1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. What is the triangle method? 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: What's that? Of course, my eyes lips. I don't know 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 2: that you told me that. No, I did not you did. 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 3: There's a difference between hanging out and quality time. 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and the relationship back. Quality of time is so 6 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 2: important as planned has to be quality quality. 7 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 3: If you see a friend after a while and so yeah, 8 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 3: you ask how they're going, and I was like, oh, yeah, 9 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 3: I've been. I was hanging out with this girl. It's 10 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 3: kind of like, I mean, were you dating her? What 11 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 3: were you like? We know what you mean, Like you 12 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 3: were obviously sleeping with her and going on dates, But 13 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 3: did you ever call it a date? 14 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: Did you ever make it clear? Yeah? 15 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 3: He told me it was his childhood dog's birth. Relatable 16 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig Akad 17 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 3: and my partner in crime, Audie Clark, a k a. Mummy, 18 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 3: And today is a very special episode because we have 19 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 3: some guests we do. 20 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: It's a very special guess and I'm going to say 21 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: the first one is Sophia. And you said that, I'm 22 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: purpose to Cinsia chin Chin. 23 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 2: Sorry apologize for. 24 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: The pronunciation, but welcome to the Relatables podcast. Were so 25 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: excited to have you on here. Yeah, you guys the 26 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: girls bathroom and you guys are currently touring Australia. 27 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 2: We haven't started yet. Well, actually, when this goes out, 28 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 2: we probably will have. 29 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 3: When do you When did you get here? 30 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: We got here like two days ago, so we're still adjusting. 31 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: We're still adjusting to the time of first time in Australia. 32 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: First impressions, love it, love it. 33 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: We do love it. We're just getting a grasp on 34 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 2: like the Australian man and just trying to set them 35 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 2: out here for reason, it is like mullets. 36 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 4: Mullets, Yeah, but also like the tams are incredible. 37 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 2: We have just we have I've learnt something, We've learned that, 38 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: you know, because we think everyone is just so attractive. 39 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 2: But then we're like, hang on, let's try and picture 40 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 2: them without the tan. Yeah, just take away a little bit. 41 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 3: It would be we. 42 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 2: Get tanned, blindnesses, gorgeous. 43 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: Well, where you guys are staying in Sydney? Is it 44 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 1: near any of the beaches? 45 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 2: No, but we've been going to Bondit a minute drive Yeah. 46 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's where you're going to see Like everyone, 47 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: what do you think of Bond. 48 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: It's massive, very used to watch Rescue? 49 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 3: Is that worldwide? 50 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 51 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 3: Is it? Actually? 52 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? We would watch it on Channel four maybe yeah. 53 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: And border Force. 54 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: Border Force is popular. 55 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, And we had to go through the the Border 56 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 2: Force and it was like they had such graces. Bag 57 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 2: she's a bit dodge. 58 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: But is there anything you want to see while you're here? 59 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: When you're time? 60 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: We want to see we've not seen the opera house yet. 61 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 2: We haven't seen that house. Yeah, definitely going everywhere. We're 62 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: doing Sydney, were doing Perth with Brisboe. 63 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, in that order? 64 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 1: Do that you can do you know what? 65 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 2: Walk? Oh yeah, yeah, we could do that. Wow, that 66 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 2: sounds a bit too adventurous first, but we could be. 67 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 3: Opened probably How long are you in each place? Like, 68 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 3: are you guys super busy? That's good? 69 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, So we've got three more nights here than we're 70 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 4: in Perth for what like four nights or something? 71 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,679 Speaker 2: And then but we are back and we do have time. 72 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: Try to squeeze as much and as we can. We've 73 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 2: been to d balls. 74 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 3: I don't even know because you guys don't even to 75 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 3: what was that? 76 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 2: We knew yet? We know we were going to love crazy. 77 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 2: We were not expecting the queue halfway down the road. 78 00:03:53,560 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 2: Nightspots very it's very hard music bowl. 79 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't mind Yochi, but I'm not a big 80 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 3: ice cream fan. I know, I know it's your yogurt. 81 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 3: I know it's yogurt, but I'm just like I'll do 82 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 3: a little bit of the yogurt and then I just 83 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 3: like brownies and stuff. Me. 84 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm very simple. I'm just like brownie like Eminem's like nothing. 85 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 2: See, I don't trust people who put gummy. 86 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: Bears, neither do I. 87 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 2: I just think that's I saw a girl and she 88 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 2: had like sour sweets and I was like, that's a 89 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 2: weird choice. 90 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 3: I would not accept. My girlfriend likes doing it because 91 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 3: she likes it when they go super hard and then 92 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 3: you have to chew them, and I was like, that 93 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 3: is worse. 94 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 2: So she wants to crunch. 95 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, she wants to the frozen yogurt to like freeze 96 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 3: the loll and I just was like I tried it. 97 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 3: I mean it's sill, taste good, but I just don't 98 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 3: like it. 99 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it is marvelous creations in the ok like 100 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 1: the chocolate. 101 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 2: And it's like all differ for stuff. 102 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's got popping rocks, it's got like Lolly's in it. 103 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 3: It's all like it's just like a bunch of different stuff. 104 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: I think it's popular. 105 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 3: Maybe I don't like that. I was going to say 106 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 3: that you could relate to that as well, because. 107 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 2: We've had some or did you like Yeah, Penguin Bar 108 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 2: to England? 109 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 3: I have, I haven't where about I went. It was 110 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 3: in twenty twenty three. I went to London. 111 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 2: Nice. 112 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 3: I like London. Yeah, and then we caught the train 113 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 3: up stayed in York. 114 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 2: Did you get to the Viking Center In York? 115 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:38,239 Speaker 3: We went to the baths. Wait maybe is it called bath? 116 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 2: There is a place called bathe, but we say bath. 117 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 2: Other people say bar. 118 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:45,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, we say bath y. I went to the bars 119 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 3: and then we went to Scotland, flew to Ireland and 120 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 3: then yeah, I did the whole UK, which is pretty 121 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 3: I really liked it. We want to go back. 122 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: We want to go this year the middle of the 123 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 1: end of this year. 124 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 3: We'd love to whereabouts in England are you guys from 125 00:05:58,640 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 3: We live. 126 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 2: In London, but we're from Nottingham, which is like in 127 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 2: the middle. 128 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: You know. 129 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 2: Robin Hurd vibes. 130 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he's from that. 131 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh really exactly. 132 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: But the essence of today's episode is going to be 133 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: all about the girl's perspective gorgeous. 134 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 3: Because yeah, we have like a big female audience, but 135 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 3: we just give our perspective of course. So sometimes they'll 136 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 3: ask us something, we'll. 137 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 2: Go, well, that's literally like us because we're like, we 138 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 2: need to just call up a man, right, we're opposites. 139 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, give a male audience or female audience. 140 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 2: We have a female audience, but the female wants to 141 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 2: know the man because like we're just guessing. 142 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, they ask us about the mind of the man. 143 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: But then sometimes they ask us about things but to 144 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 3: do with females, and we go, oh god, we don't know, we. 145 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 1: Need some extra help. 146 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 2: To save the day. 147 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 1: But firstly, we just wanted to ask like a lot 148 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: of dilemmas and dms we get is like building confidence, 149 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: confidence as a young person online social media, putting yourself 150 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, and we just wanted to ask how 151 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: you guys sort of started because you started back in 152 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 1: like twenty thirteen to forteen YouTube channel. Yeah, and we 153 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: just wanted to ask anyone who is like thinking about 154 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: putting themselves out there on social media, like how you 155 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: start or how do you consistently staying motivated. 156 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: I think it's something that you can think about for 157 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 2: such a long time, and it's like by the time 158 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 2: you spent thinking about it, you could have just started. Yeah, 159 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 2: Like you can think like, oh, I should to start 160 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 2: that YouTube all blacks. You just got to do it. 161 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 2: I know one's going to do it for you. But 162 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 2: it's scary easier these days as well with TikTok because 163 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 2: you can so instantly. Because I remember like we would 164 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 2: have to sit and edit, buy a camera and buy 165 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 2: like yeah, buy a camera, but we would always say, 166 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: just go for it. 167 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, and people are going to like people are always 168 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 4: gonna have something to say. People are always going to 169 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 4: have something to say. And it's as long as it's 170 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 4: something that you want to do and you believe in 171 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 4: and if if if you're having fun, I think that's 172 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 4: the most important thing, Like you enjoy it and you're 173 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 4: having fun. 174 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, So like do what you want to do. Don't 175 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 2: let other people tell you, because I think that's more 176 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: the fear of it, like oh my god, what like 177 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 2: we do take the pic like it's embarrassing, you're going 178 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 2: to do that? Yeah, we had all of that. 179 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 3: We kind of got I wouldn't say we did. We 180 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 3: get that much. 181 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: We sort of owe a lot of our confidence to 182 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 1: each other. 183 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 3: Because exactly we had each other. 184 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: So we kind of had a scapegoat exactly like my god, 185 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 2: I couldn't start an. 186 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 3: I know I wouldn't. I wouldn't have done it. 187 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 2: But when you're in. 188 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 4: It together, it is much easier. So people who are 189 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 4: doing and I do look up to them because that's 190 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 4: a lot to take. 191 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 2: Very brave. 192 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I like what you said when you said you 193 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 3: have to enjoy it. 194 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:33,079 Speaker 2: You have enjoy yourself. I don't force yourself. 195 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 3: If I ever give advice, I was trying to say, like, 196 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 3: if you like the content. 197 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 4: Exact exactly exactly, if you like it as someone else 198 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 4: is going to enjoy it too. 199 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, don't make content for people. 200 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, and don't try and be like someone else, because 201 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: like they already exist, like they're already doing that. So like, 202 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 2: just try and just be genuine to what you like. 203 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 2: Just be yourself. No one is you, because that's. 204 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: Sort of how you found the premise of your show, 205 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: just talking about things you usually talk about. 206 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 4: Well, I think we still have the YouTube channel and 207 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 4: then naturally, I think because we are best. 208 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 2: Friends, people were like, oh, like I need a friend 209 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 2: to ask about this. Do you guys have an opinion 210 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 2: on this? Like I feel like I can't ask my 211 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: friends about this, so I'm going to ask YouTube instead. 212 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 2: So we naturally people were just sending some stuff in 213 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: toowards and just asking. Started on SNA Snapchat. We used 214 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 2: to go hard on Snapchat, like back. 215 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,239 Speaker 4: In the day, really yeah, to send us like Snapchat 216 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 4: of the Snapchat. 217 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 2: Messages videos like answer the snap Everythingtube video. 218 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 3: Yeah that is honestly, that's funny. And so how long 219 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 3: did you do YouTube before we started the podcast? 220 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,079 Speaker 2: I mean we still do YouTube now, but I think 221 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 2: we started the channel when I was sixteen, seventeen. I 222 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 2: am now twenty six, so it has been like ten years. 223 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: But we started the podcast maybe like five or six 224 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 2: years ago. 225 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, what made you want to do that? 226 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 2: It kind of grew from like yeah, so it would 227 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: start with like Chinsei was saying, like the dms on Snapchat, 228 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 2: and then because we used to post like three Cube 229 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 2: videos a week, we used to go hard on YouTube. 230 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,839 Speaker 2: So we were like, oh, this could be its own video, 231 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 2: like just us answering like these people's messages. So we 232 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 2: thought like, oh, we need a name. Let's do like 233 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 2: boy talk and gil Talk and whatever. So it kind 234 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 2: of just became a YouTube series like a boy talk video, 235 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 2: a girl talk video, and then we were kind of 236 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 2: listening to podcasts ourselves and kind of getting into podcasts, 237 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 2: and then we thought it could just be its own. 238 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 2: I think we got to start podcasts, but I remember 239 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:28,839 Speaker 2: at the time we were like, is anyone going to come 240 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 2: over from YouTube and like listen? It was like, oh, 241 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 2: I don't know if anyone really cares like it's something 242 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 2: different because it was obviously just audio back then, like 243 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 2: no one used to film their podcasts, and it was, oh, 244 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 2: well they can't watch us, like it's just going to 245 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 2: be through. 246 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 3: I remember the first. 247 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: I saw you guys pop up on were like for 248 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: you page. I can't remember if it was Instagra or TikTok, 249 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: and it was your outfits and I was like one 250 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 1: of these girls doing on their podcast, like how you 251 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 1: guys dress up? 252 00:10:57,840 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 2: Is it the Grinch? 253 00:10:59,600 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 3: Maybe? 254 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 1: Said the guy thought, where do you get that done? 255 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 4: We have an amazing prosthetics skills amazing, It's called Georgia. 256 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 2: She's amazing. 257 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 1: I always like look at podcast and see what other 258 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: people are doing, and. 259 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 3: Then what they. 260 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 2: As dressed up as boys? 261 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: Yeah that was I saw the photo. 262 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 2: I think you look like legitimate man. Yeah. We went 263 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 2: on Boohoo man and we ordered all the outfit. We 264 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 2: did fake change. Yeah, we love dressing up as fun you. 265 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 3: Guys, have you heard of the Basement podcast? 266 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? 267 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 2: I love the Basement. 268 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 3: Been the guy Joe san I was. I remember watching 269 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 3: him when I was like thirteen. Wow. But they did 270 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 3: like a drag episode where they dressed up as drags 271 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 3: and they looked like perfect. 272 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 2: Did they look beautiful? 273 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 3: I mean no, It was honestly so funny. 274 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 1: But before we get into the juiciest bits of the episode, 275 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: we have a couple of like reoccurring topics that come 276 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: up on our podcast. We can't really figure out what 277 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 1: they are. There's two in particular, and we want to 278 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 1: know if you guys can help us. Okay, the first 279 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: one is what is the triangle method? 280 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 2: What's that? Of course, I eyes lips. I don't know 281 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 2: that you told me that, No, I did not, you did. 282 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 2: The triangle method is when you want to kiss someone 283 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 2: and you go, you go, I I lips. 284 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: So it's like, you look, we had something to do 285 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: without the Bermuda triangle. 286 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 2: Well, I think I'm right. It's yeah, because we asked 287 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 2: girls like, how do you make the move? And they're 288 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:39,679 Speaker 2: like the triangle method, and our audience told us what 289 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,839 Speaker 2: it was. It was looking at eye. You looking at eye, 290 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 2: look in their lips, ey, eye lips, I eye lips. 291 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 1: You to look for that constant movement. 292 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like, yeah, the eye contact the lips. 293 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 3: That makes a lot of sense, to be fair, Yeah, 294 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 3: that does make a lot of sense. That's a good one. 295 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:58,319 Speaker 2: If you're trying to smooch for the first time. What 296 00:12:58,360 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 2: do you call snogging? 297 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 3: In Australia, we would called a hook up? 298 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 2: Well, for this is so it's just like. 299 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: Passionately, when we were young, we called it a hook up, 300 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: which is I don't know why. 301 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 3: I also think that a hookup should stand for like sleeping. 302 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:18,319 Speaker 2: Yeah. 303 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, but my parents they say pash. 304 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 2: That's like a George is it a Newcastle? Yeah. 305 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 3: My sister she she's Canadian, she says french kiss for 306 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 3: a makeout, French kiss for like just like a little 307 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 3: like text universal. 308 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:42,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have a specific word for snog. Is 309 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 2: its own things like you're snug in a club, we would. 310 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 3: Say hook up. We would say hook hooked up, Yeah, 311 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 3: I hooked. 312 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 2: If you actually hooked had sex. 313 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: With someone, hook kind of like goes across both. 314 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 2: Because that's such a difference. Oh yeah we hooked up. Okay, 315 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 2: well did you kiss or did you have. 316 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 3: If one of our friends was somewhere and we were like, 317 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 3: how was your weekend and he said, oh good, I 318 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 3: hooked up with X y Z, I would be like, okay, 319 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 3: he's kissed with passion snob, snob this lady, and then 320 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 3: to say we were just like like, we don't have 321 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 3: a word really for. 322 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: Like just like I don't know how you. 323 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 3: Navigate that made love? I think all those like well 324 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 3: we say we slept with someone, like I slept with Yeah, yeah, 325 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 3: slept with them. You wouldn't say yeah kissed. 326 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: Saying snow, I feel like snog snow. Yeah we were snogging? 327 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, SnO sounds fun. Do you have snob? Yeah? 328 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 3: Someone snobby? 329 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 2: Yeah with a snob? 330 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 3: That okay? What is the double hair tuck? 331 00:14:58,560 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 2: What around the ears? 332 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? 333 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 2: I don't know what. 334 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 3: Because we did a question on our Instagram and it 335 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 3: was subtle signs you give when you like a guy. 336 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 3: So one of them was the triangle, and then one 337 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 3: of them. 338 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 2: Was, yeah, like fidgeting with your hair. But I think 339 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 2: that's more. That's more you're more conscious of, like I 340 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 2: want to look nice. I'm just trying to keep my 341 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 2: hair fixed. So that is always a sign for a guy. 342 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 2: If a girl likes you, it's like trying to make 343 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 2: her hair look good. 344 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 3: Cool? 345 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: Do you have anything else if you're like if a 346 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 1: guy liked you, or do you like a guy? 347 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 3: So you would do. 348 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 2: Something that sounded like we were going probably like the 349 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: the were like physical touchy. We would not with each other, 350 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 2: but like hand on the knee, hand on the shoulder, 351 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 2: experts expert. 352 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 3: You know that might be where I got that thing 353 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 3: you didn't agree with. 354 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 1: Oh really, what are we chat? 355 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 3: What are we chat? How do you guys feel about asking? 356 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 3: What are we never? 357 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 2: Never that you should never be confused? 358 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 1: A massive debate on all saying that we will. 359 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 2: Die on this hill? Are you confusing women? 360 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 3: No? Because I got a baited by a TikTok, then 361 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 3: it's being confirmed. I finally agree with your audi and 362 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 3: this guy said how to have like the what are 363 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 3: we chat without actually saying what are we like those 364 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 3: words and one of them, what can I remember when 365 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 3: one of them was like you could say, oh, someone 366 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 3: asked me the other day in public, I don't know, 367 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 3: or like, if we're in public together. 368 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 2: I could say this, this is. 369 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 3: How like a girl should ask it without saying the 370 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 3: actual words what. 371 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 2: I should never have to ask. We should never have 372 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 2: to ask. 373 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 3: But no, the guy, so he said, you could say, 374 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 3: if we're in public together, like you've been hanging out, 375 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 3: we have another chat. If we're in public together and 376 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 3: I'm introducing you to someone, I just want to know 377 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 3: how I should introduce you. And so then it's like 378 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 3: it's like kind of it's like that saying what you're asking. 379 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 2: But then also it's like I'm going to say you're 380 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:04,400 Speaker 2: my friend. 381 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 3: And good point. It's a good point. I said. 382 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 1: If you're like scared to ask, like you're probably not 383 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: in the opposition exactly, you shouldn't have to ask exactly. 384 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 1: It should be easy by yeah, yeah, my girlfriend just 385 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:21,919 Speaker 1: asked me, like she didn't even ask me. 386 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 3: She just said, like, are you sleeping with anyone else? 387 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 3: Because I'm not, And I was like no, bold and 388 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 3: I just liked the boldness. I was like, oh no, 389 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 3: yeah yeah, and then I remember when I was young. 390 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 3: How do you guys feel? Do you reckon? You need 391 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 3: to be asked to be the guys girlfriend? 392 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yeah, many proposed to. 393 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,399 Speaker 1: Be my Valentine or gidding. 394 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 2: Up, Yeah, it has to happen. We're actually not here 395 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:50,159 Speaker 2: for Valentine's we're seeing other friends of Valentine's. I've then 396 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: got fiance and were taking them away. Right, Oh, yes, 397 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 2: you have Australian friends. You have Australian seeing them on 398 00:17:57,400 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day? 399 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 3: How do you know them on Instagram? 400 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 1: Have you never met in person? 401 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 2: But like she's got a fiance and just hanging out 402 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 2: with us on Valentine appreciated. 403 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 3: They've had enough Valentine's okay. One of the last one 404 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 3: we got the other day actually, and it was someone 405 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:23,439 Speaker 3: sent in like a voice message, and I think the 406 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 3: question was what do you love about being a girl? 407 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 3: And they said hair code. When it's up, Like apparently 408 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,360 Speaker 3: all girls know their hair code. When it's up, it's 409 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 3: time to party and when it's down, you're not. And 410 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:36,439 Speaker 3: so we didn't know. 411 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 2: Oh no, I would say opposite, opposite down. It's like party. 412 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 2: Let's go let your hair down. Australia as. 413 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 3: Thought that hair up meant like he throw me on 414 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 3: the business. 415 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 4: Do you know Sometimes Yeah, I would actually prefer my 416 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:57,399 Speaker 4: hair up if I was going to party because it's 417 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 4: out my face. It's secure, true, it's gelled, it's hairspray, true. 418 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:05,159 Speaker 2: Can move around, true boogle. See hair up for me? 419 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 2: Is work out? 420 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:07,920 Speaker 3: Okay? Fair? 421 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 2: Sophia would rather her down there. 422 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, my girlfriend puts her hair up when she's hot 423 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 3: and bothered, over stimulated. Your neck being covered actually like 424 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:17,199 Speaker 3: heats you up. 425 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 2: Imagine wearing a scarf in the heat. 426 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 427 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 3: It's a good point actually, and. 428 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: It's sticking to sticking to the back of your neck. 429 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,440 Speaker 1: And we'll finish this segment with what do you guys 430 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 1: love about being a girl? 431 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 4: Oh? 432 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 2: Friendships? Yeah, we love all the girly things. Yeah, girlfriendship. 433 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 2: You know what a lash lift is? 434 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 1: No lash lift like it makes you lashes curly. 435 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 3: I was going to say lashes longer. That was a 436 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 3: good one. 437 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well they look longer because they're they're like yeah there, 438 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 2: and they're like, we love a lash we love lasht 439 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:49,719 Speaker 2: do have that? 440 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 1: Is that what we call? 441 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I feel like, I feel like I've heard 442 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 3: it said, but I've never asked what it is. 443 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 2: We just love being a woman, We love supporting women. Yeah, 444 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,959 Speaker 2: the girls are the girls. Yeah, the girlies. 445 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,360 Speaker 3: I have one more question, sorry before we move on. Yeah, 446 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 3: the other day, we already know we're talking about things 447 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,479 Speaker 3: that we would love but never admit. Oh okay, and 448 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 3: one of them that I thought of is a thought 449 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 3: of a slumber party. And so we went into this 450 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 3: whole thing like slumber parties sound amazing. Guys sleepovers when 451 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 3: we were younger, if we offered, if we said, like, 452 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 3: you're sleeping on the floor, let's we're sleeping on the floor. 453 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 3: We would never share a bed. Let's if we said 454 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 3: let's have a bake off, like, it would be like no. 455 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 3: If we said let's have a fight, it would be 456 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 3: like no. 457 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 1: But we were just getting it from movies, so we 458 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 1: want to know. It's like a slumber party of real. 459 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 2: Sorry, we have sleepovers watching film. 460 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:45,360 Speaker 3: A face mask may face mask everyone doing a face mask? 461 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 2: Ye, ordering that would be a real If we lived 462 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,160 Speaker 2: in Australia. 463 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 3: That would be what if you got in London? 464 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 2: To be fair, we've got pink and snow, No. 465 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 3: It's called snow. 466 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 2: Let's go. 467 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 1: Yeah. Next we're going to be calling this facts or false. 468 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: And like I said, this is the girl's perspective. And 469 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 1: these are the juiciest topics that are always reoccurring on 470 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: our podcast, and we know where we stand on these ones. 471 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: And all we have to say is facts are false, 472 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 1: and we can elaborate if we want so. Facts are false. 473 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 1: Girls and guys can be best friends. 474 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:41,360 Speaker 2: Facts, facts, facts. I think I would just severe. 475 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 3: To emphasis on best yea emphasis on best I think false. Yes, 476 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:50,679 Speaker 3: we say falses because come. 477 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 1: On, emphasis on best, Like we understand guys and girls 478 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 1: can have friends. 479 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, sorry, I take that back, emphasis on best 480 00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 2: friend false? 481 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we you can disagree. 482 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, best friends. Yeah, I'm picturing like a group of friends, 483 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 2: not a double. 484 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:11,199 Speaker 4: A friend who says, oh, well my best friend Susan 485 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 4: probably yeah. 486 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 2: I meant to be like you can Susan can be 487 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 2: your mate, can be your mate. 488 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 3: Biggest hill that we're willing to die on. And we also, 489 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 3: like if we've been proven wrong plenty of times, but 490 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 3: we're just like so stubborn about this one thing. 491 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,120 Speaker 2: Do you guys have female friends? 492 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 3: We actually don't really. 493 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe why you're dying on that hill. It's kind 494 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 2: of like it's because we don't have like boy best friends. 495 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 2: And I think it's like when you can't relate to something, 496 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 2: you just like, Yeah. 497 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 3: The way I look at it is like, my dad 498 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 3: has never told me he's going to hang out with 499 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:42,640 Speaker 3: his friend. 500 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 2: So true, has your dad got a female best friend? 501 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: Probably not. 502 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 3: I don't even know if he has even mates. 503 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 2: My dad's friends are my mum's friends. 504 00:22:56,040 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 3: Okay, fact or false? We disagree on this, Okay. There's 505 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 3: a difference between hanging out and quality time. 506 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. In the relationship back, quality time. Quality time is 507 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 2: so important, has to be quality. 508 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 1: Quality spent he reckons like watching TV and stuff. 509 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:19,160 Speaker 2: Is no, No, that's not quality. It could be classed 510 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 2: as but it's. 511 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 4: Like quality time is like no devices, no TV, like 512 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:28,399 Speaker 4: we're doing something, like we're talking. You know. 513 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 2: It's like when you live with someone, right, you can 514 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,719 Speaker 2: see them before work in the morning, you see them 515 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 2: after what you're sleeping in the same bed, like you're 516 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 2: hanging out. Yeah, it can still get to the weekend 517 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 2: and be like, oh, let's do something, let's let's go on, 518 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 2: let's go out. For breakfast date. Let's have quality time. 519 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 2: I've seen you every day, but like we haven't had 520 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 2: quality time? 521 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, see make the effort. 522 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just like. But when we argued about it, right, 523 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 3: Adie's argument was it could be as the small as 524 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 3: small as going for a walk together. Yes, but you 525 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,919 Speaker 3: need to say like, like we're planning on going for 526 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 3: a walk together. So what I'm saying is like, if 527 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:04,680 Speaker 3: you want to walk on a whim, is that still 528 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:05,479 Speaker 3: quality time or not? 529 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? It's like yeah, but it feels quality. 530 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 3: But if you plan to watch TV together, like we 531 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 3: are going to watch this movie tonight together, is that 532 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 3: quality time? 533 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? 534 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 1: I think But if you watch a movie on a 535 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 1: whim like everyone always does, is that still quality time? 536 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,719 Speaker 2: Or hanging in well, you might go on your phone 537 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 2: like you might be like not that invested. It's like, 538 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 2: let's sit down and watch something together. Is yours not 539 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 2: quality time? It doesn't sound like. 540 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 3: It mine or I do like my own time? 541 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 2: Right, that's not a love language. 542 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say you're just gift giving. 543 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 3: No mine, what's is it? What's acts of service? 544 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:39,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 545 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, mine, I think mine's definitely acts of service. 546 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 2: So you like to receive you feel loved when things 547 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 2: are done for you or you show no, I show 548 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 2: love that. 549 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, how do I receive love? 550 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 2: Quality, afimation, gift giving? What are the other ones? 551 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 3: Do you know what yours? 552 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? I I am acts of service both ways. 553 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 3: Okay, I I read mine's definitely acts service, acts of 554 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 3: service towards me. I also would love maybe because I 555 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:08,159 Speaker 3: like to give it. 556 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, quality time, affection, everyone's them all quality time. 557 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:22,159 Speaker 4: You could hang out with someone all week, but like 558 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,199 Speaker 4: you still can feel like you've not seen them or 559 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:25,160 Speaker 4: like her quality time. 560 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:29,360 Speaker 3: That's a good point. Actually, sometimes me and my girlfriend 561 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:30,719 Speaker 3: could go through a phase where we're like, oh, we're 562 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:31,920 Speaker 3: hanging out, but we miss each other. 563 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I want to connect. 564 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 3: And then yeah, we've never actually said let's send quality time, 565 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,360 Speaker 3: but we just say, like, let's spend time. 566 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 2: So maybe you know what your girlfriend's love language is 567 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 2: because you should probably figure that out. You could do 568 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 2: the quick to do that. It's a fun little activity. 569 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we did it, like ages ago. 570 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 3: I actually asked her the other day. 571 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,400 Speaker 2: It's actually a really good thing to learn about your part. 572 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 2: It makes life easier. 573 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 3: Asked something. I think I think one of her main 574 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 3: ones is going to be what's opening like cardoor and 575 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 3: stuff for? Is that actually? 576 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 577 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,439 Speaker 3: Because I asked the other day, I said, what's the 578 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 3: thing that you like the most that I do? And 579 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,679 Speaker 3: she said opening the car door? Yeah, and like the 580 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 3: So maybe she's actual service and taking. 581 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,439 Speaker 2: Care of that's like thoughtful. 582 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 3: Because she also loves to just like be alone. Yeah, yeah, 583 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 3: alone time and we're not huge touchy feely act of 584 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,679 Speaker 3: service people. Definitely, what's yours? 585 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 1: Mine's probably words of information? 586 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, words, Yeah, that's how you show well, that's how 587 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 2: you receive all both both. 588 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, I'm definitely show it that way saying it 589 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 1: or doing like I write, like poems with my girlfriends 590 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 1: and stuff so much shut shut how I show. 591 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 2: It's so nice. 592 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 1: My story I wrote before I started dating my girlfriend. 593 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy. 594 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 2: How long have you been with your girlfriends? 595 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: Mine's a bit over a year. 596 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, mine's also just a bit over. 597 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 2: A year's d online? Like, what's the dating scene like 598 00:26:58,160 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 2: in Australia. 599 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 3: We both met on Instagram? 600 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 2: Yeah we both you guys slide in My girlfriends live in, 601 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 2: but how did your girlfriend slide in? I feel like 602 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 2: girls are curious about like how do girls make the 603 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 2: first movie good? Like to Receive? 604 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: I think her d M was not good, but it 605 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 1: helped it because you guys would know because you're like 606 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 1: on social media and online personality. If you get a 607 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 1: d M from like a random or something, you probably 608 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 1: won't reply. But I knew of this girl because she 609 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 1: was from where I grew up. And she just meshed 610 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 1: me and said, why you're always on my for you page? 611 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 3: Right there? 612 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:37,400 Speaker 1: Okay? 613 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 3: Also, yeah, good or bad? I think that no matter 614 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,199 Speaker 3: what you say to someone that actually wants you to 615 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 3: message them, they're going to reply. Said hey, and you 616 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 3: would have said hey, So. 617 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 1: I I will admit IDM first, but I like to 618 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: really preface it. 619 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 2: She followed me first, so that's perfect because that was 620 00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 2: her making her so she's a genius. 621 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 3: Had me like a book. She followed me, I followed 622 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 3: her back, and then she liked a story of mine. 623 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 3: She did it just like the classic classic way. I 624 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,400 Speaker 3: messaged Oddy and I said, oh, she likes a story 625 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 3: of mine, like I have to. I have to message her. 626 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 3: And then, actually, you know, you said it first, which 627 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,880 Speaker 3: is bad. If she said wait until she posts one, 628 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 3: wait until she posts like a bikini story. I reply 629 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 3: that I said, you did say I would. 630 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,200 Speaker 1: Have never said bikini. I would have said I would 631 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 1: have never said bikini to throw me under her. Do 632 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 1: I remember it that because I'll admit he told me 633 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 1: to message her out of the blue and say, guess 634 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 1: the number between one and ten and whatever she says, 635 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 1: just say crazy. 636 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 3: I was thinking of that too. We must be so mates, 637 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 3: and it's like I like that. Yeah, Like it's not 638 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 3: a bad one, it's not a great one. But she 639 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:42,640 Speaker 3: just obviously wanted me to message her. Yeah, so the 640 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 3: rest was history. Yeah, funny, alright. 641 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,360 Speaker 1: Next one, facts or false? Does heart matter when dating? 642 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 2: We're quite false. 643 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 1: More women, they just have to be taller than you. 644 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. I mean my dad is smaller than me. 645 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 2: So I've been around small little my whole life, little 646 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 2: small man. Like I think if there was a. 647 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 4: Smaller guy, I don't but he was attractive, like I think, 648 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 4: I don't think I would have a problem with it. 649 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to go out with someone who was 650 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 2: smaller than me. But I'm five ft five and I 651 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 2: feel like, but if you were just taller than me, 652 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 2: I'm fine, Like you could be five for eight, don't 653 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 2: need a six foot five you know cool? 654 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, good tonight. 655 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 1: That's interesting to know. Yesterday we asked my sister this question. 656 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 1: She said, yes, it does. 657 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 2: It's nice and someone's like towering over. Yeah, it makes 658 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 2: you feel small, feel more, Yeah, like we want to 659 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 2: feel tiny, fair enough. 660 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 3: Fact or false? Farting is fine in front of your partner. 661 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 4: Fact. I think you should be able to fight, should 662 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 4: not be judged if someone's been really about it, that's disgusting. 663 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 2: Don't ever do that yet. Then it's like you're like, 664 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 2: not on the first date when we've been living together 665 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,360 Speaker 2: for four years to do? 666 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 3: What's a time frame for you? 667 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 2: Do? 668 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 4: I think once you said I love you, it's like 669 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 4: little we can be ourselves. Yeah, you and I've got 670 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 4: a bad belly. 671 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 1: Everything already. And last one facts or false? Guys should 672 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 1: pay on the first date. 673 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 2: Yes, please? Yes, agreed only because like like me and 674 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 2: Chintz always say like, whoever suggested should kind of be 675 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,280 Speaker 2: the one to pay if you take out. Yeah, if 676 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 2: you've said to me, I want to take you out 677 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 2: of booked this table eight pm Friday, gorgeous. I'll be there, 678 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,959 Speaker 2: but like you're taking me out of course. Likewise, if 679 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 2: I said, I really want to go to cinema. I 680 00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 2: want us to watch this film, like I'm going to 681 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 2: book it for us tickets. 682 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, agreed. Whoever asks the other person to go 683 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 3: on the date, Yeah, like okay, fact or false. When 684 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 3: the guys areking you to hang out or go on 685 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:04,560 Speaker 3: a date, he should call it a date other like 686 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 3: not called a hangout, but. 687 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 2: Yes, because you want to. You don't want to be 688 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 2: confused with oh is this a date or not? Yeah, 689 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 2: you want it to be clear. 690 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 1: We've been trying to say that. It's been coming off 691 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 1: heaps on the podcast. 692 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 2: They're trying to be like they're trying to be easy breezy, like, oh, 693 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 2: let's hang out on Saturday. Na, I don't know. It's like, yeah, okay, 694 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 2: if it's just the two of you, then I'm thinking 695 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 2: it's a day. 696 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, no, I agree. I kind of look at 697 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 3: it as like. 698 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 4: I wouldn't get if you're if your friends already, then 699 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 4: you can be confused. 700 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 1: See that's funny because we asked Joanna, my sister, this yesterday, 701 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: and she said, if I think if you're already friends 702 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 1: and someone says, oh, do you want to just like 703 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: hang out one on one because they kind of feel something. 704 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 3: Then that's fine. 705 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: I said, if you're thinking about kissing him, it's a date. 706 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 3: True, Yeah, if you want to kiss him, it's a date. 707 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 3: Because we yeah, like we even have friends that if 708 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 3: you see a friend after a while and they say yeah, 709 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 3: you ask how they're going, and I was like, oh, yeah, 710 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 3: I've been I was hanging out with this girl. It's 711 00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 3: kind of like, I mean, were you dating her? What 712 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 3: were you? Yes, Like we know what you mean, Like 713 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,200 Speaker 3: you were obviously sleeping with her and going on dates, 714 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 3: But did you ever call it a date? Did you 715 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 3: ever make it clear? It's an interest? 716 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 2: That's what girls want. They just want to be They 717 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 2: want to be told it needs to be clear if 718 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 2: they want to be confused communication. 719 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 3: There's like a huge stigma of that. Girls have like 720 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 3: the most confusing brains ever. Does that annoy. 721 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 2: Actually way more straightforward? 722 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 1: That's what we're going to say, Yeah, because I annoy 723 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 1: you that that is kind of a things complicated. 724 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 2: Ye see, we think men are all over the place. 725 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 3: Like. 726 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 2: I think it really just like I think, like sometimes 727 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 2: I speak to my boyfriend about this, like men and 728 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 2: women are just genuinely we are wired so differently, like 729 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 2: we think like a boy will do something different and 730 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,480 Speaker 2: a woman would look at that and think, oh, well, 731 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 2: that must mean that, but it doesn't actually mean that, 732 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 2: Like women are from Venus and MANI from literally and 733 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,200 Speaker 2: it is actually true, like we are wired so differently. 734 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 3: Okay, guys, next up his dilemmas, which is going to 735 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,680 Speaker 3: be very fitting because you guys do a lot of 736 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 3: dilemmas as well. And everyone listening. If you want to 737 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 3: send one in, it will be in the description of 738 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 3: our video to Google doc. It's all anonymous, and yeah, 739 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 3: we can help you out. Okay, I'm sorry, it's long. 740 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 3: This is eating me up. I love you guys. Let's 741 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 3: go love you guys, and would value the opinion. I 742 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 3: found out my boyfriend of a year living together for 743 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 3: eleven months has. 744 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 2: See they moved in after a month, right, what the 745 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 2: hell happens? Moved in after a month? 746 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: Wow, I don't know how I feel about that. 747 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 2: Who initiated that? Is living at yours? Does he have 748 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 2: a job. 749 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 3: When we first started doing our dilemmas, we would be like, 750 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 3: we just need. 751 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,560 Speaker 1: More, yeah, and we just were like, honestly, we're just 752 00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: gonna have to go with what they give us so hard. 753 00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: It's so hard. 754 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 3: Okay. I found out that my boyfriend, every year living 755 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 3: together for eleven months, has his ex'es birthday as his 756 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 3: phone pass code. 757 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 2: Okay, have we not similar to this? I was at 758 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 2: the hairdressers once, right, I'll keep the show. I was 759 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,880 Speaker 2: at the hairdresses once and I was just like, people 760 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 2: were just talking and this woman was saying, I had 761 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,440 Speaker 2: the biggest fight with my boyfriend last night and my 762 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,759 Speaker 2: ear is prick. This is a naturally. I was like, 763 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 2: oh my god, what's about to go down? And she 764 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 2: was like, I found out that my boyfriend's phone pass 765 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,960 Speaker 2: is actually his ex's birthday. And I was like, oh, 766 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,799 Speaker 2: that's and she was saying, how like her boy She 767 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 2: was arguing with him about it all night, but he 768 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:35,759 Speaker 2: was just like, oh, no, it's my phone bus what. 769 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:37,400 Speaker 2: I don't even think about it, Like I'm not thinking 770 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 2: about what it is. But she was like, no, no, no, 771 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,280 Speaker 2: that's your exes birthday. 772 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 1: But you are. 773 00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:45,720 Speaker 2: Okay. 774 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,879 Speaker 3: In January, I asked him why he used the same 775 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 3: date for his bank pin and phone code, and he 776 00:34:51,560 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 3: told me it was his childhood dog's birthday exactly continued 777 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 3: to tell me. Continue to tell me this whenever it 778 00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 3: was brought up. Fast forward six months and I asked 779 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 3: him if he remembered my birthday. We celebrated it together 780 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 3: two months prior. He could not tell me what my 781 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 3: birthday was. I then asked. I then asked him if 782 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 3: he remembered his ex'es birthday, and he said. 783 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 2: Yes, he should love lied that. 784 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 3: I then asked if her birthday was the pin he used, 785 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 3: and he said no and told and told. 786 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,799 Speaker 1: Me her birthday was in a different month. Obviously, I 787 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: went on her Facebook and checked. He lied and has 788 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 1: been lying for six months. 789 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 2: Dump him, Yeah, we don't like liar. Ump him, like 790 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 2: liars are really scared exactly if you're gonna lie something 791 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:45,240 Speaker 2: as insignificant as your phone password honest from the start. 792 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:47,439 Speaker 3: Honestly, this gets I think this gets a little worse. 793 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,759 Speaker 3: He cheated on his last girlfriend with his ex and 794 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 3: him and I and him and I have had multiple 795 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,320 Speaker 3: arguments regarding him telling me if she's messaged him, et cetera. 796 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I. 797 00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 3: Thought that had come to an end because he blocked 798 00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,839 Speaker 3: her and our relationship was in a good place. They 799 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,760 Speaker 3: dated between fifteen to nineteen years old. We are now 800 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 3: twenty three. Is he still in love with her? Or 801 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 3: is he just or is this just some cruel thing 802 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,279 Speaker 3: designed to hurt my feelings? I'm so confused. He's now 803 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,799 Speaker 3: changed it to my birthday, deleted all the photos of her, 804 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 3: deleted all the photos of her, and is going to 805 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 3: therapy to address the compulsive line. But is that enough? 806 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,280 Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, something that's growth. 807 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:28,480 Speaker 3: Yep, we live together and are in a very serious relationship. 808 00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:32,399 Speaker 3: What should I do? Ps He set her birthday as 809 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 3: the pin to our joint bank account. 810 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,919 Speaker 4: So it wasn't even a thing that like, oh, well 811 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,600 Speaker 4: I've had this for years. 812 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 2: You know, blah blah blahh this was a new thing. 813 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 1: Maybe he has had it for years, and then like 814 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 1: just for the joint one that they just got. 815 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 3: He also made it that he doesn't forget. 816 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:52,800 Speaker 2: No, okay, but he is trying to change the therapy 817 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,840 Speaker 2: therapy thing is actually, see, the thing is like I 818 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,799 Speaker 2: could kind of understand the initial lie like oh, it 819 00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,399 Speaker 2: is my dog's birthday, but then like because I've caught 820 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 2: you out and you're panicked, but then I would hope 821 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 2: that like actually like maybe the day after you would 822 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,719 Speaker 2: be like, Okay, look I'm sorry, like I actually haven't 823 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 2: been honest about something like blah blah blah, but like 824 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,920 Speaker 2: he just kept digging. He just changed it straight away, 825 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 2: just as soon as I've gone, oh what is that? 826 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 2: Just change it? Yeah, like you just didn't need. 827 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 1: To lie even we should probably even. 828 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 3: Just tell her that that it was that and I'll 829 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 3: change it now. I'm so sorry. 830 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 2: I know I didn't even like I didn't. I wasn't 831 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 2: really making the connection anymore, like, oh sorry, like you 832 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:29,879 Speaker 2: being honest and they were sorting it out. 833 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, but he also. 834 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 3: Forgot birthday, yeah, for so long, and there lies about 835 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:38,920 Speaker 3: if they I would go, I would get rid. 836 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:40,600 Speaker 1: I like what you said, where else is he lying? 837 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,880 Speaker 3: We have this whole thing where I listened to a 838 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,320 Speaker 3: few of your episodes before this, and I noticed that 839 00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:49,439 Speaker 3: you guys put in like we are not professionals. Any 840 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,720 Speaker 3: of this advice is just subjective, yeah, and we always 841 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 3: Our whole thing is like we've never said to someone 842 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,759 Speaker 3: break up because like we will ten times yeah by 843 00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 3: all me, Like you definitely can. But our whole thing 844 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 3: is like people actually might do it, and we've. 845 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 2: Called off wedding. 846 00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,799 Speaker 3: See we're so scared of that. That's a wild. 847 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 1: Because it is still their choice in the end, like 848 00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 1: that you guys like said this, but we always say, 849 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, yeah, what's your gut saying this? 850 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:19,240 Speaker 3: One's pretty heavy? 851 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 2: But yeah, I just think, like you, the last thing 852 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 2: you want to be doing in a relationship is worrying 853 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,960 Speaker 2: about your partner's ex. And I think it's something that 854 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 2: maybe is She's kind of normalized it for her because 855 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,839 Speaker 2: it's always been a bit of a like itch in 856 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 2: her mind, and I just think, like that is not 857 00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 2: there for no reason, like no smoke without fire, like, 858 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,279 Speaker 2: but I think if you're feeling something in like your girl, 859 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,800 Speaker 2: it's probably probably true. 860 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,719 Speaker 3: How do you guys feel about keeping So he had 861 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 3: photos and he hadn't. 862 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,920 Speaker 2: On his instat We hate that delete what about. 863 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 3: On his phone? Just like memories from when he was 864 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:53,240 Speaker 3: with other people? 865 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,479 Speaker 2: And I don't mind because I'm probably guilty of because 866 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 2: I don't I've got so many pictures on my camera. 867 00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,279 Speaker 2: I don't really go back, but like they shouldn't be 868 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,439 Speaker 2: on like your public profiles, and like I don't want 869 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 2: you to be strolling back and having a look. But 870 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:06,120 Speaker 2: if they were on there from like twenty eighteen, like 871 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,719 Speaker 2: on the it is what it is. I don't really 872 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,040 Speaker 2: care about that, that's funny. 873 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know my I've spoken to my sister 874 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,840 Speaker 3: about this a few times and she said that photos 875 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 3: of X's it's like, she goes, it's just like such 876 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,840 Speaker 3: a huge part of your life. She obviously doesn't have 877 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 3: it on Instagram, but to keep me in a camera roll, 878 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:24,399 Speaker 3: She's like, oh, that was also my life. 879 00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:24,759 Speaker 2: True. 880 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,359 Speaker 3: I don't want to delete the memories of my own life. 881 00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:29,040 Speaker 3: Just he was there, yeah, and I was just like, nah, 882 00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 3: I just agree, get rid of the Yeah. For me, 883 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 3: it's just like I have a tactic of getting over 884 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 3: someone and that's getting rid of everything and yeah. 885 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,880 Speaker 2: Raising everything. Yeah, me too. And I think like the 886 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 2: way that you're wired is like how you want your 887 00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 2: partner to be as well. Yeah, otherwise I think that 888 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,400 Speaker 2: can create like, yeah, tension. 889 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:46,399 Speaker 3: Well we have a follow up. 890 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:50,279 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we're lucky we found this in there. 891 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:55,440 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Hi, besties. So I'm the girl whose boyfriend 892 00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,200 Speaker 3: had his ex'es b DA as his password. Basically, we've 893 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 3: been working through it and doing fairly well, except I'm 894 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,480 Speaker 3: still really struggling to wrap my head around it and 895 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,880 Speaker 3: have a lot of anxiety. Fair, Oh no, anyways, his 896 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,439 Speaker 3: birthday party was on the weekend, and your girl got 897 00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,600 Speaker 3: black out and ended up shouting at him in front 898 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,920 Speaker 3: of his friends. It's so embarrassing, and I know all 899 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,279 Speaker 3: his friends must hate me. Now keep in mind this 900 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 3: party was not on his actual birthday. My dilemma is 901 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 3: that I'm so fucking anxious about seeing his mates again, 902 00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 3: knowing they hate me. From a male perspective, how would 903 00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:30,520 Speaker 3: you feel about me? They don't know about the situation 904 00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:32,319 Speaker 3: because he wouldn't tell them stuff like this to make 905 00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:33,200 Speaker 3: himself look bad. 906 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:35,319 Speaker 1: I'm worried they will never get over this. What would 907 00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:36,800 Speaker 1: you do if you were me? And what would you 908 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:38,800 Speaker 1: do if you were my boyfriend? Thanks Kings. 909 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 2: Okay, so she's confidence is key. Everyone makes mistakes. Get 910 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,279 Speaker 2: strong consists of sometimes everyone's had that anxiety of like, 911 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 2: oh my god, sure everyone thinking yeah, oh yeah, everyone's 912 00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:50,880 Speaker 2: had that. 913 00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 4: But I think, okay, so how do we face the 914 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:53,680 Speaker 4: friends again? 915 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:56,759 Speaker 2: I would just well, I think this is where I 916 00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:58,880 Speaker 2: sorry about last time. I was a little bitter, But 917 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,000 Speaker 2: I know I also think, like you're you should be 918 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:04,560 Speaker 2: allowed to like make a mistake in front of your 919 00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 2: boyfriend's friends and them not like turn on you. Like 920 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,000 Speaker 2: that makes me think that your boyfriend doesn't speak positively 921 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,279 Speaker 2: about you to his friends, hating you. I don't like that. 922 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 2: Like I think that your boyfriend's friends ideally should like 923 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,480 Speaker 2: think really highly of you and I like you, and 924 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 2: like if if you like act a bit like crazy 925 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,799 Speaker 2: one night, they're not going to like judge you for it. 926 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,359 Speaker 2: But unless I don't know, that makes my that makes 927 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,400 Speaker 2: my brain would go to like, oh, his boyfriend, my 928 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,920 Speaker 2: boyfriend like moans about me to his mates. She's fucking there. 929 00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's ricky again. 930 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:38,720 Speaker 2: I just think it's confident, like make it if. 931 00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:40,680 Speaker 3: We were the friends and just knowing like what you 932 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:43,640 Speaker 3: just said, guys don't talk to their guy friends kind 933 00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:45,560 Speaker 3: of about their relationship at all, good or bad. 934 00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 1: And I definitely wouldn't judge and think she's the worst 935 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 1: after doing something. 936 00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there's always two sides, and I feel like 937 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 2: most people know that, like most people can see like 938 00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,160 Speaker 2: to judge off one yeah. Yeah. 939 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,319 Speaker 3: And also I think like we are levelheaded enough. Maybe 940 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,879 Speaker 3: some people aren't. But the way I would think is like, oh, 941 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,399 Speaker 3: she's not yelling at him for no re like there's 942 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,080 Speaker 3: something we don't know. It's private to them. 943 00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,839 Speaker 1: Like if I say, because you always see couples fighting 944 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,359 Speaker 1: on a night out and you're just like, oh, they're 945 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,040 Speaker 1: obviously having a couple's fight. Yeah, like that's just between them. 946 00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:16,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it keeps different of them. 947 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:19,800 Speaker 3: Had we had had a conversation a while ago, I 948 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:21,400 Speaker 3: think we had it on the podcast. So it was 949 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 3: kind of it was like, good, we guys don't talk 950 00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,920 Speaker 3: about it good or bad, right, Like if we've done 951 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,680 Speaker 3: something bad, we actually we don't tell our friend about 952 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:33,480 Speaker 3: fights we've had with our girlfriends. And then also we 953 00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:37,200 Speaker 3: don't ever say like anything super good, and if we're 954 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 3: gonna say anything, it is about the fight. Like he's like, well, 955 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:40,919 Speaker 3: me and my godfriend had the biggest fight the other day, right. 956 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,239 Speaker 3: And so then with guy friends that I feel like 957 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 3: the reason that it's always like oh the old ball 958 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 3: and chain like that that thing about how guys with 959 00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,479 Speaker 3: at the ball and chain the girlfriend or the wife 960 00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,759 Speaker 3: or whatever is because a guy only talks with guy 961 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,640 Speaker 3: friends rarely, but if it is something, it's the bad stuff. 962 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 3: And so it was like kind of hard to do, 963 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,840 Speaker 3: and I think I would wich more guys would do 964 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:02,600 Speaker 3: it is like, and I don't know if girls do it. 965 00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:06,799 Speaker 3: I'm sure they do, but it's like, tell them if 966 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,120 Speaker 3: your girlfriend is like the best girlfriend you've ever had? Yeah, 967 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,120 Speaker 3: just tell your guy friends kind of you know, it 968 00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 3: doesn't have to be a whole big thing. Yeah, at 969 00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:15,160 Speaker 3: least they know that. 970 00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 1: So then they can have some sort of unbiased opinion 971 00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 1: when you do bring up a fight and you go, oh, 972 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 1: when you told me this, Yeah, so it's like you're 973 00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 1: mad at her now, but also she's the best. 974 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:22,600 Speaker 3: Girlfriend ever had. Not. 975 00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:24,840 Speaker 2: Just think if you're hanging out with your friends, like 976 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,759 Speaker 2: as a couple, they see you like they know you, 977 00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 2: like they see that you're but I do. And also 978 00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:30,799 Speaker 2: you like if they know you as a friend, they 979 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 2: will know you're happy. Yeah, Like I do kind of 980 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:34,960 Speaker 2: feel like that's normal. Like you do go to your 981 00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 2: friends when it's like, oh, I guess, what are you 982 00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,520 Speaker 2: really pissing offlah? Lah? And you might not be like, 983 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:41,560 Speaker 2: oh my god, we did this week. Yeah, Like that's 984 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:42,240 Speaker 2: like a couple of stuff. 985 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:42,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 986 00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:44,840 Speaker 1: I think I just said, like, best the best girlfriend 987 00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 1: ive ever had. I feel like you should know that 988 00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 1: just in case I ever say she's. 989 00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 3: Been a bitch. Yeah, you know, like we have a 990 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,160 Speaker 3: massive fight. I'm like, oh, she's pissing me off. Yeah, 991 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,040 Speaker 3: it's like something that you should know. Yeah, and it's like, yeah, 992 00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:57,239 Speaker 3: I don't know. I just thought it was funny and 993 00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 3: I just like kind of thought, yeah, no one ever 994 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:01,920 Speaker 3: talks about the great times. 995 00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:05,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is interesting. Yeah, because everyone loves a moan. 996 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:09,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's relatable for girls. You reckon, They're like, yeah, 997 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 3: we love yeah. 998 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 2: I think so. 999 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:14,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, not to like be harsh, but I've I've noticed 1000 00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:15,359 Speaker 3: English people love them. 1001 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,320 Speaker 2: Oh we do. Yeah, Karens. Do you have Karens? 1002 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:24,520 Speaker 1: We have yeah, Okay, do you have community groups like 1003 00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:25,239 Speaker 1: on Facebook? 1004 00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,000 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, Karens go him. 1005 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 1: Like they'll complain about everything. 1006 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:35,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, we do love a moon people love them. 1007 00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:37,120 Speaker 1: It's so easy moment. 1008 00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,440 Speaker 4: That's all we talk about is the well, yeah it's 1009 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:44,799 Speaker 4: so drizzly and so do you think you leave? But 1010 00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 4: it's like, we would never leave me. 1011 00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:50,719 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think we could leave for a 1012 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,000 Speaker 2: little bit, but we would always go back. Yeah, like 1013 00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:54,960 Speaker 2: it is the best. We do love you do want 1014 00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:56,840 Speaker 2: it to be, but I do. I do find it 1015 00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:01,719 Speaker 2: fascinating when Australians moved to England and they like, what 1016 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 2: are you doing? 1017 00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,799 Speaker 4: So does England appeal to you to live or do 1018 00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:06,040 Speaker 4: you like love the sun and the sea. 1019 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:07,279 Speaker 3: I love the sun and I have to live near 1020 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 3: the ocean, I think growing up, I think just the 1021 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:12,520 Speaker 3: amount of vitamin D supplements to take if I lived 1022 00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:17,719 Speaker 3: in England, Yeah, and expensive, but I've been. When I 1023 00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,680 Speaker 3: went there, it was the back end of winter and 1024 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,359 Speaker 3: it was God, I'm not gonna lie, I've never felt 1025 00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,359 Speaker 3: it this. It was like it zero degrees one day 1026 00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:25,320 Speaker 3: and I was dying. 1027 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 2: What like months was it back end of December? 1028 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,960 Speaker 3: No, maybe it wasn't even the best is like the worst. 1029 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,359 Speaker 3: It was like it was like May. 1030 00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah it was. 1031 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 3: It was crazy, yeah. 1032 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:40,760 Speaker 2: And it was it's lighter. 1033 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:43,680 Speaker 3: We didn't give much rain and so the week we 1034 00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,080 Speaker 3: spent in London, I was like, oh, I can see 1035 00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 3: myself being here. But then everyone I remember coming. 1036 00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,279 Speaker 2: I think people think that like in England it rains 1037 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:53,759 Speaker 2: every day and it doesn't like we don't actually get 1038 00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,480 Speaker 2: that much. There can be periods of like rain, but 1039 00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:59,799 Speaker 2: it's not like it's rain and its just cold and gray. Yeah, 1040 00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 2: it's not right. 1041 00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,360 Speaker 3: So yeah, we I don't know something about the sunshine. 1042 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:04,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no sunshine. It's just a gray cloud. But 1043 00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:06,879 Speaker 2: we're grateful to have like a blue sky dough. 1044 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:07,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1045 00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:10,160 Speaker 3: Maddie, our manager, she lived there for like seven years 1046 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:12,800 Speaker 3: and she did say like she loved it. She obviously 1047 00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:14,480 Speaker 3: she loved London, but she said it is like you 1048 00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,480 Speaker 3: wake up, it's dark, you get on a bus to 1049 00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:18,280 Speaker 3: go to work, it's dark. When you get in the office, 1050 00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:19,600 Speaker 3: it's you're in there all day. And then you leave 1051 00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:20,720 Speaker 3: the office it's dark. Yeah. 1052 00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 1: You slip on the ice yeah, and you get on 1053 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,760 Speaker 1: the bus it's gross and wet because it's like dusty frosting. 1054 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:27,879 Speaker 1: She said, it's just like so rough. 1055 00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,360 Speaker 3: After a while, you're just like, no wonder, it's just 1056 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:35,800 Speaker 3: the weather sucks. Yeah, But Australia, I'm gonna I'm not 1057 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,279 Speaker 3: gonna lie back into summer. I'm sick of it. So 1058 00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:40,839 Speaker 3: I enjoy the heat while you enjoy it. 1059 00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:44,640 Speaker 1: But thirty five degrees day like constantly gets. 1060 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you coldest it gets like when. 1061 00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,399 Speaker 1: It does get cold in Sydney, I reckon. 1062 00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,000 Speaker 3: The coldest it gets is like I reckon. There's a 1063 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:55,279 Speaker 3: few zero days the morning, the morning is zero. When 1064 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 3: I lived at my parents' house in the twenty seventeen 1065 00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:00,959 Speaker 3: I had ice on myere Winshield one seventeen No Cold 1066 00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:05,920 Speaker 3: Sydney in the morning. It is one hundred percent zero. 1067 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:10,920 Speaker 1: After I will dial on this. Okay, we actually need 1068 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,400 Speaker 1: to bet something on this. Okay, forfeit? Okay, can you 1069 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 1: guys use a forfeit? 1070 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 3: I know it gets a zero morning. I'm saying morning. 1071 00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 3: I'm not anytime. 1072 00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,160 Speaker 1: I'll add a next clip. Okay, we'll think of it 1073 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:24,680 Speaker 1: out of here and we'll put it in the episode. 1074 00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:27,279 Speaker 1: I know it gets a zero in the morning, all right, 1075 00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 1: and I'm saying morning. So you don't twist my words. 1076 00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:39,040 Speaker 1: You always, I would say anytime, day whenever. Alright. Up next, 1077 00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:42,080 Speaker 1: we have a reoccurring segment on our podcast that is 1078 00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 1: things girls where regularly that can't be comfortable, and that's 1079 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,080 Speaker 1: where everyone sends in on our ig question things. 1080 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 3: And there's a. 1081 00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:53,279 Speaker 1: Couple of ones that we want to debate that are 1082 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,759 Speaker 1: they actually Yeah, these ones we thought of. 1083 00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,160 Speaker 3: We swear that like girls always admit that it's not 1084 00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 3: that bad. It's it's that we are sure. It's I 1085 00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:03,040 Speaker 3: think we're used. 1086 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:06,600 Speaker 2: To being uncomfortable. Yeah, but is it. 1087 00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 1: Worth the pain? That's what we want to okay pain. 1088 00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:10,839 Speaker 3: Okay, So the. 1089 00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,760 Speaker 1: First one is things girls were regularly they can't be comfortable. 1090 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:15,880 Speaker 1: Spicy lip closs. 1091 00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,640 Speaker 2: Oh, tingly lip plump. That's fine. 1092 00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,719 Speaker 4: I quite like the feeling of that. It's a bit like, oh, 1093 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 4: it's like a little bit of a thrill because you feel. 1094 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,359 Speaker 2: Like I actually I actually don't like it myself, but 1095 00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:28,520 Speaker 2: I think people like it because it makes your lips 1096 00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:30,759 Speaker 2: feel like they're swelling up. They mean, that's the whole 1097 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 2: purpose of. 1098 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,000 Speaker 1: It, like to make your lips look that you've had 1099 00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:34,759 Speaker 1: a little bit of like maybe enjoy it. 1100 00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:37,239 Speaker 4: We've got the Charlotte tevery one that gives us a 1101 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:38,360 Speaker 4: little spicy space. 1102 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it. 1103 00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:42,080 Speaker 3: You don't like it? 1104 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, because my physical pain. 1105 00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,680 Speaker 3: I don't know what one we have we have, like 1106 00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,080 Speaker 3: you probably have the same brands there, but yeah, I 1107 00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,200 Speaker 3: went and bought one. We've tried it before and the 1108 00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:57,000 Speaker 3: post terrible. It's called like max pump something. We got 1109 00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:03,560 Speaker 3: it from a makeup shop and my my sister my girlfriend, 1110 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,759 Speaker 3: but they both like swear that they actually kind of 1111 00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:06,440 Speaker 3: enjoy the feeling. 1112 00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:10,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't hate kind of like minty tingly. Have 1113 00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,560 Speaker 2: you guys done the period simulated. 1114 00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,080 Speaker 1: We've done an age Agay, we did it, but we 1115 00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 1: did it with one of so we did it with 1116 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,440 Speaker 1: the little machine that's actually to try and help period 1117 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,600 Speaker 1: cramps or like a muscle like us. 1118 00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,239 Speaker 3: Just put it somewhere and we turned it up and 1119 00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:25,960 Speaker 3: it was bad. But I don't think we've been doing 1120 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:26,360 Speaker 3: We need to go to. 1121 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, women are just used to paint. It's like men, 1122 00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,359 Speaker 2: like when you like pluck your boyfriend's eyebrows. They can't 1123 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:32,799 Speaker 2: handle it. 1124 00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:34,719 Speaker 3: So much. 1125 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:35,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just not used to it. 1126 00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 3: It's always blackheads that need to be coming out, but 1127 00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:42,359 Speaker 3: I swear they don't because it leaves it I'm bleeding. Yeah, 1128 00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,160 Speaker 3: it's like if I'm bleeding after a black it comes out, 1129 00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 3: it didn't need to come out. 1130 00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. 1131 00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 3: My next one, this one, we this could be things 1132 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:53,920 Speaker 3: girls where they can't be comfortable. 1133 00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:58,920 Speaker 4: Biker shorts as long as they're not digging as long 1134 00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 4: as a giant yeah too small. There's a thing about 1135 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:05,520 Speaker 4: a seam going through your vagina, like a seam the 1136 00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:10,760 Speaker 4: camel and creating the camel, the camel, camel just checking 1137 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:18,640 Speaker 4: ye see, going down into the vagina like that is 1138 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:19,280 Speaker 4: not comforting. 1139 00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:22,759 Speaker 2: Leggings, especially if a legging is then too small. Things 1140 00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:27,520 Speaker 2: are getting uncomfortable. Yeah, it's digging in. Digging in is 1141 00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:31,319 Speaker 2: the world. We don't want to dig in comfortable. Yeah. 1142 00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:35,520 Speaker 3: The reason we didn't even think of that of being uncomfortable, 1143 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,600 Speaker 3: that part of it we thought of just like circulation. 1144 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:46,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, where boxes, like there's a little mini. 1145 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:47,520 Speaker 3: Short true. 1146 00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:55,400 Speaker 1: Skins in the skins, it's like sports skin on top 1147 00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:59,520 Speaker 1: of your skins you wear them for it. 1148 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,560 Speaker 3: Would be like skims. I would assume it's like if 1149 00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:08,800 Speaker 3: you're going for a run or something you don't want anything. Okay, 1150 00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,120 Speaker 3: last one, this one, I think when we did it, 1151 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,040 Speaker 3: we got a little news article written as. 1152 00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:19,080 Speaker 1: Of like, guys think this wasn't nothing. Bad things go 1153 00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:20,320 Speaker 1: as where they can't be comfortable. 1154 00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:21,760 Speaker 3: G strings. 1155 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:28,160 Speaker 2: Oh you can't feel super you mean like super material 1156 00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:28,680 Speaker 2: going up. 1157 00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:31,520 Speaker 1: Comfortable. 1158 00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:35,440 Speaker 2: It's like you can't feel it. You genuinely can't feel it. 1159 00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:41,600 Speaker 2: If you can feel it, you should try. Yeah, true, 1160 00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,480 Speaker 2: if you can feel it, it's too tight. Get a 1161 00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:48,320 Speaker 2: bigger sign, get a bigger interesting guy Mark, he wears 1162 00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,080 Speaker 2: things all the time. He loves it. Yeah, just get 1163 00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,040 Speaker 2: right up the boom. It's almost like when you wear earrings. 1164 00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,040 Speaker 2: Like you can't really feel your earrings yet because you're 1165 00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,360 Speaker 2: so used to them being in it's like a tampon. 1166 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,160 Speaker 4: Obviously you guys have never tried that, but like you 1167 00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:02,640 Speaker 4: shouldn't be able to feel them at all. 1168 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:04,280 Speaker 2: If you can feel, it's not high enough exactly. 1169 00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,400 Speaker 3: But we actually did a question and we've thought of 1170 00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,280 Speaker 3: them before ourselves, and then we said, let's ask everyone 1171 00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,840 Speaker 3: or the listeners, because you're like ninety on Instagram that 1172 00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,799 Speaker 3: are females, So we said, what is things girls where 1173 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,280 Speaker 3: that aren't comfortable? And so many of them were tampons. 1174 00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,560 Speaker 3: We didn't we obviously thought that, but we can't say. 1175 00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 2: They're not high enough. I know why your ladies are 1176 00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 2: struggling because you don't have applicators. Here is this is why, 1177 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:34,960 Speaker 2: this is, this is what happened. Let's break your down. 1178 00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:41,120 Speaker 4: Tapas Pearl, our favorite, our favorite regular, the blue applicator. 1179 00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:44,680 Speaker 2: So it's got like a plastic blue almost like case 1180 00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:49,520 Speaker 2: on its exact slippery it goes obviously not we're not 1181 00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:51,760 Speaker 2: going into the skin. No, not we're going into the vagina. 1182 00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:55,160 Speaker 2: But imagine like you know when you're doing a syringe, 1183 00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 2: what because that's how you insert yeah, so you So 1184 00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,040 Speaker 2: it hasn't applicated to us. So it's like like this 1185 00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:05,399 Speaker 2: and it's smooth. It's like plastic, so lovely slips in 1186 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:08,719 Speaker 2: and then you can like like like a syringe push 1187 00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:12,280 Speaker 2: it up, so then the actual tampon is then released. 1188 00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,040 Speaker 2: But here you can call the plastic. You guys don't 1189 00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:17,680 Speaker 2: have the plastic applicators because it is about the environment 1190 00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:19,759 Speaker 2: plastic and they just go in the bin. So the 1191 00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:22,960 Speaker 2: girls have got to actually get it, and then how 1192 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,839 Speaker 2: do you do that? We have to bring our own 1193 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,760 Speaker 2: tampons because we didn't want to. 1194 00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:29,120 Speaker 3: Question. 1195 00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,759 Speaker 1: And the only reason we don't have probably not sure. 1196 00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,239 Speaker 2: Yeah you have to be I mean I saw one 1197 00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:39,560 Speaker 2: TikTok where it said that, yeah, that's so true. We 1198 00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:40,560 Speaker 2: could be really running. 1199 00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:44,200 Speaker 3: I could be Fake'll have to have one. 1200 00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:47,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll have a lot. That would explain though, why 1201 00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,200 Speaker 2: everyone thinks tampons are paying because they have to go. 1202 00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:54,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah right, okay, actually I didn't know that something today. 1203 00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, every day is school day. 1204 00:53:56,080 --> 00:54:04,880 Speaker 1: The more you know, thank you everybody for listening. You 1205 00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,000 Speaker 1: know what we usually do, call one of you lovely 1206 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 1: baddies and you outrow the episode. But it seems fitting 1207 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:13,560 Speaker 1: could we please ask you guys to outro our episode. 1208 00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:16,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, we are honored to be having this opportunity to 1209 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,279 Speaker 4: out This means a lot to us, and let's give 1210 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:20,240 Speaker 4: some pearls of wisdom. 1211 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:25,719 Speaker 2: We'd like to end our episode with a quote, and 1212 00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:27,880 Speaker 2: maybe we asked them their favorite quote. Yes, what is 1213 00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:29,839 Speaker 2: your favorite quote? What quote do you live by? 1214 00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,120 Speaker 1: May you always have lots of love to share and 1215 00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:32,879 Speaker 1: good friends who care. 1216 00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:40,880 Speaker 3: That one Oh before we leave, we have one. 1217 00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:43,960 Speaker 1: There, you get them. 1218 00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:44,839 Speaker 2: It's going on. 1219 00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:48,040 Speaker 1: We wanted to say thank you for coming onto our podcast. 1220 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:49,920 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Jesus. 1221 00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:55,400 Speaker 2: Matches my outfit. Oh my god, oh my god. Beautiful. 1222 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:58,279 Speaker 3: They also have a quote on the back that open 1223 00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 3: for the first time. That's the only size we have left, 1224 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:03,600 Speaker 3: so we have a. 1225 00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:11,520 Speaker 2: Big T shirt always. Hey, thank you guys. Love it's 1226 00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:12,279 Speaker 2: got hearts on it. 1227 00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:17,840 Speaker 4: I love that we're all here for the first time. 1228 00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:24,520 Speaker 2: So give yourself a break. Thank you having us guys. 1229 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:27,520 Speaker 2: It's crazy. Bye.