WEBVTT - "Happy Birthday Matt!" || HOTLINE 0:00:05.840 --> 0:00:07.400 Welcome back to the Where's Your Head At? 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:10.360 Hotline, our weekly show where we catch up with each 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:13.600 other and connect with you all on our hotline voicemail. 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:15.600 We want to hear from you, guys, so please send 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:18.880 your stories, questions, advice or tea to Where's Your head 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:21.560 at pod at gmail dot com to be featured on 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:22.480 one of our episodes. 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:32.600 I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in. Happy birthday. 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:36.320 Is just one persons so awkward. 0:00:36.440 --> 0:00:39.080 Happy Birthday, Matt, Thank you, Anna, Thank you for the 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:39.760 beautiful cake. 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:40.400 You've brought me. 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:42.960 Jumpy to just like get to the end of it. 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:45.360 Yeah, Marilyn, let me. 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:45.760 Think about it. 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:49.960 Birthday to You have to have birthday to Happy birthday 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:50.840 to you. 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:51.280 Hip it. 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:54.320 Hooray, Hi hip hooray. 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:58.640 Out the candles and make a wish. Oh, don't tell 0:00:58.680 --> 0:00:59.520 anyone you're wish. 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:01.280 That's the number one rule. 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:02.400 Yeah. 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:04.760 Well, thank you for the cake. It's it's quite nice. 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:07.600 I am schedule as we're coming into the building today. 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:09.600 By accident, Oh my god, I thought you're about to 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:10.240 drop the cake. 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:13.080 I almost dropped it on myself. 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:15.039 Did look like because you went like that and it 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:16.560 looked like it was going to come back into your face. 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:19.600 Well, Matt, it's your birthday? Twenty eight feeling great? 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:22.440 Yes, I am. I am feeling great. Who would have 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:23.200 thought I got here? 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:25.960 Yeah? What have you learned? I want to know, Like, 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:28.399 because I feel like you've had a lot of life 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:29.440 changes recently. 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:33.200 I feel like as a person you've evolved heaps in 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:36.760 the past since we've started this podcast. I feel like 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.679 it's been a real evolution for you, which has been 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:40.320 cool to see. 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:41.560 But what have you learned? 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:45.479 Twenty eight Things that I've learned before twenty eighth? Number one, 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:48.800 do you have a list? Don't believe anyone when they 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:52.080 say shaving your pubic care will rid you of crabs. 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:58.600 Always wipe front to back. Number two. Number three, always 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:04.400 walking pairs at night? That's from scary movie. I was like, 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:09.079 what have I learned? I've learned a lot, haven't I? 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:11.280 In the last couple of months. Like I said on 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:14.440 something I learned was that I've really started to really 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:17.280 figure out is that like nobody thinks they're the bad guy, 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:19.760 are in the wrong in a situation, and they were 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:22.480 like argue their point till they're blue, and that a 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:24.840 lot of people struggle to see it from another person's 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:28.720 point of view. What else have I learned recently? 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:31.640 Everyone's the main character in their own story, in their own. 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:33.880 Story, Yeah, that's the true, the same thing, yeah, character, 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:36.160 So they're telling it from their point of view but failing. 0:02:36.160 --> 0:02:38.359 And I'm guilty of it as much as the next person. 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:41.000 But because I've noticed it, I've taken a lot more 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:44.360 notice of it and trying to realize that other people 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:49.520 have their side of the story. Yeah, I've changed my 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:53.600 whole outlooks outlook on your life as well. Was in like, 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:56.880 I've changed my priorities. It's not so much going out 0:02:57.000 --> 0:03:00.519 now just you know, it's saving money, like putting a 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:01.720 lot of focus back into. 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:05.880 Myself, your very goal orientated, like we both are, which 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:09.520 I think is like really positive. And it's almost like 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:11.280 we don't want to go out and drink because we 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:12.080 don't have time. 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:13.480 Yeah exactly. 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:15.200 And it's so good. It's such a good feeling. 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:19.120 Yeah, So I really do enjoy waking up sober and 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:22.320 not hungover on a Sunday, feeling fresh from the night before. 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:23.040 That's really good. 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:25.880 That's a big evolution for you, to be honest. 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:30.079 Oh, I've drunk enough for a lifetime. When I was younger. 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:33.280 I've seriously taken a couple of years off your life. Probably. 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:35.560 Yeah, guys, don't think because I don't enjoy it now 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:37.440 like I used to go hard. Like you've seen me, 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:41.280 You've seen me do it. Yeah, I have fun, But yeah, 0:03:41.400 --> 0:03:44.680 just change. I guess people grow up, mature, different life situations, 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:46.440 different places they are in their life. 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:49.000 Yeah, we have something very exciting coming up at the 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:50.720 end of this month as well. 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:51.200 We do. 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:55.640 We're going to be doing a live show at Splendor 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:58.360 in the Grass. So if you're going there, make sure 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:01.960 on the twenty, which is the Thursday you come and 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:03.880 check out. Matt and I will be in the podcast 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:06.200 tent and we'll be doing a bit of a live show. 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:10.200 That's exciting, really exciting. Are you nervous or are you do? 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:12.480 You know what I think When we did our first 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:16.839 live show in Melbourne, I was like very apprehensive. I 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:19.719 was like, you know, I didn't know what to expect. 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:21.919 I didn't know how we were gonna be. But I 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:25.039 think we do the podcast twice a week, it's very 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:27.360 second nature to us. I mean, we just roll in 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:29.159 here and we just have a chat with each other, 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:31.280 and I think Splendor is gonna be a lot of fun. 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:35.440 We're excited to see some of the people playing there. 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:38.800 We have some interviews hopefully that are getting lined up 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:40.720 some of the artists that we'd love to interview on 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.479 the podcast from Splendor. It's gonna be a fun time. 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:46.800 I've never been to Splendor. Michael's actually coming up with 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.760 us as well. I would like to him, should I 0:04:49.800 --> 0:04:52.400 take one of the girls, like you know it's gonna 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.719 be me, and that Matt's decided to bring his younger 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:58.320 sister Emma, Should I bring one of my girlfriends? And 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:01.560 Michael's like, no, Splendor, It's been on my buck at 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:02.880 least for my whole life. 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:06.599 I thought it was done. I'm thirty four. I thought 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:07.599 it had been and gone. 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:09.880 And He's like, this is my opportunity to tick it 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:10.560 off the list. 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:12.960 So yeah, I've actually never thought of Splendor in that 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:16.000 way as something that I want to obviously, like there's 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:18.400 I've done Beyond the Valley multiple times, so I just 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:21.120 never thought about going up to Splendor. But more I 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:23.440 talked to people were more like they're like, yeah, that's 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:26.680 an awesome, like awesome festival out there, And I was like, shit, 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:27.400 I'm excited now. 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:29.960 I do love Byron Bay as well, Like Byron Bay 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:33.440 has just this very cool, chill type of vibe. Obviously, 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:35.880 I've never been up there when Splendor's on. I'm assuming 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:37.560 it's going to be packed. 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:40.080 Last year and they said that it was full. 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:42.880 On really really yeah. 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:43.479 So that's exciting. 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:45.280 So yeah, we obviously, well. 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:47.080 Last time we went to Buyer and we were at schoolies. 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:49.880 Well I don't know if we can. 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:54.560 We went on like a trip like couple's trip, and 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:58.360 it happened to be schoolies and we were like, oops, from. 0:05:58.240 --> 0:06:00.760 Time, did you guys leave before you stayed on? 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:02.920 Did you started earlier? 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:03.240 Yeah? 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:05.640 Yea yeah, so we left before it got pretty busy. 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:08.880 Yeah yeah, it was like pretty wild. Yeah, but no, 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:11.479 splending is going to be fun. So obviously we have 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:14.600 our live show tour which is in September. If you 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:18.200 can't wait till then then you can catch us at Splendor. 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:22.599 So very excited for that, Anna, I was getting everything ready. 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:24.080 How was your weekend? 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:27.559 It? It was very good. 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:32.520 We have officially moved into our new house, so we 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:35.360 had to buy a new fridge because at the old 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:37.880 apartment the fridge was in built, so I sold it 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:41.200 before moving in, so we bought a new fridge, but 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:43.240 that is the only thing we're buying because. 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:44.320 We're obviously broke. 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:47.120 Now since we have our own house, we now have 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:49.839 a mortgage. But yeah, so excited to be in. 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.359 And that sounds old. I'm talking about twenty eight You 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:53.720 guys have a mortgage. 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:56.960 Hey, you're going to be moving into your new play 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:59.680 suit hopefully cross manifested. 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:01.760 Yeah, no, it was. 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:05.640 It was stressful, but the movies did an amazing job. 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:07.840 And yeah, I'm just so excited to be in. I'm 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:11.480 excited to explore the area. And we got cameras for 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:14.280 the front door, so hopefully that makes me feel a 0:07:14.280 --> 0:07:15.160 little bit more safe. 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:16.760 But yeah, excited to be there. 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:19.680 On furniture, what I've always said to literally a lot 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:22.360 of my excess when I've been with like two banks 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:24.000 as well moving and I've said the same thing to 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:27.080 both of them, why do you buy nice furniture before 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:29.320 you've got your house that you've bought and living in. 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:31.920 I know that. Kira week, when she was moving her 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:34.920 fridge got dinted, the whole front of it down the railings. 0:07:35.280 --> 0:07:37.800 Jen's marble table had chips all taken out, of it, 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:40.040 and I was like, I don't reckon investing in stuff 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:42.720 until you've got your house that you're living in and 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:44.840 you know you're going to spend twenty years there or 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:48.520 however long twenty years well, I don't know how long? Yeah, 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:51.520 like ten years, indefinite, who knows. 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:53.440 See how we go? I know. 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:56.120 Well I kind of had this conversation with Michael because 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:59.200 obviously I wanted to buy all new furniture because you know, 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:02.240 movie into a new house. And Michael was like, yabeuch 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:05.760 you no but no. But Michael was like, babe, we're 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:07.440 going to Europe in August. Like we need to be 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:09.840 like a bit more savvy. And I'm not used to 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:11.920 being super savvy. 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:13.080 But you have a mortgage now. 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:14.200 We have a mortgage now. 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:18.800 So like all of my expenses, I'm just like watching everything. 0:08:18.800 --> 0:08:22.640 There's more Uber eats, like I am like on a budget. 0:08:22.480 --> 0:08:24.000 Uber eats that gets yeah. 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:26.480 And like even just like how people were talking about 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:29.000 the interest rates rising, now, I'm like, fuck, now you 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:32.520 understand what Now I'm understanding completely what people were going. 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:34.480 Oh yeah, when they'd have those chats in front of 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:35.840 me in the sauna and that I was just like 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:38.200 I have no idea. I still don't, but I guess 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:38.960 you understand it now. 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:42.200 Well, you've been talking a lot about potentially purchasing a house. 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:45.240 You're twenty eight now, it's something that's definitely been on 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:48.400 your mind. But the repayments is what like really stresses 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:48.960 you out right? 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:51.160 Yeah, we had this chat before and I said, you know, 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:53.600 like buying house is fine, Like I've saved the amount 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:54.400 I could go buy. 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:56.280 I've got your deposit. I've got my deposit. 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:59.000 Ready to go. It's like but then fuck, like, yeah, 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:01.679 putting away money now when like you're living with my 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:03.559 I'm living with my mum. I'm grateful enough to live 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:04.960 with my mom at the moment to putting away money 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:07.640 is quite easy. But you know you're making repayments to 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:10.280 a like a mortgage. I think that's more like how 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:11.840 much is that? I don't want to ask, but like 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:13.760 that's not quite a big expense because you've got like 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:15.360 rent as well as well. 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:17.920 The only reason we even bought a house was because 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:21.200 our rent went up significantly. And then when we did 0:09:21.240 --> 0:09:25.160 like the calculations, essentially, we were like having a mortgage 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:28.440 isn't that much more expensive? I mean, it is more expensive, 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:32.200 don't get me wrong, but it wasn't a great enough 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:35.240 amount where I was like, it doesn't make sense. 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:38.000 It was like it made more sense. 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:41.720 To have a mortgage, and then the mortgage repayments almost 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:43.880 like became savings. Obviously, I know a lot of it's 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:47.080 interest rates, especially for the first like couple of years, 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:50.160 like a lot of it is interest rates. But as 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.800 the mortgage starts going down, you just start paying it 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:53.480 off more so. 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:56.120 Also another thing about that I'm hesitant about as well 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:58.720 about doing that is I've spoken to my psychologists about 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:01.080 this year is do I want to can like get 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:02.760 a house or do I want to use that money 0:10:02.880 --> 0:10:04.760 to go on like an awesome holiday. You and me 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:07.160 have discussed this as well, like what do I want 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:08.600 to do. I'm in this state of mind where I'm 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:10.440 now twenty eight And she said a lot of guys 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:13.520 at this age sort of like stop and go fuck 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:15.839 like what I what I said before, Like what I 0:10:15.960 --> 0:10:18.679 used to enjoy I don't so much enjoying now, and 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:20.040 like I'm at this sort of thing where I still 0:10:20.040 --> 0:10:22.760 want to be young, like and you know how important 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:26.520 to me being spontaneous and like absolutely you know, like spueling. 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:30.160 Like my side of my brain, it's like the spontaneousness 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:32.880 and like the not knowing what's happening. But then at 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:34.120 the same time, I want ritual. 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:38.480 You need stability. You hate when things are up in the. 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:41.360 Air, constant battle for anyone that's got Ahd's like you 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:43.120 want the stability, but you want to be able to 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:45.560 do stuff and be spontaneous and like it's like, well, 0:10:45.600 --> 0:10:46.640 what do I want to do? I want to buy 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:47.920 a house? Or do I want to do this? What 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:48.760 path do I want to go? 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:50.840 So what's the taker ad do both? 0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:58.200 I just said a bunch of It's say, you know 0:10:58.240 --> 0:10:58.640 that thing. 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:07.840 Answers you want soft talkers seriously, Like I think the 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:11.160 happy medium for you as a friend is to potentially 0:11:11.320 --> 0:11:14.559 buy house. But then also like your life is imporing. 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:18.000 We're fucking going to do a live show. It's splendor. 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:19.920 Like if I don't know what's going to give you more. 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:22.200 Adrenaline than that, that is quite adrenaline. 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:25.160 Also going on tour with the podcast, like we're going 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:27.079 to be Life's good. 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:29.480 I mean I just did own my mind. I sort 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:30.920 of get into this thing where I'm like, well, shit, 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:32.040 what do I do you know what I mean. 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:33.920 I get you. I get you. 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:36.440 It's a it's an inner battle that we're all facing. 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:40.199 But I mean, I think everyone's also running their own race, 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:42.600 and like exactly, so I. 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:44.760 Say that that's my motto. That's something I've learned twenty 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:47.800 eight things before twenty eight. Everyone's running their own race. 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:49.520 Now it's just going to keep adding them to the 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:52.200 to the non existed list that he never made. 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:54.280 Made up literally as I was sitting here. 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:58.440 So you celebrated your birthday on the weekend? How was that? 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:03.320 It was good? So I saw my mates Friday. God, 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:06.160 it's so hard to organize stuff, isn't it, Like it's 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:08.960 my birthday, guys, Like stop throwing two cents in, Like 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:09.920 it's what I like? 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:10.800 What did you do? 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:14.760 We went and hit some balls at the driving range, 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:18.120 had a couple of drinks at the dinner after that. 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:19.440 So that was fun to see all my mates. But 0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:21.640 like I said, it's hard day, Like everyone's like, well, 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:22.960 why don't we do this? Why don't we do this? 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:24.960 Oh that's too far from my house. My guys, it's 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:26.640 my birthday. This is what I want to do. I 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:28.679 want to just have some chill time with you guys 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:30.079 and see, yeah. 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:32.080 It's pretty chill of you because normally you're like, I 0:12:32.080 --> 0:12:34.400 mean I've been to a Halloween parties where you were 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:37.040 getting lyddy mc titty, you know what I mean, Like, this. 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:40.680 Is quite a frat one. Yeah, like my birthday. 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:43.120 That's actually like a quintessential frat boy right now. And 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:44.439 it's giving me that. 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:47.640 When we had it at my house and you were wild, 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:49.160 I was like, holyh and we all. 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:50.880 I was like, all right, I'm going out, and I 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:53.160 was like, who's coming with me? And everyone's like yeah yeah, 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:55.000 and then all my mates who lived in my house 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:56.600 like let's go. And then we got out the front 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:59.200 and we realized that there's people still in our house party. 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.000 Maked I was like, look, I'll stay back and stay 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:05.880 with these guys. N Yeah, Like we can't leave him 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:08.280 at your house like our house partying. Wow, So we 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:10.680 went out. That was a good time, but not like 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:11.880 that anymore. This one was chilled. 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:12.320 Big gold. 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:14.400 Yeah, playing gold, having a few hits of like the 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.400 golf clubs. It's fun. It's also kind of bonding. 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:18.920 Exactly, just activity. 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:19.360 Yeah. 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.000 I had a couple of beers over din it. Then 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.959 I went to the young members at Esterton Night. So 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:27.920 they night, so I had a couple of drinks. I 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:29.920 brought my two sisters with me. We watched Esterda and 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:30.760 Versport Adelaide. 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:33.679 Did you buy your ticket because we're now in dry July. 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:37.679 I did purchase a ticket. Y, I did, so I 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:42.559 was allowed to drink. And then Sunday night, Jen asked 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:44.079 me if I wanted to go away for my birthday 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:45.640 and I said, yeah, like that sounds good. So we 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:46.440 went and stayed in law. 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:51.560 Oh cute, that was nice, very nice to wear todd toddies. 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:54.520 Yeah, nice, So I went to Toddi's and then had 0:13:54.520 --> 0:13:57.080 a nice night and then yeah, came home. Love It 0:13:57.160 --> 0:13:58.520 always nice to do that sort of stuff. 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:00.720 Well, that sounds lovely. Sounds like he had a lovely 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:04.760 birthday weekend. I've brought us in a cake. Well when 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:07.920 I says, I mean you, because I've actually added to 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:11.680 my drig July. So I'm not just gonna do no 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:14.840 drinking alcohol minus the tokens I buy when I want 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:15.240 to drink. 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:16.800 That's splendid. That's what we've been talking about. 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:17.440 That's splender. 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:20.600 Yeah, to do it because it's splendor We want. 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:22.120 To doing a live show at Splendor. 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:24.120 Yeah, so we want we're staying on at Splendor. We 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:25.640 want to have a couple of drinks there. We don't, 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:27.440 so we'll be buying some tokens. 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:30.680 I guess, yeah, yeah, but I've added something to it. 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:34.640 I'm cutting out junk food as well, So this cake 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:36.200 is solely for you. 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:37.320 I'm not eating it. 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:39.280 What do you classify as junk food? 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:44.520 Just like lollies, chocolate, any sort of like soft drink, 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:49.600 you know, free, yeah, even sugar free. Like I just 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:52.680 want to get back to basics and just eat whole foods. 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:54.480 Have my three meals a day. 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:55.440 Oh ice cream? 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:59.400 No ice cream? Like, I just want to have water teas. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.800 You made me a nice green tea, which I'm very 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:04.720 appreciative of, and just like you know, I'm also going 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:07.200 to Europe, so I just want to be super healthy. 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:09.080 I'm in my new house. It's like almost like a 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:11.600 new start. It's like, you know, the end of an 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:14.320 Erar was where I lived before, and now I'm like 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:16.760 starting a new chapter and I'm just like trying to 0:15:16.760 --> 0:15:18.120 do all of the healthy things. 0:15:18.280 --> 0:15:21.320 Alcohol. You'll be surprised is one of the what do 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:23.440 you call it? Like without weight, Like I remember, like 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:25.280 the last couple of weeks when I cut out alcohol 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.680 for four weeks, like I could see myself like leaning up, 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:30.800 just like literally naturally just leaning up. 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:33.240 Yeah, I hold a lot of water weight in my 0:15:33.360 --> 0:15:35.760 face as well, so when I drink alcohol, I do 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:39.400 notice that my face gets quite puffy. So that's something 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:43.600 that I'm grateful for doing. Dry July obviously, man and 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:45.760 I've been very back and forth about dry July. 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:47.600 Guys that we do apologize. 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:50.080 I know that, like so many people in our Facebook 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:52.360 group have been like keen and like fanging to do 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:55.320 it with us, and we've just been not the best 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:58.920 you know, supports to everyone who is doing it. But 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:04.000 we are doing this. It's happening. If we do drink, 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:05.880 we will buy a ticket, so it's all going to 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:07.520 go to charity. So it's going to be a good 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:09.240 cause and for the majority of the time, we're not 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:12.760 going to drink, So that's the goal. All is well, 0:16:12.960 --> 0:16:15.240 and head to our Facebook page if you are joining 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:16.440 in and we can all do it together. 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:19.600 Speaking of July, it's the first of July was obviously 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:22.920 on the weekend. Flick your calendar's over now. I don't 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:25.520 know if anyone saw my story or my socials. But 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:27.560 I want a calendar. 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:30.560 What do you mean You're on a calendar? So if 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:32.440 you may, just you put yourself on a calendar. 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:34.640 No, for god, oh god, I didn't put myself on 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:37.440 theres Actually I actually tried to get out of this. 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:39.520 What is there? 0:16:39.880 --> 0:16:44.960 So for charity? Every year they make an Australian trade calendar, 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:48.680 so charity obviously buy them, you know those like they 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.640 have you in trady outfits and then the other one 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:54.080 is like around the house like big buff, good looking 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.360 dudes doing stuff that women want to buy the calendar 0:16:56.360 --> 0:17:00.000 for right yep. Last year they asked me, they message 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:01.400 and I said, hey, do you want to be involved 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:03.160 in it? And I was like yeah, cool, idea. This 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:07.320 was the shoot was probably in August, if i'm I remember. 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:09.879 And then they asked me like two months before and 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:12.720 I was like, yeah, yeah, I'll why not? Why not? 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:14.520