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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.

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Speaker 2: I'm at this guy's house and he gets on his

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Speaker 2: electric scooter of his own and he clips on his

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Speaker 2: like blo orange helmet. The helmet, yeah, anyway, he scoops

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Speaker 2: away relatable part.

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Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Audie Clark, ak

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Speaker 3: Mummy and my partner in crime. Fans have labeled him

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Speaker 3: the Lax Jake Craig aka Daddy the Lorax.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, that's a heavy one. That's a heavy one.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's that bad. Has a stash.

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Speaker 4: He does have a Rex has the stash.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't think you can get much bigger.

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Speaker 1: Than honestly, no, you can't. That is a confliment.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you just have to diet red or some orange orange.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I do need a diet. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm semi getting there and it's only going to get

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Speaker 4: looking good. It's looking good.

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Speaker 3: You're looking good, mate, Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: I have an exciting start to the show.

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Speaker 3: Really yeah, that's good to the show.

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Speaker 5: And I think all I got to do is just

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Speaker 5: do it because I we don't you'll notice that I

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Speaker 5: explain something at the start, and so I assume you're

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Speaker 5: kind of guessing where I'm going with this.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna show me a video or something or something

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Speaker 3: that you did. I'm just gonna do a ship way

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Speaker 3: explaining this.

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Speaker 4: Let me you know what, fuck it.

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Speaker 3: I'll you can just show the video. Do it's in

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Speaker 3: your head.

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Speaker 1: Mate, okay video? Okay.

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Speaker 5: Guys to my left is a man of many aliases.

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Speaker 1: Buddy.

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Speaker 5: Some may call him boozy, he gets golden hammer and

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Speaker 5: even a little bit of Gertrude hump, But I call

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Speaker 5: him Dad. Say hello, Dad, Hello, I had the reason

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Speaker 5: I got you on today, Father. So on the podcast,

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Speaker 5: we get anonymous dilemmas sent in, and so people will

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Speaker 5: send in a dilemma about anything like a guy with

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Speaker 5: someone in, about a girl, a girl with someone in

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Speaker 5: about a guy, or like I don't know, they just

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Speaker 5: have like a life advice about UNI, and we just

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Speaker 5: like give our opinion or advice.

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Speaker 1: We got one dilemma and.

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Speaker 5: A girl said that she felt stuck because her dad

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Speaker 5: has been sick like her whole life, and he has

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Speaker 5: been kind of given like an age that he'll most

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Speaker 5: likely make it to and so once she found that out,

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Speaker 5: she was feeling really guilty about doing anything like moving

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Speaker 5: out or going traveling. She was like, I just want

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Speaker 5: to spend time with my dad and now. And Addie

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Speaker 5: related to it because his dad was diagnosed with cancer

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Speaker 5: a couple of years ago and he's in remission now,

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Speaker 5: which is good. But what he related to it a lot,

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Speaker 5: and so he gave some good advice. But then he

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Speaker 5: thought he'd sit down with his dad. So he sat

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Speaker 5: down with his dad, he said, gave him that little spiel,

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Speaker 5: and then he just kind of like told him the

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Speaker 5: advice that he gave and his dad just gave some

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Speaker 5: good stuff. But we're not in that situation, thank god,

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Speaker 5: Thank goodness. No, thank god, we're not in that situation.

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Speaker 5: But you are actually moving, yeah, very soon to Queensland.

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Speaker 5: And so I thought I worked it out and I'm

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Speaker 5: not trying to make anything grim or anything like that,

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Speaker 5: but so let's say you live to ninety, pretty good life.

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Speaker 1: You take ninety closer? Yeah, I take that. You take

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Speaker 1: ninety yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5: So I worked it out, and let's say if you

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Speaker 5: live to ninety, which is a good life, and then

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Speaker 5: let's say when you move, like on a good year,

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Speaker 5: maybe we can do Joanna and myself. We'll see you guys,

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Speaker 5: probably six times. I feel like, like if that's if

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Speaker 5: we don't ever move to Queensland. Yeah, but let's just

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Speaker 5: like for the arguments, like I say, we never moved

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Speaker 5: to Queensland, and so we'll probably see you guys like

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Speaker 5: six times, maybe some good years more some less when

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Speaker 5: we get older and maybe have family and that. So

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Speaker 5: it worked it out, and so we might it'd be

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Speaker 5: like two hundred and thirty four more times that we

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Speaker 5: see each other, right, and so again, not to make.

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Speaker 1: It grim, but.

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Speaker 5: I kind of wanted to ask, now, knowing that, what

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Speaker 5: are your thoughts on our relationship and would you want

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Speaker 5: anything to change or would you want anything more from it?

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Speaker 6: Well, the most important thing to me is that you're happy. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: So I don't think seeing me two hundred and thirty

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Speaker 6: times matters, No, I really don't.

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Speaker 1: No, good point. Actually, wow, I never thought of it

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Speaker 6: As long as you're doing what you want to do,

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Speaker 6: it's it'll be fine.

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Speaker 1: Good answer, I suppose. Yeah, I mean I couldn't.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't think of a better answer. And so as

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Speaker 5: of right now, I can't say I've thought or that

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Speaker 6: Tell you obviously have.

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Speaker 5: Today I thought, like I have questions, actually asked, but

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Speaker 5: do you reckon? Would you change anything about our relationship

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Speaker 5: or would you want anything more?

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Speaker 6: Ah answer honestly no, I wouldn't change anything about our

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Speaker 6: relationship neither. No.

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Speaker 5: Next question I found this one I thought semi deeply about.

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Speaker 5: Because we live five minutes from each other, right, we

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Speaker 5: could go I don't want to speak for you, but

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Speaker 5: we could go like a month without seeing each other.

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Speaker 5: I mean, we have before, and I wouldn't say I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 5: I miss my dad. And I think it's because it's

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Speaker 5: like I know that you're either a phone call away

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Speaker 1: Minute drive away. Right.

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Speaker 1: Now, I was thinking a bit, and I was thinking.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I was wondering, like thinking, am I

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Speaker 5: going to miss like Dad the kids when you guys

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Speaker 5: leave and it'll most likely be a few months between

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Speaker 5: every time we see each other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I wanted to ask you whether or.

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Speaker 5: Not you've thought about that, or whether or not you

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Speaker 5: think you'll miss maybe Juanna and myself.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, of course, Yeah, yeah, yeah, we've definitely thought about that.

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Speaker 1: But you guys are.

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Speaker 6: Adults and you're living your own life, and I think

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Speaker 6: I think the time we spend together will be different, yeah,

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Speaker 6: because it won't be as often, it'll be somewhere else

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Speaker 6: that like, it'll be like when we spend time together,

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Speaker 6: you'll actually probably be staying with us. It'll just be different. Oh,

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Speaker 6: I hear you actually and and you never know you

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Speaker 6: might move there?

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Speaker 5: I mean true, Yeah, I mean we will more than

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Speaker 5: likely move there. This is all argument's sake of if

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Speaker 5: we don't. Yeah, that's a good point actually, like when

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Speaker 6: Speaking, was it'd just be different anyway or.

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Speaker 3: Quality to them.

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Speaker 5: Now that was kind of like the only things I

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Speaker 5: We're gonna leave, like the dilemma we got about like

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Speaker 5: being sick or missing family or stuff like that, And

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Speaker 5: I thought I'd just go with maybe some advice. Okay,

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Speaker 5: So a lot of people's biggest fear is divorce. Right now,

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Speaker 5: you've had one divorce obviously depels. But I've always thought

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Speaker 5: it's like a very I've always really looked up to

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Speaker 5: or admired your marriage with Kate, and so that's your

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Speaker 5: and that's your second marriage, and obviously it's like a

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Speaker 5: big thing. So I was saying, do you have any

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Speaker 5: advice on anyone that's like either scared to take a

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Speaker 6: Oh, they're very different questions. Let's go with so with

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Speaker 6: your life first, well, with anyone. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 6: your partner has to be your best friend, I think,

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Speaker 6: and there has to be massive respect there. But I

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Speaker 6: wouldn't not like if if you're in love with someone

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Speaker 6: and you want to get married and you're only young,

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Speaker 6: and you think to yourself, oh shit, I might get divorced.

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Speaker 6: I don't think I think you've got to get married.

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Speaker 6: I think you've got to if you know a lot

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Speaker 6: of people get divorced and you move on, I mean,

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Speaker 6: good point, it's just another break up, like like it's

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Speaker 6: part of it's part of life. If you know, there's

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Speaker 6: so many different reasons why people get divorced, it's not

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Speaker 5: Just ah, good point, Like you were I mean, then

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Speaker 5: you've had like rough times in life, but like, if

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Speaker 5: you look back, would you change anything, Nona? Because everything

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Speaker 5: I guess leads to this point. Yeah, interesting, I like it.

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Speaker 7: Well.

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Speaker 6: The thing, you know what makes that different, I think

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Speaker 6: is because you've had children, Like if I changed anything,

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Speaker 6: I might not have all my children.

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Speaker 5: Good points, And I don't know what it's like to

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Speaker 5: it's because there's obviously things in my life that I

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Speaker 6: Also, you can't worry about what happened in the past.

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Speaker 5: Nah, fair enough to move forward the point when you

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Speaker 5: started your company, Okay, correct me if I'm wrong, but

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Speaker 5: you had a stable job.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you had three kids with a fourth on the way.

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Speaker 6: I may have had two with a third on the way.

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Speaker 1: Two with a third on the way. What made you.

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Speaker 5: Starry's just as bad as three with the fourth on

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Speaker 5: the way. Basically had two with two more on the way.

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Speaker 5: What made you take the leap or like the risk

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Speaker 5: to make I guess no money in the hopes that

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Speaker 5: it would work.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's pretty easy.

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Speaker 6: Really, I didn't have anything, so there's nothing oh, but.

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Speaker 5: I mean like you had you had two kids, obviously overseas,

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Speaker 5: but then you had Kate and Hailey or Hailey on

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Speaker 5: the way that you'd like, obviously you have to feed them.

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Speaker 1: Yep, yeah, yeah, true. Oh I just backed myself.

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Speaker 6: I yeah, right.

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Speaker 1: So like.

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Speaker 5: Just then sorry, we laughed over and I said I

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Speaker 6: But the thing, well, what's your question though.

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Speaker 5: Is like when is there a moment a time where

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Speaker 5: you thought like, oh yeah, like it's like I'm not

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Speaker 5: scared to take the leap now, or like was it

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Speaker 6: Or oh I don't remember it being scary? No, No,

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Speaker 6: I don't, I don't. It was very it was a

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Speaker 6: very strong feeling that's what I wanted to do. I

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Speaker 6: don't remember having any second thoughts about doing it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Right. How long was it until you made any money?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? We were pretty lucky, I would say within three years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 6: But I well, we we definitely did without for a while,

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Speaker 6: mum and Dad's house yeah, but we never we never

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Speaker 5: Do you think this wasn't even a question or to ask?

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Speaker 1: No important thing to us. No. No, I've never even

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Speaker 1: So do parents. It's yes on the answer. I have

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Speaker 5: Kate's in here to everybody this MU still love you

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Speaker 3: I think maybe like an impacting factor would be like

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Speaker 3: that's one thing that he's really good about my dad,

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Speaker 5: Like he said, he likes money. Obviously money wouldn't fucking

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Speaker 5: like it if you had it. Yeah, but yeah, he

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Speaker 4: Really, you guys lived in a garage.

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Speaker 1: You couldn't fucking afford your friend.

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Speaker 1: I was like, fucking I'm making this sound good.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And Kate at the end of it, we're just

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Speaker 5: you see them is like, so last night, like Joanna

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Speaker 5: So it's like, is one of those visits equal to

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Speaker 5: And I was like, that's such a good point, Like

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Speaker 3: It's just like step back, let them do their thing, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and they'll figure it out, like I'm sure, like you

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Speaker 3: he's basically like it's as simple as that, which is

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Speaker 3: I think his like analogy as well was just like

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, fair, and like I mean he'll they'll fucking

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, you know.

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Speaker 3: Very very interesting because my like you know how people

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Speaker 5: I was going to say, like I didn't I was

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Speaker 5: I'm scared of it, and he was just like, shit happens.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, shit does happen?

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Speaker 5: That's just life, because like, yeah, if you think about it,

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Speaker 5: fucking break up. Like yeah, it's worse, Like it's more financial.

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Speaker 5: It's financially different to just a break up with a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: But it's like it's just like life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that happens in life.

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Speaker 1: These things happen in life. If you get to stay

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Speaker 3: I bet we sound so immature right now because that's

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Speaker 3: Eh, That's it's so cool to see like our parents

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he just he's honestly, like even thinking back after

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Speaker 3: Like he's never been like that.

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Speaker 1: And even when I was.

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Speaker 5: Like unhappy doing my apprenticeship, as much as he wanted

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, well, I think what good takeaway is like

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Speaker 3: do whatever. But like, if you don't believe in your

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Speaker 1: You can do you can do.

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Speaker 3: Whatever you want in the world, literally whatever you want.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, it's better to love what you do than

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Speaker 5: and I mean if you're the type of person that

441
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:44,040
Speaker 5: does like to yeah, like you have a salary, Like,

442
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:45,879
Speaker 5: if you're the type of most that loves that, then like,

443
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,879
Speaker 5: don't let anyone else say that that's not the right

444
00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:50,919
Speaker 5: thing to do as well. Like the right thing for

445
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:54,360
Speaker 5: my dad was to take the risk and do it,

446
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,600
Speaker 5: but for some people, the right thing to do is to.

447
00:20:56,520 --> 00:21:00,159
Speaker 3: Not Yeah, exactly. And it's funny how you were like, oh,

448
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 3: he's got you had two kids and one on the way,

449
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 3: Like what you took the risk of quitting your job

450
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,399
Speaker 3: to do that, and he's just like, yeah, I did.

451
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,640
Speaker 5: It was like yeah, well I didn't have anything. Yeah,

452
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 5: Like you have the fucking mouse to feed, mate, fucking.

453
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 4: Child's supporting to pay.

454
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 3: Maybe that's that's a good outlook. It's just like like

455
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:20,640
Speaker 3: I wanted to do it, so I didn't.

456
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

457
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,399
Speaker 4: I think something about that's mad motivating to me.

458
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,199
Speaker 3: People get caught up in the numbers, like I've got

459
00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 3: rent to pay, I've got a car. Yeah, I bet

460
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 3: you we had all those things. He's got a family

461
00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:30,720
Speaker 3: to feed, but he's just like, I just did it.

462
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:31,239
Speaker 1: I know.

463
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 4: Something about that to me is so motivating of just

464
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:34,639
Speaker 4: like it's so simple.

465
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,040
Speaker 3: But I back to myself, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

466
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 3: I think that's how you got to be, which is

467
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 3: so inspiring, so inspiring.

468
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 5: Oh funny, we were going to talk about divorce next,

469
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 5: but I think that's kind of shifted my ideologies a

470
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 5: little bit. What would you before you knew we were

471
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 5: going to talk about divorce, Like, before you even knew,

472
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 5: I was going to say that, did you have anything

473
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 5: you were going to come in with knowing well, I.

474
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 3: Think we can talk about it in two contexts, one

475
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 3: being divorce as in your parents or you, And that's

476
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 3: what I was. I'm still I'm less scared after hearing.

477
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 1: Your dad same.

478
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 3: I'm kind of like I'm gonna get married yea, because

479
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 3: it's just life. But I was I was going to

480
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,959
Speaker 3: say that divorce is one of my biggest fears because

481
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,120
Speaker 3: it's opening your heart up fully. But I also wanted

482
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 3: to talk about how we view seeing someone whose parents

483
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 3: are divorced, which you and me come from two completely

484
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:29,880
Speaker 3: different backgrounds. Yeah, because your mum and dad are divorced

485
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 3: in mine have been together for I don't know, maybe

486
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,840
Speaker 3: twenty seven thirty years something of that, it must be nice.

487
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 3: But do you think there's anything different in dating someone

488
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 3: who's from a family of divorce. It sounds so mean,

489
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 3: like the way at home.

490
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:44,920
Speaker 1: Man.

491
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 4: That is a good question, because I definitely.

492
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,120
Speaker 3: Think like there's nothing you can do about it. Also,

493
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 3: I'm not saying like it's a bad thing if your

494
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 3: parents are divorced, Like it's not completely out.

495
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 1: Of your control. Mine divorce guys.

496
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But I definitely think you're probably like

497
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 3: a good little example of the way you view love

498
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 3: was changed because you saw divorce.

499
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. I used to be pretty I used to be

500
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 1: very pessimistic about it.

501
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 3: Well, I think I'm gonna take a little bit of credit.

502
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 3: But because you found the person you really love and

503
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 3: you were exposed to the podcast and me being so

504
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 3: lovey dully Doby, I remember a year ago you never

505
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 3: wanted to get married. No, you can't understand the podcast

506
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 3: is definitely you didn't want any kids, and I think

507
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:29,399
Speaker 3: those ideologies do come because you've scarred a little bit

508
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 3: from divorce.

509
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've like fully will openly talk about that.

510
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 3: And I was gonna say before you did say anything,

511
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 3: my only opinion on divorce is it changes your views

512
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 3: on love. And but if you find someone you truly love,

513
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 3: I think all those scars and trauma from divorce do

514
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 3: slowly dissipate just because love conquers all, which is cliche,

515
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:56,199
Speaker 3: but I think it really does. And you're like the

516
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 3: perfect example. A year ago, you're like, no, I don't

517
00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 3: know if I want to get married. Man, Like I'm

518
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:01,239
Speaker 3: just I didn't even know if I want a kid.

519
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 3: So you're like, I just I just want to be

520
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 3: with for the rest of my life. But being exposed

521
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 3: to this things, all the conversations we say, and then

522
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 3: finding a girl who's perfect for you, you've changed your

523
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 3: mind and said, no, I want to marry this woman. Yeah,

524
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 3: And I think that's probably going back off what your

525
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 3: dad said. And it's just like you'll just do it,

526
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 3: like your ideology will just be a little switch one

527
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 3: day and like, fuck, I could marry this woman and

528
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:22,160
Speaker 3: not overthink it.

529
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 5: Yeah, as scary as it is, is like my I

530
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,679
Speaker 5: definitely think of my mind's altering, and it's more or

531
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 5: less like, you know, if I want to do what,

532
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 5: I'm going to do it. Because like we decided not

533
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 5: to go back to work when we because we went

534
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 5: to Bali for two months because we like saved our

535
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,719
Speaker 5: money and went we weren't making any money from the podcast. Yeah,

536
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 5: and then when we got home, we still weren't making

537
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 5: money from the podcast, but it was like in our sights, yeah,

538
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 5: and we were like, Okay.

539
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 1: Fuck it, let's not go back to work.

540
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,679
Speaker 5: Let's just like keep doing this, yeah, and just like

541
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 5: work it out and do stuff here and there to

542
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 5: just like get by pay rent blah blah blah. And

543
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 5: not for a second did I think that was a

544
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 5: bad choice. Never did I, you know, not at all.

545
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 5: We didn't say so we give all this advice of

546
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,400
Speaker 5: like people wanting to go start their own and we're

547
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 5: just like just fucking do it. Like it's not scary

548
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:03,719
Speaker 5: when you know you want to do it, and if

549
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 5: you know you want to do it, you're gonna work

550
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 5: it out. So it's like when you're thinking about maybe

551
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 5: getting into a relationship. You really want to do it,

552
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 5: but you're worried about people's opinions. You're worried about getting

553
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 5: heart broken. You're read about this that.

554
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 3: It's human nature to overthink. And I think the best

555
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 3: takeaway from your dad's conversation was just like, as Nike

556
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 3: would say, just do it.

557
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 4: Just back is it's so main My dad said that.

558
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: Imagine.

559
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 5: I was like, I was like, oh, so, like you

560
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 5: took restart your business, just took after Nike.

561
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,959
Speaker 1: I just did it. He said that.

562
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 3: Truly we're having a joke, But conversations like our brain

563
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 3: is just like overthinks everything. Yeah, even your brain was

564
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 3: doing it, but thinking about how your dad did it,

565
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 3: and like love, divorce, everything like that, prenups, fucking where's

566
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 3: your money go after this? Starting a business? Love, don't

567
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 3: overthink it. Take that leap of faith, because what the reward,

568
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 3: The rewards you reap on the other side of that

569
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 3: are better than anything you can do by not opening

570
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 3: yourself up to that, I think, which is so cool.

571
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 5: It's dead school, it's cool, it's scary, and it's just

572
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 5: I don't know. I've been thinking more and more lately

573
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:12,120
Speaker 5: about I don't even know, like what topic. It would

574
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 5: be just like more and more about I guess life

575
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 5: in general, and it's like just.

576
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 1: So fucking cliche. But it's like just doing what you

577
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: want to do.

578
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so so.

579
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 4: Fucking cliche, and you hear it from everyone, and I'm

580
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 4: really trying to think of a better way.

581
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 1: To just like get it out there, but it's like, oh,

582
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 1: I don't even know how to fucking.

583
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 3: I know what you're saying, but I feel like it'd

584
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 3: be hard for a lot of people listening to know

585
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 3: what you're saying. It's sort of like we interact with

586
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:47,119
Speaker 3: all our friends or we have called with businesses and brands,

587
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 3: and they'll always be like, oh okay for Friday, la

588
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 3: la la la la. But then we'll get in other circles.

589
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 3: And your dad's definitely in that circle. But your dad

590
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 3: loves life and yeah, I know, yeah he Quie. He's

591
00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 3: never like I fuck got to go to work today.

592
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 3: And it's like getting your mindset to be in that

593
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 3: position where you love what you do and it's so cliche.

594
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 3: I just do what you want to do, But it

595
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 3: is like just do it and back yourself and make

596
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 3: it work. Yeah, you just your mind plays tricks on you,

597
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 3: but it's learning to not listen to your mind.

598
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think one thing I like to point

599
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 1: out is like.

600
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 5: Very very appreciative that our families are the way they are.

601
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,439
Speaker 5: You know, Like I've never felt judgment from immediate family,

602
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 5: and I do think that if I had had constant

603
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 5: judgment from immediate family, I would be a very different person.

604
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 5: So I would just like, I know, some people do

605
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 5: get that. So like a lot of people do get that,

606
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 5: Like your parents, they have this thing that they think

607
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 5: their kids should do, and if you don't do it,

608
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 5: you go do your own thing, they do judge you

609
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,439
Speaker 5: and maybe they cut you out. And so when we

610
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 5: do say like go do what you want to do,

611
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:56,959
Speaker 5: it's your life, blah blah blah. I do want to

612
00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 5: point out that I'm very appreciative of, Like, yeah, maybe

613
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 5: it was easier because we have those type of family,

614
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 5: And I think maybe we're the type of people that

615
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 5: if our families were more judgmental and opinionated, I think

616
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 5: either we would have taken longer to do it, or

617
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 5: we still would have done it. I don't know, but yeah,

618
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 5: just very very apprecitive, very appreciaive.

619
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 3: It's very circumstantial, and it can be a lot harder

620
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 3: for people to do what they want to do just

621
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 3: because of the impact of all your parents, friends, blah

622
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 3: blah blah. Because I know heaps of people if they

623
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 3: wanted to do what we did, their friends would give

624
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 3: them so much shit. Yeah, and like that impacts you

625
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 3: more than you know, especially for like girls too. I

626
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 3: know a lot of girls would want to start social

627
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 3: media things. I don't know. I just feel like, especially

628
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 3: in high school and stuff, like boys are the same,

629
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 3: but everyone around you is so judgmental. It's learning to

630
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 3: not listen to them or get in like be nice

631
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 3: to your friends. Like if they're trying, they're putting themselves

632
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 3: out there and doing things that they're obviously doing it

633
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 3: for a reason. They're not just there to be like,

634
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 3: oh I want to be fucking famous. No, they're doing

635
00:28:58,520 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 3: it because they have a passion for it. Like you

636
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 3: got understand that they're not just doing it because they

637
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 3: want to be the next fucking sofa dofa. They're doing

638
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 3: it because they have a passion for video creating, and

639
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 3: you should support them. Same goes for any friendship group.

640
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 3: You shouldn't give them shit because you don't know how

641
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 3: much your friendship, group and family impacts you. And we're

642
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 3: both appreciated that our friends, most of our friends and

643
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 3: family are very supportive. And we're also just like good

644
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 3: at like not listening to people.

645
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: Good point, like having both of us. Yeah, it's a

646
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: little it's a protective bubble.

647
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, because like everyone's gonna cop shit no

648
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 3: matter what you do, so it's just learning to listen

649
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 3: to them and finding your own way through life.

650
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: Definitely go out there and fucking yeah kill it.

651
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 3: Yeah to the moon. Okay, guys. Up next is Confession Sessions. Yes,

652
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:52,719
Speaker 3: this one is funny. It's been a while too, and

653
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 3: I think it has a good representation of men. Not

654
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 3: in a good way though.

655
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 5: No, I mean like not that he was like a

656
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 5: bad dude, but just men as in like areas that

657
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 5: we struggle.

658
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Speaker 3: It's relatable for men, relatable for men, also relatable for women.

659
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Speaker 5: Yeah, So if you guys want to before we get

660
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Speaker 5: into it, if you would.

661
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Speaker 1: Like to enter a confession.

662
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Speaker 5: Yes, there will be a link in the description of

663
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Speaker 5: this episode, and there will be a link in our

664
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 5: Instagram bio where you can go in. You put all

665
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Speaker 5: your details in and yeah, but otherwise please enjoy.

666
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Speaker 2: Hello Sus Jamison.

667
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 4: Hello, welcome to Confession Sessions.

668
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Speaker 1: How's it going good?

669
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 4: Thanks you guys, really good.

670
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Speaker 1: Thank you.

671
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 3: I'm good too, Thanks for coming on.

672
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Speaker 1: We would quickly actually like to ask, so you actually

673
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: answered with your name? Are you happy for your real

674
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: name to be in this? Oh?

675
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, fine, okay, too easy.

676
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 5: Well welcome. One question we also have is no problem

677
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Speaker 5: at all? What prompt would you.

678
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: Call your confession?

679
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 2: Pardon? Sorry?

680
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: What prompt would you call? What title? What subject?

681
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 2: I think you guys did like a like a segment

682
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 2: a few weeks ago. It's like bad date ideas, I guess,

683
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 2: so I guess it's kind of similar vibe. So yeah,

684
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 2: bad date, bad hook up experience.

685
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 1: Love it. Well, we're here to listen.

686
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 5: We might chime in, but take it from the top

687
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 5: and yeah, give us all the details.

688
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 2: I'm sure you probably already read it. But what happened

689
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 2: is I was recently single, so I'd broke up my boyfriend,

690
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 2: you know, gone out in with the girls in Melbourne

691
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 2: for the first time in a while. Yeah, hot girl, error,

692
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 2: hot girl summer winter anyway, but yeah, we're going out

693
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 2: to girls and a great night. This guy comes up

694
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 2: to me, you know, office, buy me some drinks, having

695
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 2: a little dance. It's all going well, cheeky kiss here

696
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 2: and there, you know, so I don't know how much anyway,

697
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 2: so we're going to go. He takes us to take

698
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 2: me home, so I'm like, okay, I'll come home with

699
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 2: his shop because again, hot girl, some a bit of fun.

700
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 3: Why that's all we want?

701
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 2: Scandal, I know. Anyway, So we get home and you know,

702
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 2: things are a bit then you know he did I

703
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 2: guess you could say, and I do my part, but

704
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 2: before I say anything, I'm not one to judge, like

705
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 2: at all, how quick things last. I don't care like whatever,

706
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 2: but this was very quick, and you know, I thought, oh,

707
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 2: it's okay, like it's all good, I'll be nice whatever,

708
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 2: thinking things we reciprocated. It was not so anyway, Yeah, yeah.

709
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 3: I know.

710
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 2: And then after all that, he proceeds to put on

711
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 2: his matching pajamas.

712
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Speaker 3: How old are you, by the way or him?

713
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm twenty two.

714
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 3: I was thinking eighteen.

715
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: You might be able to get.

716
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 6: Away over it.

717
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 2: I'm too and he was like maybe twenty five.

718
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Speaker 8: Oh yeah anyway, so yeah, and also to paint the picture,

719
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 8: it was like matching funnels.

720
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Speaker 1: It feels like Christmas.

721
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 2: I know, I know it's a bit of an ick,

722
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 2: but again, this is like really late at night. I thought,

723
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm going to go to sleep. I'll

724
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 2: get up early in a couple of an hour or

725
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 2: two and leave. Next morning rolls around, I'm ready to

726
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,239
Speaker 2: getting ready to go, and he's like, no, no, let

727
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 2: me take you home. And I was like, it's fine,

728
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 2: I'll give an uber and he insists, which I mean

729
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 2: he gets points for that. It was very nice.

730
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Speaker 3: Then, yeah, gentleman, Yeah, got to get point three.

731
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 2: Can He gets out to the front and there's no

732
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 2: car there and he's like, oh, shure left the car

733
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: train station. Let me run and grab it again. I'm

734
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: insisting I catch an uber home. Anyway, you know, he

735
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 2: insist he drives me. I'm thinking he's going to walk

736
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 2: around the corner. No, I'm at this guy's house and

737
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 2: he gets on his electric scooter of his own and

738
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 2: he clips on his like bluro orrings helmet and the

739
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: helmet gets worse. Yeah, anyway, and he scoops away.

740
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 4: I know how that I'm loving the confidence from this guy.

741
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you.

742
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 3: He doesn't give.

743
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,959
Speaker 2: That's really nice. So, like, you know, he was nice.

744
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 2: It was just a walking man.

745
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 3: I think I get when they say he's too nice. Yeah,

746
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 3: he's doing all these things around the outside as well.

747
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 3: That's funny.

748
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 5: Yeah.

749
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 2: And then finally gets his car and guess what car

750
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 2: he has?

751
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 3: What like I gets.

752
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 2: Twitter croller?

753
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 3: Oh he savings you what he's doing. It's all about

754
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 3: that economy exactly.

755
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 2: And then it takes me home and that's nice of him.

756
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 2: And he did an awkward little side hug and he's like, oh,

757
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 2: I'll talk you soon, and I went, yeah, for sure.

758
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 5: Nothing has he tried to message you, no, but he

759
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 5: does like the instant stories.

760
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 2: Apologies, Yeah I can't.

761
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 3: He's waiting for round two, he is.

762
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 1: He's waiting to see you on the night out again.

763
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 2: Good thing. I don't live in Melbourne, so oh.

764
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 1: That is a good thing.

765
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 5: Actually, I wanted to ask, so when you said you

766
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,240
Speaker 5: did your part, did you guys?

767
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: Did you were you?

768
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 5: Was it like, did you have sex and it just

769
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 5: didn't last long at all? Or did you just like

770
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 5: give him head and he didn't last.

771
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 2: Long for them that I just gave him head and

772
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 2: it finished very quickly.

773
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 1: That was a.

774
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: Recipation.

775
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 3: I was reading it, Yeah, sex, and he like lasted

776
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 3: two seconds.

777
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: I was going to say.

778
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, like if it had been a long time for him,

779
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 5: but at least like trying to say, like give me

780
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 5: ten minutes and like we'll go again, like oh I

781
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 5: go down.

782
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 4: On like oh yeah, go down on you?

783
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.

784
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 4: No.

785
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 2: It was like nothing, I mean and even then actually

786
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: asked what to mention this thanks even better like Sunnier

787
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: he gets in little pajamas and go, jeez, I'm tired.

788
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 2: I like what.

789
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 3: You're probably did, Like this older man is going to

790
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 3: show me like how.

791
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 2: Exactly that was my exact thought. I was like, you

792
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 2: know what, maybe that's my issue. I go guys my

793
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 2: age and you go for someone older.

794
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 3: And as soon as that happens, yeah, you need to

795
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 3: just stick to your age. It's all lucky.

796
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 2: I thought it was. I thought it was too funny

797
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 2: not to share.

798
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: So no, thank you very much, Thank you very much.

799
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: That's a good one.

800
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 3: Have a good rest of your day, and thanks for

801
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 3: coming on again.

802
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 2: No, thank you for letting me share.

803
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 7: I thought it was hilarious, so heavy man, because I

804
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 7: got to say, like, not the exact situation, but like

805
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 7: been there for not lasting long.

806
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 4: Every guy's been there for not lasting but.

807
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 3: One hundred percent, say give me ten minutes or I

808
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 3: reciprocate it and go down on them.

809
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've always kind of just yeah, you can't.

810
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 3: That's also a little hack out there. My trick's always

811
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 3: been go down on them first, make them come, and

812
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 3: then get into it. And if you come real quickly,

813
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 3: she's already come and you both went.

814
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:11,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

815
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 5: But even also yeah, good tactic is to you know,

816
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,240
Speaker 5: go down someone first, because it's like also it's.

817
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 3: Part of a build up, yeah, exactly.

818
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,359
Speaker 5: And then in their head, like in their subconscious like

819
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 5: even if you don't last long at all during like

820
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 5: actual intercourse.

821
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 3: That's my four plays a thing.

822
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 5: They're like the four play makes it feel like it

823
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 5: was a lot longer. So then they're not as like

824
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 5: judgmental because I'm trying to think, like, imagine if he

825
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 5: was like bomb Mass, like he had the best dick ever,

826
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 5: he lasted ages like made her finish and everything like that, right,

827
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 5: she probably wouldn't have given a fuck that he wrote

828
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 5: a scooter Like she probably would have like thought about

829
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 5: the scooter like, oh he rode a scooter. But also

830
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 5: she was probably that dick was good. I think she

831
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,360
Speaker 5: wouldn't give about the scooter.

832
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,319
Speaker 3: But anyone that rides as scooter wouldn't have a dick.

833
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 3: That's good.

834
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 5: Fair.

835
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 3: Anyone that wears matching pajamas wouldn't have a dick, that's good.

836
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 5: He's the things like I own matching pajamas, and you

837
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:03,399
Speaker 5: wouldn't wear it on one night stand?

838
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 3: Would Oh?

839
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 4: No, not into one I stand?

840
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: No like that, even when I I don't. I don't think.

841
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 5: I think I've only worn them as a set like

842
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 5: once or twice. I always just wear the bottoms and

843
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 5: then a shirt.

844
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. When you're in a one night stand, like you

845
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 3: put like just boxes on or keep your undies.

846
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, just yeah, when you're on one night stand, just

847
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 4: keep your undies, go to bed in your undies.

848
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, like because you're probably wearing Calvin's dude.

849
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, offer her some of your undies, Yeah.

850
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 3: Footy pants or something. Yeah.

851
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 1: This man was I'll tell you what it was. Probably

852
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: just because he was happy.

853
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 4: He was clearly quite content. Oh I'm tired.

854
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 3: I feel like this guy doesn't happen to him too often.

855
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:43,479
Speaker 1: No, I don't think it does.

856
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 3: So like he's like.

857
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, he says to his mates, like, you should have

858
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 4: seen me last night.

859
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 3: I was on fire.

860
00:38:55,239 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 5: I apologized to Jamison for that happening, she said, Jamison, Yeah.

861
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,479
Speaker 3: I apologized to girls who have to go through that facts. Yeah.

862
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, apologies to my girlfriend who has sometimes been it's

863
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,320
Speaker 5: different when you're dating because you like it.

864
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

865
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 4: True.

866
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 1: All right, guys, we hope you enjoyed this episode.

867
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 5: Remember to go to the Facebook group five stars on Spotify,

868
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 5: patreons five dollars a month. So I've got a new way.

869
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 5: I'm going to start out trying the episode. You can

870
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 5: up your eyes now. Sorry, I had to hit it downright.

871
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: I bought a little present for the studio. Actually, the

872
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:39,720
Speaker 1: studio bought itself a president.

873
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 4: You're half of this, but okay, I found I think

874
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 4: it was just some TikTok that I saw and then

875
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 4: I went found it.

876
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 5: I forgot that I bought it a while ago, bought

877
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 5: like a month ago, right.

878
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 3: And certainly just come.

879
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I bought us a book, oh okay.

880
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 4: And the book is called one hundred and nine Things

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Speaker 4: to Say to Shatter the Male Ego, how to Piss

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Speaker 4: Man Off, And it's by Kyle Prue.

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Speaker 1: And I'll read the back quickly.

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Speaker 4: Be no man's peace, oh really says, have you ever

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Speaker 4: been badgered by an annoying pickup artist at the bar?

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Speaker 4: Ever felt a burning desire to emotionally torture a friend's boyfriend?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever endured just talking to a man before?

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Speaker 1: If so, then this book is for you.

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Speaker 5: With more than one hundred phrases, questions, and comebacks, How

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Speaker 5: to Piss Men Off is your essential guide to sending

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Speaker 5: even the most relentless man's planner into an existential crisis,

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Speaker 5: whether it's referring to his expensive NFL jerseys as cosplay

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Speaker 5: or letting him know he has the confidence.

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Speaker 4: Of a much taller man. This handbook will ensure your

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Speaker 4: equipped to combat toxic masculinity in any situation. This is

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Speaker 4: something weird, right, It's fucking amazing.

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Speaker 5: From challenge amazing all right, So it says, this one's

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Speaker 5: a classic total banger. It's been putting numbers on the

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Speaker 5: board since the formation of Indo European in languages, and

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Speaker 5: it's just quote no.

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Speaker 4: Oh, the power is saying no. That's a good interest

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Speaker 4: of the book. I like that, So come back on Wednesday, guys.

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Speaker 1: And the end of that one you'll get Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Another way to shuttle some mail EGO. It's one hundred

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Speaker 3: and eight more were sorted. Thanks everybody for listening. We'll

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Speaker 3: see you on Wednesday.