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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables.

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Speaker 2: Maybe our wives. Yeah, my wife.

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Speaker 1: I asked me the other day if we want to

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Speaker 1: bring ployees in the bedroom ship and I said.

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Speaker 2: Fuck yeah. I said, about time. I've been waiting for this.

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Speaker 2: This tool needs a rest.

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Speaker 1: What are we gonna call it?

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Speaker 2: We were gonna hide it from the kids.

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Speaker 1: Relatable The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig Okay,

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Speaker 1: Daddy and my.

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Speaker 2: Partner in crime like a KA, Mummy is mummy because

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Speaker 2: he's when you go to when you want talk.

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Speaker 1: About you, and Jake is Daddy because he can't say

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Speaker 1: no to.

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Speaker 2: You baddies, and you guys are the baddies. So big announcement.

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Speaker 2: I dare say you've seen us wearing them throughout the past.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I would say a couple of months, even it's

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Speaker 2: been a while.

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Speaker 1: It's a long process, long process, but worth it, worth

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Speaker 1: the way. Yeah, I'm sure we have our merch guys. Yes,

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Speaker 1: our first official merch is here. All us, all us.

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Speaker 2: As you know, we have done a couple drops in

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Speaker 2: the past where they were in collaboration with our friend Harry.

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Speaker 2: This is all us.

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Speaker 1: Body designed it, got it made, got it shipped here

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Speaker 1: I've made the website and it is live tonight at

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Speaker 1: six pm Australian Eastern Standard Time, Sydney. Oh yeah, and

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Speaker 1: this is called the Staples Collection. Yes, we've got three

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Speaker 1: items that are dropping.

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Speaker 2: Or do you go first? What we got?

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Speaker 1: We got my fave, which is the gray hood Have

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Speaker 1: a look at this bad boy. The gray zip up

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Speaker 1: says relatables on the front, love heart zipper, love heart

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Speaker 1: on the sleeve.

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Speaker 2: Obviously you're wearing.

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Speaker 1: The same and I'm wearing the same thing, and in

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Speaker 1: my opinion, in this looks amazing.

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Speaker 2: I love that. Yeah, I do love that one.

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Speaker 1: This is the hoodie where it's so very similar design,

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Speaker 1: but this one's just just a hoodie and it's black.

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Speaker 2: We've gone with black. We've gone for like the baseball theme.

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Speaker 2: The thing I like is how there's I like how

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Speaker 2: the hoods aren't like a spool string, a drawstring. I

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Speaker 2: love that.

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Speaker 1: We gotta love hard on the sleeve as well. I

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Speaker 1: love the fucking tags that Oddie got made. Everything's complete custom.

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Speaker 1: Everything's custom. It's got a tag where you can scan

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Speaker 1: this barcode and it takes you to the pod. And

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Speaker 1: even just like the little tag here that says, Relatables

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Speaker 1: stay bad. It's fucking made with love.

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Speaker 2: So sick, and we got one more thing.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, this turned out really good.

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Speaker 2: This actually might be my favorite. I don't know. We

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Speaker 2: were gone for simple. Yeah, we want it.

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Speaker 1: Because the staple Drop want to be simple to everyone

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Speaker 1: can wear. So I wanted to leave this one in

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Speaker 1: to come in. We've got Irrelatable's tea. I'll take it

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Speaker 1: out for you. Yeah, it's just a risk. Why the

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Speaker 2: I was. I love them. That looks good.

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Speaker 1: It's got like a little love heart at the bottom

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Speaker 1: and again the same tag, like the same, same everything.

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Speaker 2: It's so so sick. I love it. When if you've

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Speaker 2: seen me wearing one the last couple months, that's a

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Speaker 2: sample and that one had purple embroidery, but we wanted blue.

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Speaker 2: The manufacturer stuffed up and so we were like, oh,

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Speaker 2: well it looks good, but it needs to be but

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Speaker 1: So yes, tonight if you're listening to this in the morning,

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Speaker 1: day of this episode comes out, These are dropping at

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Speaker 1: six pm Eastern Standard time. Sydney, And if you're listening early,

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Speaker 1: Patreon does get early access.

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Speaker 2: Patreon does get early access. If you're listening to this

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Speaker 2: right now, as it's come out before six pm over

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Speaker 2: on Patreon, they already have access.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you'll be sure to get your hands on them.

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Speaker 1: And they also might be a chicky little discount coat.

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Speaker 2: I believe there will be. Yeah, I'm still I need

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Speaker 2: to go on Squarespace.

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Speaker 3: I can fucking see if I do what I've just

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Speaker 3: been like the last couple of drops we've done with Harry.

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Speaker 2: And I was just like, can we do just Concay's

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Speaker 1: I also think it's cool how a lot of podcasts

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Speaker 2: It's not one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: Then, No, every single thing, every part of this, every

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Speaker 1: is really really cool. So we're recording right now in

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Speaker 1: garage is fully set up just for me.

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Speaker 2: It's fucking sick. We bought like a white backdrop of

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Speaker 2: fuck hiring a place again. We bought all these boxes

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Speaker 1: I had a little bit of a moment because on

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Speaker 1: the wall Jake's put a couple of the things from

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Speaker 1: our old setup in the other side of the garage

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Speaker 1: old seats, if you guys remember from the Wooden Lodge,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, depis.

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Speaker 2: Our journey really well, mate, I'm telling you when we

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Speaker 2: go to Queensland, I'm voting for a maybe a Wooden Lodge.

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Speaker 1: Back to the Wooden Lodge, go by some guys, love

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Speaker 1: you Love you alrighty guys, if you're joining us here

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Speaker 1: for the first time, this is very exciting because it's

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Speaker 1: a new concept and it involves not only the baddies.

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Speaker 2: But their boyfriends. Yes, those with.

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Speaker 1: So we have currently picked two wonderful baddies. One is

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Speaker 1: named Tara, the other is named bridget yep, and we

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Speaker 2: What is the challenge? Shake?

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Speaker 1: The challenge was to ask your boyfriend if they would

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're a worm. And the winner is the one

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Speaker 1: So these boyfriends are competing unknowingly, so it's very good

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Speaker 2: Yeah? So first we are going to call Tara. Okay,

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Speaker 2: this is exciting.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hello is that Tara?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the boyfriend o limp.

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Speaker 4: Hello, the whole day of work for this No way,

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Speaker 4: let's go.

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Speaker 1: That's what we want.

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Speaker 2: Let's go. So, how are you going? How are you going?

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Speaker 4: I'm doing so good. How are you boys doing?

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Speaker 1: We are going great. We are super excited about this.

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Speaker 2: I am over the moon.

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Speaker 1: First things first is we just wanted to ask you

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Speaker 1: What's his name?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Of course, so his name is Simon.

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Speaker 2: He's smart.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, big guys everywhere give him a gay metal.

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Speaker 4: So basically we met through high school, but we we

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Speaker 4: And I know you guys have been like you've never

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Speaker 4: seen like what's called your speptical Yeah, that's the word

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Speaker 4: I'm looking for about like friends of benefits. But we

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe that could be your mission to win the

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Speaker 1: gold medal and prove us wrong. Exactly exactly.

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Speaker 2: I put my hands up when I'm proven wrong. I'm

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Speaker 2: proven wrong. That's great. How long have you guys been

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Speaker 4: We've been dating for a year and eight months now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, definitely proven us wrong. Good great, Chuck.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but we yeah, we just like, yeah, I guess.

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Speaker 2: That will get you?

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Speaker 1: Do you still work a Dominoes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, and we posed you with a challenge to ask

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Speaker 4: not that word again.

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Speaker 4: I was kind of scared because he he's a very

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Speaker 3: Oh as if would you ask me that you're a

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Speaker 4: I was so scared. But ten hours wrong, which is good.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, how do you how it's going to work

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Speaker 1: is after we talked to you, We're going to play

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Speaker 2: How do you think he went?

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Speaker 4: I think he did.

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Speaker 4: He did say that I was his pet at the end,

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Speaker 4: so I was like, oh, but but I mean he

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Speaker 4: so I guess.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he had a good response. Jake hasn't listened listened

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Speaker 1: to it, so this is exciting.

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Speaker 2: Do you haven't? Yeah, I'm excited. And how is it

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Speaker 2: going to work on our end is?

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Speaker 1: Uh, we'll hang up, play the phone call with your boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: and then we'll deliberate what we think and then call

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Speaker 1: the other baddie do the exact same process, and when

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Speaker 1: the episode goes live, we're going to ask all the

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Speaker 1: baddies to comment which boyfriend had a better response. You're

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Speaker 1: we won't need it.

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Speaker 2: It'll be what we're going to give, like the voting

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Speaker 2: we record the next episode is when we'll do the

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Speaker 2: count and so that will be who goes on to

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Speaker 2: the next phase.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, into the metal matches, which is exciting. So Tara,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much for competing and we'll see how

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Speaker 1: you both go.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much, boy By.

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Speaker 2: Alrighty, that went brilliantly to start. Tara is funny, she's

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Speaker 2: fun and now big everywhere. That's what you want.

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Speaker 1: We've got her challenge results in front of me right now.

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Speaker 1: So how did her boyfriend, go, would would you still

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Speaker 1: I think initially, great answer.

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Speaker 2: good answer. Straight away he said, of course I love you. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: He just was like yes, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Bridget Bridget. Let's give her a ring.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Hello, is that Bridget?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Yesterday, Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics. How are you going?

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Speaker 1: Firstly, Well, we just wanted to ask how you're going.

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Speaker 4: I'm thanks, How are you?

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Speaker 2: We are both going swimmingly.

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Speaker 1: You are the second competitor, so we are very excited.

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Speaker 2: How long have you been dating? How isy? What's his name?

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Speaker 4: His name is Matt.

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Speaker 2: Matt.

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Speaker 6: We met at school and we've been dating for three

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Speaker 2: Three years.

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Speaker 2: They were one year and eight months. Yeah, so you're winning, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm nineteen. I'm twenty in January, and here's twenty

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, and we pose you with the challenge to

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Speaker 4: I was on the point.

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Speaker 6: You were like announcing it on the episode. I was like,

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Speaker 2: Basic?

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Speaker 6: Checked out? That's fine? And then I was like I

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Speaker 6: I always say yes because I always ask him the

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Speaker 2: That, Ah, he's ready for it.

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Speaker 6: Then, yes, he was ready, but I hadn't asked him

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Speaker 6: what I loved? Would you feel love me if I

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Speaker 6: I mean his response was not.

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Speaker 6: Openly hilarious, but it was. It wasn't bad. It wasn't

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Speaker 2: That's all right. So the way this is going to work.

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Speaker 2: Bridge it is, so we've heard the first one, yours

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Speaker 2: this episode comes out, and we're going to get everyone in.

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Speaker 2: All the baddies are going to in the comment's going

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so very exciting. We're going to leave you there

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Speaker 1: thank you?

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Speaker 2: Would you love me if I was aware?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the most real Yeah yeah yeah, would you love

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Speaker 2: me if I was aware? But let's replay that. Replay

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Speaker 2: Yeah he was slow, but the end my too cute.

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Speaker 2: That was cute. Two very different responses. So so the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so well this is highlighting the best of the

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Speaker 2: But the baddies know how to choose a boy Yeah.

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Speaker 1: What's exciting about this is usually on the pod me

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Speaker 2: Nah, we have zero sway here. I don't even think

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Speaker 2: our votes should count. We can just say what we think. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Who do you think? I like both of them. I

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Speaker 3: The baby voice of the first on Tara's boyfriend, Oh,

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Speaker 3: I gotta say, though, fuck Bridget's boyfriend Matt, and so

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Speaker 3: he's like, yeah, you just ca He's like, yeah, I would,

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Speaker 3: I would, and he's like, too cute.

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Speaker 2: That thing sent me too cute.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, otherwise I would have gone Tara like light and day.

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Speaker 2: Even Tara said in the phone call, like if he

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Speaker 1: So the first one at the end he like kind

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm going to lean towards Bridget. I

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Speaker 2: fine because we mean nothing. We're just here as the host.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so, batties, it is now up to you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Comment below who you thought one Tara's boyfriend, the plant

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Speaker 1: in the comments below, and if you want to get involved,

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Speaker 1: And there's two more rounds of challenges and then the

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Speaker 1: Metal matches.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can still submit yourself and your boyfriend

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Speaker 2: I will say one thing before we get into the

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Speaker 2: rest of the episode, and that is, if you haven't already,

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Speaker 2: go head over to Patreon. Because first things first, you're

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Speaker 2: going to get book Club early on Monday. Sure. Second thing. Second,

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Speaker 2: Third thing. Third, you now get the merch early. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: and it's going to be and more coming here, buddy,

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Speaker 2: to be announced in this episode. But I have an update.

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Speaker 2: What is it? Or I should say? Should I say?

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Speaker 1: Like thereof an update, the Dickhead note update I'm talking

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: I've also had a thought as well, like she will

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Speaker 1: Back in the day, I used to prank my mates

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Speaker 2: I might have done you too? I did everyone. Yeah,

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00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:17,800
Speaker 2: I just I have a feeling, like when you said

444
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 2: film film of tits, I have a feeling. I remember

445
00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 2: that and I remember being like, what the fuck? And

446
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 2: then I was selling a car. But that's hilarious. That's

447
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,119
Speaker 2: a good idea, because I was. My other plan was

448
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,639
Speaker 2: join the community page and then just like try and

449
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 2: message someone and just be like I hope they're fucking cool,

450
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,639
Speaker 2: and be like, hey, I want to do it to

451
00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 2: my girlfriend. Can you be the one who posted? Oh shit?

452
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 2: Because it would be legit, legit.

453
00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:43,360
Speaker 1: I'll see if I can find this account, and yeah,

454
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:44,679
Speaker 1: you will say it's made twenty twenty three.

455
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,959
Speaker 2: You can find this account. That's what I'll do. Okay,

456
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 2: good updates. But so that's the update. And then the

457
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 2: other thing I had was I've spoken about my mum

458
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 2: a couple of times, obviously, and now she sends me

459
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 2: the weirdest shit.

460
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:02,240
Speaker 1: Like reels your mom's it's like she's just it's almost

461
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 1: like she's he doesn't get it. No, it's almost like

462
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 1: my mum is trying too hard to be a mum,

463
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 1: if that makes any sense.

464
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, this morning I wake up to a photo

465
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,679
Speaker 2: just in text messages, like she just sent me a photo.

466
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 2: She saved it from Facebook and sent it to me

467
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 2: on text message because you don't reply all the wise

468
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 2: because I don't know why, and it's just sixteen etiquette rules.

469
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 2: You probably didn't know, but should etiquette rules. Etiquette rules?

470
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, And I was like, okay, thank you as if,

471
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 1: like thanks for looking out for me, just talking like

472
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 1: etiquette rules. And I was like, fuck, I'm gonna read

473
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 1: these out. Number one, you should rise when someone enters

474
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 1: the room.

475
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:37,479
Speaker 2: Stand up.

476
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 1: She's looking out for you, man, she wants you to

477
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 1: be a bad person. You let others exit before you enter.

478
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 1: You say my pleasure instead of no problem. You listen

479
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,719
Speaker 1: before you speak. You keep your phone off the table.

480
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 1: You keep your shoes polished at all times. You lower

481
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 1: your voice and serious moments. You wait to be addressed

482
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 1: in formal settings. You hold eye contact during handshakes. You

483
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 1: ask about others before talking about yourself. You walk beside

484
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 1: your guest and not ahead. Right handwritten thank you notes.

485
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 1: You leave space in group conversations. You wait until everyone

486
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: is served. You compliment character, not appearance. You dress for

487
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: the context, not attention.

488
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,360
Speaker 2: And I was I read this once and then it's

489
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 2: the second I read it, and I just wanted to

490
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 2: say to my mum, when have you done any of these?

491
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 2: I was thinking, this is the person. Yeah, what I

492
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 2: said thank you was if like thanks looking out for me,

493
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 2: you send me that. It was the weirdest thing. It

494
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 2: made me think I want to start like maybe a

495
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 2: segment where we react to the reels she sends me

496
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: because they are tragic.

497
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 1: Bro well, thinking about her, it might be it must

498
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: be slightly hard to be like a mother on the

499
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: other side of the world. It definitely would, and like

500
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: to actual to actually like mother mother. Oh yeah, she

501
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: can't mother because she's not impossible.

502
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I also have you to be fair, like,

503
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: at what age do you stop being I guess mothered

504
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:01,439
Speaker 2: and fathered or child did because I feel like my

505
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 2: dad I hang out with him now more and more

506
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 2: instead of him like you know, he didn't take me

507
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 2: to places. I don't rely on him for certain things,

508
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 2: like he's still my dad, but like, at what point

509
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 2: do you does he stop fathering me? Because my mom,

510
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 2: to be fair, she like it's still she's my mom,

511
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 2: but like she stopped mothering me a long time ago

512
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 2: because I moved to Australia and she lived in Canada.

513
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's an actual good question, hey, because I'm thinking

514
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 1: about my relationship with my parents and it's definitely changed

515
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: where they don't do as much for me, if not anything.

516
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 1: But yeah, like there's still that like father and mama, mama,

517
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: mama mother instinct.

518
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 2: There isn't there.

519
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's just it's just slightly there. It's interesting you,

520
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: but it's really nice now when we're like twenty four

521
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: to twenty five, when my mom or dad will do

522
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 1: like something that's stereotypically like a father or mother thing.

523
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 1: She's out of the blue, and you're like, oh, thanks,

524
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 1: I forget about this. Yeah, funny.

525
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 2: I mean I guess I would go to my dad

526
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 2: for advice for sure.

527
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's what I was thinking a lot for

528
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 1: like life advice. I suppose it changes, though the sort

529
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 1: of like challenges we face as young adults are way

530
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 1: harder challenges than driving me to the movies when I'm fifteen.

531
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, now we're.

532
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: Going for loan advice or ye place to buy a property. Yeah,

533
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,719
Speaker 1: like talking to them and that doesn't seem like parental advice,

534
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: but it still.

535
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 2: Is from him, isn't it though. You're right? Yeah, I

536
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 2: guess they never stop. Actually, yeah, parenting. You parentings are

537
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 2: what I was looking for earlier.

538
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think so, it's interesting, funny, dynamic, Yes.

539
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,239
Speaker 2: Shit stopped because she definitely Yeah, I don't know, like

540
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 2: I'm like really thinking about like I see my dad

541
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 2: as my dad, and I see my mom as my mom.

542
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,199
Speaker 2: But you know, no more permission, no more fucking like

543
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 2: like I could say to either one of them, I'm

544
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 2: moving to Germany. Yeah, if they say no, I'm going

545
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 2: to say I wasn't asking, you know what I mean, Like,

546
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:50,919
Speaker 2: isn't it. It's so weird?

547
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, when was that shift? Yeah, I'm the same too. Yeah,

548
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 1: it's funny too because.

549
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 2: Some people, but we're different. Some people's parents would hold

550
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 2: sway over their life for a while due to just

551
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 2: like cultural differences. And then also, yeah, dynamic, great point.

552
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: We were both in a lucky position where our parents

553
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: were both very stand offish, whereas especially getting out of school,

554
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: for a lot of young people, their parents are like

555
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: you have to go to union, Yeah, you have to

556
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: get a trade. Where I think our parents were lucky

557
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: to have the same mindset as they're like, you'll figure

558
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 1: it out. Yeah, And I guess that just comes down

559
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: to parenting approach and how they were brought up and

560
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,679
Speaker 1: what they believe is right. Yeah, and I think ours

561
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: just happened slightly earlier because the older you do get

562
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 1: like when you do finish union, in your parents' eyes.

563
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 2: You're successful.

564
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, then they step away, and in reality, they could

565
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: have stepped away anyway.

566
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. We both were lucky enough to have parents where

567
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, that's their life. You know, they get

568
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 2: to choose what they want to do with their life.

569
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: I'm not going to have like a Well there's a

570
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: fine line thinking about being a parent too, because initially

571
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: I was always like parents.

572
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 2: Who tell their kids what to do, Like that's so harsh.

573
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but also being a if you were a parent,

574
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: they love them, yes, but also like your worst nightmare

575
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: is you say you figure it out self and your

576
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:01,479
Speaker 1: kid does nothing exactly.

577
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, that could be a massive and I see that.

578
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, Whereas I guess our parents must have done it

579
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 1: because they saw some type of drive in us, Like

580
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 1: we were doing shit. It wasn't like we're just like

581
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,199
Speaker 1: smoking bongs and skating.

582
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 2: It's a good point. Yeah we're doing it's a good point.

583
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: But it all comes down to also how they were

584
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: brought up and what their parents did to them, and

585
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 1: it's like goes down different generations. So now you think,

586
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: but the kids who were told they have to go

587
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: to university will have learned from that and be like,

588
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: well I fucking hate it. I'm not going to tell

589
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 1: my kids to do it.

590
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, fair, I'm pretty my dad's parents were mad chill.

591
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,959
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure my dad's parents weren't. That's what he is.

592
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 2: Oh really, so he's gone opposite and then my dad's

593
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 2: parents are like mad child, I'm pretty sure they did.

594
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 2: They were just like, yeah, do what you want. Yeah,

595
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 2: And so that's also just been like he's probably thinking

596
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 2: all that worked out for me. Yeah.

597
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: So my dad's parents were mad religious, so he was

598
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: just like that like sort of made him be like

599
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: because that's so structured.

600
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just like, no, you can do whatever you want. Yeah.

601
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 2: To be fair, best's parents were, they were quite strict. Yeah,

602
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 2: and she she has said that, Yeah, like because of

603
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 2: how strict her parents were, there's different things that she knows,

604
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 2: like she wants to do when she has a kid,

605
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 2: like simple simple things, right, So, uh, they were one

606
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 2: of their like super healthy kind of almond parents where

607
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 2: it was like I haven't heard that, Yeah that super

608
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 2: healthy bro Like a treat for them was like half

609
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: a buck. Like they would mix two boxes of cereal together,

610
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 2: one cocoa pops, one fucking rice bubbles, and that was

611
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 2: like a treat really, so you got like half of

612
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 2: the bowls rice bus Like I'm talking like, yeah, that

613
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 2: like healthy, healthy, that type of thing, like lots of

614
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 2: sports and shit. And Beth said that I one time

615
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 2: was thinking, like, oh, that's really good that they like

616
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 2: did that. You know, they taught you about healthy And

617
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 2: she said, the only bad thing is that so you

618
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 2: and I we could we could buy a cupboard full

619
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 2: of lollies, ice cream in the fridge and everything, and

620
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 2: intuitively just because we were like one reason is because

621
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 2: we were allowed to have it as a kid, like

622
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 2: intuitively just eat some of it sometimes. But one thing

623
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 2: that Beth thinks that her parents, being so strict on

624
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: that stuff had done. I don't want to speak for her,

625
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 2: but she has said this for is that it like

626
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 2: has made it so deep in her like if there's

627
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 2: chocolate and fruits that fucking shit needs to be eating. Yeah,

628
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 2: that's fine because she can be allowed to do it

629
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 2: too now because now she buys it, she makes her choices,

630
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 2: and so it's like, yeah, it's big, sweet sweet tooth

631
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 2: has become yeah, like a thing where if it's in

632
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 2: the house. Yeah, like she it's yeah.

633
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: I've heard that before people I know they're from really

634
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: big families and when they bought food, if there was

635
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: food there, they would eat as much as possible because

636
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: if they would go out for the day, there's seven

637
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: or eight kids that eat all the food. You to

638
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: come home and there's no food there, Exactly, you wouldn't

639
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: have because we I was from two, I could have

640
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 1: one portion of ice boxes, have one icebox.

641
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 2: Ya, they're there, they're having three or four Yeah exactly. Yeah.

642
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 2: They need to like just make sure they can save

643
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 2: her this.

644
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: Moment literally Yeah, yeah, hilarious. So that's just like one thing. Yeah,

645
00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: I might ask be about it again and get like

646
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: a more solid answer. She said to me once, and

647
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: I was like, that does make sense, Like I don't

648
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: get food thought really and like, yeah, portion controls are thing,

649
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 1: and I've it's it's funny. It's sort of like a

650
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: balancing act.

651
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it also makes you think because like her parents

652
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 2: obviously were great parents. Like all of the kids have

653
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 2: grown up to get like go into like good jobs

654
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 2: and like have good work ethic and shit. And they're

655
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 2: all healthy, like none of them are like unhealthy. But

656
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 2: at the same time, my parents who honestly let me

657
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 2: have the freedom of everything and I can do whatever

658
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: I want, and I've ended up pretty much the same. True,

659
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Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

660
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Speaker 1: So it's like it's nothing's wrong, like each each one

661
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Speaker 1: of them actually is probably the right thing true too

662
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Speaker 1: true exactly, Yeah, yeah, there is no wrong. It's sort

663
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Speaker 1: of like you also have to work around how your

664
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Speaker 1: kid acts. Yep, not saying your brother's bad, but he

665
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: has a few struggles from a similar upbringing.

666
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Speaker 2: I will say the Oh, here's actually one thing I

667
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Speaker 2: will say, I think what im One factor of why

668
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 2: my younger siblings are different to my sister, my older

669
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Speaker 2: sister and myself is because when Juanna and I were

670
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Speaker 2: their age or actually no, not their age now they're

671
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Speaker 2: all older now, but like when we were younger, like

672
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Speaker 2: when Joanna and I before before ten and going into

673
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 2: early teens, my mom and my stepdad had no money,

674
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 2: and my dad and my stepmom had no money, and

675
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 2: so it was more of like a there was freedom,

676
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 2: but also it was kind of like there was a

677
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Speaker 2: cap on what could be bought. So it was like

678
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 2: you just have to wait for Christmas and birthdays to

679
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 2: get stuff, which is still super lucky. But when we

680
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: started to get a bit older, that's when my parents,

681
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: my dad started to make good money, and then my

682
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: mom and my stepdad they also started to make good money,

683
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 2: just like well off and yeah, like they just like

684
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 2: figured it out and like business did well or whatever.

685
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 2: And so my younger siblings from when we Joanna and

686
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 2: I weren't allowed to have stuff at that age, but

687
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 2: when my younger siblings got that age, they were allowed

688
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 2: to have everything. And so it was a thing of

689
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 2: like being allowed to just like get a new fucking computer,

690
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 2: play video games until two am every day. And that's

691
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,719
Speaker 2: what Ethan does now. And it's just one thing that

692
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: I never tell my parents, like I never say you

693
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 2: need to stop it from doing this shit, but fuck,

694
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 2: I just want to break everything, every bit of technology

695
00:31:58,640 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 2: in that little fucker's roommate.

696
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: I think it's also a bigger problem outside obviously your family,

697
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: just younger kids. Oh, it's huge, and technology and the

698
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: addiction to it.

699
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like we'll have.

700
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Speaker 1: To figure out strategies.

701
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 2: Like I don't want my kid to be an iPad kid.

702
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: No, Like I don't want to be at a dinner

703
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: and like I know, like there might be a time

704
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: and a place to do it.

705
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, like they don't need the iPad. I went out

706
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:19,479
Speaker 2: for dinner the other night.

707
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 1: It's so normal it is. And I don't judge either,

708
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: but I don't.

709
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 2: Want my kid to do it. There was a table

710
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 2: on my left, big table, five kids all on iPads, right,

711
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh shit, look at that. And

712
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 2: I was thinking, to be fair, it's like if they

713
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 2: were absolute shits, you'd want them to shove up so

714
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 2: you can enjoy your dinner. Table to my right, family

715
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 2: of four, two parents, two kids. They were playing you know.

716
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

717
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 2: I was like, that's one way to keep him busy. Yeah,

718
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 2: Cassie's brother.

719
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: They draw, They bring drawing books.

720
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 2: That's what do you mean? That's what you see. Every

721
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 2: restaurant I went to as a kid was like, do

722
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 2: you want some coloring and pencils?

723
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

724
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 2: What happened to that?

725
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. And I think it's so much better for

726
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: developmental stage. And I don't want to judge either, because

727
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 1: kids are shits, and like, if you just want to

728
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: have an enjoy your pub feed, like fair enough, if

729
00:32:58,320 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: you gotta do what you gotta do.

730
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 2: Us being parents, like I.

731
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 1: Can't speak now, but like hopefully we figure out some

732
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: type of strategy. But also all of these conversations the

733
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 1: complexities around being a parent.

734
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 2: Obviously, yeah, it's so hard.

735
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: You can't be it can't be perfect, no, because every

736
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: single scenario right there, our parents or their parents or

737
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 1: anyone's parents would have thought they're doing the right.

738
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 2: Thing and they love their kids as much as every

739
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 2: other parent. It's like, it's it's hard. It's hard, And

740
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 2: when I get there, I guarantee you I'm going to

741
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 2: do something and I'm going to be like, I know

742
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 2: when my dad did that? Yeah, why my mum did that?

743
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 2: This fucking sucks. But it's also good to think about

744
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 2: it too, because a lot of people don't, especially men.

745
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: A lot of men wouldn't think about the complexities about

746
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 1: being a father, a father figure.

747
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 2: Baddies, it is time for the I G Question, i

748
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 2: G Question baby. This week, the IG question was girls,

749
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 2: tell us what he says versus what you hear? First

750
00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: one I got was, wouldn't you like to know whether

751
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 2: boy I forgot about that? Me may but no good answers, Yeah,

752
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 2: great answers. Yeah.

753
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 1: Actually, like a lot of them, I reckon seventy five

754
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: percent of the ones I saw were girls here that

755
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: someone says they're fat.

756
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, one hundred percent.

757
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: Somebody do with sweet treat yeah, and something to do

758
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 1: with feeling fat, yeah, which is hey.

759
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 2: Relatable, It is relatable. It is what it is. But okay, girls,

760
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 2: tell us what he says versus what you hear. Classic

761
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,399
Speaker 2: I'm fine equals I hate you.

762
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 1: Oh I believe that one, dude, I'm fine.

763
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 2: Hey, that also goes both ways. Don't say that to me.

764
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: Ye, that also goes yeah your vocabulary, Yeah, all right him, No,

765
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 1: I don't feel like ice cream. What she hears, I

766
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: think we should break up?

767
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:51,840
Speaker 5: Oh okay, I was about to say I've got one similar.

768
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 5: I no, no, because I've got one that says you

769
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,240
Speaker 5: can get a sweet treat, but I don't want one.

770
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 2: What she hears, you don't love me, and you think

771
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,320
Speaker 2: I'm a big back. A big back. What's a big back?

772
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 2: I've heard this big back thrown around like a big bum?

773
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: Is it?

774
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 2: Throw it back?

775
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: I've heard big back gets thrown around the internet for

776
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 1: a while now, and I don't know.

777
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 2: What it is. We might be getting old day. I

778
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 2: swear it's a big bum. That's a compliment then, but

779
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 2: maybe it's not.

780
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: If she said it interesting, please let us know big back?

781
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: All right? What he says, I need some space. What

782
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: she hears, I don't love you anymore?

783
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:41,760
Speaker 2: Use your words? Why do you? Okay? What he says,

784
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 2: just a few beers. What she hears see you at

785
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:46,800
Speaker 2: three am?

786
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: She shouldn't hear that, but she's picked up on the queues,

787
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: that's for sure.

788
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: All right.

789
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: What he says, I don't want to snack. What she hears,

790
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 1: pick me up a special snack without me asking?

791
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 2: Oh, I'd still lead it to me. Reading between the lines,

792
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 2: that was good.

793
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 1: Okay, girls, tell us what he says versus what you hear. Yeah,

794
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: you look good equals he doesn't care and has been

795
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: ready to go for ten minutes. Fuck'm so I do care.

796
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 1: I do, but I have been ready to go for

797
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: thirty minutes, probably longer. Okay, this one's the classic. What

798
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: he said, did you finish off that cake? Or is

799
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: there still some left. You ate all that cake, didn't you?

800
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: Little fatty? Oh fuck, you may as well stab me

801
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 1: in the fucking guts.

802
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 2: Bro.

803
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 1: No, this is good to learn though, because we know

804
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: what not to say, because me being a stupid boy

805
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 1: like and that's me wanting cake.

806
00:36:58,840 --> 00:36:59,879
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, he's the only cake left?

807
00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: Or did you eat it all? And I'm just like

808
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: wanting cake personally, not having any attack on you. She

809
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: takes it that way exactly.

810
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 2: Here's here's where I want to test you because I

811
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 2: have a feeling I know what to do in that situation,

812
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 2: but I want to know what would you do to

813
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 2: make it so she doesn't think you're insulting her.

814
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: Oh I'm not insulting her, so she thinks I just

815
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: called her fat exactly?

816
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, how do I How do I stop that? I

817
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 2: don't know? Okay, here's what I think. The answer is,

818
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,879
Speaker 2: you don't ask anything. There's no way you can word

819
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 2: it without insinuating that she has eaten all the cake.

820
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 2: All right, So all you do is you go, you

821
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 2: take a little sneak peek for the cake.

822
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,479
Speaker 1: If it's gone, you don't say a thing. If it's there,

823
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 1: you have a piece, offer to share it too.

824
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, okay, I think that's the answer. Okay, so

825
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 2: you just have the social initiative. Interesting, okay, okay, here,

826
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 2: don't even ask a question. Yeah, because you can just

827
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 2: go look for the cake yourself with your own eyes.

828
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:56,280
Speaker 2: Good point. Yeah, Okay. What he says, I won't Lady

829
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 2: in the Tramp style eat a hot dog with you. Okay.

830
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 2: What she hears, I hate you.

831
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: I read that and I was like, it's a Lady

832
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 1: in the Tramp. Oh if you do not watch the

833
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 1: Lady in the Tramp. No, No, that is classic movie, bro, girlfriend.

834
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: It's like an old Disney movie animated one, but it's

835
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,399
Speaker 1: so lady. It's the two dogs Lady in the Tramp.

836
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 2: The lady is like the dog that has an owner,

837
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 2: and the tramp is the one that's like a hound

838
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 2: dog like out in the streets like Barry Be. And

839
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 2: then they fall in love, and he, like the tramp dog,

840
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 2: kind of lives his hectic life where he just like

841
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 2: goes around. He knows all the restaurant owners. They give

842
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 2: them food out the back of their restaurant and shit.

843
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 2: So he takes a lady on a date.

844
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: At the back of an Italian but is there a

845
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: scene with spaghetti And there's a scene with spaghetti where

846
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: they both spaghetti and then they're eating the same one

847
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: and they go up and they kiss.

848
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 2: Oh I'm how old? Is that old? I might have

849
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 2: seen it when I was a kid, early two thousands.

850
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:48,280
Speaker 2: You haven't seen it? Yeah, old old old? Yeah, Okay, what.

851
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:52,240
Speaker 1: He said, you can come if you want. What she hears,

852
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 1: I feel obligated to invite you.

853
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 2: Oh, i'd be hearing you want me to punch in

854
00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:58,479
Speaker 2: the face.

855
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 1: No fair, though, what I would hear is, yeah, you

856
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: feel obligated to invite me yeaheah, I would hear like,

857
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:06,919
Speaker 1: you don't want me to come exactly. I've been getting

858
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: really good at more of the instead of saying that

859
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 1: because you can come if you want is like a

860
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 1: thing where it's like you could argue I'm being considerate,

861
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 1: where it's like you can come, like I want you there,

862
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: but it's if you want to come, you know.

863
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 2: But instead I've been going more of would you like

864
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 2: to come? It's more of a would you like to

865
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 2: that's on them, Yeah, would you like to come? And

866
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 2: then it's just like, yeah, I love it. That's some

867
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 2: really top shit. Yeah, I love it if you could

868
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,720
Speaker 2: be there. Yeah, what he says, I don't want anything serious.

869
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:36,240
Speaker 2: What she hears, you're the girl for me and I'll change.

870
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 2: And then she wrote delusional girls hand check emoji.

871
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 1: Sometimes they will hear what they want to hear. Yeah, okay,

872
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 1: what he said, I'm one hundred and eighty five centimeters tall.

873
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: What she hears, a solid one seventy three.

874
00:39:51,760 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 2: Then this one's good. Girls. Tell us what he says

875
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 2: versus what you hear. What he says, you're dramatic. What

876
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:12,240
Speaker 2: she hears, I'm too immature to acknowledge that emotions exist

877
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 2: and people feel them. Oh shit, Yeah that was a bar.

878
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 1: That was one that Baddy was articulated. All right, this

879
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 1: one is my girlfriend too, a fucking team really so

880
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 1: so me.

881
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 2: I'm busy tonight her Oh so you hate me?

882
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:35,399
Speaker 1: That is.

883
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 2: She says it all the time. Really.

884
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 1: If I'm like, oh, I can't do it, I'm recording,

885
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 1: She's like, oh so you hate me. Funny what he says,

886
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 1: you look nice today. What she hears you look shitty

887
00:40:51,400 --> 00:41:00,800
Speaker 1: every other day. That's funny. We can't wear we can't Yeah, okay,

888
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: now what he says, I've got to go. What she hears,

889
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 1: I can't stand being with you.

890
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 2: What he says, This doesn't look good on you.

891
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: What she hears or he cares or he cares delusional

892
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: one both yeah, negative?

893
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 2: Okay him, I love you.

894
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: What she hears, I will pay for everything because my

895
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 1: money is down money A good one, fucking I I'll

896
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: pay for everything. Okay, this is my last one, and

897
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: this one is a little slightly confusing for me.

898
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 2: But I'll see if you can get it and if

899
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 2: the girlipops can get it or the baddies. What he says, Sorry,

900
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 2: my phone died. What she hears, fourteen different sex positions

901
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 2: at my ex's house. Oh, I get it. Yeah he's

902
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 2: out cheating. Yeah. Oh what she hears.

903
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: It's just like blank, she is all the fucking has

904
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: like a that's so ravening.

905
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 2: They were good, they were cold. It was actually so funny. Okay,

906
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 2: time for dilemmas, guys. There was a lot of new

907
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 2: dilemmas in there. Thank you very much. If you want

908
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 2: to submit a dilemma, it is linked in the description

909
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 2: of this video, or it is in our Instagram bio

910
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 2: and they're all anonymous. Completely. I got a good one. Hi,

911
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 2: I'm a male twenty four. We love our mail Baddy,

912
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 2: we do, we do. We like to help him out

913
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 2: because Green Flags. I started listening to your podcast after

914
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 2: hearing YouTube on ships and gigs. Yeah, or they were

915
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 2: on us that we didn't go on them unless they

916
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 2: gave us a shout out an episode, which Yeah, it's

917
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 2: very refre rushing hearing a more stable male view on

918
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:07,280
Speaker 2: relationships as opposed to the toxic viewpoint that is perpetuated

919
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 2: online and in some of my friendships. Oh and when

920
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 2: I read this first time, I was I was thinking,

921
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 2: Easy's saying that, like shits and gigs, James and Fuu

922
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 2: had a toxic and then I was like, oh, they're

923
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 2: not too bad. But then I was like, they actually kind.

924
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:19,240
Speaker 6: Of well.

925
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 2: Not the show throw shading, but I've listened to it forever.

926
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 2: My dilemma is the following. I ended a nearly three

927
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 2: year relationship almost a year ago due to the way

928
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 2: I treated my now ex girlfriend and the events that

929
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 2: transpired whilst we were together. Physical infidelity from me and

930
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:44,839
Speaker 2: emotional infidelity from her. As far as I know, what's

931
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 2: emotional infantility, so like emotional cheating and physical cheating, infidelity

932
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 2: is cheating Oh yeah, okay, I was gonna say something,

933
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 2: what do you think infertelity was kind of have kids? No? No,

934
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 2: what's that? Isn't that?

935
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: No?

936
00:43:56,560 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 2: Infidelity is cheating? Oh I've been wrong. He had a

937
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,839
Speaker 2: the source next to him because he used the word

938
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 2: perpetuated and infidelity because there's easier one. I don't know, way,

939
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 2: what's in my head? Infidelity? What's the words in my head? Infertile?

940
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:13,479
Speaker 1: Yeah?

941
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 2: Right, they're pretty similar to me. To be fair, I

942
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 2: was like, so, it's been some time I've had the

943
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: opportunity to be by myself, but I've come to realize

944
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 2: that I would love to be with her. Still, I

945
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 2: missed the way we were together, and I wish I

946
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 2: had never made that choice. My question to you guys

947
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 2: is do I make some sort of herculean effort to

948
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 2: win her back? Or do I cut my losses and

949
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 2: try to move on and find happiness elsewhere. Help My

950
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 2: friends say, if I miss her, I should try, but

951
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 2: I don't know if I want to disturb her life.

952
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, so that is tough. Let's break that

953
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 1: down because there were some big words in there.

954
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 2: Basically me to.

955
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 1: Look up infidelity definitions to be sure. It's definitely cheating, but.

956
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 2: I swear, but fertile.

957
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 1: But then you couldn't have Yeah, I don't know physical

958
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 1: infidet like because you can't emotionally not have a kid.

959
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 2: I guess you could because you just said don't want

960
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 2: Where is it?

961
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: It needs to be a rare occasion where I don't

962
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: think I'm right, but I would love to be meaning

963
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: being unfaithful to a partner. Okay, the more you know University.

964
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 2: He sat there with the sours, I'm telling you that

965
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 2: was funny. So he's broke up with his girlfriend of

966
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,439
Speaker 2: three years a year ago.

967
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 1: A year ago, so it's been a long period of

968
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 1: time and he's had a lot of time to reflect

969
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: on it and realize.

970
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 2: What he's done or what his wrongs were.

971
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: And he's now kind of regretting his decision, but he

972
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:35,280
Speaker 1: kind of needed the time as well.

973
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:38,760
Speaker 2: To realize what was wrong. Yeah, fuck it is tough.

974
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 1: I think it is a simple answer, and he sort

975
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 1: of said it there at the end. Yeah, cut your losses, Yeah,

976
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 1: cut your losses. It's kind of like three years. I'm

977
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 1: going to assume you're it was your first love, like

978
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 1: proper love too, which twenty to twenty three because he's

979
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 1: twenty four, Yeah, which is always the hardest to get

980
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: over and it always eats up in the back your

981
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: mind slightly. And that's relatable, and that's fair because it's

982
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:07,760
Speaker 1: all you ever knew and all you ever loved. Yeah,

983
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 1: And it's good that you've taken the year to reflect

984
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 1: on your wrongdoings and potentially wanted to better yourself in

985
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: the relationship. But my personal opinion would be cut tires

986
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 1: completely and.

987
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 2: Go elsewhere. Yeah, I would agree.

988
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 1: The only reason I agree with that as well is

989
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: because so I remember the one time that I so

990
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: I had a relationship where I wasn't heartbroken because it

991
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 1: ended for a good reason. And then the one where

992
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 1: I was heartbroken, I was with for three years, and

993
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: then I remember it fucking took forever to.

994
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 2: Fucking get over it. Yeah.

995
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: And I remember seeing this thing where someone goes a

996
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 1: pretty kind of you know, decent rule of thumb is,

997
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: however long you're with someone, it's probably going to take

998
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,320
Speaker 1: about half that amount of time to get over them,

999
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 1: you know fully.

1000
00:46:58,760 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 2: And I was thinking about it and I was like,

1001
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 2: I reckon, it took me a year and a half.

1002
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 2: A Yeah, I honestly reckon. It took me a year

1003
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 2: and a half. A full year later, I was good,

1004
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 2: Like I was okay, but I definitely I reckon. I

1005
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 2: would have had thoughts where I was like, I still

1006
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 2: want to be with her.

1007
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, very true and glass half full. You're in a

1008
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 1: lucky position. I've said it before. It's easier to get

1009
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 1: over that, I know, than the what if. But right

1010
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 1: now you can make the decision that this is never

1011
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 1: happening again, because it's already been a year. Yeah, and

1012
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,479
Speaker 1: she's not like messaging you and saying let's try again. Yeah,

1013
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 1: you have complete control of the situation right now and

1014
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,280
Speaker 1: of your life. And to be fair, another six months,

1015
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: going off Jake's timeline there, it should be all right.

1016
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: And also another glass half full thing. Take what you

1017
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: learned from that relationship into the next one. Yeah, as

1018
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: cliche as it is, there's plenty of fish in the sea.

1019
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point. Like the only way, Yeah,

1020
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,399
Speaker 2: I would say give it six more months and see

1021
00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 2: how you feel, because like just so, I would say,

1022
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: make a decision now, whatever you do, make a decision

1023
00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 2: and don't and just like go through that door. Like so,

1024
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 2: if you want to go fight for her by all means, Like,

1025
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell you to not do it.

1026
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 2: There's no real right or wrong answer. What I would say,

1027
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,839
Speaker 2: what I would do is go through the door of

1028
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 2: no contact, cut your losses, and then in six months

1029
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 2: to a year, if you still feeling the exact same,

1030
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 2: then maybe there is something that's drawing you back to

1031
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 2: it and you should try. But here's the thing, Like,

1032
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 2: it's a risk. You could try and she'll shut you.

1033
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: Down and then it hurts, but at least then you

1034
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 1: know it's never going to happen, so you can have

1035
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: another year and a half to get over it. Yeah,

1036
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: it's also better to come from him though that he

1037
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: knows himself exactly.

1038
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, he just makes the choice.

1039
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: I also want to say too, he's twenty four, right,

1040
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:41,880
Speaker 1: definitely in the last like six months especially, Yeah, prior

1041
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: to that, I think a lot of men have tunnel

1042
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: vision into their lives and how much they see not

1043
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 1: only like work wise, but also relationship wise and where

1044
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: they grew up. There aren't that many people or options

1045
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: and not saying that there's like plenty of girls out

1046
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:01,880
Speaker 1: there who want him, But the older you get, you

1047
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 1: kind of start to realize that you are more in

1048
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: control of your life and you can do whatever you want,

1049
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: and there's millions of people who could potentially be your partner. Yeah,

1050
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 1: but when you're so young and immature, you kind of

1051
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: only see the ten girls you know.

1052
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1053
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just relatable too, and like the more people

1054
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 1: you know and you have complete control of your life

1055
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 1: to do whatever.

1056
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 2: You want and go wherever you want to exactly, you

1057
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 2: might end up with someone that still was one of

1058
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 2: the ten people you know, but isn't your ex girlfriend

1059
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 2: you never know, yeah, exactly, And it kind of just

1060
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,439
Speaker 2: happens with age that the tunnel vision starts to open

1061
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 2: and you're like, Wow, the world is fucking huge. I

1062
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,959
Speaker 2: can do whatever I want. I think you got this, mate, Yeah, same,

1063
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:37,240
Speaker 2: I think you're I think you'll be all right already.

1064
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 2: Let us know how you go. I'm actually interested.

1065
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, give us an update for sure. My dilemma bit

1066
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 1: of a fun short one. Okay, thirty year old female

1067
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: baddie thinking of buying a sex toy to introduce to

1068
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: the bedroom, but don't know how to start with my husband?

1069
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:52,800
Speaker 2: Help?

1070
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: Okay, this man that's thirty bit older than us.

1071
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 2: Hey, apparently thirty is the age that women are their horniests, oh,

1072
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 2: early thirties, because that's when their peak like ready their bodies,

1073
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 2: like ready to have baby. I think, yeah, interesting. Yeah,

1074
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 2: so we said the other day on Patreon, didn't we

1075
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 2: that we're very vanilla in the bedroom? Yeah, I think

1076
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 2: we said it. Well, we recorded Patreon before this. It's

1077
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 2: actually going to come out on Thursday. Yeah, that we

1078
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 2: said it. We recorded Patreon yesterday, So on Thursday you

1079
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 2: are if you're on Patreon, your heroes talking about vanilla.

1080
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 1: But also, I'm not scared of sex toys neither. That

1081
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: vibrator goes a long way.

1082
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 2: It's it's a tool.

1083
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 1: It's not saying I'm bad at what I'm doing. It's

1084
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: a tool to help.

1085
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 2: One's smaller than his doodle.

1086
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 1: I'm telling you to start off with one of the

1087
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: smalleranness doodle if you think he's like an insecure guy, true,

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Speaker 1: and just start off with one that's smaller and it's

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Speaker 1: really small.

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Speaker 2: If his is really small, Yeah, that's pretty small fucking vibrator.

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Speaker 2: And I don't I don't know from experienced, the big

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00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 2: ones are easy to grab button. It's a good point.

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00:50:55,800 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 2: You don't lose them. Yeah, so okay, thing like, what's

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00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 2: the reason you want to bring me in the bedroom?

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00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 1: Is he satisfying you or not? Well, I think it

1096
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: just comes with age. They've been having sex with the

1097
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 1: same people for ten years. You just want to splush

1098
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 1: it up exactly. Yeah, pleasuring yeah, exactly, pleasurable for him

1099
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 1: too to be able to be the one doing it,

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00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: and then she's kind of like enjoying it.

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00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 1: That's what I like as a man, is just like

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00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: if she says something and then I do it for

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00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: the first time or to do something different, and you

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00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,359
Speaker 1: can see she's enjoying it, I'm like, oh, yeah, here

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Speaker 1: you go.

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Speaker 2: Tactic hid him with the I want to add another

1108
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 2: person to the bedroom, right, He's going to say no, no, no,

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00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 2: no no, and she goes, okay, I'll start small, like

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00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 2: how about a toy, and it'll be like, you know what, compromise. Yeah, Honestly,

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00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 2: I think you can't really go wrong. You could just

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00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 2: say if we had toys in the bedroom, what would

1113
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 2: you want to see? What he says?

1114
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,359
Speaker 1: But some dude are stubborn. We know stubborn dudes. We're

1115
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Speaker 1: very open to trying new things.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like all dudes are kind of like,

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00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 2: want a toy in the bedroom?

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00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: Sure, I don't know, because we're okay with making it

1119
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: full of it self, for not knowing what to do

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00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 1: and like laughing about it and figuring it out. But

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00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 1: a lot of dudes are stubborn and not saying this

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00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 1: bad his husband is.

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00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 2: But a lot of dudes are like, I'm the king

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00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 2: of the bedroom. I make you finish. I don't need

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00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 2: no toy.

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00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: Fair, But how could you bring it up if you

1127
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: are in like a relationship like that and you just

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00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 1: want to say, I don't know. They just have that

1129
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 1: toxic masculine any side in the bedroom. Because it's funny

1130
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 1: though too, because the dynamic of a person. I've been

1131
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: heaps of people outside the bedroom completely normal, and then

1132
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: inside the bedroom they've got like this different persona and

1133
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:30,280
Speaker 1: they're like freaky.

1134
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 2: Or like they think they're beasts or whatever. I think

1135
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 2: if he's the type to be, if you're scared to

1136
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:41,120
Speaker 2: ask him because of his reaction, sorry, but red flag true?

1137
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:42,359
Speaker 2: It is the red flag. Yeah.

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00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:46,439
Speaker 1: I think I think you can't go wrong at all

1139
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 1: if you just say, how'd you feel if I brought sex.

1140
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 2: Toys into the bedroom, which one would you like? Yeah,

1141
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 2: and maybe you have a couple of you've picked out

1142
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 2: a couple. We've done a deal of love.

1143
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,320
Speaker 1: Honey, they've got cute ones that look like love hearts,

1144
00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 1: roses bro look like paper weights. Or you can get

1145
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 1: some big one to have a couple on your phone

1146
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: and just be like like this one. What do you

1147
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:05,319
Speaker 1: think you'd be like? Sure, order it bang here. Next week,

1148
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 1: let's go to town.

1149
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 2: And I start small. You also want to like it too,

1150
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 2: don't do something intense. Yeah, just try something smaller if

1151
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 2: you like it, and then build up and you guys

1152
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 2: will just have the freaky sex out. Well, yeah, I

1153
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 2: think it's fun. We'll get there one day.

1154
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes dudes do need baby steps. Give me five

1155
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:24,239
Speaker 1: years and we'll be there talking about we're talking about

1156
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: we're talking about how our girlfriends asked us.

1157
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe our wives.

1158
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy word my wife. I f ast me the

1159
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 1: other day if we want to bring toys in the

1160
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: bedroom ship and I said, fuck yeah, I said, about time.

1161
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 2: I've been waiting for this. This tool needs a rest.

1162
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 1: What are we going to call it?

1163
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 2: Where we're going to hide it from the kids?

1164
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, As I said earlier, we have another cheeky,

1165
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Speaker 1: little small announcement for Patreon, one thing to make a

1166
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 1: little bit better. If you're listening to this today the

1167
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:07,320
Speaker 1: day came out, it's going to be coming out tomorrow.

1168
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Speaker 1: But if you're listening to this after that, on the

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Speaker 1: twenty sixth of August Tuesday, we will be dropping our

1170
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 1: live reactions to the season finale of Season one of

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00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 1: the Summer I turned pretty and let me just tell you,

1172
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 1: it was a fucking tear jerker. If I could drop

1173
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:24,400
Speaker 1: this mic and it wasn't on a stand, I would We.

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00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:27,840
Speaker 2: Should unscrew them? Yeah, drop them, bro, it was a

1175
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 2: tear jerker. We I forgot how fun that was.

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00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 1: Me and Jake had it was late money as well. Yeah,

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00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 1: late night movie night.

1178
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Speaker 2: It was great.

1179
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: We were laughing, Yeah, we were laughing, eating popcorn and.

1180
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 2: Emotions we were and then we were sobbing fun on Yeah,

1181
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 2: then we were sobbing.

1182
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, another purchase for five dollars aud a month.

1183
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 2: Yes, fuck having tears. Now we're just going to Everything's

1184
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:54,799
Speaker 2: all right? Bad? Is you know?

1185
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: How we and the episodes we've comments from you guys.

1186
00:54:58,120 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 1: If you want to get your comment read, just comment

1187
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 1: in one of the episodes and we might get to him.

1188
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: I got Charlotte Darling from Spotify first. I cannot wait

1189
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 1: to watch your opinion of Jeremiah changed to season three. Ooh,

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Speaker 1: I hope you comment on the song choices for the

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00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:15,880
Speaker 1: climatic parts of each episode.

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Speaker 2: Two okay, sligh interesting. I got YouTube Vittoria Susa. I'm

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00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:27,720
Speaker 2: team quote Belly, get your shit together. Facts, Conrad deserves

1194
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 2: better and Jerre really needs to grow more. Oh shit.

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Speaker 1: To be fair, we'll saying that in the finale, Belly

1196
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 1: was gone between both brothers.

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00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go again a bit dangerous.

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Speaker 1: So from Rock's anna, this could be an even better

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00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 1: thing to do to Beth about the Dickhead updates.

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Speaker 2: I'll share the notes she goes. How about you put

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00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 2: a note on her car saying I'm sorry or I'm

1202
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 2: sorry again, So then she'll just start looking for some

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00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 2: non existing damage.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I've seen that before. That's a good one. It's

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00:55:58,120 --> 00:55:58,879
Speaker 1: less work for you.

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00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:01,920
Speaker 2: So I could It could be as simple as I'm

1207
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 2: sorry and I put on I even put like fucking

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00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 2: your phone number or like someone's phone number that she knows,

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Speaker 2: and just like fuck with her to her own phone

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Speaker 2: number I don't know. How about come back to us

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Speaker 2: next week? Okay? And my final one s B j

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Speaker 2: C T Okay. The boyfriends who listen to this podcast

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Speaker 2: ey as emoji. Yeah, they're all like, fuck, I'm getting

1214
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:29,440
Speaker 2: tested maybe Okay, Jacqueline, Oh, I think you replied to

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00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 2: this quote. I'm going to stop saying unbeknowns because it

1216
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 2: sounds stupid because you said it. Okay, what have I got?

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Speaker 2: One last one from Emma Hope. I love that you

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Speaker 2: guys are watching the summer I turn pretty. I've always

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Speaker 2: been hardcore Team Jeremiah, but I honestly think it's just

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00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 2: because I personally don't like Conrad. Definitely nothing against those

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00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 2: who do, though. Okay, funny that's up to season three. No,

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00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 2: that's caught up on season three. Really know what she's saying?

1223
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 2: What She's still Team Jeremiah. Really, all I've been hearing

1224
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,319
Speaker 2: is that by then people are usually team Comrade. Let's

1225
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 2: go with the we and see about perfon personal preference

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00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 2: the whole way through.

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Speaker 1: I say interesting, interesting, And now to completely finish the episode,

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Speaker 1: the cherry on top, we will now call one of

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Speaker 1: you lovely baddies if you want to get called and

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Speaker 1: sign off an episode.

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Speaker 2: The link will be in the description. Today we will

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Speaker 2: be calling Angel. Hello, Hello Angel, This is Jake and

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Speaker 2: Oddy from the Relatables. How are you.

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00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 4: Oh, I'm great.

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Speaker 2: What do you want to.

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00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 6: I am about to go and start my school.

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00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 2: Oh okay, well, I'm glad we caught you before that

1238
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 2: because we wanted to see if you could sign off

1239
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 2: our episode for us.

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00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 1: Oh, how do I do that?

1241
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 2: You can say some advice, you can say stay bad,

1242
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 2: You could say anything anything you want.

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00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 4: Oh gosh, I have a perfect thing to say to

1244
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 4: that to the women watching, which is most of them,

1245
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 4: stay away from.

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00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 2: Most men, advice from most.

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Speaker 1: Men except one.

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Speaker 6: Jake, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Thanks listening. Guys, stay bad.