WEBVTT - WHY YOU SHOULD BE USING DATING APPS! 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.600 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:05.960 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:08.320 my kissing style with. 0:00:08.160 --> 0:00:10.960 The boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:13.840 a trash bin, he's non recyclable. Catching him up. 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:17.200 I love being love. I love love. 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:20.079 On today's episode of Where's Your Head Out, we are 0:00:20.160 --> 0:00:24.599 chatting all things dating apps hinge, bumble, Tinder, rayer. 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:25.280 You name it. 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:27.680 We will share the best dating app stories, give you 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:30.000 some tips and what types of photos to share and 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:31.760 what prompts will get you the most swipes. 0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:32.800 Stay tuned. 0:00:37.760 --> 0:00:40.159 Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:45.560 things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:48.559 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:57.600 intimate details, advice, and much more. Hello Matt, Hello Anna, 0:00:57.840 --> 0:00:58.440 how are you? 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:01.000 I'm good? Matt's made me a couple of tea this morning, 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:05.000 which I'm feeling a very lucky acts of service. 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:05.840 Anna loves that. 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:07.280 I love access. 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:10.880 Isn't that I put a dash of cold cold water 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:11.680 in there for you as well? 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:12.840 I think cold milk. 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:16.039 They take it back, but I put a dash of 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:17.920 cold water in there, so you can drink it now. 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:19.479 Thank you. I appreciate that. 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:21.679 Right. It's all about the thought, isn't it. 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:25.679 It is today we're talking about dating apps. We were 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:29.120 talking the other day and we realized that every single 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:33.080 guest we've had on in the relationship kind of area. 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:37.720 So whether realms should we say everyone in the relationship realm, 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:42.400 whether they be confidence coaches, whether they be dating experts, 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:45.920 whether they be sex coaches. They've all said the same thing, 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:50.000 and that is that dating apps are so important when 0:01:50.360 --> 0:01:53.120 dating at the moment in this day and age, because 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:58.000 anyone who's single, usually at some point in their single time, 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:00.520 is going on dating apps and it's just a really 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:01.920 great way to meet people. Map. 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:04.880 Yeah. So, I mean there's a bunch of what I reckon. 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:06.800 Every single person, at some point, like you said, a 0:02:06.920 --> 0:02:10.640 pass in their single realm of being single, get jumped 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:12.160 on one of these apps to see what's out there 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:15.680 in their local area, or sometimes I might even download 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:18.320 it and put their location where they're traveling. 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:21.880 Yeah. I was about to say some of my best 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:25.840 dating app experiences have been when I've gone on holiday 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:28.160 and I've been like, let's see who's in the area 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:29.480 whilst I'm on holiday. 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:32.600 Like I remember when Josh and I first broke up. 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:35.760 I went to Hamilton Island with my family and I 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:37.440 actually put my location there like. 0:02:37.400 --> 0:02:38.640 A week before arriving. 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:40.960 You get any matches or Yeah? 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:44.799 I actually ended up seeing a guy from Queensland. You'll 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:45.799 probably remember him. 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:49.040 But yeah, great way to meet people, especially if you 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:50.880 know you're on an international holiday. 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:54.560 Maybe you're in Bali. I know Bali dating apps go off. 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:58.520 I know that on TikTok people go on about how 0:02:58.840 --> 0:03:03.120 the guys inner on dating apps are like to die for. 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:05.600 They're all like ten out of ten models, and they're 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:08.520 like on their dating apps being like, am I like 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:12.320 looking through like a model catalog? Apparrently they're just that 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.600 good looking. I wouldn't know, but that's what I've heard. 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:18.079 Do you still have to pay to get the experience 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:21.480 of traveling and moving your thing to different while you're 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:22.320 in a different suburb. 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:25.080 I've never paid anything on a dating app, have you? 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:29.920 Yeah? I pay for a premium, coming from someone that 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:33.120 has never actually met up with someone off a dating. 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:35.200 Apps, So what does a premium give you? 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:42.800 This is going years back. Unlimited swipes, unlimited super likes, maybe. 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:45.200 Oh, okay, how many super likes are you handing out? 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:50.640 I have a question, actually, go on fireway okay, if 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:52.800 you're giving a super like to someone, is that coming 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:53.680 across too keen? 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:56.240 You know what I mean? Like you want to kind 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:57.960 of play it cool initially when you. 0:03:57.960 --> 0:03:59.560 First meet you want do you want it? 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:02.160 But if you really want to stand out because you're 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:02.960 in a dating. 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:05.800 App, I don't know. I think I guess it could 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:07.080 come down to a lot of things, and I reckon 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:10.320 it would come down to the other person's personality. If 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:12.280 I saw a super like, I'd go, oh, they're keen. 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:14.560 Yes, I would I I'd go When I was on 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:16.680 dating apps and a guy would like super like me, 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:17.960 I was like too much? 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:21.400 Yeah, is that bad? No, I'm the same. But then 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:23.680 if I was giving out a super like, I'd be like, oh, 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:27.000 well this is I'm not keen, this is like they'll understand, 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:30.480 but they're probably like, fuck, this guy's key. 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:34.200 So dating apps is so much to talk about. So 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:36.080 let's just jump straight in, shall we. 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:42.279 Let's do it? Don't Well, we know you've been on 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:45.080 dating apps. You go a band from Bumble. 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:45.840 That was banned from Bumble. 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:49.120 You met Michael on Hinge. Yep, what's your opinion on 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:49.760 dating apps? 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:53.800 I mean, I think they're so positive. I have a 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:57.080 couple of single friends, and I am the biggest advocate 0:04:57.520 --> 0:04:59.560 for dating apps because I just feel like they're so 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:03.040 valued in what way, Well, it's highlighting the people who 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:05.880 were single and who were like looking to meet someone. Obviously, 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:08.720 every dating app, in my opinion, is for something different, 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:09.720 Like I. 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:12.920 Feel like Tinder is more about sex. But I could 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:13.359 be wrong. 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.560 This is just like obviously I haven't been on dating 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:17.400 apps for a couple of years now because I've been 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:21.240 in a relationship. But in my opinion, Hinde is kind 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:24.400 of like the app that you go on, I guess 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:27.480 to meet a boyfriend. I would say Tinder is more 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:31.599 of a sex app. There's obviously Raya if you're looking 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:34.000 to meet a celebrity. 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:34.880 Have you heard of Raya? 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:38.360 Yes, I have three different avenues of Raya. Join an 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:40.280 Express a little bit before we go on to Raya. 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:42.800 Though I actually think the opposite. I think Tinder's more 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:46.040 for a relationship and no Way Yea. I found when 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.880 I was really hindres more for a hookup. 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:50.279 No Way. 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.320 That's my experiences with them. 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:54.800 Okay, guys, tell us what you think on our Facebook page. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:56.160 You need to get to the bottom of that. I 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:58.800 definitely think Tinder is more of like a hookup type 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:02.000 of app. Bumblers like more relationship again, because like the 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:03.479 Girls in Control. 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:07.840 Never used well you know, never used it. I just 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:09.720 I just yeah. But then again, like I've always said, 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:11.800 I never met up with anyone off a dating app. 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:13.760 I just used it like a hungover. 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:18.920 Swipe, a serotonin, a couple of likes the next day. 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:19.400 Yeah. 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:22.040 Well back to Raya. Yes, Raya. 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:25.880 Firstly, for anyone who doesn't know what it is, it 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:29.960 is a dating app. It's a private membership based social 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:33.640 network and basically you have to be invited onto Raya 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:37.960 by a current member of Raya. Then if it's a membership, 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:41.200 I'm not sure because I've never been on Raya. I 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:44.920 did apply ones and I didn't get accepted. 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:46.839 Why's that so? 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.880 Ray is like a very exclusive club. It's kind of 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:52.080 like the VIP lounge that no one can get into. 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:53.560 In fact, only. 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:57.640 You've been in VIP Lounge just a lot different. 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:02.440 Well, I look, eight percent of applicants get accepted to Raya. 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:05.719 It's kind of like a celebrity app. So I went 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:11.080 on directly after breaking up with Josh, or at least 0:07:11.120 --> 0:07:14.480 I tried to. I applied to be on RAYA, and 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:18.640 I got the kind of like message of like, well, 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:25.080 we'll let you know, you know that, like whole thanks, 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:29.760 we'll call you, don't call us hyper VISs, it's us, 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:30.360 not you. 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:32.120 That's kind of what Raya gave me. 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:37.680 But then I found out some like secret little intel, 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:44.120 which is that there's a Melbourne influencer who is kind 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:48.600 of employed by Raya and she kind of gives people 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:52.600 the green light or the red light. And this specific 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:56.480 Melbourne influencer and me do not get along. 0:07:57.640 --> 0:07:58.160 And so. 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:02.640 This is not me saying that I feel like I 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:05.480 should be allowed onto the app, but I. 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:07.400 Thought you would have had a better chance if they 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:12.880 weren't doing the the selection. The selection interesting, Well, I 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:18.480 don't know if I applied. I am that you definitely 0:08:18.760 --> 0:08:22.080 if I applied, but I don't actually remember applying, if 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:23.720 you know what I mean, I feel like I have, 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:28.200 and that would and that would explain why I wasn't 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:32.520 allowed on as well. Just realized because yeah, so that's 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:34.400 troubably what she used probably well know. 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:40.559 Because I know this because Michael, my now fiance, Michael, 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:44.680 who works at Channel nine, was accepted onto RAYA. 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:48.960 So my fiance Michael was on RAYA and we both 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:49.920 couldn't get on RAYA. 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.520 Now I'm not saying that we deserve to be on 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:58.679 more than Michael, but we were on a national TV. 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:02.000 Show, international, technically, whatever you want. 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:02.760 To call it. 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:07.320 We were on pretty popular TV show and I kind 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:13.400 of felt like, no offense to Michael, but since this 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:21.320 is like this super exclusive kind of well dating app essentially, 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:23.800 I felt like maybe me and you. 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:28.040 Potentially had a better chance than Michael. 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:32.320 But Michael knew this person, so she gave him the 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:36.000 green light. So that means that I know how I 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:38.840 did start this conversation by saying that I think, but 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:42.760 I'm pretty pretty ninety nine percent sure that she didn't 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:45.679 allow both of us onto the dating app, So not 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:46.439 very nice. 0:09:46.520 --> 0:09:48.880 What are the actual credentials to get onto this app? 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:49.880 What do you need? 0:09:50.120 --> 0:09:53.600 So basically you need to be invited by someone who's 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:57.199 already on there. So I had two friends who were 0:09:57.200 --> 0:09:59.400 on there. One was my friend Carris who was Miss 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:03.920 Universe Australia. She invited me on there. My friend Kylie 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:07.760 who's big in media. She is also on there. She 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:10.240 also invited me and a third person by to me, 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:13.079 so it's three different people in me onto this app. 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:15.960 Still couldn't get on, So you need an invite. 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:21.480 You need to have at least five thousand Instagram followers 0:10:21.520 --> 0:10:24.320 and an account that looks real. So I mean, you know, 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.480 I think both of our accounts would I would I 0:10:27.720 --> 0:10:31.360 personally no bias here, but I would both of our 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:35.439 accounts are real because is before you could buy verification 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:38.600 as well. So yeah, there's lots of different I don't 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:41.040 want to sound salty about this, like I think my 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:43.400 life has unfolded exactly the way it needed to. 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:44.680 I'm happily engaged. 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:47.240 But you could have met Michael, and I. 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:48.679 Could have met Michael on RAA. 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:54.600 But nonetheless, Michael and I did match on Hinge yea, 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:57.640 and we never spoke on Hinge, but we did match 0:10:57.679 --> 0:11:00.400 on Hinge and then we ended up meeting out, which 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:03.600 I guess is a great excuse to have dating apps, 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:07.480 even if you have no desire to actually meet a 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:10.280 random person off a dating app, just to even be 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:12.920 able to match with people and to kind of be 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:14.920 able to pick them out in a room because you 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:17.720 know that they're single. I mean, that's a great reason 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:19.520 to have a dating app, even if you don't want 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:19.880 to match. 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:22.360 Well. I always said, I've never met up with someone 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.280 off a dating app where we've been messaging on the 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:26.040 app and said, hey, let's get to dinner or hey 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:28.840 come around that. I've had a couple of times where 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:32.160 a girl and me have matched and then followed each 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:35.160 other on Instagram through that, so that's sort of like 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:37.400 the same thing, and then meet each other out a 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:39.559 couple of times, and then you know one thing that's 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:41.280 another move, going on a date or so on. But 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:46.240 I've never used the app as a dating platform of 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:47.520 talking to people in that way. 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:49.320 But people use it in different ways. 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:52.679 Maybe you're just not using it in like the quintessential 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:56.760 way of like match chat, meet up, but you're still 0:11:56.880 --> 0:11:59.400 using it and it's still a tool in your toolkit 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:03.120 to potentially meet someone. And I think, and that's exactly 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:05.520 what happened with me and Michael. I went up to 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:09.680 him that night when we were being guest. 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:12.360 Judges on Beating the Geek, and I knew. 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:14.160 That he was single because we had matched on Hinge, 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:16.760 and it kind of gave me the confidence to go 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:18.640 up to him and say Hi, I'm anna, because you know, 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:21.520 when you're single, you never want to walk up to 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:24.440 someone who could potentially be in a relationship and introduce 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:26.680 yourself and they're like, oh, sorry, like I'm in a relationship. 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:30.480 Like that's a bit awkward. Rights, that's bad, and you 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:34.160 feel bad. You're like, oh, whoops, see never mind, you 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:34.800 know what I mean? 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:37.080 Do you know what you mean? I looked for a 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:40.320 bunch of other celebrities if that had been knocked back 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:43.400 from Raya as well, and the person I could find 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:44.280 with Jackie. 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:47.600 O Kyle and JACKIEO she didn't get. 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:49.800 She got knocked back as well, and she's got some 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:51.400 beef with this Melbourne influencer. 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:55.720 It probably stitched her off on an interview, which sounds 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:56.280 out right. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:59.959 Thing, But yeah, I mean there's lots of different dating. 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:04.040 I think Hinge is my favorite only because I feel like, well, 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:06.320 I mean, let's just let's talk about it. 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:10.560 So after breaking up with Josh, I probably saw like 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:13.880 four maybe five guys. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.680 Off Hinge of all off Hinge, every single one of 0:13:16.679 --> 0:13:21.560 them off Hinge and every like. So basically how I 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:23.800 would do it is I'd match so I mean, I 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.280 was like a bit I don't know, it's a bit mean, 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:27.720 but I'm just gonna be honest. 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:30.280 I would set my height to like six. 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:34.200 Three and above, so they had to for them to 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:36.880 show up, they would be six three and above, because 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:40.320 I'm obviously you can dictate like the guy's high that 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.319 you see, so obviously. 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:43.439 Poor short kings. 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:45.840 It's nothing against so short kings. 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:49.400 But I'm five eleven and a half naturally standing on 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:52.200 the ground and with heels, I'm six two to six three. 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:55.040 So I just wanted someone who was kind of in 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.920 my height range. I don't think that's too much to ask. 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:01.240 If you want to judge me for that, then feel free. 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:03.480 I'm going to own it because I didn't want to 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:06.600 end up with someone who I was towering above. 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:08.680 You could dictate the height, so you condict. 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:10.920 When I was on Hinge, you could dictate the height, 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:15.360 so I would set my height. And then obviously there 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:17.960 wasn't a huge pool of men right for me to 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:20.080 choose from, so pretty much like the people who I 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:23.520 matched with, I would probably remember them or recognize them 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:25.760 if I saw them in public, and so like, I 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:28.960 went on a few dates from Hinge and I think 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:31.160 there was only one that was shit, and it was 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:33.640 when you saved me and I made Matt come and 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:37.440 pick me up. But all of the other dates were amazing, 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:42.000 like we got along. I remember initially I once I 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:44.960 met this guy, Initially, I was like, oh no, I 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:46.680 don't know if this is a good idea, and I was. 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:48.280 Getting all freaked out and I was getting in my head. 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:51.080 And then I was like, I just he was tall. 0:14:51.120 --> 0:14:51.880 He was like six two. 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:55.880 Maybe yeah, maybe my height was six too then, but anyway, 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:59.120 I was in my head and I was like, shit, chit, shit, 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.000 I don't want to be here freaking out, freaking out. 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:04.520 And then I was like, Anna, relax, it's one date. 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:08.160 You're having a drink with this guy. Just be open minded, 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:10.640 get to know him as a friend, and just see 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:11.120 how it goes. 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:14.840 And I did and it was great. Like it's fun as. 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:17.560 Long as you're being safe and like putting measures in 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:20.480 place in case, like you know, someone's not who they 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:22.640 say they are or whatever it might be. As long 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:24.880 as you're doing everything safe. The worst thing that can 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:27.800 happen is you have a date, have a shit date, 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:29.080 but a great story. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:31.120 And you could maybe get possibly a drink or a 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:31.880 feedbaught for you. 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:36.680 But you know what I mean, Like, I feel like 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:40.920 dating apps are such like a great way to meet 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:42.600 new people who you never would have met before. 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:45.200 I agree they're a good tool if used correctly or 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:48.000 used they you can use them in different ways. But yeah, 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:50.560 who's to say what ways right to use the dating app? 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:52.400 You could have someone that's using it non stop to 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:55.080 try and find someone, or someone that was like a 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:57.160 someone like me that was just cruising in and out 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:58.240 and just. 0:15:57.480 --> 0:16:01.080 Were just a Sunday I know a lot of my 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:03.640 mates that are Sunday swipers. Okay, So as a guy, 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:07.360 I have a question for you. When you're swiping left 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:10.840 and right? What stands out to you? Is it like photos? 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:14.119 Is it what they're saying and they're written content? 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:15.920 Is it a mixture of both? 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:19.840 Like honestly, okay, call me shallow, but I think that 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:24.240 personally it goes off photos in the way they look. 0:16:24.320 --> 0:16:26.640 That's what you're going off. The written content. What's the 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:28.080 buy one hundred and sixty words? 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:30.680 I have no idea it's not. 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:32.360 And then there's a couple of stupid questions you have 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:35.080 to answer on him. If I remember correctly, this and like, 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:37.960 how clever can you be in those questions? Like, there's 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:39.960 you know what I mean, there's nothing that stood out 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:41.240 to me that I was like, huh. 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.520 So basically you're saying, as a guy, the only thing 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:47.320 you look out on dating apps realistically personally for you. 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:48.280 Is the photos. 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:48.720 Photos. 0:16:48.800 --> 0:16:52.680 Yeah, which is fine. Yeah, it's you know, that's kind 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:54.480 of what it's there for. It's kind of like window 0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:57.680 shopping but people. But then again, I said I was 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:00.080 a swiper. I was a swiper, so I wasn't. But 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:02.800 when you say you're a swiper, are you swiping yes everybody? 0:17:02.800 --> 0:17:04.480 Are you swiping no to everyone? Or are you just 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:08.400 kind of mindlessly, you know, state of being very hungover, 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:10.119 just going left right, left, right, left. 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:12.440 Right, left right, whatever, off the looks. I'll swipe through 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:14.800 their photos, see what see what they look like, see 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:17.080 what actually but they enjoy doing, See what they're you know, 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:18.800 see what their photos have to offer. 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:21.600 If you if you see someone who you really really like, 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:24.440 are you going to be like seeing their instagrammer if. 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:27.000 Their Instagram handle was there, I'd copy and paste and 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:31.159 see what they're doing in there. Maybe move it to 0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:32.480 that conversation. 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:35.000 To Instagram rather than the dating. 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:36.800 Yeah, more than the dating app. 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:39.679 So you're not even really reading those bios. 0:17:39.840 --> 0:17:43.840 I personally wasn't. I mean you look at them obviously, 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:45.199 you'd have a look at them and see what they 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:49.399 had to offer. So there was no like standout red flags. 0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:52.199 Yeah you know what I mean. But everyone's putting their 0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:54.840 everyone's putting their best foot forward on these apps, sort 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:57.160 of like well, do you know what I mean? 0:17:57.280 --> 0:18:02.399 Like I can't lie either. I very much was looking 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:07.720 at mainly photos. But if someone was like a maybe 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:10.960 and then they said something funny, I was like, yes, 0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:13.360 what can you say funny? There's a lot you can 0:18:13.359 --> 0:18:16.119 say funny. I mean people can have like a funny 0:18:16.119 --> 0:18:18.639 photo and then they can have a witty caption underneath it, 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:19.000 Like there's a. 0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:20.600 Lot that you can say photos. 0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:25.199 I thought it was like underneath it, that's right, yeah, true. Yeah, 0:18:25.240 --> 0:18:27.880 So there's things that people can do to get them 0:18:27.880 --> 0:18:30.040 over the line where they're like a maybe, but then 0:18:30.040 --> 0:18:31.080 they say something hilarious. 0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:32.640 Because I don't know if. 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:37.000 You know this, but most girls are looking for a funny, witty, 0:18:37.000 --> 0:18:39.800 interesting guy, someone who's going to be fun, who's going 0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:42.440 to bring a lot to the table. So if someone's 0:18:42.480 --> 0:18:46.439 like mediumly my type. And when I say that, like, 0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:50.359 I'm not picky in regards to like, you know, like 0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:56.080 if they if they're hitting the high range, I'm pretty happy. 0:18:56.560 --> 0:18:57.600 As long as they're at tall. 0:18:58.040 --> 0:19:01.160 No no, no, no, no no no, not Doull's dish order. 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:04.240 I'm saying, they have to have an amazing personality. 0:19:04.920 --> 0:19:06.120 I mean, I would. 0:19:05.840 --> 0:19:10.560 Personally always say that with all of my boyfriends. Personality 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:14.359 has always come above looks, as in it would be 0:19:14.440 --> 0:19:17.719 personality followed by high followed by looks. 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:22.840