1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome back to another episode of Just for Girls. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: Let's produce a blake here again. Sam's settling back in 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: after her trip away, and Izzy is slowly making her 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: way back. I think it's a few days now, but 5 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: until then, we're dropping some of our favorite episodes we've 6 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: ever recorded. I've given you a few guest interviews, but 7 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 1: today I'm going to give you one of my favorite 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: horror stories ever, and that's in law horror stories. You 9 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: can't get much juicier than that. Like every time I 10 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 1: hear one of these stories, I'm fully sad. Tell me 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 1: everything and in the most detail possible. But from memory, 12 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: this was like one of our most intense episodes. So 13 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: I'm just going to drop this here, let you enjoy. 14 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: We can't wait to talk and catch up very surely, 15 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: and until then, have a lovely week. 16 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 2: She started running at my friend with her vists in 17 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: the air, and she went to swing at her, but 18 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: my boyfriend had gotten the way and started holding the 19 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: mum back. 20 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 3: The fucking demons this woman would have happened. I was 21 00:00:55,800 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 3: just thinking that Happy Tuesday, Joes. 22 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 4: Welcome back to out Just for Girls podcast. Welcome back 23 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 4: to me Just for Girls, podcast. 24 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 2: It's funny our news reporters like they do have to 25 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: like change their voice. 26 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, they really do. 27 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, I wonder if they have to go into 28 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 3: training or it's just kind of like an environmental thing 29 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 3: that they ended up adjusting to each other. 30 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 4: Wait, whoa. 31 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 2: Now, it's like when someone says like, you'll be like, oh, 32 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 2: like I'm really good at like a British accent or something, 33 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 2: and then when someone goes like do it, You're like yeah, 34 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 2: Like I was about to try like a news reported thing, 35 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 2: but then I was like, I'm. 36 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 3: Talking to this guy on Instagram and he has an 37 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 3: English accent and he keeps on sending me voice members 38 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 3: and then I said the voice memo back and I'm 39 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 3: like starting to mock him, and. 40 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 4: He literally, did you mocking me? 41 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 2: I'm like, I literally don't mean it, Like the whole 42 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 2: time I was speaking to. 43 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 4: That English guy. Yeah, I'm like, sorry, I don't be 44 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 4: a babe. And I just loved it. I actually the English. 45 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 2: Accent is like an afrodisiach for me. I think it's 46 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: the best. Yeah, really hot, it's really hot. 47 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 3: But on today's episode, we are doing like in law 48 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 3: horror stories or like boyfriends, parents, just like. 49 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 4: I feel like some of these are going to be 50 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 4: really interesting. 51 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of the ones in our 52 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 2: d ms, which we haven't read them yet, obviously, our 53 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 2: producer uses them for me, but for you, just you, I. 54 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 3: Pick my own, you said, My producer picks them for me, 55 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 3: for us, for sorry. 56 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 2: She's a good character whom you are in my life, 57 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 2: in my story, and i'm your side piece in your story. 58 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 4: No, you're my main character. We're the same. You're the 59 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 4: main character in your own story. 60 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 3: No, i'd say we're equal in my stories. 61 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, well that's nice. I'm not Leo those. 62 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 2: But the classic one I think will come will have 63 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 2: come up a lot, is that. 64 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 4: The mum wants to data son. 65 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's always a hard one. When the sun the 66 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 3: mom is in love with the sun. But I feel 67 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 3: like it's just not spoken about it. I feel like 68 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 3: in our minds it's like a fairy tale thing where 69 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 3: you have the best relationship with your in laws, but 70 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 3: it's not a common thing. 71 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 4: I think it's really hard. A lot of people have 72 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 4: a lot of. 73 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 3: Issues with the in laws that she just not spoken 74 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 3: about you. 75 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 4: She never want to speaks about that. 76 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't date that person for these parents and 77 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 2: you were just now have to deal with these yents 78 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 2: and you put it up, put up with them because 79 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 2: you're like, well, I love their kid. Yeah that's why 80 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 2: I'm here. But it's like you did not choose these people. 81 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 4: You know what I mean. I'm very blessed. 82 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 3: My first boyfriend only had a mom. I never met 83 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 3: the dad, and I was really close with the mum 84 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 3: and it was really good because I was like sixteen. 85 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 3: And then my last relationship, he was an only child, 86 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 3: so I kind of was like then ended up being 87 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 3: one of their kids and they loved me as well. 88 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 3: So I'm very blessed with my in laws have been. 89 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 3: I don't have anymore, but like have been very blessed 90 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 3: with them. 91 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 4: My first one was fine, lovely. 92 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: The mom was actually really sweet and would always like 93 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 2: try and give me her clothes and makeup and stuff. 94 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 4: And it was really here. Yeah, I'm just gonna not talk. 95 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 4: The other one, Yeah, for the best. Yeah, I don't 96 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 4: want you to get a lot. 97 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 2: She is just like that was in an ideal situation basically, 98 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: but in saying that, that happens to a lot of people, 99 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: and you know, not going to dish it on someone's parents. 100 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 4: So fair. 101 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 3: So you guys can because you're all anonymous, So it's 102 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 3: all fine, you guys. You guys can absolutely let loose 103 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 3: on this podcast. But do you have a recommendation of 104 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 3: the week? 105 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 4: Is it? I feel like we haven't done one for 106 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 4: a while. I actually do. 107 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 2: I am really liking the Isle of Paradise moisturizer. 108 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 4: Yeah you love that. 109 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the pink one. There's like a yellow one, 110 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 2: a pink one, and it smells so good. But I 111 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 2: always buy it when I'm going on a holiday in 112 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 2: the sun because it's a nice consistency. It doesn't make 113 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 2: you feel too sweaty, but it's really really moisturizing, and 114 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 2: I never feel when I use it, like even if 115 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 2: I mean this un too much, like it will kind 116 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,039 Speaker 2: of protect my skin, they won't feel. 117 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 4: So it's roller God and it smells roller God. 118 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 3: Nice. Would recommend a mine is also another thing that 119 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 3: we were all using on holidays. I'm not sure if 120 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 3: I've already spoken about it, but it is it as 121 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 3: me bodyglow oil. I have planted again in my TikTok 122 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 3: the other day and everyone's like, what is this? 123 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 4: It's fucking goaded. 124 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:05,799 Speaker 3: It's so good, Like I'm loving esme at the moment. 125 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 3: I really really like the way it makes my skin look. 126 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 4: But yeah it's the as me body. I just love 127 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 4: the way it makes me feel. Yeah, I just do 128 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 4: it makes me feel good. Yeah, fair enough, but yeah 129 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 4: it's the best. 130 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 3: And then like put it on your chest when you're 131 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 3: wearing like a low cut thing so nicely. 132 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 2: Sometimes even put it on the prior even doing my 133 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 2: makeup or anything like, because I'll put my top on 134 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 2: for the night and then I'll put it on because 135 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 2: once it even settles into your skin, if you don't 136 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 2: like that oily feeling when you're leaving the house, say 137 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 2: it's spali or it's like really hot. Once the oil 138 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 2: sinks in, the sparkles still stay on your. 139 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I don't think it's really oily. No it's not. 140 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: But it's like if you want to just put it 141 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 2: on for the sparkles, the sparkles do stay once the 142 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: oil like sinks in, And so it's really nice. 143 00:05:47,640 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 4: So would recommend it's time for question when can we 144 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 4: stop that? Never? We have to keep on running with it. 145 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 3: Now, do you know one thing we really need to 146 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 3: do though, we need to get like a hard hitting intro, 147 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 3: like we don't have that. 148 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 2: We all just gotay welcome Mack. Yeah, I totally agree 149 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 2: with you. 150 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 3: No, we're so uncreated. 151 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 4: Pre recorded intro kind of that. 152 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:23,919 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, well we have our classic like copyright 153 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 3: free music that everyone the tags and see when like Gloria. 154 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 2: Jeans such just a girl's intro. Well, I don't listen 155 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 2: to that music very much. No, I don't dislike it. 156 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 2: I thought I would have gotten over it, but it 157 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 2: gets me in a good movie. 158 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it really does, all right. 159 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 3: Easy if you sold the rights to an entire life 160 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 3: to Netflix so they could pick one specific period, phase 161 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 3: or experience and turn it into comedy, what would yeah, okay, 162 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 3: what would they choose to make the movie about, or like, 163 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 3: what period of life would they pick. 164 00:06:55,640 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 2: That would say, my first relationship and breakup would be 165 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 2: the biggest comedy part. 166 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 4: In my life. It would they laugh at you? 167 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, okay, I was a fucking nutback 168 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 2: It would look it was a shitty situation. I think 169 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 2: the way it all came out as well is just 170 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 2: like so unusual, do you. 171 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 4: Know what I mean? 172 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, what part like obviously he was sleeping with 173 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: my best friend, but her mum was actually the one 174 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 2: that told me that that added happened, and it just dragged. 175 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 2: It was just a yeah, it sucks, but I'd say 176 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 2: that is like I probably made the biggest full of 177 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 2: myself during those couple of years of my life. 178 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 4: You know, fair enough? 179 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah, you Mine would probably be like a 180 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 3: remake of like Reality TV of Wild Child when I've 181 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 3: lived in the school comedy. Yeah, but like reality TV 182 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 3: can be comedy. Well, I feel like that, like even 183 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 3: Wild Child, it would be good. Yeah, Like it's just 184 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 3: like real life me living in a boarding school with 185 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 3: one hundred and twenty boys and like navigating that as 186 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 3: like a fucking teenager in the. 187 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 4: Middle of puberty or were you at that point? 188 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 3: I was from eight to twenty eight years old. 189 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 4: Too, when I was twenty. Fuck ya. 190 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 2: I was going to say, imagine if that was like 191 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 2: happening when you were older, but like you were twenty. 192 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, but yeah, it was. 193 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 3: Good when I was older because I was older than 194 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 3: the boys. 195 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 4: But when I was their age. 196 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 3: I was like fuck me, yeah that and all my 197 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 3: friends wanted to come over and I was like, no, 198 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 3: they totally. 199 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 2: Would have just used you for like that you're not 200 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 2: a good friend of people you want to be your friend, 201 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: but like a lot of some girls would have been 202 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 2: like committed dinner at yours tonight. 203 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 4: With the hope that they could like go have dinner 204 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 4: in the morning. I spell the. 205 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 3: Boys one when I was younger, when I was like eight, 206 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 3: and stuff, like when I was in primary school, all 207 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 3: of my friends wanted to come over to my house 208 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 3: because I lived at a school, so we had all 209 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 3: the playgrounds and everything like that, and everyone loved it. 210 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 3: And then when I transitioned into high school, everyone wanted 211 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 3: to come over because they were near the boys and obviously, 212 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 3: and they all would talk to the boys on Snapchat 213 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 3: and then they would want to come and be like 214 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 3: seen over there. But one time I did take my 215 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 3: friends because we had a rowing regatta early the next 216 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 3: morning and it was my mum's turn to drive us 217 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 3: all down, and they came to a boarding house dinner 218 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,719 Speaker 3: before and my friend Night said she was like I 219 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 3: never fucking want to come again, Like that's hell. I 220 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 3: was like, fair enough, Like you guys all glamorize this year, 221 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 3: but really reality is you're like three girls in your uniform, 222 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 3: sitting in your uniform because the dinner is so early. 223 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 3: It's even at six o'clock, so by the time you 224 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 3: get home from school to the carriage down. 225 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 4: The food was pretty good. 226 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 3: It's like a huge buffet and everything you walk around 227 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 3: with the plate and then. 228 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 4: Like stop for me would be my worst time, No, 229 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 4: but it's actually like good food. But it's like walking into. 230 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: A room, yeah, and you have to stand there in 231 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 3: a line, and then you walk through the line and 232 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 3: you like pick your salads and you pick your fucking desserts, 233 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 3: and then you go. 234 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 4: Into this huge hall and to carry on. 235 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and the tables are like seated for twelve people, 236 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 3: so if your family isn't all there and you don't 237 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,559 Speaker 3: have a table to fill up, you could just be sitting. 238 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:49,599 Speaker 4: Next to it. 239 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 3: You're twelve a fuck, yeah, but you don't talk. 240 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 4: God, you don't talk. 241 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 3: That that good because they're too scared to talk to you. 242 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 4: They're way too scared to talk to you. 243 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 3: But then they'll snapchat you after because is like your 244 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 3: dad's sitting next to you, they're not going to fucking 245 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 3: speak to you. Borders, and then like dining hall directors 246 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 3: and sometimes teachers will. 247 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 4: Come there as well. 248 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but the whole dining hall is filled with like 249 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 3: two hundred people. 250 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 2: So what would your soundtrack to this boarding school thing be? 251 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 3: Well, I feel like it would be our Jospher Girl's 252 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 3: playlist from one of music. Yeah, we've got every it's 253 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 3: got everything. It's got an array of music, and like 254 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 3: a lot of it is a bit of a throwback 255 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 3: from that period of time, Like we've got some old 256 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 3: hits that are like I'm like, fuck, yeah I did, 257 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 3: because I used to make video stars and to covers 258 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 3: of them and then I used to go make the 259 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 3: borders watch them. So there are a few of those 260 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,839 Speaker 3: music songs like the Justin Timberlake songs, and. 261 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 2: People ask like what's your what's your like, what's your 262 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 2: favorite sort of type of music? It's like old, like 263 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 2: like thousands, like R and B, like the. 264 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 3: Twenty thirteen, like the Summer Hits CD play. 265 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 4: That's just like such up. But I'm like, we don't 266 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 4: need you now because it's on the just Girl playlist. 267 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 3: We curated that into a playlist, So I feel like 268 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 3: that is just the perfect playlist for me, and it 269 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 3: always is going to be. Like the other week I 270 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 3: had my Cami Citron shoot and we played the Miller 271 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:16,320 Speaker 3: was like, oh, do you guys have a playlist to play? 272 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, josph girls playlist. Hello, go on 273 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 4: to my Spotify. 274 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 3: It's like right there and just like press shuffle babe. 275 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 3: And she was like, this is really good. 276 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 4: I was like, it's a hype up play It is 277 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 4: really good. 278 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 2: It's good for like, yeah, it's a prese playlist to 279 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 2: getting ready playlist. Yeah, when you want to feel good 280 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 2: about yourself. I think it's great. It hypes me up 281 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 2: for I actually was going on a first day and 282 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 2: we played it on the TV. 283 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 4: On the TV we did because it gets me. It 284 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 4: gets me in a good mood and it's something that 285 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 4: we go for. Girl, I can do this. Let's fucking go. 286 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 4: And then when I drove you, we popped it on 287 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 4: as well. 288 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 3: Little It's all good. It's it's so good. 289 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 4: There's no skips. 290 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, So make sure you guys if you need a 291 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 3: little playlist to get you pumped up for a date, a. 292 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,559 Speaker 4: Photo shoot, anything, you want, a. 293 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 3: Day of school, Yeah, oh that'd be great on the 294 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 3: time or the train. Yeah, fucking don't bop your head 295 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 3: too much. 296 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 2: We do have that just for girls playlist with Warner Music. 297 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 4: It's amazing, So give it a. 298 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 3: Listen, Give it a listen. We love you and we 299 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 3: love Warner Music. Let's go into in law. 300 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 4: Your actually really excited. 301 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, the in laws submission. Let's go into story number one. Okay, hey, girls, 302 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 3: I love the partty, It's my favorite time of the week. 303 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 4: Anyway, into the story. 304 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 3: It's good. 305 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 4: Thank you. 306 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 3: I'm so excited for this because it's gonna make me 307 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 3: feel so good anyway. 308 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 4: Because I just think in laws are fucked something fucked. Yeah. 309 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 3: I was dating this guy for just under two years. 310 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 3: He was lovely for the most part, but we just 311 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 3: weren't right for each other. We have different cultures and 312 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 3: different religions. That's hard when you have to like really 313 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 3: kind of like dive into their culture and stuff like that. 314 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 3: But you are, you're so new to it. 315 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 4: You don't know what's going wrong. 316 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 2: I've never experienced that, but I can imagine that, having 317 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 2: clash like different religions. 318 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, be very challenged. 319 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 3: Like I'm watching this movie, this show which you guys 320 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 3: should watch. 321 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 4: It's called Not Right Oh the Time with Seth Cohen, Yes, 322 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 4: Adam Brady. 323 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm like is this play about me? 324 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 4: Like they have a podcast they struggle with dating, and 325 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 4: she's date dating a rabbi. 326 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 3: No, but I'm like she has struggled with dating. She 327 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 3: is struggling with dating. They have a podcast that they 328 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 3: talk about sex and relationship. 329 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 4: I could date Adam Brody. I don't think he's hot 330 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:24,680 Speaker 4: at all. 331 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 2: You need to watch him in the OC Seth Karen. 332 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 2: He's just like he's got the best character in that show. 333 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 2: He's such a nerdy little geek, but he's so fucking 334 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 2: witty and funny. 335 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 3: But he's a rabbi and she's not Jewish, and he's 336 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:40,079 Speaker 3: like tries to get her to become Jewish and like get. 337 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 4: Her a party of culture to get her to become Yeah, 338 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 4: and she like kind of like really duves into it. 339 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 3: But then she like is introduced to the Jewish family 340 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 3: and she's not Jewish, so she's kind of rejected by 341 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 3: the family. It's very interesting, but like it does remind 342 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 3: me of like when you start dating someone who is 343 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 3: from a different culture or religion. 344 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 4: Of culture, I expect there's kids to date from that. 345 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, like Mormon religion, Like if you want more in God. Yeah, 346 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 3: So it's good yeah, you want to watch it. It's 347 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 3: like something you put on in the background. 348 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 4: It's an easy one. 349 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 2: I've gone back to suits, so I've got nine seasons 350 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 2: of that. I had them move before I continue. 351 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 4: Anyway. 352 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 3: He was from South Africa and Christian, and I'm from 353 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 3: Victoria and I kind of believe in whatever I want. 354 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 3: We did a year of long distance, and then I 355 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 3: moved from VIC to Queensland to be with him and 356 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 3: we lived together for six months. During the time of 357 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 3: long distance, his parents were lovely and welcoming, but when 358 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 3: it came to us moving in together, they then decided 359 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 3: they didn't approve of it and they wouldn't support us. 360 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 4: There are some where way this is getting with you serious. 361 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 3: You're non Christian and you're not married and you're meant 362 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 3: to live together. Oh yeah, Christians don't You don't move 363 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 3: in until you're. 364 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 4: Married, right. Yeah. 365 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 3: We lived together for about five months and then we 366 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 3: visited the family for two weeks and in that time 367 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 3: his dad set him up with three other girls and 368 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 3: told him to break up with me. So they probably 369 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 3: bought in like three Christian girls and was like these 370 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 3: are your women. Love. 371 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 4: It was like in the time that the girlfriend's also 372 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 4: there though. Yeah, that's fucked. 373 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's giving like arranged marriage. I had 374 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 3: to give those girls a chance while I was staying 375 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 3: in their house. 376 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 1: That's fucked. 377 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 4: That's so. 378 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, like we really don't like you, so I've brought 379 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 3: in three other options from my son, I. 380 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 4: Would just while you're sleeping here. Fuck, that's fuck. 381 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 3: Then I went back to home to visit family for 382 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 3: a week, and in that time his dad kept on 383 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 3: saying how he needs to break up with me because 384 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 3: I'm not the same religion and offered him money to 385 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 3: do it as well. Safe to say, we're not together anymore. 386 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 3: And he listened to his dad, well. 387 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, it's fucked, so insulting, horrible, but it's like, 388 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 2: seems like they weren't right for each other anyways. 389 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, so my fuck the headache of like all of 390 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 4: that shit, Like. 391 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you really love them, you know you'll push 392 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 2: through that sort of stuff. But at the beginning, she says, 393 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 2: we just weren't right for each other anyways, So it's like, yeah, 394 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: it was bound to end at some point. He probably 395 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 2: just wanted to like the money and run. That's crazy though. 396 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 3: But like so hard that your parents. Parents are literally 397 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 3: offering money to not be with you. 398 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 4: You're like, all right, I'll just fucking walk out. 399 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 3: Don't give him money, Please. 400 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 4: Take the money. 401 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 2: I feel like, Yeah, some in laws are subtle, but 402 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 2: this is just direct. We don't fucking like you we're 403 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 2: bringing in. Imagine seeing that, like, you're dating this card 404 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 2: for two years and three girls have just walked into 405 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 2: this house to go on little dates with him while 406 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 2: you're the head. 407 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 3: I imagine if you were one of the girls and 408 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 3: you're like, what, you have a girlfriend? 409 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 4: Why am I here? 410 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 2: Hey, guys, never thought I would have a story to 411 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: write in. That's crazy, but the weak can prove me wrong. Also, 412 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 2: this is a recent reason. Yeah, I saw you doing 413 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 2: horror stories, So I guess it kind of fits. Let's 414 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 2: title it ex mother in law tries to hit me 415 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 2: and to the girls. 416 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 4: Fuck, that's going to be the title of this week's episode. 417 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 4: Yeah fucking hell. All right. 418 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 2: So for backstory, me and my ex broke up two 419 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 2: years ago and we have both now found new partners 420 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 2: and have been dating them both for around a year. 421 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 2: Safe to say we both moved on, just maybe not 422 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,919 Speaker 2: his mum. We were both okay, we both shared a 423 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 2: friend group, so after we broke up, we stilled camping 424 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:12,920 Speaker 2: trips and we both shared a friend group, so after 425 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 2: we broke up, we stilled camping trips we both went on, and. 426 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 4: Birthdays, etc. Where we would see each other. 427 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 2: I drifted from the group once I found my new partner, 428 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 2: so I haven't really seen any of them for a while. 429 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 2: On the weekend, my sister's boyfriend, who was still friends 430 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 2: with them all, said we should go to the casino 431 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 2: later tonight, as we were already having drinks at mine. 432 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 2: He said all the others would be there because it 433 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 2: was my ex's new partner's birthday. Awesome, Okay, well it 434 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 2: seems like them to each other are fine. 435 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, which is nice. 436 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 2: My sister's boyfriend said to them, or we could all 437 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 2: catch up if we ended up going. So it was 438 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 2: about twelve thirty by the time we got to the casino, 439 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 2: so some of them had already left, but we ended 440 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 2: up seeing a couple of our old friends in a 441 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 2: seated area, so we went over to say hi. 442 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 4: A little went by and I saw my ex's. 443 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 2: Mom's your ex's mom with the casino. Oh, eauce, it's 444 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 2: the new partner's birth birthday, Briethday. We then I realized, oh, 445 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 2: it must have been like a proper sort of family 446 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 2: birthday thing. I said hi and asked her how she was, 447 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 2: and she said hi in a moody tone. 448 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:14,199 Speaker 4: Why is she being petty? 449 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 3: Like? It seems like you and your ex boyfriend are 450 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 3: on great terms. 451 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 4: You don't really care? 452 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 3: Why is the mom who's like forty years older than 453 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 3: all the petty? 454 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 2: Yeah unless it's cheating, Yeah, have some fucking respect. 455 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, like no one else seems to care, babe. Yeah. 456 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, okay, turn back around, because I've 457 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:32,879 Speaker 2: seen her since the breakup and she wasn't rude to 458 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 2: me or my sister or anything. Then she looked pretty drunk, 459 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 2: so I just continued my conversation. She then tapped me 460 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 2: and started saying, what the fuck are you doing here? 461 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,919 Speaker 2: We all responded what are you doing here? Like I'm 462 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 2: their age? 463 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 4: You should go. 464 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's past term, and we all responded saying we 465 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 2: just came over to say hi. 466 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 4: We haven't seen her run in a while. And then 467 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,480 Speaker 4: she then claimed. 468 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,159 Speaker 2: I was trying to ruin my ex's girlfriend's birthday and 469 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 2: started pushing me, my sister, and my friend. 470 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 4: Out of the seating area. Mature really. 471 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 2: She started yelling at me, saying, how I fucked up 472 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 2: for breaking up with her son. I'm happy and in 473 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 2: love with my new partner, and I assume my ex 474 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 2: is the same with his new partner. After some more 475 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 2: pushing and yelling, I told her she needed to get 476 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 2: over it, and that I had dated her son it 477 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 2: two years ago. 478 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 3: So clearly that's what this is giving me, that she 479 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 3: actually doesn't like the new girlfriend. And then she's like, yeah, like, 480 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 3: you shouldn't have broken up with my son, all right, 481 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 3: So you mad that we're not. 482 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:32,360 Speaker 2: Together because she's mad because she really liked you and 483 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 2: she wanted it to work out. 484 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what it's giving. I'd be complimented by that. 485 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 4: I really thank you you still love me. 486 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 2: If I was the new girlfriend, I'd be yeah, I like, 487 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 2: why are you? 488 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 3: Like, why are you making a scene because nobody else is. 489 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 4: Yeah. 490 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 2: I told her, you've had when people say this to 491 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 2: you was so mean, but it's like it hits Yeah. 492 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 2: I told her, you've had way too much to drink 493 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 2: and you need to go home, and I walked away. 494 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 2: My sister and friend was still being yelled at by her, 495 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 2: so my boyfriend went in to separate them as the 496 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 2: mum was getting really pushy. She then yelled at my 497 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 2: boyfriend that I was a slack awesome Okay, yeah, let's go. 498 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 3: Let's kind of fucking bring out the fucking fistbather. 499 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 4: We moved away. 500 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:15,199 Speaker 2: To the bar area and we were waiting to get 501 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:17,199 Speaker 2: a drink when she started running at my friend with 502 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:21,199 Speaker 2: her fists in the air. Her handbag flung off and 503 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 2: she went to swing at her, but my boyfriend got 504 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,679 Speaker 2: in the way and started holding the mum back. This 505 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 2: is so like she clearly just had like, oh, too 506 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 2: much to drink. 507 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 3: Like I would be so embarrassed if I was your 508 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:33,679 Speaker 3: ex boyfriend, like, mum. 509 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 4: What are you doing? Why is he not jumping in 510 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 4: an eddity? Yeah? 511 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 3: Was your now boyfriend doing this when it's got nothing 512 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:39,360 Speaker 3: to do with him. 513 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:42,000 Speaker 2: Like it should be the sound going mum, we're fine, 514 00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 2: fucking stop yeah. 515 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 3: Fuck the fucking demons this woman would have happened. 516 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 2: EXT was just thinking that we just sore head and 517 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 2: this son coming and going you fucked up. 518 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 3: Fuck. Fuck. 519 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 2: My friend threw her brand new drink all over her 520 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 2: face when she was coming at me, and then she 521 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 2: started to run and try and grab me. I was gobsmarked. 522 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 2: She was saying we were all psychos ironic. 523 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, that's pretty. 524 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: Was somewhat expecting an apology for how she acted, but 525 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:12,680 Speaker 2: she must still think she's in the right. I hope 526 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 2: she at least gave the birthday go on her son 527 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 2: an apology. 528 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 4: Facts. 529 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, with chat that they would have had to have 530 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 3: the next morning. 531 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 4: I would have loved to be a fly on the wall. 532 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 2: There's something pens up there. Yeah, some sort of anger 533 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 2: that's coming out. 534 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't like the new girlfriend. She didn't. I 535 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 4: don't reckon she likes this hick either. 536 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 2: I just think she wants to marry her son, and 537 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 2: it's like, no one hurt my son. 538 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe maybe it was really her after the breakup. 539 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 2: Because like mom's like that, it doesn't actually matter what 540 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 2: the girlfriend's like. 541 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 4: She's gonna hate you regardless. Yeah. 542 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 3: It's always good being close to your family, but when 543 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 3: they're in love with the sun. 544 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 4: That's a difficult relationship. It's incredibly different. 545 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 546 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 3: Story number three, My ex and I dated for two years. 547 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 3: That is a very common period that everyone dates to 548 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 3: two years. 549 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's actually like a cycle. 550 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 3: You can setch it up on the internet of the 551 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 3: cycle your relationships go through, and when it hits like 552 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 3: the two year mark in your early twenties, it's kind 553 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 3: of like, all right, are we gonna keep going? 554 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 2: Like are we going to get into the point where 555 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 2: we're like a serious. 556 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 3: Serious, long term or are we going to come up 557 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 3: together cut it off? 558 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? 559 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:23,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, he aged roll for me two girls. My ex 560 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 3: and I dated for two years, and for the first 561 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 3: three to six months, his parents made it so hard 562 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 3: for me. I was my ex's first real girlfriend, and 563 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 3: for the first month of the relationship, I overheard his 564 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 3: dad telling him that I was not special. 565 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 4: Oh that's so fucking mean. Like, well, yeah, but you 566 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 4: don't know her that well, do you know what I mean? Yeah? 567 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 3: Like, imagine you overhearing your partner's dad saying that. 568 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 4: I'd be bawling. Yeah, I really upset me. 569 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 3: He said that he doesn't understand why he wastes all 570 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 3: his time on me, and I'm just going to be 571 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 3: the same. 572 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 4: As every other girl. That's so mean. That would crush 573 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 4: my heart. Yeah, that's fucked. 574 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 3: I considered breaking up with my boyfriend because I naively 575 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,640 Speaker 3: felt bad that I was not a perfect girl for him, 576 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 3: and I bought into what his dad was telling me. 577 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 4: So you kind of then. 578 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 3: Felt like had low fucking confidence you were fair. Yea, God, 579 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 3: I was so jululu And I probably should have broken 580 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 3: up with him at that point because it gets worse awesome. 581 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 4: And they stay together for another year and a half. Yeah, right, 582 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 4: I have celiac disease. 583 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 3: And his dad said that we shouldn't say together because 584 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,439 Speaker 3: if we did, I would have to produce unhealthy children 585 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 3: with lots of health complications, and I'm not worthy of 586 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 3: reproducing with What the fuck? 587 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 4: That is so funn No, I just don't eat gluten. 588 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 3: If I eat gluten, then yeah probably, but like, no, 589 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 3: I'm perfectly healthy. 590 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 2: As in his worry that she's going to pass down 591 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 2: that scene. Yeah, but like fuckingo, Like who cares? You 592 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 2: just can't eat gluten. Surely you'd rather have celia kids 593 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 2: then marry someone you don't like, and you. 594 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 3: Like really pulling ut straws to think of it to 595 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 3: reasons to not like me. My fucking food con assumption 596 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,159 Speaker 3: is making me have horrible kids. So it seems like 597 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 3: the dad's the problem at this Yeah, And which is 598 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,400 Speaker 3: weird because normally it's the mom. Normally the dads don't 599 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 3: really give them fun I think sometimes Dad's like, you're 600 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 3: my legacy. 601 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 4: You need to keep my legacy. I feel like they 602 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,400 Speaker 4: can get funny in that regard. Yeah, okay, I've never 603 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:13,679 Speaker 4: had that. 604 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 3: And I'm a child of divorce and said that if 605 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 3: we got married, I would have to leave and divorce 606 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 3: my ex because all mothers. 607 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 4: And daughters are the same. Od. 608 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 3: This man is just not right. He seems really old school. 609 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 3: Little did he know it was my dad who separated 610 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 3: from my mum. Yeah, assumption fucking central here. It's safe 611 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 3: to say I haven't dated anyone since, and when I do, 612 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 3: I will not put up with any bullshit like that 613 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 3: from their parents. I tried so hard to impress his 614 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 3: parents on anything that I did, and I guess it 615 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 3: paid off because when I ran into his mom the 616 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 3: most recently, she said, Oh, I was talking about you 617 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 3: at dinner the other weekend, so I must have done 618 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 3: something right. 619 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just the dad. Yeah, dad's dick. 620 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 3: Might I add his dad's fears of divorcing him later 621 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 3: in life were done because his son broke up with 622 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,159 Speaker 3: me because I couldn't give him what he needs to 623 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 3: sex every day. 624 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 4: That's funny. 625 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I feel like sometimes parents have 626 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 3: this like thing in their head of how their kid's 627 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 3: life is going to play out, who they're going to marry, 628 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,439 Speaker 3: what they want, like, what they want for their kids' future. 629 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 4: And if it's like not. 630 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 3: That, they just instantly don't like you because it's not on. 631 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 4: Their path that they saw their kids. 632 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 2: If it's not following that like blueprint exactly, they're like, wait, 633 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 2: hang on, what the. 634 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 4: Fuck's going on? Yeah? 635 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 2: I do also think like there are exceptions, but the 636 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 2: apple doesn't for far from the tray a lot of it. 637 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 3: No, Yeah, you know, A good thing to ask I 638 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,359 Speaker 3: saw this thing. I'm not sure I've mentioned on the 639 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 3: podcast before. 640 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 4: A really good thing to. 641 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 3: Ask, like when you're like on the first few dates 642 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 3: with someone is you ask what are your parents like? 643 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,959 Speaker 3: And they describe their mom and dad, and they talk 644 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 3: about their mom and dad, they talk about their family dynamic, 645 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 3: and then a couple questions after you say who are 646 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 3: you more like your mum or your dad? Interest because 647 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 3: they'll be like, oh, dad's a fuck weird, like he 648 00:25:55,440 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 3: just like fucking like smokes diaries and pick up and 649 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:03,719 Speaker 3: then you ask, like once you kind of forget that, 650 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:05,879 Speaker 3: you go, oh, so who are you most like? And 651 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 3: they go, oh, I'm like my dad, And like, so 652 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,480 Speaker 3: you smoke dories, you don't pick up after the house, 653 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 3: and you just fucking sit on the couch all day. 654 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 4: Awesome, So you're. 655 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 3: Like interesting or they're like my mom, they're like they're 656 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 3: super hard working, my dad's really good. 657 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,199 Speaker 4: And then you're like, who are most like? Oh like 658 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 4: my dad. All right, so you one respect your parents too. 659 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 2: I also think it's nice to see them speak highly 660 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 2: of like, you know, like your parents have faults, no shit, 661 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:30,120 Speaker 2: But like if you're just bagging on you're like mum more. 662 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 2: You know, sometimes can't be a good look. To be honest, 663 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 2: it's hard to even talk about that stuff because family 664 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 2: dynamics are so complicated and you just never really know 665 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 2: what someone's experiencing. 666 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 3: But but like if they say, like, oh, my dad 667 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,120 Speaker 3: left my mom when she was seven because like had 668 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 3: they had an affair and like and then you are 669 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 3: carp orescious lady, like, so who are you most like? 670 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 4: Oh, like my dad, I'm like not so you party 671 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 4: gon having an affair? 672 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,719 Speaker 3: Like treat your mom just it's quite smart. There you go, Ladies, 673 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 3: discover it first before you. 674 00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 4: Get too deep. So Miss number four. 675 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 2: When I first started dating my ex let's call him Jack, 676 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,679 Speaker 2: he wore me that his mom was very immature. She 677 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,919 Speaker 2: was really lovely from the interactions we had. She just 678 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 2: had a very bubbly personality. 679 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 4: That's good. 680 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 3: Kind of sometimes giving a warning, be like, be careful 681 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,719 Speaker 3: of this, Like, so you're a bit aware. 682 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 2: I kind of like when the sun from our experienced 683 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 2: son is aware yes, you know, not blinded, and thinks 684 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 2: their mom's God's gift to Earth, when you're like, your 685 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 2: mom is actually fucking psycho. Yeah, I like that they're aware. 686 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 2: She's a hairdresser and she offered to do my hair 687 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 2: for free, which I. 688 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 4: Was really excited about it. Take that boob. But after 689 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 4: that she started oversharing. Awesome. I've experienced that. It's awkward, yeah, 690 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 4: because you don't know what to say. 691 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,640 Speaker 3: You don't want to like, you like want to provide sympathy, 692 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 3: but you're like, oh my god, especially if it's about 693 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:47,199 Speaker 3: family drama. 694 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,199 Speaker 4: You're like, I don't really want to with the. 695 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:54,119 Speaker 2: People, inevitably about the negatively about the son that you're 696 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 2: dating or something it's like, well, he's my boyfriend. 697 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like where do I stand? What do you want 698 00:27:58,560 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 4: me that you talk about your son? 699 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:00,159 Speaker 3: You? 700 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 4: Because I feel like you're going to turn it against me? 701 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:02,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? 702 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:03,120 Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean? 703 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 2: Jack's parents were separating and his mom began telling me 704 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,680 Speaker 2: about his dad's affairs, making me promise not to tell 705 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 2: Jack or his sister. 706 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,199 Speaker 4: So that's really awkward, Like I'm dating your son, Like 707 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:13,879 Speaker 4: why are you? 708 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 3: Like? 709 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:14,879 Speaker 4: Would you? 710 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 3: Yes? 711 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 4: Yeah? Like I can't keep from my boyfriend that. 712 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 3: You're fama Like what like you have to keep? Like, 713 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 3: don't put me in this position. It's fucked. 714 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 2: Then she just casually mentioned that she'd hooked up with 715 00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,160 Speaker 2: one of Jack's friends in her home salon while Jack 716 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:32,880 Speaker 2: was inside. 717 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 3: See, I couldn't keep that from my boyfriend. 718 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 4: She goes, I kept quiet because I wanted her to 719 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 4: like me. Fuck, I couldn't do that. 720 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 2: Because you it would actually be I couldn't either. And 721 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 2: I say that, but imagine how complicated the situation would 722 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 2: because the moment you tell Dak, Jack's going to go 723 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 2: fucking ape shit on his mom and she knows it's 724 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 2: coming from you, and the whole relationship changes. 725 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 3: But then imagine if Jack found out and you knew, 726 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 3: and then he found out that you knew the whole time, 727 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:57,080 Speaker 3: and then. 728 00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 2: It's gonna damage your relationship with how challenging situation would 729 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 2: actually really be. 730 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,160 Speaker 3: But like, I couldn't sit there and not say anything 731 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 3: to Jack. 732 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 2: No, like I couldn't. Sounds like it's a bit too 733 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 2: much for me. Good luck, I'm going. Things escalated when 734 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 2: she called me one day and told me Jack had 735 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 2: caught his footy coach hiding in her own suite. 736 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 4: She's fucking the footy coach to fuck. 737 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 2: She made me promise to remind Jack that she would 738 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: have done nothing if he ever mentioned it, as in, 739 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 2: if Jack was I mean, Jack's not. 740 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 3: Dumb, put too and do together? Why are you hiding 741 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 3: in my fucking on suite? 742 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was stuck knowing all of this, but couldn't 743 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 2: tell Jack. It eventually became too much. I had to 744 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 2: end things. Even though Jack is the most loving and 745 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 2: kind person. The hardest part is I couldn't tell him 746 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 2: why I had to leave. No, I'm like, in my opinion, 747 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 2: if you're partying with that family and you're making that 748 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 2: decision that I'm out, you have to tell him why Yeah, 749 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 2: because otherwise he's going to think it's him. 750 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 4: He's got to. 751 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 3: Sit on that and be like, I'm the fucking problem. 752 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 2: But then you're also going to be like blowing up 753 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 2: not only the relationship but his family life. But it's 754 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 2: like he needed to know, you know, but it's complicated. 755 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 2: It all blew up when Jack's coach, who was also 756 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 2: secretly seeing his mom, beat Jack up in front of 757 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 2: his entire football team. His mom left without caring or 758 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 2: checking on Jack. 759 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 4: Immature. 760 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:22,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like she's just like living like a teenager 761 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 3: with kids. 762 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. 763 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 2: The next morning, still startled from the events of the night, 764 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 2: Jack woke up to a text from his mom saying 765 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 2: that she was in Queensland with the guy that had 766 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 2: just assaulted her son. 767 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 4: So she's just living for herself. Like it's like she 768 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 4: doesn't have children. They just hold Jack. I want to 769 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 4: give Jack a hole. I know that feels. I feel 770 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 4: really bad for Jack. 771 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,240 Speaker 2: Get back with him, fuck his mom off, don't fuck 772 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 2: his mum memory. 773 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 3: I think he's already fucked off. 774 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 4: Fuck poor charge. And that is extremely complicated for you. 775 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, that would provide trauma. Hey, girls love the podcast, 776 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 3: so buckle in for this one. My partner mother is awful. 777 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 4: So they're still together for such a bad word. It's 778 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 4: such a strong word, like she's rude. No, she's fucking. 779 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 3: Awful, she's vile, vile, she's irritating. 780 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 4: What's another one? 781 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 2: What's the one that I said we'd hate when people 782 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 2: call us insufferable? 783 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 4: Insufferable? 784 00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 3: She's an insufferable cow. 785 00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 4: That's just that always hits. 786 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 787 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,240 Speaker 3: I just wanted to say that my partner is an 788 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 3: angel and always takes my side and it has never 789 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 3: forced me to have a relationship with his mother as 790 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 3: I've spent four years trying to create a relationship that 791 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 3: she doesn't want to bar up because she's so in 792 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 3: love with her son in a weird way. 793 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 4: Okay, so they're still together. 794 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 3: Yes, So this is one story of many that I 795 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 3: could write about and just boils my blood. My partner, 796 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 3: let's call the mother Judy, and myself went out one 797 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 3: night to get pizza. His mother went to order while 798 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 3: my partner, let's call him am awesome, stayed in the car. 799 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 3: Can we call him something different, Let's call him Jack? Okay, no, 800 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 3: because Jack's a fucking fuck boy's name. But Jack and 801 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 3: the last story wasn't a fuck boy, so we'll call 802 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 3: him Jack. Judy came back to the car and told 803 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 3: Jack that he should have ordered the pizza because the 804 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,320 Speaker 3: girl in the front counter was so his tight that 805 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 3: they will look good together. Like, why would you say 806 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 3: that in front of my face. 807 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 4: I'm in your car, I'm literally dating your son. Are 808 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 4: we we're gonna partend? Like maybe you should? 809 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 2: You should go in there and pick up the pizzas 810 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 2: because she's fucking hot. It's like, what is wrong with you? 811 00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 2: How did you get to reproduce? 812 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 4: Fucked mind you. 813 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 3: I'm sitting in the backseat and my partner and I 814 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 3: had twenty three and we've been together. 815 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 4: For four years. 816 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 3: Jack replied to Judy and said, well, my type is 817 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 3: my girlfriend. He just proceeded to defend me him. I 818 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,200 Speaker 3: love you, Jack, know in that way. It's fine you 819 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 3: have Betty over here. Sorry, I just didn't want to 820 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 3: overs the line. Judy then responded and say that we 821 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 3: better not marry her. And I was sitting in the 822 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 3: back seat and I've had ugly babies. 823 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 4: What the fuck? 824 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what the fuck so you think I'm ugly? 825 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 2: You've just said you think I'm ugly? Maybe your son's ugly. 826 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 4: No, Jack's nice, Jack's nice, Jack's hot, Judy's ugly. Judy 827 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 4: is ugly. She's a horrible personality. She sounds indufferable. Hmmm. 828 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 4: Jack and I then left the car and ubered it 829 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,280 Speaker 4: and uber obviously very challenging. 830 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 2: I've seen it to get in between your mom and 831 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 2: your partner, but when they do it, it's like. 832 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 3: But it seems then he didn't really like provide a reaction. 833 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 3: He was like, I'm just gonna remove both of us 834 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 3: from the situation. 835 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 4: Because I go through this. Yeah. Fuck. This incident is 836 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 4: one of Mannie's. 837 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 3: But she's always a comments on my appearance, my weight, 838 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 3: and my career. She tells her have family, how I'll 839 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 3: never go anywhere as my career is in primary school teaching. 840 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 4: So you must be a good fucking chick. You're a 841 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 4: primary school teacher around. 842 00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 3: Kids, Like that is the biggest green flag. 843 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. 844 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 3: If someone came and he was like I'm dating and 845 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 3: I'm oh, I'm a primary school teacher. Like if my 846 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 3: boyfriend was like a sports season in a primary I'm like, 847 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 3: oh my god, you're a fucking. 848 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 2: Saint and you're like that guy, and it's like they'll 849 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:06,680 Speaker 2: be like, oh, like I'm setting to your teacher. It's like, 850 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,240 Speaker 2: oh my god, you're such like you're a good persive. 851 00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 3: I always speaking to my housemates about this. Last night, 852 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 3: I was like, we're watching that show and I was like, fuck, 853 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 3: like it is a bit awkward, like saying like you're 854 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,359 Speaker 3: meeting the new parents, Like, so what do. 855 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:19,720 Speaker 4: You do for really think? Oh, I have a podcast? 856 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:21,319 Speaker 4: What do you talk about the podcast? Oh? 857 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 3: We have like people on they like speak about like 858 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 3: sex and like relationships, and we like answer me with 859 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 3: ste Lemmas. It's like, be awkward, but I'm like, I promise. 860 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 3: I'm like doing well for myself, like. 861 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,399 Speaker 2: Like my job, but it's not one of those jobs. 862 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:33,919 Speaker 2: It's like I'm a lawyer, I'm a teacher. 863 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 4: You know what I mean. 864 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 3: You kind of like you have to explain yourself a 865 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 3: little bit like kind to prove that. 866 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:41,759 Speaker 4: You're like your friend it's good. It's a good job. Yeah, yeah, Yeah. 867 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 3: She's awful and no matter how much I try to 868 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,399 Speaker 3: be nice to her, she always tears me down. Never 869 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,839 Speaker 3: thought that I'd be the girl with the psycho mother 870 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 3: in law, but I guess I was wrong. That's just 871 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 3: so awkward, like you're literally a green flag, you're a 872 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 3: walking green flag and any like. And sometimes when they 873 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 3: comment on your appearance and your weight like that hits 874 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 3: hard because you're like, but Jack doesn't seem to copy it, 875 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 3: and Jack obviously seems to like it. 876 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,880 Speaker 2: It seems like he's the right kind of guy to 877 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 2: handle a situation like that because he will put you 878 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 2: first so it can survive it, you know what I mean. 879 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:12,479 Speaker 4: But that is an awful thing too. 880 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,279 Speaker 2: And you know people like that, you're twenty three, but 881 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,239 Speaker 2: it's like those mothers. Are you still going to be 882 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,239 Speaker 2: in contact with those sort of mothers when you're like 883 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,400 Speaker 2: thirty five and you have kids. No, they're probably going 884 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,879 Speaker 2: to be the ones you only see it like Christmas. 885 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, because they're horrible. 886 00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. And Jack will obviously just try to keep that separated. 887 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 3: And if you think my kids are ugly great, don't 888 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:35,279 Speaker 3: see them. Yeah, don't see your grandchildren that you should love. 889 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,440 Speaker 3: Like you're just doing yourself withself with disservice. 890 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 4: What a cow. 891 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,720 Speaker 2: I have a story for you guys about what happened 892 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 2: on a first holiday with my in laws. So February 893 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 2: this year, I went on my first holiday with my 894 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 2: partner and his family on a cruise ship. 895 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 4: I can't escape that. You're stuck on a boat together. 896 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,000 Speaker 4: They can just push you off if they don't like you. 897 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 4: I can this murder. People just appear on cruise ships 898 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,320 Speaker 4: all the time. It's kind of scary. It's really scary. 899 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 4: I would say. 900 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:03,719 Speaker 2: My partner and I had been together at this point 901 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,000 Speaker 2: for just over a year. It was the first night 902 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 2: of the cruise, and my partner's family loved to drink 903 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:11,400 Speaker 2: and I don't as much. I'm not a huge drinker. 904 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,720 Speaker 2: And we had a whole drinking package for unlimited drinks 905 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 2: for the whole trip, so we obviously wanted to make 906 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 2: the most of it because it was quite expensive, like 907 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 2: eight hundred two one thousand dollars each. 908 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:21,280 Speaker 4: I'd assume that is. 909 00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 2: Because the cruises they're always like food and drinks packages. 910 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, all right. Anyways, we were all. 911 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 2: Drinking quite a lot in the first night, and they 912 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 2: wanted to see me get drunk and let loose a little, 913 00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:32,680 Speaker 2: because they were like, I don't think we will ever 914 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 2: see that way. 915 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,959 Speaker 4: Fair enough on holiday, you have fun. 916 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, that's about we like, don't peer pressure, no 917 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,320 Speaker 3: peer pressuring, Like if you then said, no, they shouldn't 918 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 3: be doing it. 919 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,680 Speaker 2: I'm just I know, so I thought it was almost 920 00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 2: a challenge and got absolutely wasted. I can't even remember 921 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,239 Speaker 2: half the night. I was mixing wines, spirits, and all. 922 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 4: Sorts of drinks. That's a recipe food disaster. I always 923 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 4: mix wine, spirits and all sorts of drinks. 924 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,600 Speaker 3: Because you normally start on wine, but I only spirits. 925 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:02,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I'll go to spirits and stuff when 926 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,920 Speaker 2: i'm at like if I'm at like the club, it's like. 927 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,759 Speaker 4: I'm joking. By the way, sometimes I do ask for rosees. 928 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,440 Speaker 2: We headed back to the room because all the bars 929 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,800 Speaker 2: were closing, and I run straight to the bathroom. 930 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,800 Speaker 4: And the ship was super rocky. 931 00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 2: It's not a good Yeah, the fucking I was on 932 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 2: a cruise ship last year and it's not good. 933 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 4: I didn't feel too good. 934 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 2: I was so drunk and I was sitting on the 935 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:30,959 Speaker 2: floor of the bathroom at this point, and I thought 936 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 2: I grabbed the bathroom bin and spewed up in it, 937 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,240 Speaker 2: but it turns out it was the bathroom. 938 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 4: Matt rolled up what airl Oh my god. 939 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:43,719 Speaker 2: My partner's mum walks in and goes, oh fuck, calls 940 00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 2: my partner to come help me up and get me 941 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,239 Speaker 2: in the bath. His mom and I are sitting in 942 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 2: the tub. I'm fully naked, she's half naked. 943 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,840 Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa, yo, Oh he's going on here. 944 00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,719 Speaker 2: Oh my god, remind me to tell you something after 945 00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 2: I finished this story. 946 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,440 Speaker 4: Oh my god, she's half naked, and. 947 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 2: My spew was just going back and forth on the 948 00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:07,280 Speaker 2: floor from the ship being so rocky, and he's cleaning 949 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:08,399 Speaker 2: up my spew whilst his. 950 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 4: Mum is showering me. That's good of her, that was 951 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 4: very nice. 952 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 2: Well, she probably feels responsible, you could say. The next day, 953 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 2: I wanted to die. I was so embarrassed and I 954 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,719 Speaker 2: couldn't look at her the same after she saw me 955 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 2: that way. Since then, we've become super close, so it's 956 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:23,680 Speaker 2: all good now, but it still. 957 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 4: DAWs me to this day. So this is actually a 958 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 4: nice story. That's cute. 959 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 3: That's like relationship following, Like we've really bonded after that, 960 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 3: Like I've seen your tits, You've seen me naked, vomiting, 961 00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 3: like you've seen me in. 962 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,800 Speaker 4: A really really bad state, vulnerable. 963 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, that kind of reminds me of a story I 964 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 3: had when my ex used to live with JACKI and 965 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,759 Speaker 3: Michayla Crisp, and I'm still really close with them now. 966 00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,040 Speaker 3: Like they were amazing, And it was in lockdown, and 967 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,480 Speaker 3: the first year of the B and F was in lockdown. 968 00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 3: But because we all lived together, we had like a 969 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:51,439 Speaker 3: little party in the house. 970 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:53,600 Speaker 4: Remember see it was all legal, but. 971 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,200 Speaker 3: There was like six of us that lived in the house. 972 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:58,160 Speaker 3: We all just celebrated the Copeland and whatever. So much fun. 973 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 3: But I was in like the run of my eating discorder, 974 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,440 Speaker 3: so I was so thin, Like I was so sick, 975 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 3: and I like I was trying to keep up with 976 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,840 Speaker 3: Jack and Caleb, and I just got so fucking wasted 977 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 3: that I ended up falling asleep like eight thirty with 978 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:17,080 Speaker 3: a bowl in the bed, like hunched over, passed out asleep. 979 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,480 Speaker 3: And there's this fucking photo of Jack like hovering over 980 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 3: me in bed and I'm just like out, like a 981 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 3: light passed out. 982 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:25,400 Speaker 4: Would have been like this fuck. 983 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 3: This fucking chicken. They were recently dating, and I was 984 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,279 Speaker 3: really trying to impress everyone. I like ended the night 985 00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,360 Speaker 3: with like in an hour in the bed. There's like 986 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 3: the fucking film photer. It's the funniest photo ever. 987 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:35,400 Speaker 4: I thing to see it. 988 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I walk out like two hours later to 989 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,920 Speaker 3: go vomit in the fucking toilet, and they're all just shirtless, drunk, 990 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,160 Speaker 3: just lying on the ground like it was a whack 991 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 3: at night. 992 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 4: On my life moment, it was really blonding. 993 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:47,879 Speaker 2: So the funny thing I wanted to mention I saw 994 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,760 Speaker 2: this story on TikTok and apparently there was a bride 995 00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,959 Speaker 2: and groom on their wedding day, but I don't think 996 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 2: they'd yet gone down the aisle, like they weren't yet 997 00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 2: married at this point, and the bride needed to go 998 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 2: to the bathroom before the ceremony or something, so she 999 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,920 Speaker 2: went into like the hotel room, went into the bathroom 1000 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:12,680 Speaker 2: and her fiance, fully grown male is there nursing his mom, 1001 00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:14,040 Speaker 2: sucking on her boom. 1002 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 3: That's a lie, No, that's a fucking lie. 1003 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 2: And everyone's like, how does she still produce milk? Well, 1004 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 2: the thing is maybe she isn't. It's just a comfort thing. 1005 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 2: But like and apparently the mom goes, don't make it weird. 1006 00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:33,319 Speaker 3: Brother, how do yeah that would get I don't don't 1007 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 3: care how much I fucking love you. You're suckling on your mom's. 1008 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:42,360 Speaker 2: Like that is then almost sexual a little bit. It isn't, 1009 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,360 Speaker 2: but it would be to a viewer, do you know 1010 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 2: what I mean? Maybe that's not how the mum and 1011 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 2: the son of viewing that, obviously, but if I were 1012 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 2: to see that, I'd be like, this is weird. 1013 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,480 Speaker 3: Like why haven't you ever asked to like maybe do 1014 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 3: it for me as comfort? 1015 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 4: Like I've got boobs too. 1016 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,080 Speaker 2: Do you think the mum's still producing milk? Like they 1017 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,320 Speaker 2: ever stopped sucking? 1018 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 4: You would stop after a little bit. 1019 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 3: You'd have to research about that, you would have to 1020 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:07,239 Speaker 3: dry up. 1021 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:11,359 Speaker 2: Court breastfeeding with mum by bride on his bride did 1022 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:15,080 Speaker 2: your husband on their wedding day? Yeah, so she did leave, 1023 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 2: which I think is understandable to say the least. 1024 00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:21,959 Speaker 4: It's so weird. 1025 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,680 Speaker 2: Brou It says, this is coming from a podcast, how 1026 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,880 Speaker 2: the mother could possibly still producing milk and the reason 1027 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 2: must be just that she's never stopped. She's obviously just 1028 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:35,719 Speaker 2: been doing it continuously. So the mum is still producing milk. 1029 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 4: And it is that is really weird. 1030 00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's some fucks mart Me's boy bullshit. And I 1031 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 2: would leave the wedding. 1032 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:48,080 Speaker 3: Too, Yeah, I would. That would wholeheartedly give me dick. 1033 00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:50,440 Speaker 3: And if you ever try to think that. You imagine 1034 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 3: him just pretending. 1035 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,440 Speaker 2: But what kisses me up as the mom going WHOA, like, 1036 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:55,800 Speaker 2: don't make it weird like this is weird. 1037 00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:56,880 Speaker 4: This is really weird. 1038 00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,799 Speaker 2: This is the weirdest thing I probably will ever see 1039 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,840 Speaker 2: in my entire fucking life. You're telling me not to 1040 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:04,720 Speaker 2: make up weird like you're over this. He's sucking up tits. 1041 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really weird. 1042 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 2: Anyway, guys, that just ends on a nice little note. 1043 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:13,280 Speaker 2: I'll ave to think about and ponder. 1044 00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 3: So do you think you have issues with your in laws? 1045 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,440 Speaker 3: Just remember that someone's fiancee was sucking his mum's tits 1046 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 3: on his wedding name. Yeah, there's like nothing to worry about. 1047 00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 3: You're not alone because there's things out in this world 1048 00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:29,440 Speaker 3: like a boob sucker, mammy's milk. 1049 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 4: I like to go do. It's called months. What's your 1050 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,600 Speaker 4: pregame mummy's milk? And that's disgusting. What helps you eat 1051 00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:42,120 Speaker 4: before you walk down the aisle? Mummy's that's fucking disgusting. 1052 00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 4: All Right, We love you guys. Chat to you on 1053 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 4: Thursday by