1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Her with Kate Richie podcast. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: Accidentally sent an email or a text message to the 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: wrong person. It's nothing worse. You've commented on the wrong boat. 4 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 2: You reverse it now, isn't there? Do you have to 5 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 2: get onto it pretty quickly? Can you delete a message? 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 1: I think you can delete a text message. You can 7 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: delete an email if nobody's seen it. But you know, 8 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: when you're in an organization like what happened to this bloke. 9 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: This has actually turned out well for him fits because 10 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: basically he's come out and said, I had two hours sleep, 11 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: I needed to send an email to my boss, and 12 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: I sent a group all. But what he wrote was 13 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: he had to give some updates on some numbers because 14 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: he's a financial analysis. So he just wrote to his boss, 15 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: nothing big, just use your numbers, they're on track. I'll 16 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: up you update you later. By the way, I've resigned. Anyway, 17 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: he started getting all these comments, emails, firing back. Somebody 18 00:00:56,640 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: else sends flowers to the house saying things, so much 19 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: for your time. He then got a phone call from 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 1: the boss going what do you mean you've resigned. He 21 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: meant to write, I've re signed. He gets a call 22 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: into the next day. He's march straight up to what 23 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 1: they've called the President's office and sat down, and the 24 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,960 Speaker 1: President's gone, why are you leaving? Please don't leave. In fact, 25 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to give you a promotion to make you stay. 26 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: And before he got a chance to say it was 27 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: a typo. He's taken a promotion at the business or 28 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:37,119 Speaker 1: because he accidentally typed having not slept, that he'd resigned 29 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: instead of. 30 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 2: Recess, so it's actually been beneficial for him. This happens regularly, 31 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 2: mattin Bargo, tell us about your email file. 32 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:50,559 Speaker 3: Matt, yeah, I get that, guys. Brought up a couple 33 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 3: of years ago is when I was a team leader 34 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,279 Speaker 3: in an office environment and I always used to send 35 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 3: kind of recaps of my conversations to myself after any meeting. 36 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 3: That was just to make sure I had everything documented. 37 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 3: This particular conversation was a pretty bad performance performance based 38 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 3: one was a bloozy, The guy was rude, antagonistic, there 39 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,119 Speaker 3: you go, just pretty much an idiot. So I recapped 40 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 3: the conversation like I always do, but I included what 41 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 3: I thought of him, and instead of sending that to myself, 42 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 3: I sent it to him. 43 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 2: Any expletives in there, Matt. 44 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 4: Yes, So it ended up going down the whole HR 45 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 4: complaint road show dragged out for a week. Then I 46 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 4: don't say to say I don't do that anymore. I 47 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 4: don't send recap emails to myself anymore. 48 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: And what was the first contact, Like the moment you 49 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: realized you'd sent it to him? Did he write back? 50 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 4: He wrote back and c seed the HR representative into 51 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 4: the email. 52 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: Bought a beauty, brought a beauty. 53 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was. 54 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: I was in a car with guy once. There was 55 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: a new bloke that had started at work. Anyway, someone 56 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: sent a message to him saying, what's the new book? 57 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 5: Like? 58 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: He wrote back. He then typed, I don't know how 59 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: he did it. He typed to the new guy and 60 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: said the new bloke is a half back flanker which 61 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: rhymes with winkra, and sent it to him. So he 62 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: then had to He tried to fix the issue by 63 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: suggesting that that was the most crucial man on a 64 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: football field, the half back flanker, and every team needs 65 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: a strong half and just dug himself into an absolute hole. 66 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jamie's given his kill from Richmond. You've got an 67 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 2: E fail email fail what happened to you, Jamie? 68 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 6: Yes, I do. I'd put in leave about six months 69 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 6: in advance, and he got declined by my boss. So 70 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 6: I had email the coworker of mine, or so I thought, 71 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 6: could be about my leaving the client. Yeah, and pretty 72 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 6: much just saying that if the leaves not approved, I'll 73 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 6: be calling sick anyway, I will not be at work 74 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 6: that day. 75 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: Oh my god, did you use any words describe. 76 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 6: A different co worker because coworker and boss have the 77 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 6: same name. 78 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 2: Ah, there you go there? 79 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: Do you use any bad words to describe the boss? 80 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 6: There were a couple of bad words in there. Yes, 81 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 6: my children using yes. 82 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 2: Did you get the time off? Or did you take 83 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 2: the sickness off Jamie? 84 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 7: Or what did you do? 85 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 6: I did eventually get the time off. 86 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 5: He went to it. 87 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 6: I asked another manager and they approved it. 88 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 2: Well, nice work around, James and camera James. Where did 89 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 2: the email go? 90 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 5: Hey? 91 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 4: Boys? 92 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 7: I was working for a client and they were working 93 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 7: on a fifty million dollar acquisition to bolts into their business, 94 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 7: and I needed to calculate the redundancies on all the duplicate. 95 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 2: Control No, no, yep. 96 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 7: I had two versions of the worksheet, one to get 97 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 7: information from the target company and the other for our 98 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 7: own calculations, and I accidentally sent the one that flags 99 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 7: all the redundancies to the CFO of that business late 100 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 7: on a Friday afternoon when there was no one else 101 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 7: in the office but me, and I was kind of 102 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 7: reasonably junior at the. 103 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 2: Time, and then that would have gone over the whole weekend. 104 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 2: You couldn't rectify that, James, could you? 105 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 6: Like? 106 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 3: It? 107 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 6: Was it? 108 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 7: So I was freaking out, had the biggest stomach drop 109 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 7: of all times, and I called one of the partners upstairs, 110 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 7: who I knows had similar f ups in the past, 111 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 7: and asked him how to recall an email. And so 112 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 7: what I did was recalled the email and sent it 113 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 7: fifteen times again, recalling each time, but each time I 114 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 7: added the new attachment. I added the right one. I 115 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 7: added the right one, and then I called the CFO 116 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 7: and said, look, there's something wrong with my email. Just 117 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 7: delete all them. I'll send you the right one on Monday. 118 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 2: I just he just tried to muddy the waters, Jim. 119 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 7: I completely muddied the waters and the deal went through. 120 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 7: But this was a global firm, so I ended up 121 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 7: meeting the CEO of the global firm for the first 122 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 7: time my life, which was which was interesting, but I 123 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 7: lived to fight another day. 124 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: And you're James the email guy. 125 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 2: Very quick on your feet, James, I like it, Samantha 126 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 2: and Cabra Matta. Did you send a message to the 127 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 2: wrong person? 128 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 3: Yes. 129 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 5: So I was a living nanny and Melbourne years ago 130 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 5: and I was seeing a guy and I sent him 131 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:42,919 Speaker 5: a message, like an explicit message, telling him how great 132 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 5: he was, and all the things went into a lot 133 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 5: of detail. And he had the same name as my 134 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 5: nanny dad, and I accidentally sent it to my nanny dad. 135 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 2: Your nanny dad, Ye, who looks after the King? 136 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: What a moment. 137 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 5: It was like. I left it a month later. 138 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that'll do, so you're later. I had a mate 139 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: who he was going to break up with his girlfriend 140 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: at the time, and he went around there and they 141 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: sat on the bed for a while and there was 142 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: a few tears, and then he broke up with her. 143 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,679 Speaker 1: He then went to send me a message that said, mate, 144 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: good news, I'm back in the game. He sent it 145 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: to her. 146 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 6: Oh crush, you idiot. 147 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 2: Why would he be sending that to you. It's not 148 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 2: like you're a good wing man. 149 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: I was the Ultimate wing Man. He's a lot better 150 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: looking than me. Mate. I helped him out many times. 151 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: It's in Whipper with Kate. Ritchie is a Nova podcast 152 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: walk great shows like this. Download the Nova player, Fire 153 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 1: the 154 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 4: App Store, or Google playing the player