1
00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840
Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.

2
00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:06,040
Speaker 2: I have a feeling girls subconsciously have been told it's

3
00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,960
Speaker 2: just this thing online where boyfriends suck are taken photos. Okay,

4
00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:12,080
Speaker 2: and girls are way better at taking photos, and I'm

5
00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:13,080
Speaker 2: over it.

6
00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:27,120
Speaker 1: I want to start a petition. The Relatables podcast is

7
00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:31,600
Speaker 1: hosted by myself, Addie Clark aka Mummy and my partner

8
00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:38,680
Speaker 1: in crime, mister J. Craig aka Daddy. What crimes have

9
00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:43,480
Speaker 1: we committed? What crimes? Why are we saying that because

10
00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,840
Speaker 1: we say partner in crime? Oh, partner in crime? Playing words?

11
00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:50,479
Speaker 1: What crimes have I committed? I don't know. I was

12
00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:57,160
Speaker 1: gonna say something so cringe. Was also about to say

13
00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:07,560
Speaker 1: something too cute, Stop handsome. Let's just guess what's it called?

14
00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:13,240
Speaker 1: Lightly gas? Yeah? Yeah, we're lightly gassing, Jake. We haven't

15
00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:15,199
Speaker 1: been doing very well lately in the game.

16
00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:17,480
Speaker 2: Make them say no, I think we fucking suck man?

17
00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:21,960
Speaker 1: Where one and up to down? So this is this

18
00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,080
Speaker 1: series where we call a lovely listener, tell them they

19
00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:25,959
Speaker 1: want a hat, and if we make them say the

20
00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,040
Speaker 1: word from the random word generator, they don't get to

21
00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:32,000
Speaker 1: win the hat. So today we need redemption. I just

22
00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,120
Speaker 1: want to get one and they'll give away ten hats.

23
00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,520
Speaker 1: We get one. So the contest that we are calling

24
00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:38,560
Speaker 1: today is jazz. We're going to tell us she's one

25
00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:39,880
Speaker 1: a hat and what's the random word? We're going to

26
00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:44,880
Speaker 1: try and make us say, Okay, live bag, let's go. Bag?

27
00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:48,560
Speaker 1: Is good bag? Any approach or shipping bags? We've got

28
00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,400
Speaker 1: so many approaches here, We've got to get this one.

29
00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,400
Speaker 1: Oh God, hopefully she's shopping. If it's written in the stars,

30
00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:58,000
Speaker 1: what have you got your hands? That's cool, let's cool.

31
00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:03,560
Speaker 1: I've got an approach. I've got heaps of approaches. Hi, Jazz,

32
00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:08,560
Speaker 1: this is Jake and Ody from the Relatables. Hi, this

33
00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:14,200
Speaker 1: is going to be a print call. No, I'm walking

34
00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:19,000
Speaker 1: out of car. Good timing, great timing. When you need

35
00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:24,200
Speaker 1: to you go do I go to Woongong big one.

36
00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:30,960
Speaker 1: But are you studying? I study electrical engineering. That's impressive.

37
00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:35,320
Speaker 1: That is very impressive. Good to say. Jesus, How sorry

38
00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:38,680
Speaker 1: to it are you? I'm in third you, it's four years,

39
00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,840
Speaker 1: third four you. You're almost done? And then I show yeah,

40
00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:45,680
Speaker 1: almost once you're done, you're going to be an electrical engineer. Oh,

41
00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:49,720
Speaker 1: graduate engineer. I don't know about. I don't think that

42
00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,720
Speaker 1: will let me do anything properly, So you can't.

43
00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,760
Speaker 2: Do so you have to go like get experience on

44
00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:59,079
Speaker 2: the job before you becoming Yeah, i'd.

45
00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:05,639
Speaker 1: Probably following a around. I'm like an experience engineer. Yeah,

46
00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:09,000
Speaker 1: far out. Yeah, I've got a question for you. You

47
00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:10,959
Speaker 1: need to settle a debate between me and Jacob and

48
00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:15,120
Speaker 1: have been having. Okay, I can do this. I'm about

49
00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:20,600
Speaker 1: to go to Bali, right, and I am going to

50
00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,880
Speaker 1: be using what when you go traveling and use big bag? Right,

51
00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,560
Speaker 1: it's called luggage. When you use your carry on? What

52
00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:34,160
Speaker 1: do you call that? What do I call my carry on? Baggage?

53
00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:42,200
Speaker 1: My carry on? Fair enough? Fair enough, We've got a

54
00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:46,760
Speaker 1: confession to make. We we we would like let you

55
00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:57,080
Speaker 1: know you want to hat, because we were trying to

56
00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:58,680
Speaker 1: get you to say the word bag. But what you

57
00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,000
Speaker 1: literally said, oh, when you go away, you've got a

58
00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,320
Speaker 1: big bag and a small bag. So he said the words,

59
00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,800
Speaker 1: so he's ruined. I don't even realize I did that.

60
00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:10,160
Speaker 1: So what actually has happened is you've want a hat? Yeah,

61
00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:17,559
Speaker 1: you want to hat? Yeah? What colors are there? Blue

62
00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:22,160
Speaker 1: and pink? Well, I'm actually currently wearing a blue hat,

63
00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,720
Speaker 1: so maybe pink out you need a pink one. Sure,

64
00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,479
Speaker 1: too easy, We'll say it up too. Oh, thank you

65
00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,120
Speaker 1: so much, thank you for listening, Thanks for playing. All right,

66
00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:35,680
Speaker 1: you guys have good day too. I'm sorry. I don't know.

67
00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,880
Speaker 1: My brain farted as soon as I, like the pressure

68
00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:40,840
Speaker 1: got to me. I was thinking about my bag, like

69
00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:44,040
Speaker 1: luggage going overseas the Bali, and then like I stumbled

70
00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:45,120
Speaker 1: when I had to think of it, and then I

71
00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,640
Speaker 1: like spat something out and said bags a hard game.

72
00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,400
Speaker 1: Hard when you dumb now, and you said, I looked

73
00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:52,640
Speaker 1: at you took my head and I was like, fuck,

74
00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,680
Speaker 1: we lost it. I feel so dumb now. I had

75
00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,200
Speaker 1: a little thing in my head that was working. I

76
00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:00,000
Speaker 1: couldn't spit it out. I was like the UNI route

77
00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:04,000
Speaker 1: because I do ask her. I wanted to like do it.

78
00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,240
Speaker 1: I wanted to have an actual conversation with her and

79
00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:07,720
Speaker 1: not just like go, we've got a question for you

80
00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:09,280
Speaker 1: every time because we could get them every time. I

81
00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,240
Speaker 1: reckon yeah, yeah. And so with the UNI route, I

82
00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:12,560
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I'm gonna ask a couple of questions

83
00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,880
Speaker 1: about work, about UNI, and I'm going to be like

84
00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:19,280
Speaker 1: got anything on your back or like we gotta be

85
00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:20,840
Speaker 1: on the same page, because I was thinking you weren't

86
00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:22,640
Speaker 1: for me to like chime in because you had nothing.

87
00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:28,000
Speaker 1: Well I knew because like you're like electrical engineer. Oh

88
00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,240
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I can't believe you're starting

89
00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,279
Speaker 1: to try and blame me for You're trying to blame

90
00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,360
Speaker 1: me for taking too long. You said back No, I

91
00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,400
Speaker 1: didn't think you blame me. I just think you didn't

92
00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,520
Speaker 1: have it. I just thought you didn't have anything right worse,

93
00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:43,960
Speaker 1: what's on your back? What girl was backpacked? I was

94
00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:45,200
Speaker 1: going to be like I was going to try and

95
00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:48,880
Speaker 1: be like initially I was going to say, like Addie

96
00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,839
Speaker 1: and I have a like maybe a debate of the

97
00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:55,000
Speaker 1: best place for a girl to store her phone, and

98
00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,160
Speaker 1: so girls put it in their bag. You didn't say

99
00:05:58,200 --> 00:05:59,600
Speaker 1: you didn't have that you didn't have, but I didn't

100
00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,560
Speaker 1: say no. You know before when we had the way back,

101
00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:03,040
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I could do that, but I

102
00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:04,480
Speaker 1: just feel bad, like we got to try and get

103
00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,840
Speaker 1: a conversation and into the way anyway. Sorry, I'll take

104
00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:16,600
Speaker 1: the one. Sorry, all right.

105
00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,520
Speaker 2: Weeks ago, a couple of weeks ago, now you hit

106
00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,560
Speaker 2: me with a question and it was.

107
00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:26,480
Speaker 1: The one where it was a scenario.

108
00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,080
Speaker 2: And it was the one where it was like, you're

109
00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:30,880
Speaker 2: away all right, you could you said, get into the

110
00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,719
Speaker 2: mind of a girl, and you said, if you if

111
00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:35,720
Speaker 2: your partner went missing?

112
00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,200
Speaker 1: All right? And it was two am, and yeah, would

113
00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:39,400
Speaker 1: you yeah? Would you do?

114
00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:41,160
Speaker 2: You kinn caret You guys haven't listened to it. It's

115
00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:46,800
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks back and go catch up. But my, my,

116
00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:50,400
Speaker 2: my lovely girlfriend didn't listen to that episode. So I

117
00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,640
Speaker 2: decided to. I just decided to play a little game

118
00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:59,880
Speaker 2: with her. And so yesterday I just hit her with

119
00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:02,040
Speaker 2: I have a question for you, poopy.

120
00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:03,040
Speaker 1: Poopy.

121
00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I call her poopy, said I have a question

122
00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,800
Speaker 2: for you, poopy. She said yes. I said, if you

123
00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,120
Speaker 2: and I went on a holiday to a foreign place

124
00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:14,440
Speaker 2: and for some reason I went missing and you and

125
00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,440
Speaker 2: the police were looking for me well into the night,

126
00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,160
Speaker 2: and they said they need to and they said, like,

127
00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,240
Speaker 2: we need to call it off until tomorrow when you

128
00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,600
Speaker 2: go back to the hotel. Would you still do your

129
00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:28,560
Speaker 2: skincare routine? She goes, um, yeah, I don't want to

130
00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:29,960
Speaker 2: be depressed and ugly.

131
00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,960
Speaker 1: Good answer, to be fair, great response. I don't think

132
00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,560
Speaker 1: you could get a better response. I don't want to

133
00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:41,880
Speaker 1: be depressed. I just thought it was a great I

134
00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,360
Speaker 1: laughter that response. I don't think you can answer any better.

135
00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:49,280
Speaker 1: And and then we just like stopped talking about it. Yeah,

136
00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,600
Speaker 1: and then later on in the night, I we we

137
00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:54,960
Speaker 1: facetimed and we do like there's like you know, like

138
00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,440
Speaker 1: the word all. There's like there's like four different games

139
00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,920
Speaker 1: we play. There's like word all, connections, strands, and like

140
00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:02,600
Speaker 1: a mini crossword, and we just do them on FaceTime

141
00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:06,680
Speaker 1: together every night, a little ritual and it's fun. Look

142
00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:10,120
Speaker 1: forward to it. And did she pay you? She got

143
00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,680
Speaker 1: like a guandi your head. Yeah, it's fine. I love it. Yeah,

144
00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:14,000
Speaker 1: I love it. I actually do.

145
00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,520
Speaker 2: And then on that phone call, she was like, why

146
00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,640
Speaker 2: did you ask me that question earlier? And I was like, oh, actually,

147
00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:22,560
Speaker 2: like you didn't listen to this episode, and I explained

148
00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:24,560
Speaker 2: what it was, and then she said, like to be fair,

149
00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,600
Speaker 2: like would you want me to be depressed and then

150
00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,320
Speaker 2: wake up and look at myself with pimples from not

151
00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,480
Speaker 2: taking my makeup on the night before, and then be

152
00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:33,920
Speaker 2: more depress because I'm ugly tell you what's even worse,

153
00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:34,920
Speaker 2: like imagine we found you.

154
00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,720
Speaker 1: And then I'm all like pimply and stuff. You want

155
00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,079
Speaker 1: me to look like a million bucks when you know,

156
00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:41,480
Speaker 1: here's a question for you. Here's a question for you. Okay,

157
00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:42,720
Speaker 1: let's say.

158
00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:46,040
Speaker 2: Okay, you're on you're on your honeymoon, yeah, with your

159
00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:49,440
Speaker 2: now wife. Okay, you guys go to a foreign place.

160
00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:55,000
Speaker 2: You are kidnapped. Okay, Oh, this is going to be

161
00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,600
Speaker 2: good to ask the girls to Okay, you're kidnapped. They're

162
00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:01,120
Speaker 2: looking for you. Okay, they can't find you. They give

163
00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,960
Speaker 2: up that night. Okay, the next day, you've been in this.

164
00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,240
Speaker 1: Warehouse all night, kidnapped.

165
00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,040
Speaker 2: They want ransom money.

166
00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:07,760
Speaker 1: Okay.

167
00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:11,199
Speaker 2: They finally get in contact with the police and your

168
00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,960
Speaker 2: now new wife. Yeah, and they say the ransom money

169
00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,240
Speaker 2: is whatever mount they give it to the people. Okay,

170
00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:18,840
Speaker 2: spare your life, ransom mind. They get the ransom money,

171
00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,480
Speaker 2: they're off. Okay, you're tied to a chair. Big garage

172
00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:25,559
Speaker 2: door opens, your girl, your new wife with the police,

173
00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,920
Speaker 2: runs in signed it full.

174
00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,599
Speaker 1: Face and makeup. She got a full face face and

175
00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,600
Speaker 1: makeup on, right, And so you're like, where did you

176
00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:36,760
Speaker 1: find the time in all the stressing to get this makeup?

177
00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:38,720
Speaker 1: Are you pissed? Or are you just happy to be alive?

178
00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,360
Speaker 1: Initially happy to be alive. Yeah, but like, as I've

179
00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,959
Speaker 1: had time to process the situation and like I've come back,

180
00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,920
Speaker 1: had a shower, and I think, at that moment again

181
00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:50,480
Speaker 1: when I see my lovely wife, she's there again and

182
00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:54,719
Speaker 1: still got that makeup on. I wait a minute, I

183
00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:57,559
Speaker 1: was I there extra ten minutes, so that I had.

184
00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:00,760
Speaker 2: To be like, yeah, did you know there was gonna

185
00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,679
Speaker 2: be cameras there, the news.

186
00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,640
Speaker 1: There, and how do you feel your boyfriend's Yeah, it

187
00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,760
Speaker 1: was a tough experience, guys, I'm glad he's back. Like, yeah,

188
00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,360
Speaker 1: i'd be pissed after, but initially I wouldn't even say anying.

189
00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:12,800
Speaker 1: I'd just be happy to be like, yeah, you'd be

190
00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:15,160
Speaker 1: happy to be like but you would be like, it

191
00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,000
Speaker 1: didn't look like you slept in that makeer. So that

192
00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:19,760
Speaker 1: wasn't the day from the day before. She's been living

193
00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,600
Speaker 1: her best life. She's been using all her honeymoon honeymoon plans.

194
00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,400
Speaker 1: You guys had you got like a massage books that

195
00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:27,240
Speaker 1: before and they were like, we've got a close search.

196
00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,400
Speaker 1: She's like, I got a massage anyway, I got to

197
00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,960
Speaker 1: do something to relieve distressed. Perfect. Yeah, at least the

198
00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:36,320
Speaker 1: pressure on the back far so I'm gonna I'm going

199
00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,400
Speaker 1: to ask another question. You say, Okay, I've been kidnapped.

200
00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:41,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to text it to her. I've been kidnapped. Yeah,

201
00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:46,040
Speaker 1: send voice messages next time. Keep them. Yeah, I'll keep him.

202
00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,040
Speaker 1: I'll be like, okay, scenario. She's gotta knows for the

203
00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,040
Speaker 1: plot this time. Now though she will know it's for

204
00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,840
Speaker 1: the It started to be like I was thinking about scenario.

205
00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:55,400
Speaker 1: Gave you that. I've got another one, just ridom I do. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

206
00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,760
Speaker 1: good idea. If people want to send in scenarios, I'm

207
00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:01,839
Speaker 1: pretty sure we don't. We have a link to do it. Nah,

208
00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:03,920
Speaker 1: we never released No, No, we do, yeah, we do.

209
00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:05,880
Speaker 1: I never. We've only done it once. Though we only

210
00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,120
Speaker 1: did it once. We've only done scenarios once. Can we

211
00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:11,160
Speaker 1: put it in? Is it easy to pusription? Yeah? You

212
00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,600
Speaker 1: guys have like a funny scenario to give us. Put it.

213
00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,520
Speaker 2: It's in the link of the just description of this

214
00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,080
Speaker 2: video or this episode on Spotify and stuff.

215
00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:20,920
Speaker 1: Go send it a scenario. It's funny. They see different

216
00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,319
Speaker 1: answers from guys and girls. Yeah, I think they're fine. Ass.

217
00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:26,000
Speaker 2: You can even say like what your boyfriend or girlfriend answered.

218
00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, Jack, and I actually wanted to

219
00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,440
Speaker 1: bring something up as well. Yeah, I want to be

220
00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,160
Speaker 1: Do you know those people who like start petitions and

221
00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,920
Speaker 1: like try and get stuff changed. Yeah, I don't know

222
00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:36,960
Speaker 1: how to do that, but I want to be one

223
00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:37,520
Speaker 1: of those people.

224
00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:39,760
Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, okay, okay, okay. I was going to say,

225
00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:40,240
Speaker 2: how do they do it?

226
00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:41,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, never do I but I can look into it.

227
00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:45,400
Speaker 1: But tell me if my idea is worth starting a petition. Okay.

228
00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:49,120
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm just like have a bad tolerance or something

229
00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:50,760
Speaker 1: like that, But I think I should start a petition,

230
00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,160
Speaker 1: and I think all of our listeners would sign it

231
00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,520
Speaker 1: and everyone in the world would sign it too. So

232
00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,199
Speaker 1: the petition, I don't have quite the right name for it. Yeah,

233
00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,280
Speaker 1: but the petition is basically basically going to be a

234
00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:06,440
Speaker 1: brief outline of anyone who moves in slow motion, has

235
00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,120
Speaker 1: a kid and doesn't know where special awareness is, or

236
00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:14,400
Speaker 1: goes under the speed limit gets fined. Fine, yeah, do

237
00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,959
Speaker 1: you police. I'll be the police officer. You will be

238
00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,880
Speaker 1: the police officer. Yea. Yeah, So you'll be making a

239
00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:24,040
Speaker 1: wage in this petition as well. Fifty dollars fine, fifty buck.

240
00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,200
Speaker 1: So I've talked about this before where people just don't

241
00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:28,640
Speaker 1: know you that. Yesterday I had to go to kmart, right, yeah,

242
00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:32,160
Speaker 1: I'm there walking through the aisle. One lady has a

243
00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:35,160
Speaker 1: pram and a kid. Yeah, And I was like, oh, yep, whatever,

244
00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:36,760
Speaker 1: doing a thing looking at like hats. I was like,

245
00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,040
Speaker 1: fair enough. This other lady walks in front of me

246
00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:42,040
Speaker 1: with a trolley. See we lock eye contact. She walks

247
00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,440
Speaker 1: in front of me and walking right behind her, she

248
00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:48,040
Speaker 1: just stops next to this kid in the toddler and

249
00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:51,480
Speaker 1: just blocks the whole thing, doesn't even acknowledge my existence.

250
00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:53,880
Speaker 1: And I literally can't get pasted because I was holding

251
00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,400
Speaker 1: an item and I had to go around them and

252
00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:58,880
Speaker 1: to another aisle and exit it. And I'm like, I'm like,

253
00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,320
Speaker 1: are you see You knew I was there and you

254
00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:04,120
Speaker 1: just stopped And I was like, this can't be real life.

255
00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:08,400
Speaker 1: And it happens all the time to me. I first

256
00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:09,720
Speaker 1: question is would you sign the petition?

257
00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:13,080
Speaker 2: I actually would sign that petition for you because I

258
00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:15,280
Speaker 2: think I have really good special I think.

259
00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:17,400
Speaker 1: Young people do have good special awen it. I do

260
00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:19,680
Speaker 1: think she saw me, looked me in the eyes, and

261
00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:22,280
Speaker 1: then stopped and I'm like, do you just not care

262
00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:24,320
Speaker 1: that I'm here at least like pull your trolley over

263
00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:25,959
Speaker 1: the side so there's enough room for me to get by.

264
00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,560
Speaker 1: I was like I was full pissed. Sometimes do you

265
00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:33,679
Speaker 1: think like I feel like sometimes people can be like

266
00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:37,240
Speaker 1: are we nice? Are we like too nice in public?

267
00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,560
Speaker 1: Like to a fault? Maybe should be like assert ourt

268
00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,320
Speaker 1: dominance and just not move? Yeah, do you reckon?

269
00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,280
Speaker 2: There's some sort of joy and just like maybe some

270
00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:48,079
Speaker 2: power into some asserting of dominance, like if you instead

271
00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,480
Speaker 2: of like so she stopped there right and she tried

272
00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,880
Speaker 2: to she obviously blocked the lane and then what if

273
00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:57,280
Speaker 2: you instead of turning around and just like avoiding saying

274
00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,560
Speaker 2: something to her, just want to be like gotta get past.

275
00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,719
Speaker 1: Say excuse me, just like got to get past. Yeah.

276
00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,920
Speaker 1: So I just like it's like two hour sohols talking

277
00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,240
Speaker 1: to each other. She get it mate, Yeah, but you

278
00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,160
Speaker 1: should get it? Yeah? Is that what they want? Though?

279
00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:09,800
Speaker 1: Like or did? She does not knows? There? Is that

280
00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,120
Speaker 1: what I gotta do? Like she had to know you

281
00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,480
Speaker 1: were there? Are you walking to the left? Yes? I

282
00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,679
Speaker 1: was walking were you in? It was just like about

283
00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:17,720
Speaker 1: to pay the last hour before you can pay? Yeah,

284
00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:19,480
Speaker 1: and she just stopped like before you turn left to

285
00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,600
Speaker 1: get in there where the hats are on stuff and

286
00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:23,760
Speaker 1: came up. It's not gonna help for any listeners. But no,

287
00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:25,800
Speaker 1: I know you're talking about it. Yeah, just there that one,

288
00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:27,600
Speaker 1: and I was like, you can't be serious. And then

289
00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:29,840
Speaker 1: it's even like ah, just driving and stuff and you

290
00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:31,440
Speaker 1: get behind someone going fifteen to seventy.

291
00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:36,280
Speaker 2: Though, my biggest pet peeve is is when someone is

292
00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:39,160
Speaker 2: because in the towns we live in, everyone listening in

293
00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:40,520
Speaker 2: the town you live in, you know the roads you

294
00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,920
Speaker 2: can get away with a little bit quicker. Yeah, you know,

295
00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,640
Speaker 2: you can tell when someone's not from here and they're

296
00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,200
Speaker 2: either looking for a house to turn into because we

297
00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,080
Speaker 2: want to visit someone, but they just call over a stroll, yeah,

298
00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:56,120
Speaker 2: not for a drive, and you're like, fuck, like one

299
00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:58,160
Speaker 2: hundred meters away from my house, I'm still like, you're going.

300
00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,520
Speaker 1: So slow, Like I just fucking get over. I would

301
00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,640
Speaker 1: just be like boys. But it's even worse, Like I

302
00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,400
Speaker 1: feel like where I live just full of old people.

303
00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,520
Speaker 1: So every time I go there, it's just like the

304
00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:10,480
Speaker 1: slow as possible and I take it next a couple

305
00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:12,560
Speaker 1: of minutes to get home. Yeah. I feel like such

306
00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,120
Speaker 1: a wankum right now. Yeah.

307
00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:16,680
Speaker 2: I Like I beat myself up a bit when I

308
00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:19,960
Speaker 2: get pissed off about One of my least favorite things

309
00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:24,120
Speaker 2: is being in a busy shopping center right bustling, you

310
00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:27,320
Speaker 2: know people. For some reason, when I'm at the shops,

311
00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, just I just don't want to get to

312
00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,160
Speaker 2: every place. I need to go quick and get out.

313
00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,800
Speaker 2: I don't surely everyone wants to do that. Nah, they

314
00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:37,360
Speaker 2: love it in there. Oh that's fucking crazy to me, man,

315
00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:42,240
Speaker 2: because one of my biggest pet peeves is getting stuck

316
00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:46,840
Speaker 2: behind someone walking slow but like there's not enough space

317
00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:49,120
Speaker 2: to get around them, and then there's heaps of space

318
00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:50,600
Speaker 2: in front of them because everyone in front of them

319
00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,800
Speaker 2: is walking really quick and you're behind them, and you're like,

320
00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,840
Speaker 2: wouldn't it be nice to just be right in front

321
00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:56,800
Speaker 2: of them, and they're just fucking and you've gotta wait

322
00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:58,600
Speaker 2: for like space to open up so you can, like, like,

323
00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:01,640
Speaker 2: I'll walk around them aggressively to let them know I

324
00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:03,880
Speaker 2: was pissed off they were going fucking slow, and they beat.

325
00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:06,400
Speaker 1: Myself up because I'm like, oh, they're just chilling, going

326
00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:08,080
Speaker 1: about their day, you know, going with the Yeah, are

327
00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:10,280
Speaker 1: we the problem? Yeah? Are we the problem? Maybe we're

328
00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,400
Speaker 1: the problem. They're just going with your situation. You weren't

329
00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,560
Speaker 1: the problem. Yeah, in my situation, I think I could

330
00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,360
Speaker 1: be there and like driving, I get angry for no reason,

331
00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,000
Speaker 1: like the go I'm going to save three minutes? What

332
00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,800
Speaker 1: am I the problem? Yeah? Maybe we are the problem.

333
00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:21,880
Speaker 1: But what did they even think about it?

334
00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,600
Speaker 2: The other day you went to go post something at

335
00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,440
Speaker 2: the post office and you left early because there was

336
00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:27,760
Speaker 2: a guy that was taken. There was like three people

337
00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:29,720
Speaker 2: or four people in front of you, so that was ridiculous.

338
00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:31,120
Speaker 2: And then the guy was taking ten minutes for the

339
00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:32,560
Speaker 2: guy that was first in lance. You were thinking ten

340
00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:33,840
Speaker 2: minutes for every I'm here for an hour.

341
00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, fuck it, that was ridiculous. It's got something to

342
00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:39,160
Speaker 1: do with age. Honestly, I reckon. I don't mean oh

343
00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:40,840
Speaker 1: I reckon. I could have done his job quicker. No,

344
00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:43,200
Speaker 1: what happened was I wanted to go ship this one

345
00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:45,280
Speaker 1: of these hats. Actually yeah, so sorry for someone who

346
00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:48,480
Speaker 1: hasn't got it yet. There was two people in front

347
00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:50,520
Speaker 1: of me. This guy had to ship two envelopes that

348
00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:52,680
Speaker 1: were slightly bigger than a non envelope, and the guy

349
00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:55,080
Speaker 1: weighs it and goes ten dollars please, and took him

350
00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:57,200
Speaker 1: about eight minutes to do that, and then he had

351
00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:58,920
Speaker 1: to do the other one, and then this other lady

352
00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:00,960
Speaker 1: came over and go, so, what are you doing? It's

353
00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:02,480
Speaker 1: like and he's just like, oh, it's like that, you

354
00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,120
Speaker 1: just need to stick it for that. It's only like

355
00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:07,000
Speaker 1: it's only like two dollars fifty. And then then the

356
00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:08,560
Speaker 1: guy's like, oh, so only got to pay two dollars

357
00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:10,360
Speaker 1: fifty for this one, not eleven. And I will say

358
00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:14,520
Speaker 1: like I'm going on, oh my god, oh I just

359
00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:16,760
Speaker 1: I can't stann that shit. But I think maybe we

360
00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:21,400
Speaker 1: need to practice out what's the word patience? Yeah, being

361
00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:23,280
Speaker 1: zen a little bit. I think a little bit more

362
00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:34,320
Speaker 1: Zambi what this episode could be being zen? Practice said, Okay,

363
00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:36,879
Speaker 1: how do you I play this? My girlfriend and I

364
00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:40,240
Speaker 1: play this little game. Will be like we don't text

365
00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:43,520
Speaker 1: all throughout the day. Sometimes we'll text like in the morning,

366
00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,520
Speaker 1: and then maybe at like mid day, I'll say like, oh,

367
00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:47,120
Speaker 1: how's work going?

368
00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:51,200
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. And sometimes not every day, but sometimes

369
00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:52,680
Speaker 2: if like we send a text just like hey, how's

370
00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,560
Speaker 2: it going, Like how's yourday going? And then one of

371
00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:57,720
Speaker 2: us might be like, oh, I miss you, and then

372
00:17:57,880 --> 00:17:59,280
Speaker 2: and then one of us will say, send me a

373
00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:03,439
Speaker 2: pickup you right now, like right now, and then always

374
00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,840
Speaker 2: it's like if Beth sends a picture of her to me,

375
00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, stop, it should be illegal

376
00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:11,399
Speaker 2: to look like good. Like we have just like a

377
00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,600
Speaker 2: bit of a lightly gassing, and she does the same

378
00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,040
Speaker 2: to me, and so it's just like a little thing

379
00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:18,640
Speaker 2: we do where like we send a pick and then

380
00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:21,800
Speaker 2: let's do some light gassing. And so maybe think of

381
00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:25,439
Speaker 2: things girls do that should be illegal but they aren't.

382
00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:29,000
Speaker 2: This before we have it was good long time ago.

383
00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,600
Speaker 2: So and you came up with this list. Yeah, yeah,

384
00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:35,760
Speaker 2: this is good. So things girls do that should be

385
00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:41,119
Speaker 2: illegal but they aren't. When I'm taking a photo, she

386
00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:43,720
Speaker 2: likes the very first one and doesn't get me to

387
00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:44,360
Speaker 2: take anymore.

388
00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:53,960
Speaker 1: Imagine that happened encouraged, but should be illegal. That's illegal

389
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:54,199
Speaker 1: in there.

390
00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:56,040
Speaker 2: Once I got a bone to pick, I said it

391
00:18:56,080 --> 00:19:03,119
Speaker 2: to her face. Okay, Bethany, Bethany, come full name right, Okay,

392
00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,280
Speaker 2: I take photos of her. She wants me to take

393
00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:05,679
Speaker 2: photos of.

394
00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:06,200
Speaker 1: Her of course.

395
00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:12,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I know how to take a good photo now, Okay,

396
00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:15,359
Speaker 2: I know it. I know the I know the distance,

397
00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:16,639
Speaker 2: I know the angles. I know what she will like,

398
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:19,320
Speaker 2: and I won't know what she won't like. Okay, no

399
00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:26,320
Speaker 2: matter what, Like I'm telling you, no matter what. The

400
00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:29,800
Speaker 2: first fifty, like I take heats just fifty like but

401
00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:32,160
Speaker 2: like it's like two seconds, but like I take so many,

402
00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 2: just like be like, okay, which one?

403
00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:33,800
Speaker 1: Yeah?

404
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:38,120
Speaker 2: Which one do I replicate? No matter what the first yeah,

405
00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,400
Speaker 2: ten to fifty whatever. She doesn't like them, she has

406
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,520
Speaker 2: something to say about it. Be closer, be further, different angles,

407
00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:48,280
Speaker 2: I height this, that the other okay, and I'm like, okay, cool.

408
00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:49,399
Speaker 1: Try again.

409
00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,359
Speaker 2: Takes a wall to get when she likes, but usually

410
00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:52,399
Speaker 2: it ends up being a couple.

411
00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:53,240
Speaker 1: Okay.

412
00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:56,760
Speaker 2: The other day she shows me these photos. She goes

413
00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,160
Speaker 2: her best friend name's Casey. She was with her friend

414
00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,320
Speaker 2: Casey to get lunch one day, had Henry Ono lap yeah,

415
00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,840
Speaker 2: and she goes, look at these good photos. Casey took it,

416
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,479
Speaker 2: just random photos Casey took of me. There's three photos

417
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,040
Speaker 2: and I'm like instantly, I was.

418
00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,480
Speaker 1: Like, that's bullshit. A If I took it, you'd fucking

419
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,479
Speaker 1: hate me. I swear to God, if I took him,

420
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,560
Speaker 1: she would hate I'm genuinely. She'd be mad at me

421
00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,720
Speaker 1: for taking them, because of the angle, because of the

422
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:19,560
Speaker 1: way she was sitting, she'd be she'd be mad at me.

423
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,000
Speaker 1: She'd be like, don't take photos of me like that.

424
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,000
Speaker 1: Wait till I'm fucking like, have a good photo. I

425
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,960
Speaker 1: think this is time to deploy my strategy. Mate.

426
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that, you have to say. I'm not

427
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,800
Speaker 2: saying that. I'm not saying that. But here's where my

428
00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,480
Speaker 2: here's where my bone is to pick is. I've always

429
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:39,000
Speaker 2: known I have a feeling girls subconsciously have been told

430
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:42,240
Speaker 2: it's just this thing online where boyfriends sucker taken photos. Okay,

431
00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 2: and girls are way better at taking photos.

432
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,640
Speaker 1: What do you think I was gonna say? I thought

433
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 1: you were gonna say, this is what you look like? Yeah, yeah,

434
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,679
Speaker 1: the same way. But it's you look good.

435
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 2: I don't say it like I think they look great.

436
00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,359
Speaker 2: But and so and she even posted the photos that

437
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,840
Speaker 2: her best friends took, and I'm telling you, I'm telling

438
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:09,480
Speaker 2: you that it's because a girl took them that she

439
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 2: liked them, and I'm over it.

440
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 1: I want to start a petition.

441
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, boyfriends take good ten photos.

442
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 1: That's all you get, Okay, bullshit ten photos. I like

443
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 1: that outsign that petition to fucking hell. You're passionate about that.

444
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 1: I've even said it to my said I was like,

445
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 1: you posted that. Fucking if I took that, you would

446
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 1: have heard it. Bla bla blah. She's like, no, I

447
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 1: wouldn't have. Like they like, but look they're good, like

448
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,199
Speaker 1: like fuck off. You's like, don't think of look good?

449
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 1: And I'm like, obviously, I think you look. You just

450
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,000
Speaker 1: reckon to start taking ten and be like, I think

451
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 1: you look like a ten in all of these. That's

452
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,719
Speaker 1: all I'm taking. Put your foot down, mate, put your

453
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 1: foot down. Troubles in Paradise.

454
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 2: Things girls do that should be illegal, but they aren't.

455
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 2: Drinking from the edge of the cup with no straw. Oh,

456
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 2: like actually sipping a cup.

457
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,200
Speaker 1: I've never ever seen do that. In the while. Bet

458
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 1: has like fifty straws in a drawer for even which

459
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,679
Speaker 1: has like a glass. If we go out and I

460
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 1: go get drinks and I don't come back with a straw,

461
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 1: I've got to go back up. You got a second trip, Yeah,

462
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 1: go to go back and get them. I'm like, oh, sick,

463
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,199
Speaker 1: Like get what you give it. Things girls do that

464
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,640
Speaker 1: should be illegal. But they aren't wearing ugs as normal shoes. Yeah.

465
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I hate it. I don't

466
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:23,400
Speaker 1: like it either out of the house. I don't think

467
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 1: you should wear hug They're slippers. Yeah, they are. Ugs

468
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 1: are slippers, and they're like most of the girls wear

469
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 1: those platform ones that are good for your ankles. You're

470
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 1: going to roll an ankle here or there the more

471
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 1: shopping you do with them. I saw someone rock up

472
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 1: through the gym in some the other day. That was

473
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 1: my line, that was your line. Yeah, no, I agree, yea,

474
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 1: I fully agree. I think that.

475
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 2: Also, they're slippers and they're made to make your feet warm.

476
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 2: Your feet get warm and a bit sweaty, and normal shoes.

477
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 2: When those things stink, they have to smell like absolute.

478
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 1: As they got those those hogs in on my air.

479
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I say, fucking stops match if they were't wearing socks.

480
00:22:58,400 --> 00:22:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

481
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 2: Things girls do that should be illegal, but they aren't.

482
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: Let you cook and just say nothing that no tips,

483
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 1: nothing that would be nice. Things girls do that should

484
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 1: be illegal, but they aren't. Kill spiders. No, you can't

485
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 1: talk either, mate, You just wish all the spiders would die. Mate,

486
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 1: You're more scared than most girls I've ever met. I

487
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 1: I fucking hate them. Oh do you come get this spider?

488
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 1: I fucking hate them. Is your sister just as bad

489
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 1: as you? Worse, really worse.

490
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 2: One time she called me, so it's inherited. She face

491
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 2: timed me.

492
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 1: All right. She was at the wool Worst Errana parking lot.

493
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:42,679
Speaker 2: She opened her back door to put her groceries in there,

494
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 2: and there was a Huntsman member of this big Yeah.

495
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,680
Speaker 2: It was like in in like not in the car,

496
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,400
Speaker 2: but in where the door closes, right, And she facetimed

497
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 2: me and she's like, Jake, there's a spider like right here.

498
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 1: What do I do? And I was like kill it?

499
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: And she's like no, I'm not. I can't get hear it.

500
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:57,439
Speaker 1: I can't go near it.

501
00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 2: And then she said like people are just walking passed

502
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 2: and not helping me. And I was like I wouldn't

503
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 2: help anyone either, seriously, and so like I.

504
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 1: Look like she's got a broken leg or something.

505
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 2: I was like, it's just and so I saw where

506
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 2: it was and I was like, look, if you slammed

507
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 2: the door shut quickly right now, it's going to close

508
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 2: and seal and the spider because it wasn't inside the seal.

509
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 2: So I said, close it and it'll just it'll still.

510
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: Be there when you get home.

511
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 2: And so when she got home, she called me, and

512
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 2: I went up to the driveway and I opened it

513
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:25,360
Speaker 2: and it was there.

514
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: And so I killed it for her. And so I

515
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,639
Speaker 1: did do it like I was okay, like because she

516
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 1: was more scared than me. But like, if you were there,

517
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: I would have made you. But she was shipping her

518
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 1: pants things girls do that should be illegal. But I

519
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,159
Speaker 1: aren't go a full year without getting something done to

520
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,639
Speaker 1: their hair. No, I can't have them, no way. My

521
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,160
Speaker 1: girlfriend's at the hair dresses right now. Yeah, yeah, always

522
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: getting a tint, Say should I get a haircut? Should

523
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 1: I do this? Should I do that? They can't live

524
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 1: with the hair they have for a full year, not

525
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 1: at all. Get bobs in at the moment. Who wants

526
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 1: a bob front fringes were in last thing about The

527
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: thing about getting haircut short is like the commitment to

528
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 1: if you don't like it, you're fucked for like eight months.

529
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 1: It is pretty bad. It's crazy. It's being a girl.

530
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 1: Like we get a bad haircut, two three weeks, we're back,

531
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 1: We're back, to normal. They get a bad haircut two

532
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 1: three months.

533
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, is like, just don't play risky

534
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:18,679
Speaker 2: games with your hair because if you hate it, I.

535
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: Don't want it to be my problem. Okay, my last one.

536
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 1: Things girls do that should be illegal, but they aren't

537
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: going a full week without asking us a hypothetical question

538
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 1: to test our love for them. The girls like have

539
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 1: like this unwritten rule that they have to do that.

540
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 1: It's a good question. They must because they all do it.

541
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,919
Speaker 1: It's just universal for some reason. It's weird and all

542
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: the questions are like tricks and they're good. They all

543
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 1: like they have like they must have a community group

544
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: on Facebook or something, or there's one you're like asking

545
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: my question, my both a new question.

546
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 2: There's a group on Facebook called Tea Time and I've

547
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 2: tried to enter it, I think four times, but I

548
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 2: get denied because I'm a guy.

549
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:06,239
Speaker 1: What if you change your status on Facebook? He's that

550
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: bad to do? Well, here's the thing is Time? What

551
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 1: is it? It's like I think it's Australia.

552
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, And basically they just like a lot of people

553
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:20,959
Speaker 2: send in anonymous like confessions and Beth's in it and

554
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 2: just read me some and they're fucking brilliant.

555
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: Trying to join four times.

556
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 2: I've tried to join, like at least four times. Yeah,

557
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 2: and every time it just like nothing happens. And then

558
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:32,440
Speaker 2: I go to join again and I can join again.

559
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 2: So that means obviously they've denied me. So I don't

560
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 2: think any dudes are allowed to be in it.

561
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: I want to make an alien's account. I sort to

562
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 1: say that I did it because I was like, content

563
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: is so funny. Yeah, so I might in the group

564
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 1: listening send us some good ones. Oh yeah, wonder if

565
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: anyone listening to this is it's got like hundreds of

566
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: thousands of people in the back they have to be

567
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: Why won't they just let me be in? We love

568
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: the tea. Yeah, don't you have to write like a

569
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: brief description when you're into it? Just be like, hey, guys,

570
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 1: I'm Jake from the Reliable Podcasts. I love to learn

571
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: about all the tea and gos's going on. I bet

572
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: you that's one reason not to have me across my

573
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 1: fingers not to tell anyone.

574
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 3: I swear, I swear I won't put it on my podcast,

575
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 3: all right, Jake.

576
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 1: We often talk about like mood and actually in the

577
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: intro we talked about the things that were affecting my

578
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: mood and other people sort of out of my control,

579
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: and I thought it was an interesting thing to sort

580
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 1: of bring up and learn how to be more conscious

581
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 1: of your surroundings to get better at like your mood

582
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,959
Speaker 1: so you get less unhappy and angry. I obviously need

583
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 1: to work on a little bit, evidently from all the

584
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: things going on in the environment. So I've come to

585
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: you with a couple of things that sort of subconsciously

586
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: affect your mood and you might not be knowing about it.

587
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: Oh okay, cool, yep. So the first one is a

588
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: big one that I think most people sleep on, which

589
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: is food. True. Yeah, even subconsciously, I just do it,

590
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 1: Just eat some food and think I'm gonna have energy

591
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: throughout the day, and then an hour later, I'll be

592
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,719
Speaker 1: like angry or unhappy and I'll be like, fuck, why

593
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 1: Mom's such a shit day, and then I ate like

594
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 1: a pack of chips an hour ago. That's actually such

595
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 1: a good point. And even also like quality of food, Yeah,

596
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 1: it is like quality goes a long way, like quality

597
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: of meat, quality of vegetables that you're not buying like

598
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: that does some come come something not buying the worst

599
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 1: quality food?

600
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's an interesting one. Actually, I've never even like

601
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 2: once thought if I've been in a bad mood and

602
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 2: I haven't eaten anything, I've obviously been like, oh's because

603
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: I haven't eaten. Yeah, But if i've been if I

604
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 2: can't put my finger on why something's wrong with me,

605
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: I don't like ever think maybe it's.

606
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: I've been catching myself out recently, Like I take I

607
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: walk because I got sick a little bit, like with

608
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 1: weird things going on my body. So it'd stripped back

609
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: my dig a little bit, and like what's making me

610
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: feel this way? And why am I feeling lethargic and sad? Yeah? Yeah,

611
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: And it was like carbs and stuff. Carves do that too,

612
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: Like you get too many carbs and you says it's weird.

613
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, having a good balance of just yeah the main

614
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 2: you know, carbs, fat, proteins. Yeah, having the main balance

615
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 2: is like crazy.

616
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: And so the first one is obviously food. I've got three,

617
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: and the last one is probably the one that affects

618
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: me the most. The next one is like sort of

619
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: out of your control. So it's sort of like learning

620
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: to go of the flow, which is the environment. Yep, people, jobs,

621
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 1: even the weather, yeah, affects you without you knowing, and

622
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: you're just like can't figure out why you're sad or

623
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: anything out of everything.

624
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 2: I do think I'm pretty good at going with the flow.

625
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 2: You are pretty good, Like if some like like even

626
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 2: like a bad driver on the road, Like I'm pissed

627
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 2: off for the second, and then as soon as they're gone,

628
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 2: like I'm fine. Like nothing really affects my mood throughout,

629
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 2: like a full day, but weather, rainy weather. We've had

630
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 2: rain for like a week, I know. I mean, I'm

631
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 2: over it.

632
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I actually do. This is like

633
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: a little game I play with myself. When it's a

634
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: really bad overcast day, I call them dirty days. That's

635
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 1: why my brother used to call them as a kid.

636
00:29:56,520 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: I'll purposely wear bright and colorful clothes. Ooh, it's not

637
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: a bad idea, just to brighten on my day. Because

638
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: I was. I always say them.

639
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 2: That's not a bad idea actually, because so the weather.

640
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 2: My house has terrible lighting, and so when there's a

641
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 2: nice sunny day, it feels great in there, I think.

642
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 2: But when there's shitty weather and it's not a nice

643
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 2: sunny day, no matter. I could put every light on

644
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 2: in the house and.

645
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: It just doesn't feel good. Yeah, he literally feels like shit. Ah,

646
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: And these things affect your mood, simple things like lighting it. Yeah. Yeah, Actually,

647
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 1: yesterday morning I was having like.

648
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 2: A little bout of anxiety, and I don't know what

649
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 2: I did to fix it, but it did eventually go away.

650
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: But I remember it was like from probably like.

651
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 2: What time did you come over yesterday, or like a

652
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 2: little bit before that it went away, like a bit

653
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 2: before that it went away. But for a while there,

654
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 2: I was just like I was like trying to like edit,

655
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 2: I was trying to like fucking get into it, and

656
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 2: I couldn't like bring myself to to watch the footage,

657
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 2: and and I was like hating it, Like I was

658
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 2: hating the footage.

659
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 1: I was. I was like, you know, I was hating

660
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: it too. I wonder if it was actually the footage

661
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 1: or the weather, because it's been such a bad way.

662
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 1: I hated the episode. I was probably editing at the

663
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: same time.

664
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:07,479
Speaker 2: Because I was I was like, and I was like,

665
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 2: didn't really was any of that.

666
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: Good that we didn't hit And and then but after

667
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 1: the feeling went away, I did like it, so I

668
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 1: don't know. Interesting. I wonder if it is an environmental factor,

669
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: like cause it's been terrible. It's been so overclass. It

670
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: feels like we're in England for last week. I know. Yeah,

671
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: and it's just like it's kind of like stepping away

672
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: like you did and thinking like, fuck, is it actually

673
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: bad or is it my surroundings that's making me think

674
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: it's bad.

675
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 2: That's a good question because it also makes you think

676
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 2: like if something like that, like if we aren't enjoying

677
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 2: something that we love, because like we we love our job, Yeah,

678
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 2: if we aren't enjoying it, and like I'm like, ugh,

679
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 2: I wonder what does it feel like? I remember waking

680
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 2: up on days where I wasn't in a great mood

681
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 2: to go be a carpenter.

682
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: Fuck, wouldn't want to have been around me that day. God,

683
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: it was shit. I know exactly what you mean. Even

684
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: when you're doing like little task ren house or something

685
00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 1: like that, and you're like, does someone to do that

686
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: you give become in such a bad mood if you

687
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: have to go shopping or something.

688
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, everything seems like such a big ask. Like I

689
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 2: was like, this is debilitating. I was like I can't

690
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 2: physically watch this. It was like, what the fuck is this?

691
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: It's funny stepping away and realizing it was so weird.

692
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: And my last one, I actually have a it's actually

693
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: a diagnosis. It can be. It's called have you heard

694
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 1: of emotional contagion? No, this is actually why I think

695
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: we get along so well. So it's the tendency to

696
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: catch another person's feelings or to stress catch with someone's

697
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 1: negative mood that's affecting you.

698
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 3: Fuck.

699
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so if we're both in a bad mood one day,

700
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: episode's gonna be shit. Yeah. No, But I think I

701
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: think we work well because we sort of like get

702
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: each other and we vibe on the same energies. But

703
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: I've definitely been around people. It happened in like workplaces

704
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: where there's a lot of people like someone's energy like

705
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: you just like ugh, like you don't want it?

706
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 2: God, I feel you there is like if there is

707
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: people that I do, I kind of don't like being around. Yeah, Sam,

708
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 2: to be honest, like someone that is ah just kind

709
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 2: of I guess a little bit pessimistic.

710
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 1: Yeah about the world. I think the world's out to

711
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 1: get them or something. Yeah, I don't know. That's a

712
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 1: funny one. Actually, I actually had a funny experience. It's

713
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: a bit holistic. When I was on mushrooms. Oh yeah,

714
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: so one of the things that happened. Don't condone doing mushrooms,

715
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 1: but if you want to do it, need your own

716
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: safety to research as you will. But I was doing them,

717
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: and I was in like a big group setting. It

718
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: was actually ended up being a party setting. But what

719
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: happened was I could see people's Some people were very

720
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: bright and vibrant, heaps of nice colors coming off and

721
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: red's yellows, everything like that. And then other people who

722
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 1: looked kind of sad were really dark and showing like

723
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: blues and blacks, really dark navy blues and blacks. And

724
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: when I was kind of scared when I was on mushrooms,

725
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not gone near them. But it, honestly,

726
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was true or not, but

727
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 1: I feel like the mushrooms made me see that those

728
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: persons mood or vibe was a very good, so I

729
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: stayed away from them, which is sort of this emotional

730
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: contagion what we're talking about. You could see their aura, Yeah,

731
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: you can see the aura around that, Yeah, exactly, I've

732
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: seen a thing where so our hearts they beat and

733
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: they we can't hear them, like we've zone everything out.

734
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: We're good at that, Like, yeah, that's what our brains do.

735
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,879
Speaker 2: But but they do make a noise and so they

736
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 2: beat and they like cause vibrations, and so like around us,

737
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 2: around you and myself is like a little I guess

738
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 2: zone of vibrations. I don't know, really, I saw this

739
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 2: thing and it was like breaking it down. It made

740
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 2: sense to me, and and someone goes, and this could

741
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 2: be They didn't say this is, but they were like,

742
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 2: and this could be the reason why some people when

743
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 2: you're next to them, if you meet a new person

744
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 2: straight away, you know if you're gonna gel with them,

745
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 2: or because you're like sometimes your vibes are beating at

746
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 2: the same rate. It's yeah, like so you and me

747
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 2: could have a vibe that beats to like a very

748
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 2: similar rate, and then sometimes someone else could come into play.

749
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 2: You meet a new person and yours just doesn't and

750
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 2: it doesn't match up with theirs at all, like it

751
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 2: doesn't even attempt it or something like that.

752
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, and so that's.

753
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 2: Why you don't know or that's why you just like

754
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 2: don't gel with that person, and you know straight away.

755
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: You don't click. How weird is that? A I foind

756
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 1: that very interesting. That makes sense to me too, And

757
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 1: I was like, that honestly does make sense because you

758
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 1: come away from talking to people like fuck, I didn't

759
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: like that person or I didn't jail with them at all,

760
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: and then you come away over it like that was

761
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: a really nice person. Yeah.

762
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,399
Speaker 2: But at the same time, it's like, I'm sure I've

763
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 2: met people when I'm not in a great mood and

764
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 2: just like not giving them the time.

765
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: Your vibrations are probably bad.

766
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so my vibrations might be bad that day, and

767
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 2: then maybe if they meet me a second time, I'm

768
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 2: a better mood.

769
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, my vibrations are better. But growing up I never vibration.

770
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 1: Growing up, I never realized like how much like your

771
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 1: mood affects like everything going on in your life and stuff.

772
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just thought it was like so

773
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 1: such smooth sailing, and it was just like funny different

774
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: things that affect and there's way more than the list

775
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:05,399
Speaker 1: I just had. Oh fuck, yeah, yeah, I'm also I'm

776
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm pretty lucky. I I find it

777
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 1: easier to be happy, then I find it to be upset.

778
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: But some people are the complete opposite. They find it

779
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: easier to be upset than they do to be happy,

780
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: which is tough, which is fuck. I feel a bit

781
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 1: bad man, Yeah, and that's that's what everyone has, like

782
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: sad times, but it's just so much easier to be

783
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: sad and depressed. It feels like so much effort to

784
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,879
Speaker 1: be happy. Yeah, your body's just like funck. I want

785
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: to do anything. I just want to lay down watching

786
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 1: Netflix on my phone. I just want to be sad,

787
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: which is relatable, but that's like something maybe I was

788
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: naive growing up, bro, I just thought everyone was such

789
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: rainbow smooth sailing sometimes. Yeah, it's just it's funny realizing it.

790
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: It's weird, all right, Jake, I know you've been putting

791
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: on a brave face this whole episode. It's okay to

792
00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 1: let it out now, fortunately for him, but fortunately for me.

793
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: Oh I'm going on a holiday, yes, back to Bali.

794
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: But what that means for everyone listening is after this

795
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: episode there's going to be a two week break on

796
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: Spotify and Apple podcasts. But you might be thinking, how

797
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 1: do I get my fix of Addie and Jake on

798
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 1: the Relatable. You mean you're not posting for two weeks.

799
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: We're still posting on Patreon every single Thursday. So for

800
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: five dollars a month, you can still get our sweet

801
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: voices in your ears. Yep. And otherwise I'm going on

802
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:31,800
Speaker 1: holiday Jack, You're gonna be okay.

803
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 2: I don't actually know yet.

804
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, I am not sure. I haven't fully thought about it,

805
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: and I have been trying not to think about it bad.

806
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 2: It's gonna be a tough time, but I hope you

807
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 2: have fun. Thanks man, But thank you guys so very

808
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 2: much for listening. So, yeah, get over to Patreon and

809
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 2: listen over there, or go catch up.

810
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, catch so many episodes over there if you need

811
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: to hit two. There's like other than us posting every

812
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: single week. There's got to be like close to fifty

813
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: episodes over there. Now. I think there's like a year's worth. Yeah,

814
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 1: I think so. I think we've been doing it for

815
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 1: right over there. Yeah, we love you even more if

816
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 1: you're over there, give us your money. We don't do

817
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: it for the money. We love you all right. So