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Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gadigal Land Always was, always

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Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land.

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Speaker 2: Hey Cheeks, I'm sal and I'm out and this is

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Speaker 2: two Broke Cheeks to show that shares life lessons and

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Speaker 2: tips to help make you rich in life.

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Speaker 3: And today we are joined by the beautiful Mitch Green.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much for coming on the show.

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Speaker 4: We're so excited to have you on because we're going

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Speaker 4: to be talking about how to live authentically and live

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Speaker 4: your best life, and I think who better to have

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Speaker 4: on than you?

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Speaker 5: Thank you. That is such a compliment. I love that.

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Speaker 2: Also, Mitch has come into the studio looking so fucking beautiful.

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Speaker 6: I just want to say, how to hear you?

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Speaker 4: We say this every time we see it, step it up,

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Speaker 4: saying hello, We're basically just like get out.

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Speaker 7: I love you guys, I need you guys with me everywhere.

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Speaker 7: Such a week, everyone had it.

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Speaker 6: It's on record. So whether you try to give me

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Speaker 6: a restraining order, how you asked for this.

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Speaker 7: Yeah I do. I do have a lunch of icebects

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Speaker 7: after this. So that is why we're quite dressed up today.

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Speaker 7: I was going to wear another outfit for you guys

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Speaker 7: because I thought it was like, it was like this

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Speaker 7: burg and you read out fit because I thought it

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Speaker 7: was a bit on brand for you guys, but I

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Speaker 7: just didn't have time.

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Speaker 5: That's okay, changes.

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Speaker 7: Next time, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll save it. I'll save it.

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Speaker 2: But before we get into it, we love to start

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Speaker 2: these episodes with our life lesson.

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Speaker 3: Of the week.

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Speaker 4: My life lesson of the week is that whatever things

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Speaker 4: about you that somebody else finds annoying, those are the

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Speaker 4: things that other people love about you and find charming.

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Speaker 2: That's so similar mine, well, always on the same.

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Speaker 6: I don't know how it is.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what witchy powers there always are in

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Speaker 2: the world, but sound I will like have the same

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Speaker 2: we don't talk about it before the episode, and then.

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Speaker 6: Similar thing.

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Speaker 5: I love that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but mine was from a book that I've been reading.

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Speaker 2: We'll be listening to the audiobook. But anyway, it was

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Speaker 2: not even the main point, but it was just one

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Speaker 2: sentence in this book that really stood out to me,

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Speaker 2: and it was just the saying I don't need you

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Speaker 2: to understand me.

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Speaker 6: And I thought it.

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Speaker 2: Was so freeing, and it's such a freeing thought to

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Speaker 2: have in the back of your brain because I really

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Speaker 2: like I feel like I need anchor thoughts sometimes when

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Speaker 2: like my brain runs away from me, and having these

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Speaker 2: anchor thoughts or anchor sayings or whatever it is to

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Speaker 2: kind of pull you back into reality is so helpful

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Speaker 2: of those moments where maybe you're having like a disagreement

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Speaker 2: with a coworker and you have a difference of opinion

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Speaker 2: or whatever it is, like maybe you and your friend

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Speaker 2: aren't agreeing on something, or maybe that's just some fucking

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Speaker 2: rogue person who's being an absolute worst human being in

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Speaker 6: Just saying I don't need you to understand me is.

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Speaker 2: Such a good self security saying to like really instill

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Speaker 2: what your beliefs are and your values are, because you

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Speaker 2: don't have to live for other people. Yeah, and yeah

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Speaker 2: that's my face.

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Speaker 7: I agree to disagree, not everyone has to agree. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 7: that's okay. And you know it's not your job to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought of my I thought of oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 7: I was talking to my friend the other day and

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Speaker 7: we're going on a walk and she like, she works

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Speaker 5: She like she likes it, but she's like, oh, i'd

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Speaker 5: like I'd love to be doing what you're doing, you know.

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Speaker 7: And I'm like, well, you've got to start posting that,

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Speaker 7: and she's like, I'm scared. I'm scared, Like it's embarrassing,

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Speaker 7: it's cringe. I'm like, yeah, it was embarrassing and gringe

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Speaker 7: one day when I started posting too it probably saying

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Speaker 7: for you guys, you guys probably felt a sane honestly, Yeah,

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Speaker 7: And I'm like, I feel like the life lesson is just.

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Speaker 5: To post that video, post that photo.

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Speaker 7: You have to get through the cringe, you know, suffer

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Speaker 7: through the cringe and look what can come from it.

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Speaker 7: Because when you're you know, when you're doing your live

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Speaker 5: True?

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Speaker 3: Everybody has to start somewhere.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, cringe is just a construct too. Yeah, like who

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Speaker 7: Exactly as you were saying before, what one person might

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Speaker 7: So I think life lesson is pushed through the gringe.

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Speaker 6: Yes, just go for it.

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Speaker 5: You know what's that saying?

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Speaker 3: Success is on the other side of cringe mountain?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I said that, But we'll find it, and

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Speaker 2: we'll credit her in the in the show notes. But

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Speaker 2: I think that's exactly what you're saying exactly.

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Speaker 7: And I think like any you look at, like the

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Speaker 7: had like cringey failed businesses, cringey you know, like old

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Speaker 7: all like so scripted and you can tell but at

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Speaker 5: But it's like, yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Think it's part of the process.

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Speaker 7: Everyone has a cringe moment. I think anyone who's anything

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think that's such a freeing thought to have.

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Speaker 2: Our friend Jim always says that anyone that's doing better

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Speaker 2: than you will never judge you, exactly, so as well, like,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's appreciation have their own security. So yeah, but Babbie,

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Speaker 4: all right, let's get into the episode.

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Speaker 2: Mitch. For any of our.

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Speaker 4: Chicks who aren't following you already, Can you give us

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Speaker 4: a little TLDR about who you are and what you do.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so my name is Mitch. I do social media.

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Speaker 7: I'm trans I do a lot of fashion and beauty

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Speaker 7: lifestyle content and yeah, that's that's my name really.

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Speaker 3: The elevator Pitchy.

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Speaker 4: So we've got you on to talk about how to

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Speaker 4: live your most authentic life because that's exactly what you do,

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Speaker 4: and I think that's why so many people love you

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Speaker 4: yourself if you're unsure who you want to be and

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Speaker 4: the things that you like and what you want out

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Speaker 7: I think that's, yeah, that's a hard question because I

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Speaker 7: think like when I was younger, when I was in school,

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Speaker 7: I think deep down I did know who I wanted

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Speaker 7: to be, but it was the outside opinions and or judgment,

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Speaker 7: or fear of judgment, maybe not even necessarily judgment that

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Speaker 7: So I feel like sometimes I would, you know, like

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Speaker 7: I'd be like, oh, I'm not going to weigh that

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Speaker 7: I'm not going to do this.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to.

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Speaker 7: Say this because I was like worried what people would think.

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Speaker 7: But I think I don't I don't know if there

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Speaker 7: you get so much more comfortable with yourself, and as

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Speaker 7: I think I think also there's there's no rush to

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Speaker 7: different things. You can you know, try and you I'll

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Speaker 6: You know, that process is never finished, though, is it ever?

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Speaker 2: That's how I look at it, And it's like you're

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Speaker 2: if you did, how you never you never fully cooked exactly,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, if you feel like you're done progressing in life,

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Speaker 5: You need bigger goals. Then.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, figuring out what you want is such an overwhelming

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Speaker 5: It's just trial and error absolutely.

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Speaker 2: And being like oh I like this, Oh you know

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can take it in small steps as well, because,

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Speaker 3: Doesn't have to be like this big.

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Speaker 4: Huge reason being like, wake up one day, I know

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Speaker 6: I would love that. Where do I take that? Like

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Speaker 4: But it is those small little steps along the way

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Speaker 7: And I think also there is so many people that

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Speaker 7: So many people get their dream job and they're like

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Speaker 4: That you tick that goal and then you're like, okay,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's so true.

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Speaker 2: You have those moments where you're like, I thought this

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Speaker 2: it wasn't necessarily it. But another really popular question that

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Speaker 2: those moments of self doubt or imposter syndrome? And how

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Speaker 7: I definitely I have had the moments of self doubt.

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Speaker 7: I remember on Anzac Day actually I was out with

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Speaker 3: But for him to kind of stand on that pedestal

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Speaker 7: Well, I sent a really long textback to want me

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Speaker 2: Yeah, in those moments where you do feel self doubt,

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Speaker 5: Be like exactly, holy fuck, yeahah really cool.

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Speaker 5: But you know then you're like, why my sad?

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Speaker 7: I think, I think a really important thing to do

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Speaker 7: I don't need to see them for a few weeks,

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Speaker 7: I think then if that keeps coming up in your

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Speaker 5: It's not great.

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Speaker 6: But like if you're just like, fuck, this is a.

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Speaker 3: That shouldn't be the consistent feeling that you have, there's.

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Speaker 2: Different there's different ways to look at it, Like look

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Speaker 2: That if they made a comment or you've left and

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Speaker 7: I'm someone that I never like to react in the moment.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but did you really mean that? How you feel

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Speaker 7: So I think I always try to be really careful,

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Speaker 5: So I always sleep on it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're so glad that you didn't say anything.

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Speaker 3: Shit, yeah, yeah, exact anxiety.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 7: Another thing I always do is I never not well,

446
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Speaker 7: I can't say never, but I always try to not

447
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,639
Speaker 7: yell or raise my voice when I'm having a confrontation.

448
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Speaker 7: I always try to say, really calm because when you're

449
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Speaker 7: yelling and your body like is in that adrenaline mode

450
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 7: and you're both yelling at each other, no one, neither

451
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Speaker 7: of you are actually listening to what each other is

452
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:46,880
Speaker 7: saying or taking in each other's points, and you actually

453
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 7: can't think clearly when you're yelling.

454
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Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you though, because I know you've

455
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Speaker 2: got your VIP, you've got places to go, people see today.

456
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Speaker 2: But I feel like every time we see you, sal

457
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Speaker 2: and I speaking of yelling, just screaming.

458
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Speaker 6: At you about how beautiful you look.

459
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Speaker 2: Every single time, being like why no, go away in

460
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Speaker 2: like the best most flirting way possible, like it's flirting.

461
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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it's always taken that way.

462
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Speaker 6: Yeah, as it should please, because that's what it is.

463
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Speaker 2: But how does living authentically influence your fashion and your

464
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Speaker 2: style because you're always sec and slate.

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Speaker 7: Thank you, Joel. I think I'm very fussy with what

466
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Speaker 7: I wear. I won't wear anything I don't feel comfortable in. Like,

467
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Speaker 7: I've had a few situations before where I've been working

468
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Speaker 7: with a brand or I'm hosting an event and they

469
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Speaker 7: want me to wear something and I don't want to

470
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Speaker 7: wear it, and they're really pushing for it, and I'm like, no, guys,

471
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Speaker 7: I'm sorry, that's not me. You have hired me to

472
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Speaker 7: come and host your event, so I'm going to come

473
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Speaker 7: as me, do you know what I mean? Like, I

474
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,920
Speaker 7: think so much of being comfortable whilst you're out is

475
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Speaker 7: how you feel and how you look. And if you

476
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Speaker 7: don't like how you look, you're not going to have

477
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Speaker 7: a good time. You're not going to feel comfortable, you're

478
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Speaker 7: not going to enjoy yourself. And that's what I've said

479
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Speaker 7: in the past to like when people have tried to

480
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Speaker 7: put me in things I don't want to wear, I've

481
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Speaker 7: been like, I'm not going to have a good time.

482
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Speaker 7: I'm not going to enjoy myself. I'm not going to

483
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Speaker 7: like how I look. I'm not going to feel confident.

484
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Speaker 7: I'm not going to feel like me. So I think

485
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Speaker 7: you always. I think like I've always just stuck to

486
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Speaker 7: what I feel comfortable in. And by comfortable, I don't

487
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Speaker 7: mean physically comfortable, because I've actually never been physically comfortable

488
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Speaker 7: in an outfit. All my outfits are very uncomfortable.

489
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Speaker 5: I'm like the shoes.

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Speaker 7: The shoes are the most uncomfortable shoes I've ever worn.

491
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Speaker 7: But I don't feel physically comfortable in them, but I

492
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Speaker 7: feel like they're me, you know, I love them.

493
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Speaker 5: But the brand exactly.

494
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Speaker 4: That makes you feel inside And if you feel like

495
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Speaker 4: you're representing who you are inside on the outside, and

496
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Speaker 4: if something in that is compromised, then.

497
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Speaker 3: You don't feel like you and you're own a costume.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's like characters you aligned to in life,

500
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Speaker 2: like whether they're fictional characters or whatever, and it's like

501
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,920
Speaker 2: we have the same thing. So like if it looks

502
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Speaker 2: like it could be like Daisy Drones and the six

503
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Speaker 2: more practical magic, then I'm like, yeah, that's me. Whereas

504
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Speaker 2: like rock Star of h Yeah, whereas like if and

505
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Speaker 2: that's how that's what I would say to people when

506
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Speaker 2: they're like, I don't know what my style is, and like,

507
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Speaker 2: what characters do you think or a vibe because it's

508
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Speaker 2: like you could look at sex in the city or.

509
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Speaker 7: Yeah, I always I think my characters are like Chris Jenner, yes,

510
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Speaker 7: carry Bradshaw K.

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Speaker 2: I can definitely see the character.

512
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because I love a good like power, so

513
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Speaker 4: like a stronger.

514
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Speaker 7: I'm obsessed with a blazer, yeah, and a heel, like yeah,

515
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Speaker 7: a blazer and a lubreton.

516
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Speaker 2: I love.

517
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Speaker 7: I have like that carry like fetish of shoes, Like

518
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Speaker 7: I just love shoes. I don't care how uncomfortable they are,

519
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Speaker 7: how high they are, Like, I just love I just

520
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Speaker 7: love shoes.

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Speaker 2: You're better than me, I know, we say, and like

522
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 2: our sneakers and cowboys stand. I have a list on

523
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Speaker 2: my phone and it's like, by the way, I want

524
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Speaker 2: to preface this with the fact that I think heels

525
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Speaker 2: are fucking stunning.

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Speaker 6: I am just an old man and that like, I

527
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 6: have a list on my phone.

528
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 2: It's I do not buy or I will ruin you,

529
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Speaker 2: and it's a letter to me from me and on

530
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Speaker 2: there it goes heels you can't fucking walk in them.

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Speaker 6: Anyway, and I'm like, fuck, she's so right.

532
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Speaker 3: I'm like she's so real for that and then has

533
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Speaker 3: the strength.

534
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Speaker 6: But there's also boots.

535
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Speaker 2: You have six pairs, And I'm like, fine, yeah, I read,

536
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 2: I read that letter.

537
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Speaker 5: From probably do.

538
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Speaker 1: But it's your brand.

539
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Speaker 6: It's exactly my job I have, sorry, exactly.

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Speaker 3: It'll be in your performance review okay, conducted by us. Now,

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Speaker 3: all right, so we did mention.

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Speaker 4: It briefly before, but we love your Sunday Reset contents.

543
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Speaker 4: Can you talk us through how important ritual is to

544
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Speaker 4: feel like you're living your best life?

545
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Speaker 7: Yes, this is like such a good question for me

546
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:28,239
Speaker 7: because I am, like, I am the definition of like

547
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:33,399
Speaker 7: clean house, clean mind. I think it's so important to

548
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 7: me my environment. So I so what you guys are

549
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 7: referencing on my Sunday Reset videos where I will film

550
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Speaker 7: myself resetting my room from the week, because sometimes if

551
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Speaker 7: I have a really busy week and I've got like

552
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Speaker 7: events every every day, or you know, I've got to

553
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 7: do hair and makeup, or I'm like shooting something my

554
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,239
Speaker 7: like placing, it really messy because when I get like

555
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 7: I am like a CD clean person in like my

556
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 7: everyday life. But when I get messy. Sorry, when I

557
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 7: get ready, I am a tornado like all my friends,

558
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 7: Like you should see my hotel rooms when I'm like

559
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 7: when I'm getting ready for an event or something like,

560
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 7: my friends come in and there like, oh my god,

561
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 7: you've been in here for two hours, what's happened. But

562
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 7: I am like also the cleanest person ever, Like I

563
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 7: love everything to be in its place. I hate losing

564
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 7: an item in your own house.

565
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Speaker 5: I'm like, no, I'm not.

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Speaker 7: I know where every bobby pin is in my house,

567
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Speaker 7: you know, Like I.

568
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Speaker 2: Love that I'm going to come to your house when

569
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Speaker 2: I need a Yeah.

570
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Speaker 5: So I think so. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I love to do like an end of the week

572
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Speaker 7: reset to start the week. I think it's so cleansing mentally, emotionally, physically.

573
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Speaker 7: You feel accomplished, you feel like you've done something. Like

574
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Speaker 7: sometimes you've been laying in bed all Sunday and you're like,

575
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 7: I've done nothing all day. You got to get up

576
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 7: until your reset because you'll feel so much better.

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Speaker 1: So much better.

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00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 5: Put a candle on, yeah, and.

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Speaker 7: Always got to start the week off with the fresh sheet,

580
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Speaker 7: a vacuum floor. I think it just sets the tone

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Speaker 7: of the week.

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Speaker 1: Once you do it.

583
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Speaker 2: Once.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're hooked.

585
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, oh, this does feel nice. And it's

586
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 2: like for some people, like for me, I'm not necessarily

587
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Speaker 2: someone that enjoys the process of cleaning.

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Speaker 6: I enjoy the result product. Yeah, yes, I'm like, okay, yeah,

589
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Speaker 6: that's why I do this.

590
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 4: Where it is so you like the whole I like

591
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Speaker 4: the whole thing, a whole cleaning process.

592
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Speaker 5: Like it too. Yet you put a podcast.

593
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Speaker 3: In, yeah, get a goodlist.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I think kind of anchoring it to a

595
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Speaker 4: day of the week and making it a ritual and

596
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 4: romanticizing that and making it your Sunday reset, I think

597
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 4: will really help you whether or not you enjoy the

598
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Speaker 4: experience or you die.

599
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Speaker 2: You can customize it, yeah you want it to be.

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Speaker 2: I saw some chick on TikTok. She does her reset

601
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Speaker 2: to the time that it takes for her washing, like.

602
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Speaker 1: Her sheets to wash.

603
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 2: But she's like, while they're washing, I'll do my like

604
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 2: reset my clean and then I'm done.

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00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 5: That's smart.

606
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 7: Yeah, when you put your food in the microwave and

607
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 7: you're like, all right, I've got to get my Netflix

608
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 7: set up, I've got to get my water ready by

609
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 7: the time the microwave is done, I'm.

610
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 2: Like, everything must be done. So it's like, where before

611
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 2: my food's done, the show has got to be on

612
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 2: the TV ready, otherwise everything's fucking ruined. You can't start

613
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 2: eating leap, just go to bed to throw out the food,

614
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: throw the TV off balcony, get.

615
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 7: Out those Sunday reset videos. So oh my god, they

616
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 7: take so long to edit.

617
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Speaker 5: I was gonna say four thousand cuts in them, Like

618
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Speaker 5: it's like.

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Speaker 6: Just your tripod just going yeah, and then.

620
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Speaker 7: When you edit it, because like like you'll put a

621
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Speaker 7: foundation bottle on the desk and you've got it. That's

622
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Speaker 7: a cut, and then when you put it in the drawer,

623
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Speaker 7: that's a cut, and then when you close the drawer,

624
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Speaker 7: that's a cut.

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Speaker 5: You know, they take so long to edit.

626
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Speaker 4: But I was going to say, your hard work is

627
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 4: very well appreciated, so satisfying.

628
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Speaker 3: When you brush your extensions, I'm like, oh yeah, that's

629
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Speaker 3: my favorite part of the process.

630
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Speaker 5: Flush the extensions out of my head, by the way, like.

631
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Speaker 3: Holding them, and then you put them in the little drawer.

632
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, I have an extension drawer.

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Speaker 3: That's so good.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, not that I want you to go, because

635
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 4: I feel like we could just gas bag all day long,

636
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 4: but we did have one final question, what's your biggest

637
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 4: life lesson on your journey so far?

638
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 5: Honestly, people love you for you, so be you, Like.

639
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 7: You can't pretend to be someone else, like you know,

640
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 7: because as you guys were saying before, what someone hates

641
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 7: you for, there'll be just as many or like double

642
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 7: the amount of people that love you for.

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Speaker 5: It, you know.

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Speaker 7: And it's also just so tiring trying to be someone else,

645
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 7: do you know what I mean? Like, I think we

646
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 7: can all have probably been there where we're like trying

647
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 7: to impress someone or trying to do this, trying to

648
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 7: do that. So now I am like I can definitely

649
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 7: say like I live my life one hundred percent me,

650
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Speaker 7: Like even when I go on a first date, I'm like,

651
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 7: I lay everything out on the table, I'm like, this

652
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 7: is who I am, this is what i am.

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Speaker 2: Take it all either, I'm an influencer. In case you

654
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 2: have an issue with that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, yeah, I feel like that's so stereotypical, but

656
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 7: really that.

657
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 6: It's not at all though. I feel like there's a

658
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Speaker 6: reason why that is.

659
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 2: Such a powerful life lesson is because it is so true.

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Speaker 2: It is something that we actually need a reminder of

661
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Speaker 2: quite often, and more often than I think we think.

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Speaker 2: All Right, chicks, thank you so much for listening. We

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Speaker 2: absolutely love to be here.

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Speaker 3: And thanks to m I K Made for making today's

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Speaker 3: episode happen. We love you, love it.

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Speaker 6: Bye,