WEBVTT - Tammy Hembrow Needs To Find Herself An AJ! 

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<v Speaker 1>High Scrollers is produced on gaddigul Land.

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<v Speaker 2>We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this

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<v Speaker 2>country and Elder's past and present.

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<v Speaker 3>Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell you what, I just went to the fridge. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know it's what month? Is it? June? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I just had because it's all my family for lunch yesterday,

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<v Speaker 2>and I hadn't seen Dad since before Easter, so he

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<v Speaker 2>gave me an Easter egg? Did he a humpty dumpty?

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<v Speaker 2>Love a humpty Dumpty? I'm just I'm a Cabrey girl,

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<v Speaker 2>all same, but humpty Dumpty is exception. So now it's June.

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<v Speaker 2>But I just hadn't fuck an Easter egg, So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>on top of the world right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 3>Speaking of fridges, yesterday I did the groceries for the first.

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<v Speaker 1>Time in ages.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh like went to the shop.

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<v Speaker 1>No like, I did it online cook and collect And.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not doing the groceries by the way, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 3>did a click and collect online order on well Saturday night.

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<v Speaker 3>This is obviously not coming out for until the end

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<v Speaker 3>of the week. Anyway, I did some groceries. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>like a full grocery shop because just couldn't be bothered

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<v Speaker 3>to think of like all the meals to make. But

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<v Speaker 3>when I shop, like I'm I'm a snacker and a

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<v Speaker 3>girl dinner person, but all day, like I don't make

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<v Speaker 3>lunch for work, I don't make breakfast. I just like picking,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've realized that that's how I like to eat,

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<v Speaker 3>like I don't like to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Tonight, we're having fucking chicken with broccolini and.

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<v Speaker 3>Blah blah blah, Like I love just making a girl

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<v Speaker 3>dinner for dinner every night, and then we'll probably still

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<v Speaker 3>get takeaway like two or three nights a week, because

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<v Speaker 3>that's just how I roll.

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<v Speaker 1>So I did the groceries.

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<v Speaker 3>I gave the fridge a big clean out, and I

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<v Speaker 3>stacked it all in there nicely and scrollers.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go fucking look for.

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<v Speaker 3>My fridge, okay, because I had the fridge all nice,

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<v Speaker 3>and then I took a photo.

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<v Speaker 1>Like this this is my fridge.

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<v Speaker 3>After my shot nice, and I remembered there is a

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<v Speaker 3>Reddit group that I've seen, like go in my homepage

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<v Speaker 3>of Reddit, and it's called Fridge Detective.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm scared because.

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<v Speaker 3>I posted it last night and I haven't looked. So

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<v Speaker 3>people in this group if you want to join it

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<v Speaker 3>on Reddit, I'm going to join. Actually I've never been

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<v Speaker 3>a member Fridge Detective. You post a photo of your

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<v Speaker 3>fridge in the group and then people guess your life

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<v Speaker 3>based on your fridge.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, it's so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>And so some people's fridges are like chaotic as fuck,

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<v Speaker 3>and then people try and guess you know, you're a

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<v Speaker 3>couple with two kids, like and people really try and

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<v Speaker 3>guess your whole life. So I I'm scared because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>worried people are going to roast me.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I read them? Then?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but do you want to look at my fridge

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<v Speaker 3>first and tell me, like what you think it says?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we're seeing by the way, just to describe

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<v Speaker 2>it to.

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<v Speaker 3>You and scrollers if you if you have read it,

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<v Speaker 3>go into the Fridge Detective group and see if you

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<v Speaker 3>can find my fridge because like, it's not my name,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just a random username.

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<v Speaker 2>That is so fun. There's some color in there with

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<v Speaker 2>some yogurts. There's eggs stacked in one of those things

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<v Speaker 2>where you like pull an egg out and it rolls

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<v Speaker 2>down the one after which always gets me. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>are they going to smash?

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<v Speaker 1>They don't fruits?

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<v Speaker 2>A couple of fruits in their cheese stringers. I love

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<v Speaker 2>a cheese stringer as well. More high protein custard sort

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<v Speaker 2>of things, lots and lots of meat, lots of meat,

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<v Speaker 2>big juicy watermelon and some carrots. Okay, so I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to go to I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like three hundred comments. I just saw it was

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and thirty six and thirty six. I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 3>Here we go because I'm scared. Okay, okay, what do

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<v Speaker 3>people think of me? Based on my one?

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<v Speaker 2>Is the top one? It's liked more than any of

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<v Speaker 2>the others. That says Australian couple who usually shops at

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<v Speaker 2>Coal's thirty likes going gym in the morning before word,

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<v Speaker 2>probably working corporate jobs and coming home to make dinner dinks.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what dink.

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<v Speaker 1>Double income, No kids, they got that wrong. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to reply to some of these.

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<v Speaker 2>You only eat protein and supplement fruits and veggies to

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<v Speaker 2>get other vitamins and minerals, almost certainly going for muscle gains.

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<v Speaker 1>Nuh.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's because I have like a girl dinner diet.

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<v Speaker 3>So they really used only like meats, cheese's fruit, veg.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone said you are dietitians or nutritionists.

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<v Speaker 1>No way, I'm the opposite.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone said no kids, lull.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is my first time like posting in the reddit.

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<v Speaker 2>They said the tidiness suggests that there's no kids, But

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<v Speaker 2>why are they eating yogurt pouches? And then everyone's like,

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<v Speaker 2>what's wrong with eating yogurt?

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<v Speaker 1>Yoga pastas are so convenient?

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<v Speaker 2>I know. Oh. Someone said, must be a decent paying

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<v Speaker 2>job or moved into a fully furnished rental. The fridge

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<v Speaker 2>is easily two to three grand.

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<v Speaker 1>I love this.

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<v Speaker 2>Partner is a tradey. I'd say very active with fitness.

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<v Speaker 1>No, there's the fitness thing is wrong. It's because we

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<v Speaker 1>just got lots of protein in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, someone's yelling at you for your plastic consumption.

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<v Speaker 1>Because of the yogurt pouches.

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, and everything, the meat, the watermelon, in the veggies.

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<v Speaker 2>But what didn't do you can't What do we doing

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<v Speaker 2>going and picking it in the field ourselves?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't have a veggie garden. Sorry everyone. I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to make a veggie garden in the backyard.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone said, I can't believe your fridge is that empty

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<v Speaker 2>that you could fit a whole watermelon in a drawer

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<v Speaker 2>by itself?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean I never have fucking groceries.

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<v Speaker 2>So someone said plastic plastic, plastic, plastic.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all food comes in plastic.

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<v Speaker 3>Basically there says meant to eat whole foods and only

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<v Speaker 3>shop at whole food stores.

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<v Speaker 2>But even if you get your mints from the butcher,

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<v Speaker 2>what does that come in a paper bag?

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<v Speaker 1>No, they put it in a plastic bag.

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<v Speaker 2>What else haven't I look here? Australian tries to eat healthy,

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<v Speaker 2>prioritized as convenience. Yep, that's why I would guess age

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<v Speaker 2>thirty five to forty five. Oh no, good. Australians absolutely thriving,

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<v Speaker 2>a bit obsessed with organization thriving. Yeah. A lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people saying health and wellness, bodybuilding. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>saying Australia, Australia not at all frugal. You have a

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<v Speaker 2>bland palette. Yeah, I hate.

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<v Speaker 1>Basic, Like I don't fucking cook stuff from scratch.

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<v Speaker 3>Just give me some chicken, boiled eggs, fruit on a

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<v Speaker 3>plate and I'm happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice. Someone said boring as fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone said you've got OCD.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely not.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone said, couple of butt plugs. Maybe they're saying you're

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<v Speaker 2>a gay couple.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone said you must have diabolical farts. What someone said,

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<v Speaker 2>please get checked for OCD. And someone said you're a

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<v Speaker 2>real estate agent who only lives in staged homes. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm having a look and seeing everything. Everyone's saying the

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<v Speaker 2>same sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>This was fun. This was my first time ever like

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<v Speaker 1>posting in a group. I only ever look.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone said low carbs and high protein, enjoy your gains.

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<v Speaker 2>How funny. Yeah, because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Eat, you should do yours.

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<v Speaker 2>Mat I eat high protein and low carb kind of

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<v Speaker 2>just that's just naturally how I eat as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And someone said you're on paleo interesting anyway, on a

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<v Speaker 2>keto diet, probably trying to bowlk up. Now I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>fucking hell, may have been doing it wrong whole time.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want gains, do I what is a game?

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<v Speaker 2>Muscle game?

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<v Speaker 1>Muscle gains?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't lift anything muscle gains.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone's saying that they got some things right and something's wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so funny. This is my first time scrollers.

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<v Speaker 3>If you go into that group, you're gonna be able

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<v Speaker 3>to find my fridge and my Reddit account.

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<v Speaker 1>Look out.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, that's something fun that I did last night. Nice,

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<v Speaker 3>But let's talk about what I've been wanting to talk about, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>which is Tammy Hembrou.

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<v Speaker 2>And Matt Zakowski.

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<v Speaker 1>Zakowski Is that how you say it?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I think.

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<v Speaker 3>So they have come out and said that they are

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<v Speaker 3>getting a divorce after seven.

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<v Speaker 2>Months or seven months and marriage. Yeah, they got together

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>They got married, engaged with in three months.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so they got together in September twenty three from memory,

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<v Speaker 2>November twenty twenty three, they got engaged, November twenty twenty four,

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<v Speaker 2>they got married and now here in June twenty twenty five. Divorce.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Rough rough to be going through a divorce no matter

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<v Speaker 3>what in life, I think, But to be doing it

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<v Speaker 3>on such a public platform after they've had such a

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<v Speaker 3>public relationship and wedding, like that's just throwing more spanners

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<v Speaker 3>in the works. I feel like divorce wouldn't be fun

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<v Speaker 3>for anyone, but doing it with that many followers, like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just going to add so much more to it.

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<v Speaker 3>There's been a lot of speculation online over the last

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<v Speaker 3>couple of months anyway, like because they've been like, she's

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<v Speaker 3>not wearing.

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<v Speaker 1>Her ring, he hasn't been in her content for ages,

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah.

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<v Speaker 2>Blah, I've unfollowed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so people have been talking about it for ages

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<v Speaker 3>and then Tammy's finally come out with a video.

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<v Speaker 1>She hasn't said anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Really other than like I could tell in the video

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<v Speaker 3>she was hinting to say this is his fault, because

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<v Speaker 3>she was going, this is what has to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so insinuate she said.

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<v Speaker 2>Something like I should listen to other people and not

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<v Speaker 2>be so naive and not have rose colored glasses on

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to the people I date. And you know,

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<v Speaker 2>she was saying she didn't want to talk about anyone

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<v Speaker 2>but herself because she didn't want to like bad mouth

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<v Speaker 2>someone else, which she insinuates that to talk about if.

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<v Speaker 1>She was talking about he's done something, it would.

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<v Speaker 2>Be something bad that she would have to say.

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen a lot of people like the comments are

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<v Speaker 3>so mixed. She obviously has like so much support from

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<v Speaker 3>people that have followed her for so long. I feel

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<v Speaker 3>sorry for her at the end of the day. Like

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<v Speaker 3>there's been a lot of nasty comments I've seen on

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<v Speaker 3>her post or like on news articles that pop up.

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<v Speaker 1>People go and like, obviously she's the problem. Blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 3>People gone, this is her third marriage. It's like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not, this is her first marriage. But even when

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<v Speaker 3>they first got together back in the day and like

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<v Speaker 3>they went public with their relationship and then got engaged

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<v Speaker 3>three months later, people were saying to her like this

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<v Speaker 3>is too fast, like this is.

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<v Speaker 1>Giving love bombing.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just think, like I've followed Tammy online for

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<v Speaker 3>years and like met her back in the day when

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<v Speaker 3>we were on a trip and with tart trip, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think like as an outsider, she just comes across

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<v Speaker 3>as someone that wants to be in love and have

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<v Speaker 3>a relationship, which I think most of us do. Write

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<v Speaker 3>like it's not it's not bad to want that, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's not bad to want to be married to someone

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<v Speaker 3>and have like a fairy tale wedding and family. I

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<v Speaker 3>just feel like she's been unlucky in love.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's my observation she Tammy Hambrow is very Sharon

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<v Speaker 2>Stress lucky, you know, very unlucky in love. And I

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<v Speaker 2>agree with you when you say, you know, it was

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<v Speaker 2>a bit horrible to see the comments saying things like

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<v Speaker 2>it's clearly hers clearly you're the problem. Well no, but

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<v Speaker 2>maybe her problem is she just keeps going for the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong man. Yeah, the man is the problem. She just

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<v Speaker 2>keeps going.

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<v Speaker 3>And she said that in her video, like she said

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<v Speaker 3>she's got she has rose colored glasses, and that she

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<v Speaker 3>always like it, hasn't had the best luck in love

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<v Speaker 3>and then it's just so unfortunate that it's always so

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<v Speaker 3>public public, like, and she said in her video that

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<v Speaker 3>now she just wants to take time to heal and

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<v Speaker 3>she's been going to therapy and she wants to focus

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<v Speaker 3>on her family. And not that I'm any fucking relationship expert,

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<v Speaker 3>but like I would love to see Tammy in the

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<v Speaker 3>future like get into a relationship with someone who isn't

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<v Speaker 3>on social media and like keep it off socials, Like

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<v Speaker 3>just get with like your trady bloke or whatever and stay.

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<v Speaker 2>Off social meeting someone like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that's the hard thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually also has the three kids as well's obviously

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<v Speaker 2>got much bigger platform.

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<v Speaker 3>Well the thing is as well, I saw some people

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<v Speaker 3>saying that maybe the reason why she has been unlucky

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<v Speaker 3>in love and her relationships end, which was a good point.

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<v Speaker 3>And I know we keep going back to this Matt,

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<v Speaker 3>but the men feel emasculated because she's so successful and

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<v Speaker 3>far more well off than all them, and that can

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<v Speaker 3>ruin a man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure, some men won't date women who.

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<v Speaker 3>Are more successful than them because that's emasculating to them.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wonder if that's part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't know if that would be

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<v Speaker 2>the case with Matt. I feel I felt bad for her.

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<v Speaker 2>I did see a comment as well that said, I

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<v Speaker 2>followed you from the very start of your career and

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<v Speaker 2>this is the most real and honest and vulnerable I've

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<v Speaker 2>ever seen you. So thank you for opening up like this.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think she made a good point where she

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<v Speaker 2>was like, she said something along the lines of like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just embarrassed they even have to make this video.

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<v Speaker 1>That is it? She would feel embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 2>To go through a divorce, let alone only after seven months,

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<v Speaker 2>and then of course being on the internet where people

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<v Speaker 2>are going to first of all talk in the comments,

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<v Speaker 2>second of all, people are making videos. Third of all,

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<v Speaker 2>we're talking about it on our podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Like also, that just makes me think. I just wondered.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if they have any kind of agreement, because

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<v Speaker 1>like he could technically go after some of her fucking assets.

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<v Speaker 2>Is married? Is it when you're married? Is it like

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<v Speaker 2>straight away or do you have to be married for

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<v Speaker 2>a certain amount of time Because they as a whole

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<v Speaker 2>haven't been together for two years, which is when you

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<v Speaker 2>become de facto.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it two years?

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<v Speaker 2>It's two years, It used to be five, it's now.

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<v Speaker 3>I think like with her success in all of her

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<v Speaker 3>businesses and empire, she would have to have.

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<v Speaker 2>To be some sort of prenup surely.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't think prenups are a thing in Australia,

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<v Speaker 3>but like I don't think the word is a thing in.

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<v Speaker 1>Australia, but like we would definitely have like our own version.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh God.

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<v Speaker 3>Because it'll be interesting to see what happens, because I

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<v Speaker 3>know they're like not saying much now, and for the

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<v Speaker 3>sake of like both of them and the internet, it

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<v Speaker 3>would be good if no one ever hears anything more.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know how people.

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<v Speaker 3>Always say at the start of a breakup, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to say anything, and then down the track they

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<v Speaker 3>start throwing shade and reposting things and whatever. God, I

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<v Speaker 3>really hope for her sake that he doesn't like try

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<v Speaker 3>to take anything of hers for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope so, but I just don't know whether he would.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. It's like less than if you're married.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're married married.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, have they lived together?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they know. They don't seem like they've

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<v Speaker 1>ever lived together.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you get married straight away, you're entitled to

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<v Speaker 2>what fifty to fifty right?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see is that how it works?

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<v Speaker 2>Because that in my brain, I go, geez, that's not

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<v Speaker 2>because they haven't even been They wouldn't have been together

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<v Speaker 2>for two years yet. That would be two years, would

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<v Speaker 2>be coming up in September, you know, and that's living

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<v Speaker 2>together as well. Like if like Sky and I dated

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<v Speaker 2>for two years before he actually moved, oh yeah, he

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't have even been living there, it.

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<v Speaker 1>Says on Google.

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<v Speaker 3>In Australia, after a marriage ends, either through divorce or separation,

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<v Speaker 3>there are time limits for make claims on assets. For

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<v Speaker 3>married couples, you generally have twelve months from the date

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<v Speaker 3>the divorce order becomes final to initiate property set up.

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<v Speaker 3>Hopefully he doesn't fucking go after her house, and shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't imagine he would, and because it's so public,

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<v Speaker 2>imagine that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, imagine that, Like this is what I mean, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I imagine if this all comes out on social media,

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<v Speaker 3>but if they.

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<v Speaker 2>Had no followers and no one knew who they were, potentially, like,

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<v Speaker 2>there are definitely men who would do that, But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like him as someone who's been on Love Island, has

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<v Speaker 2>a following themselves and blah blah, he's in the public eye.

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine the public finding out that he wants to take

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<v Speaker 2>half her fucking assets, Like, he'd be dumb to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you know, like if AJ and I broke up,

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<v Speaker 1>he could do that to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know, but I feel like he'd be dumb

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<v Speaker 2>to do that, Yeah, because you'd be like, AJ's taking

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<v Speaker 2>everything from me, And then AJ's never going to fucking

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<v Speaker 2>work again because everyone's going to know that he's an asshole,

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<v Speaker 2>do you know what I mean? Like, and then at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, you're going to profit off

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<v Speaker 2>AJ taking half your stuff anyway, and you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>come out on top, you know what I mean? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Aj?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean that he'd be dumb?

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<v Speaker 2>But also it's a little different. I think AJ's worked

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<v Speaker 2>hard in your business and you'd probably.

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<v Speaker 1>Be would be entitled you know something.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but like I think this is a little bit different,

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<v Speaker 2>Like we're talking about if AJ was just a fucking

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<v Speaker 2>free loader who never lifted a finger and then wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to take half your things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Sure, it's so messy, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why you just everyone just this is if

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<v Speaker 2>you're single and listening to this, can't your fucking lessons? Love?

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<v Speaker 2>I saw it everyone, Like I feel like when you're single,

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, oh my god, oh my god. It's so

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's a bit more admin when you're actually

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<v Speaker 2>in a relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred percent. And I saw a TikTok the other day.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't save it or anything, but it was a

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<v Speaker 3>lady talking about like all the decisions that we make

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<v Speaker 3>in our life, like our career, our friends, where we.

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<v Speaker 1>Live, x y Z.

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<v Speaker 3>But she's like, the number one decision that will have

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<v Speaker 3>the biggest impact on your life is who you choose

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<v Speaker 3>to be your partner. That is the like number one

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<v Speaker 3>thing that will shape your life the most. And I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like, yeah, for a lot of people that are single,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I know a lot of people who are like

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<v Speaker 3>getting a little bit older and they're single. Like people

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<v Speaker 3>that I know that are in their late thirties, and

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it can be so easy to just

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<v Speaker 3>be so wanting to be, you know, in a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>because you're single and everyone that you know is in

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<v Speaker 3>a relationship, and you know, some people might choose to

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<v Speaker 3>settle for less because they're like, oh, time's running out,

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<v Speaker 3>like you know, especially if they're a woman and they

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<v Speaker 3>want to have kids and their biological clock is ticking,

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<v Speaker 3>and then like I'm just gonna get with this guy

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<v Speaker 3>and whatever, like I want to have a family, but

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<v Speaker 3>at what cost? Because who you pick as your partner

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<v Speaker 3>is quite literally going to shape your whole fucking life,

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<v Speaker 3>whether you want to believe that or not.

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<v Speaker 1>And I saw that guy that you know, the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that does a little squoot treat Anthony.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he did a video a while ago saying like

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<v Speaker 3>he swears most couples are unhappy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, probably that's sad bad? Is it worth being together?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? See, this is the thing, Like I just I

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<v Speaker 2>think I said it once and I'll say it again

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<v Speaker 2>when you know, you know, and again Sky and I

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<v Speaker 2>coming up to six years when we're in Europe will

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<v Speaker 2>be celebrating six years together and like we're still like

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<v Speaker 2>we've never had a fight. We've never gone to bed

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<v Speaker 2>angry at each other. There's never been any jealousy, There's

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<v Speaker 2>never been any you know, I never have to check

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<v Speaker 2>his location see what he's doing, because he hasn't applied

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<v Speaker 2>to me. Blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like we just get along like a fucking house

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<v Speaker 1>on fire every day. Is so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think until you actually have a relationship like that,

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<v Speaker 2>you then realize, oh my god, all of those other

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<v Speaker 2>relationships didn't work because they didn't like they didn't work

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<v Speaker 2>because I was being treated like shit like in it.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't realize that. You just think that that's how

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<v Speaker 2>it's meant to be, and then you like find someone

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<v Speaker 2>who actually treats you correctly, and you go, oh, this

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<v Speaker 2>is what it's actually meant to feel like. And I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not meant to be yelling at my boyfriend in the

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<v Speaker 2>street at four o'clock in the fuck the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope I can say this on the pod. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>it's close friends, it's a little episode. But April has

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<v Speaker 3>a new boyfriend. Oh yeah, And like I've seen her

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<v Speaker 3>go through a couple of relationships, like over the last

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<v Speaker 3>four and a half years of her working with.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, could have been a bit fucked.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I've always been like I April, like I've

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<v Speaker 3>given her advice, like I'm her mum or big sister,

0:19:15.240 --> 0:19:17.000
<v Speaker 3>but she has his new boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>And like it's hard because like you care so much.

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<v Speaker 3>And I've said to her, like, remember, it's not normal

0:19:25.640 --> 0:19:28.919
<v Speaker 3>to argue constantly with your partner. She's like, yep, I know,

0:19:29.400 --> 0:19:31.840
<v Speaker 3>because like, yeah, you can get into relationships and I

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<v Speaker 3>know we spoke about this before where arguing becomes the norm,

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<v Speaker 3>but that's not fucking normal. You can you can find

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<v Speaker 3>and have a relationship where you get along ninety nine percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Of the time that is possible for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>To sum it up, I hope that nothing else does

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<v Speaker 3>come out about Tammy and Matt's marriage. Like I hope

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<v Speaker 3>that they settle it all in private and that's it,

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<v Speaker 3>because I know what the internet's like, and I know

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<v Speaker 3>everyone would be wanting to dig and find out the tea,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's no one's fucking business at the end of

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<v Speaker 3>the day. I hope they can sort their shit out,

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<v Speaker 3>go their separate ways. I'm sad for her because I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like she's always just been someone that just wants

0:20:15.080 --> 0:20:18.280
<v Speaker 3>to get married and you know, be happy. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 3>I hope in the future, Like I hope she can

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<v Speaker 3>work on herself and her kids for now and find

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<v Speaker 3>like a really nice partner off social media, off social media,

0:20:29.560 --> 0:20:34.239
<v Speaker 3>because everyone that she's dated, like Reese, Matt and then

0:20:34.280 --> 0:20:38.560
<v Speaker 3>the other Matt, the three guys, they all had social profiles.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, go for.

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<v Speaker 3>The trade's tammy, Go for the electricians, you reckon.

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<v Speaker 1>Find yourself an.

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<v Speaker 2>AJ, bind yourself an AJ.

0:20:48.359 --> 0:20:49.760
<v Speaker 1>Find yourself an AJ, And.

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<v Speaker 2>That could be a motto for all.

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<v Speaker 3>Our scrollers that find yourself an AJ. Everyone needs to

0:20:55.320 --> 0:20:58.480
<v Speaker 3>find themselves in AJ honestly, or a sky find yourself

0:20:58.480 --> 0:21:00.240
<v Speaker 3>and AJ or a sky Anna.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to find yourself an AJ or a sky.

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<v Speaker 2>Scrollers, you've got to find yourself an AJ or a

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<v Speaker 2>sky and everyone else you say, see you next Tuesday.