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Speaker 1: Are you okay what happened?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to our Bestie segment, My girl, this is the

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Speaker 2: place for you. Welcome back to our bestI Advice segment.

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Speaker 2: This is where we give all of the best the

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Speaker 2: advice for all of your dilemmas, challenges, life questions and

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Speaker 2: anything that you feel like you're doing alone and don't

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Speaker 2: have anywhere to go. So this one is a big

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Speaker 2: one about dreams and the pursuit of them.

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Speaker 1: So Ashley, I have been married to my best friend

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Speaker 1: and wonderful husband for nearly twenty two years. We have

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Speaker 1: four beautiful children together who are all now teenagers. Our

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Speaker 1: eldest son, nineteen, has recently accepted a place in the

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Speaker 1: USA College and moved to study there in twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 1: We are very close to him and he is struggling

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Speaker 1: with being very homesick. Our original plan was to move

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Speaker 1: would be cheaper. Also, we are currently paying our house

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Speaker 1: Security numbers so who's able to work in the future,

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Speaker 1: but has always been a dream of mind to go

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Speaker 1: to experience the US travel and have new experiences with

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Speaker 1: our children while being there for our son. We are

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Speaker 1: so rooted to our routines as well, so any break

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Speaker 1: from that would be amazing. We have a plan in place,

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Speaker 1: so everything else was covered and sorted, and now he

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to go, and we'll use any excuse not

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Speaker 1: to go. I'm heartbroken. I don't think I will ever

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Speaker 1: get over, not going only for our son and family,

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Speaker 1: but for my own personal growth. Any thoughts on this please,

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Speaker 1: or that the inner sagittarium is like let me free,

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Speaker 1: like run, not to break up, but like just that

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Speaker 1: Like this has always been something she wants to do,

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Speaker 1: and now he husband's like, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Want to go.

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Speaker 1: Wait.

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Speaker 2: So it's her husband who doesn't want to go, not

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Speaker 2: her son.

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Speaker 1: Son's over there, so he's waiting for the family to

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Speaker 1: move over. Oh I'm a husband that's saying I can't

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Speaker 1: want to go anymore.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, because in my head, for some reason,

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Speaker 2: I read that the son doesn't want to go in.

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Speaker 1: He's already there's twenty twenty four. Yes, yes, so he's

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Speaker 1: waiting for them to come over because he's homesick. They

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Speaker 1: planned to go over, and now the husband's saying, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go anymore.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't know what I would do. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's a tough one. It's really tough for sagittarian in years.

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Speaker 1: Like, I think I'd be pushing for what I want

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Speaker 1: and just looking at all other options. I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: your husbands stays here with the other kids, or do

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Speaker 1: you compromise with your husband's saying, hey, we won't go

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Speaker 1: over for twelve months, but will you do three months

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 1: I would just be exploring all the options that suits

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Speaker 1: both of us because it's not about like one person

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Speaker 1: winning and getting what they want. But I also just

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Speaker 1: the thought of any resentment. Yeah, it's just not for me.

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Speaker 2: I'd be getting curious on why what suddenly changed for him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well they're so deep rooted in their routines. The

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Speaker 1: his life here. Yeah, it is a big move to

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Speaker 1: move to America. Definitely pack up everything.

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Speaker 2: Definitely, but it's also an adventure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, personality, Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe it's the Gemini who needs variety.

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Speaker 2: But I think if this were me, i'd be selling

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Speaker 2: the dream, you know what I mean. Like, I think,

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Speaker 2: for me, when I look at the trip like that,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, imagine what we'd learn, Imagine how we'd grow

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Speaker 2: get to make with our son overseas. Like, to me,

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Speaker 2: i'd be selling the dream, I reckon because that, to

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Speaker 1: It's not as a trip though, it's moving. So that

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Speaker 1: was the plan to move over there. You can always

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Speaker 2: Maybe obviously, I know, logistically and financially and all that,

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Speaker 2: there's so many things that come into play when you

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Speaker 2: can always just come back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree to.

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Speaker 2: You know, if he doesn't like it, you might even

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Speaker 2: go and not like it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you could.

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Speaker 2: There's a possibility that you could go after three months

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Speaker 2: and be like, I am homesick. I want to go

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Speaker 2: at the hell home. But you could also go over

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Speaker 2: there and be like, oh my gosh, we're never leaving again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It is tough though, because like, different personalities value

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Speaker 1: different things. I value variety so much more than what

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Speaker 1: Steve does. Yeah, he's open to a bench and stuff,

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Speaker 1: but if I said I wanted to move to America,

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Speaker 1: It's not for him. ROAs I love it, Yeah, absolutely

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Speaker 2: But then as well, I wonder because they had agreed

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Speaker 2: the emotional whiplash back. Yes, but you said we'd go.

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Speaker 2: Now we're not going, And now there needs.

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Speaker 1: To be a compromise. Yeah, it's like, okay, you don't

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Speaker 1: want to move over there, cool, but we need to

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Speaker 1: if you like it, if you hate it, will come back.

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Speaker 1: But there needs to be a compromise. It shouldn't just

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Speaker 1: in and do whatever the other person wants. Yes, that's marriage,

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Speaker 1: that's relationships. It is compromise, and it's talking about finding

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Speaker 1: In the middle, Yeah, but I understand your frustration.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And of course, because then it's like does he

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Speaker 2: to make him happy? But then, like what you said,

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Speaker 2: that's why we're resentment.

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Speaker 1: But we're always talking about like preventing breakdowns. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: anytime there's actually an opportunity for resentment, like I'll bring

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Speaker 1: it into Steve. Yeah, I'm like if I don't do this,

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Speaker 1: hate for you to ever come back and then be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you didn't let me do that. I'm not having that.

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Speaker 1: No way live your life.

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Speaker 2: Freedom in a relationship, yes, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Freedom in a relationship, like don't I don't believe in

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Speaker 1: because if it's important to them, I think there's always

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Speaker 2: And I'd just be getting curious, like just just from

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Speaker 2: a pure place of curiosity with your partner, exploring what

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Speaker 1: Yeah, is it fear? Is it money? Is it money?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Is it stress?

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Speaker 1: Is it work? Maybe it's like work isn't allowing him

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, Or is it like uncertainty for him? Is it

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Speaker 2: actually just like, oh, these move feels super uncertain and

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Speaker 2: it feels destabilizing. Get to the root cause of the

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Speaker 2: change of decision, because he obviously had a change of

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Speaker 2: heart and that's totally okay, But there's obviously a part

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Speaker 2: of him that want it. Otherwise you wouldn't have agreed

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And that would help come to understanding too, because

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, so.

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Speaker 1: You're right, there's more explorations had.

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Speaker 2: When I think of that, and I think of the

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Speaker 2: clarity that would come from that, you'll either learn Okay, well,

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Speaker 2: if it is about money, cool, let's create a plan

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Speaker 2: genuinely that he doesn't value that, you will learn more

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Speaker 1: So it's so good to have this conversation. Steve and

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Speaker 1: I've been having so many conversations lately of like what

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Speaker 2: It's something that you guys do really well. Just from

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Speaker 2: but like always checking in. There's never this energy between

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Speaker 2: about that person. It's like no, like, actually, there's a

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Speaker 2: stage of life. And I just think it's really cool.

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Speaker 1: To watch and that sounds amazing and it is. But

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Speaker 1: day one of ournu marriage. Oh, and it was like, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's like we reflect back on where we were a

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Speaker 1: and it's like, oh, we've got such clarity now, now

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Speaker 1: I feel lit up and it's cool. You guys get

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Speaker 1: to have that. Yeah, but there is that little limbo

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Speaker 2: Hard conversations, like a wobble fade.

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Speaker 1: It is, you feel fucking wobble. I felt so webbly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but it's cool to get to the other side and

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Speaker 1: he wants and what you want. Now it's time to

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, don't settle either, and I don't mean in

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Speaker 2: your relationship, but don't settle on the things that you

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Speaker 2: want because like, you only really get one chance, you know,

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Speaker 2: you have one life. Yes, it is so true, you

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Speaker 2: only really have one chance. And how beautiful to know

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Speaker 2: you and to create as many memories as you probably

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Speaker 2: can imagine the growth that you guys would be able

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Speaker 1: It's just yeah, getting him on.

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Speaker 2: Board, getting getting to the root of it. Yeah, selling it,

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Speaker 2: sell yourself.

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Speaker 1: Gal, Oh, give us an update. We'd love to know

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Speaker 1: what you decide to do. If you're going to go

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Speaker 1: three months, six months, are you going to go for

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Speaker 1: a bit test it all out. Yeah, we'd love to

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Speaker 1: know what you guys.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely and yeah, explore the options. What's going to feel

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Speaker 2: good for you both?

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Speaker 1: So there just have to explore them.

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Speaker 2: There's no one way, Nope, meeting us.

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Speaker 1: Bye,