Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.
Speaker 2: She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of
Speaker 2: my kissing style with.
Speaker 1: A boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in
Speaker 1: a trash bin. He's non recyclable, catching ember.
Speaker 2: I love being love, I love love. On today's episode
Speaker 2: of Where's Your Head At, we're jumping into bed and
Speaker 2: discussing sleeping positions and what it says about your relationship.
Speaker 3: So stay tuned to uncover what your sleeping configuration says
Speaker 3: about you and your partner.
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Speaker 2: worth mentioning that the jumper I just took off was
Speaker 2: given to me by you because some guy left it
Speaker 2: at your house? Or are you going to leave that
Speaker 2: and ignore it?
Speaker 1: What's it?
Speaker 2: The jumper I just took off?
Speaker 1: Let me see it?
Speaker 2: Do you remember what old make hat?
Speaker 1: What is that?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Stop, you didn't say anything. We just literally recorded that episode.
Speaker 2: You did not say anything about it, and I was
Speaker 2: waiting for you too as well.
Speaker 3: Sorry guys, Hi, how are you? And that just absolutely
Speaker 3: dropped a bomb on me that he's wearing my ex's jumper.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So remember one time I was going through your
Speaker 2: wardrope something. I was leaving your house and you're like,
Speaker 2: do you want this? And I was a bit of
Speaker 2: your fee at the start, and I was like, fuck,
Speaker 2: it fits me and it's a cool jumper. I'll have
Speaker 2: it like a glove. I'll take that. It's actually a
Speaker 2: backbone of my wardrobe. I actually rock at a fair bit.
Speaker 3: Well, if he follows you on Instagram, he might see
Speaker 3: that way, he might call you and asked for it back.
Speaker 2: Sorry, mate, it's mine. Now you leave it at someone's house.
Speaker 2: It's free game, I reckon. Yeah.
Speaker 1: How was your weekend?
Speaker 3: That?
Speaker 2: It was good? It was good, not much, just relaxed,
Speaker 2: slept a little bit.
Speaker 1: Nice. I became a godparent.
Speaker 2: Congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 3: My second role as a godparent. I was very honored
Speaker 3: to be ours.
Speaker 2: That's that's so who is it to you? Then?
Speaker 3: So it's my cousin's kids. So I'm now godparent to
Speaker 3: both of her sons, Spencer and Liam. It was so
Speaker 3: funny though, I literally got to the church and there
Speaker 3: was this lady there who was wearing exactly the same
Speaker 3: outfit as me.
Speaker 1: It was fine, though, like I didn't mind. I thought
Speaker 1: she looked amazing.
Speaker 3: I was like, all nice outfit, and then I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: I'm wearing the exact same outfit, so We're both wearing
Speaker 3: white suits. Who looks I think she looked hard. She
Speaker 3: was looking like fresh to death.
Speaker 2: She looked. Well, you were down in my neck of
Speaker 2: the woods. I saw that I was, and I went
Speaker 2: to school masses at the church you're at.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 2: Hey, what was it Michaels Saint Michael's.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Michael was like, this is.
Speaker 2: But I did see as well on your Instagram, so
Speaker 2: I saw that. But I did see that you bought
Speaker 2: some pillows, yes yourself. What was going on there?
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: So Michael and I have been having the worst night
Speaker 3: sleeps I reckon for like three weeks and we've just
Speaker 3: said nothing about it, like other than putting deep heat
Speaker 3: on our necks in the morning when.
Speaker 1: We wake up.
Speaker 3: We've just like literally just accepted it. And then I
Speaker 3: think on Sunday morning, I was like, enough is enough?
Speaker 3: Like I need to buy new pillows. I'm willing to
Speaker 3: buy a new mattress at this point because obviously it's something.
Speaker 1: To do with how we're sleeping.
Speaker 3: And like, I think we even got a humidifier in
Speaker 3: the room as well, because we've been waking up with
Speaker 3: like kind of sore throats. So like there's just like
Speaker 3: a whole lot of bad sleeping going on in our apartment.
Speaker 2: What pillow did you get?
Speaker 3: So we got a pillow? I don't even know a
Speaker 3: memory frome, Yeah, memory from pillow. I like tested at
Speaker 3: least forty different pillows, like you like, yeah, go on
Speaker 3: to the bed. Michael is like the most annoying person
Speaker 3: to go pillow shopping with. He would like need to
Speaker 3: close his eyes, like get in this sleep zone, and
Speaker 3: even then he couldn't make up his mind. But we
Speaker 3: both ended up getting different pillows. I think he got
Speaker 3: the what's it called, what's condoms made out of latex?
Speaker 1: He got a late pillo.
Speaker 2: I wait till I start on my pillow stories. I've
Speaker 2: got them for you, don't you worry.
Speaker 3: But anyway, last night was the first night of both
Speaker 3: of us having our new pillows, and I swear to god,
Speaker 3: I had the best sleep I've had other than staying
Speaker 3: at hotels, but the best sleep I've had in my
Speaker 3: own bed in so long.
Speaker 2: Look, I'm a massive advocate for getting the right pillow.
Speaker 2: So I reckon. When I was wrestling like full time
Speaker 2: every weekend, twice a weekend, I couldn't move, Like I
Speaker 2: genuinely could not get out of bed. I was so sore.
Speaker 2: So I got gifted a pillow from my ex. It
Speaker 2: was like this like memory foam one, and I fucking
Speaker 2: swear by him, like.
Speaker 3: Literally underrated gift, Like for someone to gift you good sleep, Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's gotta be up there.
Speaker 2: So she gave me that, and then I remember my
Speaker 2: next girl, from my next ex, I was like, look,
Speaker 2: I can't have these pillows, like these are no good.
Speaker 2: So I went out and bought new ones. And then
Speaker 2: it's so funny with Jen. I'm fucking literally like within
Speaker 2: like weeks of like a week of sleeping in her bed,
Speaker 2: I was like I fucking heard enough. I'm like this
Speaker 2: mattress sucks. I'm like this pillow fucking sucks. And then
Speaker 2: I made her this is like literally a week, ten
Speaker 2: days into seeing each other by a new memory phone
Speaker 2: mattress and.
Speaker 1: You can't make someone buy new pillows. Now, you've got
Speaker 1: to do the vibe.
Speaker 2: Well, you know what I said, Look, even if this
Speaker 2: doesn't end up like going into relationship, I've just blessed
Speaker 2: her with a new pillow. And yeah, I've done it
Speaker 2: and given her the encouragement to do it. So she now, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's funny enough. She actually the pillow she bought for
Speaker 2: her her bed I loved so much. I went at
Speaker 2: the time and bought for my bed as well.
Speaker 1: Really, yeah, you know what, it's something we don't think of.
Speaker 3: And the lady at the shop was like, yeah, you're
Speaker 3: supposed to replace your pillows every three years, and I
Speaker 3: was like, what, I've had the same pillows for ten
Speaker 3: plus years, not even kidding.
Speaker 2: One of my pillows because I literally went, so you
Speaker 2: said that, right, So the original pillow I had that
Speaker 2: was memory fohe it was time to be a new one,
Speaker 2: I reckon. I bought four before I found the right one.
Speaker 2: I literally was going back and forth by and my
Speaker 2: mum's house is a stack of pillows on my bed
Speaker 2: of just mis miserrid ones that I didn't they weren't
Speaker 2: the right one. Yeah, yeah, and they're quite expensive. As
Speaker 2: well when you think about it.
Speaker 1: Like, uh, yeah, three hundred dollars.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was about to say, yeah, I spent like it
Speaker 2: was half priced and it was like two forty or something.
Speaker 1: But best three hundred dollars I have ever said. Actually, no,
Speaker 1: it's a lie.
Speaker 2: I was at to say, I spent three hundred dollars
Speaker 2: and some no, some better stuff.
Speaker 3: No, actually it was one eighty because it was it
Speaker 3: was it was the black sale or something.
Speaker 2: I never never paid full price for him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went to DFO. Actually it was very good.
Speaker 3: A good buget is meant to be three hundred. We
Speaker 3: got it for one eighty. Best one hundred and eighty
Speaker 3: dollars that I've ever spent. But speaking of like pillows,
Speaker 3: when you're single, and like you know, you might start stinging,
Speaker 3: like this is a real problem.
Speaker 1: If they've not got good.
Speaker 3: Pillows, it's not good. That could be a deal breaker.
Speaker 2: What do you think, Well, well, just do what I
Speaker 2: did and tell them to get the right pillow.
Speaker 3: If you're a bit more polite like me, I just
Speaker 3: like suck it up and like walk out with like.
Speaker 1: A creaked neck.
Speaker 2: I couldn't take it. I was like, no, we need
Speaker 2: to get a new pillow. But talking about sleeping, I've
Speaker 2: tried something new. So where everyone gets their facts from
Speaker 2: these days, TikTok I saw a, I saw it.
Speaker 3: You need to fact check the facts from TikTok I reckon,
Speaker 3: But yeah, I continue.
Speaker 2: I saw that it's good for men to sleep naked.
Speaker 2: So I've heard that. Yeah, so it was like for
Speaker 2: the balls with the produce of sperms. So whatever's going
Speaker 2: on in there, like I need you know, I'm taking
Speaker 2: risks now. I can do whatever I can to try
Speaker 2: and makes like something happened there. So you're on.
Speaker 1: Your infertility journey.
Speaker 3: So if they're saying sleep naked, I'm sure that you
Speaker 3: can happily do that.
Speaker 2: That's the funniest thing. I do it now before we
Speaker 2: go sleep, because I obviously wear boxes so I can
Speaker 2: go around the house. I literally take them off discreetly
Speaker 2: under the sheets and just place someone's chest. I just
Speaker 2: wink at her.
Speaker 1: But so how does she react?
Speaker 2: I just like laugh and sort of put some on
Speaker 2: the ground.
Speaker 1: She's like, there's some skin musk.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I'm very hygienic. But then, so I've been
Speaker 2: sleeping naked. I've actually enjoyed it's I've gotten used to
Speaker 2: it now, So the first couple of days, first weeks,
Speaker 2: I was sort of like, oh, this is a bit
Speaker 2: weird and used to It's a bit annoying when I
Speaker 2: have to go up and go to the bathroom, put
Speaker 2: on you know, like job chili on the yeah, you know,
Speaker 2: in case someone sees me but insane. Yeah, so in
Speaker 2: case like Nicki and Murph seeing but insaying that. Right,
Speaker 2: So we're asleep, Jane and myself, Nicky and Murph have
Speaker 2: gone out and they've they've forgotten a key. So it's
Speaker 2: probably like two am, three am. They've knocked on the door,
Speaker 2: rang the doorbell. I've sprung out of bed, completely forgotten
Speaker 2: about putting any jocks on or anything like that. Oh no, Maverick.
Speaker 2: They're puppy who's one year old. If anyone knows anything
Speaker 2: about Hungarian Visler's, they're a big dog, right.
Speaker 1: He's full of energy full.
Speaker 2: I once saw him leap off two back legs onto
Speaker 2: the bed. I've never said. I couldn't believe it. I
Speaker 2: was like, that kid's got better hops than I do,
Speaker 2: Like he literally leapt and landed on the bed. So
Speaker 2: he's full of energy. You've met him. He's he's a handful.
Speaker 2: So I've gotten up. I've just put my hand to
Speaker 2: cover my the package. I've gone out to the door.
Speaker 2: I've opened the door for him. Maverick's so excited because
Speaker 2: he hasn't seen his parents in like what eight hours.
Speaker 2: I've been out all night. He's going ballistic. They've got
Speaker 2: hands full of cause I've been a dinner party, dinner plates,
Speaker 2: dinner balls, and I've literally tried to grab Maverick in
Speaker 2: my half sleep. He's yanked through.
Speaker 1: One hand on the package, one hand on the jar.
Speaker 2: He's come through my legs somehow, so I've lost control
Speaker 2: of him. They're like, whoa wall. So I had to
Speaker 2: grab him with both hands. Everything's swinging everywhere. His tail's
Speaker 2: whipping me in the nuts. I'm trying to hold this dog.
Speaker 2: Nicky's like, oh my god, Mad, I'm like, fucking hell,
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get your dog. Mrv's kissing himself. Everything's
Speaker 2: out for display. I just literally took my half back
Speaker 2: into my bedroom. I was I hope that never gets
Speaker 2: spoken about again.
Speaker 1: Are you mortified?
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not afraid to show it, but it's
Speaker 2: still embarrassing.
Speaker 3: It's your girlfriend's twin sister has seen your dick.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I hope that there was a bit of
Speaker 2: blood pumping through it. No, so, yeah, it was. Everything
Speaker 2: was everywhere. The dog was whipping me with his tail,
Speaker 2: literally hitting my balls. I was trying to grab him,
Speaker 2: hold him. Everyone's trying to friendly close the door. This
Speaker 2: is at three am. So what Yeah, so I thought
Speaker 2: i'd be worth having funny story.
Speaker 3: Wow, poor Nikki. I'm sure that was a sight for
Speaker 3: sore eyes.
Speaker 2: I mean, poor Nikki.
Speaker 1: I'm glad it was me, Nikky.
Speaker 2: So on that should we talk about sleeping positions and
Speaker 2: how you sleep?
Speaker 1: I think we sure. Let's jump in.
Speaker 2: All right. And so when Michael moved in all those
Speaker 2: months ago, who picks the side of the bed that
Speaker 2: you sleep on?
Speaker 3: I mean from the first night that he ever slept over,
Speaker 3: I already had my side.
Speaker 1: My side is always.
Speaker 3: The furthest away from the door, because like I think mentally,
Speaker 3: I always think like, well, maybe they'll go for the other.
Speaker 1: Person if they're closest to the door first. I'm so selfish.
Speaker 2: Really, well, that is true, Like a lot of men
Speaker 2: always sleep on the door side.
Speaker 1: So I saw that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it goes from like back when we were like cavemen.
Speaker 2: Even the one who would protect the house would be
Speaker 2: the one that would sleep at the door.
Speaker 3: It's kind of cute if you think about it, because
Speaker 3: they're like being the protector, so if anyone's like coming
Speaker 3: through the door, they're going to leap onto.
Speaker 2: Them and take them down. In saying that Jen and I,
Speaker 2: Jen sleeps by the door. She's such a stickler for
Speaker 2: her side that she sleeps on and wants to fly
Speaker 2: on this side of her because she's got a saw back.
Speaker 2: She takes the door side, which for me at the
Speaker 2: start was uncomfortable because I'm used to sleeping in that
Speaker 2: position and face that side, so it was a lot
Speaker 2: to get used to.
Speaker 3: Maybe that says that she's very protective over you, because,
Speaker 3: as we've recently realized that when we were doing research
Speaker 3: for this episode, all of these sleeping positions they mean things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which we'll touch on later, but I don't see
Speaker 2: Jen jumping out of bed if I do, Chel comes
Speaker 2: into the bedroom.
Speaker 3: Should be protective of you, yeah, I mean you're like
Speaker 3: ten foot tall about her, so you'd probably just leap over.
Speaker 2: And well, every time we've heard I've always jumped out
Speaker 2: of bed. Like I said in the story before, I'll
Speaker 2: jump out of bed if there's a noise on the door.
Speaker 2: But yeah, for a bit that was uncomfortable. But she yeah,
Speaker 2: she sleeps on that side. Do you have any rules
Speaker 2: when you're sharing a bed with Michael.
Speaker 3: No, I don't think we have any rules as such.
Speaker 3: Like I think we both share the bed pretty well.
Speaker 3: We're both quite similar. The only thing I reckon is
Speaker 3: I occasionally love like eating in bed, and Michael is
Speaker 3: just like he's like, this is a.
Speaker 1: Strong no from me.
Speaker 2: Off my nut yet, but like, think about it.
Speaker 3: If you like have had a busy day, it's like
Speaker 3: eight pm, I have like I don't know, like a
Speaker 3: salad or a ball of pasta or my dinner, and
Speaker 3: like I just want to because we have a TV
Speaker 3: in our room, yep, Like I just want to jump
Speaker 3: into bed, get cozy, eat my dinner and watch TV.
Speaker 1: Like I think that's fine.
Speaker 2: Yes, I can't know. I don't like eating in the bed.
Speaker 2: I mean that's like hell, I'll allow it, like you said,
Speaker 2: if it's like a dessert maybe and you're in bed
Speaker 2: watching TV, I'll allow that, and that's a fair play.
Speaker 2: But just dinner or like something that's crummy like chips,
Speaker 2: and then you're like laying you on crumbs.
Speaker 3: You're not crump crumb, not crumbs, for sure, not crumbs.
Speaker 3: Do you guys have a TV in your bedroom?
Speaker 2: Yes? So Jen never used to have a TV in
Speaker 2: her bedroom, and I was like, I need a TV.
Speaker 2: I need a TV, So do I need one? Like
Speaker 2: it's to me that goes out saying I love That's
Speaker 2: nothing better than laying in bed watching TV.
Speaker 1: Say it's so good.
Speaker 3: Like my ideal morning is to literally wake up, get
Speaker 3: a coffee, and watch morning TV in bed and just
Speaker 3: like get caught up with what's happening in the world.
Speaker 3: Like that to me is like a dream morning, even
Speaker 3: if it's just for like fifteen minutes.
Speaker 2: That does sound I do like that as well. My
Speaker 2: I think I've established but we'll touch on love languages
Speaker 2: when we do. But my love language is laying in
Speaker 2: bed with my partner Jen watching a TV show or
Speaker 2: a movie that we're both into, So no phones, no distractions, cutting.
Speaker 2: I think that is fucking amazing.
Speaker 1: That's really good.
Speaker 2: That's like literally my love language. Like I love that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So that's your love language, Matt, And I think
Speaker 3: I'm definitely like in the same boat without Like I
Speaker 3: absolutely love watching a good true crime documentary with Michael
Speaker 3: that we're both really into, or a show that we're
Speaker 3: really into. Like when I think of like some of
Speaker 3: our great times, I think of watching ninety Day Fiance
Speaker 3: in bed.
Speaker 1: I love that show. We were both like glued to it.
Speaker 3: It's so hilarious, like some amazing TV moments on there,
Speaker 3: and it just like makes you happy, right.
Speaker 2: It's actually literally like makes me so content.
Speaker 3: But I wanted to bring something up with you because
Speaker 3: I remember ages ago you touched on this and I
Speaker 3: don't know if you're actually you'll remember you told me
Speaker 3: about your like alter ego.
Speaker 2: I knew this was going to come off if we're
Speaker 2: talking about this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to share this because I feel like
Speaker 3: this is like if you were ever gonna share it,
Speaker 3: now would be the time now that we're talking about
Speaker 3: like sleeping positions and like you.
Speaker 2: Know, Okay, So I have an alter ego, as you
Speaker 2: touched on, he goes by the name of the cuddle Monster.
Speaker 2: So let me just okay, So the cuddle Monster, I
Speaker 2: used to say to Jen, Look, Matthew's eating, he's full,
Speaker 2: but the cuddle monster is hungry. Let's get to bed. So,
Speaker 2: like I used to just say it all the time.
Speaker 2: I'd be like, let's get into bed. The cuddle Monster's coming.
Speaker 2: She's just like, you know, I say like jokes and
Speaker 2: be like as I was cuddling her arm, cuddle Monster, like.
Speaker 1: The voice, I want to hear the voice cuddle It
Speaker 1: was like.
Speaker 2: So then we're just like it just became a thing,
Speaker 2: Like it just literally just became our thing. And then
Speaker 2: for Christmas, I bought her so we're like, what does
Speaker 2: the cuddle monster look like? And I was like, to me,
Speaker 2: he's Sully from Monsters, Inc. And she's like, yeah, he is.
Speaker 2: So I bought her this stuffed Sully from Monsters Inc.
Speaker 2: So she can like, yeah, soft toy, so she can
Speaker 2: cuddle the cuddle Monster when I'm not there or I'm away.
Speaker 2: It eventually evolved, keeps evolving when she was away, I'll
Speaker 2: tell this story. So when she was away, I ordered
Speaker 2: a onesie of Sully.
Speaker 3: That's a mere selfie of him in this onesie and
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, right, so she's.
Speaker 2: Gone off, had a shower, and I literally worded Nikki
Speaker 2: and Murph up. So there's actually a video of it.
Speaker 2: I'll share this video if Jen lets me. Yeah. So
Speaker 2: she's come out of the shower and I'm dressed, laying
Speaker 2: in bed in a full Sully ones laying there and
Speaker 2: she got yeah, she loved it. It was as so I
Speaker 2: cuddled her in.
Speaker 1: My Sully sober question.
Speaker 3: So this is like, you know, it's getting to about
Speaker 3: eight o'clock at night, and then you know you've had dinner,
Speaker 3: you're full, and then you're like, Okay, the cuddle monster's
Speaker 3: coming out.
Speaker 1: This is about cuddles or is this about sex?
Speaker 2: It's strictly cuddles. It's literally just cuddles.
Speaker 3: So it doesn't turn into a sexual thing. No, this
Speaker 3: isn't like some role playing.
Speaker 2: It actually hasn't yet.
Speaker 3: But because you haven't outfit, I was like, this could
Speaker 3: be a role playing type of vibe.
Speaker 2: I'm into role playing, and there's I'll have another role
Speaker 2: playing story for you, but I think let's just keep
Speaker 2: the cuddle monster cuddle turning into some dirty cuddle on
Speaker 2: so that one's dirty cuddles, like what's not what's the
Speaker 2: word like that? Unless Gen's into that then you know,
Speaker 2: but then I'll definitely be down whatever you know. I mean,
Speaker 2: you name a kink. I've got it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, look, I thought it was interesting that you had
Speaker 3: this alter ego, and it's actually a very sweet, wholesome
Speaker 3: alter ego. I feel like a lot of girls would
Speaker 3: be into that if their boyfriends wanted to be the
Speaker 3: Condor Monster.
Speaker 1: We love a bit of dress up.
Speaker 2: So on that, should we touch on sleeping positions? I
Speaker 2: think we should?
Speaker 3: Okay, Matt, So did you know that we spend fifteen
Speaker 3: percent of our time sleeping, So obviously it's important to
Speaker 3: have nice pillows like I just got nice bedding. All
Speaker 3: of these things really make a difference.
Speaker 1: But we want to talk.
Speaker 3: About what it means when you cuddle your partner in
Speaker 3: a specific way, because there's all of these hidden meanings.
Speaker 3: We recently found this out and we were super interested
Speaker 3: in this because we both have very different sleeping positions.
Speaker 1: So we are going to touch on that now.
Speaker 3: Interestingly, though, Matt, I don't know if you know this,
Speaker 3: but obviously we have a left side and the right
Speaker 3: side of the brain, and I think when you sleep
Speaker 3: on the right side, it means that you're less likely
Speaker 3: to have nightmares because you're sleeping on your more creative side.
Speaker 2: What side do you sleep on.
Speaker 3: Then I definitely sleep on my right side. And when
Speaker 3: I found out this statistic, I was like, that makes
Speaker 3: sense because I don't really have many nightmares as such.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I switch sides, so all the night
Speaker 2: I switch sides. Yeah, I wouldn't say that I've had
Speaker 2: a nightmare in a long time, So I must spend
Speaker 2: majority of my time. I fall asleep on my right side,
Speaker 2: so I reckon, I spend the majority of the night
Speaker 2: on my right side.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And so then when you sleep on the left side,
Speaker 3: it means that you're probably gonna have more intricate, complex
Speaker 3: dreams like where I guess in those dreams you're doing.
Speaker 1: A lot more problem solving.
Speaker 3: And I really like after finding this out, I actually
Speaker 3: woke up this morning on my left side and I
Speaker 3: was having like the deepest, most complex dream and I
Speaker 3: was like, whoa, it's actually, like it's true, makes sense.
Speaker 3: I do I remember like the key points. But sometimes,
Speaker 3: actually after I have like crazy dreams. Because I believe
Speaker 3: that dreams like is your subconscious talking to you. I
Speaker 3: sometimes write down my dreams so that I remember them
Speaker 3: and then I try to like pull meaning from them.
Speaker 1: That probably sounds a bit like we were in far Fetch.
Speaker 3: But I actually, like genuinely believe it. I mean, it
Speaker 3: is your subconscious talking to you.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I've had excess in the past. Say well,
Speaker 2: my act was like I had a dream that you
Speaker 2: did this in this and like would be angry at
Speaker 2: me for the rest of the day. And I'm like,
Speaker 2: that was a dream. It's not real, Like it's it's
Speaker 2: not real, like I think. I don't know. I don't
Speaker 2: take much from them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but like if you're dreaming about your partner that
Speaker 3: they're angry at you, that's one thing. But I think
Speaker 3: if you're having these like over the top, crazy, like
Speaker 3: very vivid dreams, like I think that that could be
Speaker 3: your subconscious trying to tell you something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, look like I said, like I always say on here,
Speaker 2: I'm open to whatever. I never shut anything down, Like
Speaker 2: I see the truth in that as well.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I definitely put meaning from dreams. I
Speaker 1: don't know. What do you guys think? Let us know
Speaker 1: on the Where's your Head Out? Facebook page?
Speaker 3: Okay, look, well let's talk about what your sleeping position
Speaker 3: says about you.
Speaker 1: Matt.
Speaker 3: There are a few what how do you guys sleep?
Speaker 2: Firstly, okay, So jen and I will get into bed
Speaker 2: and we will spoon. So I'll be the big spoon,
Speaker 2: she'll be the little spoon. Another thing that we have
Speaker 2: is that's called heaven.
Speaker 1: So heaven, Yeah, what do you mean?
Speaker 2: So we call when we're cuddling and we're about to
Speaker 2: fall asleep, we go, oh, we're in heaven. So like
Speaker 2: we'll message each other during the day like can't wait
Speaker 2: to go to Heaven tonight. We call it, like even
Speaker 2: to the point where our song is that you know,
Speaker 2: I'm in your arms, it feels like heaven, you know, baby,
Speaker 2: So that's Jenini's song because Heaven love that. So yeah,
Speaker 2: we call that heaven. So we'll spoon and we'll be like, oh,
Speaker 2: we're in heaven. And then I think, like any normally,
Speaker 2: I've found that there's a lot of couples would do this.
Speaker 2: Then when it becomes time to fall asleep, you sort
Speaker 2: of dismantle because I get too hot. I run so
Speaker 2: fucking hot. Yeah, so I'll like start off by moving
Speaker 2: my body out, just having my torso, and then my
Speaker 2: body I'll just depatch and I'll be except for it
Speaker 2: and fall asleep. So you'll just slowly move away from
Speaker 2: the real as I foremos say what about you and Michael?
Speaker 3: Well, I was thinking about this and I reckon we
Speaker 3: like we always like spoon at one point, like before
Speaker 3: we go to sleep, and then like we sleep like
Speaker 3: bum to bum touching a lot.
Speaker 1: It's like very like comforting.
Speaker 3: But we I asked Michael because I was like, I
Speaker 3: want to know how he thinks that we sleep.
Speaker 1: So this is what he said.
Speaker 3: He goes, I cuddle you, then you cuddle me, then
Speaker 3: I cuddle you, then we.
Speaker 1: Turn back to back to fall asleep.
Speaker 3: Then we fifty percent of the time wake up cuddling
Speaker 3: fifty percent of the time, wake up back to back,
Speaker 3: then we resume morning, cuddle, diish and have sex and
Speaker 3: then make coffee.
Speaker 2: Just went through a night with Anna and Michael. That's us.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry in detail by Michael morning sex so as well.
Speaker 2: That's good. Actually, that reminds me of a fun thing
Speaker 2: as well. Do you guys face each other when you're.
Speaker 3: Asleep sometimes, but like not in the morning because I
Speaker 3: hate morning breath.
Speaker 2: Okay, So one thing I love about Jen is we
Speaker 2: will literally rotate so like face to face, so we
Speaker 2: won't so if one turns and we're face to face
Speaker 2: the other one. We'll go okay, like in the middle
Speaker 2: of the night, and we'll turn the same way, so
Speaker 2: we're like spooning. Do you know what I mean? So
Speaker 2: we're not face to face.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So you go from like spooning one side
Speaker 1: to spoinning the other.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So if one rolls over, the other one will
Speaker 2: roll with them, because there's nothing worse. I remember them
Speaker 2: when you leave with someone, like a first night with
Speaker 2: someone sleeping, and you'd be face to face and I
Speaker 2: reckon it was like a stale mate and just breathing.
Speaker 2: You're going to see who.
Speaker 1: Like breathing in each other's breath.
Speaker 2: Who rolls over first. I hate that, So I.
Speaker 3: Don't mind that if the breath's okay, it's all about
Speaker 3: the breath.
Speaker 2: For me, I don't like it. It gives me your
Speaker 2: key vibes if you're falling asleep face to face.
Speaker 3: Actually yeah, if it's warm breath on your face. If
Speaker 3: it's too close, it's not.
Speaker 2: A vibe you have like a stale mate.
Speaker 1: It's not a vibe.
Speaker 3: Anyway. Let's go through the sleeping positions. So the first
Speaker 3: one we have is the spoon or the loose spoon.
Speaker 3: So we all know the spooning position. I reckon, it's
Speaker 3: probably the most common, right yep, definitely, yeah. So basically
Speaker 3: it indicates protectiveness and comfort. It's also pretty sexual and
Speaker 3: is favored by couples who are comfortable with intimacy.
Speaker 2: So what Michael said, I used sometimes a big spoon.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I reckon, we do this switch as well.
Speaker 3: So we always start with me being the little spoon,
Speaker 3: but then he gets hot.
Speaker 1: And then I'm like nope, I'm coming back.
Speaker 3: And then I'm like, okay, I'm done with this side,
Speaker 3: and then I move back and he'll follow me. So
Speaker 3: it's kind of like this like little game of tag
Speaker 3: we play.
Speaker 2: Throws her little arm over and spoon. It's like that
Speaker 2: ain't doing anything, Like it doesn't even reach like fully
Speaker 2: over my body. Spoony. Spoony's great, it's heaven. Like I
Speaker 2: said before, it's heaven.
Speaker 3: So that's a chasing spoon. So then we have the
Speaker 3: unraveling knots. So basically the knot starts with, you know,
Speaker 3: lots of cuddles and then slowly they separate and gain
Speaker 3: some independence. So it's kind of like a compromise between
Speaker 3: intimacy and independence. So you kind of get the best
Speaker 3: of both worlds. So about eight percent of couples favor
Speaker 3: this position. What do you think about the unraveling knots.
Speaker 2: I'm not a fan of like being all tangled up.
Speaker 2: I hate it, like limbs everywhere that's getting the egg. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: it just doesn't do you do like have you ever
Speaker 2: done that? I mean sometimes watching TV? Because the way
Speaker 2: our beds set up the TV, it's sort of if
Speaker 2: Gen's on her back, I'll be facing it and then
Speaker 2: we'll be sort of nossed up. But there's no way
Speaker 2: you could help out. My arms move fish like the
Speaker 2: tickle months here. It's like it like one of those
Speaker 2: things out in the front of a car yard. My
Speaker 2: arms are wobbling everywhere. Yeah, so then I couldn't fall
Speaker 2: asleep knotted. I don't know.
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, like so they start k nodded and then
Speaker 3: they slowly separate.
Speaker 1: I don't know about that one. No, I'm not sure
Speaker 1: if we do that.
Speaker 2: No, I wonder if anyone's a fan of that.
Speaker 3: Let us know eight percent of couples, I reckon. Then
Speaker 3: we have the back kissers. So the back kissers fall
Speaker 3: asleep back to back with contact along the spine. So
Speaker 3: I reckon this one is me and Michael. So we
Speaker 3: fall asleep touching bum to bum and we literally love
Speaker 3: that position.
Speaker 2: So bum kisses the bum kisses. I okay, So when
Speaker 2: I read this, I said to you, I think that
Speaker 2: back to back is to me, I relate to arguing.
Speaker 2: So I think that it's like, you know, you're popp
Speaker 2: into bed and you're like two bookends. You're back to back. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but I guess if you like cuddle first then turn
Speaker 2: back to back, I don't think that's I think that's okay.
Speaker 3: No, So what the back kisser sleeping position actually means
Speaker 3: is it means that you're connected but independent enough to
Speaker 3: appreciate your own space because you're obviously still touching bum
Speaker 3: to bum or back to back, but you do still
Speaker 3: want to remain sexually connected despite your confidence to face
Speaker 3: in the opposite direction. So what they do say, though,
Speaker 3: which I found really interesting, is that normally people like
Speaker 3: this position when they're in a new relationship or in
Speaker 3: a new couple because they don't have any reason to
Speaker 3: distrust each other yet.
Speaker 1: And the yet part was what got me because I was.
Speaker 3: Like, ooh, that's that's how we're sleeping. Now, I wonder
Speaker 3: how we'll sleeping get are from.
Speaker 2: Now I am. Yeah, I was singing at that as well,
Speaker 2: Like I do think that like when you sleep back
Speaker 2: to back, it refers to arguing. But that's why I
Speaker 2: hate it. That's why I never fall asleep out angry.
Speaker 2: I hate fallings. That's why number one rule, never leave
Speaker 2: the house or never fall asleep angry.
Speaker 1: Never.
Speaker 2: So to me, we never sleep start sleeping off back
Speaker 2: to back.
Speaker 3: Never got to like to bed with an argument with
Speaker 3: anyone in general, because it does play on your mind,
Speaker 3: even if you're like I don't care about it whatever,
Speaker 3: subconsciously it kind of eats away. I hate having issues
Speaker 3: with anyone, even when we have fights, like I reckon,
Speaker 3: it like affects me like mentally as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course it's training, it is.
Speaker 1: It's training.
Speaker 3: It's like you just want to be like all good
Speaker 3: with everyone in a happy play.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 3: But yeah, like sleeping back to back, yes, it can
Speaker 3: be a sign of being in an argument, but if
Speaker 3: it's in a like if you're not in a fight,
Speaker 3: then it can just be a sign of comfortability.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: Okay, So next we have the Liberty Lovers So another
Speaker 3: position more common with established couples. So this is sleeping
Speaker 3: back to back like you were talking about that, but
Speaker 3: with space. So this was the one that you would
Speaker 3: necessarily it feel like you would be potentially in an
Speaker 3: argument with someone. But interestingly, twenty seven percent of couples
Speaker 3: fall asleep this way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I can see how I like you
Speaker 2: cuddle and then you do that, like that's to me.
Speaker 2: I could fall asleep like that. Get your own space.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a hot night. Yeah, air CON's not doing
Speaker 2: what it wants.
Speaker 3: It basically in case that you're connected and secure. So
Speaker 3: I don't know how secure we are.
Speaker 2: Relations there has to be a foot touching at least.
Speaker 1: And that's like we're in an argument.
Speaker 2: Yeah, get my foot touching somewhere at least.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I need to always be touching Michael to fall asleep.
Speaker 2: Even just like a finger on him, just like a
Speaker 2: little male.
Speaker 1: Than anything.
Speaker 3: But yeah, so I mean, I guess essentially people who
Speaker 3: sleep that way, it's basically saying that you can be
Speaker 3: close without touching. You can share a bed, but be independent,
Speaker 3: and it's okay to do things alone in your relationship,
Speaker 3: and you know, people can still reconnect in the morning
Speaker 3: when they wake up.
Speaker 2: We put a pole on our Instagram, and I swear
Speaker 2: practically everyone said that they sleep like that. Yeah, there was.
Speaker 2: There was not many that were not saying they slept
Speaker 2: like that back to back.
Speaker 3: You know, touching people like their personal space and that
Speaker 3: there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1: Like I, me and Michael a lot of the time
Speaker 1: wake up like that at the very end of the
Speaker 1: night and then we're like, oh, okay, back to cuddle.
Speaker 2: I remember one of the first times I slept with
Speaker 2: Jen I literally I remember was in her old old house.
Speaker 2: I literally had my arm so tightly wrapped around her.
Speaker 2: I did not let go all night.
Speaker 1: And this is the first night you slept with.
Speaker 2: One of the first ones, yeah, because she was in
Speaker 2: nurse and killed apartment. Literally cuddled her all night and
Speaker 2: in the morning she was like, God, you've after six
Speaker 2: years of like talking to me, you definitely didn't want
Speaker 2: to let.
Speaker 1: Me go because you've been trying to get out.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I did not want to let
Speaker 2: go of you last night.
Speaker 1: That's so cute, you know.
Speaker 3: It was some of the most beautiful nights of sleep
Speaker 3: I've had with. Like Michael is when we'll just cuddle
Speaker 3: all night long, and it's just like sometimes it's for
Speaker 3: a reason and sometimes just because we're feeling extra loved art,
Speaker 3: but it is a really nice feeling to when someone
Speaker 3: wants to cuddle with you all night. And like, I
Speaker 3: remember the night that Michael told me he loved me,
Speaker 3: or the day he told me he loved me, and
Speaker 3: that night we just like cuddled so tightly all night.
Speaker 1: It was just so cute. It's very romantic.
Speaker 2: It is very romantic. That is cute.
Speaker 3: Okay, So next we have the nuzzle. So this is
Speaker 3: the ultimate trust and protection position. So this is common
Speaker 3: in new relationships but also rekindled relationships. So if you're
Speaker 3: getting back with your eggs, apparently the nuzzle is the
Speaker 3: common one that you go for. So this is when
Speaker 3: one partner sleeps with his or her head on the
Speaker 3: other's chest, creating a very nurturing environment, and then the
Speaker 3: other partner sleeps on their back.
Speaker 2: Have you done this with Michael?
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure.
Speaker 3: But sometimes he like will snuggle into my chest and
Speaker 3: I'll be on my back when we're watching TV.
Speaker 1: It's like I do like a bit of the nuzzle.
Speaker 2: I do that I couldn't fall asleep with the nuzzle.
Speaker 2: I know, I think and correct me. This is just
Speaker 2: an opinion. I think that if you can fall asleep
Speaker 2: on your back, you're a psychopath. What I just I
Speaker 2: say it to gen all the time. I reckon, if
Speaker 2: you can just literally lay in bed on your back
Speaker 2: and fall asleep, you've got demons just.
Speaker 3: Because you have like a psycho X who used to
Speaker 3: fall asleep on their backs. I'm hearing a bit of
Speaker 3: trauma coming through from you because.
Speaker 2: Basket and fall asleep, and I'd be like, woah, you're
Speaker 2: you know, well.
Speaker 1: Fall asleep on my back.
Speaker 2: It doesn't mean I can't. I can't, I can't. I
Speaker 2: just associate that with just yeah, stress, trauma, trauma, and
Speaker 2: just I always say to Jane, if you're falling asleep
Speaker 2: on your back, you're a psychopath. That's my opinion. Sorry,
Speaker 2: if he.
Speaker 3: Really wants to go to sleep on her back and
Speaker 3: now she's like, fuck, I can't.
Speaker 1: This guy's going to think I'm crazy.
Speaker 2: I reckon. She said that to me before. Actually so funny.
Speaker 1: Next we have the tangle.
Speaker 3: The tangle is the sleeping position that they classify as
Speaker 3: like the young love sleeping position, like the fresh relationship,
Speaker 3: you can't bear to be separated. I mean, if I
Speaker 3: think of you, Matt, this is the position that I
Speaker 3: would imagine you being because I know how neaty you are.
Speaker 2: Like I said before, it does make sense for me,
Speaker 2: but I hate being tangled up with all limbs everywhere.
Speaker 1: Really, Well, look how long were limbs are.
Speaker 2: They're just like everywhere.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: True, So this is an incredibly intimate position that means
Speaker 3: you can't get enough of each other up. But for
Speaker 3: anyone who is sleeping in the tangle position, beware it
Speaker 3: can mean that if you're doing it six months into
Speaker 3: a relationship, that you are too dependent on each other
Speaker 3: and that's not where you want to be.
Speaker 2: Okay, dropping big facts there that people should just, you know,
Speaker 2: ye look out for.
Speaker 3: But like, yeah, you said that you're not a fan
Speaker 3: of it, and a lot of people agree with you.
Speaker 3: There's only two percent of couples who do prefer that position.
Speaker 2: Not surprised on that at all.
Speaker 1: Okay. The next one is the leg hug.
Speaker 2: So you just cuddle their leg No.
Speaker 1: No, no, So you're not cuddling a legs. Otherwise you'd
Speaker 1: be like.
Speaker 2: Way down that imagin on your legs.
Speaker 3: It's basically when you put a leg over, or you
Speaker 3: can both put we can both your legs over. There
Speaker 3: is a couple of things that this can mean. So
Speaker 3: if it's one person doing the hugging, so putting a legover,
Speaker 3: it could signal that they're craving.
Speaker 1: More of a connection.
Speaker 3: If you're both intertwined, then it means that you're equally
Speaker 3: passionate and the emotion and sexual connection is strong. And
Speaker 3: then the third interpretation of this actually means that there
Speaker 3: could be some mixed feelings and some worry about expressing
Speaker 3: affection and emotion and a bit of a fight and
Speaker 3: trying to maintain connection despite maybe some heated emotions.
Speaker 1: So there's lots of different things that can mean.
Speaker 2: Have you done the leg hug?
Speaker 1: I think occasionally like here and there, but.
Speaker 2: Like I do it if I need, Like if I
Speaker 2: want affection, you're watching TV or something, I'll throw the legover.
Speaker 2: You know, leave heaven for a bit and throw the
Speaker 2: leg over. You're like more more more, Yeah, like drag
Speaker 2: her in. Yeah.
Speaker 3: It's so funny though, because when you're single and like
Speaker 3: you sleep with someone for the first time, like it is.
Speaker 1: Interesting how you sleep.
Speaker 3: I know that I've had a lot of friends, or
Speaker 3: like if you have sex with someone and then you
Speaker 3: like both like turn ways, that's a bad sign.
Speaker 1: I reckon, do you.
Speaker 2: Think here's here's one for you that I've flag been
Speaker 2: in bed with people? And like when you cuddle and
Speaker 2: you spoon in that it just you don't fit. Yeah,
Speaker 2: You're just not there and it's just like, well, this
Speaker 2: sucking sucks. So just like this doesn't comfortable. And I
Speaker 2: genuinely say this a lot, like when we go to
Speaker 2: heaven that it actually is perfect. It's like two puzzle fit. Yeah,
Speaker 2: two puzzle pieces just fitting into each other.
Speaker 3: Well, sometimes I reckon when I say that I'm only
Speaker 3: into tall guys, it can come across as pretty shallow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but there is a reason.
Speaker 3: And like one of the main reasons is that when
Speaker 3: we spoon or cuddle, if I'm not with a tall guy,
Speaker 3: it just doesn't fit. Like we don't fit in together.
Speaker 3: It's just a fact of life.
Speaker 1: Like I'm a tall girl.
Speaker 3: If I'm with a guy, my heart like I just
Speaker 3: feel too big, Like I want to feel little.
Speaker 1: I want to feel like.
Speaker 2: It would have made sense a short king would have
Speaker 2: like his head like resting on the back of your
Speaker 2: neck and then like to make it fit in or
Speaker 2: if he was to get up higher.
Speaker 1: Do you want the parts to connect?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you want it to make sense.
Speaker 1: Like the booty needs to go into the.
Speaker 2: Into its little cavity, little clothes, a little cave that
Speaker 2: it has to sliff into.
Speaker 1: Yeah. If that's like not aligned, it's it's not a
Speaker 1: vibe for me.
Speaker 2: I agree. That's a big point on picking a partner
Speaker 2: that has to align, I feel.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So the next one is the stomach snoozeres
Speaker 3: Have you ever slept on your tommy before?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I reckon that's how majority of my nights I sleep
Speaker 2: faced really almost stomach really Yeah, do you know?
Speaker 3: I used to, but then only like I heard it's
Speaker 3: like not great for your boobs and like it kind
Speaker 3: of hurts, so so so I don't anymore.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably would crush the balls and that I
Speaker 2: should probably maybe rethink it.
Speaker 3: If you're a couple sleeping both of you on your stomach,
Speaker 3: it's indicating signs of anxiety, emotional fear, vulnerability or lack
Speaker 3: of control, and also a lack of sexual trust in
Speaker 3: a relationship.
Speaker 1: So that's some like big maybe potentials.
Speaker 2: But I would sleep by myself if I was single
Speaker 2: on my stomach.
Speaker 1: I mean, that makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 3: When you're single, you're very anxious, high emotional fear from you.
Speaker 2: So that might be true. Then okay, all right, well
Speaker 2: at least we're at least we're guaranteeing these facts are real,
Speaker 2: and then.
Speaker 1: That's actually amazing. Okay.
Speaker 3: The final one we have for you guys is the
Speaker 3: space hug, and this one is a red flag. So
Speaker 3: this is the one sleeping position where alarm bells should
Speaker 3: potentially go off. So if your partner spreads out with
Speaker 3: little regard for you and the bed, this could be
Speaker 3: a really negative sign for the relationship. It's kind of
Speaker 3: like behaving in a selfish manner, little regard for your needs,
Speaker 3: and they're kind of trying to, like, I guess, be
Speaker 3: the dominant partner.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if Jen turns around and says I'm a space hog,
Speaker 2: it's because we're established actually on a walk the other
Speaker 2: day that we should never have got a queen bed.
Speaker 2: We need to get a king I need a king bed.
Speaker 1: So I've got a queen too. I'm like, this is
Speaker 1: not it?
Speaker 2: Not it? I used to have a king bed and
Speaker 2: it was just so much better, Like there's so much
Speaker 2: more room for me because I'm obviously.
Speaker 1: Does Jen say you're a space hug.
Speaker 2: She say, I'm a space hodg. She says, I take
Speaker 2: off a lot of room, which I mean.
Speaker 1: I guess you kind of. Yeah, well, I mean it does.
Speaker 1: Apparently this is what it means.
Speaker 3: If the one partner dominates the bed, it's likely they
Speaker 3: dominate the relationship, relegating their partner into a secondary, submissive role.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say I do it on purpose. I'd say
Speaker 2: it because I'm six foot six and like one hundred
Speaker 2: and five kilo. But I take up a lot of
Speaker 2: the bed. You know.
Speaker 1: That's like, don't blame me.
Speaker 2: I'm a big gun guy, and I have a tendency
Speaker 2: of moving down the bed for some reason and then
Speaker 2: so then like to keep my feet and chins and
Speaker 2: knees on the bed, I have to flick them to
Speaker 2: the side.
Speaker 3: Fuck.
Speaker 1: Don't you hate when your feet come off the bed?
Speaker 2: I has a very bad Yeah, it's very common for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not idea, idea.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, look, I guess it's that time of the
Speaker 3: show we've been.
Speaker 2: Waiting for Matt, where we ask you to ask us
Speaker 2: where our heads are at let's do it, okay. So
Speaker 2: the first question comes from our listener Kearley. She asks,
Speaker 2: I'm always cold and my partner runs quite hot. I
Speaker 2: can relate to this straight off the bat.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was about to say, this is sounding familiar.
Speaker 2: He can sleep in underwear with just a sheet and
Speaker 2: aircon or fan going the whole night. On the other
Speaker 2: end of the spectrum, I am in full winter peede.
Speaker 2: This is sounding too familiar.
Speaker 1: I feel like you've written this in about yourself?
Speaker 2: Is this gen Because of this, we always argue about
Speaker 2: how to set up the bed. He insists that the
Speaker 2: body heat will keep me warm, but after the initial
Speaker 2: snuggle we part ways. I'm absolutely freezing, tips Kally. This
Speaker 2: is literally the first world and this is literally one
Speaker 2: of the problems that Jen and I have. Yeah, to
Speaker 2: be honest, we've had We've gone to arguments about this
Speaker 2: in the middle of the night because I absolutely wake
Speaker 2: up in the sweats, to the point where Jen has
Speaker 2: been like, you know what I mean, like you're wet,
Speaker 2: like get off me sort of thing, because I sweat
Speaker 2: and just on just a sheet and naked. I don't
Speaker 2: know what it is about me. I run hot my
Speaker 2: tip is in the changing of weather. I bought her thermals.
Speaker 2: I bought her like a big winter like sort of pajamas,
Speaker 2: and I bought her a heater, and I bought her
Speaker 2: an extra quilt.
Speaker 1: That's kid.
Speaker 2: Yeah it was. Yeah, it was a cute gesture of me.
Speaker 2: Shit it was. I left it on the bed because
Speaker 2: we argued and we left for that day and I
Speaker 2: went out of my way to buy it for it,
Speaker 2: so it was there for like an idle cute gesture.
Speaker 2: And she swears by the thermals.
Speaker 3: Yeah, love some thermals on a cold winter night. But fuck,
Speaker 3: there's nothing worse than arguing in the middle of the.
Speaker 2: Night like that, I know about something so insignificant because
Speaker 2: like I'm sweating and she wants to full and at
Speaker 2: the end of the day like if he can just
Speaker 2: like maybe you have the douna he has it. But
Speaker 2: then again, I love There's nothing better than being just
Speaker 2: a little bit cold and turning the fan on for
Speaker 2: a little bit more zest and zang to it, you know,
Speaker 2: And I love that feeling.
Speaker 3: Okay, the next one is for you, Matt. This is
Speaker 3: a question directly for you.
Speaker 2: Should I be nervous, maybe ge. Okay, So I want
Speaker 2: you to start having full sleepovers at my boyfriend's, but
Speaker 2: I'm terrified i'll far and talk in my sleep. Will
Speaker 2: he care or notice? Okay, I think.
Speaker 1: You'll care, surely.
Speaker 2: What do you think? Like, I don't think you'll care,
Speaker 2: Like if he loves you and he's like a mature
Speaker 2: age man, he'll just laugh it off. I've heard one
Speaker 2: of my partners fart when I was like sixteen. She
Speaker 2: was asleep and she fared and woke herself up while
Speaker 2: we're watching a movie. And I was like, did you far?
Speaker 2: And she was like no, And I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: pop off girl it after, But I didn't care, Like
Speaker 2: who cares fartings? I literally in front of gen like town,
Speaker 2: I go to town. I let it rep like I
Speaker 2: have no shame when it comes to that.
Speaker 3: See like I don't mind when Michael farts in front
Speaker 3: of me, but I care when you fight in front
Speaker 3: of me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, can you not?
Speaker 2: I do I fight in front of you when you.
Speaker 3: Fight in front of me, because it's like you're not
Speaker 3: my boyfriend.
Speaker 1: So just like.
Speaker 3: Lench it up.
Speaker 2: If I'm in front of someone, I feel comfortable, I
Speaker 2: far and sleep talking can be funny.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't worry too much unless.
Speaker 2: You're opening up saying that you love fucking Kurt from
Speaker 2: down the road.
Speaker 1: I mean it is funny thought.
Speaker 3: The start of relationships, we have to admit it, like
Speaker 3: we all hold in our farts, and then it's like
Speaker 3: interesting because I mean I have had times and I
Speaker 3: think we can all relate to this where like you'll
Speaker 3: go to sleep and because you've been holding in all
Speaker 3: like the whole time, then like you're full asleep if
Speaker 3: you're going to relaxation, and then all of a sudden,
Speaker 3: you're like, holy shit, I'm fighting in my sleep.
Speaker 2: I would used to hold on to like my whole
Speaker 2: bow movements when I first started dating Gen, right to
Speaker 2: the point that my roommate's girlfriend would be home and
Speaker 2: would know when I'm home because she'd hear me just
Speaker 2: slam through the front door and just bel and straight
Speaker 2: from the bus.
Speaker 3: Matt, you used to literally Matt would like before he
Speaker 3: would go see Jen, he would be like, hey, can
Speaker 3: I come over?
Speaker 1: I need to do a number two in your toilet.
Speaker 3: I was like, can you not do this somewhere else?
Speaker 3: And He's like, no, I'm about to say Jen's house
Speaker 3: for the night. I need to quickly do this at
Speaker 3: your house.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, no public toilets from the much I would Yeah. Look,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be ashamed if it happens. If you material,
Speaker 2: he'll laugh it often, and you know what, it could
Speaker 2: build another layer to your relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah true.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, look, I think that's all we've got time
Speaker 3: for today, Matt.
Speaker 1: That was a really fun episode. I enjoyed that. I
Speaker 1: think I learned quite a lot about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the sleeping positions. I mean, if anyone's having some
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