WEBVTT - #1987 The Ol' Switcheroo - Dr. Lillian Nejad 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:03.040 I get a team. It's another installment of the new Project, 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:06.160 of course it is. That's why you press play. Tiffany 0:00:06.200 --> 0:00:09.520 and Cook and doctor Lillian Narde and me Fatty Harps 0:00:09.520 --> 0:00:12.520 in the flannel shirt in the middle of this particular screen. 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:15.040 Where am I on your screen? Tiff middle bottom, top 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:15.760 and left right. 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:17.759 And speak of you, so you're like, boom, you're the 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:20.280 big one, and then everyone else just sits up in a. 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:20.959 Row up top. 0:00:22.079 --> 0:00:23.720 I never have that. I like to be able to 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:26.000 see what everyone's face is doing in the middle of 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:26.480 the chat. 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:30.480 I like that too. Greg. I've got you on the left, yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:33.560 Jef's on the bartom. 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:34.360 I got you on the right, and Tip on the left, 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:39.879 So a little horizontal grab. We'll start with Cook. How 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:40.279 are you. 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:42.080 I'm very good. Thanks, Happy Monday? 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:45.760 Yeah, happy Monday. Happy? Did you Oh you didn't see 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:47.800 the old man because he's in another state. Did you 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:50.720 give him a virtual cuddle or did you call him? 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:51.320 Or what did you do? 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:53.960 Both of the above? I gave him a virtual cuddle 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:55.040 and then I gave him a call. 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:57.160 How is the old bugger? 0:00:57.560 --> 0:00:57.760 Yeah? 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:00.560 He's good, he's good. He's got some good stuff on. 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:08.080 Sy Yeah, well, it's dad now seventy four. 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:10.600 You know how I get stuck on aug So he's 0:01:10.640 --> 0:01:14.319 been seventy one for bad for years now. My brother 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:16.319 stayed at forty six for a banded dicad. 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:19.760 Yeah, yeah, that's funny. My kids had me stuck on 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:23.399 forty for like eight years. I don't know how that happened, 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:25.320 but I was like super psyched about it. 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:28.240 That's probably because you were telling him constantly I'm forty. 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:32.320 No I wasn't. Oh not really, No didn't come. No, 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:35.600 didn't come for me. They just, I don't know, mathematically talented. 0:01:35.920 --> 0:01:39.120 But then my my husband was turning fifty and my 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:42.360 son came up to me in an earshot of my 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:46.119 husband and was like, Mom, why did you marry such 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:47.720 an old man? Oh? 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:48.680 That is hilarious. 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:53.000 My husband did not like that, and so he told 0:01:53.000 --> 0:01:54.920 everyone my age and I was like, why did you 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:55.400 have to do? 0:01:55.640 --> 0:02:00.760 Yeah? Yeah, yeah, do you think? Oh? I know, I'm 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:02.080 not going to ask it. I'm going to ask one 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:04.680 question because I know it's your show today, doctor Lilian 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:09.200 as the host today, be brief, do you think women 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:15.120 are more likely to lie about their age than dudes? Okay, 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:17.440 I thought I knew the answer. I just didn't want 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:18.320 to be presumptuous. 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:21.480 Oh no, I think it's Societally, women have not been 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:26.399 allowed to age, you know, and still be acceptable and 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:32.480 visible and you know, seen as. I don't know, like 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:35.079 I think that's changing, but I think that women were 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:41.320 conditioned to try to stay and young and pretend that 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:43.400 they were younger to other people, just so that they 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:45.960 could still be relevant, which is sad, but I think 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:46.359 it's true. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:50.640 I dated a guy for about eight months and didn't 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:53.160 know that he was like eight years older than he 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:56.280 told me he was until I was at his parents 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:59.600 place for his birthday and his brother's like, so, how 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:00.640 old is Scott said? 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:05.720 He is really interesting? Interesting? 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:09.160 And how old was he at his birthday? And how old? Well? 0:03:09.320 --> 0:03:11.240 If we know answer A, we know answer? 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:15.120 B Oh god, I can't remember. I feel like early 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:17.920 thirties and he was like thirty eight. 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:22.240 Right, Yeah, so he was he told you he was 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:23.679 thirty and he was thirty eight. 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:25.520 Yeah, ludacrous. 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:28.519 Well he's a big fucking fiver, isn't he. If you 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:30.959 knew he was that age when you met him, would 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:31.919 you have gone out with him? 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:32.520 Yeah? 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:34.079 Yeah, there you go. 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:36.560 That was a silly guy. 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:39.000 There was a waste of time and energy on his 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:41.560 behalf hole. And then when he got caught, you probably 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:42.360 thought he was a dick. 0:03:43.440 --> 0:03:45.920 Yeah, but then we matched on a dating app again 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:48.200 years later, and I was like, Bro, you're still lying 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.320 about your age lot about your age for so long. 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:51.880 I don't even remember how old you are. 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:55.040 I think it's hlabarous. That is hilarious. 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:58.080 I think that does actually happen a lot on dating apps. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:01.520 People are lying about their aid. Apparently men lie about 0:04:01.520 --> 0:04:01.920 their height. 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:05.240 Yeah, See, dudes care about their height a lot more 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:08.520 than how I don't ask me why I'm middle of 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:12.280 the right. I'm not sure I'm not tall, but I think, yeah, 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:15.560 dudes seem to care about that. I don't think men. Well, 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.760 I'm pretty sure men don't love being short, just like 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:21.480 women don't like being I guess some women seen as 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:23.920 being old. But like I, like you said, I think 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:27.320 that's changing. But what I do think is funny about 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:30.400 dating sites. Allegedly, I've never been one on one hand, 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.440 on heart, on my mum's life, never been on one. 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:36.799 But it seems like even on social media, people put 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:39.719 up the best photo that's ever been taken of them 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:43.400 ever in the history of their life, and it's fucking 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:46.200 eleven years old. And then they turn up to a 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:54.640 date and the poor unsuspecting potential boyfriend or girlfriend is like, God, 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:58.280 looks like their mom turned up or their dad turned up. Like, 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:01.640 they look nothing like that, am and joy saw. So 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:05.560 my theory is put up a somewhere between average and 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:09.240 not very good current photo and then if you still 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:13.480 get interest, they're definitely not going to be disappointed, maybe 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:14.880 even pleasantly surprised. 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:18.840 Yeah, and you know that that's not a new thing, 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:21.680 because I remember my mother in law telling me about 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:25.440 how because she came over on a ship to meet 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:29.600 her husband Wow, because his brother found her in the 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:31.159 village and was like, oh, you'd be a good wife 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.200 for my husband. And she wanted to leave her life 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:36.839 and start something new and it was an adventure. But 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:39.479 she was lucky that the picture was accurate. But she 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:44.160 had a lot of stories, yeah, about women who had 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:48.920 been given these photos of young men. Yeah, and went 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:52.440 over and you know their husband to be or like 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:56.640 sixty seventy eighty years old. You know that's you know, obviously, 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:59.120 looks isn't the only thing you want the personality to 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:01.240 be good as well. You know, you're coming over on 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:04.640 a ship for months and then you're basically stranded here 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:08.400 like unless someone's looking after you. So that's yeah. So 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:11.359 this lying thing about how you look and who you 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:14.440 are and how old you are, it's it's not new, it's. 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:18.040 Not new, all right, So today what is happening everyone 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:23.120 is Lillian is throwing questions at me. So I'm just 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:25.800 getting up out of my chair now and walking over 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:27.719 to the other side of the table that Jape suits 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:34.039 Billian's just moving graciously like a gazelle into the number 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:38.440 one seat, And all right, so thanks for doing this. 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:41.599 This is a fun idea, your idea, I might add, 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:43.960 So if the questions are terrible, we're not playing them. 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:46.680 Yeah. Well, I don't think it was my idea. Actually 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:50.279 it was Kelly. Was it your idea that someone Kelly you? 0:06:50.320 --> 0:06:53.320 And then Kelly did the interview and I listened to it. 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:55.920 I loved her questions, and I loved those episodes. 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:57.400 Yeah, she has good questions. 0:06:57.480 --> 0:07:00.120 And then when I told you that, you know, I 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:01.800 listen to it and I liked it. You're like, oh, 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:03.080 why don't you interview me? 0:07:03.160 --> 0:07:04.720 And I was like, oh there you go. 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:06.960 Really, so what was your idea? Actually? 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.920 All right? Then, all right, then I'm going to give. 0:07:09.800 --> 0:07:12.600 You credit where credits due, but don't get used to it. 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:17.360 Okay, okay, Well I feel privileged. And if you're going 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:21.280 to jump in for the questions that I can't answer, you, Matt, 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:21.960 you can jump. 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:24.800 In if you like. That's totally fine. I actually really 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:29.160 like it when you are jumping in and we're giving 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:30.360 you a piece of the puzzle. 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:32.720 Yeah, we heard about you two wanted to do your 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:35.160 own show without me before we pressed record? 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:37.520 Yeah, I mean Tiffany, you know great, she's got a 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:41.560 great things to say. I love it, you know, don't 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:47.880 be so competitive, Craig geez. All right, So today, dear, 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:50.160 I try to be on my own show. 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:51.480 What is wrong with me? No? 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:53.680 Today, it's not your show, you know? 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:54.440 Yep? 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:57.040 Sure, I'm ready to settle into your cheap seat. 0:07:57.800 --> 0:07:59.960 I should have got a bean bag for this. 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:02.560 I'm going to run things a little bit differently as well. 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:06.040 So she's taken well and truly taking over. 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:08.600 I'm going to take over. So I wanted to start 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:11.320 with some quick fire questions just to kind of get 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.880 the ball rolling and to see what your answers are 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:16.680 by instinct and not have a distinct through things and 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:20.400 all of that. So we'll just do a few of those. Ready, 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:25.240 However many I feel like, are you ready? 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:31.440 Originally originally it was five and now it's however, all. 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:35.240 Right, ready, they're they're not They're not difficult, They're just ready. 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:39.800 People know you better, hopefully, Okay, coffee. 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:47.240 Or tea coffee to be indecisive, here we go. All right, 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:52.880 I'm just going to go with coffee. Such hard questions, 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:55.040 so I didn't know I need more prepped on. 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.280 All right, all right? Beach or mountains? 0:08:58.880 --> 0:08:59.200 Beach? 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:01.600 Eminem's are smarties? 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:08.280 Neither That is incorrect, wouldn't they either? 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:12.880 The answer is Eminem's Okay, okay, VEG you might or 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:13.440 peanut butter. 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:16.200 Peanut butter, yes, very good. 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:18.040 Favorite season. 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:26.240 Spring, so right now, yeah, a little bit four weeks 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:27.760 from now, but in the middle of spring. 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:32.920 Google or chat ept chat is, oh, there you go. 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:36.040 I agree. Comedy or drama. 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:43.719 If it's good comedy, No drama. I love comedy, but 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.800 I think most comics are not funny. So drama. 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:50.000 So follow up questions how much TV do you. 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:56.040 Watch in a day? Not much so at the most 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:58.240 an hour I don't watch television. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:02.520 Yeah, that's pretty that's okay. 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:07.520 Most like most days fifteen minutes when I get in 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:09.080 bed while I'm falling asleep. 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:12.960 So below average, way below average. I think the average 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:15.800 is like three or four hours a day. Yeah, yeah, 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:17.720 I know it seems like a lot, But then when 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:19.520 you actually think about your own behavior, it's like, no, 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:24.559 I pretty much do that favorite show, another. 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:36.120 Follow up favorite show like lifetime favorite show or all right, 0:10:36.640 --> 0:10:39.320 so this is gonna this is doing myself for this service. 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:42.880 I like The Big Bang Theory because it's just like 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:48.160 it's all right, it's about a bunch of geniuses or 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:53.160 genie I, but it's funny and it's silly. Growing up, 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:56.760 I loved you know, I loved it, Like mash was 0:10:56.800 --> 0:11:00.839 one of my favorite TV shows. Yeah in was it 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:04.720 the Vietnam Vietnam War, Korean Korean more that's right, earlier 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:08.439 than Vietnam, yep. And yeah, I mean a bunch of 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:12.280 shows like I used to love House, the Doctor Show 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:15.360 where he's like a medical detective. The Blacklist for a 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:19.320 while was freaking amazing, but nothing that I go that's 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:21.600 my all time Yeah. Favorite. 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:24.680 So there's a real mix of comedy and drama. Then yeah, yeah, 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:26.760 all right, would you rather go to the movies or 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:27.240 a concert? 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:31.280 Movies? 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.439 Interesting? What was the first time that you ever went to? 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:47.840 Ah, maybe the Eagles, Oh in Melbourne, Jackson Brown, James Taylor, 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:55.920 Like I'm old school, like I love old seventies, sixties, seventies, eighties. Yeah, 0:11:56.000 --> 0:11:59.720 Eagles live back first time were pretty amazing. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:01.959 Yeah, I can imagine. What about you, Tiffany, what was 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:03.680 the first concert you'd ever gone. 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:06.160 To Robbie Williams? 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:09.240 Well? Really, yeah? Was it recent or was it a 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:09.800 long time ago? 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:13.720 It was a long time ago, maybe early two thousands sometime, 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:19.440 I'd say, well mid two thousands. I wasn't even a fan, 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:21.880 and I was the biggest fan ever after that constant. 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:25.520 Yeah, he's very good in concert. Yeah, I only saw 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:29.080 him recently, like when he was here last and again 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:31.719 I wasn't I'm not a massive fan, like I've liked 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:35.640 maybe three of the songs. But when I saw him 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:39.880 play at the AFL was at the Grand Final a 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:42.319 few years ago, I was like, Oh, I think I 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:44.160 might want to go to wisconcert. That would be fun, 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:45.680 And it was great. It was so fun. 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:48.559 I think he is. 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:51.720 And he's also a really good mental health advocate as well. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.720 He's he's been talking about mental health, his mental health 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:57.960 openly for many, many years, even before the more recent 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:04.280 documentaries and movies. So yeah, I really liked that about him. 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:05.360 He's really open. 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:08.760 What was the worst content you went to? And no, 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:11.920 it's not my day, but just one question either of you. 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:18.600 So you went, what the fuck is this? Okay? 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:21.920 And saw Rayla Montaigne, who I loved his music, but 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:23.719 he was at the Art Center and it was a 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:26.559 total mismatch and a total letdown. You know when a 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:28.160 performer just doesn't fill the space. 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:32.800 Yeah, yeah, what about when you hear someone and they're 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:37.640 compared to their record voice? Yes, yes, live voices are 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:40.360 three and you're like, fuck, did you even sing on 0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:42.160 that album? Because it was arable? 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:44.719 Yeah, that happened to me recently. I go to a 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:47.520 lot of concerts. I really enjoy going to concerts, and 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:50.679 I've taken my daughter who's eighteen to like ten at 0:13:50.800 --> 0:13:56.920 least already. But the recent one that was really bad, 0:13:57.200 --> 0:14:00.559 which was a shame, was a New Order. Do you 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:04.120 remember a New Order? From back? And I love them? 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:08.120 And not boy band, not new Addition, New order, like 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:13.000 the new wave band, like you know, they played. 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:16.640 Like yeah, yeah, yeah, I. 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:22.920 Definitely not new addition, but like around the depeche Mode days, 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:25.600 like that kind of era. But yeah, no, his voice 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:31.720 was horrendous. Please you're ruining yourselves. Yeah, but yeah. My 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:37.680 first concert was actually Kenny Rogers really good, yeah, amazing. Yeah. 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:40.240 Like look, I grew up in Dover, Delaware, which is 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:44.720 kind of small town USA, and my parents were immigrants 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.960 and they listened to Kenny Rogers and Dolly Parton and 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:50.320 Elvis Presley and my parents were meant to go to 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.640 that concert, but I think my they might have had 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:55.360 an argument that evening and so my dad took me instead. 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:58.640 So it ended up being moth firstconcert, and I think 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:02.520 I was like twelve wow, And the Oakridge Boys opened. 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:04.000 I don't even know if you guys know who that is. 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:05.320 Yeah, I know of them. 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:07.360 Yeah. They sang a song called Elvira. 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:10.560 Yeah they were never big here, but. 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:13.800 Yeah, look them up. It's a really funny song. You 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:14.840 should have definitely listened to it. 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:17.440 One of my first jobs was in nineteen eighty two 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:22.280 in Liverpool Street one one six Liverpool Street, Hobart working 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:26.560 for a company that was then called Brashes, Brashes and Allen's, 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:29.480 which was a music store my old man ran. He 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:33.960 was the state manager for the company. And yeah, that 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:37.440 was my first job out of school, was working selling music, 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:46.280 selling instruments, selling tapes, selling LPs, old days before CDs 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:48.880 were even a concept. So yeah, and back in those 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:52.520 days heaps of Kenny Rodgers and all the old school 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:53.360 guys and girls. 0:15:53.560 --> 0:16:00.560 Yeah, so sorry, he plays as well? Yeah do you No? 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:05.520 Totally does for How long have you have you been playing? 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:07.240 Since I was six? 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:10.800 Oh? Wow? Do you sing? No? 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:14.080 He's got a very good singing not even joking it 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:15.840 actually got a really good for singing voice. 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:20.080 I can sing a bit and play a bit. Little secret, 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:23.520 I'm definitely not, you know. I love for me. I'd 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:26.240 rather play by myself than for someone, and so would 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:33.160 that someone probably, But it's like for me, music's very therapeutic. 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:35.960 I listened to music a lot, So when I say 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:38.120 I'd rather go to a movie than a concert sounds 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:41.320 weird for me. But I've just been disappointed in a 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:44.000 bunch of concerts, and I think it's very rare that 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:46.160 they sound as good as they do. In my ears 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:46.960 with headphones. 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:50.800 If you were to get go to a concert where 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:53.520 it sounded exactly how you want it to sound, what 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:54.680 concert would you be going to? 0:16:55.840 --> 0:16:59.000 Well, I've been to it. Jackson Brown. I love Jackson Brown. 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:02.480 A lot of people like, who's that? Yeah? Just my 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:09.240 favorite singer songwriter of all time. You know, diustrates Mark Knopfler. 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:11.280 He has not a great voice, but he has a 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:16.320 great sound. And dire Straits were fucking amazing. The Eagles 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:22.439 were amazing. Cool Joe Walsh who was part of the Eagles, 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:26.480 Glenn Frye, all those dudes. I've got this crazy bird 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:30.840 at my window that keeps, like right now as we're talking, 0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:36.000 flying into the window, headbutting it away, flying in, flying in, 0:17:36.160 --> 0:17:39.199 and then flapping his wings against the window. I'm like, bro, 0:17:39.320 --> 0:17:42.399 you're going to give yourself concussion. Stop it. What is 0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:45.040 that about? Is it routine season or something? 0:17:45.160 --> 0:17:45.520 What is it? 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.720 I don't know, what's what's the what's the name of it? 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:53.680 TIFFs like, there's I don't know, there's a season where 0:17:53.760 --> 0:18:02.560 birds go nuts? Maybe no, definitely, don't get me talking 0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:03.199 about you know. 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:08.159 Nature, more quick fire and then I'm on to the 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:13.879 good questions, right, all right? Favorite swear word. I know, 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:15.280 there's a lot to choose from. 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:17.360 Yeah, I didn't have to be fucked just because it's 0:18:17.400 --> 0:18:20.119 the Swiss army knife of you know, speaking. You know, 0:18:20.240 --> 0:18:23.440 it's the all purpose multi tool that you can just 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:26.560 slot in. But the funny thing is about fuck or 0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:30.000 fucking or fucked or fuck you is that it can 0:18:30.080 --> 0:18:33.400 be so many Like, it can be surprised, it can 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:39.879 be like a compliment. Yeah, it can be to scare someone, 0:18:40.080 --> 0:18:43.880 It can be yeah, yeah, there is this multipurpose. 0:18:44.240 --> 0:18:47.000 There's this Finnish comedian and I can't remember his name 0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:49.080 right now, but maybe some of you have heard of 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:52.359 him where he talks about the English language and like 0:18:52.680 --> 0:18:55.359 he'll use a word like you, fucker shit or just 0:18:55.440 --> 0:18:56.200 a regular. 0:18:56.720 --> 0:19:00.719 Someone seen that dude too. 0:19:01.000 --> 0:19:04.560 It's really good. He's really good. We saw him when 0:19:04.560 --> 0:19:09.600 he was here. Actually, all right now, I wanted to 0:19:09.640 --> 0:19:13.560 go back to Kelly's interview, just because she had some 0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:16.679 great questions about all sorts of things. Sure, how did 0:19:16.760 --> 0:19:20.000 you actually find the experience of being interviewed on your show? 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:27.040 Yeah, I'd like it as long as I've done cheesy interviews, 0:19:27.080 --> 0:19:27.760 which I hate. 0:19:28.600 --> 0:19:31.080 You know, so, so you've hated this so far. 0:19:32.320 --> 0:19:35.359 Now you're going, okay, But you know, when people go 0:19:36.480 --> 0:19:40.800 because of my background and stuff, people go essentially, what's 0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:44.240 the best way to lose weight? Craig, And I'm like, ah, fuck, 0:19:44.280 --> 0:19:47.480 I don't want to be here, you know. Or so Craig, 0:19:47.840 --> 0:19:52.480 how do we stay motivated? Well, John, we fucking don't 0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:53.560 ask a better question. 0:19:55.080 --> 0:19:55.960 I love that answer. 0:19:56.320 --> 0:20:00.639 It's like, you know, you know, when like there's a 0:20:00.760 --> 0:20:03.920 question and there's not a single answer to that question 0:20:04.040 --> 0:20:07.639 because there are so many variables. It's like, what's the 0:20:07.720 --> 0:20:10.480 best way for a woman to exercise? Well, that is 0:20:10.520 --> 0:20:15.320 the dumbest, most ignorant, yeah, you know, probably insensitive question too. 0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:19.159 It depends on a million variables, So tell it to 0:20:19.359 --> 0:20:23.120 forget male or female. Just tell me about the person. 0:20:23.960 --> 0:20:27.600 Tell me all about their physiology, their medical stuff, their 0:20:27.680 --> 0:20:31.159 current level of condition, their genetics, what they want to do, 0:20:31.520 --> 0:20:35.880 their goal. You know, it depends on twenty things. Rock bottoms. 0:20:35.920 --> 0:20:37.240 So yeah, yeah, I. 0:20:37.280 --> 0:20:41.760 Think that people often want that easy, kind of formulaic answer. 0:20:41.960 --> 0:20:46.080 I think maybe it's those those kinds of answers sell 0:20:46.280 --> 0:20:48.920 better or sound better, and so that's what they're wanting. 0:20:49.000 --> 0:20:51.040 But it's not the real it's not the right answer. 0:20:51.400 --> 0:20:55.360 I disagree. I reckon when you listen, it's fucking terrible 0:20:55.680 --> 0:20:58.160 like it. I agree with you in that it's good 0:20:58.200 --> 0:21:01.680 to get soundbites, Craig, what's the best way to do this? 0:21:01.960 --> 0:21:05.280 And that's the SoundBite, right well, that's the that's the hook. 0:21:06.240 --> 0:21:10.160 But you know, it's like you and I and Tiff 0:21:10.240 --> 0:21:12.760 chatting right now. I'm not saying this is this is 0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:16.080 the high watermark for you know, engaging an audience. But 0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:18.320 I don't know what you are going to ask me. 0:21:18.840 --> 0:21:20.480 I didn't ask you what you're going to ask me. 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:23.480 I didn't say send through any questions. I just said 0:21:23.560 --> 0:21:27.800 let's go, you know, And I think that for but like, 0:21:27.920 --> 0:21:30.080 I know, you've got questions that you've written out in 0:21:30.320 --> 0:21:33.159 terms of your planning, but you don't have a script, 0:21:33.960 --> 0:21:36.720 and you might ask half of them, you might ask 0:21:36.800 --> 0:21:39.879 a quarter of them, you might ask five questions you 0:21:40.119 --> 0:21:42.680 didn't write, because you can be in the moment and 0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:46.880 kind of read the room and understand, like I might 0:21:46.920 --> 0:21:49.320 open a door that's interesting that you didn't think i'd open, 0:21:49.400 --> 0:21:52.240 and you're like, fuck, let's keep going in that room. Yeah, 0:21:52.359 --> 0:21:56.200 you know, So there's that. I think my constant thinking 0:21:56.240 --> 0:21:59.399 whether I'm doing a keynote or a workshop or a 0:21:59.480 --> 0:22:03.720