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Speaker 1: This is the Fitzy and with Kate Richie podcast. Can

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Speaker 1: I tell you where I'm at socially? Now? This is

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Speaker 1: one of the key things when it comes to socializing,

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Speaker 1: and that is remembering somebody's name like it's a skill.

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Speaker 1: I've never been confident with it. I've always admired your

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Speaker 1: recall on names and people in detail. I've never really

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Speaker 1: had it, I'm not, but you're good, even with names

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Speaker 1: of movies and actors and bands and musicians.

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Speaker 2: I find it so fascinating, though, that there are certain

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Speaker 2: people in my life that I see regularly and that

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Speaker 2: I cannot remember their name.

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Speaker 1: For some reason. Sticking point, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why. Whereas I can meet someone only

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Speaker 2: once and for some reason a couple of years later

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Speaker 2: remember their name's just associating them with someone in your life.

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Speaker 2: I think that's the way that you do it.

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Speaker 1: I went to the foot eat with Lisa and the

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Speaker 1: kids a while ago, and this girl came over and said, Hi,

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Speaker 1: how are you going? Great to see your wear? I

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Speaker 1: turned around and I went, how are you Sarah? Sarah

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Speaker 1: had worked at a hotel we stayed out three years ago.

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Speaker 1: What extraordinary? But you bring someone past the office over

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Speaker 1: here that's worked in the building for ten years, and

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Speaker 1: I look at them and go, oh my god, I'm lost.

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Speaker 1: Did you fancy Sarah from No I.

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Speaker 2: At that job for a while, I had.

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Speaker 1: No idea, And my fear of getting the name wrong

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Speaker 1: has grown and grown over time. You doubt yourself every time,

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Speaker 1: Kate Richie, I'm almost sort of hiding away a concern

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Speaker 1: that I'm going to make a mistake. And then the

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Speaker 1: other day we were at Bounce right for a kids party,

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Speaker 1: so we're at bout dangerous for you. I was bouncing

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Speaker 1: before I'd got on the trampoline. I was just coming

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Speaker 1: down the stairs and my left breast was all over them.

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Speaker 2: It was caning three kids.

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Speaker 1: Never even are they okay? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: My left one's all been bigger than my right summer.

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Speaker 1: I think if you pay for them, you're right minor

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Speaker 1: natural anyway, So we're it bounced and there was one

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Speaker 1: of the other moms that came up and said hello,

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Speaker 1: and myself and this lady, her name was Louise. We

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Speaker 1: were standing there having a chat with Lisa and I

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Speaker 1: at the minute I met her and I did the

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Speaker 1: whole nice to meet you, and she said I'm Louise,

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Speaker 1: and I went, bang, Louise is your name? But that's

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Speaker 1: my sister's name. Perfect and oh isn't it perfect? And

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Speaker 1: I thought, you know what, I'm not going to forget

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Speaker 1: that name. Got it? And I felt so confident. Two

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Speaker 1: days later, I'm rolling out of the supermarket, rolling and

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Speaker 1: bouncing everywhere extremely. I was cart wheeling out of the supermarket. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and I saw the face. Now this was fantastic because

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Speaker 1: different environment, walking a dog, had a hat on, a

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Speaker 1: completely different outfit, and I bang, got it. So I stopped.

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Speaker 1: We're having a chat. I'm so excited about knowing her name.

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Speaker 1: I'm almost trying to get out of the conversation because

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Speaker 1: I wanted her to walk off, and so she was

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Speaker 1: so impressed so I could say goodbye, Louise, great to

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Speaker 1: see you, Louise. Awesome, Louise. Like, I was concerned that

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Speaker 1: I was looking rude at how quickly I was trying

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Speaker 1: to wind up the chat because I wanted to show

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Speaker 1: off that I remember her.

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Speaker 2: And do you know what, you use it too much?

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Speaker 2: Every time you address her. You use her name because

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 1: It, Louise. I felt like the anxiety of when I

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Speaker 1: was about to use the name was building, so my

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Speaker 1: chat was becoming quicker. It was almost like somebody that

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Speaker 1: was about to jump off a diving board. They'd been waiting,

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Speaker 1: they'd got their turn, and now it was And she

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Speaker 1: walked off, and I went great to see Lisa No,

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Speaker 1: because I knew that there was some connection to me.

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Speaker 1: It started with was it my sister or my wife?

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Speaker 1: I went with Latha Louise, and then I sat there

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Speaker 1: on a park bench waiting for her to come back,

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Speaker 1: in the hope of saying see Louise. After I'd realized

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Speaker 1: my mistake. She thinks you're so strange. She didn't know

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Speaker 1: an other words starting with l It's in Whippa with

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