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Speaker 1: This is the fits In with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about this one.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, it's like, because I love baking, it's like

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Speaker 2: an upside down cake. All the goodness is at the bottom,

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Speaker 2: and then when you present it, she ends up on top.

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Speaker 1: That's a good example of why you're still we're far

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Speaker 1: off for the weekend.

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Speaker 3: Knowing I'm trying, mate, I'm trying so how to get

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Speaker 3: out of a conversation.

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Speaker 1: Everybody's been in that moment. And normally if you.

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Speaker 4: Can I write this time, Normally you get out of

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Speaker 4: a break.

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Speaker 3: You're paid to be part of this conversation, and Kate,

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Speaker 3: I need three minutes of your time.

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Speaker 1: I don't ask a lot. Yeah, but I'm just the sugar.

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Speaker 1: The how good the sugar. You wouldn't have it without it,

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Speaker 1: would you? Anyway.

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Speaker 3: So when you're in a conversation, and normally, if it's

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Speaker 3: a social situation, let's say you're a party, let's see

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Speaker 3: you're at the pub, whatever it might be, and you've

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Speaker 3: kind of had enough of that chat.

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Speaker 1: Now, normally you go to, oh, that's a great story.

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to get a drink. Do you want one?

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Speaker 3: So you kind of did that one, and hopefully they

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Speaker 3: don't say no, I'm all right, because you don't want

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Speaker 3: to bring one back for them, or the other one

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Speaker 3: is oh, that's amazing, I'm just going to go to

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Speaker 3: the bathroom. I am busting for a way. Anyway, great

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Speaker 3: to chat.

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Speaker 4: That's amazing to see. If they're telling you about their

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Speaker 4: unwell mother.

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Speaker 1: Well then you give them a little bit more, don't you, Or.

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Speaker 4: You just swap the word amazing out.

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Speaker 1: For Oh, that's that's tough. That's really tough. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: Hold that thought. I'm going out to them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've got a terrible stomach. I'm sorry, I've got

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Speaker 3: leaky bum at the moment, I better go. So here's

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Speaker 3: that's not the example you get out of it. Okay,

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Speaker 3: they're the bad examples.

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Speaker 1: That's what everyone.

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Speaker 3: Scribble and go from the top page, delete leaky bum.

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Speaker 3: So what their advice is that whatever you start the

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Speaker 3: conversation with. So, for an example, Kate, if I walk

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Speaker 3: up to you and I say, hey, how are you

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Speaker 3: may go good? What's been happening? And then you say, oh,

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Speaker 3: I was just rund at mum's place this afternoon. We

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Speaker 3: were looking through some old photos.

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Speaker 1: Let's that's let's say that's the.

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Speaker 3: Conversation, and then it comes cool. It might go back

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Speaker 3: to something else. It might take elsewhere, like a holiday

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Speaker 3: you could chat about.

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Speaker 1: It might be something to do with work conversation. The

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Speaker 1: conversation breaks.

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Speaker 3: In, but then how I wrap it up to get

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Speaker 3: out of it. I go back to the first topic

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Speaker 3: that we spoke about, which is my.

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Speaker 1: Mark, your mum and the photo album.

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Speaker 2: But this is that's that you're just saying that as

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Speaker 2: an example, if we are to circle back, what we

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Speaker 2: first would talk about normally when you approach me is

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Speaker 2: something about you giving me a massage.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, I saw something inappropriate.

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Speaker 3: Hey Kate, you've worked your busies off today.

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Speaker 1: That's a classic one that he said. That's what John, and.

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Speaker 4: Then you circle back to what was your cup size?

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Speaker 1: Again?

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Speaker 4: Your mum's got cancer, no worries.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you've been working, and the next thing you know,

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Speaker 1: she's left you. Conversation over Yes.

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