1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: It sits in with her with podcast. 2 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 2: Welcome to the podcast, guys. An exciting episode for the 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:11,799 Speaker 2: podcast and the team. I'd like to label this if 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 2: you don't mind selfishly celebrating my wife happy birthday, Lisa, Oh, selfish. 5 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 3: That's the least selfish thing you've done in a very 6 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 3: love to celebrate, very very long time. 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 2: I thought it was making you four coffees a day. 8 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 2: But that's all right, let's don't have four coffees a 9 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 2: day through let's celebrate my wife's birthday. And I had 10 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 2: to sit at home and think hard about the one 11 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 2: thing that she wants and do you know what, guys, 12 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 2: I went out and did it for her. I got 13 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 2: the job done. 14 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 3: You packed your bag good. An uber to Central station. 15 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 2: Was on the Richmond line. I'm gone, guys, into the world. 16 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 4: You've had a shower, have you hurt? 17 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: No, I'm a regular shower. That's not what it is. 18 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 2: From ear to ear is how I would describe her smile. Guys. 19 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 2: She is so happy with what's all? 20 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 3: Nothing? Then so cute. 21 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 4: From happy from ear. 22 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: To ear is the size of the smile that I've 23 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 2: planted on my wife's face due to my very very 24 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 2: generous birthday gift. 25 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 3: God, just tell us what it is you you'll hear. 26 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 2: It on the pod. You'll hear it on the podcast. 27 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 2: This is the Fitz and. 28 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 4: Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast. 29 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 5: We are the radio station and the radio show that 30 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 5: is also known as the Real estate Agent Appreciation Show. 31 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 4: Well, we love talking about real estate agents a new 32 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 4: one and their honesty and. 33 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 3: You love this what's the what's the what's the account 34 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 3: that you like to have a little look at. 35 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 4: Fits Lords of Property? 36 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 5: Okay, great, one of the best, one of the best 37 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 5: of all time if you ever want to have a 38 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 5: bit of a laugh on Instagram. Okay, So, young lady, 39 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 5: you know and I understand. When you're a real estate agent, 40 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 5: you're trying. 41 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 4: To get you're new to Sydney. 42 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:04,279 Speaker 5: You trying to get people excited and you know, coming 43 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 5: to you to maybe come and. 44 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 4: Purchase their first home. 45 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 3: So she's selling dreams. 46 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 5: You are selling dreams first home buyers. This is a 47 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 5: great buy. She's found a great suburb which she thinks 48 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 5: is only thirty minutes out of Sydney. I have a 49 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 5: listened to her pitch here. Let's have her listen. 50 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 6: I've legit found an apartment in Sydney. That's going for 51 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 6: four sixty five. That's two bedrooms. Apparently, it's thirty minutes 52 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 6: from the CBD. It's in Guildford, So any of my 53 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 6: Sydney people that have some insights on the area feel 54 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 6: free to comment below. It's two bedrooms, it's modern, and 55 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 6: at four sixty five it may be more affordable. 56 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: For some first home buyers. I'm a mortgage broker. 57 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 6: I'm trying to help first home buyers find affordable places 58 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 6: to buy. 59 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: So follow me for more like this. 60 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 5: Sorry, she's not a real estate agent, she's a mortgage broker. Sorry, apologies, 61 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 5: apologies there. But she's asking Guilford. It's Guilford, it's. 62 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 4: Modern, it's only half an hour from the city. 63 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 3: Apparently, she says. 64 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 4: So that. 65 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 3: Firstly, that's the thing that worries me, and the fact 66 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 3: that she then asks people for their thoughts is the second. 67 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 5: Sorry, this is where we start to have a little 68 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 5: bit of a laugh because I went through the comments 69 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 5: Kate and she said, and people instantly said thirty minutes, yeah, 70 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 5: thirty minutes in a helicopter. Then someone rolled someone wrote 71 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 5: Lowell thirty minutes to Guildford at two. 72 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 4: Am when there's no cars on the road. 73 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 5: Maybe then the comments became thick and fast, very fast 74 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 5: for this young lady. 75 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 4: People were going four hundred and sixty five thousand to. 76 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 5: Wake up to strike force wraptor breaking down your neighbor's 77 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 5: front door. 78 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 2: That's not fair. 79 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 5: Superb finishes right down to the bulletproof windows. 80 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: Oh, Skildford that bad. 81 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 3: Have you been to Guilford? 82 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: I thought Gilford was okay. 83 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 3: Guilford is Guildford. 84 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, we went from Mother's day lunch there a while ago. 85 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 3: Did you I've been Pistro comes through to Guildford or Strow? 86 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 2: Did you go to so it's called Pistro Tieria. I 87 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: think it was a recommended by who lives there. Yeah. 88 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 5: Someone said, oh great, they finally cleaned the chalk out lines. 89 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 4: Great. Bye, I look there's ice in the range or 90 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 4: that's a feature. 91 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 5: Someone also said, I'm from punch Bowl and I wouldn't 92 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 5: touch Guildford with a ten foot pole. 93 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 3: I know punch bowl. I used to play punch bowl 94 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 3: in basketball when I was at school. The boys punch 95 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:23,239 Speaker 3: bowl boys. It was. It didn't turn out well. 96 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 2: Were they aggressive? Were they? 97 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 3: No? They I'm not saying anything about punch bowl all 98 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 3: the boys that played basketball. I just was very good 99 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 3: at basketball and they told me all about it. 100 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 4: Someone also said I worked there three years ago. 101 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 5: Saw three dudes with shaw sawn off shotguns holding up 102 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 5: an armor guarden truck at eight am when we were 103 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 5: getting some coffee on Main Street. 104 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 4: Beautiful place. 105 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 2: Can you use those comments as leverage when you go 106 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 2: to negotiate and they go, look, I'll tell you what 107 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 2: if you can give us four or eighty year over 108 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 2: the line and you can hang on a minute. I've 109 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:54,919 Speaker 2: got some feedback on your apartment. 110 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 3: You can't tart everyone in Guildford with the same rush. 111 00:04:58,320 --> 00:04:59,679 Speaker 4: You can't. You can't turt. 112 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 2: Twenty if you're living in Guildford and you want to 113 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 2: call now and defend Guildford. 114 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 5: She has gone though that Oh my gosh, it's only 115 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 5: half an hour from the city and it's four hundred 116 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 5: and sixty five thousand. 117 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 4: It's a two bedroom and it's quite modern. That is 118 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 4: a bargain. Comments below, guys, and that fun that's time. 119 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: This is the Fits and with Kate Richie podcast. 120 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 2: Can I say, and I'm a day early here, but 121 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 2: I wanted to share the excitement that I have for 122 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 2: my wife's birthday tomorrow, Happy birthday? 123 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 3: How great having a birthday on Friday? How old is she? 124 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 2: She is forty one? 125 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 5: Just having to look it through her body fun her 126 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 5: registration here. 127 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 4: For the singles ball. 128 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 3: You're going to get one hell of a surprise tomorrow 129 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 3: for a good guy. 130 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 2: What do you mean? 131 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 5: What is it? 132 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: What's the bio say? 133 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 5: I mean, guys, just hasn't she said, she hasn't slept 134 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 5: with someone for a very long time in the same 135 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 5: same room. 136 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:59,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, her loss. Let's go through something, guys. Because I 137 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 2: was thinking, and you know I am. I'm dedicated when 138 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: it comes to gifts. I like giving great gifts and 139 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 2: I'm excited to be the giver enough to. 140 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 4: Eat one from you one day. 141 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 2: You get it for three hours every day. On this 142 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: special day, I had a long, hard think about what 143 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 2: I could possibly get her. What does she like, what 144 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 2: does she want done? What is she into? Now? I 145 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 2: told you that the massage voucher that I gave her 146 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 2: with ten free massages from me hasn't been used once. 147 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 2: So she's still there with the clipper, you know, the clipper, 148 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 2: like the whole punch, and I'm waiting to clip off 149 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 2: her ticket. 150 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 3: What can I can I just say, unless you're buying 151 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 3: professional massages for your partner, this is a community service 152 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 3: announcement for men out there. Don't ever say, oh, I'll 153 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 3: give you as many messages as you like, or would 154 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 3: you like a message, because I don't know who I'm 155 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 3: speaking for here. But it's not just a massage. No 156 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 3: one gives a massage for no reason. What so when 157 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 3: you say no, when you do up your little you 158 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 3: do up your little cardboard. Oh, here's ten messages for you, Lisa. 159 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 3: It's not for Lisa, it's for you being creepy, and 160 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 3: it's not a massage chain. We're not stupid. 161 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 2: Became a full body slide exactly. 162 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 3: It's like just my shoulders, mate. 163 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 2: That's but your shoulders extend to your lower back. 164 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 5: Okay, if you did a full body slide on her, 165 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,239 Speaker 5: that could be a lot of internal bleeding. 166 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 3: Like a war resport to see you later forever forty one? 167 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Oh no, she's not. I don't know 168 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 4: what the problem is with her, but she's not breathing. 169 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 5: Somebody quick, what a hairble We've got a naked man 170 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 5: covered in oil. 171 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 4: What's happened here? 172 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 2: Crime scene? 173 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 4: Okay, we're not. That's a slip and slide that the 174 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 4: kids will use over Christmas. 175 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: And you have to put a hose on it. That 176 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 3: one jump back in, folks, have your morning fresh come. 177 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: I just jump back in to celebrate my wife. So 178 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: I looked around the house. 179 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 3: No massages, nah, nah, great. 180 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 2: The toaster that she said was broken. She needed a 181 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: new toaster. The problem was it wasn't turned on at 182 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 2: the wall. So I fixed that, so we don't need 183 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 2: a toaster anymore. Then I looked around and I thought, 184 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 2: what does she really want? And we gave back to 185 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 2: Leno because she didn't want that. The sad news, he's 186 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: got your air fire. He's doing all these nuggets in there. 187 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 2: The good thing is, what is that code for? 188 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 4: Have you got a door? Because I've got a gym. 189 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: No, she's got a treadmill. 190 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 3: Leno has got his nuggets in the air fry again. Terrible. 191 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 4: When I went into the kitchen the other day, you 192 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 4: had a couple of. 193 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 5: Nuggets in there, I said, Leno, that will not crisp 194 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 5: them up at all. 195 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 2: Before he said, my wedding's coming up. 196 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 3: We're going to do this quickly. 197 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 2: What I've got I've decided the one thing she wants 198 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 2: is the boxes of my books out of the house. 199 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 2: That's all she wants. 200 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 4: So you're just plugging your book again. 201 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, don't do this because why I can 202 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 2: tell you right now is the erotic novel The Far 203 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 2: Too Personal Trainer dot Com is now one hundred percent free. 204 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 4: Go to the website. 205 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 3: Do you have to pay for post it? 206 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 2: Maybe you do, Kate, just post it. Yeah, I'll be 207 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 2: down eleven dollars every book if I had to pay 208 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:26,439 Speaker 2: for the postage. 209 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 4: How much are you down on the book? 210 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 2: Doesn't matter how many? 211 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 3: So if you get in, if you're one of the 212 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 3: first seven and a half thousand people to get into that. 213 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 4: No, oh you know what? 214 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 3: So finally you've thought of it like that, like you 215 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 3: want no massages? 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I'm still standing. 265 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 5: Also got a key a SPORTAGEESX hybrid up for grabs, 266 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 5: Jackie and Orang Park. 267 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 4: You're in the running for the car, jack Thank. 268 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 3: You, Hi, Jackie. 269 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 4: How are you feeling? 270 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 3: How am I'm nervous? 271 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 8: My son have been trying to get through for. 272 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 4: The last year. 273 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 3: Jackie, don't tell me you have your son in the car, 274 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 3: because I was happy to beat you, but I can't 275 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,319 Speaker 3: destroy the dreams of a young boy on his way 276 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 3: to school. 277 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 2: Home mate, what's your son's name? 278 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 8: He's Kobe Cody. 279 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 3: And if your mum doesn't kobebe if Kobe doesn't, what's 280 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 3: your Oh god, I don't know. I'm so nervous. No, 281 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on. 282 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 5: You put leave it on speaker because Kobe can answer. 283 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,680 Speaker 5: If he knows the answer as well, he can help that. 284 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 3: Two against one Kobe. 285 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 4: Here we go, sixty seconds on the clock. Jackie, you're 286 00:12:58,760 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 4: going first because you're a kissy. 287 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 5: If you have that pair at the end of sixty seconds, 288 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 5: eight hundred dollars for you and Kobe. 289 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 4: And also you're in the running for that car thanks to. 290 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:09,559 Speaker 5: Sydney Cidy Kia, Jackie, your sixty second starts. 291 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 2: Now? 292 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 5: What country is the musical artist Vance Joy from Jackie Australia? 293 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 4: Correct? Is Harry Potter fiction or non fiction? Fiction? Fiction 294 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 4: is correct? 295 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 5: The Buno chocolate bar Briano chocolate bar is from which brand? 296 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: Kinder? 297 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 4: Kinder is correct? What animal is known to chirp? 298 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 8: A bird? 299 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 5: A bird is correct? Who hosts the TV show The Summer. 300 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 4: Too Long? 301 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 8: Joy? 302 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 5: Courtney over to Kate. Who is the coach of the 303 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 5: Blues for State of Origin? 304 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 3: Kate Michael maguire, Yes, what annual. 305 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:59,319 Speaker 5: Event kicks off in Sydney tomorrow Vivid. Correct name two actors, 306 00:13:59,320 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 5: starting with. 307 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 3: Arnold Schwarzenegger and one. 308 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 4: Jackie Jackie. What are the first four prime numbers? 309 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 2: Doesn't matter? One hundred dollars Jackie. 310 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 3: Thank you, Kobe, but that's cheating. They had two against one. 311 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 2: Code answered the first two. 312 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 4: Questions three, three? Was it? 313 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 3: I thought I had it? They were quite simple and 314 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 3: with him now, yeah, you're it all goes to him. 315 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 3: I mean it will be a big, big discussion at 316 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 3: the dinner table tonight, Jackie. 317 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 4: I know he wants the car. That's what he wants. 318 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 5: Well done, guys, Just you know every day it's unpredictable. 319 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 5: I'm still standing that you don't know who's going to 320 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 5: win the sun se. 321 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 3: With Kate Whichie podcast got some big questions for you 322 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 3: on a Thursday morning. Guys, this is from a woman 323 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 3: on the internet. How could he lie to me like this? 324 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 3: Do men do this often? I'm in absolute shock. Should 325 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 3: I just forgive him for lying and move on with 326 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 3: the relationship? Sounds heavy? 327 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 2: It does because I think what's running through your mind 328 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 2: as his mind, Kate, is does that lie represent more 329 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 2: than just that moment? 330 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 3: Well? This is the thing about this story. I don't 331 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 3: know who to feel for you, the woman or the man. 332 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 3: It's very complex. Here we go, they've started dating. She 333 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 3: really quite likes him. In fact, she's even throwing the 334 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 3: love word around. She thinks she's fallen in love with him. 335 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 3: But who has she fallen in love with? The guy 336 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 3: who really he is? Who he really is. 337 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 8: Or. 338 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 3: The doctor that he said he was. So she's met 339 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 3: this guy he says he's a doctor, and it's all 340 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 3: very lovely. I'm guessing she's gone home to the parents 341 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 3: and said, oh, I found myself. 342 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 2: He's a surgeon. 343 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. How long can you get away with that for? 344 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 5: And then is it as simple as him garak, I 345 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 5: was only doing it to impressure. 346 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 2: I'm not a doctor. 347 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 3: Well see, he didn't even have the opportunity to get 348 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 3: to that part because it says in the story last night. 349 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 3: I'm guessing it wasn't last night, maybe a week ago. 350 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 3: She walks into I don't know why, but she's gone 351 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 3: into a taco bell of an evening and the guy 352 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 3: that she is dating, who is a doctor, is at 353 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 3: the counter serving the taco bell. 354 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 2: Okay, so doctor of tacos. 355 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 3: Maybe he's mad for a tako? 356 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 2: Does he have a doctorate in food? 357 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 3: Well, then there you go, because the word doctor can 358 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 3: be a thorna around, quite vaguely around. So I mean, 359 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 3: maybe you're the doctor of love. 360 00:16:58,920 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 2: Doctor of botany. 361 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 4: But is there an element of cuteness here where you go? 362 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 6: Oh? 363 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 4: You know what, he really liked me that much? He 364 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 4: tried to impress me. 365 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 3: Well, it says a lot about it. 366 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 4: Regular burrito, Dave. Good on you, mate, I love you. 367 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:11,639 Speaker 4: I'll see after you. 368 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:16,360 Speaker 2: She I think it there's more about her why because 369 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 2: she was excited that he could have been a doctor, 370 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 2: but finding out that he worked at Taco Bell, she 371 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 2: was disappointed. It looks like she's a status eating woman. 372 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 3: Oh well, that's quite heavy. She doesn't know how to 373 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,239 Speaker 3: feel about it at the moment, because she's gone in 374 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 3: and ordered her what was it? A burrito with a 375 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 3: lot of something discussed, and they didn't say anything to 376 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 3: each other like they This is how awkward it was not. 377 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 3: She didn't say, Hi, Dave, what are you doing here? 378 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 3: If you've got a night off the hospital. 379 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've got a sight hustle. 380 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 3: Ik at exactly. She's walked up to the counter. He's 381 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 3: I don't know what the uniform is. He's in his 382 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 3: little hat. He stares at her, She stares at him. 383 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 3: The burrito, she leaves, and now she's at home on 384 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 3: the internet asking us all what we think and what 385 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:08,360 Speaker 3: is it? You're right? What does it say about her? 386 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 3: A lot of people are coming out and saying, well, 387 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 3: this says something that's this says that you're quite immature. 388 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 3: You've fallen in love too early. If you're right, and 389 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 3: now that you've found out this, the thing doesn't exist, 390 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 3: rather because the person still does. Dave is still Dave 391 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 3: is still Dave, but he's just not a doctor. 392 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 2: But the other thing, Kate. The fact that she didn't 393 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 2: say anything to me says she still wanted to believe. 394 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 2: If you avoid that moment where the reveal isn't that 395 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 2: he actually works there, She still wanted to believe that 396 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 2: just maybe if I'm not very if it's not verified, 397 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 2: then he could still possibly be a. 398 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 3: Certain And maybe it wasn't Dave, because once you leave 399 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 3: the taco bell, maybe you get confused. Maybe it wasn't Dave, 400 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 3: Maybe it was Dave's brother. Maybe Dave will call me 401 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 3: after a long shift in it is in his scrubs 402 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 3: or something. He's gone on, Dulin, what have you been doing? 403 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 3: She says, I've been to taco But he said, oh 404 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 3: you love a taco? I mean great, And then they 405 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 3: can move on and pretend it never happened. I actually 406 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 3: feel a bit sorry for Dave and for people out 407 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:15,879 Speaker 3: there who have to pretend to be something that they're not. 408 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 2: Anyone lied to you. No no, I used to say, 409 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 2: as as shark fishermen. I just thought that sounded wild 410 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 2: and adventurous. Well a job. 411 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 4: It's not a job. 412 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 2: I worked for the a job. 413 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 4: First of all, you can't catch them, they're in danger. 414 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 2: I worked for the fisheries. It was a tag and 415 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 2: release program. My job was to land the big ones. 416 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 5: Tommy, it says, here have we got Hayden Quinn on 417 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 5: the show today? He says on his bio that he's 418 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 5: a marine biologist. That's always a big one that blokes you. 419 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:52,120 Speaker 3: Does that mean they just like starfish or of course. 420 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 4: I'm going to ask them about today. 421 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 2: That's not a turn on for women. 422 00:19:56,480 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 4: What a marine a marine biologist? It's number one forum. 423 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 3: Mate, and it isn't Haiti Haiti. That's what I like 424 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 3: to call him. Hayden. He's got that surfy kind of 425 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 3: look about him as well. So not only not only 426 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 3: is he knock about and can ride aboard, he knows 427 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 3: stuff about animals. I'd love a plumber who My granddad 428 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 3: was a plumber, Wally and I think anyone this is 429 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 3: what I'm missing in my life, someone who has a trade. 430 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 3: I just want to call someone in my phone who 431 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 3: knows how to like, come and fix the pipes, do 432 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 3: the electric. 433 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 2: Make sure you're general service. 434 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 4: For free. 435 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 5: Perfect opportunity for Dave atko Bell for a great line. 436 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 5: Both standing there at each other, going, oh my gosh, 437 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 5: I've been busted, puts his hand to. 438 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 4: His jumper and goes, Ward's a bit hot in here. 439 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 4: Somebody turned the fur heater on. 440 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 3: I don't know if that would have gone out the line. 441 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 3: Give us a call. Oh we've got Daniel from el Campbelltown. 442 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 3: Are you a liar or have you been lying to 443 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:14,919 Speaker 3: David Daniel? 444 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:18,439 Speaker 4: Daniel? I was the liar, my right. 445 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 8: I told a couple of girls that the boys side 446 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 8: out that I was a dolphin trainer for the free world. 447 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:28,679 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, dolphin trainer. You should have just gone marine biologists. 448 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:30,159 Speaker 5: Did you get did you get far. 449 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 4: With it, Daniel, Oh, yeah, the whole night we're on boo. 450 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 3: That was what I was about twenty Yeah. And do 451 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 3: you think that gets girls over the line and the 452 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 3: fact that you like animant? 453 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 4: Oh I did back then, but not not now. 454 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 2: But did it work on the night? Did it? Daniel? 455 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 4: Sorry? 456 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 2: Did it work on the night? It worked on the night? 457 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 8: Yeah? 458 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, we picked up about three or four girls that night. 459 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 3: Daniel, dolphins still lying obviously, dan'el. 460 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 1: This is the fitsy and with Kate Richie podcast. 461 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 3: Roses are red, Violence are blue. And for the Singles Ball, 462 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 3: I choose you. 463 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 4: Cheesy with a bit of a rose is a red 464 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 4: sort of intro there? 465 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 5: Tom? 466 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 4: Is it too cheesy? 467 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 2: Look? 468 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 4: I think it's a bit of fun. 469 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 7: It's a bit of an icebreaker, isn't it. 470 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 2: Should Everyone who's coming along to the Singles Ball prepare 471 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 2: some poetry for I mean it's a brain storm. Let's 472 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:34,360 Speaker 2: look like anything back. 473 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 3: I think the you know that little thing that intro 474 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 3: that we play, I think that can be cheesy because 475 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 3: what I do know about the night is that it 476 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 3: is going to be anything but cheesy. With the beautiful 477 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 3: venue at the. 478 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 4: Gillies, I'll tell you what I want. 479 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:54,440 Speaker 2: Cheesey is my bloody bacon and eggs. The next morning. 480 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 3: Cheesy baker eggs. 481 00:22:53,840 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 5: You mean a roll torontozo next Thursday night overlooking vivid, Yes, 482 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 5: Peaz at the Gilly rooftop. 483 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 4: It's going to be unbelievable. You need to register. 484 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 5: Though, at the Nova player app, or you can go 485 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 5: to nov fm dot com. That a you and you 486 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:12,119 Speaker 5: can register there. We have been getting so many entries. 487 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 5: I don't know how we're filtering through this time. I 488 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 5: did see Kate Ritchie yes at the desk with producer 489 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 5: Olie yesterday going through a few entries. 490 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 2: I know. 491 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,719 Speaker 3: I don't know who was more excited about the hot talent, 492 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 3: not me, that would be. But we did put a 493 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 3: little video. We did put a little video up because 494 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,640 Speaker 3: I mean not we're certainly not short on entries. But guys, 495 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:39,399 Speaker 3: get involved, don't be shy. We're not going to make fun. 496 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 3: This is this is truly comes from a really good place. 497 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 3: So if you're a fella, single fellow with a single friend, 498 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 3: I mean a register now. 499 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 4: Are we down on guys? Are we down on guys? 500 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 3: Are we we're down on god well less guys. We're 501 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 3: down on the guys. Oh you know what, I didn't know. 502 00:23:58,800 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 3: We like guys. 503 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,359 Speaker 2: We're light on guys. I think we have. 504 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 3: Less numbers, have less numbers, I mean, oh my god, 505 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 3: the phones are light enough to register. 506 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 1: Now? 507 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 2: Can we meet Angela from Roselands? 508 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 4: Hello? 509 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 2: Angela? 510 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 1: Hello? 511 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 8: How are you? 512 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 2: And it is fantastic to get your entry because you 513 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 2: know what, I want great people there and to see 514 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 2: a photo of you at a long lunch with a 515 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 2: glass of champagne in your hand. I'm going to call 516 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 2: you a great catch. 517 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 4: Awesome. 518 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, we saw you could pop up on the computer 519 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,640 Speaker 3: screen yesterday in the office and we were very quick 520 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 3: to put you on the list. 521 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,159 Speaker 2: Happy, fun loving and up for a good time. 522 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 8: Absolutely. 523 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,919 Speaker 4: Hey, what's your dating history? Being like Ange over the 524 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 4: years I've. 525 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 9: Been divorced for the last twelve years. 526 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,359 Speaker 8: Okay, dated much to be honest. 527 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 3: Well yeah, Well it's a scary world out there. Do 528 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 3: you like the idea of actually going to an event 529 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 3: and meeting somebody face to face rather than having to 530 00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 3: do it online? 531 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 8: Absolutely? 532 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 10: I don't like the dating apps. I don't find them 533 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 10: to be engaging or fun. 534 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 2: Scary actually, and if they work, they wouldn't exist. 535 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 8: Have you that's it. 536 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 4: That's right. Have you got a loose friend that you 537 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 4: can bring along with. 538 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 2: You on the night. 539 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,879 Speaker 9: I'd like to think that I've got a few single 540 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,400 Speaker 9: friends that may want to join. 541 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, like a fun, fun loving to bring a friend along. 542 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 5: You're in, you stayed out, you're not doing well well, 543 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 5: it's just I know what you're trying to see. 544 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 4: I know what you're trying to Guys are. 545 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 3: Sick trying to look up sir. 546 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 5: Hey, we've got an irishman on board. You say that 547 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 5: we're short of men, not ryaning couldie. 548 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 4: You're coming along right? 549 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 3: You're not an irishman from Cougie, are you? I believe 550 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 3: in k I am and I'm not. 551 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 1: There's not many out but I am. 552 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 2: Has the accent been for here in Sydney, Australia's working. 553 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:03,640 Speaker 2: That's the thing. 554 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,120 Speaker 1: Like, you know, are you probably doing the wrong thing? 555 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 4: Like I always hang. 556 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 3: Around and Irish people that work with Irish people. 557 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:09,439 Speaker 7: You know. 558 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 2: So maybe I should go out on a comfort zone 559 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 2: and maybe it might be a nice uzzy chick there 560 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:14,640 Speaker 2: for me next next week. 561 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 8: So hopefully that might be the right road. Good down. 562 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 2: I love that. Thanks for your entry. Ryan also say 563 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 2: toell me I'm going old here. Oh wowhi Ryan, total, 564 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 2: I'm gonna throw a little something out. Actually, mate, I've 565 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 2: got a package you from M J Bail so you 566 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 2: can get suited up appropriately and well stopped. 567 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 4: Oh really, thank you very much. 568 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 2: You've got a phone call from yesterday and I want 569 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 2: to suit up a couple of the gents. So congratulations, 570 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 2: dry happy get you get yourself and you out might have. 571 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:45,639 Speaker 3: Or something. 572 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 10: Oh man, some lucky women know next week that thing. 573 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 4: But wow, so Ryan, you might's Coolly the mayor of Coogies. 574 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 4: That correct, That is correct. 575 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I talked it well, but talk back now. That's 576 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 2: not the head going round with me because I'm always 577 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 2: start and chatting talking people. 578 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, can I not talk to on the night 579 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 3: without a interpreter? 580 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,320 Speaker 4: Come on, Ryan, sounds like. 581 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 5: A real good catch. This is great, This is great. 582 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,640 Speaker 5: So all right, Kates, don't it out there fellas. We're 583 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 5: not getting mini entries. But if you would like to 584 00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 5: come along to our singles ball next Thursday night, go 585 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 5: to the Nova player app or nov fm dot com 586 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 5: dot a you. It's the Gilly Rooftop at Tarrongas and 587 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,359 Speaker 5: we have got the best view in the state and 588 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 5: the best music I think in Australia and in the world. 589 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 2: Tommy, let's have a look at the poles now because 590 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 2: we all presented a song for this slow dance, Yes 591 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 2: we did. 592 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 4: This is Fitz's choice? Is it on the world On. 593 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,680 Speaker 7: The least, it's that one came in at number two, 594 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 7: so people are a bit undecided on yours runner up again, 595 00:27:56,320 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 7: I'm so sorry that BBO four now we can't so 596 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 7: yeah true yce Mandala number two can't help falling in 597 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 7: love Elvis. 598 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 3: Too much pressure with a song like. 599 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,679 Speaker 7: This if you are sadly got the least amount of boats, 600 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 7: which means what's the winner? This song will be our 601 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 7: first dance at the Singles Ball. 602 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 3: Next Thursday, So fitting guys. 603 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 2: That is beautiful. We're going to play it now just 604 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 2: to get everybody in the mood. Shall we practice our dancing? 605 00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 3: Absolutely not? Can we just leave it to tail us 606 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 3: with love? I get your dancing shoes on guys. Singles 607 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 3: Ball next Thursday, So fit. 608 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: And with with Kate, which is podcast Monday. 609 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 2: We launched the initiative thirty six months dot com dot Au. 610 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 2: We need you to get there, guys and sign the petition. 611 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 2: The numbers are growing, which has been fantastic, and I 612 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 2: encourage everybody to get to that website and show you 613 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 2: support for the idea of changing the age of social 614 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 2: media from thirteen to sixteen. The studies are done, the 615 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 2: numbers are in, and that's having a devastating effect or 616 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 2: not on the girls, but boys also, and the impact 617 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 2: in the psychological damage of anxiety and depressant depression is 618 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 2: through the roof. Jo's been fascinating since launching this just 619 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 2: some of the conversations I've had, and as we've said 620 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 2: from the word go myself, I'm not an expert on 621 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 2: this topic. I'm merely representing everybody else that doesn't have 622 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 2: the platform that I have and that we have, and 623 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:26,719 Speaker 2: that is huge and greatly concerned about this topic and 624 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 2: the future of our kids. I spoke to a dad 625 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 2: last night and we were going to invite him to 626 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 2: come on the show, and after talking to him, I said, look, 627 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 2: maybe we should keep this story between you and I 628 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 2: and anybody else you'd like to share it with privately, 629 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 2: because it was so hard to hear. He unfortunately lost 630 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 2: his daughter through bullying that was taking place on one 631 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 2: of these platforms. And of course on an adolescent mind 632 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 2: as a fifteen year old, the end result was just devastating. 633 00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 2: And he says that now he lives his days completely numb, 634 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 2: and if it wasn't for his son, well what's the point. 635 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 2: So no day is ever worth a smile at this 636 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 2: stage for him. So I mean, that is the real, 637 00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 2: the real outcome of some of the kids online. And 638 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 2: I'm not saying this for dramatic effect. It's just the 639 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 2: nature of what's the truth. 640 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 3: I think it is true. Well, it's the skirt it 641 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 3: around it, but that's actually what's going. 642 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 4: On when you're at that age as well. You don't talk. 643 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 4: I mean stuff like that you keep bottled up when 644 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 4: you're going through puberty and your mind is going through that. 645 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 4: I mean, how often you look back. 646 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 5: And we always say to our boys talk to us 647 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 5: about it, But I look back. I never spoke to 648 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 5: my parent. It's about those things. 649 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 2: It's scary and you think of the first person to 650 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,520 Speaker 2: go through it when you're in that moment. Ricky Lee, 651 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. 652 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 10: Hi guys, how are you going good? 653 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 2: Thank you for calling through on the topic of thirty 654 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:51,560 Speaker 2: six months. 655 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 8: Thank you. 656 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 10: Look, guys, I've got three kids, seven, twelve, and fifteen, 657 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 10: and my two oldest boys both have phones, they have 658 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 10: social media, and I'm just hired of being the bad cop. 659 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 10: I really want this law to come through. I feel 660 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 10: like my existence is constantly reprimanding, taking the phones off them, 661 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 10: handing them in to get their homework done, focus concentration. Yeah, 662 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 10: it's a really hard one to navigate when everybody has 663 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 10: it and they all want the same thing. 664 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I agree because I think that in 665 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 3: some ways. I mean, i have a nine year old 666 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 3: daughter turning ten. I'm already having those discussions with her. 667 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 3: I almost want the I mean call it selfish, but 668 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 3: I want these things to come through too, so that 669 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 3: I feel as though I can put off this conversation 670 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 3: with my daughter for a few more years, as you said, 671 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 3: Ricky Lee, rather than having the constant daily battle before 672 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 3: school and after school and before soccer training and you know, 673 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 3: off to bed. Just being able to say, well, that's 674 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 3: the law. And I know that people get around laws 675 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 3: and there are going to be other difficulties, but goodness, 676 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 3: just being able to say, well, it's not my choice, 677 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 3: Yeah that's the law. Let's run with that. 678 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 2: Sarah. Sarah by Sorry, Hi, says, thanks for joining the show. 679 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 2: Your daughter was affected by social media. 680 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 8: She was very affected by social media. So in her 681 00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 8: she's sixteen now and perfectly healthy, thank god. But during 682 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 8: her beginning of high school and getting onto social media, 683 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 8: she really got onto the body image by the things, 684 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 8: she developed devastating anorexia over the course of a couple 685 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 8: of years. I can't believe I didn't notice it, but 686 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 8: the algorithms of social media were they were feeding her, 687 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 8: for want of a better expression, with images of billy 688 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 8: girls like sick images. They were sending her, tormenting her 689 00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:56,479 Speaker 8: with food, sending her food. They were it was picking 690 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 8: up on the things that she was looking at and 691 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 8: feeding her addiction to not eating. And I eventually had 692 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,320 Speaker 8: to one day she looked at me and she said 693 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 8: to me, Mommy, I can't do this anymore. And I 694 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 8: had to take her straight to a hospital ward and 695 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 8: helping us put a feeding tube down her phone, and 696 00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 8: she really died. 697 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,160 Speaker 5: Sarah, were you Were you able to get her off 698 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 5: social media or she refused to get off it. 699 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 8: She refused to get off it. She was in hospital 700 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 8: for a month and they took her phone away from 701 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 8: her then, but all she was obsessed with was getting 702 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 8: that phone back again, because that's their world. So she 703 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 8: was thirteen, fourteen, fifteen, they live in those phones. This morning, 704 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 8: she said to me that the thing that she finds 705 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 8: most annoying about social media is that it normalizes not 706 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 8: communicating supperly with each other. Yeah, she's sixteen. She knows 707 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 8: about algorithms, and she knows how to identify when she's 708 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 8: being sort of rainwashed something. But at twelve thirty fourteen, 709 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,359 Speaker 8: she has no idea. She thought what she was seeing 710 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:09,919 Speaker 8: was real. 711 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,320 Speaker 2: Well, that's the other part about it is that the education. 712 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 3: It's so amazing that you bring that up, because when 713 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 3: you think about the age of thirteen and you put 714 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 3: it into your school career, you've just started high school. 715 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:25,440 Speaker 3: There's so many other things, Like, it's just such a complex. 716 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:29,640 Speaker 5: Time completely, Allison in Monaval, you're a mom of three boys. 717 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 4: What do you think, Allison? 718 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 9: I was just really moved yesterday I was driving out 719 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 9: to work and I had to just call you guys after. 720 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 8: I got to work. 721 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 9: I was so moved by what you're doing. My oldest 722 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 9: son is eleven, he's in year six, getting ready to 723 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,439 Speaker 9: go off to high school next year. I've held off 724 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,720 Speaker 9: getting a phone. I was literally one of the last 725 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 9: in the whole grade. He used to have messenger kids, 726 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 9: he goes, Mum. No one answers that anymore. They've got phones, 727 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,440 Speaker 9: so I'm the only one without a phone. So there 728 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 9: was a pressure to get the phone. I've got a 729 00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 9: phone three months ago. It's the worst thing we've ever done. 730 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:04,280 Speaker 9: Suffers anxiety as it is. I'm terrified for his mental 731 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 9: state and where this is going. And I want him 732 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 9: to have a phone for independence, to be able to 733 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 9: walk home, to reason able to catch a bus next year, 734 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 9: to school for high school, and giving them this independence. Overnight, 735 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 9: He's got a Snapchat account, he's got TikTok, he's got Facebook, 736 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 9: he's got Instagram. I'm like, how did this all happen? 737 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:28,759 Speaker 9: And he's buried in his room with his head in 738 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 9: the phone, and like these other callers saying, you're all 739 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,359 Speaker 9: the bad persons ripping this phone away from them, un 740 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 9: limiting their time. And I'm having, you know, pediatricians and 741 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 9: his counselor and people saying you've got to limit this. 742 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:41,840 Speaker 9: This is so dangerous. 743 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 2: It's extraordinary that the parent too. Allison struggles to have 744 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 2: the impact on their child when they're trying to do 745 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 2: their absolute best, except they're being overpowered by a smart 746 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 2: algorithm serving what they choose to offer your child. 747 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,600 Speaker 3: It's crazy. You'd never invite a stranger in the street 748 00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 3: that you didn't knew nothing about and was about influencing 749 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,200 Speaker 3: you had all these stats on them. You would never 750 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 3: invite that stranger into your house, into your child's bedroom 751 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 3: and leave them there for hours. But it's kind of 752 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 3: that is exactly what you're doing by having this world 753 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 3: not policed. 754 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 9: All the dramas at school then happened straight away, like 755 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 9: once they're on the snapchat, but if they're not on it, 756 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,919 Speaker 9: they get bullied for not being on Snapchat and having 757 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 9: a sign. So you think you don't want them to 758 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 9: be bullied. He's having enough troubles as it is, so 759 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,719 Speaker 9: then you do that and then he gets bullied on 760 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:30,400 Speaker 9: these chats. 761 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, damned if you be damned if you don't. 762 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:35,879 Speaker 9: Exactly, and it's and what you're doing is amazing, and 763 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 9: it's you know, as I said, I wouldn't. It wasn't 764 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 9: going to expect this from a mum of boys. But 765 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 9: I'm telling you someone that's fragile like this with his 766 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 9: mental health. I'm terrified, like the other person you were 767 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,800 Speaker 9: talking about, Allison, that is going to happen. 768 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,960 Speaker 2: We are here representing you. That's why we are talking 769 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,440 Speaker 2: about it because of people like you and Sarah and 770 00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:59,000 Speaker 2: double Bay there. Sign the petition now thirty six months 771 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,719 Speaker 2: dot com dot au. We need your name. Guys, get 772 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 2: involved and if your kids are struggling, the number of 773 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 2: Kids helpline is one eight hundred, double five, one eight hundred, 774 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,799 Speaker 2: one eight hundred, double five, one eight hundred. If you 775 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,560 Speaker 2: need to make a phone call, it's in Whipper with 776 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 2: Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk great shows like this. 777 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 2: Download the Nova Player via the 778 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,880 Speaker 4: App Store or Google Playing the Nova Player