WEBVTT - STRIPPERS ON A BUCKS PARTY?

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<v Speaker 1>Matt, you are looking absolutely glowing today. What's your secret?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning miss

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<v Speaker 2>called Goldie b with two e's.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to check it out. I've never heard of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Go to their instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>I want the fairy tale, I want the prince charming

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<v Speaker 3>she how.

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<v Speaker 2>Do I put this? Isn't a fan of my kissing style.

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<v Speaker 1>Boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in a

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<v Speaker 1>trash bin. He's non recyclable.

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<v Speaker 2>Catching her mut I love being love, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Love love Our Hens and Bucks party isn't like a

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<v Speaker 3>last Hurrah. But a lot of people go on their

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<v Speaker 3>Hens and Bucks and they're like, this is my last Hurrah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah no, that doesn't make sense to me. Why would

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<v Speaker 2>you want a last hurrah when you're going into a marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>The turky It literally makes no sense, like the last

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<v Speaker 3>Hurrah was supposed to be had. Where's Your Head At

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<v Speaker 2>How are you feeling today?

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<v Speaker 1>Hello? Nice to be back.

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<v Speaker 2>Turn on for the week. Anna.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So if you follow my social media, you would

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<v Speaker 3>see that I've started running this year. So Michael is

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<v Speaker 3>like a very good runner. He just loves running. He

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<v Speaker 3>probably goes on a run like four times a week

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<v Speaker 3>at least.

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<v Speaker 2>Enjoys it.

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<v Speaker 3>Loves it like he froths it. Even if we're driving

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<v Speaker 3>along the beach or something and he sees people running,

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<v Speaker 3>he's like gets like excited about it, like he loves

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<v Speaker 3>to run.

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<v Speaker 2>So something wrong and someone psych.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean to be fair, like running was always my

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<v Speaker 3>go to but I have to be I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>to run, I need to have like a really like

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<v Speaker 3>good mindset.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to be a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just run from it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what No, But I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Running is so good for your health, good for your

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<v Speaker 3>cardiovascular system. So I was like, I'm gonna be like

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<v Speaker 3>super fit and healthy this year. Obviously last year was

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<v Speaker 3>not a good healthier for me. So this is like

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<v Speaker 3>my I'm running to like try to be healthy. And

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<v Speaker 3>I started with one k literally horrendous, was dying. Now

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<v Speaker 3>I'm up to three point twenty five k.

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<v Speaker 2>Steady jog, steady pace kind.

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<v Speaker 1>Of like a fast run.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's pretty good. How how many weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Did that take three? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Good?

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<v Speaker 3>But like I'm really proud of it, and I'm like

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<v Speaker 3>posting on my social media being like I did three

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<v Speaker 3>k and like people are giving me shit being like

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<v Speaker 3>only three k?

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody, how long does it take? How long did it

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<v Speaker 2>take you? Sorry to do three k?

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<v Speaker 1>It took me. I think it was nineteen minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Off shit. When I was at my fittest training for

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<v Speaker 2>tech Cup, I would run that in eight fifteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so you were like full sprinting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like three K. Now could run three K and

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's like a build up thing. Like after one K,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like completely cooked. Then I went to two k,

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<v Speaker 3>cooked after two Now I'm at three point twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>Like who knows, like what I'm going to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to do soon?

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<v Speaker 3>But I just I see a lot of people and

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<v Speaker 3>they share their little running app thing and people are

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<v Speaker 3>doing like ten k twenty K. I just think like, wow,

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<v Speaker 3>how are people running so far?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm so out of breath.

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<v Speaker 3>I am like when I say I'm a tomato, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a full beatroot tomato. You've never seen a redder

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<v Speaker 3>complexion on someone than me.

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<v Speaker 1>After I run I.

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<v Speaker 2>Ran in when I was fit and modeling and running

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<v Speaker 2>every day, I ran a I can't remember how far

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<v Speaker 2>it was, fifteen kilometers or something in forty five minutes

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<v Speaker 2>after a night doing pub crawls and then literally darts

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<v Speaker 2>and like smashing pints in London. And I run that

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<v Speaker 2>the next day. Yeah, I literally now, I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>reckon I could get out of bed after that. Like

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<v Speaker 2>it's yeah, like I want to be fit again. You

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<v Speaker 2>know what, I'm gonna take ut running. I've said this idea. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I've said this before. I won't, but.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so good.

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<v Speaker 2>I try to start running again. One of Tammy's sister's

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<v Speaker 2>husbands is getting into it as well, and we were

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<v Speaker 2>talking about it and then we're like, let's get into running.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do it as well.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really good.

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<v Speaker 3>She feels so good, like mentally like me for me mentally.

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<v Speaker 3>After it, I'm like going to high.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but the dolphins a.

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<v Speaker 3>Real high, like a long high, like for the rest

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<v Speaker 3>of the day. I'm feeling really good, okay, And I

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<v Speaker 3>think that potentially could be good for you in your

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<v Speaker 3>mental health.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna try run, but like I don't know when

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<v Speaker 2>do you do it?

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<v Speaker 1>There's an app that Michael has. I'll get it for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll post it on the Facebook group and you basically

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<v Speaker 3>you press go and it sacksy And I think that

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<v Speaker 3>makes it more enjoyable because you can like see your progress.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it the one like Instagram and you post it

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<v Speaker 2>and everyone sees it. Well, my mates are on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll find out and get back to you on that,

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<v Speaker 3>get back to everyone on that.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your turn on of the week?

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<v Speaker 2>Mine isn't so much a turn on. Mine's more yeah, recommendation.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to the dentist to see this afternoon. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think I've been to the dentist in to Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 2>it sounds bad. I've got a year a year.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's not about having perfect teeth, it's about like

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<v Speaker 3>the check up, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't smile.

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<v Speaker 2>I think my last check up was to oh well

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<v Speaker 2>maybe yeah, it would be a year because every six months.

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<v Speaker 2>My last one was November and that's such a busy

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<v Speaker 2>end of the year. I just canceled it. So I've

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<v Speaker 2>moved it to now. Yeah, and I'm going to get

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<v Speaker 2>like the clean, gonna get new retainers. So I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to get a new retainer to leave at Tammy's house

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<v Speaker 2>and one in my travel bag and then one here,

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<v Speaker 2>so like, you know, because I can't sleep without my retainers. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm going to get like one for everywhere and

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<v Speaker 2>just get it generally checked up. So that's my tip. Go.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I've brushed my teeth whatt how many times

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<v Speaker 2>a day? Three? Five?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you can overbrush your teeth, you're definitely

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<v Speaker 3>hitting that mark because you're doing it a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Just I like my oral hygiene. I like to say hygienie.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm going to the dentist next Monday's Welt.

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<v Speaker 3>So it is actually a really good tip, especially for

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<v Speaker 3>the start of the year, just like something to check off,

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<v Speaker 3>especially if you have health insurance that like little you

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<v Speaker 3>have some money to spend on dental now, do don't know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and get on it, huh. And physio the rest is

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<v Speaker 3>physio like natural power.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll have to check my package and.

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<v Speaker 3>Glasses. I got some glasses recently, do you I.

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<v Speaker 2>Haven't used any of that stuff, so I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>bank over rollover No.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so. I think it's like just for

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<v Speaker 3>the end of the year. My health insurance is full on,

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<v Speaker 3>like I have to get pregnancy cover now just because

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<v Speaker 3>like you need it twelve months before you're even like

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<v Speaker 3>thinking about having a baby, so like having a baby, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I'm not thinking about having a baby, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's just like I'm getting married.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing is planned, but you just have.

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<v Speaker 3>To like just in case you need to get it.

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<v Speaker 3>So I've got it, And it's not cheap, let me

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<v Speaker 3>say that much.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of me, not cheap. We're full into wedding planning.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck me, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this your eke of the week?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, go and make it the ech of the week.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I love and I can't wait to get

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<v Speaker 2>married and I'm so excited and all that, but like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the it's just not it's not cheap, is it.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything is so hyked up.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I swear, as soon as people hear the word wedding,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just like, well add fifty percent onto that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But it's an entrapment as well, because you definitely

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<v Speaker 2>want to pay it and you're like you can't wait

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<v Speaker 2>to get married, so you're like, fuck it, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have to you know, like they control the what's the word,

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<v Speaker 2>They have the monopoly of the situation because you want

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<v Speaker 2>to pay So yeah, yeah, go on, that's my ech

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<v Speaker 2>of the week, that wedding planning. But we're right into

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<v Speaker 2>wedding planning, so I'm very excited.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's exciting, but it's also like a reality check

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<v Speaker 3>when you see all the costs start to come in

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<v Speaker 3>and you're like, holy, Like I remember I was watching

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<v Speaker 3>Australia's Cheapest Weddings and on that show. I think it's

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<v Speaker 3>on I don't know, on one of the networks like

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<v Speaker 3>seven show. No it's an Australian like Australia's Cheapest Wedding

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<v Speaker 3>Australian show.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck, I would love something like that. That'd be sorry

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<v Speaker 2>for good to watch funny.

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<v Speaker 1>You actually should watch it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's hilarious. I love it so much. But at the

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<v Speaker 3>start of that show, they're like they say something along

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<v Speaker 3>the lines of, like the average Australian wedding is sixty

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<v Speaker 3>thousand dollars, so these people have tried to do it

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<v Speaker 3>on a budget, blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, sixty.

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<v Speaker 3>Thousand dollars, Like that's a crazy amount of money if

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<v Speaker 3>you're not getting help from like parents to help like

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<v Speaker 3>fund that, Like where are people getting all of this

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<v Speaker 3>money from, Like it's scary, I know, and even like

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<v Speaker 3>having an international wedding, like a lot of people do

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<v Speaker 3>that because it actually ends up working out somewhat cheaper.

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously there's flights and stuff that to get yourself there,

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<v Speaker 3>but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Get the pretenders that don't come the world, people that,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, would flake out, so you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to pay for them.

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<v Speaker 1>If you think that. But like, everyone who I've invited

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<v Speaker 1>is coming.

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<v Speaker 2>It's exciting though, Like I'm not going to give too

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<v Speaker 2>much way. Oh, I can tell you this. We've picked

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<v Speaker 2>our wedding song.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I did see that on socials that you guys

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<v Speaker 3>had like a little beat.

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<v Speaker 2>What was that a beach day had like a picnic,

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<v Speaker 2>and we brought each other a list of songs that's

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<v Speaker 2>cute that we wanted to like a playlist essentially.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you guys already had a song.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we did a song. No, okay, we wanted like

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<v Speaker 2>our first dance song. We've put our song, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not allowing to say anything about it, so that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I'm being very vague.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a beautiful song. It's really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>That's exciting.

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<v Speaker 3>I have mine too, Yes, so just mine the song.

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<v Speaker 1>We pictures from my list, just from your list.

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<v Speaker 3>He's happy about that, guys, He's got the biggest smile

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<v Speaker 3>on his safe.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a good song.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, No, I'm excited. We'll have to exchange

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<v Speaker 1>those songs.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not allowed to sorry, Oh, you can't tell me

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<v Speaker 3>I'm anyone. Oh it's a full secret. Fine, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>telling you mine.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been sworn to secrecy. And it's hard because you're

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<v Speaker 2>so excited about stuff, like even like every little detail

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<v Speaker 2>I want to tell, and I've made a promise that

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<v Speaker 2>I won't sell anyone anything, so it's a surprise. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm just like sitting there like I want you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you know how I am, Like I love telling stuff

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm excited about it. But yes, yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like worth worth the final outcome of like when

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<v Speaker 3>you do have that moment, it will be extra.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I can't wait for the Yeah, it's like I've

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<v Speaker 2>seen some stuff and what we're going to do and

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<v Speaker 2>it's going to be an amazing day. I'm so excited

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<v Speaker 2>for that. But yeah, it's all happening.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited. I need a more accommodation.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to book my tickets for yours.

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<v Speaker 1>Still have you not booked your tickets to my wedding?

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<v Speaker 2>No, we're not. We're nutting out the dates of what

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, probably little tip.

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<v Speaker 3>There's fourteen hundred dollar return flights with Eddie Had at

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<v Speaker 3>the moment, YEA, Melbourne to London. If you want to

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<v Speaker 3>get Melwurn to Athens, there's sixteen hundred with Eddie.

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<v Speaker 2>Had and then you are Athens to call through.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to really get on that.

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<v Speaker 3>You've asked me my wedding dates like four times.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I've already told you you.

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<v Speaker 3>Also, you've also got the email with all the details, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I've also got your calendar, and you've got.

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<v Speaker 3>My calendar with the wedding dates in there, and you're like,

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<v Speaker 3>can you tell me the dates again?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I've one of my messages dumb it down

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<v Speaker 2>as possible for me, like, just give me the exact

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<v Speaker 2>dates of what's.

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<v Speaker 1>But I've done that every single time.

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<v Speaker 3>And I've told you the exact place to book accommodation

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<v Speaker 3>as well, so you'll be close Yea. Anyway, is that

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<v Speaker 3>one close to the venue, extremely close, and it's beautiful

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<v Speaker 3>like waterfront, amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your for the week? Anna?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well look, speaking of weddings, I as you know,

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<v Speaker 3>track my period, so I know my ovulation date is.

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<v Speaker 3>I know when, like you know, where everything's kind of situated. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>I have no contraception at the moment at like from

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<v Speaker 3>now on, like I'm doing trying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not trying to have a baby, but I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm not I don't need contraception, like I'm tracking

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<v Speaker 3>my cycle so well. But anyway, since I am tracking

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<v Speaker 3>and I kind of put the dates in, it does

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<v Speaker 3>like six months of what's coming up. And I've realized

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<v Speaker 3>that I'm gonna have my period from my whole wedding week.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm at the moment getting ten day periods. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't even know if that's normal, Like I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if I need to go see a GP about that

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<v Speaker 3>because I just think ten days is like ridiculous to

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<v Speaker 3>just have your period for that long. So I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if something's wrong. But anyway, maybe I should get

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<v Speaker 3>that checked out after this. But yeah, period for the

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<v Speaker 3>whole wedding week and then spilling on to the friend moon,

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<v Speaker 3>which is so annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm irritated.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, does that always is that? That's not gospel though?

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<v Speaker 2>What that tracker?

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<v Speaker 3>It's not gospel it is I'm like very regular really yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it can fluctuate and change.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe by like a day, like oh okay, forward and back,

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<v Speaker 3>but like essentially what it says goes. But yeah, like

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<v Speaker 3>you're only meant to get your period for a maximum

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<v Speaker 3>of seven days and I'm going ten, so it's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of you know, that's a nick and then having my

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<v Speaker 3>period for the wedding is an ink. But there's literally

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<v Speaker 3>nothing I can do about it. Like I could go

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<v Speaker 3>on the pill and try and skip my period, but

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<v Speaker 3>then I'm like, I don't want to be on any

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<v Speaker 3>contraception anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've had just.

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<v Speaker 2>For that, not just for that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know, I've like loved not.

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<v Speaker 1>Being on anything.

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<v Speaker 2>How long it take.

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<v Speaker 3>The pill can like like mess up how you're feeling,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, I just don't want to like mess

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<v Speaker 3>with my hormones.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm a bit like it's not the worst thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not the worst A towel down, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, But like when I imagine my wedding night, do

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<v Speaker 3>I imagine a towel down? Or do I imagine myself in

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<v Speaker 3>like white lingerie?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know what I mean, Like I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be wearing white launcher.

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking off air, and we were comparing ring sizes

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<v Speaker 2>and cock sizes before your so on. Well, and we

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<v Speaker 2>were talking about a ring and we were asking the question,

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<v Speaker 2>because this has come up in on my Instagram a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of times this week in my new speak, can

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<v Speaker 2>you try on someone else's ring before they do?

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, say, for instance, when I took you to we

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<v Speaker 2>went to Unique Diamonds the jewelers, and you were helping

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<v Speaker 2>with the ring. Apparently it's bad luck if you tried

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<v Speaker 2>on tammy my engage our engagement ring, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Which I didn't. Just to be clear, you did. You

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<v Speaker 1>definitely did.

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<v Speaker 2>Which makes zero sense because it didn't even get past

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<v Speaker 2>my You were.

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<v Speaker 3>Going on the pinky thing like, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>you think that's gonna fit.

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't even get past my nail.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's been a bit of like controversy around this recently.

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<v Speaker 2>Because there was an influencer that she did a story

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<v Speaker 2>didn't she or something, and she was trying on her

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<v Speaker 2>friend's engagement ring, and it copped a bit of backlash

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<v Speaker 2>for doing that before her friend's fiance proposed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like I can understand, like there's two trains of

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<v Speaker 3>thought about it. I personally wouldn't be offended if I

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<v Speaker 3>was a friend, because it looks like it could be

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<v Speaker 3>potentially like a collab and maybe helping her a partner out.

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<v Speaker 3>So I would be like, I'm glad that my partner's

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<v Speaker 3>getting helped out. I don't know, like I have tried

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<v Speaker 3>on before I was engaged my friend's engagement rings because

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh my god, I want to see what.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks like on my finger.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm not superstitious at all. Yeah, So if you're

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<v Speaker 3>asking me, like about the superstition of it, because there

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<v Speaker 3>is a superstition that apparently like you're unlucky in love

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<v Speaker 3>if you try on other people's engagement ring, which I

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<v Speaker 3>just absolutely don't believe it. And I've been very lucky

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<v Speaker 3>in love. I've actually not too. Yeah I'm lucky now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm lucky now. But yeah, like, should you try on

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<v Speaker 3>someone's engagement ring before they've tried it on?

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<v Speaker 1>Themselves. Maybe not maybe not.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I just not respect but out of just

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<v Speaker 2>what's the word, like tradition or out of like good wit,

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<v Speaker 2>like just don't wait till they've tried it on, and

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<v Speaker 2>then if they offer it to you to.

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<v Speaker 1>Try on, like you can ask if can I try?

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<v Speaker 2>And can I see how that looks? Like? Maybe? But

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<v Speaker 2>then that's sort of weird. I mean I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I've asked that of my friends, like can I try

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<v Speaker 3>on your ring? Like I want to see what I

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<v Speaker 3>look like with an engagement ring on?

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<v Speaker 2>But that's apparently the Yeah, that's bad luck.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I don't believe in that, do Like there's

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<v Speaker 3>things I believe in definitely and like superstition wise, but

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<v Speaker 3>that's definitely not one of them.

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<v Speaker 2>I won't put new shoes on the counter on the bench,

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<v Speaker 2>that's bad luck, is it? And if somebody does around me,

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<v Speaker 2>I get them to throw salt over their left shoulder.

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<v Speaker 1>WITCHI poo meadow, that's bad luck.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I've said to Tammy at our wedding, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to do all the traditions. I want something to borrow,

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<v Speaker 2>something blue, something old, something new. I want to do

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<v Speaker 2>the bouquet. I want to do everything, like all the traditions,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm a tradition, Like if we're going to do it,

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna I'm only having one wedding in my life

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<v Speaker 2>and I want it to be like hit all those things.

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<v Speaker 3>Is this what Tammy was talking about when she was saying,

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<v Speaker 3>you're a bit of a grimzilla.

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<v Speaker 2>This is my only request.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I want. I want something borrowing, something blues,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what.

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<v Speaker 3>It's nice that you're involved and like it's nice you're

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<v Speaker 3>taking interest, but like.

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<v Speaker 2>As a WhatsApp group and I haven't even said anything.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not getting involved. I've just said my piece.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just saying your piece on the sidelines. This is

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<v Speaker 1>what I want. This is what I will be having.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a traditional guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I know this episode has been very wedding heavy. Guys,

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<v Speaker 2>don't worry. We're not going to continue down this route

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<v Speaker 2>unless you want us too. Though, happy too, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>well we're gonna we're on our wedding year, so we

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<v Speaker 2>obviously want to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Next thing we're going to chat about Anna is bucks

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<v Speaker 2>and hens.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a big topic, so much to unpack with

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<v Speaker 3>bucks and hands.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say, well, there's almost as much planning goes

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<v Speaker 2>into this as the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you reckon?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, not for you, No, not for anyone, And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>not for anyone who goes to the best man and

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<v Speaker 2>the maid of honor and lands on their shoulders, doesn't it. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 2>has your maid of honor and bridesmaids planned anything for you?

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So basically our plan is we're going to go to

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<v Speaker 3>the Gold Coast. We're gonna all stay at the same hotel.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna go to a cabaret night cabaret. I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's just like a I don't know, like like burlesque.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think like a burlesqued kind of show. We're

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<v Speaker 1>going to do a boat party.

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<v Speaker 3>We might spend some time at the pool, just like

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<v Speaker 3>get away from Melbourne. Obviously, the Gold Coast has amazing weather.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we're gonna do it in April, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's gonna be fun. And then Michael's best man, he's

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<v Speaker 3>like literally planned everything. He's just told Michael a weekend

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<v Speaker 3>that he needs to make sure he's free for and Rory,

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<v Speaker 3>his best man, is going to pick him up from

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<v Speaker 3>our house and just drive it to wherever.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever they've got planned Dale.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're listening, probably not, but there you go. Take

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<v Speaker 2>some spoke from that. Are you having Are you going

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<v Speaker 2>to the strippers? Anna? No, you don't want to see

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<v Speaker 2>any men take their clothes off. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't find strippers hot.

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<v Speaker 3>Firstly, why because I'm attracted to my fiance, Like, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't need, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Michael, stripping, do you find that hot?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Just so you're not interested in topless waiters or anything

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, And like I don't want any

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<v Speaker 1>dick straws.

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<v Speaker 3>I was literally about to ask you, I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>any like dick paraphernalia at my hen's party.

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<v Speaker 2>Michael, what pin the dick on? Michael?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I think it's like I want it to be

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<v Speaker 3>like really like chic, classy esthetic, and I think like

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<v Speaker 3>the most the furthest i'd go would be like to

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<v Speaker 3>have his like face on a popsicle stick and like

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<v Speaker 3>you know how people do that with like their face.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that would be as far as I go.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think, like I want it to just be

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<v Speaker 3>about having fun dressing.

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<v Speaker 1>Up with the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Theme they will have.

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<v Speaker 3>Themes will be up on the Gold Coast for three days,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think each night. We're gonna have like a

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<v Speaker 3>dress code.

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<v Speaker 2>Is one of them going to be and it's last

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<v Speaker 2>Rodeo Cowgirls?

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's been really really I've done unfortunately, And if

0:20:20.000 --> 0:20:23.199
<v Speaker 3>you had, if you did have it like Rodeo or

0:20:23.359 --> 0:20:27.280
<v Speaker 3>like cowboy girl theme, it does look really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm not.

0:20:28.320 --> 0:20:32.640
<v Speaker 3>Trying to I'm not throwing shade, but yeah, we've got

0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:35.080
<v Speaker 3>our themes. I'm obviously not going to reveal them now,

0:20:35.320 --> 0:20:36.480
<v Speaker 3>but yeah, I'm excited.

0:20:36.560 --> 0:20:37.359
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be fun.

0:20:37.560 --> 0:20:39.520
<v Speaker 2>Is Michael allowed to go to the strippers? Or have

0:20:39.600 --> 0:20:41.119
<v Speaker 2>you had a stern word to Rory?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what the best thing about Michael and

0:20:44.000 --> 0:20:47.119
<v Speaker 3>Rory are? I love them so much. They literally have

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<v Speaker 3>like said to me, they're like, we are absolutely we

0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:51.920
<v Speaker 3>don't want strippers. We would never go to the strippers.

0:20:51.920 --> 0:20:54.240
<v Speaker 3>That's not for us. Like they're like so off that

0:20:54.560 --> 0:20:56.640
<v Speaker 3>they're just not about that type of thing.

0:20:56.920 --> 0:20:57.760
<v Speaker 1>I think they just want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Have like a wholesome boys weekend. A lot of Michael's

0:21:01.200 --> 0:21:03.440
<v Speaker 3>friends all have kids now, so they don't get to

0:21:03.440 --> 0:21:05.720
<v Speaker 3>see each other as often, so I think it's just

0:21:05.720 --> 0:21:07.840
<v Speaker 3>about like bonding with each other. I think they might

0:21:07.880 --> 0:21:11.000
<v Speaker 3>go play golf. I think it's just like gonna be wholesome.

0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:14.480
<v Speaker 3>Obviously they're gonna get lit and yeah it's gonna be nice.

0:21:14.520 --> 0:21:17.880
<v Speaker 3>What about you, Like, what's your stance on strippers at

0:21:17.920 --> 0:21:18.760
<v Speaker 3>a Bucks party?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care much for them. I've said it before,

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't. I don't find them attractive. I find

0:21:24.520 --> 0:21:27.960
<v Speaker 2>it kind of cringe. I remember I was at a

0:21:28.040 --> 0:21:30.320
<v Speaker 2>bikes or something and there was a stripper there and

0:21:30.359 --> 0:21:32.000
<v Speaker 2>I was just in the corner talking to a mate

0:21:32.040 --> 0:21:34.479
<v Speaker 2>like I didn't even care for it. Yeah, it's just

0:21:34.560 --> 0:21:37.520
<v Speaker 2>not I don't find it hot. I find it cringe.

0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:40.200
<v Speaker 2>Like I couldn't tell you the last time I even

0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:43.440
<v Speaker 2>went to a strip club. Yeah, I wouldn't have been.

0:21:43.680 --> 0:21:45.719
<v Speaker 2>It's been a while, probably once when I was eighteen.

0:21:45.920 --> 0:21:48.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm just not into them. Yeah, so I've told my

0:21:48.440 --> 0:21:51.520
<v Speaker 2>mates because it's come up in conversation, Like for the Bucks,

0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:54.080
<v Speaker 2>I said, no, no, no strippers. I find it.

0:21:54.160 --> 0:21:58.000
<v Speaker 3>If I know your friends, I reckon they're gonna like

0:21:58.520 --> 0:22:01.680
<v Speaker 3>do one that's like a sea, like a secret stripper.

0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:04.520
<v Speaker 3>Like they won't tell you about it, they wouldn't. I

0:22:04.600 --> 0:22:07.119
<v Speaker 3>just have a feeling they might. No, you need to

0:22:07.119 --> 0:22:09.560
<v Speaker 3>be crystal clear, like guys if you're listening.

0:22:09.720 --> 0:22:11.159
<v Speaker 1>We don't want strippers, No.

0:22:11.240 --> 0:22:13.159
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't. I don't think they seem pretty. My

0:22:13.240 --> 0:22:16.000
<v Speaker 2>mate seems like they didn't want them either. Really yeah, no,

0:22:16.160 --> 0:22:20.120
<v Speaker 2>like Dale doesn't care for him, Like, yeah, I don't

0:22:20.119 --> 0:22:22.120
<v Speaker 2>think they do. They're all in relationships now. I don't

0:22:22.160 --> 0:22:22.840
<v Speaker 2>think they care for it.

0:22:23.040 --> 0:22:23.879
<v Speaker 1>What's your plan?

0:22:25.560 --> 0:22:29.040
<v Speaker 2>So the plan is, I don't know that they've haven't

0:22:29.040 --> 0:22:34.280
<v Speaker 2>made a plan. But if my ideal bucks party, anyone's listening,

0:22:34.920 --> 0:22:36.439
<v Speaker 2>I want to keep it small. I don't want a

0:22:36.440 --> 0:22:39.000
<v Speaker 2>big one like my rooms party, and that we and

0:22:39.080 --> 0:22:42.359
<v Speaker 2>a couple of mates. Maybe we go, we go somewhere,

0:22:42.440 --> 0:22:45.760
<v Speaker 2>we get a house, go play golf or something, yeah,

0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:49.919
<v Speaker 2>a driving range more than golf. Drinks into like a

0:22:49.960 --> 0:22:53.160
<v Speaker 2>steak dinner, steak like a nice steak.

0:22:53.400 --> 0:22:55.640
<v Speaker 1>You do love a steak into.

0:22:55.480 --> 0:22:58.560
<v Speaker 2>A nice steak dinner. Then I think that it's been

0:22:58.640 --> 0:23:01.560
<v Speaker 2>chatted with Tammy. That then we meet up at like

0:23:01.600 --> 0:23:05.080
<v Speaker 2>an Airbnb or a penthouse with her Hen's party, and

0:23:05.160 --> 0:23:07.639
<v Speaker 2>then we like cross them over and continue to have

0:23:07.680 --> 0:23:09.040
<v Speaker 2>a big party for the night.

0:23:09.200 --> 0:23:11.199
<v Speaker 3>So where is this going to take place withul this

0:23:11.240 --> 0:23:13.480
<v Speaker 3>big gold coastal Melbourne or it's undecided.

0:23:13.520 --> 0:23:16.280
<v Speaker 2>I decided I think I sent her maid of honor

0:23:16.400 --> 0:23:19.800
<v Speaker 2>Amy my best man's Instagram actually the other day and said,

0:23:19.920 --> 0:23:21.439
<v Speaker 2>this is who you need to talk to because they

0:23:21.440 --> 0:23:22.600
<v Speaker 2>were talking about it on the phone.

0:23:22.800 --> 0:23:23.359
<v Speaker 1>Got you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, well that's exciting, is.

0:23:25.840 --> 0:23:28.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's exciting. I'm not, like I said, I don't

0:23:28.119 --> 0:23:32.359
<v Speaker 2>care for topless waiters, strippers or anything like that. I don't.

0:23:32.880 --> 0:23:34.919
<v Speaker 2>I think the era of that sort of stuff's dead anyway.

0:23:35.800 --> 0:23:36.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a big crean.

0:23:36.960 --> 0:23:38.480
<v Speaker 2>It's a bit. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you're listening and that's what you're into,

0:23:40.880 --> 0:23:43.639
<v Speaker 3>that's completely fine. Like I have a friend, one of

0:23:43.640 --> 0:23:45.840
<v Speaker 3>my best friends actually, when I was saying like I

0:23:45.880 --> 0:23:48.760
<v Speaker 3>want no dig paraphernalia at my hands, she was like,

0:23:48.840 --> 0:23:50.560
<v Speaker 3>I want all the Dick paraphernalia.

0:23:50.560 --> 0:23:53.720
<v Speaker 1>I want Dick straws, I want Dick napkins, I want

0:23:53.720 --> 0:23:54.320
<v Speaker 1>like all of it.

0:23:54.359 --> 0:23:56.520
<v Speaker 3>And I was like that's so fine, Like you do

0:23:56.640 --> 0:23:58.960
<v Speaker 3>you and like it's gonna be fun, and like I

0:23:58.960 --> 0:24:02.080
<v Speaker 3>think it's fun when like everyone kind of just has

0:24:02.119 --> 0:24:04.840
<v Speaker 3>exactly what they want for that occasion.

0:24:04.640 --> 0:24:06.520
<v Speaker 2>Said the same thing. We're INSEEXI land the other day

0:24:06.600 --> 0:24:08.439
<v Speaker 2>and I was like pointing at the Dick straws and

0:24:08.440 --> 0:24:09.919
<v Speaker 2>that I was like, oh, look at your hens. Not

0:24:10.119 --> 0:24:12.600
<v Speaker 2>She was like, I want none of that stuff. I

0:24:12.600 --> 0:24:16.080
<v Speaker 2>wanted chic. Yeah, we gets thrown around a lot in

0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:18.680
<v Speaker 2>the wedding planning meeting. Was that chic elegant?

0:24:18.920 --> 0:24:21.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I love that. That's exactly what you want for

0:24:21.840 --> 0:24:22.320
<v Speaker 1>your wedding.

0:24:22.640 --> 0:24:24.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's that's the go I mean.

0:24:24.800 --> 0:24:28.720
<v Speaker 3>One of my ex boyfriends was a topless waiter for

0:24:28.840 --> 0:24:29.560
<v Speaker 3>Hen's parties.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember, yeah, I can imagine who. Yeah, And I.

0:24:35.920 --> 0:24:40.240
<v Speaker 3>Remember he said to me he was like, after working

0:24:40.320 --> 0:24:43.840
<v Speaker 3>as a topless waiter, I don't trust any women. And

0:24:43.880 --> 0:24:46.560
<v Speaker 3>I was like why and he was like, because I've

0:24:46.600 --> 0:24:49.080
<v Speaker 3>had sex with so many brides to be And I

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:54.520
<v Speaker 3>was like, really, like that's crazy. That's so crazy because

0:24:55.160 --> 0:24:59.200
<v Speaker 3>the whole obviously in both of our Hens and Bucks

0:24:59.240 --> 0:25:01.879
<v Speaker 3>party isn't like a last hurrah. But a lot of

0:25:01.880 --> 0:25:04.080
<v Speaker 3>people go on their Hens and Bucks and they're like,

0:25:04.560 --> 0:25:05.840
<v Speaker 3>this is my last hurrah.

0:25:07.160 --> 0:25:09.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, that doesn't make sense to me. Why would

0:25:09.600 --> 0:25:11.800
<v Speaker 2>you want a last hurrah when you're going into a marriage.

0:25:12.040 --> 0:25:16.600
<v Speaker 1>It literally makes no sense, like the last post to

0:25:16.600 --> 0:25:17.040
<v Speaker 1>be had.

0:25:17.400 --> 0:25:21.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that doesn't make sense to me. Well, if you're

0:25:21.960 --> 0:25:23.520
<v Speaker 2>going into a marriage, I feel like you're meant to

0:25:23.520 --> 0:25:27.199
<v Speaker 2>be very you know, like secure, secure, ready to go

0:25:27.240 --> 0:25:28.960
<v Speaker 2>to know what you want, you know what you want? Yeah,

0:25:29.040 --> 0:25:30.360
<v Speaker 2>done with all that garbage.

0:25:30.600 --> 0:25:31.159
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder how many marriages have not gone ahead because

0:25:35.200 --> 0:25:38.800
<v Speaker 3>at a Bucks party or a Hen's party, the bride

0:25:38.800 --> 0:25:41.560
<v Speaker 3>to be or groom to be has actually cheated on

0:25:41.600 --> 0:25:46.120
<v Speaker 3>their partner with like a stripper or someone else portrayal.

0:25:45.720 --> 0:25:47.919
<v Speaker 2>A week or a month out from the wedding as well.

0:25:48.040 --> 0:25:51.440
<v Speaker 3>But then imagine in that person's head, they're thinking, well,

0:25:51.480 --> 0:25:53.399
<v Speaker 3>this is my last hurrah, so this is okay.

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:55.679
<v Speaker 2>That's not I couldnot relate to that.

0:25:55.760 --> 0:25:59.399
<v Speaker 3>I cannot, I absolutely cannot relate to that in any

0:25:59.440 --> 0:25:59.960
<v Speaker 3>sort of way.

0:26:00.160 --> 0:26:03.320
<v Speaker 2>What would you do if Michael's friends surprised him with

0:26:03.359 --> 0:26:06.920
<v Speaker 2>a stripper, I'd be pissed at.

0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:07.360
<v Speaker 1>All of them.

0:26:09.920 --> 0:26:12.560
<v Speaker 3>But Michael doesn't want to strip us it was a stripper,

0:26:12.920 --> 0:26:17.080
<v Speaker 3>then I would just be like why, like was not wanted,

0:26:17.280 --> 0:26:18.520
<v Speaker 3>Like there's no need.

0:26:18.600 --> 0:26:21.359
<v Speaker 2>If I did that, I would ask the stripper piety

0:26:21.440 --> 0:26:24.920
<v Speaker 2>to leave. Yeah, I'd say thanks for coming, thanks for coming,

0:26:25.000 --> 0:26:25.800
<v Speaker 2>keep your clothes on go.

0:26:29.280 --> 0:26:30.840
<v Speaker 3>I thought you were going to ask me the question, like,

0:26:30.840 --> 0:26:34.040
<v Speaker 3>what would you do if Michael like cheated on the bus, snut.

0:26:34.119 --> 0:26:35.639
<v Speaker 2>That's not even in the conversation.

0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 1>You know what I would do, it would be done though, that's.

0:26:39.600 --> 0:26:42.080
<v Speaker 2>Not even in the conversation. That's just a weird way

0:26:42.119 --> 0:26:43.000
<v Speaker 2>of thinking. I feel.

0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:45.840
<v Speaker 3>Do you worry that, like pre wedding it's such a

0:26:45.880 --> 0:26:49.840
<v Speaker 3>thing that people get cold feet? I worry about that sometimes.

0:26:50.080 --> 0:26:51.160
<v Speaker 1>Really, yeah, Like.

0:26:51.080 --> 0:26:53.800
<v Speaker 3>It's a full thing, Like just before people get married,

0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 3>they're like have a meltdown, like who knows how I'm

0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:57.000
<v Speaker 3>going to feel?

0:26:57.040 --> 0:26:58.600
<v Speaker 1>Who knows how Michael's going to feel?

0:26:59.160 --> 0:27:01.520
<v Speaker 3>You know, and with you guys, like there's it's a

0:27:01.520 --> 0:27:03.879
<v Speaker 3>real thing, Like cold feet is a real thing. I

0:27:03.920 --> 0:27:06.399
<v Speaker 3>think that's where cold feet came from, like just before

0:27:06.880 --> 0:27:11.120
<v Speaker 3>marrying someone being like shit, is this my like forever person?

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:14.680
<v Speaker 2>Friend's reference. That's the starting episode where Rachel gets cold

0:27:14.680 --> 0:27:16.400
<v Speaker 2>feet with her fiance.

0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:19.399
<v Speaker 3>Does she yeah, okay, walk down the aisle? And she

0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:23.159
<v Speaker 3>doesn't walk down the aisle? Yeah, do you worry about that?

0:27:23.200 --> 0:27:23.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:27:23.720 --> 0:27:25.720
<v Speaker 3>Maybe that's just a me thing. Maybe it's just like

0:27:25.880 --> 0:27:27.240
<v Speaker 3>anxious attachment style.

0:27:27.600 --> 0:27:30.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm anxious attachment style, But I'm pretty secure in.

0:27:30.040 --> 0:27:31.879
<v Speaker 1>That You're like I know that.

0:27:32.440 --> 0:27:33.880
<v Speaker 2>I think, I mean, it's going to be walking down

0:27:33.920 --> 0:27:35.720
<v Speaker 2>that aisle if yeah, I.

0:27:35.640 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 3>Know, but like sometimes I just imagine it and I'm like,

0:27:37.600 --> 0:27:40.680
<v Speaker 3>imagine if like one of us got cold feet and

0:27:40.680 --> 0:27:42.760
<v Speaker 3>then the wedding didn't go ahead, Like how crazy.

0:27:42.480 --> 0:27:42.959
<v Speaker 1>Would that be?

0:27:43.400 --> 0:27:44.960
<v Speaker 2>Would you let us party on?

0:27:46.359 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 1>If we're all in Greece, I'd be partying on.

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:50.080
<v Speaker 3>I'd take myself to Mick and ask to cry my

0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:52.160
<v Speaker 3>sorrow drink my sorrows.

0:27:51.880 --> 0:27:54.400
<v Speaker 2>While because if I was there and Michael wasn't there

0:27:54.400 --> 0:27:56.600
<v Speaker 2>and then wedding he got cold feet, I would like

0:27:56.680 --> 0:27:57.119
<v Speaker 2>to steal.

0:27:57.760 --> 0:28:00.119
<v Speaker 3>Like even just the fact that we're, like god to

0:28:00.200 --> 0:28:02.920
<v Speaker 3>get married. Just to think about the fact that there's

0:28:02.960 --> 0:28:06.800
<v Speaker 3>been like runaway brides or runaway grooms like at the wedding,

0:28:06.960 --> 0:28:09.600
<v Speaker 3>Like that is the craziest thing to me, Like when

0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:13.600
<v Speaker 3>like even the fact that we've now seen like costings,

0:28:13.600 --> 0:28:18.359
<v Speaker 3>like how much that cost? Imagine to not even show

0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 3>up to your own wedding like that?

0:28:21.240 --> 0:28:22.440
<v Speaker 1>Just I can't like.

0:28:22.520 --> 0:28:23.720
<v Speaker 2>Don't get deposits back.

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:27.280
<v Speaker 1>I can't wrap my head around that, can you.

0:28:27.320 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm I'm walking. I'm at the end of that aisle.

0:28:31.080 --> 0:28:33.440
<v Speaker 2>If for no reason, there would be no reason why

0:28:33.440 --> 0:28:34.160
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't be.

0:28:34.320 --> 0:28:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, same, there's no reason why we'd be walking up

0:28:37.080 --> 0:28:38.920
<v Speaker 1>the aisle. No one's saying to agree with me.

0:28:41.320 --> 0:28:48.440
<v Speaker 2>This is toxic chat. This is toxic chat. So red

0:28:48.480 --> 0:28:51.040
<v Speaker 2>flag green flags a little bit different this week. Anna,

0:28:51.120 --> 0:28:53.880
<v Speaker 2>we're gonna call it a loud or banned. So I'll

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:56.200
<v Speaker 2>ask a question. You tell me if it's a loud

0:28:56.280 --> 0:28:58.120
<v Speaker 2>or banned. We've already answered this one.

0:28:58.160 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I feel strippers one two three okay?

0:29:02.920 --> 0:29:04.800
<v Speaker 2>This is this is it is literally on that topic

0:29:04.840 --> 0:29:10.520
<v Speaker 2>as well. Lap dancers allowed or banned two one? And

0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:14.800
<v Speaker 2>what strippers and lap dancers go hand in hand? I

0:29:14.840 --> 0:29:18.920
<v Speaker 2>feel okay. Casino allowed or.

0:29:18.880 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 3>Banned three two one allowed.

0:29:21.960 --> 0:29:23.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't care for a casino.

0:29:23.520 --> 0:29:26.480
<v Speaker 1>But is it allowed or is it band? Three two

0:29:26.680 --> 0:29:27.480
<v Speaker 1>one allowed?

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:31.280
<v Speaker 2>Sure? Band, I don't care for a casino.

0:29:31.320 --> 0:29:33.360
<v Speaker 3>To be fair, this is about like if you're allowing

0:29:33.480 --> 0:29:34.640
<v Speaker 3>or banning the other person.

0:29:34.760 --> 0:29:38.320
<v Speaker 2>This is about allowed, allowed, allowed, allowed.

0:29:38.680 --> 0:29:41.320
<v Speaker 1>Limo three to one allowed?

0:29:41.600 --> 0:29:47.880
<v Speaker 2>I mean sure, excessive alcohol three two one allowed? It's

0:29:48.000 --> 0:29:51.280
<v Speaker 2>your hands or your buck? Sure they don't message you

0:29:51.320 --> 0:29:55.520
<v Speaker 2>the whole night three to one? You know how I

0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:58.360
<v Speaker 2>feel about that? Okay. On the opposite end of that,

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:00.520
<v Speaker 2>they blow up your phone while you're out and it

0:30:00.520 --> 0:30:02.280
<v Speaker 2>doesn't allow you to enjoy yourself.

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:04.600
<v Speaker 1>Three two one.

0:30:05.040 --> 0:30:07.280
<v Speaker 2>I always think there's a right amount of messages on

0:30:07.280 --> 0:30:08.320
<v Speaker 2>a night, write.

0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:11.520
<v Speaker 3>Amount of messages from your partner on your bucks or hands.

0:30:12.120 --> 0:30:15.120
<v Speaker 3>I think, like maybe like a phone called check in,

0:30:15.200 --> 0:30:17.000
<v Speaker 3>like kbab, how's it going really good?

0:30:17.560 --> 0:30:19.760
<v Speaker 2>I just think if there's a conversation, you don't ignore it,

0:30:19.840 --> 0:30:21.800
<v Speaker 2>like it's just like, you know, a conversation.

0:30:21.880 --> 0:30:24.200
<v Speaker 3>Obviously die But I'm not gonna like, I'm not gonna

0:30:24.240 --> 0:30:28.640
<v Speaker 3>impede on Michael's night by now.

0:30:29.040 --> 0:30:30.960
<v Speaker 2>But if like, you don't just ignore the message like

0:30:31.000 --> 0:30:32.760
<v Speaker 2>everyone's on their phone and it does it. It takes

0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:35.520
<v Speaker 2>no longer than ten seconds to reply to a message. Yeah,

0:30:35.640 --> 0:30:36.960
<v Speaker 2>do you know what I mean? So it's no harm

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<v Speaker 2>in that. If there's no conversation, then it's fine, do

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<v Speaker 2>what you've got to do. But if someone's if she

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<v Speaker 2>sent me a message or something, you'll reply.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, mat it's time for am I the asshole.

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<v Speaker 3>My sister Alice is getting married to Chris. I'm very

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<v Speaker 3>happy for them. He's the best guy I know. I've

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<v Speaker 3>been friends with Chris since high school and I actually

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<v Speaker 3>set them up a couple of years ago. The bachelor

0:30:59.200 --> 0:31:03.200
<v Speaker 3>party happened and last Friday. It was between our friendship group,

0:31:03.480 --> 0:31:06.560
<v Speaker 3>six of us total. Having known Chris for many years,

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<v Speaker 3>I know he's a bit of a pushover, very go

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<v Speaker 3>with the flow whenever we all meet up. He's happy

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<v Speaker 3>to do whatever. He isn't someone who is very assertive.

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<v Speaker 3>For his bachelor party, he wanted to get beers and

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<v Speaker 3>hang at my place since I have a huge yard

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<v Speaker 3>pool table, actual pool and jacuzzi. He wanted a relaxing night.

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<v Speaker 3>Unbeknownst to Chris, Mark managed to talk the guys into

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<v Speaker 3>chipping in for a stripper and did not mention it

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<v Speaker 3>to me until the day of this party.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn Mark, up to his usual tricks.

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<v Speaker 3>He thought it would be a good idea since Chris

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<v Speaker 3>and Alice both agree not to tell each other what

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<v Speaker 3>happens at their prospective parties. Red Fly, I immediately told

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<v Speaker 3>Mark to cancel and that it was a bad idea. Fristados,

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<v Speaker 3>this is a bachelor party for the man marrying my sister.

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<v Speaker 3>I know she wouldn't want him to dance with an

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<v Speaker 3>almost naked woman before he marries her. Secondly, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want a stripper in my home. I respect that if

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<v Speaker 3>you want to do that for single men at a club,

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<v Speaker 3>but not in my home for a groom to be Thirdly,

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<v Speaker 3>they didn't ask Chris about it, and I feel it

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<v Speaker 3>goes against his wishes of a relaxing night. He said

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<v Speaker 3>it was too late because he'd already ordered her, So

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<v Speaker 3>I kept an eye on my door camera for the

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<v Speaker 3>rest of the night and turned her away before any

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<v Speaker 3>of the guys could answer.

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<v Speaker 2>He'd put the deposit down.

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<v Speaker 3>I said it was just one of my neighbors asking

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<v Speaker 3>for something.

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<v Speaker 1>Today.

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<v Speaker 3>Mark asked me about it, since he'd contacted where he'd

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<v Speaker 3>hired her from. They told him I turned her away.

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<v Speaker 3>I confess that I did for the following reasons above,

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<v Speaker 3>And he said it was a dick move to cancel

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<v Speaker 3>her without telling him since it was meant to be

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<v Speaker 3>a surprise gift for his party. Am I the asshole

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<v Speaker 3>for intervening? Chris had a great night without a stripper anyway?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, no, I don't think you're the asshole. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>your sister's groom. I wouldn't want a girl grinding on them,

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<v Speaker 2>do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>But also, like your sister comes first, she takes precedence

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<v Speaker 3>over anyone else. So she's looking out for a sister.

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<v Speaker 2>I think though there's no don't like and this goes

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<v Speaker 2>what you're saying before. If my mates want to surprise everyone,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want one, so like if they could walk in,

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<v Speaker 2>if I was Chris, I'd just be like, eh, like lame.

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<v Speaker 3>Like if you've already said you don't want it. I

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<v Speaker 3>think she's actually following his wishes by turning her away,

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<v Speaker 3>don't you reckon?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, he's on the right movie. I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>he's an asshole at all. I think Mark's a bit

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<v Speaker 2>of a loser for booking one when it's been prefaced

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<v Speaker 2>that they don't want one, and too bad, too sad mate,

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<v Speaker 2>get over yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>This is the thing as well though, Like I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like at a Bucks party, right, if there's a guy

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<v Speaker 3>who's at the Bucks party and he's like, well, I

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<v Speaker 3>want to I thought I was at a Bucks party.

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<v Speaker 1>I assume there was going to be a striper here.

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<v Speaker 3>Then they could order one for their own self pleasure,

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<v Speaker 3>as opposed to thinking about the groom to be. And

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's where it can get a little bit tricky.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, it's not their day.

0:34:14.560 --> 0:34:16.440
<v Speaker 3>It's not their day, but they're like, I'm at a

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<v Speaker 3>Bucks party, I expect for there to be a stripper here.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so cliche and so naffed and tacky strippers out

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<v Speaker 2>of a Bucks thing. I think, like, you know, if

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<v Speaker 2>that's what you want to do, why don't you go

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<v Speaker 2>out answers to the strip club?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I mean, the thing is each to their own, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>if that's your vibe, go for it. But I just think,

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<v Speaker 3>like Matt said, if you've specifically said this is not

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<v Speaker 3>what I want, I think people should respect that, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think never expect that that's how a Bucks party

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<v Speaker 3>or a Hen's party is going to unfold.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think he's the asshole. I think he's done

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<v Speaker 2>the right thing. But a bit of a red flag

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<v Speaker 2>if by pointing out was they don't tell each other

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<v Speaker 2>what happens in the respective parties. Yeah, that's weird bit

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<v Speaker 2>of a red flat.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that kind of like.

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<v Speaker 2>What are you not reporting to your partner.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of like the mentality of like what happens

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<v Speaker 3>at my Bucks party and Hen's party stays at the

0:35:14.040 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 3>Bucks party and Hen's party. I mean, we all know

0:35:16.680 --> 0:35:19.480
<v Speaker 3>that type of toxic chat. You just I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to be.

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<v Speaker 2>A part of that. No communication is key. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think that's the right way to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Not as much wedding chat next time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're all wedding chatted out.

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