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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.

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Speaker 2: When your girlfriend gets mad at you for being on

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Speaker 2: your phone, but she was literally just on her phone,

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Speaker 2: but you can't be mad at her because you're low key,

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Speaker 2: just a chill guy.

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Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself What Clark aka

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Speaker 3: Mummy and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig aka Daddy.

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Speaker 3: All right, everybody, thanks for tuning in once again. As

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Speaker 3: some of you might know, we were just in La yes,

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Speaker 3: but when we were going there, we got off the

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Speaker 3: flight and I got interrogated by the immigration's officer.

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Speaker 1: You did. That guy was, I would like to point out,

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Speaker 1: kind of a dick.

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Speaker 3: He was an asshole. And he started asking me all

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Speaker 3: these questions of like like too many questions about my holiday,

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Speaker 3: like where I was going, when I was going, like

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Speaker 3: how I was getting there, And then he asked me

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Speaker 3: like where am I staying? And I didn't know because

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Speaker 3: Jake booked the airbnb and I was getting a little

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Speaker 3: bit pissed off, so Jake had to do his immigration

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Speaker 3: officer thing.

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Speaker 1: I got roped into oddies and then he.

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Speaker 3: Came over to mind and the guy was thinking we're

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Speaker 3: going to get drunk and how are we going to

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Speaker 3: get home? How do I know how to get home

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Speaker 3: without the address? And you know what, I felt like

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Speaker 3: telling him, I'm just a chill guy.

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Speaker 1: Come on, come on, man, I'm just a chill I'm

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Speaker 1: just a chill guy, just here for a holiday, just

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Speaker 1: a chill guy. He was a bit of a dick.

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Speaker 2: He was as the guy that we we went up

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Speaker 2: to two separate like TSA officers.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and the guy I had, man.

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Speaker 2: I could tell he was sick of his shit, and

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Speaker 2: he just was like he was like, just put his

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Speaker 2: hand out for my passport and I gave it to him,

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Speaker 2: and like he didn't ask me a single question. He

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Speaker 2: just goes standing front the camera. I was like, and

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Speaker 2: he just like I had to like do like four

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Speaker 2: fingerprints and then my thumb. And then as soon as

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Speaker 2: I finished doing like my thumb, that's when I heard

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Speaker 2: you just be like, Jake, where are we staying?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And I was just I said to the guy, I

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, sorry, I just gonna go give my

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Speaker 2: mate the address, was saying that was that all right?

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Speaker 1: And then he goes, oh, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Like I can see it here, yeah, like because we

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Speaker 2: put it in before we left and so the guy

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Speaker 2: that you had could also see where you were staying.

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Speaker 1: But he just was like want.

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Speaker 2: To know if you knew, and I was just like thinking,

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Speaker 2: so I had to go over and then be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is the address and he's like, yo, why doesn't

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Speaker 2: your friend have it?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh god, I don't know. That's

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Speaker 1: my bad. Sorry, and he was like started to go like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: what if you go out and get drunk? How's he

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Speaker 1: going to get out? I'm professional is that question? But

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Speaker 1: what if you go out and get drunk?

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Speaker 2: It's like what I really wanted to say was like

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Speaker 2: the last time you went on a holiday with your

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Speaker 2: wife who played the whole thing, did you fucking know

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Speaker 2: where you were from going?

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Speaker 1: It was like fuck off. I was like.

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Speaker 3: Seriously when he said, like what happens if you go

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Speaker 3: guys go and get drunk and like you get split up?

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Speaker 1: I wanted to say, we don't drink. Why are you

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Speaker 1: assuming we drink? It's not an issue.

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Speaker 2: It's literally not an issue.

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Speaker 3: Was he was like profiling as to just two young

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Speaker 3: guys with like tatoo's not going to get drunk in LA.

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Speaker 1: I mean fair enough, Like we can't.

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Speaker 2: I mean he's got a it's probably just bored.

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Speaker 3: He must have just been there was no people there,

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Speaker 3: so he's like, wow, I'll take the piece out of

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Speaker 2: He's like, we need the line to be there for

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Speaker 2: But yeah, the guy I had was just so chill,

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Speaker 2: and he was like yeah, and I was stressing about America.

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Speaker 1: I was stressing too once I got there and he

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Speaker 1: was interrogating me. Yeah, it's just so fucking not what's

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Speaker 1: the point, I know?

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Speaker 3: But what that brings up is a wonderful meme that's

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Speaker 3: going on on the internet right now.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm just a chill god.

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Speaker 3: And if you haven't seen it, I don't think we

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Speaker 3: can explain it in any other way.

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Speaker 1: I will say, men love it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, girls, and we just think that it's funny. Like

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Speaker 2: I just think it is the I think the excuse

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Speaker 2: I don't think it has any sort of grounds to stand. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: no grounds, no validity or whatever the word merit. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I just think this fucking trend is hilarious.

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Speaker 3: I think it's funny because it like highlights like just

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Speaker 3: how dumb men. So this is I'm just a chill

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Speaker 3: guy when she calls you out for not taking enough photos,

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Speaker 3: but you're just a chill guy living in the moment.

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Speaker 1: See. I stand by that one. It's a muscle that

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Speaker 1: needs to be worked. I will say, it's a muscle

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Speaker 1: that I really need to work on. Every guy's excuses

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Speaker 1: like I just don't take photos.

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Speaker 3: Even we got back from LA and I looked at

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Speaker 3: my camera roll on the flat home and I was like, hmmm, it's.

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Speaker 1: A good trip, but didn't get enough picks.

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Speaker 2: I never really, I don't ever like fully regret not

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Speaker 2: having enough picks. I won't lie, Oh I do, I

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Speaker 2: do remember it, like, oh, that's a funny one though,

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Speaker 2: because every guy's excuse me, after a year, I don't remember.

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Speaker 2: That's a good point. But also after a year, if

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Speaker 2: I do have photos, I don't go look at it.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever gone?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever gone and looked at unless I need

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Speaker 2: something though, like, yeah, the only time I ever go

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Speaker 2: look at old photos when I was like, when I'm

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Speaker 2: of someone that I want to show, and then I

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Speaker 2: just having to scroll across a holiday and I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I might remember.

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Speaker 1: This now, so I guess it's good to have true.

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Speaker 2: Okay, when she texts you baby my head hurts, and

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Speaker 2: you ask if she's drank any water, because you're literally

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Speaker 2: just a really chill guy that believes in hydration.

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Speaker 1: We do believe in hydration.

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Speaker 3: It's the biggest cop out answer, like anything could be

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Speaker 1: I'm like, have you drunk enough water?

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Speaker 2: I've got really bad cramps, but have you had enough water?

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Speaker 2: We're sitting there acting like we fucking know where she's going.

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Speaker 3: I saw a video and it's like how much water

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Speaker 3: my boyfriend expects me to drink when I've got like

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Speaker 3: pure crams for a headache, And it's like a ten

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Speaker 1: Oh fuck me. Okay, I think it's your turn.

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Speaker 3: I'm just the chill guy when your girlfriend's mad at

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Speaker 3: you because you said the wrong thing. But you're a

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Speaker 3: chill guy who just likes the joke around.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes stupid. It's like a joke around. Man.

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Speaker 3: You ever just seen one of those moods where you're

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Speaker 3: just like you say something like I should have said that.

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Speaker 1: It's a dangerous.

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Speaker 2: It's a dangerous when you're in a relationship, right and

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Speaker 2: you guys are just having a little bit of fun

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Speaker 2: and you're like having a bit of banter and then

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Speaker 2: I guess you know, gloves are off. Yeah, you say something,

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Speaker 2: and then it's like that sound of the FaceTime when

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Speaker 2: like you sucker punched her.

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Speaker 3: Eh oh fucking yeah, she.

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Speaker 1: Just like silent, just goes silence straight away.

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Speaker 3: My girlfriend says, that's a line, that's that's the line.

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Speaker 3: It's like, how was I going to know where the

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Speaker 1: Where's this line? I can't see. Our lines need to

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Speaker 1: be in the same spot.

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Speaker 2: You can't cross a line that would cross your line,

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Speaker 2: and then I'm not allowed to cross it.

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Speaker 1: I can't see your imaginary line. I'm a chill guy. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is me, by the way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when your girlfriend's mad because you left her on red,

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Speaker 2: but you're just a chill guy who thought, he replied.

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Speaker 1: That's relatable. You do that all the time.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes it's hard because sometimes I think like, is he

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah. Sometimes I'm like, did you mean to reply? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just sending a question mark. I never know who you are.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this one is going to be good for you.

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Speaker 3: When my girlfriend gets mad at me particling her, but

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Speaker 3: I'm actually just a chill guy in a goofy mood.

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Speaker 1: It's the opposite. It's best.

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Speaker 2: It's like when my boyfriend gets mad at me for

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Speaker 2: tickling him, but I'm really just a chill girl.

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Speaker 1: Have you seen the chill girl like meme emoji? Yes,

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Speaker 2: Wait, the internet like has to be stopped, like what

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Speaker 2: the fuck? Also, my brain can't handle the amount of

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Speaker 2: trends that are going on right now. There's three trends

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Speaker 1: My brain is going.

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Speaker 3: Just because when I was falling to sleep last night,

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Speaker 3: it's a great time.

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Speaker 2: It spend my ten minutes aka three hours on TikTok

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Speaker 1: I got a good one here.

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Speaker 2: When your girl is screaming at you for pushing her

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Speaker 2: like a dead badger. But you're just a chill guy

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Speaker 3: I think I had a fart one the fonts that

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Speaker 3: fart one when your girl is angry at you for

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Speaker 3: sticking up the car. But you're really just a chill

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Speaker 3: guy with an upset tummy.

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Speaker 1: Really be like that.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's like that TikTok you sent me, you know

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Speaker 2: how that there was a teatok of the girl. She

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Speaker 2: was like, oh what am I going to get my

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Speaker 2: girlfriend for Christmas? Like she was mocking men, and then

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Speaker 2: she just goes, She just goes.

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Speaker 1: Stop fighting, And you're like, no, never, I can't stop style.

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Speaker 3: The worst thing about you is your farts are like

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Speaker 3: the worst time to ever.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I will admit that.

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Speaker 3: At least I'm consider it, and I'll do it and

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Speaker 3: make it known when I'm doing it. We're like about

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Speaker 3: to record like and Jacob won't make it. No, Jake

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Speaker 3: good no, no, don't don't take over. Jake will just

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Speaker 3: far as soon as we're about to record, we have

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Speaker 3: I far.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here's a broad spectrum one. I didn't want them

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Speaker 3: But I remember, I'm just a low key guy who

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Speaker 3: The only thing school did for us is like social

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Speaker 2: When my girlfriend gets mad after my third, huh, but

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Speaker 2: it's okay. I'm low key, just a chill guy who

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Speaker 1: The lad of them. Huh? Would you say what? I'm

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Speaker 2: I found out actually, Like, if I'm laying on my

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Speaker 1: It's weird. So you're going blind and you've lost a glasses.

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Speaker 1: Talking about my glasses? Did I tell you the first

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Speaker 1: You look like a nerd when you call me. I

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Speaker 1: understand laughing. Who is this actually? You said my last tie?

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Speaker 2: Okay, guys can relate to, and girls can relate to

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Speaker 2: when she gets mad at you for using her expensive shampoo.

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Speaker 1: It should have. It was just a really chill guy.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. He didn't know anybout I'm about to know.

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Speaker 1: It's three hundred dollars. Yeah, and who spends that much

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Speaker 3: and people still think you're cute.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, girl, Okay, I got a couple more.

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Speaker 2: Me not complaining about my order that the waiter got wrong,

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Speaker 3: I'll wait like a solid forty five minutes before I complain.

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Speaker 2: I'm paying for this.

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Speaker 1: I'm paying for this. Okay, I got I think I

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Speaker 2: When she gets mad at me for being on the

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Speaker 1: In my chill guy spot. That is Jake to a ta.

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Speaker 2: Okay, last one when your girlfriend gets mad at you

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Speaker 1: But yeah, the nights.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, oh, well really anything like anything really okay?

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, I'm not all that

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Speaker 2: We had a dilemma and it was I thought it

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Speaker 1: Took the words out of your mouth, didn't it. They did.

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Speaker 2: I was like, thank you for doing the work for me,

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Speaker 2: it says baddies, I need advice. I just spoke to

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Speaker 2: with me. I haven't had a threesome, but it's more

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Speaker 2: the principle for me. I was speechless when he said this,

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Speaker 1: That's the whole thing.

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Speaker 3: That man is extremely immature and he's not confident in himself.

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Speaker 1: It's weird, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: My whole thing with dating is you're trying to get

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Speaker 3: this point where they are this beautiful person. Threesomes, fucking

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Speaker 3: terrible thing to say to your girlfriend of two and

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Speaker 3: a half years Tuna. Okay, So if you love someone

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Speaker 3: and they've had a threesome in the past before they

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to read you the response because it's

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Speaker 2: And the response is like the type of people that

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Speaker 2: So someone replied it's not necessarily immature, as that implies

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Speaker 2: virgin is an issue. But it shows sorry, but it

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Speaker 2: shows you how deep.

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Speaker 1: His love isn't for you. And there's more.

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Speaker 2: He can absolutely have his preferences for what he looks

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Speaker 2: If he didn't express these views before, it sounds like

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Speaker 1: Mike Mate a fucking great response. Ah, I love that. Hey.

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Speaker 2: I was reading it and I was like woh, like

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Speaker 2: you should see the response on this, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: fuck it.

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Speaker 1: How disposable your love is? Two and a half years two.

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Speaker 2: And a half years and like what makes him think, like.

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Speaker 3: Like he's acting like the only thing, the only thing

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Speaker 3: that I think is equivalent is if I found out,

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Speaker 3: like my girlfriend killed someone.

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Speaker 2: See here's the thing, Like I agree with you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: two and a half years in. If Beth was to say,

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Speaker 2: away with it, I'd be like, you.

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Speaker 1: May not be here. I thought you were. That's what

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Speaker 1: if she was like.

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Speaker 2: But if she was like, I want to admit something,

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Speaker 2: I've actually had a threesome before, I'd be like, I mean, okay,

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Speaker 2: like I don't want to think about you having a threesome,

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Speaker 2: but like I'm not going to break up with you.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm feel like I would give him ship.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, thanks for telling me, like you felt safe

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Speaker 1: It's so exactly like she killed someone. I know.

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Speaker 2: It's so weird and like thinking about it, you know,

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Speaker 2: like is it okay?

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Speaker 1: That for what if?

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Speaker 2: What if he's had a threesome in the past, And

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Speaker 2: then she said that to him like.

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Speaker 3: He's a king, mate, See, it's just.

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Speaker 1: He's a king. It's not equal. Yeah, no, it's not.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 3: I've never really I've never understood that, like virginity, purity concept.

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Speaker 1: I've never been able to grasp flat because it's not

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Speaker 3: But it is for some guys, Like they think that

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Speaker 3: like over five people, that they're in their words.

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Speaker 1: A slot. That's a good point. But they're not.

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Speaker 3: They're just experiencing life. Like sex is so fun. Orgasms

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Speaker 3: are fun.

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00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 1: Everybody should enjoy them.

441
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:22,320
Speaker 3: And if you've had a fuck ton of them before

442
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,880
Speaker 3: you met your boyfriend, good on you. You're still here

443
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,360
Speaker 3: in the same point you would have been anyway. Yeah, yeah,

444
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 3: I don't understand today sex is fun.

445
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:31,920
Speaker 1: It's no longer. Sorry.

446
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,840
Speaker 2: The funniest chill guy one I saw was when you

447
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 2: sent me and it was like when she gets mad

448
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,119
Speaker 2: at me for finishing prematurely, But I'm just.

449
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:45,159
Speaker 1: A chill guy who finishes quick. I didn't think we

450
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,439
Speaker 1: could say that, but we can now we talked about it.

451
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: You know what.

452
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 2: Also, I have found out these girls don't ever really

453
00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 2: give a shit if you finish.

454
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,400
Speaker 1: Quick, because it's a compliment. I was gonna say, if anything,

455
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 1: it's a compliment because they're sexy. Yeah, there's no bigger compliment.

456
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 1: He's got powers. It's got fucking powers on me, man.

457
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 2: But no, I'm not a big fan of like you know,

458
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,919
Speaker 2: I'm I think I've said before, like I don't really

459
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:19,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to know body counts. I don't judge

460
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 2: people that want to know them, but I judge people

461
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: that think that how whatever the number is changes the person.

462
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it doesn't at all. I tell you what.

463
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,880
Speaker 3: I love knowing what is like So we both don't

464
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 3: know either of our partner's body counts, but some of

465
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 3: like you said, I don't judge, but some people do

466
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 3: like to know that.

467
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, I like to see when it's some

468
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: people we know live about them straight to their girlfriend

469
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: or boyfriend's face.

470
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then and then we actually get caught in

471
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Speaker 2: the line.

472
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 1: And then as soon as they leave, I'm like, let

473
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:54,239
Speaker 1: me just count how many I know?

474
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:54,640
Speaker 2: Yeah?

475
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait you said you said six? I know

476
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 1: of ten? Yeah, but how many do I not know? Exactly?

477
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,239
Speaker 3: Just like it just brings up like things like that,

478
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 3: it brings your friends into a shitty situation, like but

479
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 3: you can't shouldn't mean a single thing, and.

480
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 1: What about He's actually a question for you.

481
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 2: So I what if your girlfriend because I know we don't.

482
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 1: Know right and again like there's no right or wrong.

483
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 1: It's like it's just whatever you feel.

484
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 2: But if your girlfriend did say to you, like, oh,

485
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 2: I really want to know, Like I'm trying to think

486
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 2: what I would.

487
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: I think I would.

488
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: Just tell the truth and be And I don't think

489
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 2: it would like turn me off. Maybe in the past

490
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 2: I probably thought it myself had be a turn off

491
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 2: if they really wanted to know. But I'm thinking about

492
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 2: it now, like if they really wanted to know, I

493
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,640
Speaker 2: don't think is it like that big of a deal.

494
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 3: I don't think it is. I do remember this is relatable.

495
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:49,479
Speaker 3: Tell me if you were the same when you were

496
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 3: growing up, maybe like when I was seventeen eighteen, like

497
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 3: you got with a girl or you were seeing someone

498
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 3: and then it petered out and like you weren't dating,

499
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,199
Speaker 3: but you no longer we're seeing each other. Yeah, and

500
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 3: then they would sleep with someone else and like they'll

501
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 3: give you that weird feeling in your stomach, and like

502
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 3: I kind of thought that would be the same feeling

503
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,479
Speaker 3: knowing what someone's body count was because they've slept with

504
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 3: like other people. Yep, but like what in the dynama

505
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 3: she said, like immaturity because that means you can grow

506
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 3: out of it. I kind of just grew out of

507
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 3: that and realized like it's a part of life to

508
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 3: sleep with other people.

509
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it was.

510
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 3: It was not an attack on me that she's sleeping

511
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 3: with someone else. It was just like that's a part

512
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 3: of life.

513
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 2: They're like, because when you think about it, Okay, let's

514
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:38,479
Speaker 2: say let's say like my girlfriend told me a number

515
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 2: that I thought was quite high, right, and I felt

516
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 2: weird about it.

517
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, m.

518
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 2: But then you know, like what if my number was

519
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 2: very close to the same. Yeah, she also has like

520
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 2: every right to feel if you're about it, but also

521
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 2: said you said your soft yet, but I've also slept

522
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 2: with like that, But you feel like it's it's so

523
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 2: weird to also like what's the different between like deeping

524
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 2: it even further making like a statistic out of it,

525
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 2: Say you've slept with twelve people.

526
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, what if you had a boyfriend for a year.

527
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 3: I was just we have the same brain and you've

528
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 3: got dick down three times a week for a year.

529
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 2: Whell yea, yeah, yeah, so let's yeah, that's such a

530
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 2: good point.

531
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

532
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 2: So it's like, would you prefer someone's body count to be,

533
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,400
Speaker 2: say fifteen, or would you prefer them to have one

534
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 2: boyfriend and have have had sex with them like a

535
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 2: thousand times? Yeah, like fifteen different people once each time,

536
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 2: or one boyfriend like a thousand times, and you know

537
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 2: they remember a lot of those times.

538
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 1: Here's the problem.

539
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 3: These guys saying these things that they care about BodyCount

540
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 3: don't really understand what they're saying. They just have this

541
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 3: like misogynistic mindset where they're like, no, like six and

542
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 3: more is shit, and they don't really deep to like

543
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 3: anything about it. The sex is a part of life

544
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 3: and it's enjoyable. Like I'm glad fucking my partner's got

545
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 3: to have sex before me and have orgasm, has try

546
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 3: different things, different positions, different decks, because that means they

547
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 3: can tell me what works for them, and they know

548
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 3: what they like and they like me. I feel like

549
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 3: there's some type of like niceness in knowing they've got

550
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 3: to experience as much as life as possible before me,

551
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 3: and now they're comfortable and happy with me, rather than

552
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 3: being a virgin and never had sex before, and I'm

553
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 3: all they know, like they've experienced all the fruits of

554
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 3: life and now we're in love.

555
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 2: You'd almost prefer actually them to have experience and then

556
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 2: come to you and be like, oh no, this is

557
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 2: my favorite instead of you be the first one and then,

558
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 2: like you say, them, be like, oh well, what does

559
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 2: other stuff be?

560
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: Like?

561
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have that in the back of your mind.

562
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 3: You're like, I wonder what someone else would feel like.

563
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 3: I wonder what hugging or kissing someone else would feel like.

564
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: But they don't need to wonder that if they've had

565
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 1: that already.

566
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, which is a very good thing about life, and

567
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:47,399
Speaker 3: I think that gives a sense of security in a relationship.

568
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 2: Any men listening, I would like to quickly actually point

569
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 2: out if there is any men listening that do give

570
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 2: shit about BodyCount.

571
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: I doubt they're listening to this podcast, all twelve of you.

572
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 2: But if there's any men listening that do give a

573
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 2: shit about BodyCount, message us.

574
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 1: So how can they get in contact with this? Is

575
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 1: it even possible? Email? No? Yeah, email you can email us.

576
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, email us that you give a shit and why

577
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 2: you give a shit, and we'll decide whether or not

578
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 2: it's valid.

579
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: We won't get a single email. Yeah, I don't think

580
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: were gonna get a single email.

581
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 2: Okay, you can join the Facebook okay, oh yeah, joined

582
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 2: Facebook group and you can be anonymous. Yeah, you can

583
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 2: be anonymous and we can approve it, Like doesn't matter.

584
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:22,239
Speaker 2: So you can be all anonymous. You're not gonna get

585
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 2: any hate. But and then okay, females that have gone

586
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 2: through something similar to the girl that wrote that dilemma,

587
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 2: same thing, go join the Facebook group relatables about his

588
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 2: club unite.

589
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: Well, no, just relatable about his unite.

590
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, on Facebook, and then maybe say your same thing,

591
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 2: Like what was the guy's reason other than the fact that,

592
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 2: like because every guy's just going to say like, oh,

593
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 2: that's fuck that you have this BodyCount, or that's fuck

594
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 2: that you had a threesome. But there's no other reason

595
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 2: than the fact that they just don't like the thought

596
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 2: that you've done it and that they probably haven't.

597
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 3: I think it just shows their insecure in themselves and

598
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 3: their ability in bed.

599
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, like that's all it shows. It's weird. It's the

600
00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 1: weirdest concept. Now, if she did it while she was

601
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: with you, you then you can break up with them.

602
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's talking about like we've talked about it before,

603
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:10,199
Speaker 3: like growing up, like that's all teenage boys are exposed to.

604
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 3: We talk about like BodyCount. We've had one, you've had two,

605
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 3: And then we talk about girls when she's like, oh,

606
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 3: she's had so many that I don't want to sleep

607
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 3: with her. And like, luckily for Jake and I we

608
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 3: got out of that like boyish like malely man fucking group.

609
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, like women, and we weren't ever really in one,

610
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 1: but I know plenty of them like that.

611
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: I do also think it had something to do with

612
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 2: probably like the houses that we grew up in, like

613
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 2: the households, because we have friends that we were like

614
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 2: would consider like great friends. They gave a shit not

615
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 2: how big a girls BodyCount was, but just how big

616
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 2: their own was, Like they would try and get that

617
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 2: number up. Yeah, but I've never once been like hungry,

618
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 2: like I've never wanted to chase just to get their

619
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 2: BodyCount out.

620
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 3: I think that's like props to the females in our lives.

621
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 3: Because someone came up to us the other day or

622
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 3: me and said like, oh, do you have a sister?

623
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 3: Do you have sisters? Like why do you think this way,

624
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 3: and I just like, oh no, I've froinaally got one brother.

625
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 3: But I think that's like props to my mom for

626
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 3: the way I was brought up.

627
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 2: True, Yeah, brothers also just a chill guy.

628
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: It's just a chill guy. But the same with you.

629
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: You've got sisters, got sisters.

630
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 3: I think having an older sisters the best mom stepmom,

631
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 3: and like it's a props to Like it's so it's

632
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 3: such a simple concept that like.

633
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: They're just equal.

634
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like there's like like just gender shouldn't matter, like matters,

635
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 3: just everything is equal, no matter what. It's just it's

636
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 3: funny how that like people think they're better or they

637
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 3: deserve better than someone else, or they're allowed a BodyCount and.

638
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 1: Someone else is an allowed one. It's weird. I don't

639
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: get it. I have a kind of nearly a confession.

640
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: I think we had two confession sass last week. We

641
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: had two confession sais last week.

642
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,959
Speaker 2: This is a confession of like, I don't know if

643
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 2: I've ever like it's okay, well, we I think compared

644
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 2: to other guys, we're decent at talking about our feelings

645
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 2: like with each other, right, so like with each other

646
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 2: on the podcast in this like safe space. I do

647
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 2: think that we're decent at it nowhere near perfect.

648
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: Obviously, And.

649
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: I Beth actually she just like suggested, she said, I

650
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 2: have something that could be a good deep topic, right,

651
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 2: and it was like a just like a one line

652
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 2: of quote that we could then go into. And when

653
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 2: she said it, I was like, holy fuck, that's me, okay,

654
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 2: And it is so a man who ignores his own

655
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 2: feelings will eventually ignore yours too. And as soon as

656
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 2: she said it, I was, like I said to her,

657
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that's me, really it is, and

658
00:30:55,400 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 2: it is me like it actually is, And I like Beth,

659
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 2: and I've had conversations about it, and it's something.

660
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: That I like really really want to work on.

661
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 2: And I don't know why I'm like that, apart from maybe,

662
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 2: you know, societal norms or upbringing like young childhood, Like

663
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 2: I don't actually know, but I think wanting to just

664
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 2: like confess that I do bottle shit up. And I

665
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 2: don't like deal with every feeling that I have that's

666
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 2: good or bad, you know, because to me it's unhealthy.

667
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 2: But a lot of the time it is a lot

668
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 2: easier too, maybe like if someone's done something to hurt

669
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 2: my feelings, but I know they didn't really mean to

670
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 2: hurt my feelings instead of actually just like you know,

671
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 2: saying it, and so then they know for next time.

672
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 2: I find it a lot easier, and I admit, like,

673
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 2: I find it so much easier to just be like

674
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 2: I probably.

675
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: Didn't mean it anyway, Like I'll let it slide like

676
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: that confrontation.

677
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I'm not a fan of facing that the

678
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 2: feeling I'm feeling is actually what I'm feeling, because I

679
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 2: can ignore it pretty easy. And so yeah, that was

680
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 2: my that My confession is that I do think that

681
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: What about.

682
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 3: The second part of that? Do you think that eventually

683
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 3: you'll start to ignore your partner's feelings? I do, Oh really, yeah,

684
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 3: I don't know how well.

685
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. And so like if likes say.

686
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 2: It's something that I like one one hundred percent do

687
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 2: Like if Beth has brings up something that's serious that's

688
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 2: like a hard topic to bring up and we have

689
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 2: a serious conversation about.

690
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: It, I don't know how to.

691
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 2: Like, I just don't know how to handle it most

692
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: of the time, right, Like I don't know what like

693
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 2: to do. So I kind of will just like, oh, listen,

694
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:53,959
Speaker 2: and I think I'm doing the right thing by listening,

695
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 2: but I don't.

696
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 1: I don't do I don't do anything.

697
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 2: So that's like and that's just like me being open honest,

698
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 2: like that's like something that I need to work on,

699
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 2: like I because and the thing that made me think

700
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: that when she said that to me was like I

701
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 2: was like, oh, obviously, I yeah, Like I know I

702
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: don't handle my own feelings well.

703
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 1: Because I know that I'm dismissive. Yeah, And so I.

704
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 2: Was thinking, like, fuck, I feel like that like applies

705
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 2: to me to a certain extent.

706
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 3: I understand that when you're listening to these problems from

707
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 3: your partner, are they problems you caused or problems in

708
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 3: the world.

709
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 2: I would say both, okay, both, yeah, okay, problem definitely,

710
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 2: because I.

711
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 3: Was also going to say, like, listening is the best

712
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 3: thing to do sometimes.

713
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, you.

714
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 3: Don't necessarily ever have to do anything other than listens

715
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 3: for a lot of the time.

716
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

717
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 2: I actually watched a Ted talk on it about how

718
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 2: to feel your feelings really yeah, and the guy he

719
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 2: said that, so he's like a psychotherapist, and it's.

720
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: Not not all the time.

721
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 2: Do you need to like have an answer and he

722
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 2: told a couple different scenarios, right, and like, so let's

723
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 2: say I'm feeling like I need to get like a

724
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 2: lot better at voicing it, Like I just don't ever

725
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 2: voice it and I bottle it up. So like, let's

726
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 2: say one day I am feeling anxious. If Beth was

727
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 2: to ask me how I'm doing that day, I would

728
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 2: just say, like, yeah, I'm having a good day. Even

729
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 2: if I am feeling genuinely anxious, I will never ever

730
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 2: ever tell anyone I have no idea why, Like I

731
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,319
Speaker 2: very like sometimes will mention it to you if I

732
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 2: have a little anxious morning. And then but so let's

733
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 2: say I build up the confidence to just be like,

734
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 2: oh I am anxious. Apparently sometimes it's like she doesn't

735
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 2: need an answer, but all she needs to just it's

736
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 2: just like one thing that can help, apparently is like

737
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 2: if she's just like, you know, okay, I hear you,

738
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 2: and like I know what that feels like, you know,

739
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 2: like I've been anxious before, and just like knowing that

740
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 2: she knows how I feel and she's feeling what I

741
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 2: feel is like apparently supposed to be a super comforting thing.

742
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 2: And the fact that it's not going to be fixed

743
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 2: straight away, and then I was like, yeah, fair enough.

744
00:34:58,000 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 2: Fuck and like I just went into a deep dive

745
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: on IT morning and I was like watching videos and shit, No.

746
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 3: I think that's one hundred percent right. I wouldn't have

747
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 3: gone to the fullest extent of saying like I hear you,

748
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 3: like there's something beautiful and just like venting and having

749
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 3: someone listen and saying that yeah, like yea, yeah, yeah,

750
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 3: now that makes sense. Yeah, Like just voicing like you

751
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 3: just did just then, like be just completely listening and

752
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 3: being like showing that I'm listening is enough for like

753
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 3: me if I'm trying to be the one venting.

754
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, but now that's mad interesting, Hey, I and everyone's

755
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 1: different obviously, But I don't relate that much.

756
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 3: No, not really, Like I'm lucky enough to be in

757
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 3: a like mindset and position that I don't often get

758
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 3: that sad.

759
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,919
Speaker 1: No, I don't often get that anxious. But when I do,

760
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 1: like I.

761
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 3: Tell the people around me who care. Like the other

762
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 3: day when we went to LA. The first two nights,

763
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 3: I was mad anxious for some reason, and I don't

764
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 3: know why.

765
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 1: I was just like sleeping in a different time zone.

766
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 3: I don't know that Airbnb was wigging my head out.

767
00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 3: I couldn't put my finger on while I was anxious.

768
00:35:59,600 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: But I was.

769
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 3: I woke up that day I told you, Yeah, yeah,

770
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 3: I'm just And when I when I couldn't fall asleep,

771
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 3: I text my girlfriend. I said, like, I'm so anxious

772
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 3: right now. I don't know what's going on really yeah,

773
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:10,320
Speaker 3: like straight up.

774
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I see like I would. I would never do that, really, nah,

775
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:14,959
Speaker 2: And I don't know why.

776
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Beth withoo.

777
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 2: She has done nothing to make me feel like she

778
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 2: wouldn't be fully supportive of that situation, and I know

779
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 2: she would be, but to me, something about like it's

780
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 2: almost like it makes it a real thing someone else knows.

781
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: Do you get true?

782
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 3: Do you do you feel like it's just like your

783
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,320
Speaker 3: problem and you shouldn't burn other people?

784
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: Maybe I have I freagain. I probably I think you

785
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:38,360
Speaker 1: actually got to therapy. I don't know.

786
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 2: But it's just like something that I've noticed my recent

787
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:41,720
Speaker 2: I think that's.

788
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 3: Relatable for like so many men, it's just like before

789
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,399
Speaker 3: having a partner in their life, Like you went through

790
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 3: sixteen years before you had a partner on and off

791
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 3: for a while, but like our coping mechanisms have always

792
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 3: been like I know this is going to go away,

793
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 3: or like this isn't that big of a deal, like

794
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 3: if I voiced it's going to be a deal, Like

795
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 3: I don't want to make a big deal out of it.

796
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 2: I don't like confrontation. I don't like talking about my feeling.

797
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 2: I don't think it's a big deal. Yeah, so I don't. Yeah,

798
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 2: I don't think it should be a big deal.

799
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's definitely how like all men are brought

800
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 3: up where I think especially we always talk about like

801
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 3: when we want to be dad. It's like my parenting style,

802
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 3: especially if I have kids, like it's going to be

803
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 3: more like the girls are so so normal to cry

804
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 3: and talk about it from a young agent like why

805
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 3: are you crying? And everything like that, And I think

806
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 3: there's this been this weird I don't know, mishappening parenting

807
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 3: where like when boys cry tough enough, Yeah, like that

808
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 3: wasn't that.

809
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 1: You shouldn't be crying after that. I don't cry from that.

810
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 1: I think it stems from that, Like I mean it does,

811
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 1: it probably does.

812
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 2: It has to really, Yeah, And it's just your coping

813
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 2: mechanism from all this life experience of all these problems

814
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 2: you've had in the past, and you've dealt with them

815
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 2: by yourself.

816
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 3: You don't feel like you need to burn anyone else.

817
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 3: You don't need to do anything else or anything like that.

818
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, and I think, yeah, it's something that I

819
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: would like really like to work on because like let's say,

820
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 2: like like Joanna or someone that they bring up maybe

821
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 2: something like a way I'm making them feel, and then

822
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 2: I listen, and then I don't want to like go

823
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 2: through that conversation again, so I don't like bring it

824
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 2: up again to check how it's going, which is like

825
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 2: very unhealthy. And I and like I'm and I am

826
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: noticing that and like getting caught out on it, which

827
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 2: is like good. And when you get caught out on it,

828
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 2: you're like I'm kind of like fuck, like I just

829
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 2: feel like I'm doing everything wrong. But at the same time,

830
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 2: it's like I need this because I'm just gonna be

831
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 2: the same way I always have been and I'm not

832
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 2: going to change because I'm not just.

833
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 1: Gonna grow out of it. It's a more of a thing.

834
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 2: Of like if I was going to grow out of it,

835
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 2: I would have grown out of it by now, because

836
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, nearly twenty five front alone, fully

837
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,320
Speaker 2: developing whatever, like I would.

838
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: Have grown out of it by now.

839
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 2: And I have a feel like the way I want

840
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 2: to look at it is more of like it's a

841
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 2: muscle and like it's gonna be shit to bring up

842
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 2: hard conversations. But just like bringing it up, I guess

843
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 2: is like the first step because once it's brought up,

844
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 2: then that person is like going to bounce off and

845
00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 2: then you can don't open you up.

846
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 3: Like I think you're taking the first step, which is

847
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 3: the most important, is that you want to change because

848
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 3: you're seeing the impact on your relationship and the person

849
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 3: you love the most, and like although you're not good

850
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 3: at it, you're doing research, you're looking into ted talks,

851
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 3: and like you want to change, and I think that's

852
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 3: more important than anything.

853
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: So like it's just time. Yeah, I was.

854
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 2: Like, I'm mean and iron whether I wanted to bring

855
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 2: it up today, but I was like, I think it's

856
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 2: like because like beth Off like said to the top,

857
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 2: like said that topic and just like as a thing.

858
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 1: That we could talk about. But I was just like, fuck,

859
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 1: it just so much applies to me. I can't not

860
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: be honest. And just like I was like I have

861
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: to just say that.

862
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 3: Well, I think that's good to have your mindset as well,

863
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 3: because like a lot of boys would be, like a

864
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 3: lot of men would be like, that's.

865
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: Just the way I am.

866
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 2: See yeah, facts, but you don't have to be.

867
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:46,879
Speaker 3: You don't have to be And like, I think that's

868
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 3: props to you as a person. Is like you're realizing

869
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 3: the impact on your relationship which you value so much,

870
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,479
Speaker 3: and you're like I can change here, and you're using

871
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 3: like things you know work like muscle, how you've built muscle.

872
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 3: You're like, I've got to train this at like a

873
00:39:58,800 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 3: muscle to.

874
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: Get better at it. Where's a lot of guys just

875
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:06,760
Speaker 1: be like here's a bed. Noah, that's just how I am. Yeah, feelings,

876
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: that's for fucking pussies, mate, Yeah.

877
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 2: Bed eh it's and like yeah, I don't know. I

878
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 2: just was thinking about it more and I was like, fuck,

879
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 2: like it's just unfortunately there's something that needs to be done. Eh.

880
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: I also think like I'm also not perfect. No, I mean,

881
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: no one is.

882
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 3: There's certain moments where like what resonated with me was like, oh,

883
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 3: have a tough conversation, and then rather than bring it

884
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 3: up again, I'll be like, oh, no, it's probably good.

885
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

886
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 2: See, like I'll just assume that it's fine, which is

887
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: like quite rude to be honest, Like, it is really

888
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 2: rude to just not bring it up and like I

889
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 2: do that to have them, yeah, like to have them

890
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 2: need to bring it up again, Like I'm trying to think,

891
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:47,919
Speaker 2: because I am so good at dismissing stuff, I never

892
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 2: bring stuff up, so basically it seems like I never

893
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 2: have an issue.

894
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: You know. It's like I'm not a human.

895
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 2: Whereas let's say just something that may not be a

896
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 2: big deal to you or Juanna or Beth. If I

897
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 2: was to bring it up and like you guys hear me,

898
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 2: and then if I need to bring it up again,

899
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 2: that would feel like shit. It's like I would you

900
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: would prefer someone to check in and be like, oh,

901
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 2: how is that going, and it would just go.

902
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 1: It would go a long way.

903
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 2: So I need to Yeah, it goes both ways. Like

904
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 2: I need to bring shit up when I'm feeling it,

905
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 2: but also if someone brings up something with me, I

906
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 2: need to be like I need to learn how to

907
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 2: like almost feel what they're feeling, and just so I

908
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 2: appreciate the fact that they brought it up with me

909
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 2: and that it was a hard thing to do and

910
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 2: then remember.

911
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: To be like, oh, how is that going.

912
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 3: I think that's a takeaway for me as well, because

913
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 3: it takes a certain amount of strength to bring up

914
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 3: something a tricky conversation the first time, and if I'm

915
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 3: not doing my part in the relationship to check in

916
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 3: on that, it takes a stupid amount of strength to

917
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 3: bring it up twice.

918
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 1: The second times worse.

919
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's like, fuck, my half of the relationship

920
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 3: should be checking in, shouldn't it.

921
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: Don't even get me started on the third time. That

922
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 1: doesn't end well exactly.

923
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, So I mean I think it's kind of

924
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 2: nice to like be open and just like obviously we're

925
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:56,240
Speaker 2: not perfect.

926
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 1: And I guess you're just a chill gun.

927
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 2: And that's so maybe the thing about this chill guy

928
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 2: meme as well as kind of like I think it's

929
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 2: hilarious obviously because we can relate to it, and you know,

930
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 2: like we would the world just being super chill would

931
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 2: be great for us. Yeah, But like also I kind

932
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 2: of thought, I don't want to give this chill guy thing,

933
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 2: like I want to really make sure it's a joke yeah,

934
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 2: and like that we think it is a joke and

935
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 2: that like you know, it's not just a chill thing

936
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 2: to maybe not remember to reply to your girlfriend like

937
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 2: every time, you know, if you do it once every

938
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 2: now and then, like that's fair, you did just forget.

939
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 1: But just like all those different things, like you want

940
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 1: a platform it for the right reason.

941
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, you want a platform it because you think

942
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 2: it's a joke that every time a guy does something

943
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 2: he's like, yeah, but I'm just a chill dude, like

944
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 2: I'm just going.

945
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: With the flow, like it's fucking dumb. Yeah.

946
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 2: So yeah, I guess, pretty full circle moment.

947
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, well I think we're gonna call this episode

948
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: I'm just a chill guy. I'm just a chill guy.

949
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 1: And then in brackets or am I Well?

950
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 3: To finish off the episode, Jake, do you want to

951
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 3: piss off some chill men?

952
00:42:58,239 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

953
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I do want to piss off some chill men.

954
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 1: Completely forgot about this. I didn't get that one. Completely

955
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,720
Speaker 1: forgot about this. One hundred and one ways to Piss

956
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: men off.

957
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 2: This is a good one too. One hundred and one

958
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 2: Ways to Piss Men Off, Page twelve. Okay, so the

959
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 2: bottom says, if this is not true when you say it,

960
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: it will be by the time you've finished speaking and

961
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 2: you say to a man, quote, you seem to be

962
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 2: having a lot of feelings right now.

963
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 1: I couldn't hear that you're having a lot of feelings.

964
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:38,959
Speaker 1: Not hear that.

965
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 2: Hashtag If a woman says a hashtag women in malefields.

966
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 1: Coming up soon.

967
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 3: We love your five started shore.

968
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: Patreon's even better. I'll just go try it. I promised

969
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: it's better.

970
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 3: Oh I found out. I'll put the link in this episode.

971
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 3: You can listen to Patreon episodes on Spotify.

972
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 2: Oh right, okay, and it just takes you to like

973
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 2: a different yeah, yeah, yeah, it just takes you to

974
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 2: a different page on Spotify. Oh so you just go

975
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 2: pay on Patreon and then you can have them literally

976
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 2: so you can stay on the Spotify.

977
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: It's a different page.

978
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,879
Speaker 3: You think we thought that you could get them all

979
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 3: on our relatables page. You're listening right now, But it's

980
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 3: just a separate page. But I'll link it so if

981
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 3: anyone on Patreon wants to listen on Spotify. So you're

982
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 3: still on the Spotify app. Love that Bob is your uncle,

983
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 3: but you can't get video episodes on there, so you've

984
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 3: gotta get Patreon for video.

985
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:25,839
Speaker 1: That's all right. A lot of people like to listen

986
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 1: anywhere in the car.

987
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 3: If you're driving right now, don't crash, so yeah,