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Speaker 1: Apochiae Production. I need your advice. Are you okay? What happened?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to our Bestie segment, My girl, this is the

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Speaker 2: place for you. Welcome back to another bestI episode.

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Speaker 1: Copies episode. They are the best, aren't they?

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Speaker 2: Not? A really interesting one for you today? Now, instead

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Speaker 2: of talking about it, I'm just gonna get stuck into Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready? I'm ready. Let's do it. Hello, lovely ladies.

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Speaker 2: I just want to start by saying that I love

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Speaker 2: the podcast and it's like my comfort show for drives

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Speaker 2: to and from work. I'm needing some bestie advice. The

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Speaker 2: only words that come to mind when I think of

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Speaker 2: my life at the moment are stuck and unfulfilled. So

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Speaker 2: here's a bit of context. I'm twenty nine soon and

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Speaker 2: I've been working in the construction industry for the last

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Speaker 2: eight years. I have an amazing, loving partner who I've

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Speaker 2: been with for two years in brackets. Nothing wrong in

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Speaker 2: that department, but career wise, I am stuck and unfulfilled.

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Speaker 2: Always had this stream of wanting my own business. I've

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Speaker 2: had so many ideas over the years, but I've never

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Speaker 2: followed through because I either haven't been one hundred percent

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Speaker 2: in the too hard basket. I absolutely love what you

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Speaker 2: women are doing and achieving to help other women. I

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Speaker 2: also see other women doing all of these amazing and

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Speaker 2: exciting things on the internet, and I get so jealous.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think it's jealousy of them in particular,

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Speaker 2: but it's how I see myself living my life. Another

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Speaker 2: part is I'm not sure if I'm just having a

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Speaker 2: crisis because I'm almost thirty and haven't achieved anything I've

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Speaker 2: wanted to do in my twenties. But I also get

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Speaker 2: to the end of each year and feel like I've

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Speaker 2: achieved nothing. I set goals for myself, but very rarely

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Speaker 2: achieve them, and I know that's on me, but I

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Speaker 2: just don't know where to start. Most of the time,

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Speaker 2: I struggle with money, so I feel like every week

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Speaker 2: When it comes to the weekend, I'm so exhausted that

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Speaker 2: I don't want to do anything. I'm so sorry. If

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Speaker 2: this is all over the place. It's pretty much just

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Speaker 2: word vomit of everything that's in my head with love,

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Speaker 2: some advice.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. We will literally just talking about this

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Speaker 1: on the way up. If we weren't doing what we

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Speaker 1: were doing, what would we be doing? And I was saying,

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Speaker 1: if I did not meet Steve, I would have just

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Speaker 1: been in any job to pay the bills, because that's

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Speaker 1: what I grew up thinking that I just needed to

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Speaker 1: get a job. I was lucky to have a job,

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Speaker 1: and you're lucky to be able to pay your bills

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Speaker 1: because we grew up in survival mode with my family.

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Speaker 1: We were jumping from farm to farm. We were homeless

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Speaker 2: We were lucky.

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Speaker 1: So if I didn't meet Steve and didn't open my

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Speaker 1: how you're feeling. So thank you for bringing that in

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Speaker 1: because it's not a nice feeling to be there, and

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Speaker 1: we've both been there before for sure, and change careers

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Speaker 1: and change. If you followed me on social media, you've

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Speaker 1: seen me do many things over my lifetime. I would

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Speaker 1: love you to ask yourself what it is that you're

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Speaker 1: What is it that excites you? And that would be

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Speaker 1: I love that people are sharing their business journey online,

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Speaker 1: But to be honest, it's a lot of work. Say Baseline,

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Speaker 1: for example, was so much more of a slog Yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's not for me. Even highaway, I don't do that stuff.

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Speaker 1: Steve does that. It's not for me. And even with

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Speaker 1: and that aligns with our values and what lights us up.

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Speaker 1: So what is it that lights you up? And I

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Speaker 1: so beautifully said. And you know what I think.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes these questions can feel a little daunting, and we

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Speaker 2: put so much pressure on ourselves to get that question right.

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Speaker 2: There's no right or wrong answer and how to answer

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Speaker 2: what you're passionate about. It's just genuinely for the first time,

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Speaker 2: checking in with what actually makes you happy, Like, think

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Speaker 2: Lean into rect I have changed careers, like I have

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Speaker 2: Definitely things that I learned in modeling, when I did that,

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Speaker 1: We've spoken about this in a previous episode. But when

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Speaker 1: think there's more freedom and there's more money, and just

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Speaker 1: know that it's all a risk as well, Like you

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Speaker 1: ideas and you haven't taken those steps. Also, why is

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Speaker 1: then something needs to change. It needs to alter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And to add to that, it's all good and

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Speaker 2: well to be an ideas woman, but the execution is

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Speaker 2: what actually matters. Because every single idea that you've had,

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Speaker 2: One out of ten, or nine out of ten, even

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Speaker 2: all of them are great ideas, but only if you

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Speaker 2: it actually you have less time because when you're money,

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Speaker 2: like you have to do everything. Yeah, so it's just

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Speaker 2: taking into consideration that is going to be harder before

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Speaker 1: I'd also love to ask to do you not like

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Speaker 1: could you get your fulfillment outside of your work? Is

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Speaker 1: within yourself, whether it's a healing journey or a skill

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Speaker 1: set that you want to learn. Could that be outside

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Speaker 1: I like that, Yeah, because sometimes I think, once again,

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Speaker 1: the business world is glamorized on social media, but it's

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Speaker 1: not for everyone.

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Speaker 2: No, it's not.

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Speaker 1: It really is not for everyone. I honestly would not

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Speaker 1: be doing it solo. I didn't have you, E didn't

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Speaker 1: just not for me. I have no shame in saying

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Speaker 1: that I don't enjoy running a business and doing all

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Speaker 1: those jobs, and I've done plenty of at the start.

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Speaker 1: When Steve and I first started, we had no idea

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Speaker 1: what we were doing. We had to learn to do everything.

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Speaker 1: I fucking hated it. I hated it. Never want to

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Speaker 1: go back there. Yeah. So yeah, just ask some deeper

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Speaker 1: think intuitively, you know, you've got to decide what's actually

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, And one thing just to mention on the feeling stuck.

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Speaker 2: We feel stuck when we are stagnant and we are

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Speaker 1: Yes, I feel dead inside when you're making.

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Speaker 2: Progress because you're I love this saying the mental masturbation

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Speaker 2: is getting to you. You're thinking about doing, but you're

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Speaker 2: not actually doing So I want you to write down

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Speaker 2: a list and just do one to three the top

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Speaker 2: three things that you are avoiding doing that's great, and

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Speaker 2: give yourself a time limit. Do those things within twenty

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Speaker 2: four hours, and trust me, it feel a whole lot better.

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Speaker 1: And even doing those things, it gives you evidence that

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Speaker 1: you're capable, which gives you more confidence to take the

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Speaker 1: bigger leaps. The bigger leaps you take, the more confident

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Speaker 1: you get, you can Yeah, even.

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Speaker 2: Further yep, absolutely and making progress. Yes, then you create

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Speaker 2: your own momentum.

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Speaker 1: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: See you moving and taking action is momentum. If you

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Speaker 2: want to continue to create momentum, you have to continuously

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Speaker 2: take action.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to start first. I have to start

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Speaker 1: be okay to fail.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: There's been so many businesses I've done that have not

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Speaker 1: worked out for whatever reason, but it all led me

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Speaker 1: to be right here. I am right now. Every single

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Speaker 1: thing that I've done, I don't take any of it back.

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Speaker 1: Some of them like, why did they think that was

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Speaker 1: going to work? Like we had a cafe once, so

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why do we do that? We were just like,

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Speaker 1: well this would be fun. This act came about we

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Speaker 1: met this couple that loved to it. Just it felt

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Speaker 1: like it was just flowing. We're like, whoo, why not?

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Speaker 1: It didn't work out for multiple of reasons, some beyond

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Speaker 1: it out of out control. It wasn't for us, But

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Speaker 1: we also learned a lot of skills in that time.

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Speaker 1: I could have then helped us with our next adventure.

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Speaker 1: Would use the gym, so there's no regrets. Be okay

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Speaker 1: to fail, be okay to try new things. But I

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Speaker 1: think you need to really get some clarity. We just

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Speaker 1: take the next step. Stop moving, love to hear it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thanks for joining us. We hope that helps and we'll

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Speaker 1: see you in the next episode. Bye bye,