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Speaker 3: Okay, So if you follow my social media, you would
Speaker 3: see that I've started running this year. So Michael is
Speaker 3: like a very good runner. He just loves running. He
Speaker 3: probably goes on a run like four times a week
Speaker 3: at least.
Speaker 2: Enjoys it.
Speaker 3: Loves it like he froths it. Even if we're driving
Speaker 3: along the beach or something and he sees people running,
Speaker 3: he's like gets like excited about it, like he loves
Speaker 3: to run.
Speaker 2: So something wrong and someone psych.
Speaker 3: I mean to be fair, like running was always my
Speaker 3: go to but I have to be I feel like
Speaker 3: to run, I need to have like a really like
Speaker 3: good mindset.
Speaker 1: I need to be a problem.
Speaker 2: I'll just run from it.
Speaker 1: Like what No, But I mean.
Speaker 3: Running is so good for your health, good for your
Speaker 3: cardiovascular system. So I was like, I'm gonna be like
Speaker 3: super fit and healthy this year. Obviously last year was
Speaker 3: not a good healthier for me. So this is like
Speaker 3: my I'm running to like try to be healthy. And
Speaker 3: I started with one k literally horrendous, was dying. Now
Speaker 3: I'm up to three point twenty five k.
Speaker 2: Steady jog, steady pace kind.
Speaker 1: Of like a fast run.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's pretty good. How how many weeks.
Speaker 1: Did that take three? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Good?
Speaker 3: But like I'm really proud of it, and I'm like
Speaker 3: posting on my social media being like I did three
Speaker 3: k and like people are giving me shit being like
Speaker 3: only three k?
Speaker 2: Somebody, how long does it take? How long did it
Speaker 2: take you? Sorry to do three k?
Speaker 1: It took me. I think it was nineteen minutes.
Speaker 2: Off shit. When I was at my fittest training for
Speaker 2: tech Cup, I would run that in eight fifteen.
Speaker 1: Oh so you were like full sprinting.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like three K. Now could run three K and
Speaker 2: I reckon.
Speaker 3: But it's like a build up thing. Like after one K,
Speaker 3: I was like completely cooked. Then I went to two k,
Speaker 3: cooked after two Now I'm at three point twenty five.
Speaker 1: Like who knows, like what I'm going to be able
Speaker 1: to do soon?
Speaker 3: But I just I see a lot of people and
Speaker 3: they share their little running app thing and people are
Speaker 3: doing like ten k twenty K. I just think like, wow,
Speaker 3: how are people running so far?
Speaker 1: Like I'm so out of breath.
Speaker 3: I am like when I say I'm a tomato, Like
Speaker 3: I'm a full beatroot tomato. You've never seen a redder
Speaker 3: complexion on someone than me.
Speaker 1: After I run I.
Speaker 2: Ran in when I was fit and modeling and running
Speaker 2: every day, I ran a I can't remember how far
Speaker 2: it was, fifteen kilometers or something in forty five minutes
Speaker 2: after a night doing pub crawls and then literally darts
Speaker 2: and like smashing pints in London. And I run that
Speaker 2: the next day. Yeah, I literally now, I don't even
Speaker 2: reckon I could get out of bed after that. Like
Speaker 2: it's yeah, like I want to be fit again. You
Speaker 2: know what, I'm gonna take ut running. I've said this idea. No,
Speaker 2: I've said this before. I won't, but.
Speaker 1: It's so good.
Speaker 2: I try to start running again. One of Tammy's sister's
Speaker 2: husbands is getting into it as well, and we were
Speaker 2: talking about it and then we're like, let's get into running.
Speaker 2: I want to do it as well.
Speaker 1: It's really good.
Speaker 3: She feels so good, like mentally like me for me mentally.
Speaker 3: After it, I'm like going to high.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but the dolphins a.
Speaker 3: Real high, like a long high, like for the rest
Speaker 3: of the day. I'm feeling really good, okay, And I
Speaker 3: think that potentially could be good for you in your
Speaker 3: mental health.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try run, but like I don't know when
Speaker 2: do you do it?
Speaker 1: There's an app that Michael has. I'll get it for you.
Speaker 3: I'll post it on the Facebook group and you basically
Speaker 3: you press go and it sacksy And I think that
Speaker 3: makes it more enjoyable because you can like see your progress.
Speaker 2: Is it the one like Instagram and you post it
Speaker 2: and everyone sees it. Well, my mates are on that.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure.
Speaker 3: I'll find out and get back to you on that,
Speaker 3: get back to everyone on that.
Speaker 1: What's your turn on of the week?
Speaker 2: Mine isn't so much a turn on. Mine's more yeah, recommendation.
Speaker 2: I'm going to the dentist to see this afternoon. I
Speaker 2: don't think I've been to the dentist in to Yeah, No,
Speaker 2: it sounds bad. I've got a year a year.
Speaker 3: Well, it's not about having perfect teeth, it's about like
Speaker 3: the check up, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Like I didn't smile.
Speaker 2: I think my last check up was to oh well
Speaker 2: maybe yeah, it would be a year because every six months.
Speaker 2: My last one was November and that's such a busy
Speaker 2: end of the year. I just canceled it. So I've
Speaker 2: moved it to now. Yeah, and I'm going to get
Speaker 2: like the clean, gonna get new retainers. So I'm going
Speaker 2: to get a new retainer to leave at Tammy's house
Speaker 2: and one in my travel bag and then one here,
Speaker 2: so like, you know, because I can't sleep without my retainers. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so I'm going to get like one for everywhere and
Speaker 2: just get it generally checked up. So that's my tip. Go.
Speaker 2: I mean, I've brushed my teeth whatt how many times
Speaker 2: a day? Three? Five?
Speaker 3: I mean, if you can overbrush your teeth, you're definitely
Speaker 3: hitting that mark because you're doing it a lot.
Speaker 2: Just I like my oral hygiene. I like to say hygienie.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm going to the dentist next Monday's Welt.
Speaker 3: So it is actually a really good tip, especially for
Speaker 3: the start of the year, just like something to check off,
Speaker 3: especially if you have health insurance that like little you
Speaker 3: have some money to spend on dental now, do don't know, Yeah,
Speaker 3: and get on it, huh. And physio the rest is
Speaker 3: physio like natural power.
Speaker 2: I'll have to check my package and.
Speaker 3: Glasses. I got some glasses recently, do you I.
Speaker 2: Haven't used any of that stuff, so I wanted to
Speaker 2: bank over rollover No.
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I think it's like just for
Speaker 3: the end of the year. My health insurance is full on,
Speaker 3: like I have to get pregnancy cover now just because
Speaker 3: like you need it twelve months before you're even like
Speaker 3: thinking about having a baby, so like having a baby, well,
Speaker 3: I mean I'm not thinking about having a baby, but
Speaker 3: it's just like I'm getting married.
Speaker 1: Nothing is planned, but you just have.
Speaker 3: To like just in case you need to get it.
Speaker 3: So I've got it, And it's not cheap, let me
Speaker 3: say that much.
Speaker 2: Speaking of me, not cheap. We're full into wedding planning.
Speaker 2: Fuck me, I know.
Speaker 1: Is this your eke of the week?
Speaker 2: Yeah, go and make it the ech of the week.
Speaker 2: I mean, I love and I can't wait to get
Speaker 2: married and I'm so excited and all that, but like
Speaker 2: you know, the it's just not it's not cheap, is it.
Speaker 1: Everything is so hyked up.
Speaker 3: Like I swear, as soon as people hear the word wedding,
Speaker 3: it's just like, well add fifty percent onto that.
Speaker 2: Yeah. But it's an entrapment as well, because you definitely
Speaker 2: want to pay it and you're like you can't wait
Speaker 2: to get married, so you're like, fuck it, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: have to you know, like they control the what's the word,
Speaker 2: They have the monopoly of the situation because you want
Speaker 2: to pay So yeah, yeah, go on, that's my ech
Speaker 2: of the week, that wedding planning. But we're right into
Speaker 2: wedding planning, so I'm very excited.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's exciting, but it's also like a reality check
Speaker 3: when you see all the costs start to come in
Speaker 3: and you're like, holy, Like I remember I was watching
Speaker 3: Australia's Cheapest Weddings and on that show. I think it's
Speaker 3: on I don't know, on one of the networks like
Speaker 3: seven show. No it's an Australian like Australia's Cheapest Wedding
Speaker 3: Australian show.
Speaker 2: Fuck, I would love something like that. That'd be sorry
Speaker 2: for good to watch funny.
Speaker 1: You actually should watch it.
Speaker 3: It's hilarious. I love it so much. But at the
Speaker 3: start of that show, they're like they say something along
Speaker 3: the lines of, like the average Australian wedding is sixty
Speaker 3: thousand dollars, so these people have tried to do it
Speaker 3: on a budget, blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, sixty.
Speaker 3: Thousand dollars, Like that's a crazy amount of money if
Speaker 3: you're not getting help from like parents to help like
Speaker 3: fund that, Like where are people getting all of this
Speaker 3: money from, Like it's scary, I know, and even like
Speaker 3: having an international wedding, like a lot of people do
Speaker 3: that because it actually ends up working out somewhat cheaper.
Speaker 3: Obviously there's flights and stuff that to get yourself there,
Speaker 3: but you.
Speaker 2: Get the pretenders that don't come the world, people that,
Speaker 2: like you know, would flake out, so you don't have
Speaker 2: to pay for them.
Speaker 1: If you think that. But like, everyone who I've invited
Speaker 1: is coming.
Speaker 2: It's exciting though, Like I'm not going to give too
Speaker 2: much way. Oh, I can tell you this. We've picked
Speaker 2: our wedding song.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did see that on socials that you guys
Speaker 3: had like a little beat.
Speaker 2: What was that a beach day had like a picnic,
Speaker 2: and we brought each other a list of songs that's
Speaker 2: cute that we wanted to like a playlist essentially.
Speaker 1: I thought you guys already had a song.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we did a song. No, okay, we wanted like
Speaker 2: our first dance song. We've put our song, and I'm
Speaker 2: not allowing to say anything about it, so that's why
Speaker 2: I'm being very vague.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's exciting.
Speaker 2: It's a beautiful song. It's really cute.
Speaker 1: That's exciting.
Speaker 3: I have mine too, Yes, so just mine the song.
Speaker 1: We pictures from my list, just from your list.
Speaker 3: He's happy about that, guys, He's got the biggest smile
Speaker 3: on his safe.
Speaker 2: It was a good song.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, No, I'm excited. We'll have to exchange
Speaker 1: those songs.
Speaker 3: I'm not allowed to sorry, Oh, you can't tell me
Speaker 3: I'm anyone. Oh it's a full secret. Fine, I'm not
Speaker 3: telling you mine.
Speaker 2: I've been sworn to secrecy. And it's hard because you're
Speaker 2: so excited about stuff, like even like every little detail
Speaker 2: I want to tell, and I've made a promise that
Speaker 2: I won't sell anyone anything, so it's a surprise. Yeah,
Speaker 2: And I'm just like sitting there like I want you know,
Speaker 2: you know how I am, Like I love telling stuff
Speaker 2: and I'm excited about it. But yes, yeah, but.
Speaker 3: It's like worth worth the final outcome of like when
Speaker 3: you do have that moment, it will be extra.
Speaker 2: Oh I can't wait for the Yeah, it's like I've
Speaker 2: seen some stuff and what we're going to do and
Speaker 2: it's going to be an amazing day. I'm so excited
Speaker 2: for that. But yeah, it's all happening.
Speaker 1: I'm excited. I need a more accommodation.
Speaker 2: I need to book my tickets for yours.
Speaker 1: Still have you not booked your tickets to my wedding?
Speaker 2: No, we're not. We're nutting out the dates of what
Speaker 2: we're going to do.
Speaker 1: Okay, probably little tip.
Speaker 3: There's fourteen hundred dollar return flights with Eddie Had at
Speaker 3: the moment, YEA, Melbourne to London. If you want to
Speaker 3: get Melwurn to Athens, there's sixteen hundred with Eddie.
Speaker 2: Had and then you are Athens to call through.
Speaker 1: You need to really get on that.
Speaker 3: You've asked me my wedding dates like four times.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I've already told you you.
Speaker 3: Also, you've also got the email with all the details, and.
Speaker 2: I've also got your calendar, and you've got.
Speaker 3: My calendar with the wedding dates in there, and you're like,
Speaker 3: can you tell me the dates again?
Speaker 2: I'm like, I've one of my messages dumb it down
Speaker 2: as possible for me, like, just give me the exact
Speaker 2: dates of what's.
Speaker 1: But I've done that every single time.
Speaker 3: And I've told you the exact place to book accommodation
Speaker 3: as well, so you'll be close Yea. Anyway, is that
Speaker 3: one close to the venue, extremely close, and it's beautiful
Speaker 3: like waterfront, amazing.
Speaker 2: What's your for the week? Anna?
Speaker 3: Okay, well look, speaking of weddings, I as you know,
Speaker 3: track my period, so I know my ovulation date is.
Speaker 3: I know when, like you know, where everything's kind of situated. Obviously,
Speaker 3: I have no contraception at the moment at like from
Speaker 3: now on, like I'm doing trying.
Speaker 1: I'm not trying.
Speaker 3: I'm not trying to have a baby, but I'm just
Speaker 3: like I'm not I don't need contraception, like I'm tracking
Speaker 3: my cycle so well. But anyway, since I am tracking
Speaker 3: and I kind of put the dates in, it does
Speaker 3: like six months of what's coming up. And I've realized
Speaker 3: that I'm gonna have my period from my whole wedding week.
Speaker 3: Like I'm at the moment getting ten day periods. I
Speaker 3: don't even know if that's normal, Like I don't know
Speaker 3: if I need to go see a GP about that
Speaker 3: because I just think ten days is like ridiculous to
Speaker 3: just have your period for that long. So I don't
Speaker 3: know if something's wrong. But anyway, maybe I should get
Speaker 3: that checked out after this. But yeah, period for the
Speaker 3: whole wedding week and then spilling on to the friend moon,
Speaker 3: which is so annoying.
Speaker 1: I'm irritated.
Speaker 2: Yeah, does that always is that? That's not gospel though?
Speaker 2: What that tracker?
Speaker 3: It's not gospel it is I'm like very regular really yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: I thought it can fluctuate and change.
Speaker 3: Maybe by like a day, like oh okay, forward and back,
Speaker 3: but like essentially what it says goes. But yeah, like
Speaker 3: you're only meant to get your period for a maximum
Speaker 3: of seven days and I'm going ten, so it's kind
Speaker 3: of you know, that's a nick and then having my
Speaker 3: period for the wedding is an ink. But there's literally
Speaker 3: nothing I can do about it. Like I could go
Speaker 3: on the pill and try and skip my period, but
Speaker 3: then I'm like, I don't want to be on any
Speaker 3: contraception anymore.
Speaker 1: Like I've had just.
Speaker 2: For that, not just for that.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't know, I've like loved not.
Speaker 1: Being on anything.
Speaker 2: How long it take.
Speaker 3: The pill can like like mess up how you're feeling,
Speaker 3: and you know, I just don't want to like mess
Speaker 3: with my hormones.
Speaker 2: So I'm a bit like it's not the worst thing.
Speaker 2: It's not the worst A towel down, yeah.
Speaker 3: I know, But like when I imagine my wedding night, do
Speaker 3: I imagine a towel down? Or do I imagine myself in
Speaker 3: like white lingerie?
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean, Like I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: be wearing white launcher.
Speaker 2: We're talking off air, and we were comparing ring sizes
Speaker 2: and cock sizes before your so on. Well, and we
Speaker 2: were talking about a ring and we were asking the question,
Speaker 2: because this has come up in on my Instagram a
Speaker 2: couple of times this week in my new speak, can
Speaker 2: you try on someone else's ring before they do?
Speaker 1: What does that mean?
Speaker 2: Well, say, for instance, when I took you to we
Speaker 2: went to Unique Diamonds the jewelers, and you were helping
Speaker 2: with the ring. Apparently it's bad luck if you tried
Speaker 2: on tammy my engage our engagement ring, yeah.
Speaker 1: Which I didn't. Just to be clear, you did. You
Speaker 1: definitely did.
Speaker 2: Which makes zero sense because it didn't even get past
Speaker 2: my You were.
Speaker 3: Going on the pinky thing like, I don't know if
Speaker 3: you think that's gonna fit.
Speaker 2: It didn't even get past my nail.
Speaker 1: I mean. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So there's been a bit of like controversy around this recently.
Speaker 2: Because there was an influencer that she did a story
Speaker 2: didn't she or something, and she was trying on her
Speaker 2: friend's engagement ring, and it copped a bit of backlash
Speaker 2: for doing that before her friend's fiance proposed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I can understand, like there's two trains of
Speaker 3: thought about it. I personally wouldn't be offended if I
Speaker 3: was a friend, because it looks like it could be
Speaker 3: potentially like a collab and maybe helping her a partner out.
Speaker 3: So I would be like, I'm glad that my partner's
Speaker 3: getting helped out. I don't know, like I have tried
Speaker 3: on before I was engaged my friend's engagement rings because
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I want to see what.
Speaker 1: It looks like on my finger.
Speaker 3: Like I'm not superstitious at all. Yeah, So if you're
Speaker 3: asking me, like about the superstition of it, because there
Speaker 3: is a superstition that apparently like you're unlucky in love
Speaker 3: if you try on other people's engagement ring, which I
Speaker 3: just absolutely don't believe it. And I've been very lucky
Speaker 3: in love. I've actually not too. Yeah I'm lucky now. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm lucky now. But yeah, like, should you try on
Speaker 3: someone's engagement ring before they've tried it on?
Speaker 1: Themselves. Maybe not maybe not.
Speaker 2: I think I just not respect but out of just
Speaker 2: what's the word, like tradition or out of like good wit,
Speaker 2: like just don't wait till they've tried it on, and
Speaker 2: then if they offer it to you to.
Speaker 1: Try on, like you can ask if can I try?
Speaker 2: And can I see how that looks? Like? Maybe? But
Speaker 2: then that's sort of weird. I mean I wouldn't.
Speaker 3: I've asked that of my friends, like can I try
Speaker 3: on your ring? Like I want to see what I
Speaker 3: look like with an engagement ring on?
Speaker 2: But that's apparently the Yeah, that's bad luck.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't believe in that, do Like there's
Speaker 3: things I believe in definitely and like superstition wise, but
Speaker 3: that's definitely not one of them.
Speaker 2: I won't put new shoes on the counter on the bench,
Speaker 2: that's bad luck, is it? And if somebody does around me,
Speaker 2: I get them to throw salt over their left shoulder.
Speaker 1: WITCHI poo meadow, that's bad luck.
Speaker 2: Well, I've said to Tammy at our wedding, I want
Speaker 2: to do all the traditions. I want something to borrow,
Speaker 2: something blue, something old, something new. I want to do
Speaker 2: the bouquet. I want to do everything, like all the traditions,
Speaker 2: Like I'm a tradition, Like if we're going to do it,
Speaker 2: it's gonna I'm only having one wedding in my life
Speaker 2: and I want it to be like hit all those things.
Speaker 3: Is this what Tammy was talking about when she was saying,
Speaker 3: you're a bit of a grimzilla.
Speaker 2: This is my only request.
Speaker 1: This is what I want. I want something borrowing, something blues,
Speaker 1: you know what.
Speaker 3: It's nice that you're involved and like it's nice you're
Speaker 3: taking interest, but like.
Speaker 2: As a WhatsApp group and I haven't even said anything.
Speaker 2: I'm not getting involved. I've just said my piece.
Speaker 1: You're just saying your piece on the sidelines. This is
Speaker 1: what I want. This is what I will be having.
Speaker 1: I'm a traditional guy.
Speaker 2: I know this episode has been very wedding heavy. Guys,
Speaker 2: don't worry. We're not going to continue down this route
Speaker 2: unless you want us too. Though, happy too, but you know,
Speaker 2: well we're gonna we're on our wedding year, so we
Speaker 2: obviously want to talk about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Next thing we're going to chat about Anna is bucks
Speaker 2: and hens.
Speaker 3: This is a big topic, so much to unpack with
Speaker 3: bucks and hands.
Speaker 2: I would say, well, there's almost as much planning goes
Speaker 2: into this as the wedding.
Speaker 1: Do you reckon?
Speaker 2: Well, not for you, No, not for anyone, And yeah,
Speaker 2: not for anyone who goes to the best man and
Speaker 2: the maid of honor and lands on their shoulders, doesn't it. Yeah, well,
Speaker 2: has your maid of honor and bridesmaids planned anything for you?
Speaker 1: So yeah.
Speaker 3: So basically our plan is we're going to go to
Speaker 3: the Gold Coast. We're gonna all stay at the same hotel.
Speaker 3: We're gonna go to a cabaret night cabaret. I think
Speaker 3: it's just like a I don't know, like like burlesque.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think like a burlesqued kind of show. We're
Speaker 1: going to do a boat party.
Speaker 3: We might spend some time at the pool, just like
Speaker 3: get away from Melbourne. Obviously, the Gold Coast has amazing weather.
Speaker 3: I think we're gonna do it in April, so yeah,
Speaker 3: that's gonna be fun. And then Michael's best man, he's
Speaker 3: like literally planned everything. He's just told Michael a weekend
Speaker 3: that he needs to make sure he's free for and Rory,
Speaker 3: his best man, is going to pick him up from
Speaker 3: our house and just drive it to wherever.
Speaker 1: Whatever they've got planned Dale.
Speaker 2: If you're listening, probably not, but there you go. Take
Speaker 2: some spoke from that. Are you having Are you going
Speaker 2: to the strippers? Anna? No, you don't want to see
Speaker 2: any men take their clothes off. No.
Speaker 1: I don't find strippers hot.
Speaker 3: Firstly, why because I'm attracted to my fiance, Like, I
Speaker 3: don't need, like.
Speaker 2: Michael, stripping, do you find that hot?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Just so you're not interested in topless waiters or anything
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, And like I don't want any
Speaker 1: dick straws.
Speaker 3: I was literally about to ask you, I don't want
Speaker 3: any like dick paraphernalia at my hen's party.
Speaker 2: Michael, what pin the dick on? Michael?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Like I think it's like I want it to be
Speaker 3: like really like chic, classy esthetic, and I think like
Speaker 3: the most the furthest i'd go would be like to
Speaker 3: have his like face on a popsicle stick and like
Speaker 3: you know how people do that with like their face.
Speaker 3: I think that would be as far as I go.
Speaker 3: But I think, like I want it to just be
Speaker 3: about having fun dressing.
Speaker 1: Up with the girls.
Speaker 2: Theme they will have.
Speaker 3: Themes will be up on the Gold Coast for three days,
Speaker 3: and I think each night. We're gonna have like a
Speaker 3: dress code.
Speaker 2: Is one of them going to be and it's last
Speaker 2: Rodeo Cowgirls?
Speaker 3: No, that's been really really I've done unfortunately, And if
Speaker 3: you had, if you did have it like Rodeo or
Speaker 3: like cowboy girl theme, it does look really cool.
Speaker 1: So I'm not.
Speaker 3: Trying to I'm not throwing shade, but yeah, we've got
Speaker 3: our themes. I'm obviously not going to reveal them now,
Speaker 3: but yeah, I'm excited.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be fun.
Speaker 2: Is Michael allowed to go to the strippers? Or have
Speaker 2: you had a stern word to Rory?
Speaker 3: Do you know what the best thing about Michael and
Speaker 3: Rory are? I love them so much. They literally have
Speaker 3: like said to me, they're like, we are absolutely we
Speaker 3: don't want strippers. We would never go to the strippers.
Speaker 3: That's not for us. Like they're like so off that
Speaker 3: they're just not about that type of thing.
Speaker 1: I think they just want to.
Speaker 3: Have like a wholesome boys weekend. A lot of Michael's
Speaker 3: friends all have kids now, so they don't get to
Speaker 3: see each other as often, so I think it's just
Speaker 3: about like bonding with each other. I think they might
Speaker 3: go play golf. I think it's just like gonna be wholesome.
Speaker 3: Obviously they're gonna get lit and yeah it's gonna be nice.
Speaker 3: What about you, Like, what's your stance on strippers at
Speaker 3: a Bucks party?
Speaker 2: I don't care much for them. I've said it before,
Speaker 2: like I don't. I don't find them attractive. I find
Speaker 2: it kind of cringe. I remember I was at a
Speaker 2: bikes or something and there was a stripper there and
Speaker 2: I was just in the corner talking to a mate
Speaker 2: like I didn't even care for it. Yeah, it's just
Speaker 2: not I don't find it hot. I find it cringe.
Speaker 2: Like I couldn't tell you the last time I even
Speaker 2: went to a strip club. Yeah, I wouldn't have been.
Speaker 2: It's been a while, probably once when I was eighteen.
Speaker 2: I'm just not into them. Yeah, so I've told my
Speaker 2: mates because it's come up in conversation, Like for the Bucks,
Speaker 2: I said, no, no, no strippers. I find it.
Speaker 3: If I know your friends, I reckon they're gonna like
Speaker 3: do one that's like a sea, like a secret stripper.
Speaker 3: Like they won't tell you about it, they wouldn't. I
Speaker 3: just have a feeling they might. No, you need to
Speaker 3: be crystal clear, like guys if you're listening.
Speaker 1: We don't want strippers, No.
Speaker 2: No, I don't. I don't think they seem pretty. My
Speaker 2: mate seems like they didn't want them either. Really yeah, no,
Speaker 2: like Dale doesn't care for him, Like, yeah, I don't
Speaker 2: think they do. They're all in relationships now. I don't
Speaker 2: think they care for it.
Speaker 1: What's your plan?
Speaker 2: So the plan is, I don't know that they've haven't
Speaker 2: made a plan. But if my ideal bucks party, anyone's listening,
Speaker 2: I want to keep it small. I don't want a
Speaker 2: big one like my rooms party, and that we and
Speaker 2: a couple of mates. Maybe we go, we go somewhere,
Speaker 2: we get a house, go play golf or something, yeah,
Speaker 2: a driving range more than golf. Drinks into like a
Speaker 2: steak dinner, steak like a nice steak.
Speaker 1: You do love a steak into.
Speaker 2: A nice steak dinner. Then I think that it's been
Speaker 2: chatted with Tammy. That then we meet up at like
Speaker 2: an Airbnb or a penthouse with her Hen's party, and
Speaker 2: then we like cross them over and continue to have
Speaker 2: a big party for the night.
Speaker 3: So where is this going to take place withul this
Speaker 3: big gold coastal Melbourne or it's undecided.
Speaker 2: I decided I think I sent her maid of honor
Speaker 2: Amy my best man's Instagram actually the other day and said,
Speaker 2: this is who you need to talk to because they
Speaker 2: were talking about it on the phone.
Speaker 1: Got you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, well that's exciting, is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's exciting. I'm not, like I said, I don't
Speaker 2: care for topless waiters, strippers or anything like that. I don't.
Speaker 2: I think the era of that sort of stuff's dead anyway.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a big crean.
Speaker 2: It's a bit. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean, if you're listening and that's what you're into,
Speaker 3: that's completely fine. Like I have a friend, one of
Speaker 3: my best friends actually, when I was saying like I
Speaker 3: want no dig paraphernalia at my hands, she was like,
Speaker 3: I want all the Dick paraphernalia.
Speaker 1: I want Dick straws, I want Dick napkins, I want
Speaker 1: like all of it.
Speaker 3: And I was like that's so fine, Like you do
Speaker 3: you and like it's gonna be fun, and like I
Speaker 3: think it's fun when like everyone kind of just has
Speaker 3: exactly what they want for that occasion.
Speaker 2: Said the same thing. We're INSEEXI land the other day
Speaker 2: and I was like pointing at the Dick straws and
Speaker 2: that I was like, oh, look at your hens. Not
Speaker 2: She was like, I want none of that stuff. I
Speaker 2: wanted chic. Yeah, we gets thrown around a lot in
Speaker 2: the wedding planning meeting. Was that chic elegant?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I love that. That's exactly what you want for
Speaker 1: your wedding.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's the go I mean.
Speaker 3: One of my ex boyfriends was a topless waiter for
Speaker 3: Hen's parties.
Speaker 1: Remember, yeah, I can imagine who. Yeah, And I.
Speaker 3: Remember he said to me he was like, after working
Speaker 3: as a topless waiter, I don't trust any women. And
Speaker 3: I was like why and he was like, because I've
Speaker 3: had sex with so many brides to be And I
Speaker 3: was like, really, like that's crazy. That's so crazy because
Speaker 3: the whole obviously in both of our Hens and Bucks
Speaker 3: party isn't like a last hurrah. But a lot of
Speaker 3: people go on their Hens and Bucks and they're like,
Speaker 3: this is my last hurrah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, that doesn't make sense to me. Why would
Speaker 2: you want a last hurrah when you're going into a marriage.
Speaker 1: It literally makes no sense, like the last post to
Speaker 1: be had.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that doesn't make sense to me. Well, if you're
Speaker 2: going into a marriage, I feel like you're meant to
Speaker 2: be very you know, like secure, secure, ready to go
Speaker 2: to know what you want, you know what you want? Yeah,
Speaker 2: done with all that garbage.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I wonder how many marriages have not gone ahead because
Speaker 3: at a Bucks party or a Hen's party, the bride
Speaker 3: to be or groom to be has actually cheated on
Speaker 3: their partner with like a stripper or someone else portrayal.
Speaker 2: A week or a month out from the wedding as well.
Speaker 3: But then imagine in that person's head, they're thinking, well,
Speaker 3: this is my last hurrah, so this is okay.
Speaker 2: That's not I couldnot relate to that.
Speaker 3: I cannot, I absolutely cannot relate to that in any
Speaker 3: sort of way.
Speaker 2: What would you do if Michael's friends surprised him with
Speaker 2: a stripper, I'd be pissed at.
Speaker 1: All of them.
Speaker 3: But Michael doesn't want to strip us it was a stripper,
Speaker 3: then I would just be like why, like was not wanted,
Speaker 3: Like there's no need.
Speaker 2: If I did that, I would ask the stripper piety
Speaker 2: to leave. Yeah, I'd say thanks for coming, thanks for coming,
Speaker 2: keep your clothes on go.
Speaker 3: I thought you were going to ask me the question, like,
Speaker 3: what would you do if Michael like cheated on the bus, snut.
Speaker 2: That's not even in the conversation.
Speaker 1: You know what I would do, it would be done though, that's.
Speaker 2: Not even in the conversation. That's just a weird way
Speaker 2: of thinking. I feel.
Speaker 3: Do you worry that, like pre wedding it's such a
Speaker 3: thing that people get cold feet? I worry about that sometimes.
Speaker 1: Really, yeah, Like.
Speaker 3: It's a full thing, Like just before people get married,
Speaker 3: they're like have a meltdown, like who knows how I'm
Speaker 3: going to feel?
Speaker 1: Who knows how Michael's going to feel?
Speaker 3: You know, and with you guys, like there's it's a
Speaker 3: real thing, Like cold feet is a real thing. I
Speaker 3: think that's where cold feet came from, like just before
Speaker 3: marrying someone being like shit, is this my like forever person?
Speaker 2: Friend's reference. That's the starting episode where Rachel gets cold
Speaker 2: feet with her fiance.
Speaker 3: Does she yeah, okay, walk down the aisle? And she
Speaker 3: doesn't walk down the aisle? Yeah, do you worry about that?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Maybe that's just a me thing. Maybe it's just like
Speaker 3: anxious attachment style.
Speaker 2: I'm anxious attachment style, But I'm pretty secure in.
Speaker 1: That You're like I know that.
Speaker 2: I think, I mean, it's going to be walking down
Speaker 2: that aisle if yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Know, but like sometimes I just imagine it and I'm like,
Speaker 3: imagine if like one of us got cold feet and
Speaker 3: then the wedding didn't go ahead, Like how crazy.
Speaker 1: Would that be?
Speaker 2: Would you let us party on?
Speaker 1: If we're all in Greece, I'd be partying on.
Speaker 3: I'd take myself to Mick and ask to cry my
Speaker 3: sorrow drink my sorrows.
Speaker 2: While because if I was there and Michael wasn't there
Speaker 2: and then wedding he got cold feet, I would like
Speaker 2: to steal.
Speaker 3: Like even just the fact that we're, like god to
Speaker 3: get married. Just to think about the fact that there's
Speaker 3: been like runaway brides or runaway grooms like at the wedding,
Speaker 3: Like that is the craziest thing to me, Like when
Speaker 3: like even the fact that we've now seen like costings,
Speaker 3: like how much that cost? Imagine to not even show
Speaker 3: up to your own wedding like that?
Speaker 1: Just I can't like.
Speaker 2: Don't get deposits back.
Speaker 1: I can't wrap my head around that, can you.
Speaker 2: No, I'm I'm walking. I'm at the end of that aisle.
Speaker 2: If for no reason, there would be no reason why
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be.
Speaker 1: Yeah, same, there's no reason why we'd be walking up
Speaker 1: the aisle. No one's saying to agree with me.
Speaker 2: This is toxic chat. This is toxic chat. So red
Speaker 2: flag green flags a little bit different this week. Anna,
Speaker 2: we're gonna call it a loud or banned. So I'll
Speaker 2: ask a question. You tell me if it's a loud
Speaker 2: or banned. We've already answered this one.
Speaker 1: I feel strippers one two three okay?
Speaker 2: This is this is it is literally on that topic
Speaker 2: as well. Lap dancers allowed or banned two one? And
Speaker 2: what strippers and lap dancers go hand in hand? I
Speaker 2: feel okay. Casino allowed or.
Speaker 3: Banned three two one allowed.
Speaker 2: I don't care for a casino.
Speaker 1: But is it allowed or is it band? Three two
Speaker 1: one allowed?
Speaker 2: Sure? Band, I don't care for a casino.
Speaker 3: To be fair, this is about like if you're allowing
Speaker 3: or banning the other person.
Speaker 2: This is about allowed, allowed, allowed, allowed.
Speaker 1: Limo three to one allowed?
Speaker 2: I mean sure, excessive alcohol three two one allowed? It's
Speaker 2: your hands or your buck? Sure they don't message you
Speaker 2: the whole night three to one? You know how I
Speaker 2: feel about that? Okay. On the opposite end of that,
Speaker 2: they blow up your phone while you're out and it
Speaker 2: doesn't allow you to enjoy yourself.
Speaker 1: Three two one.
Speaker 2: I always think there's a right amount of messages on
Speaker 2: a night, write.
Speaker 3: Amount of messages from your partner on your bucks or hands.
Speaker 3: I think, like maybe like a phone called check in,
Speaker 3: like kbab, how's it going really good?
Speaker 2: I just think if there's a conversation, you don't ignore it,
Speaker 2: like it's just like, you know, a conversation.
Speaker 3: Obviously die But I'm not gonna like, I'm not gonna
Speaker 3: impede on Michael's night by now.
Speaker 2: But if like, you don't just ignore the message like
Speaker 2: everyone's on their phone and it does it. It takes
Speaker 2: no longer than ten seconds to reply to a message. Yeah,
Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? So it's no harm
Speaker 2: in that. If there's no conversation, then it's fine, do
Speaker 2: what you've got to do. But if someone's if she
Speaker 2: sent me a message or something, you'll reply.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, mat it's time for am I the asshole.
Speaker 3: My sister Alice is getting married to Chris. I'm very
Speaker 3: happy for them. He's the best guy I know. I've
Speaker 3: been friends with Chris since high school and I actually
Speaker 3: set them up a couple of years ago. The bachelor
Speaker 3: party happened and last Friday. It was between our friendship group,
Speaker 3: six of us total. Having known Chris for many years,
Speaker 3: I know he's a bit of a pushover, very go
Speaker 3: with the flow whenever we all meet up. He's happy
Speaker 3: to do whatever. He isn't someone who is very assertive.
Speaker 3: For his bachelor party, he wanted to get beers and
Speaker 3: hang at my place since I have a huge yard
Speaker 3: pool table, actual pool and jacuzzi. He wanted a relaxing night.
Speaker 3: Unbeknownst to Chris, Mark managed to talk the guys into
Speaker 3: chipping in for a stripper and did not mention it
Speaker 3: to me until the day of this party.
Speaker 2: Damn Mark, up to his usual tricks.
Speaker 3: He thought it would be a good idea since Chris
Speaker 3: and Alice both agree not to tell each other what
Speaker 3: happens at their prospective parties. Red Fly, I immediately told
Speaker 3: Mark to cancel and that it was a bad idea. Fristados,
Speaker 3: this is a bachelor party for the man marrying my sister.
Speaker 3: I know she wouldn't want him to dance with an
Speaker 3: almost naked woman before he marries her. Secondly, I don't
Speaker 3: want a stripper in my home. I respect that if
Speaker 3: you want to do that for single men at a club,
Speaker 3: but not in my home for a groom to be Thirdly,
Speaker 3: they didn't ask Chris about it, and I feel it
Speaker 3: goes against his wishes of a relaxing night. He said
Speaker 3: it was too late because he'd already ordered her, So
Speaker 3: I kept an eye on my door camera for the
Speaker 3: rest of the night and turned her away before any
Speaker 3: of the guys could answer.
Speaker 2: He'd put the deposit down.
Speaker 3: I said it was just one of my neighbors asking
Speaker 3: for something.
Speaker 1: Today.
Speaker 3: Mark asked me about it, since he'd contacted where he'd
Speaker 3: hired her from. They told him I turned her away.
Speaker 3: I confess that I did for the following reasons above,
Speaker 3: And he said it was a dick move to cancel
Speaker 3: her without telling him since it was meant to be
Speaker 3: a surprise gift for his party. Am I the asshole
Speaker 3: for intervening? Chris had a great night without a stripper anyway?
Speaker 2: Well, no, I don't think you're the asshole. I mean
Speaker 2: your sister's groom. I wouldn't want a girl grinding on them,
Speaker 2: do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: But also, like your sister comes first, she takes precedence
Speaker 3: over anyone else. So she's looking out for a sister.
Speaker 2: I think though there's no don't like and this goes
Speaker 2: what you're saying before. If my mates want to surprise everyone,
Speaker 2: I don't want one, so like if they could walk in,
Speaker 2: if I was Chris, I'd just be like, eh, like lame.
Speaker 3: Like if you've already said you don't want it. I
Speaker 3: think she's actually following his wishes by turning her away,
Speaker 3: don't you reckon?
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, he's on the right movie. I don't think
Speaker 2: he's an asshole at all. I think Mark's a bit
Speaker 2: of a loser for booking one when it's been prefaced
Speaker 2: that they don't want one, and too bad, too sad mate,
Speaker 2: get over yourself.
Speaker 3: This is the thing as well though, Like I feel
Speaker 3: like at a Bucks party, right, if there's a guy
Speaker 3: who's at the Bucks party and he's like, well, I
Speaker 3: want to I thought I was at a Bucks party.
Speaker 1: I assume there was going to be a striper here.
Speaker 3: Then they could order one for their own self pleasure,
Speaker 3: as opposed to thinking about the groom to be. And
Speaker 3: I think that's where it can get a little bit tricky.
Speaker 2: But like, it's not their day.
Speaker 3: It's not their day, but they're like, I'm at a
Speaker 3: Bucks party, I expect for there to be a stripper here.
Speaker 2: It's so cliche and so naffed and tacky strippers out
Speaker 2: of a Bucks thing. I think, like, you know, if
Speaker 2: that's what you want to do, why don't you go
Speaker 2: out answers to the strip club?
Speaker 3: Like, I mean, the thing is each to their own, Like,
Speaker 3: if that's your vibe, go for it. But I just think,
Speaker 3: like Matt said, if you've specifically said this is not
Speaker 3: what I want, I think people should respect that, and
Speaker 3: I think never expect that that's how a Bucks party
Speaker 3: or a Hen's party is going to unfold.
Speaker 2: I don't think he's the asshole. I think he's done
Speaker 2: the right thing. But a bit of a red flag
Speaker 2: if by pointing out was they don't tell each other
Speaker 2: what happens in the respective parties. Yeah, that's weird bit
Speaker 2: of a red flat.
Speaker 1: I mean that kind of like.
Speaker 2: What are you not reporting to your partner.
Speaker 3: That's kind of like the mentality of like what happens
Speaker 3: at my Bucks party and Hen's party stays at the
Speaker 3: Bucks party and Hen's party. I mean, we all know
Speaker 3: that type of toxic chat. You just I don't know
Speaker 3: I don't want to be.
Speaker 2: A part of that. No communication is key. I don't
Speaker 2: think that's the right way to go.
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Speaker 2: Soyah bye.
Speaker 1: Not as much wedding chat next time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're all wedding chatted out.
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