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Speaker 1: You're listening to the FITZI and whipp A podcast. Tell

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Speaker 1: me everything. This is wrong in thirteen, twenty fourteen, throwing

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Speaker 1: it out there. How did somebody get your number? And

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Speaker 1: did they contact you? This is a woman. She's contacted

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Speaker 1: her local supermarket because she's got a delivery to the door,

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Speaker 1: right and then, thanks very much, appreciate it. That's great.

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Speaker 1: I'll go on put it in the fridge. Anyway. I

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Speaker 1: had a short conversation with this guy. Next thing you know,

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Speaker 1: she received a text message later in the day saying, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I dropped off your food a little earlier. Thought you

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Speaker 1: seem really lovely. Is there any chance maybe we could

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Speaker 1: grab a drink? She was shocked at first, and then

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Speaker 1: later in the day she was on Facebook and realized

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Speaker 1: that he'd actually tracked it down on Facebook as well,

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Speaker 1: and then like black black black black black black black

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Speaker 1: black black black black, liked every photo that she had

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Speaker 1: posted on Facebook. So he's gone hard. It's gone hard

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Speaker 1: when he probably should have been delivering a few more

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Speaker 1: other Jolie the Wooly's.

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Speaker 2: Delivery driver's gone a little bit too fat.

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Speaker 1: He was very excited about who he was meeting. She

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Speaker 1: contacted the store and said, Hey, you can't just use

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Speaker 1: my number because you've got my details. Take it easy

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Speaker 1: on the creep gear. Well, I just wanted my food.

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Speaker 2: How else could you approach that? If you really like someone,

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Speaker 2: if you've seen them from a distance, they don't know

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Speaker 2: who you talk No. One message is fine?

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Speaker 1: Is it what I think?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 3: One message?

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Speaker 4: Hey we met earlier?

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Speaker 5: Was it just me?

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Speaker 3: Or was there something?

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Speaker 2: But going on to Facebook and liking everyone of some

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Speaker 1: Isn't it weird? How this rule her complaining is a

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Speaker 1: bad thing unless they're hot. Okay, No, what if they

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Speaker 1: did not even think of about how the game's changed,

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Speaker 1: because you're not upset that this handsome guy that just

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Speaker 1: dropped dropped off your shopping has realized that maybe you

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Speaker 1: seem great as well, and that he could contact you.

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Speaker 1: I don't think any single woman would be angry if

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Speaker 1: a hot guy that they'd met for third seconds contacts

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Speaker 1: them out of the blue. If he's ugly, and what

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Speaker 1: if she's in a relationship, Maybe she wasn't. But if

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Speaker 1: he's ugly and creepy, right, he gets to the door,

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Speaker 1: and you know you can tell he's an absolute stinker. Well,

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Speaker 1: then she's not going to be happy that he's grabbed

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Speaker 1: the phone number and decided to make direct contact outside

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Speaker 1: of business services.

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Speaker 2: When I when I first saw BJ, she didn't see me,

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Speaker 2: and I felt, were you a way.

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Speaker 3: Where?

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Speaker 2: At Savvy night Club? She didn't because I was up

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Speaker 2: in the partium and I was just making an absolute

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Speaker 2: fool of myself top off. So anyway, what I did.

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Speaker 2: I did some investigating Sarah, and I found out that

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Speaker 2: her sister was friends with one of my mates. So

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Speaker 2: then I did some investigating, and then there was this conversation, well,

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Speaker 2: how do I approach this? Do I just ring it

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Speaker 2: straight away? Because I could get her number? But that

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Speaker 2: would have been so weird. She didn't even know who

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 1: That's okay.

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Speaker 2: So then it was like we were back in primary

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Speaker 2: what are you guys up to?

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Speaker 2: And then I would get a message back and we

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Speaker 2: found out that they were going to this big party,

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Speaker 2: and then it was all set up. She knew that

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Speaker 2: I was going to be there. She didn't know what

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Speaker 2: to be there, and it was a dress up party,

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Speaker 2: and you had. We went to the op Shop and

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Speaker 2: got these old suits and I just got a little

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Speaker 2: I remember this one moment Sarah, she was with her

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Speaker 1: She looked at me yourself.

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Speaker 4: There was a.

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Speaker 2: Pause and then they all laughed, and then I walked away.

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Speaker 2: Hang on, how how did you get over the line

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Speaker 2: if you were this person? She didn't, she said, because

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Speaker 2: I was dressed in an op Shop suit and I'd

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Speaker 2: had a few to drink, and she said it wasn't

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Speaker 2: really the right night. We ran into each other again,

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Speaker 2: we had a conversation and now I didn't see it

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Speaker 2: for two years. Yeah, for two years.

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Speaker 1: You just thought about her every day every day.

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Speaker 2: But I thought I wasn't a chance. It was really

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Speaker 2: and look through a window every day, jumping balconies.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what. I remember going to the dentist

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Speaker 1: and then the dentist got my phone number and asked

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Speaker 1: if I would donate money to a political party because

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Speaker 1: you had you pull in handsome T shirt one Nation

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Speaker 1: didn't think you are?

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Speaker 2: God did.

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Speaker 1: Make Australia eat again, Hailey. Welcome the show. We move

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Speaker 1: on from that. Did someone get your number at a

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Speaker 1: creepy way holes?

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Speaker 4: Yes, I went to the local pub for the meat

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Speaker 4: raffle and I want to meet Tray And then the

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Speaker 4: I was doing kick On And then the next day

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Speaker 4: I had a message on my phone from the guy

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Speaker 1: Oh, can I drop your meat off?

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Speaker 2: Can you remember him? Hailey? Did you remember him? What

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Speaker 2: I did?

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Speaker 3: I did?

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Speaker 4: But I'm married, so I just sent him a picture

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Speaker 4: of my ring.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Just give me my rash, Just give me my

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Speaker 2: ron steak and let's.

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Speaker 1: Not talk again. Is all a weird exchange?

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Speaker 2: A great way to pick up doing the meat raffle

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Speaker 2: because you're going all right and you're selling the tickets

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Speaker 2: and then you could leave your number. Can you just

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Speaker 2: leave your No, Actually, you're getting everyone's numbers.

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Speaker 1: There you are? Yeah, if you're the meat raffle guy's

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Speaker 1: just not expecting fellows of the ring because Harley wants

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Speaker 3: Hello, Oh, good morning.

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Speaker 1: What's your story?

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Speaker 4: Anne?

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Speaker 3: So, no one got my number in a creepy way,

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Speaker 3: but I guess we got some guys numbers in a

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Speaker 3: creepy way. We go when we were younger about we've

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Speaker 1: I reckon that is amazing and he's really so how

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Speaker 1: many were in the car at the time?

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Speaker 3: An the four four or five of them and there

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Speaker 3: are four or five of us.

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Speaker 1: Right, and you rang and said I don't want your car,

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Speaker 1: I want you guys.

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Speaker 2: So were were they were driving at the time? Did

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Speaker 3: No, like we were playing like Carton mouse. I guess

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that would have been a lot of fun.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it just was anyone any hot trades out there.

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Speaker 2: If you've got your number on your car, you would

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Speaker 1: You're dead right. Maybe it's a great pickup technique just

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Speaker 1: to have a sale sign on your car cars not

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Speaker 1: for sale, and just so you can leave your mobile number.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if a good looking rooster, that would definitely work.

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Speaker 2: I was on a plane once and a girl received

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Speaker 2: an air drop next to me from someone else on

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Speaker 2: the plane saying, I like you one of the great

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Speaker 2: games like it was a crap mean kind of thing

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Speaker 2: with like a Tilly Tubby or something game, I really

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Speaker 2: like you. She didn't know who it was from, right,

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Speaker 2: which was even creepier.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember there was an incident on a flight

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Speaker 1: not long ago fits on that topic where someone was

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Speaker 1: playing the air drop game and the captain came on

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Speaker 1: because they were air dropping really inappropriate photos, and the

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Speaker 1: captain had to come on and say, we will not

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Speaker 1: get there if you continue to play this game, stop

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Speaker 1: air dropping nudes.

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Speaker 2: Tom was banned from Tiger after that.

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Speaker 5: That was it.

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Speaker 2: Tom Claar and Clontage. You've got an opinion on this, Unclaar, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Do think that's really creepy and overstepping the line massively.

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Speaker 3: That was me, I'd beore.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's clear.

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Speaker 1: What about if they're hot though? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, different story there.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, isn't it? Two rules in this world? This is

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Speaker 3: Claire?

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Speaker 1: Isn't there?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: See, well stalking one O one? Tom? Is it? Do

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Speaker 2: you take to What is the best way to approach someone?

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Speaker 2: Can we just ring someone that you don't know and

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Speaker 2: say I'm so sorry to do this, but I saw

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Speaker 2: you the other day and I got your friend number

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Speaker 2: off a friend.

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Speaker 1: Tom the air drop game we played on you. We'll

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Speaker 1: were in London when Tom was at the air talking

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Speaker 1: to that girl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: It had your phone open, she had her phone open,

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Speaker 1: and then we air dropped a photo of your head

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Speaker 1: looking like some seedy dog.

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Speaker 5: Remember that I was having a very nice eage dog

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Speaker 5: with someone I just met, and then my phone lit

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Speaker 5: up with this dog with rabies similar It looked to

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Speaker 5: the why head.

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Speaker 1: But you were both looking at your phones like you're

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Speaker 1: cross checking something. And then you both received the photo

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Speaker 1: of Tom's head and looking like we try.

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Speaker 2: To horn you. Tom. That there was one of those

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Speaker 2: dogs behind you.

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Speaker 1: It's a shame she got the photo as well made

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Speaker 1: I must thank you. You're listening to the Fitzi and

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Speaker 1: Whipper podcast.