WEBVTT - GEORGIA HASSARATI HAS HER SAY

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>my kissing style with.

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<v Speaker 1>A boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in

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<v Speaker 1>a trash bin. He's non recyclable, catching hemmer.

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<v Speaker 2>I love being love, I love love. On today's episode

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<v Speaker 2>of Where's Your Head At, we are joined by Georgia

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<v Speaker 2>Hazarati from season three of Too Hot to Handle.

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<v Speaker 3>Georgia is here to clear out some of the things

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<v Speaker 3>that Harry Jowsey, her ex, said whilst on our podcast

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<v Speaker 3>last month.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Georgia, Hello, I'm going.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, welcome to Where's Your Head At? Thanks for coming on.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, thanks for having me. I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 3>So I have to say, and you probably get this

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<v Speaker 3>all the time. You look so much like Margot Robbie.

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<v Speaker 4>I knew you were going to say that when you're

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<v Speaker 4>said you probably get this all the time, because everyone

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<v Speaker 4>says that, but I don't see it. At all. I

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<v Speaker 4>think that maybe because we have a similar smile.

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<v Speaker 1>That's I think it's so different.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I literally was about to say that as you

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<v Speaker 2>were smiling. Yeah, as you were smiling. When she said that,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, yeah, I can see it now.

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<v Speaker 3>I can see you playing her little sister in a

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<v Speaker 3>movie one day. Like, I'm just gonna say it now

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<v Speaker 3>because I just can see it happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Producers to contact.

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<v Speaker 3>You, Yeah, and they're gonna be like, Margree needs a

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<v Speaker 3>little sister, and you are the perfect person to play

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<v Speaker 3>your sister.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so down for that. Like, spread that word because

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<v Speaker 4>I will definitely do it. But I don't think I

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<v Speaker 4>look anything like her, but I'll do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, your ex Harryjowsey actually came on our podcast, which

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<v Speaker 3>I think is how you discovered our podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably you got center.

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<v Speaker 1>You were in a couple of our videos.

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<v Speaker 3>You were a big topic of conversation throughout the whole podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're going to replay one of the points that

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<v Speaker 3>was kind of like the contentious point of something that

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<v Speaker 3>he said in the last podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to hear that now and then we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to respond.

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<v Speaker 5>But Yeah, me and Georgia, I think we just kind

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<v Speaker 5>of we went through the motions. There was a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of things we both needed to work on, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>just this second time around with the breakup, there was

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<v Speaker 5>just some things that happened that I found out about

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<v Speaker 5>that I don't think anyone in any relationship would be

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<v Speaker 5>comfortable continuing relationship with And I love this girl with

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<v Speaker 5>my entire heart, Like there's not one person that I

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<v Speaker 5>regret losing more that than her, Like she's the most incredible, intelligent,

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<v Speaker 5>gorgeous human on the planet. But just for my own safety,

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<v Speaker 5>I just I don't know if there was a way

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<v Speaker 5>for me to mentally move past some things that happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So basically Harry said he wasn't comfortable continuing the

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<v Speaker 3>relationship with you guys for his own safety, and that

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<v Speaker 3>was something that you were like, what the hell, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>what's this about?

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<v Speaker 1>So do you want to explain that to us?

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of people had their opinions on the TikTok,

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<v Speaker 2>so let's clear the air.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I love.

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<v Speaker 4>To clear the airs. So actually I spoke with Harry

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<v Speaker 4>about this after yeh, I was sent that a few

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<v Speaker 4>times from people very close to me that were very

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<v Speaker 4>concerned with the way that that came across. So before

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<v Speaker 4>I even saw it, I was like getting all these

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<v Speaker 4>messages and phone calls from my friends and they're like,

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<v Speaker 4>have you seen that podcast? And I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>but I'm sure I already know the kind of thing

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<v Speaker 4>that he's putting out there. It's been like a continuous like,

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<v Speaker 4>so I just didn't expect it to be any different

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<v Speaker 4>from what was already being said. Right this was different

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<v Speaker 4>because it kind of implied something really that could be

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<v Speaker 4>taken a few ways about me and could look really bad.

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<v Speaker 4>So I spoke to him and he said he didn't

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<v Speaker 4>think it came across that way, and he was happy

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<v Speaker 4>to clear it up, and he commented on it and

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<v Speaker 4>clear the air where he meant his safety. It was

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<v Speaker 4>implying that he was protecting his heart. And I feel like,

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<v Speaker 4>bad choice of word, definitely, but I don't think, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>he meant for it to come across in that way,

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<v Speaker 4>but it did. And online you have to be very

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<v Speaker 4>careful what we say about people because how you say it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why I never like speaking about relationships, because one

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<v Speaker 4>thing can go fifty different ways. So I spoke to

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<v Speaker 4>him and he was really apologetic and felt really bad,

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<v Speaker 4>and then I commented on your thing and clear it up.

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<v Speaker 4>But never have I ever been a safety concern to

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<v Speaker 4>anyone in my life. I'm like literally the most mothering,

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<v Speaker 4>like caring, friendly person, and I get that from so

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<v Speaker 4>many people. Like that's my favorite compliment when someone says

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<v Speaker 4>that I give them like a safe feeling. I get

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<v Speaker 4>that a lot, and that means the most out of

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<v Speaker 4>any compliment I could get because I love that and

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<v Speaker 4>I love when people make me feel that way. So

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<v Speaker 4>having that the world safety thrown in there was like

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<v Speaker 4>so upsetting, not gonna lie, like cried about it the

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<v Speaker 4>whole day. I was like, people wouldn't think I'm like

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<v Speaker 4>unsafe to be around, and like I literally pride myself

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<v Speaker 4>on being like a motherly figure. That's why I studied

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<v Speaker 4>midwif free because I love like giving people that safe

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<v Speaker 4>connection during their most like vulnerable time, like during birth,

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<v Speaker 4>which is super vulnerable, and I'm like that person that

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<v Speaker 4>makes them.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel safd I would feel safe having my baby with

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<v Speaker 3>me as the midwife.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, and to be fair, I wouldn't think that

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<v Speaker 2>like you're making Harry feel safe for his life or anything,

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<v Speaker 2>like You're not gonna look at your so small and dainty.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not gonna hurt You couldn't hurt a fly.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know that's what I was thinking, And I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, no, people are going to think I'm a

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<v Speaker 4>horrible person.

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<v Speaker 3>Now. No, Well, let's talk about the relationship with Harry,

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<v Speaker 3>because you guys are a little bit on and off.

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<v Speaker 3>So what's kind of like, I know, there's two sides

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<v Speaker 3>to every story. We kind of got his version of events.

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<v Speaker 3>What's your kind of version of how things kind of

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<v Speaker 3>played out between you guys?

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<v Speaker 2>Should we start from the start how you guys met.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, of course. I always loved talking about this because

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<v Speaker 4>it was actually really amazing how me and Harry like

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<v Speaker 4>started our relationship. I think it was really cool. I

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<v Speaker 4>went on his podcast and we were talking about it

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<v Speaker 4>for a while when my show came out, because he

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<v Speaker 4>has a lot of people from other like seasons of

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<v Speaker 4>two at to Handle on there to talk about their experience,

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<v Speaker 4>So we were talking about it for a while. And

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<v Speaker 4>then I actually went away to film a new show

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<v Speaker 4>which is coming out soon, so I couldn't go on

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<v Speaker 4>his podcast for a few months. And then after the

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<v Speaker 4>filming had finished, I flew to La so I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to go on the podcast, and we organized

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<v Speaker 4>with each other and I've like gone in and it's

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<v Speaker 4>just the weirdest thing because instantly, like the vibe of

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<v Speaker 4>us was so we had like a really strong connection.

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<v Speaker 4>We just could not stop laughing, like we didn't know

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<v Speaker 4>what we're laughing at. We were both just like blushing

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<v Speaker 4>like little kids like laughing, and the guy that like

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<v Speaker 4>co hosts his podcast with him was just like so confused.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like a joke or something, because like nothing's been said,

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<v Speaker 4>but they've just like not stopped laughing the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>So instantly we got along great, and I just felt

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<v Speaker 4>like things really they just kind of naturally happened. After that,

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<v Speaker 4>we went to Coachella together because I didn't have any

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<v Speaker 4>one to go with my friends pulled out last minute,

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<v Speaker 4>and He's like, come along with us. So we went

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<v Speaker 4>to Coachella together, had a really good time, and then

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<v Speaker 4>I think we both just decided, like we both realized

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<v Speaker 4>we had like a little crush for each other, and

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<v Speaker 4>then it kind of just grew into something more, but

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<v Speaker 4>happened really naturally, and like it just went from like

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<v Speaker 4>being really good friends to something more so it was

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<v Speaker 4>really nice, actually, but I think in a lot of ways,

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<v Speaker 4>everyone has different things that they carry from previous relationships,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think a lot of those little things started

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<v Speaker 4>to come out on both ends with both of us,

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<v Speaker 4>and also just being in like the public eye and

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<v Speaker 4>putting things online and having everyone's opinion on it was

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<v Speaker 4>really hard on me. And I mentioned a few times

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<v Speaker 4>things like if he would go on a podcast and

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<v Speaker 4>kind of appear more single than he is, he would

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<v Speaker 4>upset me. And he agreed and he understood and he

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<v Speaker 4>would take that on board. But little things like that

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<v Speaker 4>caused like us to have little arguments. And there's things

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<v Speaker 4>I did as well. I'm sure that he would not

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<v Speaker 4>have been happy with. But on my side there was

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<v Speaker 4>like those little things, and I feel like we didn't

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<v Speaker 4>come together over those conversations. If they kept coming up,

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<v Speaker 4>they would like draw a big rift between us. So

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<v Speaker 4>kind of grew into something more than it needed to be,

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<v Speaker 4>and like it actually wasn't that big of a deal,

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<v Speaker 4>but we ended up breaking up. We were not together

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<v Speaker 4>in that time. I'm sure Harry explored other things and

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<v Speaker 4>I actually did not, but I hung out with someone

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<v Speaker 4>and I think the way that it came across and

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<v Speaker 4>the way that he ended up finding out about it

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<v Speaker 4>when we were back together. Where I can say I

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<v Speaker 4>went wrong is that I didn't mention I hung out

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<v Speaker 4>with this person and he's someone that goes to a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of similar events to us, and we did bump

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<v Speaker 4>into him a few times. So where that comes across

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<v Speaker 4>bad is I should have just told him about it,

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<v Speaker 4>but nothing happened, So I felt as though like I

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<v Speaker 4>really didn't need to, but knowing now, that's something Harry

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<v Speaker 4>would have wanted, and I should have done that so

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<v Speaker 4>very much, aware of the fact that that upset him

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<v Speaker 4>had hurt him. But we were not together and I

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<v Speaker 4>literally just hung out with someone and nothing even happened.

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<v Speaker 4>I never kissed anyone, I never even did anything like

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<v Speaker 4>so cheating definitely didn't happen. I never cheated on anyone

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<v Speaker 4>in my life, and I never would. I am very

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<v Speaker 4>mature in the way of like, if I know I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to be with someone, I want to be

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<v Speaker 4>with someone else, I will tell that person, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>having like a bit of a confusing situation going on

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<v Speaker 4>right now where I don't feel like this is right

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<v Speaker 4>for me, and I'll end it. I'm mature enough to

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<v Speaker 4>do that and then go and explore something else, so

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't cheat on him.

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<v Speaker 3>So obviously this has happened. And then Harry's obviously talked

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<v Speaker 3>about for the safety of his heart, like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>he couldn't get back together with you because of this situation.

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<v Speaker 3>If he now knows that nothing happened, does that mean

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<v Speaker 3>that there's a potential that you guys could get back together.

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<v Speaker 4>It's funny because we've actually spoken, We spoke since the

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<v Speaker 4>podcast you did with him, so I think that might

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<v Speaker 4>have sparked something because on that podcast he was like

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<v Speaker 4>saying he was like saying he wanted he wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>talk to me, and I watched it back and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, that's so funny because like the day it

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<v Speaker 4>came out, he actually contacted me. But I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 4>really what the future holds there. He's obviously in la

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm in Australia at the moment. I have plans

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<v Speaker 4>to move over there for a few months or something

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<v Speaker 4>when my Before My New show comes out comes out

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<v Speaker 4>in February, so I'm planning to go over there, and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if that will like rekindle something between us.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not sure. Like, I'm open to it because, like

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<v Speaker 4>I obviously love him very much and I don't lose

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<v Speaker 4>feelings like that, yeah quickly. Yeah, I'd love to see it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, absolutely, you guys make something.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really nice I guess for like us, Ozzie is

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<v Speaker 3>to kind of see a beautiful Australian couple get together

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<v Speaker 3>in LA and to be really doing amazing things. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>even everything that you were saying about how like you

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<v Speaker 3>only sleep with people who you have feelings with. I

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<v Speaker 3>can definitely relate to that, and I think you're such

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<v Speaker 3>a great role model. So I mean, it would be

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<v Speaker 3>great to see you guys get back together and kind

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<v Speaker 3>of rekindle something if that door is still open.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, I think it definitely would be. But I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just not sure if either of us are ready with

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<v Speaker 4>our situation that moment to be in a relationship. I'd

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<v Speaker 4>like to think we were. I want to be in

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<v Speaker 4>a relationship, but I just don't know how ready Harry

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<v Speaker 4>is for that and how much it would work given

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<v Speaker 4>our lives right now. So I don't know. We'll see,

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<v Speaker 4>but yeah, I'm open to it definitely because I love him.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have anyone else on the go right now? Then?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there any other guys?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't really speak to people. It's very funny, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to look to anyone when I'm home, especially like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so I know this whole area and I've like

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<v Speaker 4>grown up here, so I know every one of their

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<v Speaker 4>data is one of my friends. Or it's just like

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<v Speaker 4>there's no options here for me because I've grown up

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<v Speaker 4>with all these people and I know too much. I

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<v Speaker 4>like to meet people overseas. Yeah, yes, I am.

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<v Speaker 3>Is there a part of you that's like not really

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to hook up with anyone else because you are

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<v Speaker 3>still in love with Harry and you kind of have

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<v Speaker 3>hope that you might get back together. Is that maybe

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<v Speaker 3>why you're holding off getting with anyone else.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think like looking at my kind of history

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<v Speaker 4>when I get out of like a long term relationship,

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<v Speaker 4>it's the last thing I want to do for ages.

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<v Speaker 4>Like with my relationship before Harry, I didn't see anyone

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<v Speaker 4>for like a year. I literally just didn't even go

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<v Speaker 4>on a date. I was like, I can't do this

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<v Speaker 4>because I will panic over like comparing the connection I

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<v Speaker 4>have with someone to a previous relationship, and I can

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<v Speaker 4>like really easily overwhelm myself and go home and be

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<v Speaker 4>so depressed about it. And if I don't try and

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<v Speaker 4>like rush into dating, then I don't have that feeling.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm like, let's just enjoy life, like, let's just

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<v Speaker 4>see what happens, not force anything. If something's meant to

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<v Speaker 4>be it or just come to me. Like, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>need to like force myself to get out there and

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<v Speaker 4>date or like try and see people like fill a void.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's healthy. I make the mentality to get

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<v Speaker 2>under to get over. I don't think that works.

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<v Speaker 4>So I've done that and I cannot explain how depressed

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<v Speaker 4>it made me.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes you feel worse, hur reckon. It makes like

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<v Speaker 2>it's such a strategy. You're just dealing with people that

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have any connections with, any care for.

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<v Speaker 4>It makes you think about that person so.

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<v Speaker 2>Much more, exactly the one that you're actually.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of.

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<v Speaker 3>That. Did you hear Harry's comment where he mentioned that

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<v Speaker 3>he said to someone who he was like seeing that

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<v Speaker 3>what was it that he said to them, you're making

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<v Speaker 3>me miss my eggs?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Yeah, that I felt really horrible when I heard that.

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<v Speaker 4>I would hate as a girl to hear that yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I think that would be like really like it would

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<v Speaker 4>make me spiral if someone said that to me, but

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<v Speaker 4>I do.

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<v Speaker 2>But being yourself where you sort of like that makes

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<v Speaker 2>me feel good.

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<v Speaker 4>Not really, because I don't feel like having to sleep

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<v Speaker 4>with someone to miss me is like a compomentary anyway, exactly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like my presence at everything should be missed

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<v Speaker 4>without you needing to like fuck someone else.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, so we had Chase on the podcast recently.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if you listened to that episode, but

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<v Speaker 3>what were your thoughts on?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you know what, I like appreciate how random Chase is.

0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:41.680
<v Speaker 4>Like when I first saw him online, I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>this guy is just like the biggest, like cringiest person.

0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:47.000
<v Speaker 4>When I met him in real life, I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what, He's actually all right and I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like it actually comes from a good place, but his

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<v Speaker 4>delivery is just so off, like he's actually not like this.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm super into myself, like I think I'm amazing post

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<v Speaker 4>and he's so humble in real life, like you meet him,

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<v Speaker 4>he's like so sweet, like the stuff he talks about,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just like actually so deep, like way deeper than

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<v Speaker 4>you are online. And he's on the new show that

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<v Speaker 4>I filmed. We're on it together, and I got to

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<v Speaker 4>see a really good side of him on there, Like

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if everyone will, but I got to

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<v Speaker 4>see a really good side of him on there, and afterwards, like,

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<v Speaker 4>he's lovely. I think he's lovely.

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<v Speaker 2>He was hinting that you guys hook up.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't confirm all deny it happens, but well, he

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<v Speaker 4>looks there's definitely a lot of dating on there.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that he hooks up with the Aussie.

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<v Speaker 3>So I guess when we see the show, we're going

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<v Speaker 3>to have to figure out how many ouzzy girls there are,

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<v Speaker 3>and then we'll have to narrow it down from there.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, he's a bit naughty for saying that is the

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<v Speaker 4>only one. She's like, shit, maybe someone's mixed on there.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Someone part of this friend.

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<v Speaker 1>What's this show called? You guys are on together?

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<v Speaker 4>Then it's called Perfect Match. It's like a similar like

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<v Speaker 4>it's a dating soul vibe show with just like all

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<v Speaker 4>Netflix's favorite people in the one show. I would kind

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<v Speaker 4>of compare it to like a Bachelor and Paradise vibe're

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<v Speaker 4>the best of and put them in one house and

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<v Speaker 4>it's super like it's just so crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, imagine that's so very dramatic.

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<v Speaker 2>So you filmed this before you met Harry?

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<v Speaker 4>You said yes, ah.

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<v Speaker 1>And now Harry and Chase live together.

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<v Speaker 2>Toge they live together, close to each other and hanging out.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't live together, but their friends Harry know.

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<v Speaker 4>That then or yeah yeah, yeah yeah, Like I, I

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<v Speaker 4>obviously hadn't met Harry yet, so there's like really nothing

0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:53.760
<v Speaker 4>that I could have done different, Like I hadn't even

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<v Speaker 4>met him. I'd spoken to my over Instagram. His ex

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<v Speaker 4>is also on this new show. There's a lot more

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<v Speaker 4>awkwardness involving Harry, but like it's like I had no

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<v Speaker 4>idea who he was. I never met him, So, like, right,

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<v Speaker 4>it's hard because.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you think you'll feel watching that and seeing

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<v Speaker 3>you and Chase kind of hook up them.

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<v Speaker 4>He told me he's not going to watch it, so

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<v Speaker 4>I understand. I said, it's probably a good idea. If

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<v Speaker 4>it was me, I wouldn't want to watch it, just because,

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<v Speaker 4>like if you care about someone seeing them seeing them

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<v Speaker 4>in that kind of environment is just like not fun,

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<v Speaker 4>Like would you ever want to see like an X

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<v Speaker 4>that you cared about and data for a while be

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<v Speaker 4>on dates on TV.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you knew it was, if you knew it

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<v Speaker 2>was before you started dating though, Yeah, but Matt similar.

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<v Speaker 4>Really yeah, you know exactly what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>My X film Bachelor in Paradise and then we were

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<v Speaker 2>dating as it aired.

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<v Speaker 3>And that was Salt City.

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<v Speaker 6>Really, even if it's beforehand, it's still for some reason

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<v Speaker 6>like triggers so much like jealousy, Like I can't imagine

0:18:06.560 --> 0:18:08.520
<v Speaker 6>watching him on a show dating like I would actually

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<v Speaker 6>like freak out.

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<v Speaker 2>To be fair, I wish I was better than that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what I meant that I didn't care

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<v Speaker 2>that I like, you know what I mean, not to care.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's hard.

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<v Speaker 4>It makes you jealous. It just makes you jealous, like

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<v Speaker 4>there's no way around it. And they make things look

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<v Speaker 4>so like sparkly and romantic on TV, like it just

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<v Speaker 4>really is not fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So what do you think of Chase going after Claudia.

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<v Speaker 4>Then so funny? Like that's just such a Chase move

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<v Speaker 4>because like, Okay, it's not funny in the fact that

0:18:39.480 --> 0:18:41.399
<v Speaker 4>she's with someone, but it's funny in the fact that

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<v Speaker 4>Chase is just so chaste. Like after my show, he

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<v Speaker 4>was like reaching out to me like unsending messages, sending

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<v Speaker 4>more and I was like, what's going on? Like this

0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:53.280
<v Speaker 4>guy is so random, but like I think he does

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<v Speaker 4>that with everyone, Like he just does that with every girl.

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<v Speaker 4>So as much as it's like a shocking situation for them,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't actually think he had like super crazy bad

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<v Speaker 4>intentions with it. I think he probably he's very much

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<v Speaker 4>into like content and collaborating with other people in the

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<v Speaker 4>same industry. And I think he definitely would think she's

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<v Speaker 4>attractive because she is. She's very attractive. But I don't

0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:17.960
<v Speaker 4>think his intention was to be like, let's steal her away.

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<v Speaker 4>I think he wanted to probably just make some cringy

0:19:20.320 --> 0:19:22.359
<v Speaker 4>tiktoks like that's Chase.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of like DM side ins, who would you say

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<v Speaker 2>has been the biggest celebrity or famous person that's swiping

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<v Speaker 2>to your DM since the show? Oh, this is a

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<v Speaker 2>safe space, it's just the three of us.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not safe up. I'm going to like opt for

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<v Speaker 4>a non dramatic version of a person. I think, like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>didn't slide to my DMS, but on a dating app

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<v Speaker 4>reached out to me, And I would say I think

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<v Speaker 4>Lewis Hamilton probably best known successful Yeah, wow. I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>even reply because by the time he messaged, like, I'd

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<v Speaker 4>been sitting on that app for a while but like

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't using it and I was like kind of seeing someone.

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<v Speaker 4>So I just like I didn't even reply.

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<v Speaker 3>He left that was Hamilton on Red but like not

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<v Speaker 3>in a mean way.

0:20:20.440 --> 0:20:23.159
<v Speaker 4>She's a lovely guy, but like I'm just like, I

0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:25.360
<v Speaker 4>don't talk to multiple people at once. I just can't

0:20:25.400 --> 0:20:28.080
<v Speaker 4>do it. It's not good on my conscience. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>like doing that. So I just didn't reply.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Harry mentioned that he had a celebrity crush and

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<v Speaker 3>that was Madeline Kline.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that right? Who is your celebrity crush?

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<v Speaker 4>It's a really good question. Oh okay. Weirdly enough, he's

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<v Speaker 4>Australian as well. The guy out of Euphouria that plays

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<v Speaker 4>what is his name, yeah, Jacob Elity, Jacob ELDI. I

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<v Speaker 4>am obsessed with him. I actually think he's so beautiful,

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<v Speaker 4>like but like it's just like his whole vibe just

0:21:02.920 --> 0:21:06.680
<v Speaker 4>seems so cool. His Instagram so vib Like I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know something about him that I just think. I don't

0:21:09.359 --> 0:21:10.240
<v Speaker 4>like to be obsessed with him.

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<v Speaker 2>He posted that he was at a pub in Richmond

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of months ago, and my sister lives in

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<v Speaker 2>Richmond and she literally went down to the pub. But

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<v Speaker 2>she's engaged as well.

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<v Speaker 4>I just got to go.

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<v Speaker 3>So if Jacob Eldy slides into your DMS, will you reply?

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<v Speaker 4>If I'm single, yeah, I would definitely reply.

0:21:36.560 --> 0:21:38.840
<v Speaker 3>Because I mean, look, if it doesn't work out with Harry,

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<v Speaker 3>that could be a nice cute little couple of still

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of Australian.

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<v Speaker 2>Would What about for all the guys listening out there

0:21:48.920 --> 0:21:50.879
<v Speaker 2>that are listening and they're like, okay, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>slide into Georgia's DMS? Do you have any tips for them?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you reply?

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<v Speaker 4>Not? Really? Like, I don't really reply to like Instagram

0:22:01.160 --> 0:22:04.560
<v Speaker 4>slide ins. I don't know why I used to. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know. I just find it a little bit like cringe.

0:22:07.560 --> 0:22:09.080
<v Speaker 4>It's hard to talk to me. I'm not gonna lie

0:22:09.080 --> 0:22:13.919
<v Speaker 4>because I like meeting people organically. I think that that's

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<v Speaker 4>the way that I really get it along with people

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<v Speaker 4>is when I see them in person and it's not

0:22:18.320 --> 0:22:20.760
<v Speaker 4>pressured and I'm just like, oh, there's like he's got

0:22:20.760 --> 0:22:24.600
<v Speaker 4>a good vibe about him, charismatic. This could be something

0:22:24.640 --> 0:22:27.440
<v Speaker 4>going on here. That's how I like to meet people online.

0:22:27.480 --> 0:22:29.440
<v Speaker 4>I like, never take it serious, whether it's like a

0:22:29.560 --> 0:22:33.640
<v Speaker 4>dating app or like Instagram, Like, I rarely ever take

0:22:33.680 --> 0:22:35.760
<v Speaker 4>it seriously, and it's just how I am. I like,

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<v Speaker 4>like old school dating. Yeah, like notebook vibes.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, but you're like a hopeless romantic.

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<v Speaker 4>I am, Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>What would you look for in a guy? Then? What

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<v Speaker 2>qualities do you look for? Let's start off with looks

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<v Speaker 2>first and then go to qualities.

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<v Speaker 4>Looks wise, It's very difficult for me to say, because

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<v Speaker 4>all my exes look completely different, Like they're very different,

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<v Speaker 4>like some are short, some at all, some are like

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<v Speaker 4>blue eyes, blonde hair, some have dark features, like they're

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<v Speaker 4>all so different. I usually am attracted to you guys

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<v Speaker 4>with lighter features than i'd consider I have, because I

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<v Speaker 4>like like opposite to me. So I'm like half Lebanese

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<v Speaker 4>and I have like naturally like darker eyes, darker skin.

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<v Speaker 4>So I like people with lighter hair, lighter eyes, surfy vibe.

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<v Speaker 4>That's like what I've kind of always gone for mainly.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's just like not to say I don't like

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<v Speaker 4>other types because I usually like it's always different, but

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<v Speaker 4>personality wise, I love someone super charismatic. I love someone

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<v Speaker 4>that can just joke around a lot. Doesn't if you

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<v Speaker 4>like if you, I don't know, shit, talk a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit with them. They can give it back. They're not

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<v Speaker 4>going to be like awkward. They can. I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>someone that can just hold their own because I'm very

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<v Speaker 4>like I joke around a lot, and I don't really

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<v Speaker 4>take much seriously unless it's like I take it right

0:23:52.640 --> 0:23:55.720
<v Speaker 4>relationship very seriously. But I don't take like I'm very

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<v Speaker 4>like easy going. So I like someone easy going, spontaneous,

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<v Speaker 4>that someone that wants to travel with me, see the

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<v Speaker 4>world of like experience things, get out of their comfort zone.

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<v Speaker 4>But also is like super easy going to be around

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<v Speaker 4>and funny. I love funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you reckon that you'll end up dating someone in

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<v Speaker 3>the spotlight or are you kind of like open to

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<v Speaker 3>meeting you know, a random guy from down the street.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, Like, I don't care about that at all.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it would. There's positives and negatives to both.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think it's difficult to date someone in the

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<v Speaker 4>environment that I'm in because it's very public, but it's

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<v Speaker 4>also easier because we do the same thing. And we

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<v Speaker 4>get each other's work and we can relate to each other.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's like that aspect, and then there's like, if

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<v Speaker 4>they're not in the scene that I'm in, it's I think,

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<v Speaker 4>a lot less pressure and it's probably a lot more

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<v Speaker 4>natural and like you know, you can keep it a

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<v Speaker 4>lot more private, which is also a benefit. But then

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<v Speaker 4>also it might be really difficult because my life is

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<v Speaker 4>very on the go and I travel a lot, and

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<v Speaker 4>if they're not some from that understanding, it could be hard.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm open to either. It neither matters to me.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just really about how I get along with the person, right,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's all I really care about. To be honest,

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<v Speaker 4>I can make it work if it's like worth, if

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<v Speaker 4>it's worth that, like, I can make it work pretty easy.

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<v Speaker 3>So okay, So what do you consider to be a

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<v Speaker 3>red flag in relationships?

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<v Speaker 4>What I've noticed over the years, anyone that will say

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<v Speaker 4>that they have a lot of crazy ex'es is like

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<v Speaker 4>a huge red flag far because when they say that,

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<v Speaker 4>it's usually because they make them insane, and you end

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<v Speaker 4>up finding out why later that they're all crazy because

0:25:40.119 --> 0:25:43.360
<v Speaker 4>they gaslight you all the time and turn you into crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>So that I find if they can't speak nicely about

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<v Speaker 4>someone they've been with, huge red flag, Like I want

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<v Speaker 4>to hear that you respect that person and you guys

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<v Speaker 4>get along and whatever, like you don't talk, but if

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<v Speaker 4>you saw them, it would be great, Like there's no

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<v Speaker 4>awkwardness because that shows maturity and respect. And if say,

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<v Speaker 4>we're gonna end, I want to see that from you

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<v Speaker 4>everyone that I'm with. It's a very good point and

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<v Speaker 4>I've learned it the hard way many times. A guy

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<v Speaker 4>I saw from Australia used to talk so badly about

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<v Speaker 4>his ex make out she was very, very crazy, stalk

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<v Speaker 4>of vibes, like, and I was like kind of manipulated

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<v Speaker 4>into thinking that she was. And it was actually because

0:26:23.920 --> 0:26:25.600
<v Speaker 4>he was just leading her on the whole time I

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<v Speaker 4>was seeing him and keeping her there and really messing

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<v Speaker 4>with her head, so like it wasn't she was crazy

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<v Speaker 4>at all. If anything, he was crazy. Yeah, so that's huge.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys. What did I say? Women crazy? Men make him

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<v Speaker 2>go crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Men make that men make crazy women crazy?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I look sometimes maybe I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, obviously your ex Harry has a lot of exes

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<v Speaker 3>who are in kind of the same scene. How did

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<v Speaker 3>you feel about that.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't really feel like much about that. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>really like pay attention to people's previous relationships when I'm

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<v Speaker 4>with them. It's more just like how we get along. Like,

0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:06.480
<v Speaker 4>obviously he's in that scene, so he's got to meet

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:08.280
<v Speaker 4>a lot of people in that industry. Like it's just

0:27:09.119 --> 0:27:11.440
<v Speaker 4>it's just gonna happen. Like you're in LA, you meet

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<v Speaker 4>people at events that do the same thing as you do.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like organically happens. So the fact that he

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<v Speaker 4>dated quite a few people in the same scene is

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<v Speaker 4>just like I feel like kind of normal when you're

0:27:21.880 --> 0:27:24.000
<v Speaker 4>in LA, Like everyone does that. So I didn't think

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<v Speaker 4>much of it, and I still don't to be honest,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I'm sure he would date someone out of that

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<v Speaker 4>scene if he had that connection with them. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't think that's like a make or break thing for him.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you guys bump into any of his exes out

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<v Speaker 3>in LA?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Yeah, all the time. Wow, I'm not awkward at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I know who I am, and I know like

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<v Speaker 4>what I bring to a person and a relationship, And

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<v Speaker 4>I don't compare myself with anyone that he's been with,

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<v Speaker 4>Like he's got beautiful exes, like I've met few. I

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<v Speaker 4>went on a trip with one of them. We got

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<v Speaker 4>along great, Like she's lovely, and I see what he

0:28:00.080 --> 0:28:01.600
<v Speaker 4>would have seen it in her, Like I like her

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<v Speaker 4>a lot. She's lovely, and I've also had I've filmed

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<v Speaker 4>with another one of his exes, like obviously didn't know

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<v Speaker 4>Harry then, but like I don't know. I just I

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<v Speaker 4>can see what he would see in them, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not going to sit there and be like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 4>so awkward. We can't go anywhere that they are at,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I'm not that kind of person. And also, I

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<v Speaker 4>believe you can't stop someone from making their own choices

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<v Speaker 4>as much as you try. So nothing I would do

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<v Speaker 4>to prevent anything that's going to happen, I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>would Like whatever will be will be. So if I

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<v Speaker 4>go somewhere and I meet them and I get along

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<v Speaker 4>with them, like I think it's the best option.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you say you're a jealous talking relationships then.

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<v Speaker 4>Or I am jealous and I'm working on that, But

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not jealous like in the way of people he's

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<v Speaker 4>been with he can't speak to. I'm jealous with actions

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<v Speaker 4>within the relationship, right and how I'm like made to

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<v Speaker 4>be shown as like someone's partner. If you're telling me

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<v Speaker 4>every day that I'm the best thing that I ever

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<v Speaker 4>had happen to you, and you love me and you

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<v Speaker 4>want to marry me, but you're giving other people a

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<v Speaker 4>different impression. That's the kind of stuff that's going to

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<v Speaker 4>bother me and make me feel like, you know, insecure

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<v Speaker 4>and jealous, because it's putting yourself out there to be

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<v Speaker 4>a version of you that's not giving people the wrong idea.

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<v Speaker 2>You were saying that you didn't like Harry would act

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<v Speaker 2>single on his podcast or when he'd.

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<v Speaker 4>Go on not his podcasts, and it's not really like

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<v Speaker 4>how he would act. I think it's like a few

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:30.320
<v Speaker 4>ways that he would answer questions, just I know he

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<v Speaker 4>meant it from a not a bad place, Like he's

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<v Speaker 4>just he's funny and he jokes a lot, and that's

0:29:36.200 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 4>what I love about him. But then when it comes

0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:40.040
<v Speaker 4>to serious things, it can be what I don't love

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<v Speaker 4>so much about him. And that was one of those examples,

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<v Speaker 4>like if someone is asking about me, I just want

0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:49.880
<v Speaker 4>you to say either nothing or just say nice things

0:29:49.920 --> 0:29:54.040
<v Speaker 4>about me, because I speak highly of him every opportunity

0:29:54.080 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 4>I get I will speak highly of him, and I

0:29:57.960 --> 0:30:01.720
<v Speaker 4>don't do that because I want people to think, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a nice person. I do it because I love him,

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<v Speaker 4>so I just want that same kind of vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>So did you feel like he wasn't speaking nicely about you?

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<v Speaker 4>I think a few times there were things that left

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<v Speaker 4>it looking like our relationship was less serious than it was.

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<v Speaker 4>And I wasn't the only one that got that impression.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a consensus of an opinion. Like you would

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<v Speaker 4>read the comments and they would really upset me because

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:27.640
<v Speaker 4>it's people saying stuff like, she's a smart girl, but

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<v Speaker 4>this is a very dumb decision to be with someone

0:30:30.920 --> 0:30:34.680
<v Speaker 4>that acts and treats like they're like single. It just

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<v Speaker 4>she needs to have more respect for herself. Things like

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<v Speaker 4>that would really upset me, and I can't ignore that

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<v Speaker 4>because I am a smart girl and I don't want

0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:45.880
<v Speaker 4>people to think I'm some like dumb pushover girl. I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>I know exactly what I want, and giving people that

0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:50.880
<v Speaker 4>opinion of me is just I don't think fair.

0:30:51.000 --> 0:30:53.760
<v Speaker 2>But surely you could, like you could compartmentalize like that.

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<v Speaker 2>When he goes on a podcast and he answers in

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<v Speaker 2>like the moment. It's not the same as hell, like

0:30:58.560 --> 0:31:00.720
<v Speaker 2>you know, I mean, surely at home, but she doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>have to feel.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know, but I can also think, like, you

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<v Speaker 4>don't have to speak like in a way that makes

0:31:10.680 --> 0:31:12.560
<v Speaker 4>me look bad. You don't have to figure about me

0:31:12.600 --> 0:31:14.600
<v Speaker 4>at all. I would actually give you that option if

0:31:14.640 --> 0:31:16.440
<v Speaker 4>you want that option. I don't care if you don't

0:31:16.520 --> 0:31:19.440
<v Speaker 4>talk about me at all, but don't like present me

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<v Speaker 4>into be like something less than I am, because if

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:25.720
<v Speaker 4>you value me in our relationship, I want people to

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<v Speaker 4>see that as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want an example though, of what you're talking about, because.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I'll give you a really minor example, because

0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:35.120
<v Speaker 4>this one's like not a big deal at all. But

0:31:35.160 --> 0:31:38.520
<v Speaker 4>I don't want to like be super dramatic. I'll ease

0:31:38.560 --> 0:31:39.920
<v Speaker 4>myself into the it's only.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's only because I've got like the same issues.

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<v Speaker 2>So like I'm just wondering.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'll give you an example, and it's not that bad.

0:31:48.560 --> 0:31:50.320
<v Speaker 4>You probably won't think it's that bad. But I thought

0:31:50.360 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 4>it was a little bit hurtful. I did that. He

0:31:53.280 --> 0:31:56.400
<v Speaker 4>did a podcast. We were very much together in the

0:31:56.440 --> 0:32:00.959
<v Speaker 4>midst of our relationship dating, and someone asked him what

0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:03.560
<v Speaker 4>he wanted to go on TV wise, and he said

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<v Speaker 4>I'd love to call him a bachelor, and the girl

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 4>replied saying, aren't you in a relationship? And he's like, oh, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>When that's done, well, that's like that's yeah, okay, I

0:32:13.120 --> 0:32:14.719
<v Speaker 2>can understand why you'd care about that.

0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:17.600
<v Speaker 4>But I was like, that's like a little bit like

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<v Speaker 4>why am I with you if you see this as

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<v Speaker 4>so like disposable. Yeah. So I felt like really hurt

0:32:24.280 --> 0:32:26.240
<v Speaker 4>about that, and I would bring those things up to

0:32:26.320 --> 0:32:27.760
<v Speaker 4>him and he just didn't see it as being like

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<v Speaker 4>that much of a big deal. That's what hurt me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I thought you meant that's a huge deal. Yeah,

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:35.440
<v Speaker 2>I think so too. I thought you meant more like, say,

0:32:35.480 --> 0:32:38.560
<v Speaker 2>he's on a he's doing a podcast, and he's like

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<v Speaker 2>sort of he's being his charming self, and I thought

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<v Speaker 2>if that's like no, no, no, I sound like I'm

0:32:43.600 --> 0:32:46.120
<v Speaker 2>so far right now, but like no, like I have

0:32:46.200 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 2>the same problem. And then like people like, well, why

0:32:48.080 --> 0:32:50.760
<v Speaker 2>are you acting single? And I'm like, but that's just me.

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<v Speaker 4>I know Harry's like that, but I'm also like that

0:32:54.040 --> 0:32:55.959
<v Speaker 4>as well. So I have a lot of understanding for that.

0:32:56.040 --> 0:33:00.360
<v Speaker 4>I'm very charismatic, and if I talk to someone more often,

0:33:00.360 --> 0:33:04.400
<v Speaker 4>then they'll get the wrong impression because I'm very over friendly.

0:33:04.520 --> 0:33:06.480
<v Speaker 4>So that's like something I have a lot of sympathy for.

0:33:07.400 --> 0:33:09.520
<v Speaker 4>I can be too friendly and titter on the line

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:12.480
<v Speaker 4>of giving someone the impression I'm floating, but I'm just not.

0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:14.880
<v Speaker 4>I just get along with people very well. So I

0:33:14.920 --> 0:33:17.960
<v Speaker 4>struggle with that myself, and I don't have any issue

0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:20.920
<v Speaker 4>of him doing that in a podcast setting with a girl.

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:25.000
<v Speaker 4>That's not my issue. It's what he physically like says that.

0:33:25.160 --> 0:33:28.080
<v Speaker 4>That can sometimes hurt me because people take it as

0:33:28.120 --> 0:33:31.120
<v Speaker 4>in like, why would you be with someone that doesn't

0:33:31.160 --> 0:33:33.360
<v Speaker 4>value relationship at all? That's how people take it.

0:33:33.400 --> 0:33:33.560
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:33:33.680 --> 0:33:36.040
<v Speaker 4>I just sit there and think, why am I in that?

0:33:36.440 --> 0:33:39.400
<v Speaker 4>Because I want someone that does value me. So that hurts.

0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:41.680
<v Speaker 3>When you first met Harry, I mean he does have

0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:45.280
<v Speaker 3>a bit of like a playboy kind of reputation. Was

0:33:45.280 --> 0:33:49.720
<v Speaker 3>that something that maybe worried you getting into that relationship

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:51.880
<v Speaker 3>with him?

0:33:51.920 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 4>It did, But I also don't really like to attach

0:33:56.280 --> 0:33:59.440
<v Speaker 4>people to things they've done in the past. I'll tell

0:33:59.520 --> 0:34:02.600
<v Speaker 4>my own experience with someone because if I was being

0:34:02.680 --> 0:34:05.520
<v Speaker 4>judged on how I was in every previous relationship by

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:08.080
<v Speaker 4>every new partner, I think that would suck because you

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:10.120
<v Speaker 4>grow and change so much. So I never looked at

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:13.080
<v Speaker 4>him and thought anything I've seen online I'm going to

0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:15.560
<v Speaker 4>judge him for because I don't even know that that's fact.

0:34:15.920 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 4>And I also want to see how it is with us.

0:34:19.239 --> 0:34:22.960
<v Speaker 4>Everyone's different in every relationship, just it depends on the

0:34:23.000 --> 0:34:26.800
<v Speaker 4>person and how you are towards them and whatever. I knew,

0:34:26.840 --> 0:34:31.719
<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't tolerate anything less than I deserved in that aspect.

0:34:31.800 --> 0:34:34.839
<v Speaker 4>So if there was anything shady going on, or if

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:37.960
<v Speaker 4>I felt like he wasn't committed or loyal to me,

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:39.080
<v Speaker 4>I would have ended it.

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:43.600
<v Speaker 3>Do you think that with the comments like the one

0:34:43.680 --> 0:34:47.160
<v Speaker 3>you just kind of gave an example with before that

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:51.719
<v Speaker 3>there potentially was any sort of shady behavior going on

0:34:51.960 --> 0:34:53.200
<v Speaker 3>whilst you guys were together.

0:34:54.120 --> 0:34:57.040
<v Speaker 4>No, I don't, actually like I actually just think it

0:34:57.160 --> 0:35:01.799
<v Speaker 4>was more for attention. His whole job is very much

0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:04.839
<v Speaker 4>reliant and that's not a bad thing. That's like I

0:35:04.960 --> 0:35:07.200
<v Speaker 4>rely on that as well. That's why I post tiktoks,

0:35:07.200 --> 0:35:10.120
<v Speaker 4>That's why I post photos first, trap he kind of photos.

0:35:10.160 --> 0:35:13.359
<v Speaker 4>That's it's attention that you need in this industry. As

0:35:13.480 --> 0:35:16.799
<v Speaker 4>gross as that sounds, so like some people do more

0:35:16.840 --> 0:35:19.239
<v Speaker 4>than others would for that, and I just think in

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:22.080
<v Speaker 4>those situations, that's what he's good trying to get, you know,

0:35:22.120 --> 0:35:23.719
<v Speaker 4>a little bit of clickbait, a little bit of fun

0:35:23.719 --> 0:35:26.359
<v Speaker 4>out of it. Nothing, no harm is meant out of it.

0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:29.279
<v Speaker 4>But when you bring another person into it and they're

0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:34.399
<v Speaker 4>in a relationship, it can be difficult if you're used

0:35:34.400 --> 0:35:35.719
<v Speaker 4>to doing that kind of thing and now all of

0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:37.080
<v Speaker 4>a sudden, it's not acceptable.

0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:39.799
<v Speaker 2>That's why we've been so successful for so long, because

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:40.279
<v Speaker 2>he knows what.

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:42.880
<v Speaker 4>He's doing, yes, and that I have to pride him

0:35:42.880 --> 0:35:45.040
<v Speaker 4>on because not many people make it as far as

0:35:45.080 --> 0:35:47.959
<v Speaker 4>he did going off the back end of a TV show,

0:35:48.000 --> 0:35:51.080
<v Speaker 4>Like you usually have a lifespan and then you fizzle out.

0:35:51.239 --> 0:35:55.200
<v Speaker 4>So he's done really well to maintain and keep going up,

0:35:55.640 --> 0:35:58.000
<v Speaker 4>and it's worked so well for him. I see why

0:35:58.320 --> 0:36:01.759
<v Speaker 4>he does it. I'm not like, you know, I get

0:36:01.800 --> 0:36:03.000
<v Speaker 4>that you said before.

0:36:03.880 --> 0:36:05.920
<v Speaker 2>You said before about Chase as well, like he's got

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:08.400
<v Speaker 2>his persona that he portrays online.

0:36:08.400 --> 0:36:11.200
<v Speaker 4>It's the same thing, yeah, exactly, and a lot of

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:14.120
<v Speaker 4>people do because you have to run with what you've got,

0:36:14.160 --> 0:36:16.080
<v Speaker 4>and especially if you go on a TV show and

0:36:16.440 --> 0:36:20.440
<v Speaker 4>you're like player or you're like the douchebag. People know

0:36:20.520 --> 0:36:22.600
<v Speaker 4>you for that when you come off that. You've got

0:36:22.600 --> 0:36:23.359
<v Speaker 4>to keep that up.

0:36:23.440 --> 0:36:24.400
<v Speaker 2>It's very hard to do.

0:36:26.080 --> 0:36:29.960
<v Speaker 4>It's very hard. Like I'm lucky that you know, my

0:36:30.600 --> 0:36:32.960
<v Speaker 4>audience sees me the way that I am and I

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:35.600
<v Speaker 4>don't have to try and do anything dramatic. For I

0:36:35.640 --> 0:36:37.600
<v Speaker 4>could be more dramatic, and I could get more attention,

0:36:37.680 --> 0:36:39.279
<v Speaker 4>but it's just not genuine to me, and I don't

0:36:39.480 --> 0:36:43.279
<v Speaker 4>feel like that's important. So I don't do that. But

0:36:43.400 --> 0:36:45.319
<v Speaker 4>a lot of people do do that, especially in LA

0:36:45.520 --> 0:36:47.360
<v Speaker 4>everyone's got some kind of a persona.

0:36:47.560 --> 0:36:50.319
<v Speaker 3>Well, speaking of your show, you were on too Hot

0:36:50.360 --> 0:36:52.560
<v Speaker 3>to Hand or how was that experience for you?

0:36:53.800 --> 0:36:56.160
<v Speaker 4>I actually had the best time. Like I got along

0:36:56.200 --> 0:37:00.200
<v Speaker 4>with everyone so well. I didn't find, like, you know,

0:37:00.239 --> 0:37:03.440
<v Speaker 4>a relationship, but I made a lot of great friendships

0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:05.319
<v Speaker 4>and I stay in touch with all of them. Like

0:37:05.640 --> 0:37:09.080
<v Speaker 4>the experience itself was so amazing, meeting people from all

0:37:09.120 --> 0:37:11.120
<v Speaker 4>over the world, like and just being in the one place.

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:13.879
<v Speaker 4>Now I have connections everywhere and like, say, I want

0:37:13.920 --> 0:37:16.719
<v Speaker 4>to go to Hawaiian see Patrick and get him to

0:37:16.760 --> 0:37:18.880
<v Speaker 4>like sing me another little guitar, so if I can

0:37:18.960 --> 0:37:20.920
<v Speaker 4>go there and he'd show me all around, Like I

0:37:20.920 --> 0:37:24.320
<v Speaker 4>have friends all over the world now, and it's just, yeah,

0:37:24.480 --> 0:37:27.479
<v Speaker 4>it's been an amazing opportunity. Even after what has come

0:37:27.480 --> 0:37:30.719
<v Speaker 4>for me. Now I have other opportunities with Netflix as

0:37:30.719 --> 0:37:33.239
<v Speaker 4>well because of that. So see, it was sad, like

0:37:33.560 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 4>one of the best things that happened.

0:37:34.640 --> 0:37:36.040
<v Speaker 2>How did you get casted for it?

0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:39.600
<v Speaker 4>They cast everyone the same way. They kind of reach

0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:43.040
<v Speaker 4>out to you through Instagram on like a really dodgy

0:37:43.080 --> 0:37:46.239
<v Speaker 4>little like bake account, and it just seemed so I

0:37:46.280 --> 0:37:49.000
<v Speaker 4>actually ignored it for a month. I just thought it

0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:52.040
<v Speaker 4>was like someone was trying to like mess with me

0:37:52.200 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 4>because the photos on their site were like zoomed in,

0:37:55.280 --> 0:37:58.240
<v Speaker 4>like super pixelated, like you couldn't even make them out,

0:37:58.280 --> 0:38:00.680
<v Speaker 4>and it was like, Hi, I'm casting from such and such,

0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:03.920
<v Speaker 4>and I was like, this is so fake. Why I

0:38:03.960 --> 0:38:04.839
<v Speaker 4>even waste my time?

0:38:05.000 --> 0:38:06.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was talking to Chase about it. They center

0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:08.480
<v Speaker 2>I got it as well, but it was like a

0:38:08.480 --> 0:38:11.879
<v Speaker 2>boat party thing or something. It was on a boat, yeah,

0:38:12.000 --> 0:38:14.879
<v Speaker 2>boat party. I was in a relationship, so I ignored it.

0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:18.960
<v Speaker 4>But really, damn, that's a shame.

0:38:21.600 --> 0:38:23.239
<v Speaker 2>It's the story of my life. At this point.

0:38:25.120 --> 0:38:28.759
<v Speaker 4>Oh no, See, I was like luckily single when they

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:32.360
<v Speaker 4>reached out, and it was like just after kind of

0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:34.560
<v Speaker 4>COVID has happened, and I couldn't go anywhere for the

0:38:34.600 --> 0:38:38.840
<v Speaker 4>longest time, and I really wanted to travel again, and

0:38:38.880 --> 0:38:40.640
<v Speaker 4>I love traveling. So it came to me at the

0:38:40.680 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 4>perfect time, and I was like, you know what, why

0:38:43.120 --> 0:38:45.200
<v Speaker 4>wouldn't I, like I get to go to an amazing,

0:38:45.320 --> 0:38:49.440
<v Speaker 4>like Caribbean like location and just have the best time

0:38:49.520 --> 0:38:51.520
<v Speaker 4>meeting new people. I love doing all that stuff.

0:38:51.800 --> 0:38:54.000
<v Speaker 2>Did you lose any of the money like when you

0:38:54.040 --> 0:38:54.640
<v Speaker 2>were doing it?

0:38:54.840 --> 0:38:56.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I lost a little bit.

0:38:56.719 --> 0:38:59.719
<v Speaker 2>You said, you have to feel a connection with so on.

0:39:00.880 --> 0:39:03.520
<v Speaker 4>I know, but like I also like to have fun

0:39:07.160 --> 0:39:11.000
<v Speaker 4>in the Caribbean. Like I was single for about a

0:39:11.120 --> 0:39:14.560
<v Speaker 4>year at that point, but like I didn't even date

0:39:14.640 --> 0:39:16.319
<v Speaker 4>after my ex for a year. And then I've gone

0:39:16.360 --> 0:39:18.400
<v Speaker 4>on the show and I'm like, oh, new people, so

0:39:18.480 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 4>much fun. Everyone's like good looking, and we're all in

0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:23.800
<v Speaker 4>a country and it's like a vacation. So I kissed it.

0:39:23.960 --> 0:39:26.319
<v Speaker 4>I kissed a few people, but like I didn't do

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:26.960
<v Speaker 4>anything else.

0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:31.040
<v Speaker 3>How did your ex feel about you going on the show?

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:35.520
<v Speaker 4>Ah? Yes, so he actually called me. It was really weird.

0:39:35.560 --> 0:39:39.800
<v Speaker 4>He's got like this telepathic way of knowing when anything

0:39:39.920 --> 0:39:42.279
<v Speaker 4>in my life starts to become great, and then he

0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:45.160
<v Speaker 4>would like reach out again. This is before I met Harry,

0:39:45.200 --> 0:39:48.080
<v Speaker 4>so it doesn't talk to me anymore. But when I

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:49.799
<v Speaker 4>was in the midst of getting over him, it was

0:39:49.840 --> 0:39:51.759
<v Speaker 4>like any time an opportunity would come my way, he

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:54.080
<v Speaker 4>had like a signal to reach out to me and

0:39:54.080 --> 0:39:56.160
<v Speaker 4>try and like get back in my life. So he

0:39:56.200 --> 0:39:58.439
<v Speaker 4>did that conveniently right before I was about to leave,

0:39:58.560 --> 0:40:01.520
<v Speaker 4>and I said, oh, I'm not going to be able

0:40:01.520 --> 0:40:03.440
<v Speaker 4>to use my phone, Like I'm glad we're on talking

0:40:03.480 --> 0:40:07.320
<v Speaker 4>terms again, like we just had established a friendship because

0:40:07.640 --> 0:40:11.040
<v Speaker 4>from hate to now we can be mutual. And I said,

0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:12.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to be able to use my phone.

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:14.359
<v Speaker 4>I'm going away for a month, and he's like, oh,

0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:17.439
<v Speaker 4>try to dig for some information. And then found out,

0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:20.800
<v Speaker 4>like I was telling me, was really happy that I'm

0:40:20.840 --> 0:40:23.840
<v Speaker 4>like going and doing this opportunity. It sounds great. The

0:40:23.880 --> 0:40:26.320
<v Speaker 4>next day he called me and like went off about

0:40:26.320 --> 0:40:27.759
<v Speaker 4>it and said if I was to go on that

0:40:27.760 --> 0:40:30.720
<v Speaker 4>he'll never speak to me again. And I said, that's crazy,

0:40:30.760 --> 0:40:33.640
<v Speaker 4>because like my bags are packed and I'm going and

0:40:33.719 --> 0:40:37.400
<v Speaker 4>I went, and if funnily enough, he did speak to

0:40:37.440 --> 0:40:39.680
<v Speaker 4>me again. He wrote me like I was.

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:42.480
<v Speaker 2>To say, yeah, they always do. That's such an empty three.

0:40:42.480 --> 0:40:46.120
<v Speaker 4>I always circle back. Yeah, he circled back conveniently right

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:48.799
<v Speaker 4>before it was coming out as well. This is just

0:40:48.920 --> 0:40:50.880
<v Speaker 4>so your timing is crazy.

0:40:51.360 --> 0:40:53.120
<v Speaker 2>Did you still have feelings for him at the time then?

0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:56.759
<v Speaker 4>Like I was well over it by then. It was

0:40:56.800 --> 0:40:59.399
<v Speaker 4>actually really good. I think the whole experience would taught

0:40:59.480 --> 0:41:01.520
<v Speaker 4>to handle got me over it in a lot of

0:41:01.560 --> 0:41:03.960
<v Speaker 4>ways because I could see like what my future would

0:41:04.000 --> 0:41:08.520
<v Speaker 4>hold and how much a relationship with him doesn't align

0:41:08.640 --> 0:41:11.799
<v Speaker 4>with me and my true personality, my true self, Like

0:41:12.440 --> 0:41:14.080
<v Speaker 4>I just felt like I couldn't be that with him,

0:41:14.120 --> 0:41:15.680
<v Speaker 4>and even more so now that I had a show

0:41:15.760 --> 0:41:18.880
<v Speaker 4>coming out where I was just exactly who I was

0:41:18.960 --> 0:41:21.360
<v Speaker 4>and he would have not liked it and made me

0:41:21.360 --> 0:41:23.520
<v Speaker 4>feel bad about it. So I just put it in

0:41:23.520 --> 0:41:25.560
<v Speaker 4>the back of my mind and really move forward.

0:41:25.760 --> 0:41:27.640
<v Speaker 2>Good you Yeah, that's good.

0:41:27.880 --> 0:41:28.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Okay.

0:41:28.800 --> 0:41:31.080
<v Speaker 1>We have a couple of listener questions.

0:41:31.280 --> 0:41:35.400
<v Speaker 3>The first one comes from Andrea, and she has asked,

0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:39.280
<v Speaker 3>if Justin Bieber was single and you met him, would

0:41:39.640 --> 0:41:43.120
<v Speaker 3>you sleep with him or COO cut with him if

0:41:43.160 --> 0:41:44.520
<v Speaker 3>he was interested in you.

0:41:45.040 --> 0:41:52.319
<v Speaker 4>It's a very controversial question, Andrea, thank you, very controversial.

0:41:52.360 --> 0:41:54.000
<v Speaker 4>He's amazing and I've had a crush on him since

0:41:54.040 --> 0:41:56.880
<v Speaker 4>I was like, what twelve thirteen years old, So it

0:41:56.920 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 4>would be very much lie in it non truth for

0:42:00.800 --> 0:42:02.920
<v Speaker 4>me to say I wouldn't want to do that as

0:42:02.960 --> 0:42:08.600
<v Speaker 4>he's married. Definitely not but single be another situation. It's

0:42:08.719 --> 0:42:10.759
<v Speaker 4>just some bieber like I don't know who wouldn't like

0:42:10.920 --> 0:42:13.279
<v Speaker 4>he's one of the best people on it.

0:42:13.560 --> 0:42:15.360
<v Speaker 1>If he wasn't married. I think you guys would make

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:17.440
<v Speaker 1>a pretty cute couple, thank you.

0:42:17.600 --> 0:42:20.480
<v Speaker 3>Even though he's a cute couple with with Haley, Yeah.

0:42:20.719 --> 0:42:25.040
<v Speaker 4>I love their relationship. I think they're so sweet. So baby, oh,

0:42:25.080 --> 0:42:27.319
<v Speaker 4>I know it's gonna be so cute.

0:42:27.520 --> 0:42:29.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay, bear with me here. Reading is not my strong point.

0:42:30.320 --> 0:42:33.640
<v Speaker 2>Madison asks do you prefer a public relationship or a

0:42:33.680 --> 0:42:36.160
<v Speaker 2>more private one? You posted a lot of tiktoks when

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:38.879
<v Speaker 2>you were with Harry, and I was wondering if this

0:42:39.040 --> 0:42:41.480
<v Speaker 2>was more for your career or you'd like to share

0:42:41.480 --> 0:42:42.840
<v Speaker 2>your relationship with your followers.

0:42:43.719 --> 0:42:46.600
<v Speaker 4>I'm like I've said, I'm very transparent, so I love

0:42:46.640 --> 0:42:49.480
<v Speaker 4>sharing things with people. The only downside of that is

0:42:49.520 --> 0:42:52.399
<v Speaker 4>that if anything does go wrong, it's like he said,

0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:54.480
<v Speaker 4>she said, he did this, she did that, and it's

0:42:54.520 --> 0:42:58.000
<v Speaker 4>so draining. So for that reason, I like keeping things

0:42:58.000 --> 0:43:01.080
<v Speaker 4>more private, But I I also want to share things

0:43:01.080 --> 0:43:03.800
<v Speaker 4>with people because I love people, you know, seeing my life,

0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:06.759
<v Speaker 4>and it's just hard. That's what I don't know. And

0:43:06.800 --> 0:43:09.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to figure out this year. If I was

0:43:09.680 --> 0:43:12.640
<v Speaker 4>to be with someone, maybe have like a time limit

0:43:12.800 --> 0:43:15.759
<v Speaker 4>of how private I keep it for how long, say

0:43:15.760 --> 0:43:18.480
<v Speaker 4>six months, and then if after six months we're still together,

0:43:19.040 --> 0:43:21.160
<v Speaker 4>then open it up to the public and then see

0:43:21.200 --> 0:43:24.439
<v Speaker 4>what happens there. But jumping into being online too soon,

0:43:24.520 --> 0:43:27.919
<v Speaker 4>I think is not healthy anyway. It like can really

0:43:28.000 --> 0:43:29.160
<v Speaker 4>damage something beautiful.

0:43:29.440 --> 0:43:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you can well, Georgia.

0:43:31.400 --> 0:43:34.239
<v Speaker 3>We are going to hope and pray over here. It

0:43:34.280 --> 0:43:37.400
<v Speaker 3>wears your head at that that door that's still open

0:43:37.440 --> 0:43:40.719
<v Speaker 3>with you and Harry can maybe be rekindled in some

0:43:40.760 --> 0:43:42.960
<v Speaker 3>sort of way. But if not, we wish you all

0:43:43.000 --> 0:43:45.440
<v Speaker 3>the best, and we know that la is going to

0:43:45.480 --> 0:43:47.120
<v Speaker 3>be amazing. We can't wait to see all of the

0:43:47.160 --> 0:43:48.760
<v Speaker 3>amazing things that you're going to be doing.

0:43:49.160 --> 0:43:51.680
<v Speaker 4>Oh thank you guys. Yeah, I'm so excited.

0:43:52.040 --> 0:43:53.960
<v Speaker 3>It's been a pleasure chatting to you as well. You're

0:43:54.000 --> 0:43:56.080
<v Speaker 3>so sweet, so thank you for coming on the podcast.

0:43:56.120 --> 0:43:57.280
<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Thank you guys.

0:43:57.320 --> 0:43:58.160
<v Speaker 4>You guys are so lovely.

0:43:58.239 --> 0:44:01.640
<v Speaker 2>This form shot no worries.

0:44:01.680 --> 0:44:02.440
<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much.

0:44:02.480 --> 0:44:03.799
<v Speaker 1>By hie

0:44:10.680 --> 0:44:11.080
<v Speaker 4>Mm hmm