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Speaker 1: Apoche production.

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Speaker 2: On this episode of We Will Always Have I also

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Speaker 2: asked those questions to your three children no, and I

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Speaker 2: got them to send me their responses.

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Speaker 3: Did you really?

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Speaker 2: Because I wanted to know which one of the three

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Speaker 2: knows you.

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Speaker 3: The best and go, how do they pull out? Well?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the We Will Always Have podcasts with me

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Speaker 2: Christian Hull and Chrissy Hearn.

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Speaker 3: So what's this one?

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Speaker 2: What's today? What's today is National Cartoonist Today. We celebrate

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Speaker 2: National Day dot com. And I think they're all American days.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't matter because I just was like, well, this

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Speaker 2: is fun, celebrate National Cartoonist Day. What do you think

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Speaker 2: I did for that? I think you've probably printed off

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Speaker 2: a whole heap of cartoons. And do you have a

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Speaker 2: favorite car tune? The Flintstones? Oh fuck, you're boring the Flintstones.

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Speaker 2: Bewitched there was a I think there was a one.

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Speaker 2: I actually think it started with a cartoon to open

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Speaker 2: it was and then it was definitely actors. So I

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Speaker 2: like that and The Jetsons. I remember watching The Jetsons

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Speaker 2: as a rerun. So you're paranoid about coming across as

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Speaker 2: my mother jets South Park Charlie South brilliant and have

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Speaker 2: you ever seen South Park? The writers did that whole

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Speaker 2: Book of Mormon?

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Speaker 3: Have you ever seen that?

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Speaker 2: I have the musical? No, everyone tells me I need

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Speaker 2: to say it.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Charlie and Rick Ardo obsessed with her.

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Speaker 3: I fell asleep.

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Speaker 2: Oh really, yes, I fell asleep. Oh. So, to celebrate

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Speaker 2: National Cartoonist today, I employed a cartoonist to draw us.

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Speaker 2: It's a friend of mine called Really Bad Portraits. So

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Speaker 2: I sent her some images of us climbing the Sydney

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Speaker 2: hub Bridge. Oh my god, and I said I would

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Speaker 2: like you to paint us, And she does them intentionally,

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Speaker 2: really horrific. Here is the first one.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. So two of us quite know what

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Speaker 3: to say.

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Speaker 2: Don't we look just gorgeous?

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Speaker 3: I don't quite know what to say.

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Speaker 2: What caricatures of us? Would I have to describe how

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Speaker 2: we look? Will you look like that comedian that thinks?

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you want to actually associate me

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Speaker 2: with anybody with looking like that? M yeah, yeah, do

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Speaker 2: you know who I'm talking about? No, No, I'll tell

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Speaker 2: you later. I think I well, my teeth are enormous.

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Speaker 2: I'm drooling. I think is my penis out?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: But she's sending me no favors with the with the

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Speaker 3: enormous chest or the.

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Speaker 2: Fucking wait wait till this one.

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Speaker 3: And I do have more wrinkles on my head one

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Speaker 3: eyebrows more?

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Speaker 2: Would you say?

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Speaker 3: I'm not quite sure what's happening with my upper leak there?

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Speaker 3: But yes, it's quite interesting, isn't it what she's done there?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, okay, now this one is I said, I

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Speaker 2: want you to posting this on the social Yeah. Absolutely, to

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Speaker 2: celebrate national celebrating cartoonists all across Australia. He's drying number two. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I look like my mother.

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Speaker 3: Oh Christian God, love it. You would have loved that. Okay,

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Speaker 3: oh god, oh good god.

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Speaker 2: I've just looked at what we've got.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not a fan of that.

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Speaker 2: What of what?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 5: There's there you're using your bells and back off and

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Speaker 5: then you've got your I've got my glasses face along

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Speaker 2: What else is hanging out?

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Speaker 3: Well, protruding both breast and teeth proximity. Look, I'm not

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Speaker 3: a thing. I think she could do a lot bitter.

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Speaker 2: But like so, her Instagram is really bad portraits really

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Speaker 2: do bad dot portrait has based in Adelaide.

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Speaker 3: Has certainly Oh god, the brief is definitely fulfilled.

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Speaker 2: Here she does commissions to h They were twelve dollars

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Speaker 3: It's funny because my hair actually did go into your face.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well that was that was the photo. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 2: just like hair on her head. Yeah, So happy National Cartoon.

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Speaker 3: Well done.

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Speaker 2: Before I launch into our next segment, I wanted to

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Speaker 2: talk a little bit about losing parent. Now I can't

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Speaker 2: like when they lost their mother. And a friend of

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Speaker 2: mine lost their mother when they were very young, and

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Speaker 2: and it was very traumatic, and they've been very open

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Speaker 2: about their stories. I highly recommend looking up Tony Lodge.

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Speaker 2: She's got a book out. It's really fantastic and she

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Speaker 2: grieving process and the loss. And Tony said something once,

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Speaker 2: I'm summarizing here because my memory is awful. Tony is

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Speaker 2: very famous part of the almost number one comedy podcast

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Speaker 2: in Australia, picked by Hamish and Andy, Tony and Ryan,

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Speaker 2: and she was just like, you know, I just just

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Speaker 2: want people to know that when Mother's Day rolls around,

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Speaker 2: depressing for. It's really hard, and it's you know, reach

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Speaker 2: With Mother's Day approaching this Sunday and we're about to

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Speaker 2: to let you know that we are thinking of you.

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Speaker 2: And if you are struggling or you want to find

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Speaker 2: people in the same boat, there is a fantastic charity

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Speaker 2: here in Australia. It's called Motherless Daughters. You can find

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Speaker 2: a community of women who just get it. It's a

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Speaker 2: private peer support group. It's Motherless Daughters dot com dot Au. Earlier,

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Speaker 2: I asked you a bunch of questions, favorite movie, just

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Speaker 2: the Warman, the Fuzzies. I also asked those questions to

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Speaker 2: And go, well, I've got recorded voice notes of your

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Speaker 2: to see how well that they did. It's the Mother's

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Speaker 2: Day Quiz. See Christine her the Mother's Day Quiz. I

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Speaker 2: am so excited because obviously I asked them who they

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Speaker 2: be an interesting Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to how well

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Speaker 2: Christine's sons. No, Christine, we asked you what your favorite

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Speaker 2: movie was and your answer you gave was, well, the.

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Speaker 3: First thing that comes to mind is Kevin Costner, the

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Speaker 3: one Build It and they will come water World. No,

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Speaker 3: it's not water World. It's a baseball game with the

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Speaker 2: On the Wow, you must really love it. You can't

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Speaker 2: even name it.

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Speaker 3: Hey, sirih what's the name of the Kevin Costner movie

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Speaker 3: with the baseball field? What's the name of the Kevin

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Speaker 3: Costner movie with the baseball field. Check it out Field

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Speaker 3: of Dreams.

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Speaker 2: Now you want to lock in Field of Dreams. Field

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Speaker 2: of Dreams.

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Speaker 3: But I did think of something else, But no, what

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: I thought of Twister. I don't retain. It has to

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Speaker 3: go Field of Dreams slash Twister.

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Speaker 2: So I'm going to play the audio as follows. I've

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Speaker 2: asked these questions to Christy's son, Charlie, who's twenty three,

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Speaker 2: two thirty two, and you're going to hear them in

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Speaker 2: the order of Charlie, Jack, and Max. Do you think

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Speaker 2: any of your sons are going to get this?

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Speaker 3: I reckon they're going to get Twister.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Mum's favorite movie is Twister, and if she says anything else,

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Speaker 6: she's a goddamn layer.

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Speaker 1: I'll be very surprised if Jack gets that one.

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Speaker 4: I think your favorite movie, Mum would have to be

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Speaker 4: Dirty Dancy by Patrick Swazey. I know you're always about

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Speaker 4: It holds deep and holds close to your chest. That

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Speaker 7: What's Mum's favorite movie? That's a tough one. I know

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Speaker 7: that she loves love actually, but I wouldn't would be

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Speaker 7: her favorite. I remember her favorite being The Labyrinth. The

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Speaker 7: Labyrinth used to be one of her all time favorites,

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Speaker 2: For pocus Pocus, Bakers, I mean, judging from that one,

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Speaker 2: child got that right, Charlie. You've never seen The Labyrinth,

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Speaker 2: seen that, and then Jack's Dirty Dancing.

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Speaker 3: I have no idea where that child's got that from.

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Speaker 3: I like Patrick Swayzy. I think he was a very

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Speaker 3: it was Footloose, not that one.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he was thinking footloose.

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Speaker 3: Kevin Bacon. No either way, off no idea.

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Speaker 2: Question number two, who is your favorite artist? And you said,

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Speaker 2: look now, look now that I've warmed up a bit,

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Speaker 2: Freddie Mercury Love Freddy, David Bowie Grace Kelly.

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Speaker 3: Love her, Yes, Kelly, Grace Kelly.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't she a dancer?

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Speaker 3: Grace Kelly was the fabulous actress and then she became

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Speaker 3: a singer. No, Grace Kelly was the hey, Siri, who

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Speaker 3: is Grace Kelly in a doubt refert Grace Kelly was

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Speaker 3: known as the Grace of Monaco. She was an American

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Speaker 2: Again, just a fucking cohort of random names who were

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Speaker 3: David Bowie yep, Freddie Mercury yep.

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Speaker 2: And now do you want to throw in any.

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Speaker 3: Cardim An Oak?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, okay, all right, And here is what your

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Speaker 2: children said.

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Speaker 1: What is mum's favorite artist?

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Speaker 6: I think she's going to say a couple and she

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Speaker 6: is like me, how it fluctuates? I reckon she might

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Speaker 6: say Keith Urban. I think she might say Dread, Dread.

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Speaker 6: I think your favorite are the artist and it's fucking

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Speaker 6: without a doubt. Excuse my language, Sorry, I know this

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Speaker 6: is going on the pod. Dolly Pardon can't stop talking

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Speaker 7: Mom's favorite artist. That's an easy one. Growing up, Duran,

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Speaker 7: Duran used to be on repeat. And she also loves

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Speaker 7: Keith Urban and Kylie Mine, but her favorite would be yeah,

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Speaker 7: Duran Duran.

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Speaker 3: Well, they're not wrong, but you said artist singular. You

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Speaker 3: didn't mean a group. If you had said group, I

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Speaker 3: would have said Dandre.

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Speaker 2: Was fleetwood Mark.

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Speaker 3: But they're collective, aren't they. No, well done, boys, he's

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Speaker 2: You're a big fan of Jan Duran.

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Speaker 2: They did well done. The Alders are the point.

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Speaker 3: My TV show would have to be Roseanne. I love that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't. You're allowed to admit to that now.

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Speaker 2: Do you reckon? They'll get Roseanne? No, oh, what do

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Speaker 2: Well, done, So we're giving a point to Max.

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Speaker 3: On that giving a point to Max.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well none of them said Roseanne.

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Speaker 3: No, no, I'd be given the point to MAXI.

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Speaker 2: There, okay, Dexter, Dexter. I thought he said death Ster.

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Speaker 2: What is your worst habit?

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Speaker 4: What is your worst habit? I think your worst habit

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Speaker 7: Mum's worst habit, I don't think she. I'm going to

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Speaker 3: I agree with you.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a it's a point, no points as

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Speaker 3: My life is a quick I can't wait to hear

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Speaker 1: What quirk does mum have? Mum has a lot of quirks.

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Speaker 6: I think her quirk is making any situation fun.

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Speaker 4: So what if your little quirks are? Your quirks have

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Speaker 8: I think her quirks are should be really like tired

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Speaker 2: I actually agreed with Max the most on that one,

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Speaker 3: Like I don't know where you're like, get my second wind.

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Speaker 2: But I do think Jack needs the point for that one,

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Speaker 2: because your biggest quirk is mispronouncing every word possible.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with that.

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Speaker 2: Score Update Charlie two points, Jack also two points, Max

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Speaker 2: two points. Anyone's gag. If you're an animal, what would

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Speaker 3: I still stand by a cat okay, and a rabbit.

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Speaker 6: If Mum was an animal, what would she be? I

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Speaker 4: If Mum was an animal, what would she be?

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Speaker 4: Maybe an elephant? Well maybe or soaring above the world.

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Speaker 7: If Mum was an animal, what would she be? Definitely

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Speaker 3: Don't know where he's got that from.

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Speaker 2: I think it's because the very good parents. Elephants are

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Speaker 3: Well quite aggressive. Would you call me aggressive after.

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Speaker 2: What I witnessed at the restaurant when we were seventeen

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Speaker 2: that point to Charlie. Thank you, Charlie. Well done, Charlie. Also,

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Speaker 2: I'm scared of him and he'll come for me. He

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Speaker 2: goes bye, said the cat, demanded Rangel would he would?

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Speaker 2: I asked you what is your favorite saying, and you.

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Speaker 3: Said one hundred percent. I say that a lot, and

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but it's a filler word. It's a word

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Speaker 6: So this is not really like a favorite saying of mums.

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Speaker 1: She wants to be called foxy and I hate it.

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Speaker 4: Your favorite saying would have to be on a positive level.

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Speaker 7: Favorite saying of your mums, she's got so many, she's

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Speaker 2: Oh fear Unwell? Who's the point for that? Look? I

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Speaker 2: Do you hide anything from Ricardo?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Really, I'm sorry, but that is normal marriage life. You

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Speaker 1: Um, does Mama hide anything from Riccardo? Ohdd orange her grinder?

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Speaker 4: Does Mama hide anything from Riccardo? If so, what pretty obvious?

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Speaker 4: Mama hides TikTok from Riccardo. It's her safe space, it's

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Speaker 7: I think the better question is what doesn't she keep

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Speaker 2: They all think you hide nothing from Riccardo. Now, I

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Burn a phone? You've pulled the wool over their eyes.

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Speaker 2: They think you're an angel that doesn't keep any secrets. Well,

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Speaker 3: You, lots and lots.

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Speaker 3: Right, let's go bring it on, because I can tell

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Speaker 2: Gon to your head if there was a gun to

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Speaker 3: Well, they're all gone because I know you wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't do that. You would do. All you have

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Speaker 1: She will say, I don't have favorites.

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Speaker 4: She'll never tell you or anyone on this podcast, who

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Speaker 7: Who do you think mum will say the favorite is?

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Speaker 7: obviously Mackie.

441
00:23:56,761 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 2: Well, Jack thought it was Jack, Max thought it was Max.

442
00:23:59,721 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: Which one of your three sons do you think scored

443
00:24:03,561 --> 00:24:04,681
Speaker 2: the most on that one?

444
00:24:07,120 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 1: Is?

445
00:24:07,201 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: You're a clear winner in your eyes. Well, from knowing

446
00:24:10,120 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 2: what the tally was before, I think Max is in

447
00:24:12,721 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 2: making the winner's board at the moment, is it Maxie?

448
00:24:19,120 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 2: So what you're basically saying is you're really hoping that

449
00:24:21,561 --> 00:24:23,961
Speaker 2: Max takes the win out because Max is the favorite,

450
00:24:24,120 --> 00:24:25,681
Speaker 2: and you've put a lot of time in.

451
00:24:25,721 --> 00:24:28,801
Speaker 3: And based on the data from before.

452
00:24:28,921 --> 00:24:31,921
Speaker 2: Well, the data is feelings. The data is your feelings

453
00:24:31,961 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 2: the data, and you're feeling like Max is winning the

454
00:24:36,001 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 2: winner on my feelings that I love them all equally

455
00:24:40,921 --> 00:24:43,961
Speaker 2: and in my eyes they're all winners. Okay, but who

456
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:44,561
Speaker 2: was the winner?

457
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:45,561
Speaker 3: I think it's Maxie.

458
00:24:45,721 --> 00:24:49,761
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go the winner. I feel like Gretel

459
00:24:49,801 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 2: Klaid Drum role play of who knows Christine the best

460
00:24:53,921 --> 00:25:05,681
Speaker 2: is drum roll, all three of them equally, actually all

461
00:25:05,721 --> 00:25:06,961
Speaker 2: scored three points.

462
00:25:07,201 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 3: See well done boys, he well done boys. Mummies, boys

463
00:25:11,561 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 3: love you.

464
00:25:12,360 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 2: Your son's They're fun, They're hilarious. Charlie is hilarious because

465
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,121
Speaker 2: he's just so kept.

466
00:25:20,201 --> 00:25:23,521
Speaker 3: Oh he's beautiful. Can't tell you. They are all three

467
00:25:23,801 --> 00:25:27,721
Speaker 3: so different, but they are so funny. They just make

468
00:25:28,321 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 3: describe Charlie.

469
00:25:29,201 --> 00:25:30,241
Speaker 2: How would you describe Charlie?

470
00:25:30,241 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 3: Well, Charlie's my pit bull terrier because he's very No,

471
00:25:33,321 --> 00:25:34,001
Speaker 3: he's a pit bull.

472
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:38,041
Speaker 2: No, he's a small cavoodle. Do you think he's a

473
00:25:38,681 --> 00:25:40,121
Speaker 2: He's definitely not a pit bull.

474
00:25:40,241 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 3: So when growing up, Charlie was always failure to thrive,

475
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 3: was his He a specialist, so basically.

476
00:25:50,041 --> 00:25:53,801
Speaker 2: Diagnosed, he was diagnosed failure to thrive.

477
00:25:57,001 --> 00:26:01,361
Speaker 3: My poor Charlie. So he was always the littlest So

478
00:26:01,761 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 3: Jack would basically tease the shit out of him like

479
00:26:04,681 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 3: little people do. And so then Charlie would switch and

480
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 3: he would literally chase Jack from one end of the

481
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,321
Speaker 3: house to another like a pit bull terrier. Jack would

482
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 3: jump up onto the couch. Now he knew that Charlie

483
00:26:19,481 --> 00:26:20,121
Speaker 3: couldn't get on.

484
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,681
Speaker 2: The couch because he was too little to get up,

485
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,001
Speaker 2: so he would be at the base, like at the

486
00:26:25,041 --> 00:26:28,481
Speaker 2: back of the couch, and Charlie would I'm trying to

487
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,801
Speaker 2: get to him. Oh, so we call him the Charlie's

488
00:26:32,801 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 2: not listen to this. Would you still say his diagnosed

489
00:26:35,281 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: failure to thrive?

490
00:26:36,481 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 3: Oh no, he's perfect, he's perfect, he's great.

491
00:26:39,561 --> 00:26:43,601
Speaker 2: How much money did he ask for today?

492
00:26:44,201 --> 00:26:45,160
Speaker 3: So many other levels?

493
00:26:45,241 --> 00:26:47,481
Speaker 2: Okay, then now are you done with describing Charlie.

494
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 3: That's my beautiful tills.

495
00:26:48,961 --> 00:26:51,361
Speaker 2: Cool, we got away. The takeaway from Charlie is failure

496
00:26:51,360 --> 00:26:54,321
Speaker 2: to thrive. Let's go to Jack. How would you describe Jack,

497
00:26:54,441 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 2: my beautiful Jack Nicholas Jack. What's Charlie's middle name Charles Edward,

498
00:26:58,801 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: Charles Edward, very royal.

499
00:27:00,961 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 3: Yes, well that's a family tradition. They've got them as Edward.

500
00:27:04,481 --> 00:27:06,281
Speaker 3: So then we've got Jack Nicholas.

501
00:27:06,681 --> 00:27:07,801
Speaker 2: Is that after the actor?

502
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,121
Speaker 3: That was just no, no, no, no, no no. So

503
00:27:10,201 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 3: his father chose that name. Jack. He's a Jack about town?

504
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,801
Speaker 3: Is Jack the lad Everyone wants to be friends with

505
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,641
Speaker 3: Jack because you know, he's the life of the party.

506
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,001
Speaker 3: If you're on the dance floor with Jack, he's a

507
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 3: DJ but a top guy like you warn him in

508
00:27:25,681 --> 00:27:29,521
Speaker 3: your corner. He's funny, he's generous.

509
00:27:29,561 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 2: Really, there's something that you shared with me that I

510
00:27:32,001 --> 00:27:35,521
Speaker 2: won't mention. And yet man about town. He's a man

511
00:27:35,721 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 2: man about town. So that's Jack Nicholas. And then we

512
00:27:43,441 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 2: have Max Max Jason, Max Jason, I'm Mackie beautiful boy.

513
00:27:49,041 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 3: He's so gorgeous. He's very gentle. You can have a

514
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,161
Speaker 3: great fun with him, but he's very loyal. He's very gentle.

515
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,561
Speaker 3: He's a psychologist of the family, and he'll try and

516
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 3: work out all your problems and psychoanalyze you. And then

517
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 3: you say to them, stop fucking doing that, because you know,

518
00:28:06,321 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 3: just talk to me like a normal person.

519
00:28:07,761 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 2: Pleaser. Yeah, yeah, it's great.

520
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 3: I love my Macky.

521
00:28:11,241 --> 00:28:11,401
Speaker 2: Yeah.

522
00:28:11,721 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 3: They're really very very caring.

523
00:28:14,201 --> 00:28:17,601
Speaker 2: I message them and they're all really eager to do this.

524
00:28:18,281 --> 00:28:21,281
Speaker 2: They love the idea. It's not like I just woult

525
00:28:21,321 --> 00:28:22,001
Speaker 2: have thought it was.

526
00:28:23,281 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 3: No, they were all in for a good thing. And

527
00:28:26,241 --> 00:28:28,640
Speaker 3: they're very loyal. Can you hear that in them? They're

528
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 3: all very, very loyal.

529
00:28:30,001 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. I want to ask you personal questions episodes. I

530
00:28:34,961 --> 00:28:37,201
Speaker 2: want to ask how have you found being a mother?

531
00:28:37,721 --> 00:28:40,321
Speaker 3: Oh, it's the biggest and most fabulous thing I've ever

532
00:28:40,361 --> 00:28:43,081
Speaker 3: done in my whole entire life. Yeah, I love being

533
00:28:43,121 --> 00:28:45,801
Speaker 3: a mom, challenges, any challenges always.

534
00:28:46,041 --> 00:28:50,921
Speaker 2: I think it's actually more harder to parent older children

535
00:28:51,281 --> 00:28:54,001
Speaker 2: like now than what it was when they were little.

536
00:28:54,281 --> 00:28:56,601
Speaker 2: Why do you think that, Well, it's control, because I'll

537
00:28:56,601 --> 00:29:00,241
Speaker 2: tell you why. When they're adults and they've got healthy

538
00:29:00,281 --> 00:29:03,721
Speaker 2: shoes or something's going on, you can't say to them, well,

539
00:29:03,841 --> 00:29:06,001
Speaker 2: I'll just take you to the doctor. You know, I'll

540
00:29:06,041 --> 00:29:06,521
Speaker 2: sort that.

541
00:29:06,561 --> 00:29:09,841
Speaker 3: Out for you. You've actually got to talk them through it, like, okay,

542
00:29:09,881 --> 00:29:12,361
Speaker 3: so what's your plan, what's your goals? Like where do

543
00:29:12,401 --> 00:29:14,561
Speaker 3: you think you'll go from there? And you've got to

544
00:29:14,601 --> 00:29:18,241
Speaker 3: really restrain because you're desperate to say, what the fuck

545
00:29:18,281 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 3: are you doing that for? You need to get to

546
00:29:20,201 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 3: the doctor now, or I'm taking you to the doctor,

547
00:29:23,801 --> 00:29:27,001
Speaker 3: putting you in the car and literally walking through You

548
00:29:27,081 --> 00:29:28,761
Speaker 3: have no control. They are men.

549
00:29:28,921 --> 00:29:31,001
Speaker 2: They know exactly what they want and how they're going

550
00:29:31,081 --> 00:29:33,401
Speaker 2: to do it, and you are just there on the

551
00:29:33,521 --> 00:29:35,201
Speaker 2: side to clap.

552
00:29:34,921 --> 00:29:38,081
Speaker 3: Them on your way cheerleader without.

553
00:29:37,841 --> 00:29:40,881
Speaker 2: Having to do you struggle, Oh.

554
00:29:40,761 --> 00:29:44,161
Speaker 3: Big time. The conversations I have in my head about

555
00:29:44,321 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 3: each and every one of them really unbelievable.

556
00:29:48,001 --> 00:29:49,841
Speaker 2: It's really interesting because I feel like these are all

557
00:29:49,881 --> 00:29:51,921
Speaker 2: the things I wonder if my mum feels the same.

558
00:29:51,961 --> 00:29:54,001
Speaker 3: I think we need to have a conversation with your mum.

559
00:29:54,201 --> 00:29:56,321
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know if she'd ever would she do it?

560
00:29:56,321 --> 00:29:56,721
Speaker 3: Do you think?

561
00:29:56,881 --> 00:29:59,481
Speaker 2: Well, it's interesting hearing you say that, because my mum's

562
00:29:59,521 --> 00:30:03,361
Speaker 2: not controlling. But it was like it was Mum's way, right,

563
00:30:03,441 --> 00:30:06,161
Speaker 2: she would tell you what to do. You did it,

564
00:30:06,161 --> 00:30:09,481
Speaker 2: it worked out. She knows best. But it never taught

565
00:30:09,521 --> 00:30:11,281
Speaker 2: me anything because it was like, well, I did it,

566
00:30:11,321 --> 00:30:12,641
Speaker 2: and she said it was fine, But I don't know

567
00:30:12,681 --> 00:30:14,521
Speaker 2: if my way would have worked better or not because

568
00:30:14,521 --> 00:30:17,161
Speaker 2: I didn't get to do it. And so I remember

569
00:30:17,241 --> 00:30:19,801
Speaker 2: I'd always do my way and I wouldn't really listen,

570
00:30:20,321 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 2: you know. And then there was one point in my

571
00:30:22,481 --> 00:30:27,081
Speaker 2: life where I got a job and I was so

572
00:30:27,161 --> 00:30:30,881
Speaker 2: excited and Mum said to me, I was like Jesus.

573
00:30:30,881 --> 00:30:33,121
Speaker 2: She was like this reason, this reason, and this reason,

574
00:30:33,161 --> 00:30:34,801
Speaker 2: and I was like, no, Mum, what would you know.

575
00:30:34,841 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 2: I've got, you know, so much experience in this field.

576
00:30:37,841 --> 00:30:39,321
Speaker 2: I know what I'm doing. This is going to be

577
00:30:39,321 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 2: a great opportunity. Blah blah, blah blah. There was no

578
00:30:42,081 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 2: fight about it. It was a healthy discussion and I

579
00:30:44,281 --> 00:30:47,081
Speaker 2: was like, here we go, Here we go. Mum, she

580
00:30:47,161 --> 00:30:54,161
Speaker 2: knows everything she had said seven months prior, all of it,

581
00:30:54,401 --> 00:30:57,601
Speaker 2: all of it. And I just remember going, they fuck,

582
00:30:57,881 --> 00:31:00,521
Speaker 2: how did she know that? Like how? And it was

583
00:31:00,561 --> 00:31:04,161
Speaker 2: the realization of like, she's got a full life of experience,

584
00:31:04,161 --> 00:31:06,881
Speaker 2: she's been through all this situations, she's learned all of

585
00:31:06,921 --> 00:31:09,841
Speaker 2: these lessons that she can go this is what's going

586
00:31:09,921 --> 00:31:13,801
Speaker 2: to happen. I haven't learnt those lessons. And that was

587
00:31:13,841 --> 00:31:16,041
Speaker 2: the moment to me. I was like, oh, okay, I

588
00:31:16,081 --> 00:31:17,721
Speaker 2: need to really listen to what Mum has to say,

589
00:31:18,121 --> 00:31:21,361
Speaker 2: not write her off. But then I also told her

590
00:31:21,721 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 2: I need to go and make those decisions. Knowing that

591
00:31:25,481 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 2: you've said that and that you're there to support me

592
00:31:27,401 --> 00:31:29,441
Speaker 2: is just it means I can go and do this.

593
00:31:29,481 --> 00:31:32,641
Speaker 3: Absolutely. I say to the boys's all the time, I'm

594
00:31:32,641 --> 00:31:35,521
Speaker 3: going to say some things to you. Sift through the

595
00:31:35,601 --> 00:31:40,561
Speaker 3: stuff that I'm saying. Whatever resonates, whatever you take, take that,

596
00:31:40,681 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 3: don't take all of it. Just sift through the stuff

597
00:31:43,481 --> 00:31:46,161
Speaker 3: and then do your research and then go from there.

598
00:31:46,681 --> 00:31:50,241
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it came back to me understanding that Mum

599
00:31:50,481 --> 00:31:54,201
Speaker 2: had a life before me, you know, like she wasn't just.

600
00:31:54,081 --> 00:31:56,521
Speaker 3: A yeah, and she wants to protect you, and I

601
00:31:56,601 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 3: get all of that, but I think sometimes we overprotect

602
00:32:00,041 --> 00:32:02,521
Speaker 3: and we put people in a position where they are

603
00:32:02,561 --> 00:32:04,201
Speaker 3: never going to trust their own intuition.

604
00:32:04,321 --> 00:32:07,201
Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing, so it's not done with malice.

605
00:32:09,601 --> 00:32:11,161
Speaker 2: You're going to hurt yourself. So I don't want to

606
00:32:11,161 --> 00:32:13,881
Speaker 2: see you get hurt, of course. But then I'm like, oh,

607
00:32:13,921 --> 00:32:17,801
Speaker 2: but that sounds so much better. And I'm younger, and

608
00:32:17,961 --> 00:32:20,161
Speaker 2: this is how the world works now, so when I

609
00:32:20,281 --> 00:32:23,041
Speaker 2: go down that path, it's like, oh no, the world's

610
00:32:23,081 --> 00:32:26,081
Speaker 2: still exactly the same. Mum was right, but now I've

611
00:32:26,161 --> 00:32:29,321
Speaker 2: learnt that lesson where I go. Okay, I'm going to

612
00:32:29,361 --> 00:32:31,721
Speaker 2: trust Mum, but I also need to live my own

613
00:32:31,761 --> 00:32:34,761
Speaker 2: life and make my own mistakes. Yeah, that's that control thing.

614
00:32:35,081 --> 00:32:38,121
Speaker 2: And I can understand you saying it'd be harder parenting

615
00:32:38,161 --> 00:32:40,761
Speaker 2: adult kids because I don't have that control. So hard,

616
00:32:40,961 --> 00:32:45,161
Speaker 2: and I've had many a night awake worrying about each

617
00:32:45,201 --> 00:32:46,561
Speaker 2: and every one of them.

618
00:32:46,761 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 3: As Ricardo is sleeping blissfully.

619
00:32:48,761 --> 00:32:52,761
Speaker 2: Starr, I feel like that's mum and dad as well.

620
00:32:53,321 --> 00:32:55,241
Speaker 3: I just lay there and think about all the worst

621
00:32:55,241 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 3: case scenarios. But look they're doing great. This is my

622
00:32:58,561 --> 00:33:02,881
Speaker 3: time now, I'm loving my life. Ricardo and I were traveling,

623
00:33:02,961 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 3: we're out seeing the world. Is he's a great and

624
00:33:06,001 --> 00:33:08,801
Speaker 3: great positions. I mean, Charlie, I would like to see.

625
00:33:08,881 --> 00:33:11,681
Speaker 2: A little less failure to thrive, a little more thrive.

626
00:33:12,401 --> 00:33:17,001
Speaker 2: He is twenty three. At twenty three, I was didn't

627
00:33:17,001 --> 00:33:20,121
Speaker 2: have great income. Parents were funding my life at twenty three.

628
00:33:20,241 --> 00:33:24,561
Speaker 2: So but when Charlie gets the thirty eight, hopefully he'll

629
00:33:24,561 --> 00:33:26,081
Speaker 2: be sitting in his boogie part.

630
00:33:26,121 --> 00:33:29,921
Speaker 3: I can see him right now with his support caty s.

631
00:33:30,281 --> 00:33:31,881
Speaker 2: And his support cat.

632
00:33:32,361 --> 00:33:33,241
Speaker 3: He loves his.

633
00:33:33,201 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 2: Cat shout out to say, se, well, we're not done there, okay,

634
00:33:37,001 --> 00:33:41,401
Speaker 2: because the question really, I've been through a room emotional rollercoaster.

635
00:33:41,681 --> 00:33:44,841
Speaker 2: Now's the time where we quiz you me on how

636
00:33:44,881 --> 00:33:47,361
Speaker 2: well you know your sons, because I asked them the

637
00:33:47,441 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 2: same questions, right, and you're going to tell me what

638
00:33:50,601 --> 00:33:50,961
Speaker 2: you think.

639
00:33:51,041 --> 00:33:53,641
Speaker 3: Oh god, that's a lot of information. I'm quite secretly

640
00:33:53,681 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 3: excited though, because I thought, for a moment there you

641
00:33:55,961 --> 00:34:00,961
Speaker 3: were going to say, now I've wrung. Ricardo got his no.

642
00:34:01,201 --> 00:34:04,521
Speaker 2: I said to Jack, I said I'm thinking about, Oh,

643
00:34:04,641 --> 00:34:07,201
Speaker 2: what's Cardo's number. I'll get him to do something too,

644
00:34:07,521 --> 00:34:11,401
Speaker 2: And Jack said no, no, he said no, but he

645
00:34:11,481 --> 00:34:15,921
Speaker 2: said no because Ricardo will immediately read the email to Chrissy.

646
00:34:16,401 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: So if you're going to do it, do it while

647
00:34:18,001 --> 00:34:20,641
Speaker 2: she's on the flight over. And I was like, I

648
00:34:20,761 --> 00:34:22,881
Speaker 2: just won't do it. So Ricardo, I did want to

649
00:34:22,881 --> 00:34:27,241
Speaker 2: involve you, but your inability to keep secrets from your wife,

650
00:34:27,281 --> 00:34:29,241
Speaker 2: who we've learned keep secrets from.

651
00:34:29,121 --> 00:34:30,841
Speaker 3: You, not of anything greatness.

652
00:34:30,881 --> 00:34:33,241
Speaker 2: Jack was like, for God, don't tell him anything. You

653
00:34:33,241 --> 00:34:34,081
Speaker 2: don't want Chrissy now.

654
00:34:36,441 --> 00:34:37,641
Speaker 3: Because he tells me everything.

655
00:34:37,761 --> 00:34:40,961
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're going to know, we're going to play

656
00:34:40,961 --> 00:34:43,801
Speaker 2: a little quiz about each of your sons. Will start

657
00:34:43,801 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 2: with Charlie, right.

658
00:34:45,401 --> 00:34:46,681
Speaker 3: What's Charlie's favorite.

659
00:34:46,801 --> 00:34:48,801
Speaker 2: So we're just going to do quickly. You're just going

660
00:34:48,841 --> 00:34:51,121
Speaker 2: to go through the list. What is Charlie's favorite movie?

661
00:34:51,241 --> 00:34:54,321
Speaker 3: Oh, undoubtedly would be Wizard.

662
00:34:53,961 --> 00:34:57,881
Speaker 2: Of Oz yep, Okay, his favorite artist Charlie.

663
00:34:57,721 --> 00:35:01,121
Speaker 3: XCX TV show Friends.

664
00:35:01,841 --> 00:35:02,841
Speaker 2: His worst habit.

665
00:35:03,321 --> 00:35:07,241
Speaker 3: Staying in bed, any other not that I can spring

666
00:35:07,321 --> 00:35:07,721
Speaker 3: to mind.

667
00:35:08,161 --> 00:35:10,281
Speaker 2: That's weird, but okay, what.

668
00:35:10,241 --> 00:35:14,281
Speaker 6: Is your favorite movie? Drum Worll plays and Mum will

669
00:35:14,281 --> 00:35:16,641
Speaker 6: know this one. It is kill Bill and I will

670
00:35:16,681 --> 00:35:20,361
Speaker 6: be so disappointed if Mum doesn't know that one. What

671
00:35:20,521 --> 00:35:23,681
Speaker 6: is your favorite artist? I think Mum might have a

672
00:35:23,721 --> 00:35:27,001
Speaker 6: little trouble with this one because I reckon she will

673
00:35:27,081 --> 00:35:30,801
Speaker 6: want to say Ariana Grande, but that is incorrect.

674
00:35:31,281 --> 00:35:34,601
Speaker 1: It is Caroline Pultore. What is my favorite TV show?

675
00:35:35,401 --> 00:35:38,641
Speaker 6: Well, I think she'll say something along the lines of

676
00:35:38,841 --> 00:35:42,841
Speaker 6: it fluctuates, like right now, my favorite TV show of

677
00:35:42,881 --> 00:35:45,481
Speaker 6: all time is Sex and the City. But ask me

678
00:35:45,521 --> 00:35:47,481
Speaker 6: again in a month and will be Twin Peaks And

679
00:35:47,521 --> 00:35:48,681
Speaker 6: what is my worst habit?

680
00:35:49,281 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 3: Hmm.

681
00:35:50,441 --> 00:35:52,281
Speaker 6: I reckon she's gonna make a joke here and say

682
00:35:52,401 --> 00:35:54,041
Speaker 6: asking me for Monday.

683
00:35:59,921 --> 00:36:00,321
Speaker 2: Funny?

684
00:36:00,641 --> 00:36:01,201
Speaker 3: So funny.

685
00:36:01,241 --> 00:36:02,761
Speaker 2: Ah, that is a zero.

686
00:36:03,361 --> 00:36:05,041
Speaker 3: Zero, and I feel like it's going to be easy.

687
00:36:05,041 --> 00:36:06,081
Speaker 3: You're across the board.

688
00:36:06,121 --> 00:36:08,601
Speaker 2: Yeah, probably. What's Jack's favorite movie?

689
00:36:09,121 --> 00:36:12,241
Speaker 3: Oh? Look, or gee, I can't think of one. I'd

690
00:36:12,241 --> 00:36:15,721
Speaker 3: say Star Wars. I'm completely wrong, that's a right.

691
00:36:15,721 --> 00:36:19,361
Speaker 2: He didn't get yours favorite artist? Well, he likes the

692
00:36:19,521 --> 00:36:22,401
Speaker 2: dj Ones, you know, the YEP, So we'll just say

693
00:36:23,081 --> 00:36:24,481
Speaker 2: Sonic Music. Sonic.

694
00:36:24,681 --> 00:36:27,041
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't even know if that's what you call it.

695
00:36:27,121 --> 00:36:31,081
Speaker 3: Favorite TV show, favorite TV show. Oh, I don't know.

696
00:36:31,841 --> 00:36:34,841
Speaker 3: It's very difficult. I don't know.

697
00:36:35,001 --> 00:36:35,921
Speaker 2: Does he live with you?

698
00:36:35,961 --> 00:36:36,081
Speaker 8: No?

699
00:36:36,761 --> 00:36:39,281
Speaker 2: Okay, and his worst habit.

700
00:36:39,161 --> 00:36:41,721
Speaker 3: His worse habit. I don't know if he's got a

701
00:36:41,721 --> 00:36:42,601
Speaker 3: worse habit with me.

702
00:36:43,321 --> 00:36:46,401
Speaker 2: Just in general, like, does he have a habit that

703
00:36:46,441 --> 00:36:47,801
Speaker 2: you're not a fan give?

704
00:36:47,961 --> 00:36:50,481
Speaker 3: His car is always a mess inside of his car.

705
00:36:50,521 --> 00:36:52,161
Speaker 3: It never cleans it car.

706
00:36:53,601 --> 00:36:56,321
Speaker 2: Okay, this is Jack's response.

707
00:36:57,321 --> 00:37:00,841
Speaker 4: Now, what is my favorite movie? I'll have to say

708
00:37:00,881 --> 00:37:03,601
Speaker 4: my favorite movie is Short Shank Redemption.

709
00:37:03,921 --> 00:37:06,361
Speaker 1: Oh, like his father It's an absolute masterpiece.

710
00:37:06,681 --> 00:37:07,761
Speaker 3: That's his father's face.

711
00:37:07,761 --> 00:37:11,441
Speaker 4: Best movie he's ever made. Who is my favorite artist?

712
00:37:11,521 --> 00:37:13,841
Speaker 4: I do not think you'll ever get this at all,

713
00:37:14,641 --> 00:37:17,361
Speaker 4: considering my dush dush music.

714
00:37:17,641 --> 00:37:18,921
Speaker 3: Tell Jack, my.

715
00:37:18,921 --> 00:37:23,001
Speaker 4: Favorite artist would have to be at the moment funk Assault.

716
00:37:23,601 --> 00:37:24,401
Speaker 3: I am I going to know that.

717
00:37:24,601 --> 00:37:27,441
Speaker 4: I know you have no idea who that is. What

718
00:37:27,561 --> 00:37:29,641
Speaker 4: is my favorite TV show? My favorite TV show has

719
00:37:29,681 --> 00:37:30,521
Speaker 4: to be The Office?

720
00:37:30,881 --> 00:37:32,201
Speaker 3: I was going to say The Office.

721
00:37:32,281 --> 00:37:35,161
Speaker 4: Michael Scott has to be one of the funniest characters

722
00:37:35,281 --> 00:37:38,761
Speaker 4: ever created, as well as Dwight Shreud. Worst habit would

723
00:37:38,761 --> 00:37:42,001
Speaker 4: probably be, as you're aware, the tattoos. I know you're

724
00:37:42,001 --> 00:37:45,801
Speaker 4: probably on a short term perspective. Put that down. I

725
00:37:45,801 --> 00:37:48,841
Speaker 4: think my worst habit, which you've picked up on since

726
00:37:48,881 --> 00:37:52,041
Speaker 4: I was younger, has to be me biting my fingernails.

727
00:37:54,081 --> 00:37:55,641
Speaker 2: I feel like you did a little better with that.

728
00:37:55,881 --> 00:37:58,401
Speaker 3: I did. I actually felt that I did kind of

729
00:37:58,441 --> 00:37:59,641
Speaker 3: send me okay on that one.

730
00:37:59,681 --> 00:38:01,601
Speaker 2: I'm going to give you one percent for Jack right,

731
00:38:01,841 --> 00:38:04,321
Speaker 2: just puts you ahead zero percent of Charlie and.

732
00:38:04,361 --> 00:38:06,921
Speaker 3: I want to talk about the tattoos lately because they're crap.

733
00:38:07,001 --> 00:38:09,841
Speaker 3: Why get a tattoo when I've made his body perfect.

734
00:38:09,881 --> 00:38:12,161
Speaker 3: I say this to him all the time when he

735
00:38:12,281 --> 00:38:16,801
Speaker 3: randomly sends me photos of a moth under his knee

736
00:38:16,801 --> 00:38:20,081
Speaker 3: cap colored or black and white, So that's going to

737
00:38:20,161 --> 00:38:25,561
Speaker 3: blur into a blob when he's seventy and I said white.

738
00:38:25,641 --> 00:38:27,601
Speaker 3: I don't want to know, Jack. I don't like them,

739
00:38:27,841 --> 00:38:30,601
Speaker 3: don't like tattoos. I made that child perfect. There is

740
00:38:30,681 --> 00:38:33,321
Speaker 3: no need for him to put any little, added little

741
00:38:33,441 --> 00:38:35,641
Speaker 3: things on them. He's not the only one, and I

742
00:38:35,681 --> 00:38:37,561
Speaker 3: say it to all of them, but he keeps going

743
00:38:37,641 --> 00:38:40,881
Speaker 3: back and getting tattoo. Oh, They're just ridiculous. Ask me

744
00:38:40,921 --> 00:38:43,681
Speaker 3: about one of Charlie's most unusual tattoos.

745
00:38:43,841 --> 00:38:46,041
Speaker 2: What is Charlie's most unusual tattoo.

746
00:38:45,761 --> 00:38:48,361
Speaker 3: Thank you for asking Christians. He is on his hand

747
00:38:49,081 --> 00:38:53,201
Speaker 3: in red ink to little line or actually three little

748
00:38:53,241 --> 00:38:58,881
Speaker 3: lines on his hand because our British short haircut bear

749
00:38:59,361 --> 00:39:04,201
Speaker 3: a week before he passed away scratched his hand. So

750
00:39:04,281 --> 00:39:12,441
Speaker 3: he then he then went and he calls it his

751
00:39:12,601 --> 00:39:15,361
Speaker 3: memorial tetty.

752
00:39:15,841 --> 00:39:18,041
Speaker 2: I'll ask him, I'll say, send me a photo of

753
00:39:18,081 --> 00:39:20,321
Speaker 2: your hand and you can put that on your I mean,

754
00:39:20,361 --> 00:39:23,841
Speaker 2: I like the premise of it, but in practice, what

755
00:39:23,961 --> 00:39:24,241
Speaker 2: is that?

756
00:39:24,281 --> 00:39:28,121
Speaker 3: What is that stars in the middle of his knuckles?

757
00:39:28,161 --> 00:39:30,401
Speaker 3: Like why would you do that? But the stars? What's that?

758
00:39:30,641 --> 00:39:31,961
Speaker 3: You know what he did for ages?

759
00:39:32,241 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 2: Right?

760
00:39:32,481 --> 00:39:35,441
Speaker 3: Because I just am so ditzy at times, I believe

761
00:39:35,481 --> 00:39:37,841
Speaker 3: what they tell me. So we were sitting there at

762
00:39:37,841 --> 00:39:40,521
Speaker 3: breakfast one day and I said to him, Darning, what's

763
00:39:40,601 --> 00:39:42,521
Speaker 3: that on your on your hand? And it was like

764
00:39:42,561 --> 00:39:46,321
Speaker 3: a star five, pinnacle star whatever they called. And he goes, oh,

765
00:39:46,361 --> 00:39:48,441
Speaker 3: I've just used biro on it. I just want to

766
00:39:48,441 --> 00:39:50,361
Speaker 3: see what it looks like on my hand. I'm okay,

767
00:39:50,401 --> 00:39:53,361
Speaker 3: Well that's feasible, that's understandable. And I see to him, well,

768
00:39:53,361 --> 00:39:54,601
Speaker 3: you're not going to get it, are you, because it

769
00:39:54,641 --> 00:39:58,481
Speaker 3: looks ugly and he goes HAA, totally change the subject.

770
00:39:58,561 --> 00:39:59,641
Speaker 3: I'm off on a new whim.

771
00:39:59,961 --> 00:40:00,561
Speaker 2: Okay.

772
00:40:00,801 --> 00:40:04,761
Speaker 3: Three weeks later, Jullie, we still got that star on

773
00:40:04,801 --> 00:40:05,041
Speaker 3: your head?

774
00:40:05,281 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 4: Oh?

775
00:40:05,441 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 2: He lied, it wasn't Biro.

776
00:40:06,801 --> 00:40:09,361
Speaker 3: He said, oh, yeah, it's just Biro. I said, that's

777
00:40:09,441 --> 00:40:11,841
Speaker 3: not fucking Vira, is it? That's not Biro?

778
00:40:12,401 --> 00:40:12,561
Speaker 2: Oh?

779
00:40:12,681 --> 00:40:14,681
Speaker 3: Christaye, he says turn.

780
00:40:14,921 --> 00:40:20,161
Speaker 2: I would like fifty dollars plase good. Stay if will

781
00:40:20,201 --> 00:40:23,521
Speaker 2: wear off, a tattoo, will wear off a start, I

782
00:40:23,601 --> 00:40:26,521
Speaker 2: will get him to photo over so you can have

783
00:40:26,561 --> 00:40:26,841
Speaker 2: a look.

784
00:40:27,081 --> 00:40:28,121
Speaker 3: Ridiculous behavior.

785
00:40:29,481 --> 00:40:32,081
Speaker 2: So funny? Does Max have any.

786
00:40:32,121 --> 00:40:34,881
Speaker 3: He's got a pineapple? Oh it's ridiculous.

787
00:40:34,881 --> 00:40:38,881
Speaker 2: Abou upside Down? Yeah, No, okay, Max's favorite.

788
00:40:38,521 --> 00:40:41,641
Speaker 3: Movie, Oh, without doubt, I know this the Matrix.

789
00:40:42,041 --> 00:40:43,041
Speaker 2: Why are you so sure?

790
00:40:43,281 --> 00:40:46,961
Speaker 3: Because he's obsessed and always has been obsessed with the Matrix.

791
00:40:47,521 --> 00:40:49,681
Speaker 2: Do you want to look in a second alternative potential?

792
00:40:49,801 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 3: No, I'm going to be very steadfast with that favorite artist.

793
00:40:53,641 --> 00:40:55,881
Speaker 3: Oh I don't know, Oh, yes I do. He likes

794
00:40:55,881 --> 00:41:01,121
Speaker 3: that the Irish band. I don't know how to say

795
00:41:01,161 --> 00:41:05,441
Speaker 3: their name. But oh, you go on TV show, TV show,

796
00:41:06,761 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 3: I would have to say, I don't know I don't

797
00:41:11,521 --> 00:41:14,961
Speaker 3: know what his favorite team, worst habit. His worst habit

798
00:41:15,121 --> 00:41:20,401
Speaker 3: is he doesn't wear shoes on his feet. No, it's

799
00:41:20,401 --> 00:41:25,041
Speaker 3: this whole Eastern suburb vibe thing Eastern suburbs. That's a

800
00:41:25,281 --> 00:41:30,481
Speaker 3: could you will nowhere on the beach standard stand.

801
00:41:30,961 --> 00:41:34,241
Speaker 2: I think that is totally fine if you.

802
00:41:33,961 --> 00:41:36,481
Speaker 3: Were walking into a shop, walking into words.

803
00:41:36,481 --> 00:41:40,201
Speaker 2: As long as it's like a man's a beach suburb,

804
00:41:40,641 --> 00:41:42,121
Speaker 2: totally fine. No shoes is totally fine.

805
00:41:42,281 --> 00:41:44,441
Speaker 3: Yeah, but how far from the beach to the shop

806
00:41:44,521 --> 00:41:46,921
Speaker 3: are you allowed? Is it five hundred meters? Is it a.

807
00:41:48,041 --> 00:41:50,641
Speaker 2: Suburb is on the beach, It can be the other

808
00:41:50,801 --> 00:41:54,481
Speaker 2: end of the suburb a kilometer. Sorry, this is what

809
00:41:54,521 --> 00:41:55,521
Speaker 2: Max's answers are.

810
00:41:55,961 --> 00:41:59,481
Speaker 7: What's your favorite movie? So, my favorite movie is The Matrix.

811
00:42:00,281 --> 00:42:02,281
Speaker 7: It's one of my favorites. I would watch it all

812
00:42:02,361 --> 00:42:06,881
Speaker 7: the time. My favorite artist, God, that's not be hard

813
00:42:07,801 --> 00:42:11,241
Speaker 7: and I don't think she'll know it either, but I'm

814
00:42:11,241 --> 00:42:14,521
Speaker 7: going to say Ziggy Alberts Ziggi Alberts is my favorite

815
00:42:14,601 --> 00:42:19,161
Speaker 7: artist at the moment. My favorite TV show is That's

816
00:42:19,201 --> 00:42:21,081
Speaker 7: an easy one. It's How I Met Your Mother. My

817
00:42:21,201 --> 00:42:25,921
Speaker 7: worst hobby I think it would be probably asking too

818
00:42:25,921 --> 00:42:29,921
Speaker 7: many questions and being like the psychologist, probably that that

819
00:42:29,921 --> 00:42:30,961
Speaker 7: would be my worst habit.

820
00:42:33,161 --> 00:42:34,681
Speaker 3: I told you about the psychologist.

821
00:42:34,801 --> 00:42:39,601
Speaker 2: Yeah, well you got one question dead on for that

822
00:42:39,641 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 2: one which gives you twenty five percent, which is Max

823
00:42:42,641 --> 00:42:45,401
Speaker 2: is a clear favorite. To round out this episode, I

824
00:42:45,441 --> 00:42:49,201
Speaker 2: want to ask you do you have any memories of

825
00:42:49,641 --> 00:42:52,681
Speaker 2: Mother's Day's previous? Like, do you have a favorite or

826
00:42:52,721 --> 00:42:53,161
Speaker 2: do you Oh?

827
00:42:53,321 --> 00:42:55,241
Speaker 3: The favorites would have to be when they went to

828
00:42:55,281 --> 00:42:58,601
Speaker 3: the Mother's Day stall at school and they would bring

829
00:42:58,641 --> 00:43:01,521
Speaker 3: you home the most, you know, shittiest. Well I was

830
00:43:01,601 --> 00:43:03,481
Speaker 3: going to say that, but I didn't want to upset them,

831
00:43:03,521 --> 00:43:05,841
Speaker 3: but that just trans me love.

832
00:43:05,881 --> 00:43:06,681
Speaker 2: What did they bring home?

833
00:43:07,041 --> 00:43:07,201
Speaker 7: Oh?

834
00:43:07,241 --> 00:43:13,481
Speaker 3: The soaps, the bath bombs, beautiful, the tea bags, the teacups.

835
00:43:13,801 --> 00:43:14,121
Speaker 1: Love it.

836
00:43:14,401 --> 00:43:17,321
Speaker 2: As they got older, what would they do like hundred

837
00:43:17,401 --> 00:43:19,641
Speaker 2: thirty eight? Now, what do I do for mom for

838
00:43:19,681 --> 00:43:20,241
Speaker 2: Mother's Day?

839
00:43:20,881 --> 00:43:23,321
Speaker 3: See? I always feel like I put the pressure on

840
00:43:23,401 --> 00:43:25,601
Speaker 3: for Mother's Day. I don't like it because then I

841
00:43:25,641 --> 00:43:29,361
Speaker 3: get disappointed because you see all these TikTok people and

842
00:43:29,401 --> 00:43:32,681
Speaker 3: the instas where they're all, you know, lovingly out for

843
00:43:32,761 --> 00:43:35,241
Speaker 3: lunch and stuff, and I always think, oh God, it's

844
00:43:35,361 --> 00:43:35,681
Speaker 3: so I.

845
00:43:35,681 --> 00:43:38,001
Speaker 2: Just do it so This is where I feel awful

846
00:43:38,161 --> 00:43:42,321
Speaker 2: for mothers with sons. Yes, we're just not gestural people.

847
00:43:43,081 --> 00:43:44,361
Speaker 3: And I totally get that.

848
00:43:44,561 --> 00:43:46,281
Speaker 2: My sister in law, HOLLI has had to sort of

849
00:43:46,801 --> 00:43:51,281
Speaker 2: crack the whip to be There was one time hilarious

850
00:43:51,641 --> 00:43:55,001
Speaker 2: before they got married. They were together like twelve years

851
00:43:55,001 --> 00:43:57,921
Speaker 2: before I got married, and I remember one of the

852
00:43:57,921 --> 00:44:03,241
Speaker 2: first Christmases on fourth and he goes like, fuck, I've

853
00:44:03,241 --> 00:44:05,401
Speaker 2: got to go get some stuff. I was like, Nick,

854
00:44:05,441 --> 00:44:09,041
Speaker 2: it's December twenty fourth and what hadn't he got a

855
00:44:09,121 --> 00:44:12,841
Speaker 2: present for Holly? Anything? Nothing? This is what he says. Okay,

856
00:44:12,841 --> 00:44:14,801
Speaker 2: well we're quickly going to drive a swimming Sydney. We're

857
00:44:14,801 --> 00:44:18,481
Speaker 2: gonna go to Macquarie. It was about four pm. Fucking hell,

858
00:44:18,521 --> 00:44:18,881
Speaker 2: what are you?

859
00:44:19,121 --> 00:44:19,281
Speaker 1: Well?

860
00:44:19,321 --> 00:44:21,281
Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll go there. There's some nice Jewishops sort

861
00:44:21,281 --> 00:44:24,121
Speaker 2: of something there. No, no, no, So we went into Big

862
00:44:24,321 --> 00:44:28,161
Speaker 2: w and he got a trolley and he said Holly's

863
00:44:28,201 --> 00:44:36,281
Speaker 2: instructions were quantity, not quality. She just hated the gifts. Right,

864
00:44:37,241 --> 00:44:41,841
Speaker 2: A big basket of things wrapped up. I leave shampoo

865
00:44:41,921 --> 00:44:44,481
Speaker 2: and condition individually wrapped and it was like all of

866
00:44:44,521 --> 00:44:47,121
Speaker 2: this stuff and I was like, Nicholas, there's no way

867
00:44:47,161 --> 00:44:50,081
Speaker 2: you need to get, like get a good gift. And

868
00:44:50,121 --> 00:44:51,881
Speaker 2: he's liked, no, no, this is what she's asked for. That's

869
00:44:51,921 --> 00:44:53,961
Speaker 2: what I'm going to do. And then he did get her.

870
00:44:54,121 --> 00:44:57,121
Speaker 2: There's a couple of nice gifts in there. Christmas Day

871
00:44:57,201 --> 00:44:58,441
Speaker 2: rolls around and I thought, oh my god, she's going

872
00:44:58,521 --> 00:45:01,721
Speaker 2: to open this shampoo. She was like she saw a

873
00:45:01,721 --> 00:45:04,601
Speaker 2: basket just full of gifts, like this is everything I wanted.

874
00:45:04,721 --> 00:45:07,761
Speaker 2: She's like, look what it got me now, And then

875
00:45:07,801 --> 00:45:10,321
Speaker 2: it was just so funny. I mean she's changed it

876
00:45:10,401 --> 00:45:12,921
Speaker 2: to now it's like no, no, no, now I want

877
00:45:13,001 --> 00:45:17,721
Speaker 2: quantity and quality, quantity. She's hilarious girl after my own.

878
00:45:17,721 --> 00:45:20,361
Speaker 2: But I always feel bad because we're.

879
00:45:20,161 --> 00:45:25,001
Speaker 3: Not very different, and it's very different from I have

880
00:45:25,081 --> 00:45:28,321
Speaker 3: girlfriends that have daughters and they do this whole bloody festival.

881
00:45:28,321 --> 00:45:31,041
Speaker 3: They go out, they spend all this time and effort

882
00:45:31,481 --> 00:45:34,161
Speaker 3: whereas it And now I take that pressure off. I

883
00:45:34,201 --> 00:45:35,001
Speaker 3: book it myself.

884
00:45:35,201 --> 00:45:37,761
Speaker 2: Oh book Father's Day. I book mother's Day. I booked

885
00:45:37,761 --> 00:45:38,401
Speaker 2: my birthday.

886
00:45:38,481 --> 00:45:42,321
Speaker 3: I'll book Ricardo's birthday because then I'm not sitting at

887
00:45:42,321 --> 00:45:47,681
Speaker 3: home feeling resentful because you feel awful. No, mom, no,

888
00:45:47,721 --> 00:45:48,161
Speaker 3: I don't.

889
00:45:48,321 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 2: Why can't we put in the effort. That's a man thing. Maybe.

890
00:45:52,521 --> 00:45:55,401
Speaker 3: Look, I can tell you right now it's our own doing.

891
00:45:56,081 --> 00:45:59,081
Speaker 3: Because when I was a first time mom, young mom,

892
00:45:59,161 --> 00:46:02,121
Speaker 3: and I took Max to I want to say plunk it,

893
00:46:02,201 --> 00:46:04,881
Speaker 3: but it's the karatani where you get them weighed and stuff.

894
00:46:05,361 --> 00:46:09,561
Speaker 3: This very old midwife looked me dead straight in the

895
00:46:09,601 --> 00:46:13,841
Speaker 3: eyes and said, don't raise your son useless. Well of

896
00:46:13,881 --> 00:46:14,401
Speaker 3: course I did.

897
00:46:14,561 --> 00:46:15,961
Speaker 2: Well that's because you overparented.

898
00:46:16,081 --> 00:46:19,841
Speaker 3: Because I overparented. I did everything from day dot. They

899
00:46:20,161 --> 00:46:23,441
Speaker 3: were catered for. So now it's just like, oh, well, mumble,

900
00:46:23,441 --> 00:46:24,601
Speaker 3: ged do it, mumble.

901
00:46:25,201 --> 00:46:28,361
Speaker 2: I'm inspired by a lot of women. They don't look

902
00:46:28,441 --> 00:46:31,601
Speaker 2: very kindly upon that. I've never been in a relationship.

903
00:46:31,641 --> 00:46:34,881
Speaker 2: I'm not romantic, but Mum is the number one woman

904
00:46:34,921 --> 00:46:38,161
Speaker 2: in my life exactly right, And so it's like, how

905
00:46:38,201 --> 00:46:40,241
Speaker 2: can I what can I do?

906
00:46:41,761 --> 00:46:43,601
Speaker 3: I just think you need to be just aware.

907
00:46:43,921 --> 00:46:46,561
Speaker 2: I think you know to be aware of now I'm

908
00:46:46,561 --> 00:46:50,201
Speaker 2: realizing maybe yeah, okay, talking to you, it's been like okay, yeah, no,

909
00:46:50,761 --> 00:46:53,241
Speaker 2: especially because you were talking about your eldest loves to

910
00:46:53,281 --> 00:46:54,721
Speaker 2: do experiences and going to do.

911
00:46:54,881 --> 00:46:57,481
Speaker 3: Absolutely so we do that now he and I instead

912
00:46:57,561 --> 00:47:00,481
Speaker 3: of Christmas gifts. He took me out to pottery, so

913
00:47:00,521 --> 00:47:02,761
Speaker 3: we do. That's his thing because he wants to create

914
00:47:03,161 --> 00:47:04,001
Speaker 3: core memories.

915
00:47:04,321 --> 00:47:04,881
Speaker 4: Can mum.

916
00:47:05,761 --> 00:47:08,561
Speaker 2: I would encourage you, even if it's just a phone

917
00:47:08,641 --> 00:47:11,201
Speaker 2: call and maybe just of course I call her.

918
00:47:11,521 --> 00:47:13,881
Speaker 3: You do not need one day to tell your mother

919
00:47:13,961 --> 00:47:16,521
Speaker 3: you love them, no, right, You do not need to

920
00:47:16,521 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 3: put one meal aside to say this is your mother's day.

921
00:47:19,441 --> 00:47:21,041
Speaker 2: This is because that one time.

922
00:47:21,161 --> 00:47:22,201
Speaker 3: You only get this one time.

923
00:47:22,801 --> 00:47:25,161
Speaker 2: So the three hundred and sixty four days, it's Christian. Okay,

924
00:47:25,241 --> 00:47:26,041
Speaker 2: it's Christian's Day.

925
00:47:26,241 --> 00:47:28,441
Speaker 3: And I encourage all of those women that may be

926
00:47:28,521 --> 00:47:31,481
Speaker 3: listening now that are feeling, oh God, Mother's Day is pending.

927
00:47:31,521 --> 00:47:33,281
Speaker 3: I'm going to be down on the dumps. You get up,

928
00:47:33,281 --> 00:47:36,121
Speaker 3: off your ears and you're going to do something for yourself. Book,

929
00:47:36,121 --> 00:47:39,561
Speaker 3: a restaurant, be whatever. You make sure that you don't

930
00:47:39,641 --> 00:47:42,921
Speaker 3: sit there resentful, because you do. You sit there, Oh well,

931
00:47:42,921 --> 00:47:45,281
Speaker 3: they mustn't love me because they're not making a fuss.

932
00:47:45,641 --> 00:47:48,241
Speaker 3: They're not here with the breakfast with the team and

933
00:47:48,281 --> 00:47:51,281
Speaker 3: the presence in bed. You know, you just you get

934
00:47:51,321 --> 00:47:53,841
Speaker 3: on with it. You don't sit there and wallow and

935
00:47:53,881 --> 00:47:56,841
Speaker 3: self bloody pity. You tick yourself off and don't and

936
00:47:56,961 --> 00:47:57,801
Speaker 3: do something for yourself.

937
00:47:59,121 --> 00:48:01,321
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's that I don't love or she don't.

938
00:48:01,321 --> 00:48:02,121
Speaker 3: It's not about that.

939
00:48:02,201 --> 00:48:05,681
Speaker 2: It's about the Hallmark card, but also all about that

940
00:48:06,001 --> 00:48:10,081
Speaker 2: buying of a gift A big fan of And this

941
00:48:10,201 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 2: was in the in the book, I wrote a letter

942
00:48:12,481 --> 00:48:16,161
Speaker 2: to both Mo and Dad thanking them. Oh this makes

943
00:48:16,201 --> 00:48:21,721
Speaker 2: me really upset, beautiful. It's because my biggest fear is death.

944
00:48:22,961 --> 00:48:26,041
Speaker 2: It's them dying. I'm not going to cope. I'm actually

945
00:48:26,081 --> 00:48:27,041
Speaker 2: generally terrifying.

946
00:48:27,201 --> 00:48:29,441
Speaker 3: No, Charlie is the same, he tells me regularly.

947
00:48:29,561 --> 00:48:32,121
Speaker 2: He said it, he recorded it. Yeah, he was like, oh,

948
00:48:32,121 --> 00:48:35,281
Speaker 2: if Christine dies, yeah, oh well that's over. Yeah he

949
00:48:35,361 --> 00:48:37,761
Speaker 2: said that, but he'll be like that forever. Like I'm

950
00:48:37,761 --> 00:48:43,001
Speaker 2: thirty eight. I have to mentally prepare myself. I go, okay, what, Christian,

951
00:48:43,081 --> 00:48:46,081
Speaker 2: Let's pretend that mum and Dad is dead and like

952
00:48:46,161 --> 00:48:49,241
Speaker 2: a full meltdown, what would I say the eulogy? I'm like,

953
00:48:49,321 --> 00:48:51,401
Speaker 2: I couldn't. I could, I can't even I couldn't even

954
00:48:51,441 --> 00:48:52,961
Speaker 2: go to the funeral. I don't even think I can

955
00:48:53,001 --> 00:48:53,601
Speaker 2: fly to Sydney.

956
00:48:53,841 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 3: So okay, so let's talk about this briefly, right, because

957
00:48:56,441 --> 00:48:57,721
Speaker 3: I can see how upset you're getting.

958
00:48:57,801 --> 00:48:58,881
Speaker 2: Yeah, it makes me really upset.

959
00:48:58,921 --> 00:49:01,281
Speaker 3: It makes you really upset. I'm not having a funeral.

960
00:49:01,881 --> 00:49:06,121
Speaker 3: I do know what my boys is no mom never mate.

961
00:49:06,721 --> 00:49:10,281
Speaker 3: My thing in my world is right now. You tell

962
00:49:10,321 --> 00:49:13,041
Speaker 3: me how much you love me, You show me, you

963
00:49:13,081 --> 00:49:15,561
Speaker 3: do these things. I don't want you sitting in a pew.

964
00:49:15,681 --> 00:49:19,281
Speaker 3: The first pew is my coffin walks through and you regret.

965
00:49:19,441 --> 00:49:21,641
Speaker 3: I don't want that you do it now. You know

966
00:49:22,001 --> 00:49:23,881
Speaker 3: at the end of my life, I'm not going to

967
00:49:23,961 --> 00:49:26,081
Speaker 3: go anywhere. I'm going to still be around because I

968
00:49:26,201 --> 00:49:28,681
Speaker 3: believe that you just walk into another room.

969
00:49:28,801 --> 00:49:30,881
Speaker 2: It is hard to have those conversations though. That's why

970
00:49:30,921 --> 00:49:32,641
Speaker 2: I had to write it in a passage in the book.

971
00:49:32,681 --> 00:49:34,281
Speaker 3: And I love that you did that.

972
00:49:34,441 --> 00:49:36,361
Speaker 2: Because when I wrote the book, I was in a

973
00:49:36,401 --> 00:49:38,321
Speaker 2: really dark period and I was like, I'm going to

974
00:49:38,321 --> 00:49:41,001
Speaker 2: revert back to all my childhood memories. I'm very thankful

975
00:49:41,001 --> 00:49:42,561
Speaker 2: I could go back to those, and I had a

976
00:49:42,601 --> 00:49:44,401
Speaker 2: great chide and it was just safe spat and I

977
00:49:44,441 --> 00:49:47,081
Speaker 2: was like, wow, they really As I was going through

978
00:49:47,081 --> 00:49:49,921
Speaker 2: all these memories, I was like I could never do

979
00:49:50,001 --> 00:49:52,121
Speaker 2: what they did. You give up your life.

980
00:49:52,561 --> 00:49:54,281
Speaker 3: I don't know about your giving up your life.

981
00:49:54,441 --> 00:49:56,801
Speaker 2: Oh, let's be real, No, I disagree with you that

982
00:49:56,881 --> 00:49:58,961
Speaker 2: a kid and then suddenly you can't be going and

983
00:49:58,961 --> 00:50:00,401
Speaker 2: doing the things that you want to be doing now.

984
00:50:00,521 --> 00:50:02,321
Speaker 3: I don't agree with that. I think it's what makes

985
00:50:02,321 --> 00:50:04,961
Speaker 3: your life. I mean, I know people that haven't had

986
00:50:05,161 --> 00:50:06,681
Speaker 3: children have a beautiful life.

987
00:50:06,721 --> 00:50:08,401
Speaker 2: I think that's fine. But when you have a kid,

988
00:50:08,721 --> 00:50:13,441
Speaker 2: like their priority number one, well, like they're needy. Children

989
00:50:13,481 --> 00:50:15,161
Speaker 2: are fucking needy.

990
00:50:14,721 --> 00:50:16,961
Speaker 3: But so are you. They fill a hole that you

991
00:50:17,001 --> 00:50:19,121
Speaker 3: may not have feeled like, do you know what I mean? Like,

992
00:50:19,361 --> 00:50:21,681
Speaker 3: what I'm getting at is just as much as you

993
00:50:21,681 --> 00:50:24,721
Speaker 3: give to them, they give to you. Yes, for the

994
00:50:24,761 --> 00:50:27,201
Speaker 3: first five years of their life, they're very, very needy,

995
00:50:27,481 --> 00:50:30,601
Speaker 3: but then they become little personalities. They have conversations and

996
00:50:30,641 --> 00:50:34,761
Speaker 3: they're fun. Lots of things, lots of great things happen

997
00:50:35,121 --> 00:50:39,441
Speaker 3: because kids no little people. Yes, but as they get older,

998
00:50:39,881 --> 00:50:43,561
Speaker 3: there's so much fun. You just have great times.

999
00:50:43,721 --> 00:50:46,961
Speaker 2: I do love that Mum loves all the videos. I

1000
00:50:47,001 --> 00:50:49,841
Speaker 2: will often catch her. I'll go and visit right and

1001
00:50:49,881 --> 00:50:51,681
Speaker 2: she'll go into the office, but we won't talk to

1002
00:50:51,721 --> 00:50:53,761
Speaker 2: each other a good hour and a half. And I'm like,

1003
00:50:53,801 --> 00:50:56,521
Speaker 2: I can hear my voice, and she's going through watching mom.

1004
00:50:56,561 --> 00:51:01,641
Speaker 3: I'm right here, lovely, I'm here man. Yeah, okay, Well,

1005
00:51:01,961 --> 00:51:03,881
Speaker 3: because I can tell you right now, hand on heart,

1006
00:51:04,561 --> 00:51:07,801
Speaker 3: it is the hardest thing you ever do is to

1007
00:51:07,841 --> 00:51:11,161
Speaker 3: bring a child into this world, watch them develop, watch

1008
00:51:11,201 --> 00:51:13,401
Speaker 3: them become their own little people, and let them go.

1009
00:51:13,801 --> 00:51:18,681
Speaker 3: It is the hardest thing, the best thing, but the

1010
00:51:18,721 --> 00:51:19,321
Speaker 3: hardest thing.

1011
00:51:19,441 --> 00:51:21,441
Speaker 2: Oh well, Happy Mother's Day to a.

1012
00:51:21,721 --> 00:51:22,841
Speaker 3: Happy Mother's Day.

1013
00:51:23,041 --> 00:51:25,121
Speaker 2: When it happening on is it always a Sunday?

1014
00:51:25,241 --> 00:51:26,881
Speaker 3: God's always the same.

1015
00:51:26,881 --> 00:51:28,761
Speaker 2: It's always the Sunday. It's the first Sunday in May,

1016
00:51:28,841 --> 00:51:29,161
Speaker 2: isn't it.

1017
00:51:29,401 --> 00:51:33,201
Speaker 3: And for those that are not raising their own family

1018
00:51:33,481 --> 00:51:36,761
Speaker 3: and are part of a family, Happy Mother's Day to

1019
00:51:36,801 --> 00:51:42,361
Speaker 3: you on the next. We will always have. Has there

1020
00:51:42,401 --> 00:51:45,041
Speaker 3: any times been in your career where you've thought, oh,

1021
00:51:45,041 --> 00:51:45,881
Speaker 3: I'm just going to pull the.

1022
00:51:45,841 --> 00:51:48,761
Speaker 2: Plug and walk away. There was one, but it was

1023
00:51:48,801 --> 00:51:51,961
Speaker 2: only because it was getting too heavy, and that was

1024
00:51:51,961 --> 00:51:54,721
Speaker 2: when I