do? What do we want to anchor ourselves to? 73 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,839 Speaker 1: What's our intent? Our purpose? Where is the next part 74 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: of our journey coming from? Now? Where you actually right 75 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: all that into a Google doc, right, and you can 76 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: share it with someone if you want. This action allows 77 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: you to see the patterns. So if I look at 78 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: my life story, I go resilient, creative, agile, not afraid 79 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: of a challenge. Right, All of these things end up 80 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: becoming my superpower. But then if I look at the 81 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 1: challenges versus a success story, I turn around and go, 82 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: you know what, I've had so many experiences that in 83 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: part five of my journey, I can share them. I 84 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: can inspire, I can encourage, I can empower others. So 85 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: once you understand what your superpower is, the power of 86 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: your story, the power of your experiences. You then need 87 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 1: to go, Okay, what's my brand? And so my brand 88 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: was not the little girl in the black dress making 89 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: it happen for everyone else. I had to step out 90 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 1: of the wings right into the future and go, who 91 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 1: is she? What does that brand look like? And how 92 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: am I going to create and build it? 93 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 2: Okay, before we get there, that's okay if you have 94 00:04:56,440 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 2: the self confidence to do that. Many people, perhaps not 95 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 2: me too much an ego in my case, many people 96 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 2: truly find that hard to find what's good about them. 97 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 2: And what you're saying is work out what you're good 98 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 2: at and what you're better than other people at, and 99 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 2: that sort of is the start of your journey to 100 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 2: your superpower. That's hard to do for some people. 101 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to give you an example, and hello Will 102 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: and Steer, who is a CEO of Totally Awesome TV 103 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: out of Singapore. He came to me and he will 104 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: love sharing this story with your listeners as well, because 105 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: he was an adman, he was a storyteller. He was 106 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 1: at the top of his game. It was about to 107 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: move to New York, but took this role with Totally 108 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: Awesome TV and he wanted some media training because he said, 109 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: how can I build a brand? And I said to him, 110 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 1: the brand is your story. You are now working for 111 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: totally Awesome TV. It's anchored into family values, but most 112 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 1: importantly it targets children. Let's go back to the power 113 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: of your five point story. You've been married to your wife, 114 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 1: Gina for a long time, You've got three beautiful children. 115 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 1: What have you loved about that journey? But in this 116 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: new role that you have, those key learnings that you have, 117 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,559 Speaker 1: how can you actually shine a light fathers and become 118 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: a great leader? And he's like, I never thought of 119 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: it like that. I'm like you advertising manner all the same. 120 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: And so then I said, you have a photo of 121 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: yourself that we can post on LinkedIn, and we can 122 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 1: actually reposition you as a leader, but a leader in 123 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 1: a new category, so that people actually see this rebirth 124 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: of you and you become the brand. You can attract 125 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 1: the right people to your team, you can attract the 126 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 1: right investment, but most importantly, you can grow and deliver 127 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: on what your KPIs are as a CEO. Now he 128 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: posted that within twenty four hours, I think there'd been 129 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 1: like two hundred and three hundred people liking it. It 130 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 1: went viral. I think it's had over five hundred people 131 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: comment to like on it now on LinkedIn. He sent 132 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,359 Speaker 1: me a WhatsApp from Singapore and he goes, I feel 133 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 1: like a rock star, and I said, yeah, you are 134 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: a rock star because you believed in the power of 135 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: your story. But most importantly, you found the angle that 136 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 1: is relevant to the leadership role that you're in. Now. 137 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 2: Okay, so I was going to ask you what a 138 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 2: great story looks like, but I suspect you're going to 139 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 2: say they're all different. Is the answer to it the 140 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 2: fact that at the end of the journey you feel 141 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: like a rock star because you've found your power. 142 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: Do you know what? You find what you're good at, 143 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: But most importantly, you attract people that recognize what you're 144 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 1: good at. And I think that really is the key. So, 145 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: for instance, if you feel invisible and you're on a 146 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: board and you're a female, right, you're the one that's 147 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: the lever delivering those contracts. But basically the men are 148 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: all off celebrating and you come to me and you say, Tory, 149 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: how can I become more visible? I'll say the same thing. 150 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: Go back to that five point story. Now let's actually 151 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: bring who you are alive on LinkedIn. Yeah, let's get 152 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: people to celebrate you. Let's get the AFAR calling you 153 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 1: and wanting a profile story, and then all those people 154 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: that are ignoring you, you then become visible and they say, well, 155 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: why isn't the AAR for calling me? And they say, well, 156 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: you have to speak to Tory about that. 157 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 2: It's kind of a great example there. But let's say 158 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 2: you want the AFI to call you and talk to 159 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 2: you because you run a business and you know that 160 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 2: a public profile from somewhere as trusted as the IFI 161 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 2: makes a difference. How do you leverage that? Let's say 162 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 2: I've worked out what my superpower is. I understand my brand, 163 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 2: I know what I'm good at. I can attract people 164 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 2: towards me because of that digital leverage. How do I 165 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 2: do it? 166 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: LinkedIn over a billion people per month or on LinkedIn? 167 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: And most importantly, you have the opportunity to build a 168 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: really powerful profile with the write image, but most importantly 169 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: the right bio because the first three sentences again it 170 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: goes back to your five point story. It's like that 171 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: boom boom boom moment. What are you good at? What 172 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: have you delivered what's your superpower? That goes into captain Google, 173 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: which is a brand. So so if anyone is googling 174 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:51,559 Speaker 1: you straight away, it's like, oh my gosh, Sean, he's 175 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: the guy that was an editorial director at Fairfax, did 176 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: extraordinary things, but then decided he was going to actually 177 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: go and start his own media content platform, which is 178 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 1: Fear and Greed, which now has over half a million 179 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: people listening to it per month. Now I know for 180 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: a fact that's not actually written in your bio, and 181 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: I'd like to say. 182 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:12,839 Speaker 2: I'd like to do that. Really we are recording this, 183 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 2: but the fact. 184 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: Is that is how you get people talking about you. 185 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: It's becoming visible in a virtual world. Now, if you're 186 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: too afraid, and I know that you always say to me, 187 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: what happens if you're humble Tory, you're too afraid to 188 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: step forward and actually post something about yourself, I say, 189 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: just get involved, start liking and engaging. And in answer 190 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: to your question, if you want to be in the AFR, 191 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: find out the writers that you love, follow them, connect 192 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: with them, engage with them, comment, put yourself on their 193 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 1: radar because they will notice you. And the other thing 194 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 1: I'll say is this You never know who's watching, don't 195 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: give up. 196 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 2: And this is what powerful steps is all about. 197 00:09:56,400 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: One hundred percent. I created and built powerful brands for retailers, celebrities, 198 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: and influencers, and now I do it for people. 199 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 2: Okay. Is it different for men and women? 200 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. 201 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 2: Is it as easy for women to become a powerful 202 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 2: brand as it is for men. 203 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: I think we're all born equal. I mean, we're all 204 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: born naked, we die naked. So for me, I don't 205 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: buy into that men versus women. What I buy into 206 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 1: is believe that you can do it and you will 207 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: do it. 208 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 2: Okay, but doesn't does society not bias men? Shall we 209 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: say in what regard because the world has traditionally been 210 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 2: run by men. 211 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: So here's a fun fact. Eighty percent of my clients 212 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 1: are torseda with men. I never ever thought that I 213 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: was not treated equally. I never ever thought that I 214 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 1: was not. 215 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 2: But in a sense, that's the point. So it's not 216 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 2: actually about treating you equally. It's the fact that eighty 217 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 2: percent of your clients, and they were high flying clients, 218 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 2: were men. Is that because women didn't have the opportunity, 219 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 2: Like I'm just wondering whether. 220 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: It because they trusted me and I was the best 221 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: one for the job. And so for any woman out 222 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: there that thinks that the job that she wants won't 223 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: be hers, I call bullshit on that. Make it happen. 224 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 1: Shift the energy, connect with people, show people what you're worth, 225 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: show people your strengths, but also show them your weaknesses, 226 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 1: because that's how you win people over. When you're creating 227 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 1: and building a powerful brand, you take people on a 228 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: customer journey. When we talk about you and I being 229 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: a brand, we are the customer journey. We have to 230 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: shine the light for them and that comes from that story, 231 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: that comes from our experience, and so nothing is beyond 232 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,559 Speaker 1: our reach. The only thing that is beyond our reach 233 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: is if we don't believe in ourselves. And so you 234 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: have to shift that mindset. Does everyone have a powerful 235 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 1: brand one hundred percent. They just need to understand how 236 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: to unleash it. I have people that come to me 237 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: and they're so afraid and they go Tory, I'm afraid 238 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: of my story. I'm afraid of judgment. I suffer from 239 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: imposter synjome. I can't be seen. You know what, if 240 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:02,080 Speaker 1: you read my story, I say to them, I read 241 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: stories all the time. I live and breathe stories. Your 242 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: story is no different than anyone else's. It's just unique 243 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: to you because you're going to have a challenge in 244 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: that story in that Google doc. You're going to have 245 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: a success story in that Google doc as well. But 246 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 1: most importantly, what you're going to discover. The deeper that 247 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 1: you dig on who you are, the more powerful you 248 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: become because you've got nothing to lose and you get 249 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: freedom in your heart. 250 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 2: Okay, so remind listeners step one, what are they going 251 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 2: once they finish this podcast and getting excited about episode three, 252 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 2: which will be on your favorite podcast player. Just hit 253 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 2: follow and you'll get it Before they get that, though, 254 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 2: what's the first step they've got to do? 255 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: Believe that they can do it, but also believe in 256 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 1: the power of their own story and believe that you 257 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: will always have strengths, you will always have challenges. But 258 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: if you understand the power of your story and you 259 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: start shining a light, fathers anything as possible. 260 00:12:57,280 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 2: Tory Archbold, thank you for being part of Powerful Leadership. 261 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: You're welcome. 262 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 2: That was episode two of Powerful Leadership, a six part series. 263 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 2: Don't forget Follow us on your favorite podcast player. And 264 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 2: you'll get us delivered into your playlist as soon as 265 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 2: the next one's out, which will be soon of course. 266 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: Thank you for being here with me today. I trust 267 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: that you enjoyed listening to yet another powerful story. Sometimes 268 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,839 Speaker 1: we can forget just how incredible we are as women 269 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: and how important it is to support each other. I'd 270 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: love for you to take a moment to review the 271 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 1: podcast and help support the show. You can also take 272 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: a screenshot of this episode and share it across your 273 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 1: social media. Be sure to tag me so that I 274 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: can give you a shout out too. I'm a true 275 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: believer of women supporting women, and I look forward to 276 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:42,679 Speaker 1: connecting with you again soon. Much love, Toy