1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: City and with Kate Ritchie podcast. Now, I've never done 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: dancing with the Stars, right, you would have been asked 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: every year, Kate. It does tend to come around that. 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: And I'm a celebrity, Get me out of here, get 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: me off the list. 6 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 2: What I say, I'm in an initial meeting, get me 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 2: out of here. 8 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 1: Look with both of those things, but dancing with the 9 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: stars and even being in the jungle, the idea of 10 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: it and being offered the opportunity is something really exciting. Yes, 11 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: I want to learn to dance. Yes, I want to 12 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: get fit. They always say that they've had a wonderful 13 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: experience slash journey and even being in the jungle, like 14 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 1: everyone you talk to has had well pretty much a 15 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:44,480 Speaker 1: great time. 16 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 3: Yes, we got to learn about Warnie, remember Warning I Reckon. 17 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 3: It was the best thing that Warnie ever did because 18 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: you got to see another side of Shane. 19 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: Yeah you did. But he only he had a very 20 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: expensive guest appearance, didn't he wasn't he the highest paid 21 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: for just a few moments and. 22 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: Was allowed to have a cigarette whenever he wanted outside 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 3: of the cabs. Right, that was the one where we 24 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 3: snuck Whipper in and left him in there. 25 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 2: Another story ker Richie for another day. 26 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 1: Didn't you it wasn't there a heights thing? 27 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 2: Something to do with hearts. I don't know. I love 28 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: all of it. 29 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: I think it's like anything, if you say you don't 30 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: like something. 31 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 3: That's what they make you do. 32 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: Anyway, What I mean is I like the idea of 33 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: having that experience. And I mean over the years, I've 34 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: also heard you know that the people who are learning 35 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: this new skill, they're staring into the eyes of someone 36 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: who truly believed the stars, dancing with the stars, they 37 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: end up not only having a little twirl around the 38 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 1: dance floor, but also the bedroom bush. And it only 39 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: reminded me of this because I saw the sad news 40 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:48,279 Speaker 1: yesterday that it does seem rumors are true about Natalie 41 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: Portman and her husband. It's all over, it's after eleven 42 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: years something like that, and that that's what I'm talking about. 43 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: They met on the set of Black Swan. He was 44 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: the corryographer. She ended up bring an Oscar for that role, 45 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: and she was incredible and not only is a beautiful actress, 46 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: very talented, but learned this new skill that would have 47 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: lit some kind of fire deep within. 48 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 2: She hooked up with him and. 49 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 1: They got married. The coach had two kids. Yeah, the coach, 50 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 1: the trainer, the personal trainer on the on the dance 51 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: floor and they have been married ever since. He has 52 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: been photographed with a what is she a climate activisties 53 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: she's in her twenties. 54 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 3: He had wondering ways though, didn't he wasn't he rumored. 55 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 2: To have been? 56 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 3: Am? I am? I off track? I think he loved 57 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 3: the ladies court well. 58 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: I think there have been rumors before. I mean, it's 59 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: not for me to comment on, but for the sake 60 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: of this story, that's what I want to talk about. 61 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: Have you fallen for the person who has has talk 62 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 1: what is something great? Maybe it is your personal trainer. 63 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 3: Do you know? 64 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 2: It's something to do with the coaching element, isn't it. 65 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 2: It's something to do with that person making you better 66 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 2: than you were before, improving the person you were before, 67 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 2: giving you that new skill which you can then show 68 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 2: off or take somewhere else. Yeah, you feel like you've 69 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 2: grown because of that individual. Look at Ricky Lee on 70 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 2: the Drive show. 71 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: Was dating Tim. 72 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,679 Speaker 2: No, Tim's not a personal trainer. 73 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: Jim, but he does have a lot. 74 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 2: The guy that Ricky Lee is married to was the 75 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: personal trainer. 76 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: I forgot all about that. 77 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, here's the guy who basically put her back on 78 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 2: track and made her feel fantastic, and she could. 79 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: Have done it on her own. Let's not give credit 80 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: to all of the trainers. 81 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 2: Say well done to the trainer. 82 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 3: Can I say it doesn't happen very often? For finding it, 83 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 3: but really suggesting that personal trainers but lazy ships kate 84 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 3: because personal trainers there's a fair bit of ego involved 85 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 3: with that as well. They love a short little relationship 86 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 3: and then realize that they've got another customer and they 87 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: move on very quickly. 88 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: I know what you're saying. They are that person for 89 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: you for fifty five minutes, and then when you wander 90 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: out the door, down the stairs, you know, saw legs 91 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 1: but a full heart. They then just move on to 92 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: the next person, Whereas you spend the whole day thinking, 93 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to go home to my 94 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: husband and I'm going to have to clean up after 95 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 1: the kids, and he's going to accuse me of spending 96 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: too much time at the gym, But I need that time. 97 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: That's my meat time, and he's making me feel wonderful. 98 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 2: I'm going to sit down I'm going to do the homework, 99 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 2: then I'm going to clean. My husband won't pay me 100 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 2: any attention. All of a sudden, someone is really really 101 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 2: excited to see me and makes me feel good. 102 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 1: I heard this story through a friend of mine, a 103 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: friend of hers, and this really is a friend of 104 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: a friend christ friend. 105 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 2: I just stop yourself, in mate. 106 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: I promise this is not a Oh I've got a 107 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 1: great story. It's about me. But I'll know jazz it 108 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: up a little bit. I think the woman said to 109 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:05,679 Speaker 1: her husband he'd put a lot of weight on after 110 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 1: they had been married. She said, you know what you 111 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 1: need to do. Get back to the gym. You know, 112 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: I'll pay for your like, take the money out of 113 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: the home, kiddy, get your personal training back. You know, 114 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: you need to start feeling good about yourself again. You 115 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: need a bit of me time. So he starts going 116 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 1: to the gym, he starts getting a bit more fit, 117 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: he's looking good, and he runs off with his trainer. 118 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: Three kids at home. 119 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 2: Kate Richie. My wife had a personal trainer. I can't 120 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 2: remember his name. I'm just out of the kitchen window right, 121 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 2: and they'd be boxing in the driveway. What was interesting 122 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,559 Speaker 2: was when he would arrive, he'd give her a kiss. Hello, 123 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 2: what unboxing or no YouTube channel? They didn't, Oh my god, 124 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 2: I have a look at this new hot wheels kid. No, 125 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: and I don't think you kissed your trainer? Kiss your trainer. 126 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 2: And then I would watch at the end of the session, 127 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 2: just keeping an eye through the shutters in the kitchen window, 128 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: just that guy looking at the window, and he would 129 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 2: give her a kiss goodbye, and I would go, what 130 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 2: was the kiss? That's an overfriendly. 131 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 3: Train to get it from somewhere, you know what I mean. 132 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 2: It should be sweating by the end of the boxing. 133 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 2: I think. 134 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: So there you are, Pheromones. 135 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 3: I don't think. I don't think long term it can work, though. 136 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 3: I think a relationship or fling with a personal trainer 137 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 3: or a dancing instructor, it can work, but it will 138 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 3: not last for a long time. I'd love to hear 139 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,359 Speaker 3: from anyone who has done this and are still married 140 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 3: or are they still with that person? 141 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 2: What happened with the trainer? 142 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: I did date a trainer. He wasn't by trainer, but 143 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:38,919 Speaker 1: that was only three months. 144 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 2: He didn't even train you well, he did? 145 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: Oh I trained here? Well? 146 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 3: I think I didn't think that you assuited to the 147 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 3: commando to be honest. 148 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: Didy a Weaper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast. 149 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:50,719 Speaker 2: For more great comedy shows 150 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 3: Like this, head to novapodcast dot com, dot are you