1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: This is the Fits in with with Kate Richie podcast. Look, guys, 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: after we had such a successful week last week with 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: our singles ball. It was a complete success, and hopefully 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: some of the people that did meet, you know, like 5 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: things might progress. Maybe they might be popping over for 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:18,760 Speaker 1: dinner to one of the you know, the person that 7 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:22,279 Speaker 1: we partnered them up with. And rather than get and 8 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: rather than getting down on relationships new love looking for 9 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: red flags. I saw this article and I thought we 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: should just quickly chat through it. Green flags for these positives. 11 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: These are the positives. This is green for go like 12 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 1: rather than thinking, oh no, this was like my last boyfriend, 13 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: I should run a mile. These are some of the 14 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: things that if you find around their apartment, then maybe 15 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: you're on Maybe maybe they're a good size. I was 16 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: looking for the negative. We are why this won't work. Yeah, 17 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: And if you say a ferrari or something like that, 18 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: I would just be like, it's not that, but you 19 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: know one better than that. These are the simple things 20 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: that you find floating around the house of your new 21 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: partner that could mean that things are stable and fitting 22 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 1: in the right direction. Okay, general bathroom hygiene big one. 23 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,919 Speaker 1: I think if you're popping over for dinner. Always asked 24 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: to use the bathroom, and it doesn't mean you need 25 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: to snoop. But if they have hand towels, they have 26 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: hand soap, there is a bin with a lid in 27 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 1: the bathroom, or just even a bin, I'm not it 28 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: doesn't really matter. A nice little basket or something with 29 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: a big roma. Well, you know, stinky wet towels you 30 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: know straight away when you're walking. Oh no, exactly, because 31 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: that means that there's not a level of housework being done. 32 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: Like maybe even the washing basket doesn't smell musty because 33 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: it's got wet towels and gym gear and all of 34 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: that stuff. Candle, hopefully no pea like around on the toilet, 35 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: that kind of thing, so it will indicate maybe hopefully 36 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: there's not another lady in the bath. Both things can 37 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: get in the way and those green flags red flags. 38 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: So excited brain as a drain. Okay, spare clean towels. 39 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: That is always good fresh. You'd like to think that 40 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: by the time you reach adulthood, to the person that 41 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: you are sharing their shower, they have a fresh towel 42 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: in the linen cover. It's not sharing the towel that's 43 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 1: been on the back of the door. I don't have 44 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: an issue with that. Does it look a bit weird 45 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: if you're over at the house and you just quickly 46 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: duck off to see if they've got any fresh hairs, 47 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: no fresh towels. Saying you have this as a list 48 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: and you run through the house and ticket off. What 49 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: I'm saying is when you stumble across these things in 50 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: the house, that's tick. That's a green flag. I've noticed 51 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: the green flag homes that don't look like an Airbnb. 52 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: So you'd like to have a bit of personality in 53 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: the room. It's not just a bed in a desk, 54 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: and get your undies off the floor too. We'll have 55 00:02:56,480 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 1: a washing basket, yes, stocked spice rack and food in 56 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: the break too much pressure. No, it does mean you 57 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: cook and maybe if there's something other than you know, 58 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: margarine is a good indication. And real house plants means 59 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: that they can nurture. I don't think you find one 60 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:20,679 Speaker 1: guy with really passion for house plants. Yes, I know 61 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 1: my mates did up in the ad their power, but 62 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: through the roof that's comp They treated them like their siblings, 63 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: that's for sure. It's Whip with Kate Ritchie is a 64 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: Nova podcast work great shows like this. Download the Nova Player, 65 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: find the app store or Google Play.