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Speaker 1: Is the City and with Kate Winki podcast.

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Speaker 2: Valentine's Day isn't always a great day for everybody. Relationships

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Speaker 2: often break up close to Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 3: In fact, the.

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Speaker 2: Number one day to break up in a year is

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Speaker 2: February thirteenth.

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Speaker 4: All right, is it today?

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Speaker 3: Today is the number one breakup day in the country.

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Speaker 5: The day before Valentine's What an absolute dog.

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Speaker 2: Because people are getting to the point where they think,

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Speaker 2: how are we going to celebrate? Celebrate Valentine's Day and.

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Speaker 3: Celebrate and then they go, why would I celebrate you?

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Speaker 3: I don't want to put a boat boot, so.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to break up with you.

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to blake up. We do and tealibate.

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Speaker 3: That's the thing.

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Speaker 2: People assess their relationships and the lead up to Valentine's Day,

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Speaker 2: that's what happens. But the thing is too you reflect

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Speaker 2: on relationships to Valentine's Day, and there's been some good

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Speaker 2: ways to get back at your ex on Valentine's Day,

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Speaker 2: and I want to bring up a few. I think

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Speaker 2: one of the locals wronga. They had one where you

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Speaker 2: could feed your ex's heart to the lions.

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Speaker 3: It was it was just a piece of meat with

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Speaker 3: your ex's name.

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Speaker 4: That's not bad. I don't mind that idea. And it's

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Speaker 4: great for the kids as well.

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Speaker 3: The kids.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Dad used to go out with this girl and

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Speaker 5: we'll feed her heart to the lions coming over and.

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Speaker 4: Having a little kids.

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Speaker 3: Laura's getting eaten at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Then there was I think one where you could feed

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Speaker 2: the meerkat's cockroaches named after your ex.

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Speaker 3: But this is a good one. For ten dollars, you

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Speaker 3: can name a turd after your ex.

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Speaker 4: So what the.

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Speaker 6: Zoo in the US it says name a turd after

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Speaker 6: a turd. So you can send a video of an

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Speaker 6: elephant unloading its lunchbox to an X to say a

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Speaker 6: quick reminder that you're what's coming out of the back

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Speaker 6: of the ars of that elephant.

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Speaker 4: This is for you, Alice.

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Speaker 3: I miss you so much much. Alice, You're the turd

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Speaker 3: I've chosen to gift a turd.

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Speaker 2: These are all options, Tommy, It's just it's not of

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Speaker 2: Dave love for everybody.

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Speaker 3: No, no, that's all I'm saying, a hard day for

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Speaker 3: some people. So if you open your inbox now there's

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Speaker 3: a video there as well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it fits in with her with cap Bridgie Podcast.

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Speaker 3: I like her, well, she's no good in bed.

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Speaker 4: I like them Godly, we go box, we steed. We

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Speaker 4: don't make this.

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Speaker 3: Of pros and cos I love this.

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Speaker 2: I love pros and cons because I love analyzing relationships.

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Speaker 2: We do it with our own relationships. To Ryan James, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: If you've just started a relationship thirteen twenty fourteen, tell

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Speaker 5: us pros and cons.

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Speaker 4: We've got one hundred and fifty dollars to spend it.

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Speaker 4: Flowers for everyone for you Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 3: Welcome Jade from Likehard. How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good?

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Speaker 4: Thank that's great. You're going out with another Jay. What's

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Speaker 4: his name, Jade? Josh Joshie a Jaden. How long has

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Speaker 3: Five months?

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Speaker 4: Five months?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so we've settled in, which is quite nice.

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Speaker 4: You know it was still honeymoon period, isn't.

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Speaker 3: Are you living with Josh Ah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We do.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, this is good. Can you tell me the pros?

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Speaker 2: Why don't we start there, Jade, Let's celebrate Josh first.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, to start with us. He's a fantastic cook.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, beautiful, love love me, hot guy in the kitchen.

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Speaker 1: Go on, Jade, especially when I'm terrible. He always answers

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, so when you ring him he picks up. Okay,

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Speaker 5: what if he's out with the boys though, Joe, does

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Speaker 5: he miss a cut? M calls here and there or

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Speaker 5: always still answer.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's a beautiful thing that he does for you, Jade.

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Speaker 3: How play? Yep?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 3: What else do you love about him?

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Speaker 1: And the best? He lets my dog's head?

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Speaker 3: He lets your dog what.

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Speaker 1: Sleep in the bed with us?

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Speaker 5: Oh ah, that's magnificent and he would have been reluctant

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Speaker 5: to do that at first, up, Jade, but he.

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Speaker 3: Definitely that's that's disgusting.

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Speaker 4: You've brainwashed him?

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, okay, he sounds like an ultimate catch here, Jade.

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Speaker 5: But there's got to be a few cons. What's happening

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Speaker 1: He always snoozes his alarms, but I'm doing.

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Speaker 4: And then that wakes you up as well, Jade?

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay that can be frustrating for the dog. Also,

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Speaker 3: I can only assume Jade.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Jade, okay, that's one con. What else you got?

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Speaker 1: He's very like he forgets his phone all the time.

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Speaker 3: He forgets his phone, but he answers his phone if

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Speaker 3: he remembers it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I have to run about the door.

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Speaker 4: He will he do something romantic for you today on Valentine's.

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Speaker 3: Day, Jade?

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Speaker 4: Or not really?

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Speaker 1: I hope? So?

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Speaker 5: Oh that's it when you when you're hope in a relationship,

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Speaker 5: it doesn't.

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Speaker 2: Work, mate, I'm going to do something crazy here, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to do something really crazy.

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Speaker 4: Don't do it.

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Speaker 2: I'm for it because you know what, I'm not interested

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Speaker 2: in Jade's pros and cons list. I can hear in

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Speaker 2: Jade's voice that she's not in love with Josh where

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Speaker 2: she needs to be after five months?

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Speaker 3: Get rid of.

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Speaker 4: Him, Jade? Are you one hundred percent keen on him?

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Speaker 4: Or is there a doubt there?

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Speaker 1: Oh, there might be a little bit of a doubt.

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Speaker 3: Done dusted, mate.

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Speaker 2: Well, hey, time is precious, Jade, and you've got to

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Speaker 2: find out and get out there and find someone that

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Speaker 2: really tickles your fancy, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she sounds a bit shaded, doesn't she very good?

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Speaker 3: Rachel in Constitution? Hell, Hello, Hello, how are we all gat?

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Speaker 3: Have you on? Rache? We're excited?

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Speaker 4: What's the name of your man? Rachelle name is Adam? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: How long you've been with Adam?

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Speaker 1: Five years? Now?

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Speaker 4: That's a long time. What's the good things about Adam?

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Speaker 5: Well, let's celebrate Adam today on a beautiful day.

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Speaker 1: So he's pretty adventurous. So he's got me out of

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Speaker 1: my should call it. It's just an.

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Speaker 5: Awesome what's the most extreme thing that he's done?

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Speaker 4: Or are you talking? You're not talking bedroom?

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Speaker 3: Ay? You like bedcom?

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Speaker 1: No, that is just like Viking and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: So he's got me onto a bike. Fun fact that

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Speaker 1: having twenty one?

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Speaker 4: So oh that's good. Well, that's good. You're you're you're

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Speaker 4: adventurous now right, that's great. What's what else is good

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Speaker 4: about Adam?

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Speaker 1: He's got a fantastic sense of humor.

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Speaker 3: Always, guys, you can't go out and buy it. I

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Speaker 3: love fun anything else.

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Speaker 1: And he's super attractive. I know it's generic, but come on,

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Speaker 1: he's pretty good.

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Speaker 3: He's hot, is he?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: He'd be a good kiss that to show what's he smiles? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: What's his best feature on his arms?

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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 4: Guns? Yeah, welcome to the gun show.

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Speaker 2: Bike slash try what days try day for him?

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Speaker 3: Doesn't matter. Let's talk about the Let's.

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Speaker 4: Get into cons because he does sound like a bit

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Speaker 4: of a turd. What's happening with him? Rach, what's happening?

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Speaker 1: Well, he doesn't clean his protein shaper. He also does

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Speaker 1: the worst protein part.

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Speaker 5: So the side effects of having amazing guns is the

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Speaker 5: protein powder.

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Speaker 4: And if you leave that for a while, it starts

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Speaker 4: to stink, Rach.

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Speaker 5: And then also, yeah, the flatulence is quite full on

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Speaker 5: the protein.

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Speaker 3: Isn't it pretty heavy on the bum trumpet? Is he?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Pretty bad?

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Speaker 4: What else is ch?

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Speaker 1: So he refuses to reverse park anyway?

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's really annoying. That would do my head. Well.

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Speaker 3: Can he not reverse parkery scared of it?

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Speaker 1: No, he's very good at it. He just says that

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Speaker 1: it takes too much time.

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Speaker 3: He's probably farting in the car too. You want to

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Speaker 3: get it out.

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Speaker 5: Well, but I don't think. Look, Rach, you know what,

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Speaker 5: he can't reverse park. There's a lot of people who

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Speaker 5: aren't confident with the reverse park.

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Speaker 3: But I think there's something manly about being able to

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Speaker 3: handle yourself in or out, Like you got to be

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Speaker 3: able to referce anything.

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Speaker 1: Else you want the arm over the back of the

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Speaker 1: chair and then him.

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Speaker 4: Get over it. I just look at his guns.

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Speaker 5: While he can't reverse park, that's got more what else

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Speaker 5: another con for us?

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Speaker 1: All Right? The last con is and it's pretty bad.

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Speaker 1: He talks with mom and the baby boys on the phone.

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Speaker 4: Who is this guy? Who is this guy who's looking

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Speaker 4: after his rig? Do you know what though?

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Speaker 5: He's looking after his rig and he's looking after his mum.

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Speaker 5: That's a pretty special guy.

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Speaker 3: When you imagine you're sitting next to BJ and you

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Speaker 3: you heard, Oh, mummy, I had a bit of a

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Speaker 3: tough day at work. That's how you talk to Lisa.

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Speaker 3: Anybody was a bit mean to me, mummy, But I'm

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Speaker 3: going to be okay.

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Speaker 4: Do you know what?

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Speaker 1: Raight?

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Speaker 4: He Weiver did the last one. I'm saying stick with

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Speaker 4: it right?

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Speaker 5: He sounds like an awesome stick without him in the

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Speaker 5: ant and good luck today on Valentine's Day, we're going

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Speaker 5: to give you one hundred and fifty dollars to spend

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Speaker 5: it flowers for everyone.

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Speaker 1: Fantastic, Thank you so much.

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