Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Where's Your Head at Hotline, our
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Speaker 3: I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in. Hello everyone, Good.
Speaker 2: Morning Anna, Good morning everyone, and our first time in
Speaker 2: the studio since Splendor.
Speaker 1: I know, I feel like we haven't spoken to everyone
Speaker 1: in so long, just because we had obviously the live
Speaker 1: show go out as our main app and then I
Speaker 1: actually missed our hotline kind of. We did the Ocean
Speaker 1: Alley interview, but I had sprained my ankle at Splendor
Speaker 1: in the Grass, which was not ideal.
Speaker 2: Not ideal at all. So we've missed to do the
Speaker 2: hotline there, so we'll recap the live showing. Now, what's
Speaker 2: your thoughts on it?
Speaker 1: The live show? So it was amazing, Like, I loved it.
Speaker 1: The energy was really good. Someone came up on stage
Speaker 1: and said our crowd was the best turnout of the day,
Speaker 1: which made me feel really good.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm so glad you got that on MIC.
Speaker 1: It was just a good vibe there and Splendor was fun,
Speaker 1: like we've both never been.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was good to go to Splendor. Actually it
Speaker 2: was a lot different from how I usually do my festival. Something.
Speaker 2: I wasn't camping. I was with my sister. We're going
Speaker 2: back to like a hotel, so it was a little
Speaker 2: bit different. But yeah, it was. It was good fun
Speaker 2: I mean, the show was fun though. We had a
Speaker 2: good turnout. How funny were some of the people that
Speaker 2: we got involved?
Speaker 3: Yeah, they were hilarious.
Speaker 2: The guy that we asked to tell that story and
Speaker 2: he just like what did he mumble something about having
Speaker 2: sex with someone on the dance floor. Fucking makes me
Speaker 2: laugh still at to this day. That was hilarious.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so funny.
Speaker 1: It was really awesome getting to interview Ocean Alley and
Speaker 1: then seeing the lead singer up on stage with his
Speaker 1: baby was so cute.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, what a moment.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was really cute. They were really good guys
Speaker 2: as well. They were pretty down to earth. Yeah, pretty funny.
Speaker 2: Who was your favorite act then.
Speaker 1: I mean I loved obviously Ocean Alley and I loved
Speaker 1: Oh seven o' shake. She sings Escapism, but she didn't
Speaker 1: sing it on the day, and I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: like I really wanted to hear that. Yeah, I did
Speaker 1: feel a little bit robbed, But other than that, amazing. Obviously,
Speaker 1: I sprained my ankle my foot like blew up double
Speaker 1: the size.
Speaker 3: I couldn't walk. You know, I was in a lot
Speaker 3: of pain.
Speaker 2: It's shame. I mean, how did Michael take that? It
Speaker 2: was he on his bucket list and he only spent
Speaker 2: like three hours at Slender.
Speaker 3: He didn't care. He was like totally supportive.
Speaker 1: He was just like, you know what, like it's not
Speaker 1: worth it, like you're in pain. Like I think the
Speaker 1: think with Splendor is it's such a huge festival ground
Speaker 1: that if you're on a crutch, there's really no point
Speaker 1: in going.
Speaker 3: Like the grounds all uneven.
Speaker 2: Maybe you guys might have to go back next year.
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe if we're doing a live show.
Speaker 1: But I mean, speaking of live shows, we have our
Speaker 1: live show Talk coming up. It's so weird, like I
Speaker 1: almost like forgot about it for a second because we've
Speaker 1: had so much going on with Splendor. I'm going to
Speaker 1: Europe next week, so I'm excited for that. Like I'm
Speaker 1: kind of back on that excitement.
Speaker 2: I agree. I did sort of like it slipped to
Speaker 2: my mind for a bit. But I went on a
Speaker 2: walk the other day and this girl. I was taking
Speaker 2: a video of a kangaroo and this girl recognized me,
Speaker 2: and she's like, you're a mat from where's your head ash,
Speaker 2: Like I just listened to your episode and she's like,
Speaker 2: I bought tickets to your live show. And I was
Speaker 2: and I was like, fuck, that's right. We're doing a
Speaker 2: live show, aren't we.
Speaker 3: I was like, you're like, oh excited.
Speaker 2: I was like yeah, shit. I was like, oh yeah, cool,
Speaker 2: see you there. Like we've got so much planned. I
Speaker 2: was like, but we do, but like it slipped my mind.
Speaker 2: And then she's like, yeah, I'm making my sister come
Speaker 2: with me, and I was like, fuck, that's exciting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like it's so cool because like right now
Speaker 1: we're in the process of like getting some really cool guests.
Speaker 1: We're gonna have a different guest in each city, so
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be fun.
Speaker 2: Literally our Facebook group and tell us who you'd like
Speaker 2: to see at which in the city that you're going to,
Speaker 2: because look, we're open to whoever aren't we?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, last week I had a really cool photo shoot.
Speaker 1: It I obviously can't say too much, but what I
Speaker 1: shot is going to be kind of announced at the
Speaker 1: end of August, and it was just like, you know,
Speaker 1: we've modeled for ten years, right, and doing that specific
Speaker 1: shoot was like the most fun I've ever had at
Speaker 1: is shit?
Speaker 2: Why was that? Just on set vibes?
Speaker 1: I just had like a like creative control and like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to say too much, but like it
Speaker 1: was just so fun. Shot with a really cool photographer.
Speaker 1: You've seen some of their final images.
Speaker 2: The've come up well, k really nice. Yeah, it's a
Speaker 2: good photographer as well. He makes you feel really comfortable.
Speaker 2: I've shot with him a couple of times.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's good. How's your weekend? What's been happening?
Speaker 2: It was good. I obviously just having a chill weekend again.
Speaker 2: Didn't go out, didn't do anything, saw the family. Actually
Speaker 2: funny say that this is the last day of July.
Speaker 3: I haven't even spoken about that.
Speaker 2: Dry July is over. How did you go? I saw
Speaker 2: your drinking on the weekend.
Speaker 3: Don't wrote me under the butt.
Speaker 2: You publicly posted it on social media.
Speaker 1: I mean, we publicly at Splendor in the Grass and
Speaker 1: drive July was off. Do you know what, I've actually
Speaker 1: felt kind of bad about it, only because we kind
Speaker 1: of tried to do it without where's your head at
Speaker 1: FAM And obviously we did it up until a certain
Speaker 1: point and then Slender in the Grass came and it
Speaker 1: just all fell away.
Speaker 2: I mean, I was very transparent. I said July first,
Speaker 2: I'll drink and then Splendor. The rest of the time
Speaker 2: I didn't drink. I knew. I knew that, though I
Speaker 2: knew I could do the rest of the time, but
Speaker 2: they were the dates that I would drink, even it's Splendor.
Speaker 2: I don't even think I wouldn't say I went that hard,
Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? I never felt like
Speaker 2: I was drunk. I was just having a social drink
Speaker 2: with everyone, take the you know, the let the moves
Speaker 2: come out as I was butterfly. Yeah, yeah, so while
Speaker 2: I was there, I didn't get too too drunk there.
Speaker 1: Well, look, if you did it complete dry July, my
Speaker 1: hat is so off to you. Well done, congratulations, very proud.
Speaker 1: I think the thing for me that's kind of like
Speaker 1: helps me to sleep at night is that I haven't
Speaker 1: chocolate yet all July especially a big deal for me
Speaker 1: because I do love a piece of chocolate, especially like
Speaker 1: I'm MYO period right now. I feel like I really
Speaker 1: crave chocolate during my period and I've just not done it.
Speaker 1: Michael has been fucking eating Tim Tams in front of me.
Speaker 1: He's in eating Marbleus Creations and I've said.
Speaker 3: It, no to it.
Speaker 2: What's your go to flavor of.
Speaker 3: Chocolate Marble Iss Creations?
Speaker 2: Which one the one with the that's the one with
Speaker 2: the jelly beans sort of thuff.
Speaker 1: Through it, like the gummy and this smarty kind of thing,
Speaker 1: and like they're kind of like pumping in your mouth.
Speaker 2: You would like black Forest.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I do. Like I mean, I'm a chocoholic,
Speaker 3: like I love chocolate.
Speaker 1: So the fact that I have done all of July
Speaker 1: without any chocolate.
Speaker 2: Your opinion, I'll get hate for this. Nuts and chocolate
Speaker 2: don't go together.
Speaker 3: I love nuts and chocolate.
Speaker 2: I don't like it. I don't like him. Hazelnut fruit
Speaker 2: nut picnics.
Speaker 3: A red flag, red flag.
Speaker 2: I just never liked it. I just think it's and
Speaker 2: I love playing chocolate though nothing beats like a dairy
Speaker 2: milk block chocolate that's unreal.
Speaker 3: I like crunchy.
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, I was to say that crunchy, you.
Speaker 3: Know, bitter or like caramel fruit and.
Speaker 2: Fruits one with like the different flavored fruit flavors like
Speaker 2: gouey stuff through it. So it's like strawberry oh yeaeah.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, like, you know, the strawberry Freddo frogs.
Speaker 1: They were my absolutely remember back in the day at
Speaker 1: school when like people would have like a box of
Speaker 1: chocolates and they would sell them out of their locker.
Speaker 2: Dad, we were talking about the other the other day.
Speaker 2: The Batuda advocate posted, like it's suspicious when they bring
Speaker 2: in just a solid fifty dollar note, meaning like the
Speaker 2: old man has like eating it all. And that's what
Speaker 2: we used to do. Dad would give us like fifty
Speaker 2: bucks to give them the block of chocolate, box of
Speaker 2: chocolate be gone fifty Yeah.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have to sell any with the days though,
Speaker 1: Like even the mint one I could get around, you know,
Speaker 1: with the green.
Speaker 2: I don't mind it. I don't mind it. I don't
Speaker 2: mind mint chocolate. Carra Milk's the best, though, nothing beats
Speaker 2: Carra milk at the moment.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, Matt we have to talk about some thing
Speaker 1: that has been grinding my gears, and that is the
Speaker 1: Barbie movie. We both said we would see it on
Speaker 1: the weekend and review it today on the podcast.
Speaker 2: I'm actually annoyed it myself because I want to do
Speaker 2: Barbie Heimer, which is go see Barbie into Openheimer. Yeah,
Speaker 2: But like I got out of Barbie and I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can sit through three hours
Speaker 2: of fucking like a heavy content movie. So I was like, no,
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go home. But I really I want
Speaker 2: to see Openheimer. Still. I still want to see it,
Speaker 2: but I don't know, like Oppenheimer, Openheimer, Offenheimer, Openhimer. I'm
Speaker 2: not sure. I mean, that's probably the first thing about
Speaker 2: I probably shouldn't go see it because I don't know
Speaker 2: the name. But I love Christopher Nolan. He's a great director.
Speaker 2: I love like obviously, Inception, The Dark Knight all that.
Speaker 2: I love all those movies. So I think I could
Speaker 2: do it. My sister saw it. She said that I
Speaker 2: could watch it, but I don't know. Three hours is
Speaker 2: a long time with me for concentration.
Speaker 3: It's a long time.
Speaker 1: The Barbie movie didn't even take my concentration. But I
Speaker 1: want to start with you because I want to I
Speaker 1: want to hear like your opinion of it, because we
Speaker 1: haven't we haven't changed opinion.
Speaker 2: Well, I liked it for the sheer fact that I
Speaker 2: never played with a Barbie. I've never I didn't, I've
Speaker 2: never watched a Barbie movie. I've never watched any of
Speaker 2: the cartoons. I've never. I didn't expect anything going in.
Speaker 2: I'm literally a heterosexual male who's never had anything to
Speaker 2: do with Barbie. So I was just literally there for
Speaker 2: the actual concept of the movie as being Barbie. I did.
Speaker 2: I did. I respect the how they've made a toy
Speaker 2: into a live action movie and it's not even Pixar
Speaker 2: or anything, So I get the how that is hard
Speaker 2: to transition that into an actual movie, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean? Like how they did the stuff, how no
Speaker 2: one puts Barbie down the stairs, like they made a
Speaker 2: jump into the car sort of thing, Like that's funny.
Speaker 2: I like that. I like that concept of it. Look,
Speaker 2: I think that like a lot of people are overthinking it,
Speaker 2: Like a lot of people are overthinking it for what
Speaker 2: it is. On face value. I think it was a
Speaker 2: good movie. I mean, it made me laugh. Ryan Gosling's
Speaker 2: hilarious in it. In his mojo what was it his
Speaker 2: mojo Mojo Jojo Cass. He's funny as and like he
Speaker 2: made me laugh, Like when he's talking to Barbie and
Speaker 2: he's like he starts tensing his bicep.
Speaker 3: Like camera relate, Yeah, Camra late.
Speaker 2: Will Will Ferrell comedic, genius, unbelievable. Anything he touches, he's hilarious.
Speaker 2: Hat he was funny. What about you? What's your opinion?
Speaker 3: Like you?
Speaker 1: I went into it with like no expectations, like did
Speaker 1: not know what the storyline was gonna be.
Speaker 3: But in my mind, I.
Speaker 1: Was kind of like expecting to walk into like a
Speaker 1: feel good, happy, funny movie that was quite nostalgic for
Speaker 1: me because I used to love Barbie growing up and
Speaker 1: I thought that there would be some nice positive messaging
Speaker 1: in it. But I just felt like the messaging was
Speaker 1: just pushed down my throat so much.
Speaker 3: Like I came.
Speaker 1: I literally walked out of the cinema and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm just a little bit confused because it got quite dark,
Speaker 1: Like I felt like the movie went really to a
Speaker 1: quite negative place for Barbie. Firstly, like they were talking
Speaker 1: about like death and heavy feelings and all of this stuff.
Speaker 3: And that's fine because that's reality and I get that.
Speaker 1: But like, I feel like people went into the Barbie
Speaker 1: movie to kind of escape their lives and then we
Speaker 1: got like hit with like so much reality. I felt like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I kind of hated it how
Speaker 1: they pinned men and women against each other and like
Speaker 1: how you were like, people are overthinking it, but like
Speaker 1: it was so political, Like the whole message of the
Speaker 1: whole movie was so political that I was like, it's
Speaker 1: hard to not then go home and debate it.
Speaker 2: Do you not think?
Speaker 1: So?
Speaker 2: What you're saying is that they were pinning men and
Speaker 2: women against each other.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I felt like they kind of Barbie was like
Speaker 1: blowing off Can and you know it's always barbieing Ken, right,
Speaker 1: Like that's kind of like, well, you know, it's barbiing Ken.
Speaker 2: I do find it weird that Barbie wasn't into Ken, Yeah, because.
Speaker 3: The boyfriend and girlfret, And then I felt.
Speaker 1: Like it was weird that all of the Kens were jobless, homeless, carless,
Speaker 1: And then I felt like it was really strange that
Speaker 1: Ken was fighting for the patriarchy. But then he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: then at the end of it, they kind of wrapped
Speaker 1: it up, being like, oh well, I kind of just
Speaker 1: thought that was about horses, and it was like, what
Speaker 1: even even the girl, the mum and the daughter, combo,
Speaker 1: even the husband, and that they just portrayed us so
Speaker 1: dumb and stupid and just like a bit of a buffoon.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm just so confused.
Speaker 1: I wanted it to like unite everyone, and I just
Speaker 1: felt like very segregated by it. And I also felt like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's Barbie, It's fun and light, and
Speaker 1: they could have definitely definitely got across really positive messages
Speaker 1: of unifying people. And I know that some people loved it,
Speaker 1: and I know that some people like, you know, you're
Speaker 1: kind of.
Speaker 3: Like, don't dig deep into it.
Speaker 1: But for me, it was just kind of like, I
Speaker 1: hate getting political messages shoved down my throat.
Speaker 3: I hate that. And I was honestly like.
Speaker 1: From the very first moment when I saw those you know,
Speaker 1: those like iconic pics of Barbie and Ken roller blading
Speaker 1: down what's that famous speech, yeah, Venice Beach, I was like,
Speaker 1: this is gonna be so fun, Like everyone was gonna
Speaker 1: see it regardless, and I think when we saw that,
Speaker 1: we were kind of like, you know, Barbie and Ken
Speaker 1: are gonna like solve world problems, and like, I love
Speaker 1: it that it's female empowerment.
Speaker 3: And I did love that speech that they Gloria, yes,
Speaker 3: that they get that.
Speaker 1: I loved that, Like, of course I love that. I
Speaker 1: love all about women supporting women, and I love that.
Speaker 1: But then I was kind of like, can we also
Speaker 1: reprogram the cans? Like do we have to trick men
Speaker 1: into like doing what we want them to do?
Speaker 3: Can't we reprogram them to be like we can all?
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Maybe you think I'm overthinking it. That's personally how I feel.
Speaker 2: I did like that speech from Gloria.
Speaker 3: I love the speech.
Speaker 2: I thought that made me think about like how hard
Speaker 2: women have it in this life, Like I thought about
Speaker 2: my sisters yea, and like you and like my ex
Speaker 2: and all that sort of stuff about how hard like
Speaker 2: they must have it. Like you know, she said something
Speaker 2: like you can't you can't be too skinny, but you
Speaker 2: can't be too big. You have to say you want
Speaker 2: to be skinny you can't, or you can't say you
Speaker 2: want to be healthy, but well you want to be skinny,
Speaker 2: and then the one that resonated me as well was like,
Speaker 2: you can't turn a guy down, you need to stroke
Speaker 2: his ego, but then if you come on too strong,
Speaker 2: all that sort of stuff. I think it was really
Speaker 2: I thought it was really like, you know, openings for
Speaker 2: and I hope guys out there listening to it and
Speaker 2: realize what women have to go through.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, And I'm not.
Speaker 2: Did you not also find that Ken when he came
Speaker 2: to real world and how everything was really guy driven
Speaker 2: in this world? Do you do not see how that
Speaker 2: was like growing up as a guy that like you
Speaker 2: can be instilled with those sort of morals that like
Speaker 2: that guys are the top they are, and how it's
Speaker 2: passing down from generation to generation and how like it's
Speaker 2: taking kids at kids these days like sponges and when
Speaker 2: they see that, like you know, on movies and stuff
Speaker 2: and want they won't that and they're in that like
Speaker 2: they've seeing men in the CEO role and then they
Speaker 2: get that impression and then they need to break that
Speaker 2: cycle of like boys growing up that it is different
Speaker 2: women can be in those positions.
Speaker 1: But don't you think that the movie could have broke
Speaker 1: that cycle? They could have shown us breaking that cycle,
Speaker 1: not tricking Ken.
Speaker 3: Yeah, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like that's where I feel like they can't really.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but when you say that, when you go but
Speaker 1: it's a movie. But it's a movie, but.
Speaker 3: They've still really tackled really hard issues.
Speaker 2: How would you entertainingly do that?
Speaker 1: Though, I think that there should have been a unification
Speaker 1: even like seeing Ken go into the real world and
Speaker 1: see how like you know, men dominate in all of that.
Speaker 1: Like I'm kind of like, yeah, it's annoying, like it
Speaker 1: pisces me off.
Speaker 3: That is what women go through.
Speaker 1: And it's frustrating and it's you know, it's sad.
Speaker 2: And did you not resonate as well? Like you're a
Speaker 2: good looking girl about like walking down the street and
Speaker 2: getting gorked in that, Like did you resonate with that
Speaker 2: and getting felt like a piece of meat from men
Speaker 2: in that while you walk down the street, Like did
Speaker 2: you resign with that scene?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah I did, because that's like that made me think,
Speaker 2: like it's not really fair, like guys just stare at women,
Speaker 2: Like we don't really walk down the street and get
Speaker 2: stared at.
Speaker 1: There's Yeah, there's a lot of good things that Barbie does.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying Barbie the movie, not Barbi. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of good things that it does, and there's a
Speaker 1: lot of things that it highlights. For me, it just
Speaker 1: felt like I sat through, I went to the movies
Speaker 1: to see a really fun, happy, exciting movie that could
Speaker 1: have had some really feel good messaging that wasn't like
Speaker 1: shoving it down the throat.
Speaker 3: I felt like it was too much. That's my personal opinion.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm you know, the marketing out of this was
Speaker 2: like ten out of ten.
Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, it was so hyped up and so like
Speaker 1: and you know what, I think it is incredible that
Speaker 1: a female director has absolutely smashed the box offices.
Speaker 3: Like, I love all of that.
Speaker 2: What would you rate it out of ten?
Speaker 1: Maybe like a five, the five mainly being for like
Speaker 1: all of the positive messaging around women. And I think
Speaker 1: esthetically it was beautiful. I as you said, like, I
Speaker 1: appreciate how they kind of transformed the doll and I
Speaker 1: think Margo Robbie was amazing. But I mean I think
Speaker 1: that movie without Margot Robbie and Ryan Gosling would have
Speaker 1: been a total flop. Oh yeah, Gosling, Do.
Speaker 3: I say that right?
Speaker 1: Gosling Anyway, I asked our Facebook fam their opinions and
Speaker 1: it has completely blown up.
Speaker 3: Like people have so.
Speaker 1: Many opinions on this movie. It's so polarizing. So if
Speaker 1: you don't agree with me, that's totally fine. We can
Speaker 1: agree to disagree. I know that in this day and age,
Speaker 1: people kind of can get lost in like my opinions
Speaker 1: right and yours is wrong. But I think we can
Speaker 1: all have different opinions. Matt and I have different opinions
Speaker 1: and we're still sitting here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. Yeah, I don't have a strong enough
Speaker 2: opinion on it to be honest, Like, it's not it's
Speaker 2: it's obviously a what do you call it, it's Look,
Speaker 2: I'm not a woman. I don't have so I really
Speaker 2: can't have a say on that.
Speaker 3: But you can have a say.
Speaker 2: Well, I honestly think it touched on some good things
Speaker 2: for a man looking in and woke it up mine
Speaker 2: eyes and did attention to it without speech from Gloria,
Speaker 2: I thought.
Speaker 3: It was The speech was incredible.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought that was very eye opening. I've never
Speaker 2: thought of anything like that, I mean, but yeah, so
Speaker 2: I think that I think that the whole like patriarchy
Speaker 2: thing and that's silly. I think they did paint Ken
Speaker 2: out is dumb, But I think isn't that his character? Like,
Speaker 2: isn't that Ken? I don't know because I wouldn't know.
Speaker 2: I've never played with it. N I don't know what
Speaker 2: the whole gimmick of him is.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, the thing, the thing about the Barbie
Speaker 1: movie is they had the power to kind of make
Speaker 1: it what they wanted.
Speaker 2: So how's Ken been portrayed in like other movies?
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I don't know if there's been that
Speaker 1: many Barbie movies. I like cartoons, Yeah, I can't think
Speaker 1: of them.
Speaker 2: I've not watched them.
Speaker 1: Jade from now Where's Your Head Out Facebook group has
Speaker 1: said I believe it was overhyped. I think they should
Speaker 1: have kept it as a kid's movie where they follow
Speaker 1: Barbie's life in Barbie World. The real world part was fine,
Speaker 1: but the Ken world was so cringe.
Speaker 2: The Mojo Casa Casa.
Speaker 1: Charlie says the outfits recute and Bargo is stunning. Alexandra
Speaker 1: says it was so funny, but the deeper parts were
Speaker 1: where it's lacking. In my opinion, they try to be
Speaker 1: something they're not. But Mojo Dojo Casa House is brilliant
Speaker 1: and overall I had fun watching it. Enjoyed the dance
Speaker 1: sequences and the level of detail when it comes to
Speaker 1: the costumes and Barbie land set. Charlne said, too many
Speaker 1: people are overthinking it. It was made for entertainment, talking politics,
Speaker 1: male female.
Speaker 3: Power, etc. Let it go. It's just a movie.
Speaker 1: Influencers who have slammed it for religious reasons, other influencers
Speaker 1: who slam it for the message it's sending. Why can't
Speaker 1: we just go to the movies anymore? We either like
Speaker 1: it or we didn't. All the hostility over a movie
Speaker 1: is really sad. There's very differing opinions. People either love
Speaker 1: it or hate it. There's really nothing in between. Jump
Speaker 1: onto our whar's your head at fam Facebook group and
Speaker 1: let us know what you think.
Speaker 2: Yeah, talking about like ramming stuff down people's throats. I
Speaker 2: had a incident in the sauna the other day where
Speaker 2: obviously you go to the sauna to relax and it's
Speaker 2: a public place. There's at one time sometimes I've counted
Speaker 2: up to like twenty people in there, sometimes more.
Speaker 3: It must be a big sauna.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's probably the size of this room, like two chairs.
Speaker 2: It's like it's decent and it gets real hot and sweaty,
Speaker 2: and then there's skin on skin, sometimes close to someone.
Speaker 3: Sometimes that's my idea of hell, honestly.
Speaker 2: Well it's normal, that's not that's when it's worst case
Speaker 2: peak hour. So there was a couple of people in there,
Speaker 2: and I'm not going to it doesn't matter like what
Speaker 2: religion they were, but there was some there was actually
Speaker 2: two religions and they were debating their religions. So there
Speaker 2: was a group of one.
Speaker 3: That sounds dangerous already.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't care, like I'm under the in theory,
Speaker 2: let and let live, Like that's what I'm about that,
Speaker 2: Like I couldn't care what you are, what religion you
Speaker 2: stand for, Like everyone's entitled with their beliefs and that.
Speaker 3: But but just respect everyone, I spect that's the whole point.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and let live. So I was like sitting there
Speaker 2: and I mean I was coming and going, and this
Speaker 2: guy from one religion was arguing his point to a
Speaker 2: guy from another religion, and then they just over over how.
Speaker 3: It started, over, how what stated.
Speaker 2: Religion and who came first? What came first, like yeah,
Speaker 2: all this sort of stuff. Yeah, just arguing about it
Speaker 2: debating it, and then they kept I kept coming and going,
Speaker 2: and then finally this guy next to me is like,
Speaker 2: he's like, guys, like come on, like you've been doing
Speaker 2: this for forty five minutes to an hour, like just
Speaker 2: let us give it a rest. We're coming here to relax,
Speaker 2: Like you're yelling at now, like we don't want everyone
Speaker 2: wants to hear it. And then he's like, it's a
Speaker 2: freedom of speech. We can say whatever we want. And
Speaker 2: he's like, yeah, I get that, but like, you know,
Speaker 2: like respect everyone else in here and be quiet. And
Speaker 2: then he goes, he goes, well, what religion in you?
Speaker 2: And he goes, it doesn't matter. He goes, it doesn't
Speaker 2: matter what I am. I was coming here to relax
Speaker 2: and so is everyone else. He goes, freedom of speech,
Speaker 2: we can say whatever we want. And then I said, look,
Speaker 2: I probably shouldn't have aarked up, but at the end
Speaker 2: of the day, like I think something about me was
Speaker 2: like human rights, human etiquette. I was like, I'm going
Speaker 2: to stick up for what's right. And somewhere during what
Speaker 2: they were arguing, he had said that the LGBTQ ia
Speaker 2: plus aren't humans and don't shouldn't have human rights the
Speaker 2: same as everyone else. So I sat there and he
Speaker 2: was like, it's freedom of speech, and I said, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's freedom of speech, but not when you're saying hate
Speaker 2: stuff like that. Mate, I'm like, just give it a
Speaker 2: fucking rest. And then he was like, oh, what are
Speaker 2: you do? You you blah blah blah, and I was like,
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter what I am, mate, I'm like, it
Speaker 2: doesn't matter. I'm like, I'm just sticking up for humans
Speaker 2: and like what's right. And we got Scott into this
Speaker 2: fool Like, I'll admit I scooped to their level because
Speaker 2: when you're arguing with idiots sometimes you need to, like,
Speaker 2: like you know, to get your point across, you have
Speaker 2: to be an idiot as well. And then they were
Speaker 2: calling me stuff like I'm a dumb c un t
Speaker 2: like all this stuff. They were like, when the judgment
Speaker 2: day comes, you'll meet your maker. And I was like, look,
Speaker 2: if it means like you know that I treat everyone
Speaker 2: like humans. I'm like, I'll have a beer with the devil.
Speaker 2: I don't care. Like I'm like i'll have a beer
Speaker 2: with him. I don't. I'm not care. I'll go to hell.
Speaker 2: And they're like you will go, hell, you're burning.
Speaker 1: How just what type of like this is just so
Speaker 1: toxic and twisted and hateful and discussed.
Speaker 2: Well that's it. They will full like full radicals, and
Speaker 2: I was like gee whiz. And then at the point,
Speaker 2: at the point, I was like, all right, I'm not
Speaker 2: getting a point across to them. I admit I scripped
Speaker 2: to their level when they were calling me names and
Speaker 2: I called them a bigot cunt. I was like, you
Speaker 2: guys are bigots. I was like, yeah, well can we
Speaker 2: use that?
Speaker 3: I don't know, yeah, I mean it's our focus.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I was calling bigot cunts like you guys
Speaker 2: are ignorant, you guys, and they're calling me dumb cunt
Speaker 2: and I'm like, mate, like come on, like let's give
Speaker 2: it a rest, like just you know, respect everyone in here.
Speaker 2: And then they're like, when judgment day comes, you'll meet
Speaker 2: your maker, you'll have you, you'll pay your piper, all
Speaker 2: this stuff, and I was like what. I was like, whatever?
Speaker 2: Are you religious? And I'm like I believe there's an afterlife,
Speaker 2: but I'm like, I don't, you know, it doesn't my
Speaker 2: religion views. I'm not forcing down anyone's throat in a sauna,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like they are, And then
Speaker 2: it got to the point like where I went out
Speaker 2: in the shower and one of them called me a
Speaker 2: pagan cunt tried to spit on me.
Speaker 3: What's a pagan?
Speaker 2: It's someone who worships like the sun and doesn't worship
Speaker 2: a god, worships like he's like the fairy sort.
Speaker 1: Of like I hate, like, yeah, like I just hate
Speaker 1: to see hear this. This is so sad, Like you
Speaker 1: know that they were kind of dangerous that you stepped in.
Speaker 1: It sounds dangerous well, but also like I kind of
Speaker 1: respect you because people like hate speech towards anyone is disgusting.
Speaker 1: But the lgtb QIA plus community is a minority, and
Speaker 1: I think, of course for them to be just openly
Speaker 1: talking about that in a sauna with up to twenty people,
Speaker 1: I think it kind of is right that you stepped
Speaker 1: in and said no, like, you can't speak like that.
Speaker 3: It's disgusting.
Speaker 1: It's not going to be tolerated, and maybe they'll think
Speaker 1: twice about saying that in the future. I don't think
Speaker 1: anything that you're going to say to them is going
Speaker 1: to change their views, but I think they should know
Speaker 1: that you can't speak like that. It's fucking inappropriate and
Speaker 1: it's disgusting.
Speaker 2: One of their arguments was something fucking ridiculous. They're like,
Speaker 2: how many guys you know that have just slept with
Speaker 2: their wife who have HIV? And I'm like and I'm like,
Speaker 2: because they were saying that HIV is like obviously transmitted
Speaker 2: through like gay sex, and I was like, so, I
Speaker 2: was like, you can get HIV three women as well,
Speaker 2: look at Charlie Sheen And they're like, well, how many
Speaker 2: They're like, how many guys do you know that they've
Speaker 2: just slept with their wife have HIV?
Speaker 3: How many guys do we know with their wife?
Speaker 2: That was like, well, I said, how many guys you
Speaker 2: know who have just slept with their husband who have HIV?
Speaker 2: And he was like that's not the point, and I'm like.
Speaker 3: I mean, even just having this conversation with you, um, it's.
Speaker 2: It's so dumb. In the end, they're in the change
Speaker 2: rooms and they kept death staring me. They kept walking
Speaker 2: past death staring me, and I was like, you know what,
Speaker 2: I'm not having this. So I went up to the
Speaker 2: main guy and I was like, look, mate, I'm sorry
Speaker 2: I called you names. That's you apologize, I said, So,
Speaker 2: I said, sorry for calling you names. That's hate and
Speaker 2: that's what triggered me, and that's what I'm against. I'm like,
Speaker 2: I don't believe in hatred towards anyone. I said, I
Speaker 2: don't care what your religion is. I don't see that.
Speaker 2: I just see you saying hopeful, hateful stuff in a
Speaker 2: sauna with public people, and that's what I don't stand for.
Speaker 2: And he was like, you've got to know that. I'm
Speaker 2: not trying to ram it down your throat like the
Speaker 2: government's trying to ram that down houthroat. And I was like, mate,
Speaker 2: I was like, fucking zip it. I was like, I
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck about what you're saying. I was like,
Speaker 2: you're not going to change my mind. And then they
Speaker 2: were all standing there and I was like, I'm sorry
Speaker 2: for calling you names, but that's what i'm apologizing for.
Speaker 1: You're a bigger person than me, because I wouldn't have apologize.
Speaker 2: Well, then he said sorry to me for calling me names.
Speaker 2: And then another one that tried to spit on me,
Speaker 2: call spit on you, call me a pagan cump, try
Speaker 2: to spit on me in the shower, what do you.
Speaker 3: Mean tried to like far away so he's.
Speaker 2: Spat Well, it was aimed like the groundswort of area.
Speaker 2: It was like you pagan.
Speaker 3: Comp so you got spats at at.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it wasn't on me. It was like sort of
Speaker 2: about my feet area.
Speaker 1: And if I mean, would you report this to like
Speaker 1: the people who own the sauna?
Speaker 2: I mean, where's it going to go?
Speaker 1: I mean I feel like if you're being that hateful,
Speaker 1: I don't think that you should be welcome in public
Speaker 1: places like that, Like it's not acceptable.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it isn't. It isn't. And the worst thing was
Speaker 2: that even like because I both the person from the
Speaker 2: other religion as well was sticking up for them, at
Speaker 2: least they agreed on something. They didn't agree where every
Speaker 2: relation started, but they agreed on something, even if how
Speaker 2: wrong it is.
Speaker 1: I mean, this is what I love about our podcast.
Speaker 1: We go from Barbie to this, do you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Like you just can't predict where we're going
Speaker 1: to go.
Speaker 2: We're not going to go. Well, yeah, the whole point
Speaker 2: was that they were trying to ram that down like
Speaker 2: a people on the sauna's throat, And I'm just like, man,
Speaker 2: let us live and let us relax and sauna come
Speaker 2: into unwind. Yeah, I'll back the next day hoping.
Speaker 3: They were there, hoping or hoping they were.
Speaker 2: Hoping hope, I don't care, Like I'm not going to
Speaker 2: and have.
Speaker 3: They been there since?
Speaker 2: I haven't seen them since, Thank god. I hate to
Speaker 2: speak somewhere else. That's it.
Speaker 1: And then like maybe they do this, like go to
Speaker 1: like public saunas to try and like convert people.
Speaker 2: Maybe, but like I just I know that they would
Speaker 2: be the first people to say that their religion has
Speaker 2: got hate over the years. And I'm like, well then
Speaker 2: why why try to hate other people? Like you know
Speaker 2: what I mean, you should know what it's like to
Speaker 2: be persecuted and fucking you know, you should under be
Speaker 2: reasonable and have empathy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well look, I think on that note, guys, we
Speaker 1: know this has been a heavy episode.
Speaker 3: We try to keep them light here of it. Sometimes
Speaker 3: they go a bit heavy.
Speaker 1: On that note, let's I'm into our hot line.
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Speaker 4: Hey, guys, I'm just looking to settle a dispute. If
Speaker 4: you are seeing a guy and he loans you his
Speaker 4: jumper to wear home, that jumper now belongs to you.
Speaker 4: Am I right? Even if you return the jumper, it's
Speaker 4: still your jumper. It's just simply hanging in his closet.
Speaker 4: Now tell me I'm wrong.
Speaker 3: I love this one.
Speaker 2: So what's your opinion on this? Because I'll tell you
Speaker 2: a guy's opinion.
Speaker 1: I mean I think, I mean, I have collected a
Speaker 1: few clothing items over I don't know, like I feel
Speaker 1: like if like you see someone and then they give
Speaker 1: you your jumper, unless you're like going on another day,
Speaker 1: I really don't think you need to give it back, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be going out of my way
Speaker 1: if this is like a one night thing to return
Speaker 1: something when we're not seeing each other again, Like you
Speaker 1: kind of are giving me that jumper and it's probably
Speaker 1: your worst jumper because you know you might not be
Speaker 1: getting a return on that.
Speaker 2: I completely agree. So if it's a one night stand,
Speaker 2: you will you will give them a jumper T shirt
Speaker 2: willingly and knowing that you'll never.
Speaker 1: Get that bad and it's probably the worst one that
Speaker 1: you have, right, Like one that you're not like upset
Speaker 1: to leave or to lose.
Speaker 2: I once gave a girl one that was one off
Speaker 2: one that I made at Charlie Matthews one.
Speaker 1: You gave a girl a T shirt with your face on.
Speaker 2: No, it didn't have my face it, So I was
Speaker 2: the one off one. I did a different style one
Speaker 2: on it, and I thought, you know, I'm gonna see
Speaker 2: skill again. Never did. To be fair though, I took
Speaker 2: her ex's jumper one time. This is actually really fun
Speaker 2: and this actually comes up now her ex's jumper and
Speaker 2: I then to get back get her. I remember I
Speaker 2: wore it out. This is petty. I wore it out
Speaker 2: and upload a photo in it.
Speaker 3: I actually remember this and she was like, that's my
Speaker 3: extos jumper. Take it down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like, well, you probably should have
Speaker 2: replied to me then you dog. And now actually my
Speaker 2: sister has that because now that I'm living back at Mums,
Speaker 2: I just gave I give a lot of my stuff
Speaker 2: for my clothes that don't fit me on the clothes
Speaker 2: I don't want to my sister.
Speaker 3: You'll give me away other people's clothing items.
Speaker 2: Literally, Yeah, And it made it into the wash into
Speaker 2: my room and I was like, oh no, this is
Speaker 2: Emma's and it made me laugh because I thought of
Speaker 2: the girl.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 2: Also, this is this is something that shits me to tears.
Speaker 2: I lent a jumper to this girl once and we
Speaker 2: actually were seeing each other, so she gave it back
Speaker 2: to me. But I don't know if she'd washed it
Speaker 2: or what she did, but she covered it in her
Speaker 2: perfume to the point that I washed it twice maybe
Speaker 2: three times, and it's still had some strong perfume still,
Speaker 2: I reckon to this day, it still smells of that perfume.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: But to this day it still smells and I wear
Speaker 2: that quite regularly because it's just an added ash gym one.
Speaker 2: I wear it quite regularly.
Speaker 3: So what's the bottom line?
Speaker 2: Okay, I've got another funny thing. I was I when
Speaker 2: I was living with my mates, was joking around and
Speaker 2: I brought a had a washing basket full of old
Speaker 2: Charlie Matthew Stops with my face on it.
Speaker 3: I just can't with you, I just can't.
Speaker 2: And I was like my mates, like, what are you doing.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm putting together a gift bag for when
Speaker 2: I send girls home with like a T shirt. You
Speaker 2: are fuck T shirt.
Speaker 3: Thank god you have evolved, Thank god you have.
Speaker 2: I never did it. I never did it, but you
Speaker 2: didn't do it. I swear to god.
Speaker 1: I saw at your house a whole fucking bag of
Speaker 1: those Charlie Matthews tops with your face on it. And
Speaker 1: if you're I'm trying to get rid of him giving
Speaker 1: people there, that's a red flag.
Speaker 3: That is like, fuck my behavior.
Speaker 2: On and why it was a joke.
Speaker 3: I had sex with a guy and he gave me
Speaker 3: a T shirt of his face.
Speaker 2: You like nah, even if it was the man that
Speaker 2: won the genetic lottery Charlie Matthews face, even if it.
Speaker 3: Was Charlie Matthews.
Speaker 1: The bottom line is, if a guy gives you a jumper,
Speaker 1: you then technically own it. It becomes yours. Unless you're
Speaker 1: going on a second date or seeing them again. You
Speaker 1: don't have to give it back.
Speaker 2: Could be a good excuse to seeing him again, could
Speaker 2: be it could be really good.
Speaker 1: But if they're just seeing you again to get the jumper,
Speaker 1: then maybe not.
Speaker 2: I used to write MZ on the tags, so when
Speaker 2: you give it to them, they know that wherever that goes,
Speaker 2: that's got my initials on it.
Speaker 3: They'll probably be cutting off those sacks.
Speaker 2: So whoever it goes to would be like and I
Speaker 2: don't think there's many m z's in this world. Who knows.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, look that's all we have time for. Thank
Speaker 3: you so much for tuning in to our hotline.
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