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Speaker 1: I want the fairy Tale, I want the prince charming.
Speaker 2: She how do I put? This? Isn't a fan of
Speaker 2: my kissing style.
Speaker 1: Boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours.
Speaker 2: He's in a trash bin.
Speaker 1: He's non recyclable.
Speaker 2: Catching her muf I love being love, I love love.
Speaker 2: You're definitely airport hot. If I was, if I didn't
Speaker 2: know who you were, I'd be staring at you and
Speaker 2: I was like, baby, I'm everywhere.
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Speaker 2: Anna, and welcome to twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty four, and it's feeling good.
Speaker 2: Isn't it big year ahead of us, big year for you,
Speaker 2: big year for me? What have you got planned?
Speaker 1: Well, I mean my turn on of the week, it
Speaker 1: has to be it. It's wedding year. We're officially in
Speaker 1: wedding year, like less than five months until my wedding.
Speaker 1: That's flowing my mind. Still have so much to organize,
Speaker 1: but also just so excited. I'm a twenty twenty four bride.
Speaker 2: It's amazing. I can't believe that suck up so quickly.
Speaker 2: It has, Like his house, the planning going, Are you there?
Speaker 2: Are you?
Speaker 1: Like? Planning is going okay. I just think it's all
Speaker 1: going to fall into place, Like I'm not that worried
Speaker 1: about it. That looks worried because like, get that wedding
Speaker 1: sorted up a long way weird.
Speaker 2: It's just all going to happen when I get there.
Speaker 2: Do you have a wedding planner?
Speaker 1: No, we don't have a wedding planner. But the lady
Speaker 1: who owns the estate is helping us find vendors who
Speaker 1: are local to the area.
Speaker 2: So bendors like food supply.
Speaker 1: Vendors, so yeah, like the people who are going to
Speaker 1: do the catering, the lighting, the DJ all of that
Speaker 1: kind of stuff to make the party happen and fun.
Speaker 1: Have they found an MC We still don't have an
Speaker 1: em that we still don't have to taking my.
Speaker 2: Heart out of the ring? Yeah, I'm not interested anymore.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize there was a time of it on that.
Speaker 2: Yeah there is, you know it should it's corrected it.
Speaker 2: I should have had to call up by now.
Speaker 1: I mean, what happened to twenty twenty four, New Year,
Speaker 1: New Me, positive vibes.
Speaker 2: I would assume I would have had to call up.
Speaker 2: That's five months I got to work on my material.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to have it in time.
Speaker 1: Matte, you were ever working on any sort of material?
Speaker 1: I know you too well. Don't even try to play
Speaker 1: that card. What's your turn on of the year? Week?
Speaker 2: Mine is a new Year, a new me. I'm going
Speaker 2: to be the best version of my star and I
Speaker 2: can't wait to put my best foot forward for the
Speaker 2: new Year.
Speaker 1: I actually love that. And this episode we're actually doing
Speaker 1: what's in for this year and what's out? And I
Speaker 1: can't wait to touch on that because we have some
Speaker 1: real goodies in there. Before we get into that. What's
Speaker 1: your turnoff of the year?
Speaker 2: Pretty much on my turn on. My turn off is
Speaker 2: that recently, I've been so busy, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: flying in a bit slack, flying in and out. I've
Speaker 2: just been doing a lot of work, you know. It's
Speaker 2: the pointing end of the year, everything trying to seal
Speaker 2: everything off. So I just haven't been going to the gym,
Speaker 2: and it's really been a turnoff for me, especially not
Speaker 2: going to the sauna. I'm starting to realize how much
Speaker 2: I appreciate the sauna these days.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, that's your me time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't been in a while, and I just
Speaker 2: want to get into it. I might look buying myself
Speaker 2: a sauna.
Speaker 1: So at least it's where would you put it?
Speaker 2: Put it in my bedroom, I guess, or out the back.
Speaker 1: So you can't put a tuna in a bedroom. It
Speaker 1: doesn't work like that.
Speaker 2: I'll figure it out. I just yeah, I need to
Speaker 2: go sauna more and go to the gym more. And
Speaker 2: on that being the I sposure to myself, I'm going
Speaker 2: to go to the gym a bit more.
Speaker 1: Yeah, fair enough for my turn off of the week.
Speaker 1: I think my turn off has just been that I've
Speaker 1: been super busy, and I think now that we're in
Speaker 1: summer holidays, a lot of people are off work. I
Speaker 1: think it's just a reminder to slow down, to take
Speaker 1: it easy, to take some meatime, even if you're not
Speaker 1: going away, try and get to your local beach or
Speaker 1: try and you know, just go out in your backyard
Speaker 1: and relax, do nice things, read a.
Speaker 2: Book, go get brunch with a friend, catch up with
Speaker 2: all those friends that you are Otherwise during the year,
Speaker 2: when you're busy, you don't get to see I know
Speaker 2: that it happens all the time. Now when you get older,
Speaker 2: it's just like, yeah, you don't get time to hang
Speaker 2: out with people. So on the break, make sure you
Speaker 2: can do a lot of that sort of stuff.
Speaker 1: And I think learn to say no sometimes it's good
Speaker 1: to just not have a busy calendar. Even if you
Speaker 1: could have potentially gone to a friend's gathering, just say
Speaker 1: no if you're not feeling up to it. Just have
Speaker 1: some mea time, focus on self care. And I think
Speaker 1: that's so important, especially in January, just before the year
Speaker 1: is about to start. Like we all have such high
Speaker 1: hopes and expectations for our year. You know, we've both
Speaker 1: said this is our year, this is our time to shine.
Speaker 1: We're so excited, but also take some time for your
Speaker 1: emotional health and just take a chill, pil relax. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's twenty twenty four. We have some inns of the year, Matt.
Speaker 1: Do you want to start us off?
Speaker 2: The first in is working out, So what I said
Speaker 2: before as my turn off of the week, I want
Speaker 2: to work out a lot more. I've been slack having
Speaker 2: getting to the gym, So an inn is going to
Speaker 2: the gym.
Speaker 1: Next in sex three times a week. I think sometimes
Speaker 1: when we get busy, our sex life can sometimes fall
Speaker 1: it the wayside, and I think it's time to just
Speaker 1: like get those sex drives back up, have spontaneous sex.
Speaker 1: Surprise your partner.
Speaker 2: No one's three times a day.
Speaker 1: Don't even act like you're doing.
Speaker 2: That's being nice to strangers and people in general. So
Speaker 2: like that, you know, when you get busy, Like I'm
Speaker 2: not guilty of it, but I find myself sometimes, you know,
Speaker 2: forgetting to say thank you, or like just being in
Speaker 2: my own head when I'm rushing around in that and like,
Speaker 2: you know, you could get served or something and you
Speaker 2: forget to say thank you, then I will, for my
Speaker 2: damn it. I've known myself to walk back and say
Speaker 2: thank you, Just be like thanks for that, because like
Speaker 2: you're just in your own head, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: There's nothing more attractive than just being nice to everyone,
Speaker 1: being nice to strangers. And then also just like not
Speaker 1: having a guilty conscience of being like, oh, I wish
Speaker 1: I wouldn't road rage that poor guy the other day.
Speaker 2: Or whoever it is, poor old lady driving the.
Speaker 1: Poor old lady who like was literally having such a
Speaker 1: nice day until I beat the living daylights out of her,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like having a guilt free conscience,
Speaker 1: and I think just having that positive energy where you
Speaker 1: know that you've been nice to everyone, and I feel
Speaker 1: like the universe rewards you for that.
Speaker 2: It definitely does. Another one is reading the newspaper more
Speaker 2: in books, so I want to My mate buys a
Speaker 2: newspaper every day and he reads it and that's an effort. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he would always date if you had the day off,
Speaker 2: he'd go get the newspaper and sit down and read it.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I think that's a good way. I
Speaker 2: get a lot of my news through like Instagram and
Speaker 2: TikTok i, I follow a lot of pages, but maybe just
Speaker 2: sitting down reading the newspaper, taking in my news that
Speaker 2: way I can see you doing it might be a
Speaker 2: lot better.
Speaker 1: I'm definitely on board with reading more. I think it
Speaker 1: also just improves your grammar and your spelling, being able
Speaker 1: to read quickly. I'm a slow reader anyway, but I
Speaker 1: think when I do read books, my reading just gets
Speaker 1: really fluent, and I think that's something that I want
Speaker 1: to do more of this.
Speaker 2: I'm undiagnosed dyslexic, so like you can definitely.
Speaker 1: Read a book or two for sure. Definitely new hobbies. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is a big one. I really want to get
Speaker 1: into pottery. I've said it to you a couple of
Speaker 1: times this year. In twenty twenty four, I'm going to
Speaker 1: book into my first pottery class. I'm going to bring
Speaker 1: a friend, and I really want to get into it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're more than welcome to come. We could even do
Speaker 1: like bring Michael, you could bring Tammy.
Speaker 2: You know you've seen from.
Speaker 1: Ghost, could read create a scene from Ghost. Whatever the
Speaker 1: hobby may be. I just think it's so good to
Speaker 1: be able to put your phone down and actually just
Speaker 1: focus on something that isn't work related, that isn't you know,
Speaker 1: money making related, and just be able to switch off
Speaker 1: the brain that way. I think that would be so
Speaker 1: cool and I'm definitely doing that this year.
Speaker 2: The next one's dressing up. Does it's mean role playing?
Speaker 2: I didn't write this one.
Speaker 1: No, I think dressing the way that you want to
Speaker 1: be seen, dressing like a CEO, going to meetings and
Speaker 1: dressing up, and you know, I sometimes fall into the
Speaker 1: trap of just being in my active wear. I'm currently
Speaker 1: an active wear right now, but dressing up, not wearing
Speaker 1: the same thing every day. Dress for the dress for
Speaker 1: who you want to be. Yeah, I think that's the
Speaker 1: big one. I love that.
Speaker 2: I've always said that. Another one is saving, big one
Speaker 2: for me, Yeah, putting some money aside and saving. I
Speaker 2: know it's hard over the Christmas break saving You've obviously
Speaker 2: got all the presents, holidays and all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 2: So I think a good one would be saving. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think as well. With like weddings coming up, I'm
Speaker 1: really like emphasizing saving money this year, and I think
Speaker 1: we'll talk a lot about the wedding on the podcast
Speaker 1: and saving money and how to save money. So definitely
Speaker 1: one of my priorities this year.
Speaker 2: Another one would be respecting people closest to you. So
Speaker 2: I think that, like, sometimes you take people close to
Speaker 2: you for granted. I know I'm guilty of this with
Speaker 2: my mum, my sisters, and even my partner sometimes that
Speaker 2: I just, you know, I take it for granted that
Speaker 2: they're there, and not that I don't disrespect them, but
Speaker 2: I I'm not the kindest to them because sort of
Speaker 2: when I'm with them is my unwinding time, and I don't.
Speaker 1: You're not trying to impress, trying to impress, Yeah.
Speaker 2: You know, slip into just being like just relaxed and
Speaker 2: on my phone sometimes ignoring them, not listening to everything
Speaker 2: they're saying. And I want to be better at that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that, and I couldn't agree more. That's
Speaker 1: definitely on my list of inns this year in twenty
Speaker 1: twenty four. Respecting the people close to you, the people
Speaker 1: you care about the most, and the people that probably
Speaker 1: probably have the biggest effect on your mental health, so
Speaker 1: you really want to like nurture those relationships. Absolutely. This one.
Speaker 1: I love adding chili oil to your food because God,
Speaker 1: I love chili oil. If you're a chili person and
Speaker 1: you like spicy food, chili oil is just so good.
Speaker 2: I'm not big on I used to be huge on
Speaker 2: chili and spicy food, but in my old age, I've
Speaker 2: sort of come back. I'm like, I don't I don't
Speaker 2: like it anymore. Really, Yeah I used to love it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you did used to love chili oil. That's interesting
Speaker 1: to me because your gut just a bit, a bit off.
Speaker 2: I mean, it doesn't tickle on the way in, but
Speaker 2: it definitely hurts on the way out.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about our outs of twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1: The first one is burning out overworking ourselves. We are
Speaker 1: all guilty of this. I think we all live such
Speaker 1: a busy life. We're all on the grind and we
Speaker 1: go from thing to thing to thing, and sometimes we
Speaker 1: just don't take time for all ourselves and you burn
Speaker 1: out and it's not cute, it's not fun.
Speaker 2: And on that as well. Overthinking, So just overthinking. I'm
Speaker 2: the worst at overthinking, and I'm trying to get better
Speaker 2: at it.
Speaker 1: But yeah, my remedy for overthinking is gratitude. And it's
Speaker 1: so good because when you're overthinking things, you just start
Speaker 1: listing things you're grateful for. And I think Michael's mum
Speaker 1: actually told me this quote and I just think it's
Speaker 1: resonated with me so much. She's like, why worry about
Speaker 1: something twice? Like anxiety and overthinking normally happens when you're
Speaker 1: worried that something will happen. Well, if it does happen,
Speaker 1: then you're gonna have to worry about it if you
Speaker 1: worry about it before it happens, and you're worrying about
Speaker 1: it twice, So don't bother worrying about it twice this life.
Speaker 2: I'm not worrying about it. So then we speak about
Speaker 2: heaps as well. Alcohol. Yeah, I'm just, you know, I'm
Speaker 2: just I think the culture around it's changed a lot
Speaker 2: from what I'm hearing from people, and I think alcohol,
Speaker 2: I'm leaving that out as much as possib Obviously we're
Speaker 2: wedding special occasions, but just not drinking as much, not
Speaker 2: binge drinking and knowing my limits that I think I've
Speaker 2: learned so well.
Speaker 1: Even last year when people were going on school is
Speaker 1: there was a lot of chatter around the fact that
Speaker 1: the year twelve were much better behaved, binge drinking wasn't
Speaker 1: as bad of a thing as it was when we
Speaker 1: were younger, and I think people are just it's not
Speaker 1: a lot more aware. No, it's not.
Speaker 2: I don't think it is anymore, Like if I imagine,
Speaker 2: I think I thought it was because I was old,
Speaker 2: when we're older now.
Speaker 1: But I just think that, like, it's just not it's
Speaker 1: just education. Yeah, you know, when people in our parents'
Speaker 1: generation like used to go into sun beds all the
Speaker 1: time and it was like cool to be tanned and
Speaker 1: that type of vibe. I think there was just a
Speaker 1: lot more education around sun beds, and then people stopped
Speaker 1: going in them because they actually care about their skin
Speaker 1: health and they care about the fact that like one
Speaker 1: in two Australians are going to get skin cancer in
Speaker 1: their lifetime. And I think the education is so much stronger.
Speaker 1: And I think education around alcohol is starting to get stronger.
Speaker 1: Even the fact that there's alcohol companies who are now
Speaker 1: making non alcoholic versions of their drinks. I think that's
Speaker 1: so cool and like so interesting. You know that I
Speaker 1: didn't drink for the end til twenty twenty three basically
Speaker 1: at all, and I'm going to continue that throughout twenty
Speaker 1: twenty four. Of course, I'm going to start so much healthier,
Speaker 1: so much clearer, less fuzzy, like more sharp.
Speaker 2: It's a present just suppresses you totally.
Speaker 1: So I think twenty twenty four, obviously we're leading into
Speaker 1: the wedding. I'm going to have a couple of drinks
Speaker 1: here and there. I've got my hands party coming up.
Speaker 1: You know, we just celebrated New Year. I had a
Speaker 1: drink there, and I'm going to pick and choose things
Speaker 1: that I'm going to drink at and I'm going to
Speaker 1: have fun. But I can also have fun.
Speaker 2: Well that's it. People without it, people pull me out,
Speaker 2: they go, oh, well, you drink here in that. I'm like,
Speaker 2: but I'm not drinking as much as I would normally.
Speaker 2: I'm not drinking as often as I used to. I'm
Speaker 2: just picking it for the right time, So serve me
Speaker 2: that I want to drink at. Another one on that
Speaker 2: as a suppressant is mindless scrolling. I need to stop
Speaker 2: scrolling on the Instagram TikTok. Just as I say that,
Speaker 2: pick up my phone, but I go stop taking that,
Speaker 2: like just yeah, that's the suppress and you get stuck
Speaker 2: in those.
Speaker 1: All is as well is when you want to like
Speaker 1: unlind right, you pick up your phone to unwind, but
Speaker 1: it actually doesn't unwind you. So you just need to
Speaker 1: remind yourself of that and be like, Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: put this down. We've spoke about the hobby or like
Speaker 1: going for a nice walk or doing alternative things, reading
Speaker 1: a book, doing alternative things to being on a device,
Speaker 1: because all you're really doing, if someone's looking from the
Speaker 1: outside in, you're just sitting. That's all you're doing. Your
Speaker 1: mind might be moving, but you're just sitting. And we
Speaker 1: just want to be more active in twenty twenty four,
Speaker 1: So scrolling is out through twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2: Also, one is just gossiping about people, I mean like
Speaker 2: our Yeah, yeah, just talking about people that you don't know,
Speaker 2: like friends in that or like bitching and inventing and
Speaker 2: all that sort of stuff. Like I'm just done with that.
Speaker 1: You're just hooking your own energy onto someone else instead
Speaker 1: of just like focusing on you and bettering yourself.
Speaker 2: Just focus on yourself and people around you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And when you think about bitching about someone or
Speaker 1: talking tog negatively about someone brings you down, Yeah, move
Speaker 1: the conversation along and actually just catch yourself before you
Speaker 1: do it, because I think it's it's all about just
Speaker 1: being in tune with what the person you want to
Speaker 1: be and catching yourself out before you actually go into gossiping.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: The next one is staying in relationships that don't serve
Speaker 1: you anymore. That's out this year. If you and someone
Speaker 1: else have grown apart, sometimes you just have to let it.
Speaker 2: Like I said, we're all busy. Sometimes you fall apart,
Speaker 2: and if you can't catch up with someone as much
Speaker 2: as normal, maybe then it's probably right. It doesn't serve
Speaker 2: you anymore, Like I mean, staying your relationships could be
Speaker 2: with a partner as well. You're not feeling it anymore,
Speaker 2: like and you just with them because it's comfortable in
Speaker 2: the sake of it, like you know, maybe look at
Speaker 2: breaking up with them. Ye, friends, jobs who go as
Speaker 2: far as like you know, clothes and actual material items
Speaker 2: like your car or closing that if you don't use
Speaker 2: them anymore, just if they don't serve you, get rid
Speaker 2: of them.
Speaker 1: Break up with them, wake up with it absolutely. And
Speaker 1: the final thing that out this year is impulse buying.
Speaker 1: I'm such a.
Speaker 2: Culprit or a victim.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a victim of impulse buying. I do it regularly,
Speaker 1: especially when I'm stressed. I find myself to say it.
Speaker 1: It's a dopamine hit. You get new things and you're like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm happy again. I'm not doing that anymore. We're saving
Speaker 1: this year, and there's no impulse buying.
Speaker 2: I used to be such an impulse buyer, like I
Speaker 2: would have it on Amazon or like bidding on things
Speaker 2: and buying stuff all the time. And I learned pretty
Speaker 2: quickly that I'm not going to save if you're doing that.
Speaker 2: So that's like I've been off that and I've been
Speaker 2: sober now maybe for three years, three years clean of
Speaker 2: impulse buying. It's just a quick dopamine hit.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, guys, that's our ins and outs of twenty
Speaker 1: twenty four. Head over to our Facebook page to add
Speaker 1: to our list. We want to hear from you guys.
Speaker 2: Okay, and so this am I the asshole comes from
Speaker 2: an anonymous person. They say, hello, Anna and Matt, I
Speaker 2: want to ask you if I am an asshole. I
Speaker 2: went up to my family's holiday house over the summer break,
Speaker 2: where on a night out I met this beautiful man.
Speaker 2: We hit it off and had heaps of sex and
Speaker 2: a real summer romance. We agreed to catch up when
Speaker 2: we got back to Sydney for some drinks and take
Speaker 2: off where we left it. But when he picked me
Speaker 2: up straight away, I did not see an attraction to
Speaker 2: him anymore. I want to break it off with him
Speaker 2: now that I do not find him hot. Am I
Speaker 2: the asshole? Love you guys.
Speaker 1: So basically, she has met a guy on holiday, was
Speaker 1: really into him, and then came back home and she
Speaker 1: was like, he's not that hot anymore.
Speaker 2: Dragon asked was the dating pool wherever she went to
Speaker 2: the holiday house? I'm assuming it was somewhere, you know,
Speaker 2: not as big as like Sydney, and there wasn't as
Speaker 2: many people there, and he was the best that there
Speaker 2: was there.
Speaker 1: I reckon, Well, this has come up a lot recently
Speaker 1: that people who are situationally hot. Have you heard of that?
Speaker 2: I have, and I saw an episode of Seinfeld about
Speaker 2: it recently as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So, like if you're at a gym and like,
Speaker 1: no one is like really tickling your fancy and then
Speaker 1: someone more attractive than the average person at the gym
Speaker 1: walks in, then you're like, oh, they're hot. But if
Speaker 1: you they're gym hot, they're gym hot. But if you
Speaker 1: take that person out of the gym and into normal life,
Speaker 1: they're not as hot as you thought they were interesting.
Speaker 2: So this could be like really any situation like work.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so if like, no one's really tickling your fancy
Speaker 1: at work, and someone's a little bit above average, you
Speaker 1: see them at work every day, you're like, oh, they're
Speaker 1: really attractive. Outside of the workplace, are they as attractive?
Speaker 1: Probably not.
Speaker 2: So they work hard, they work hot. Okay, airport hot
Speaker 2: as well. I remember that when we were at the
Speaker 2: airport the other day. Tammy was like, you're definitely airport hot.
Speaker 2: If I was, if I didn't know who you were,
Speaker 2: I'd be staring at you and I was like, baby,
Speaker 2: I'm everywhere hot.
Speaker 1: Of course you would say that, only they would say that.
Speaker 1: Of course you said that. But airport hot is a
Speaker 1: thing like people talk about this a lot on TikTok
Speaker 1: about how like people give each other the eyes at
Speaker 1: airports because they're airport hot, and I.
Speaker 2: Don't give anyone the eyes at the airport. Yeah, now
Speaker 2: they do I or we're both taken.
Speaker 1: But aeroplane hot as well on the air that would
Speaker 1: be the same as well. Okay, I've got one. What
Speaker 1: about a person in uniform talking about air hostess hot,
Speaker 1: like someone dressed up an air host or host deess.
Speaker 2: I can see that, and they're what, they're in normal
Speaker 2: clothes and they're not as hot, not as hot.
Speaker 1: Because they've not got the airport's slickbun and the red lipstick.
Speaker 2: It's hat that would go for something as like as
Speaker 2: even as far as like tradees. Maybe that when the
Speaker 2: trade takes off his uniform, the shit stash and the
Speaker 2: mullet aren't as hot when they're not in the fluos.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, do you know what I mean? The same could
Speaker 1: go for like nurses, doctors. Yeah, I think a doctor
Speaker 1: hot is a vibe like a doctor in scrubs.
Speaker 2: And I can see that a pilot on a plane.
Speaker 2: A lot of those pilots are not hot, but a
Speaker 2: lot of girls swimming over him because they're walking with
Speaker 2: their uniform and their little suitcase.
Speaker 1: What about holiday hole, Like you're on a single girl's
Speaker 1: or boys trip, you see someone on holiday, maybe you'd
Speaker 1: be more willing to hook up with someone on holiday
Speaker 1: than if you met them wherever you live.
Speaker 2: I think that's a thing that's definitely I've definitely been
Speaker 2: guilty of that. So I think this anonymous girl is
Speaker 2: she's not an asshole. I reckon it's a thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's not an asshole. I remember I like met
Speaker 1: this guy when I was in Bali and he was
Speaker 1: from Perth and I was like obsessed with him on
Speaker 1: holiday and we like sent the week together. We obviously
Speaker 1: like I went back to Melbourne and he went back
Speaker 1: to Perth and then he was like, I'm going to
Speaker 1: move to Melbourne for you. And I was like so
Speaker 1: into him that as soon as he said that, I
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know if I feel the same,
Speaker 1: A bit strong. I was like, cat, you never.
Speaker 2: So I reckon, she's not the asshole. We'll take it
Speaker 2: to you guys. Do you think she's the asshole or no?
Speaker 2: Let us know, let us know. Let's wrap it up
Speaker 2: with a red flag or a green flag? Anna you
Speaker 2: go cursed?
Speaker 1: Okay, used as words in the wrong context.
Speaker 2: Personally victimized. Here, ah, green flag. You just didn't study
Speaker 2: at school. And he just you know, just maybe, like
Speaker 2: I said, is maybe dyslexic and he just doesn't understand it.
Speaker 2: I don't get words, these words on scripts, these words
Speaker 2: just don't This is I didn't write this, our producer
Speaker 2: wrote this.
Speaker 1: You've taken this very personally. He's sulking in the corner.
Speaker 2: I think it's a green flag. It's cute, it's endearing.
Speaker 2: Tammy likes it that I can't. She recoggests to discipher
Speaker 2: everyone in my message from the.
Speaker 1: Moment, doing it now, diaper or decipher.
Speaker 2: Decipher, decipher my messages every time I message her. She
Speaker 2: knew from the start that yeah, it's not it wasn't
Speaker 2: looking good. It wasn't looking good for me. And how
Speaker 2: I typhoon that you needed to get a spell lessons.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I think for me, if I was dating someone,
Speaker 1: it would maybe be a red flag. But I actually
Speaker 1: do think it's endearing. Like I'm constantly correcting you on words,
Speaker 1: and I don't think it's like a red flag. I
Speaker 1: think it's just like here, let me like help you.
Speaker 2: I just don't. Yeah, I just think that there's way
Speaker 2: worse red flags out there than that. I have one
Speaker 2: for you.
Speaker 1: Okay, I can go for it.
Speaker 2: Picky eater, red flag, red flag.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it kind of annoys me because I'm like, just
Speaker 1: try things.
Speaker 2: I've dated vegetarians.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're actually very I think you've been quite like understanding,
Speaker 1: like you've dated like vegetarians and vegans and like nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with being vegetarian or vegan, but you're like unbothered
Speaker 1: by it completely, Whereas like I think if I dated
Speaker 1: a guy who was like vegetarian or vegan, I'd be like,
Speaker 1: oh damn, that's annoying.
Speaker 2: Well, it got annoying, say when we went to like tar,
Speaker 2: we've got pizzas or something like that, and we couldn't
Speaker 2: share it, so we're getting like separate meal. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 2: Or like Chinese where it's obviously like a sit down
Speaker 2: chare sort of thing. That's when it would get not annoying.
Speaker 2: I'd be understanding of it. Definitely let them order. So
Speaker 2: I'd order one meat and then two vegetarians, and then
Speaker 2: I would order and eat from theirs. And I'd eat
Speaker 2: a lot of tofu in those relationships.
Speaker 1: But I don't eat any tofu.
Speaker 2: You don't any tofa. I ate a lot of tofu.
Speaker 1: Do you eat tofoo? Now? No?
Speaker 2: Why would I?
Speaker 1: Because yeah, eats meat me But.
Speaker 2: On tammy though, I had a mate that we were
Speaker 2: going through the macs dry through. This was a while ago,
Speaker 2: were coming home drunk and we're going home to his
Speaker 2: misso and he was like, did this random as of order?
Speaker 2: And I was like, who's that for He's like, for
Speaker 2: so my girlfriend when we get home, and I was like,
Speaker 2: what is that all about? Like he was like, no pickles,
Speaker 2: no onions, no this we can put this like this
Speaker 2: barbecue sauce on the cheese. And I was like, that's.
Speaker 1: Actually cute that he knew all of that.
Speaker 2: Though, well, in his defense, he only knew that because
Speaker 2: he had a list on a phone of her likes
Speaker 2: and dislikes.
Speaker 1: That's nice still that he's like made an effort to
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 2: Well, I have done and made an effort for Tammy.
Speaker 2: So I have a list of her dislikes and a
Speaker 2: list of her likes on my phone now, so now I.
Speaker 1: Know food wise, Yeah, food wise, what's her dislikes?
Speaker 2: I'm really throwing her under the bus here. Cucumber eggs,
Speaker 2: Benny Boy, which is my favorite. I don't like, you know,
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 1: I don't like egg yolk though. Do you know that
Speaker 1: about me?
Speaker 2: No? I didn't. I don't have a list for you Anna.
Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm not expecting to.
Speaker 2: I just letting you know, mint mint in any of
Speaker 2: her meals or anything like that.
Speaker 1: But she'll eat chewing gum.
Speaker 2: No, she actually if you if I notice, think about
Speaker 2: it now. She never gets mint flavor chewing gum. She
Speaker 2: always gets strawberry flavored. Ah. Okay. If I think about
Speaker 2: caesar salad, baby corn and mushrooms, don't care for baby corn,
Speaker 2: you know, I don't care.
Speaker 1: I love caesar salad.
Speaker 2: I love caesar. I love caeesar salad.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh, I could actually go with caesar salad after there.
Speaker 2: Same, I love them that dressing.
Speaker 1: It's a good January meal as well, Like you know,
Speaker 1: you're eating a salad, but it's like so fulfilling.
Speaker 2: Oh, it's unbelievable. I love caesar salad, so it's got
Speaker 2: like you know, the chicken in the dress. I love them.
Speaker 1: Just no egg yolk for me, but yeah, well I
Speaker 1: love the egg as well.
Speaker 2: On there, I like egg white jokes are a nicer
Speaker 2: bit though.
Speaker 1: I don't not according to me and my palette.
Speaker 2: So I think I think that's a I reckon. That's
Speaker 2: a beige flag. If green flag, it's pretty tammy for
Speaker 2: just in general being a picky eater.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's like a bit of a red flag.
Speaker 1: If you're a picky eater, I think as long as
Speaker 1: you eat most things, then it's okay.
Speaker 2: I think it's a fair bump play on green flag.
Speaker 2: I'm just a very understanding guy.
Speaker 1: I'm going to say red flag.
Speaker 2: I'm an understanding guy. If you don't like something, you
Speaker 2: don't like something.
Speaker 1: True.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm pretty easy going. I just don't go out
Speaker 2: of my way to eat some stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Fair enough. Okay, guys, we hope you're having an
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