WEBVTT - WHAT HAPPENS IN BETWEEN THE SHEETS... 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.640 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:06.000 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:07.800 my kissing style with. 0:00:08.200 --> 0:00:11.000 A boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:13.760 a trash bin. He's non recyclable, catching ember. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:18.560 I love being love, I love love. On today's episode 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:20.800 of Where's Your Head At, we're jumping into bed and 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:23.960 discussing sleeping positions and what it says about your relationship. 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:28.560 So stay tuned to uncover what your sleeping configuration says 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:30.240 about you and your partner. 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:36.199 Where's your Head At. 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:40.480 Is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:42.960 trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:45.960 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:54.120 intimate details, advice, and much more. Okay, Anna, is it 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:57.360 worth mentioning that the jumper I just took off was 0:00:57.440 --> 0:00:59.680 given to me by you because some guy left it 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:01.320 at your house? Or are you going to leave that 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:02.120 and ignore it? 0:01:02.360 --> 0:01:03.200 What's it? 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:04.520 The jumper I just took off? 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:06.520 Let me see it? 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:08.640 Do you remember what old make hat? 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:10.280 What is that? 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:11.559 Yeah? 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:17.040 Stop, you didn't say anything. We just literally recorded that episode. 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:18.640 You did not say anything about it, and I was 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:19.800 waiting for you too as well. 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:24.080 Sorry guys, Hi, how are you? And that just absolutely 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:27.160 dropped a bomb on me that he's wearing my ex's jumper. 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:31.640 Yeah. So remember one time I was going through your 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:33.440 wardrope something. I was leaving your house and you're like, 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:35.160 do you want this? And I was a bit of 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:36.559 your fee at the start, and I was like, fuck, 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:38.280 it fits me and it's a cool jumper. I'll have 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:41.480 it like a glove. I'll take that. It's actually a 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:44.119 backbone of my wardrobe. I actually rock at a fair bit. 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:49.000 Well, if he follows you on Instagram, he might see 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:51.600 that way, he might call you and asked for it back. 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:55.440 Sorry, mate, it's mine. Now you leave it at someone's house. 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:57.320 It's free game, I reckon. Yeah. 0:01:57.400 --> 0:01:58.280 How was your weekend? 0:01:58.320 --> 0:01:58.360 That? 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.320 It was good? It was good, not much, just relaxed, 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:02.320 slept a little bit. 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:04.280 Nice. I became a godparent. 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:06.160 Congratulations, thank you. 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:09.959 My second role as a godparent. I was very honored 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:10.440 to be ours. 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:12.760 That's that's so who is it to you? Then? 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:16.600 So it's my cousin's kids. So I'm now godparent to 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:20.120 both of her sons, Spencer and Liam. It was so 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.639 funny though, I literally got to the church and there 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:24.959 was this lady there who was wearing exactly the same 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:25.600 outfit as me. 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:28.720 It was fine, though, like I didn't mind. I thought 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:29.600 she looked amazing. 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.200 I was like, all nice outfit, and then I was like, oh, 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:33.240 I'm wearing the exact same outfit, so We're both wearing 0:02:33.240 --> 0:02:38.520 white suits. Who looks I think she looked hard. She 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:40.440 was looking like fresh to death. 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:42.519 She looked. Well, you were down in my neck of 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:45.480 the woods. I saw that I was, and I went 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:47.959 to school masses at the church you're at. 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:49.200 Yeah, that's weird. 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:53.639 Hey, what was it Michaels Saint Michael's. 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:54.799 Yeah, Michael was like, this is. 0:02:57.040 --> 0:02:58.720 But I did see as well on your Instagram, so 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:00.920 I saw that. But I did see that you bought 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:04.000 some pillows, yes yourself. What was going on there? 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:04.600 Oh my god. 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.400 So Michael and I have been having the worst night 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:10.040 sleeps I reckon for like three weeks and we've just 0:03:10.080 --> 0:03:13.440 said nothing about it, like other than putting deep heat 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:15.919 on our necks in the morning when. 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:16.480 We wake up. 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:21.240 We've just like literally just accepted it. And then I 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:24.080 think on Sunday morning, I was like, enough is enough? 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:27.280 Like I need to buy new pillows. I'm willing to 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:31.079 buy a new mattress at this point because obviously it's something. 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:32.200 To do with how we're sleeping. 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:36.160 And like, I think we even got a humidifier in 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:39.240 the room as well, because we've been waking up with 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:41.280 like kind of sore throats. So like there's just like 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:45.080 a whole lot of bad sleeping going on in our apartment. 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:46.800 What pillow did you get? 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:49.440 So we got a pillow? I don't even know a 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:53.160 memory frome, Yeah, memory from pillow. I like tested at 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:56.040 least forty different pillows, like you like, yeah, go on 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:59.800 to the bed. Michael is like the most annoying person 0:03:59.840 --> 0:04:02.000 to go pillow shopping with. He would like need to 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:06.520 close his eyes, like get in this sleep zone, and 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:09.160 even then he couldn't make up his mind. But we 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.600 both ended up getting different pillows. I think he got 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:14.520 the what's it called, what's condoms made out of latex? 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:15.760 He got a late pillo. 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:19.440 I wait till I start on my pillow stories. I've 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:20.679 got them for you, don't you worry. 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:24.640 But anyway, last night was the first night of both 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:27.520 of us having our new pillows, and I swear to god, 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:30.919 I had the best sleep I've had other than staying 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:34.039 at hotels, but the best sleep I've had in my 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:36.080 own bed in so long. 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:39.720 Look, I'm a massive advocate for getting the right pillow. 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:42.400 So I reckon. When I was wrestling like full time 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:44.720 every weekend, twice a weekend, I couldn't move, Like I 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:47.320 genuinely could not get out of bed. I was so sore. 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:51.279 So I got gifted a pillow from my ex. It 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:54.560 was like this like memory foam one, and I fucking 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:55.520 swear by him, like. 0:04:55.520 --> 0:05:00.360 Literally underrated gift, Like for someone to gift you good sleep, Yeah, 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:01.600 that's gotta be up there. 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:04.159 So she gave me that, and then I remember my 0:05:04.400 --> 0:05:06.719 next girl, from my next ex, I was like, look, 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:09.040 I can't have these pillows, like these are no good. 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:11.440 So I went out and bought new ones. And then 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:16.320 it's so funny with Jen. I'm fucking literally like within 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:18.440 like weeks of like a week of sleeping in her bed, 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:20.080 I was like I fucking heard enough. I'm like this 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:24.240 mattress sucks. I'm like this pillow fucking sucks. And then 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:26.440 I made her this is like literally a week, ten 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:28.960 days into seeing each other by a new memory phone 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:30.040 mattress and. 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:32.880 You can't make someone buy new pillows. Now, you've got 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:33.640 to do the vibe. 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:35.560 Well, you know what I said, Look, even if this 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:39.040 doesn't end up like going into relationship, I've just blessed 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:41.760 her with a new pillow. And yeah, I've done it 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:45.159 and given her the encouragement to do it. So she now, yeah, 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:47.960 it's funny enough. She actually the pillow she bought for 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:50.600 her her bed I loved so much. I went at 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:52.040 the time and bought for my bed as well. 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:54.600 Really, yeah, you know what, it's something we don't think of. 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:56.720 And the lady at the shop was like, yeah, you're 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.360 supposed to replace your pillows every three years, and I 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:03.200 was like, what, I've had the same pillows for ten 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:05.080 plus years, not even kidding. 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:07.560 One of my pillows because I literally went, so you 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:09.400 said that, right, So the original pillow I had that 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:11.159 was memory fohe it was time to be a new one, 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:13.680 I reckon. I bought four before I found the right one. 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:15.359 I literally was going back and forth by and my 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:17.440 mum's house is a stack of pillows on my bed 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:20.680 of just mis miserrid ones that I didn't they weren't 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:23.640 the right one. Yeah, yeah, and they're quite expensive. As 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:24.640 well when you think about it. 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:26.160 Like, uh, yeah, three hundred dollars. 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:26.400 Yeah. 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:28.320 I was about to say, yeah, I spent like it 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:30.239 was half priced and it was like two forty or something. 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:33.560 But best three hundred dollars I have ever said. Actually, no, 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:34.360 it's a lie. 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:36.080 I was at to say, I spent three hundred dollars 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:39.200 and some no, some better stuff. 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:41.880 No, actually it was one eighty because it was it 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:43.880 was it was the black sale or something. 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:45.839 I never never paid full price for him. 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:48.520 Yeah, we went to DFO. Actually it was very good. 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:50.719 A good buget is meant to be three hundred. We 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:52.839 got it for one eighty. Best one hundred and eighty 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:56.520 dollars that I've ever spent. But speaking of like pillows, 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:59.799 when you're single, and like you know, you might start stinging, 0:07:00.760 --> 0:07:02.120 like this is a real problem. 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:03.479 If they've not got good. 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:05.960 Pillows, it's not good. That could be a deal breaker. 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:07.600 What do you think, Well, well, just do what I 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:09.560 did and tell them to get the right pillow. 0:07:10.320 --> 0:07:12.280 If you're a bit more polite like me, I just 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:14.520 like suck it up and like walk out with like. 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:15.320 A creaked neck. 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:17.560 I couldn't take it. I was like, no, we need 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:20.840 to get a new pillow. But talking about sleeping, I've 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:23.240 tried something new. So where everyone gets their facts from 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:25.880 these days, TikTok I saw a, I saw it. 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:28.760 You need to fact check the facts from TikTok I reckon, 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:29.720 But yeah, I continue. 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:32.000 I saw that it's good for men to sleep naked. 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:35.400 So I've heard that. Yeah, so it was like for 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.160 the balls with the produce of sperms. So whatever's going 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:40.440 on in there, like I need you know, I'm taking 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:42.160 risks now. I can do whatever I can to try 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:45.720 and makes like something happened there. So you're on. 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:46.880 Your infertility journey. 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:49.400 So if they're saying sleep naked, I'm sure that you 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:50.520 can happily do that. 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:52.360 That's the funniest thing. I do it now before we 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:54.600 go sleep, because I obviously wear boxes so I can 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:57.000 go around the house. I literally take them off discreetly 0:07:57.080 --> 0:08:02.200 under the sheets and just place someone's chest. I just 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:02.920 wink at her. 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:07.680 But so how does she react? 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:09.360 I just like laugh and sort of put some on 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:09.760 the ground. 0:08:09.960 --> 0:08:13.080 She's like, there's some skin musk. 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:17.640 Yeah, no, I'm very hygienic. But then, so I've been 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:20.200 sleeping naked. I've actually enjoyed it's I've gotten used to 0:08:20.200 --> 0:08:21.960 it now, So the first couple of days, first weeks, 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:23.200 I was sort of like, oh, this is a bit 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:24.880 weird and used to It's a bit annoying when I 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:26.880 have to go up and go to the bathroom, put 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:30.360 on you know, like job chili on the yeah, you know, 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:33.960 in case someone sees me but insane. Yeah, so in 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:37.360 case like Nicki and Murph seeing but insaying that. Right, 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:43.040 So we're asleep, Jane and myself, Nicky and Murph have 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:46.520 gone out and they've they've forgotten a key. So it's 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:48.880 probably like two am, three am. They've knocked on the door, 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:52.679 rang the doorbell. I've sprung out of bed, completely forgotten 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:56.800 about putting any jocks on or anything like that. Oh no, Maverick. 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:59.200 They're puppy who's one year old. If anyone knows anything 0:08:59.200 --> 0:09:01.640 about Hungarian Visler's, they're a big dog, right. 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:03.319 He's full of energy full. 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:06.679 I once saw him leap off two back legs onto 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:08.880 the bed. I've never said. I couldn't believe it. I 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:10.680 was like, that kid's got better hops than I do, 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:13.520 Like he literally leapt and landed on the bed. So 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:16.280 he's full of energy. You've met him. He's he's a handful. 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.320 So I've gotten up. I've just put my hand to 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:22.480 cover my the package. I've gone out to the door. 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:25.360 I've opened the door for him. Maverick's so excited because 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:27.400 he hasn't seen his parents in like what eight hours. 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:30.480 I've been out all night. He's going ballistic. They've got 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:33.040 hands full of cause I've been a dinner party, dinner plates, 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:36.160 dinner balls, and I've literally tried to grab Maverick in 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:38.679 my half sleep. He's yanked through. 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:40.800 One hand on the package, one hand on the jar. 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:43.360 He's come through my legs somehow, so I've lost control 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:44.640 of him. They're like, whoa wall. So I had to 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:49.160 grab him with both hands. Everything's swinging everywhere. His tail's 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:51.760 whipping me in the nuts. I'm trying to hold this dog. 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:54.000 Nicky's like, oh my god, Mad, I'm like, fucking hell, 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:57.320 I'm trying to get your dog. Mrv's kissing himself. Everything's 0:09:57.360 --> 0:10:00.480 out for display. I just literally took my half back 0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:02.319 into my bedroom. I was I hope that never gets 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:03.280 spoken about again. 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:04.559 Are you mortified? 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:08.559 I mean, I'm not afraid to show it, but it's 0:10:08.559 --> 0:10:09.400 still embarrassing. 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:14.120 It's your girlfriend's twin sister has seen your dick. 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:16.680 Yeah, so I hope that there was a bit of 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:21.360 blood pumping through it. No, so, yeah, it was. Everything 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:23.360 was everywhere. The dog was whipping me with his tail, 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:25.840 literally hitting my balls. I was trying to grab him, 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:28.520 hold him. Everyone's trying to friendly close the door. This 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:34.400 is at three am. So what Yeah, so I thought 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:35.960 i'd be worth having funny story. 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:39.400 Wow, poor Nikki. I'm sure that was a sight for 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:40.040 sore eyes. 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:41.199 I mean, poor Nikki. 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:45.720 I'm glad it was me, Nikky. 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:49.360 So on that should we talk about sleeping positions and 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:50.000 how you sleep? 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:52.320 I think we sure. Let's jump in. 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:59.000 All right. And so when Michael moved in all those 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:01.320 months ago, who picks the side of the bed that 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:01.880 you sleep on? 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:06.440 I mean from the first night that he ever slept over, 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:08.840 I already had my side. 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:10.920 My side is always. 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:13.840 The furthest away from the door, because like I think mentally, 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:16.600 I always think like, well, maybe they'll go for the other. 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:20.920 Person if they're closest to the door first. I'm so selfish. 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:23.760 Really, well, that is true, Like a lot of men 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:25.320 always sleep on the door side. 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:26.520 So I saw that. 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:29.040 Yeah, it goes from like back when we were like cavemen. 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:31.800 Even the one who would protect the house would be 0:11:31.840 --> 0:11:33.439 the one that would sleep at the door. 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:35.600 It's kind of cute if you think about it, because 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:38.439 they're like being the protector, so if anyone's like coming 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:40.320 through the door, they're going to leap onto. 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:45.280 Them and take them down. In saying that Jen and I, 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:48.520 Jen sleeps by the door. She's such a stickler for 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:51.280 her side that she sleeps on and wants to fly 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:53.360 on this side of her because she's got a saw back. 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:55.840 She takes the door side, which for me at the 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:59.000 start was uncomfortable because I'm used to sleeping in that 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:02.200 position and face that side, so it was a lot 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:02.760 to get used to. 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:06.040 Maybe that says that she's very protective over you, because, 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:09.480 as we've recently realized that when we were doing research 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:14.000 for this episode, all of these sleeping positions they mean things. 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:16.680 Yeah, which we'll touch on later, but I don't see 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:20.720 Jen jumping out of bed if I do, Chel comes 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:21.600 into the bedroom. 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:24.720 Should be protective of you, yeah, I mean you're like 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:27.600 ten foot tall about her, so you'd probably just leap over. 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:30.520 And well, every time we've heard I've always jumped out 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:31.880 of bed. Like I said in the story before, I'll 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:33.720 jump out of bed if there's a noise on the door. 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:36.560 But yeah, for a bit that was uncomfortable. But she yeah, 0:12:36.600 --> 0:12:39.400 she sleeps on that side. Do you have any rules 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:40.720 when you're sharing a bed with Michael. 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:43.320 No, I don't think we have any rules as such. 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.240 Like I think we both share the bed pretty well. 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:51.120 We're both quite similar. The only thing I reckon is 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:56.400 I occasionally love like eating in bed, and Michael is 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:58.400 just like he's like, this is a. 0:12:58.280 --> 0:12:59.400 Strong no from me. 0:13:00.760 --> 0:13:05.760 Off my nut yet, but like, think about it. 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:08.000 If you like have had a busy day, it's like 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:10.360 eight pm, I have like I don't know, like a 0:13:10.400 --> 0:13:13.240 salad or a ball of pasta or my dinner, and 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:15.640 like I just want to because we have a TV 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:17.920 in our room, yep, Like I just want to jump 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:21.880 into bed, get cozy, eat my dinner and watch TV. 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:23.400 Like I think that's fine. 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:26.480 Yes, I can't know. I don't like eating in the bed. 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:30.400 I mean that's like hell, I'll allow it, like you said, 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.640 if it's like a dessert maybe and you're in bed 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:35.120 watching TV, I'll allow that, and that's a fair play. 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:38.200 But just dinner or like something that's crummy like chips, 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:39.559 and then you're like laying you on crumbs. 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:43.200 You're not crump crumb, not crumbs, for sure, not crumbs. 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:45.400 Do you guys have a TV in your bedroom? 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:47.840 Yes? So Jen never used to have a TV in 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:50.120 her bedroom, and I was like, I need a TV. 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:52.880 I need a TV, So do I need one? Like 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.360 it's to me that goes out saying I love That's 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:57.319 nothing better than laying in bed watching TV. 0:13:57.520 --> 0:13:58.640 Say it's so good. 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:03.760 Like my ideal morning is to literally wake up, get 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:06.280 a coffee, and watch morning TV in bed and just 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:08.240 like get caught up with what's happening in the world. 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:10.320 Like that to me is like a dream morning, even 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:11.840 if it's just for like fifteen minutes. 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:13.960 That does sound I do like that as well. My 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.040 I think I've established but we'll touch on love languages 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:19.800 when we do. But my love language is laying in 0:14:19.840 --> 0:14:24.360 bed with my partner Jen watching a TV show or 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:27.840 a movie that we're both into, So no phones, no distractions, cutting. 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:29.440 I think that is fucking amazing. 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:30.280 That's really good. 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:32.600 That's like literally my love language. Like I love that. 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:36.200 Yeah, So that's your love language, Matt, And I think 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:40.280 I'm definitely like in the same boat without Like I 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:44.240 absolutely love watching a good true crime documentary with Michael 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:46.080 that we're both really into, or a show that we're 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:48.600 really into. Like when I think of like some of 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:51.280 our great times, I think of watching ninety Day Fiance 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:51.800 in bed. 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:55.280 I love that show. We were both like glued to it. 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:59.760 It's so hilarious, like some amazing TV moments on there, 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.040 and it just like makes you happy, right. 0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:04.960 It's actually literally like makes me so content. 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:07.680 But I wanted to bring something up with you because 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:11.000 I remember ages ago you touched on this and I 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:13.960 don't know if you're actually you'll remember you told me 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:17.120 about your like alter ego. 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:19.040 I knew this was going to come off if we're 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:19.760 talking about this. 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.480 Yeah, I want to share this because I feel like 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:25.080 this is like if you were ever gonna share it, 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:27.040 now would be the time now that we're talking about 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:29.200 like sleeping positions and like you. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:33.480 Know, Okay, So I have an alter ego, as you 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:37.200 touched on, he goes by the name of the cuddle Monster. 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.840 So let me just okay, So the cuddle Monster, I 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:48.880 used to say to Jen, Look, Matthew's eating, he's full, 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:55.680 but the cuddle monster is hungry. Let's get to bed. So, 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:57.240 like I used to just say it all the time. 0:15:57.280 --> 0:15:59.600 I'd be like, let's get into bed. The cuddle Monster's coming. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:01.560 She's just like, you know, I say like jokes and 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:04.560 be like as I was cuddling her arm, cuddle Monster, like. 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:07.760 The voice, I want to hear the voice cuddle It 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:08.120 was like. 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:12.840 So then we're just like it just became a thing, 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:14.840 Like it just literally just became our thing. And then 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:17.800 for Christmas, I bought her so we're like, what does 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:20.160 the cuddle monster look like? And I was like, to me, 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:23.400 he's Sully from Monsters, Inc. And she's like, yeah, he is. 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:27.080 So I bought her this stuffed Sully from Monsters Inc. 0:16:27.160 --> 0:16:29.480 So she can like, yeah, soft toy, so she can 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:31.720 cuddle the cuddle Monster when I'm not there or I'm away. 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:38.080 It eventually evolved, keeps evolving when she was away, I'll 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:40.480 tell this story. So when she was away, I ordered 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:44.600 a onesie of Sully. 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:47.280 That's a mere selfie of him in this onesie and 0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:52.200 I was like, okay, right, so she's. 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:54.720 Gone off, had a shower, and I literally worded Nikki 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:56.560 and Murph up. So there's actually a video of it. 0:16:56.600 --> 0:17:00.360 I'll share this video if Jen lets me. Yeah. So 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:03.800 she's come out of the shower and I'm dressed, laying 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:08.040 in bed in a full Sully ones laying there and 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:10.280 she got yeah, she loved it. It was as so I 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:10.920 cuddled her in. 0:17:10.880 --> 0:17:12.840 My Sully sober question. 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:15.840 So this is like, you know, it's getting to about 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:18.479 eight o'clock at night, and then you know you've had dinner, 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:21.440 you're full, and then you're like, Okay, the cuddle monster's 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:22.040 coming out. 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:25.560 This is about cuddles or is this about sex? 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.680 It's strictly cuddles. It's literally just cuddles. 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:31.840 So it doesn't turn into a sexual thing. No, this 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:33.560 isn't like some role playing. 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:34.960 It actually hasn't yet. 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:38.600 But because you haven't outfit, I was like, this could 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:40.760 be a role playing type of vibe. 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:44.120 I'm into role playing, and there's I'll have another role 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:47.000 playing story for you, but I think let's just keep 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:53.320 the cuddle monster cuddle turning into some dirty cuddle on 0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:55.960 so that one's dirty cuddles, like what's not what's the 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:59.520 word like that? Unless Gen's into that then you know, 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:04.359 but then I'll definitely be down whatever you know. I mean, 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:05.760 you name a kink. I've got it. 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:06.880 Yeah. 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:09.600 Well, look, I thought it was interesting that you had 0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:12.520 this alter ego, and it's actually a very sweet, wholesome 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:15.760 alter ego. I feel like a lot of girls would 0:18:15.760 --> 0:18:17.639 be into that if their boyfriends wanted to be the 0:18:17.640 --> 0:18:18.320 Condor Monster. 0:18:21.000 --> 0:18:22.440 We love a bit of dress up. 0:18:22.640 --> 0:18:25.520 So on that, should we touch on sleeping positions? I 0:18:25.600 --> 0:18:26.240 think we should? 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:32.359 Okay, Matt, So did you know that we spend fifteen 0:18:32.400 --> 0:18:37.040 percent of our time sleeping, So obviously it's important to 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:40.920 have nice pillows like I just got nice bedding. All 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:42.760 of these things really make a difference. 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:44.360 But we want to talk. 0:18:44.160 --> 0:18:49.040 About what it means when you cuddle your partner in 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:52.480 a specific way, because there's all of these hidden meanings. 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:55.639 We recently found this out and we were super interested 0:18:55.640 --> 0:18:58.679 in this because we both have very different sleeping positions. 0:18:59.280 --> 0:19:02.080 So we are going to touch on that now. 0:19:03.200 --> 0:19:05.679 Interestingly, though, Matt, I don't know if you know this, 0:19:05.800 --> 0:19:07.520 but obviously we have a left side and the right 0:19:07.520 --> 0:19:09.879 side of the brain, and I think when you sleep 0:19:09.920 --> 0:19:12.480 on the right side, it means that you're less likely 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:15.880 to have nightmares because you're sleeping on your more creative side. 0:19:16.040 --> 0:19:17.199 What side do you sleep on. 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:19.520 Then I definitely sleep on my right side. And when 0:19:19.520 --> 0:19:21.680 I found out this statistic, I was like, that makes 0:19:21.720 --> 0:19:25.280 sense because I don't really have many nightmares as such. 0:19:25.480 --> 0:19:28.080 Yeah, I don't. I switch sides, so all the night 0:19:28.160 --> 0:19:31.480 I switch sides. Yeah, I wouldn't say that I've had 0:19:31.520 --> 0:19:33.040 a nightmare in a long time, So I must spend 0:19:33.080 --> 0:19:35.120 majority of my time. I fall asleep on my right side, 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:36.760 so I reckon, I spend the majority of the night 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:37.640 on my right side. 0:19:37.720 --> 0:19:38.280 Yeah. 0:19:38.040 --> 0:19:40.439 And so then when you sleep on the left side, 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:44.040 it means that you're probably gonna have more intricate, complex 0:19:44.440 --> 0:19:47.639 dreams like where I guess in those dreams you're doing. 0:19:47.480 --> 0:19:48.679 A lot more problem solving. 0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:52.960 And I really like after finding this out, I actually 0:19:53.000 --> 0:19:55.320 woke up this morning on my left side and I 0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:58.719 was having like the deepest, most complex dream and I 0:19:58.760 --> 0:20:02.080 was like, whoa, it's actually, like it's true, makes sense. 0:20:02.640 --> 0:20:06.000 I do I remember like the key points. But sometimes, 0:20:06.080 --> 0:20:09.080 actually after I have like crazy dreams. Because I believe 0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:12.080 that dreams like is your subconscious talking to you. I 0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:14.679 sometimes write down my dreams so that I remember them 0:20:14.720 --> 0:20:16.800 and then I try to like pull meaning from them. 0:20:17.040 --> 0:20:20.280 That probably sounds a bit like we were in far Fetch. 0:20:20.320 --> 0:20:24.080 But I actually, like genuinely believe it. I mean, it 0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:25.959 is your subconscious talking to you. 0:20:26.359 --> 0:20:32.400 Oh yeah, I've had excess in the past. Say well, 0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:34.600 my act was like I had a dream that you 0:20:34.640 --> 0:20:36.440 did this in this and like would be angry at 0:20:36.440 --> 0:20:38.040 me for the rest of the day. And I'm like, 0:20:38.080 --> 0:20:40.919 that was a dream. It's not real, Like it's it's 0:20:41.000 --> 0:20:43.359 not real, like I think. I don't know. I don't 0:20:43.359 --> 0:20:44.200 take much from them. 0:20:44.280 --> 0:20:46.199 Yeah, but like if you're dreaming about your partner that 0:20:46.200 --> 0:20:47.920 they're angry at you, that's one thing. But I think 0:20:47.960 --> 0:20:52.880 if you're having these like over the top, crazy, like 0:20:53.520 --> 0:20:56.240 very vivid dreams, like I think that that could be 0:20:56.280 --> 0:20:57.960 your subconscious trying to tell you something. 0:20:58.119 --> 0:20:59.879 Yeah, look like I said, like I always say on here, 0:20:59.920 --> 0:21:02.639 I'm open to whatever. I never shut anything down, Like 0:21:02.720 --> 0:21:04.160 I see the truth in that as well. 0:21:04.280 --> 0:21:06.399 I don't know. I definitely put meaning from dreams. I 0:21:06.400 --> 0:21:08.080 don't know. What do you guys think? Let us know 0:21:08.200 --> 0:21:10.480 on the Where's your Head Out? Facebook page? 0:21:10.840 --> 0:21:14.480 Okay, look, well let's talk about what your sleeping position 0:21:14.800 --> 0:21:15.600 says about you. 0:21:15.680 --> 0:21:15.920 Matt. 0:21:15.920 --> 0:21:19.040 There are a few what how do you guys sleep? 0:21:19.080 --> 0:21:22.520 Firstly, okay, So jen and I will get into bed 0:21:22.680 --> 0:21:25.120 and we will spoon. So I'll be the big spoon, 0:21:25.160 --> 0:21:28.120 she'll be the little spoon. Another thing that we have 0:21:28.359 --> 0:21:29.520 is that's called heaven. 0:21:30.280 --> 0:21:32.320 So heaven, Yeah, what do you mean? 0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:34.760 So we call when we're cuddling and we're about to 0:21:34.760 --> 0:21:37.760 fall asleep, we go, oh, we're in heaven. So like 0:21:37.840 --> 0:21:39.840 we'll message each other during the day like can't wait 0:21:39.880 --> 0:21:44.800 to go to Heaven tonight. We call it, like even 0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:47.879 to the point where our song is that you know, 0:21:49.040 --> 0:21:51.439 I'm in your arms, it feels like heaven, you know, baby, 0:21:53.160 --> 0:21:58.760 So that's Jenini's song because Heaven love that. So yeah, 0:21:58.359 --> 0:22:01.479 we call that heaven. So we'll spoon and we'll be like, oh, 0:22:01.520 --> 0:22:04.640 we're in heaven. And then I think, like any normally, 0:22:04.720 --> 0:22:06.560 I've found that there's a lot of couples would do this. 0:22:06.600 --> 0:22:08.600 Then when it becomes time to fall asleep, you sort 0:22:08.640 --> 0:22:10.879 of dismantle because I get too hot. I run so 0:22:10.920 --> 0:22:14.840 fucking hot. Yeah, so I'll like start off by moving 0:22:14.880 --> 0:22:17.320 my body out, just having my torso, and then my 0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:20.320 body I'll just depatch and I'll be except for it 0:22:20.320 --> 0:22:23.360 and fall asleep. So you'll just slowly move away from 0:22:23.359 --> 0:22:25.520 the real as I foremos say what about you and Michael? 0:22:25.600 --> 0:22:27.840 Well, I was thinking about this and I reckon we 0:22:28.000 --> 0:22:30.800 like we always like spoon at one point, like before 0:22:30.840 --> 0:22:34.040 we go to sleep, and then like we sleep like 0:22:34.080 --> 0:22:35.560 bum to bum touching a lot. 0:22:36.720 --> 0:22:38.040 It's like very like comforting. 0:22:38.240 --> 0:22:40.520 But we I asked Michael because I was like, I 0:22:40.560 --> 0:22:42.480 want to know how he thinks that we sleep. 0:22:42.640 --> 0:22:43.920 So this is what he said. 0:22:45.880 --> 0:22:48.880 He goes, I cuddle you, then you cuddle me, then 0:22:48.920 --> 0:22:50.440 I cuddle you, then we. 0:22:50.400 --> 0:22:52.520 Turn back to back to fall asleep. 0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:55.639 Then we fifty percent of the time wake up cuddling 0:22:55.880 --> 0:22:58.080 fifty percent of the time, wake up back to back, 0:22:58.280 --> 0:23:01.159 then we resume morning, cuddle, diish and have sex and 0:23:01.160 --> 0:23:02.320 then make coffee. 0:23:04.200 --> 0:23:07.840 Just went through a night with Anna and Michael. That's us. 0:23:08.200 --> 0:23:11.800 Yeah, sorry in detail by Michael morning sex so as well. 0:23:11.800 --> 0:23:14.680 That's good. Actually, that reminds me of a fun thing 0:23:14.760 --> 0:23:17.200 as well. Do you guys face each other when you're. 0:23:17.119 --> 0:23:20.679 Asleep sometimes, but like not in the morning because I 0:23:20.720 --> 0:23:21.720 hate morning breath. 0:23:22.080 --> 0:23:24.800 Okay, So one thing I love about Jen is we 0:23:24.840 --> 0:23:27.840 will literally rotate so like face to face, so we 0:23:27.880 --> 0:23:29.640 won't so if one turns and we're face to face 0:23:29.680 --> 0:23:31.440 the other one. We'll go okay, like in the middle 0:23:31.480 --> 0:23:33.720 of the night, and we'll turn the same way, so 0:23:33.760 --> 0:23:35.520 we're like spooning. Do you know what I mean? So 0:23:35.520 --> 0:23:36.560 we're not face to face. 0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:38.640 Oh yeah, So you go from like spooning one side 0:23:38.680 --> 0:23:39.239 to spoinning the other. 0:23:39.320 --> 0:23:41.080 Yeah. So if one rolls over, the other one will 0:23:41.160 --> 0:23:43.679 roll with them, because there's nothing worse. I remember them 0:23:43.680 --> 0:23:45.919 when you leave with someone, like a first night with 0:23:46.000 --> 0:23:48.560 someone sleeping, and you'd be face to face and I 0:23:48.560 --> 0:23:50.920 reckon it was like a stale mate and just breathing. 0:23:50.920 --> 0:23:51.800 You're going to see who. 0:23:51.800 --> 0:23:53.879 Like breathing in each other's breath. 0:23:53.840 --> 0:23:56.520 Who rolls over first. I hate that, So I. 0:23:56.560 --> 0:23:59.240 Don't mind that if the breath's okay, it's all about 0:23:59.240 --> 0:23:59.639 the breath. 0:23:59.640 --> 0:24:01.840 For me, I don't like it. It gives me your 0:24:02.160 --> 0:24:04.080 key vibes if you're falling asleep face to face. 0:24:04.160 --> 0:24:06.080 Actually yeah, if it's warm breath on your face. If 0:24:06.080 --> 0:24:07.200 it's too close, it's not. 0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:09.760 A vibe you have like a stale mate. 0:24:09.840 --> 0:24:10.400 It's not a vibe. 0:24:10.440 --> 0:24:12.920 Anyway. Let's go through the sleeping positions. So the first 0:24:12.920 --> 0:24:16.480 one we have is the spoon or the loose spoon. 0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:18.680 So we all know the spooning position. I reckon, it's 0:24:18.680 --> 0:24:22.200 probably the most common, right yep, definitely, yeah. So basically 0:24:22.240 --> 0:24:26.440 it indicates protectiveness and comfort. It's also pretty sexual and 0:24:26.840 --> 0:24:30.160 is favored by couples who are comfortable with intimacy. 0:24:30.840 --> 0:24:33.440 So what Michael said, I used sometimes a big spoon. 0:24:33.720 --> 0:24:36.080 Yeah, like I reckon, we do this switch as well. 0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:38.399 So we always start with me being the little spoon, 0:24:38.480 --> 0:24:39.640 but then he gets hot. 0:24:39.480 --> 0:24:41.159 And then I'm like nope, I'm coming back. 0:24:41.760 --> 0:24:44.040 And then I'm like, okay, I'm done with this side, 0:24:44.119 --> 0:24:46.040 and then I move back and he'll follow me. So 0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:49.520 it's kind of like this like little game of tag 0:24:49.560 --> 0:24:49.960 we play. 0:24:51.359 --> 0:24:54.600 Throws her little arm over and spoon. It's like that 0:24:54.720 --> 0:24:57.720 ain't doing anything, Like it doesn't even reach like fully 0:24:57.760 --> 0:25:02.040 over my body. Spoony. Spoony's great, it's heaven. Like I 0:25:02.040 --> 0:25:03.399 said before, it's heaven. 0:25:03.680 --> 0:25:06.760 So that's a chasing spoon. So then we have the 0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:11.399 unraveling knots. So basically the knot starts with, you know, 0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:16.440 lots of cuddles and then slowly they separate and gain 0:25:16.520 --> 0:25:19.399 some independence. So it's kind of like a compromise between 0:25:19.440 --> 0:25:22.200 intimacy and independence. So you kind of get the best 0:25:22.200 --> 0:25:25.920 of both worlds. So about eight percent of couples favor 0:25:26.080 --> 0:25:28.440 this position. What do you think about the unraveling knots. 0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:31.199 I'm not a fan of like being all tangled up. 0:25:31.960 --> 0:25:35.800 I hate it, like limbs everywhere that's getting the egg. Yeah, yeah, 0:25:35.800 --> 0:25:37.320 it just doesn't do you do like have you ever 0:25:37.359 --> 0:25:40.520 done that? I mean sometimes watching TV? Because the way 0:25:40.560 --> 0:25:42.600 our beds set up the TV, it's sort of if 0:25:42.680 --> 0:25:45.120 Gen's on her back, I'll be facing it and then 0:25:45.280 --> 0:25:47.160 we'll be sort of nossed up. But there's no way 0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:51.280 you could help out. My arms move fish like the 0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:54.960 tickle months here. It's like it like one of those 0:25:55.240 --> 0:25:58.080 things out in the front of a car yard. My 0:25:58.240 --> 0:26:01.359 arms are wobbling everywhere. Yeah, so then I couldn't fall 0:26:01.400 --> 0:26:02.560 asleep knotted. I don't know. 0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:05.479 Uh yeah, like so they start k nodded and then 0:26:05.480 --> 0:26:06.720 they slowly separate. 0:26:06.800 --> 0:26:09.240 I don't know about that one. No, I'm not sure 0:26:09.240 --> 0:26:09.800 if we do that. 0:26:10.000 --> 0:26:11.440 No, I wonder if anyone's a fan of that. 0:26:11.520 --> 0:26:14.600 Let us know eight percent of couples, I reckon. Then 0:26:14.640 --> 0:26:18.360 we have the back kissers. So the back kissers fall 0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:21.480 asleep back to back with contact along the spine. So 0:26:21.560 --> 0:26:23.960 I reckon this one is me and Michael. So we 0:26:24.040 --> 0:26:27.960 fall asleep touching bum to bum and we literally love 0:26:28.040 --> 0:26:28.560 that position. 0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:32.800 So bum kisses the bum kisses. I okay, So when 0:26:32.840 --> 0:26:35.479 I read this, I said to you, I think that 0:26:35.760 --> 0:26:39.280 back to back is to me, I relate to arguing. 0:26:39.520 --> 0:26:41.680 So I think that it's like, you know, you're popp 0:26:41.720 --> 0:26:45.280 into bed and you're like two bookends. You're back to back. Yeah, 0:26:45.440 --> 0:26:47.880 but I guess if you like cuddle first then turn 0:26:47.960 --> 0:26:50.000 back to back, I don't think that's I think that's okay. 0:26:50.160 --> 0:26:53.720 No, So what the back kisser sleeping position actually means 0:26:53.960 --> 0:26:56.919 is it means that you're connected but independent enough to 0:26:56.960 --> 0:27:00.280 appreciate your own space because you're obviously still touching bum 0:27:00.320 --> 0:27:02.760 to bum or back to back, but you do still 0:27:02.760 --> 0:27:06.720 want to remain sexually connected despite your confidence to face 0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:09.600 in the opposite direction. So what they do say, though, 0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:14.439 which I found really interesting, is that normally people like 0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:17.159 this position when they're in a new relationship or in 0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:20.320 a new couple because they don't have any reason to 0:27:20.480 --> 0:27:22.200 distrust each other yet. 0:27:22.640 --> 0:27:25.200 And the yet part was what got me because I was. 0:27:25.160 --> 0:27:29.040 Like, ooh, that's that's how we're sleeping. Now, I wonder 0:27:29.080 --> 0:27:30.520 how we'll sleeping get are from. 0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:33.040 Now I am. Yeah, I was singing at that as well, 0:27:33.080 --> 0:27:35.480 Like I do think that like when you sleep back 0:27:35.480 --> 0:27:38.040 to back, it refers to arguing. But that's why I 0:27:38.080 --> 0:27:40.360 hate it. That's why I never fall asleep out angry. 0:27:40.600 --> 0:27:43.480 I hate fallings. That's why number one rule, never leave 0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:45.240 the house or never fall asleep angry. 0:27:45.440 --> 0:27:45.640 Never. 0:27:45.920 --> 0:27:48.480 So to me, we never sleep start sleeping off back 0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:48.800 to back. 0:27:49.000 --> 0:27:52.639 Never got to like to bed with an argument with 0:27:52.760 --> 0:27:55.560 anyone in general, because it does play on your mind, 0:27:55.640 --> 0:27:57.679 even if you're like I don't care about it whatever, 0:27:57.880 --> 0:28:01.240 subconsciously it kind of eats away. I hate having issues 0:28:01.240 --> 0:28:04.080 with anyone, even when we have fights, like I reckon, 0:28:04.119 --> 0:28:06.720 it like affects me like mentally as well. 0:28:07.000 --> 0:28:09.320 Yeah, of course it's training, it is. 0:28:09.359 --> 0:28:09.840 It's training. 0:28:09.920 --> 0:28:11.720 It's like you just want to be like all good 0:28:11.720 --> 0:28:13.320 with everyone in a happy play. 0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:14.119 Yeah, I agree. 0:28:14.160 --> 0:28:16.680 But yeah, like sleeping back to back, yes, it can 0:28:16.760 --> 0:28:19.520 be a sign of being in an argument, but if 0:28:19.520 --> 0:28:21.760 it's in a like if you're not in a fight, 0:28:21.840 --> 0:28:23.920 then it can just be a sign of comfortability. 0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:24.440 Mm hmm. 0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:29.600 Okay, So next we have the Liberty Lovers So another 0:28:29.640 --> 0:28:33.880 position more common with established couples. So this is sleeping 0:28:34.000 --> 0:28:36.679 back to back like you were talking about that, but 0:28:36.880 --> 0:28:39.920 with space. So this was the one that you would 0:28:40.040 --> 0:28:44.160 necessarily it feel like you would be potentially in an 0:28:44.280 --> 0:28:48.680 argument with someone. But interestingly, twenty seven percent of couples 0:28:48.680 --> 0:28:49.720 fall asleep this way. 0:28:50.080 --> 0:28:52.160 Yeah, I mean I can see how I like you 0:28:52.200 --> 0:28:53.840 cuddle and then you do that, like that's to me. 0:28:53.920 --> 0:28:56.040 I could fall asleep like that. Get your own space. 0:28:56.080 --> 0:28:58.640 Maybe it's a hot night. Yeah, air CON's not doing 0:28:58.640 --> 0:28:59.440 what it wants. 0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:03.040 It basically in case that you're connected and secure. So 0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:04.600 I don't know how secure we are. 0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:08.240 Relations there has to be a foot touching at least. 0:29:08.200 --> 0:29:09.520 And that's like we're in an argument. 0:29:09.600 --> 0:29:12.920 Yeah, get my foot touching somewhere at least. 0:29:13.200 --> 0:29:15.960 Yeah. I need to always be touching Michael to fall asleep. 0:29:16.160 --> 0:29:18.760 Even just like a finger on him, just like a 0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:19.640 little male. 0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:22.840 Than anything. 0:29:22.960 --> 0:29:26.120 But yeah, so I mean, I guess essentially people who 0:29:26.440 --> 0:29:29.520 sleep that way, it's basically saying that you can be 0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:33.560 close without touching. You can share a bed, but be independent, 0:29:34.400 --> 0:29:37.400 and it's okay to do things alone in your relationship, 0:29:37.520 --> 0:29:40.400 and you know, people can still reconnect in the morning 0:29:40.400 --> 0:29:41.160 when they wake up. 0:29:41.320 --> 0:29:45.040 We put a pole on our Instagram, and I swear 0:29:45.520 --> 0:29:49.320 practically everyone said that they sleep like that. Yeah, there was. 0:29:49.480 --> 0:29:51.960 There was not many that were not saying they slept 0:29:51.960 --> 0:29:53.040 like that back to back. 0:29:52.920 --> 0:29:56.240 You know, touching people like their personal space and that 0:29:56.240 --> 0:29:57.440 there's nothing wrong with that. 0:29:57.720 --> 0:29:59.840 Like I, me and Michael a lot of the time 0:30:00.280 --> 0:30:02.800 wake up like that at the very end of the 0:30:02.920 --> 0:30:05.120 night and then we're like, oh, okay, back to cuddle. 0:30:05.560 --> 0:30:07.600 I remember one of the first times I slept with 0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:10.760 Jen I literally I remember was in her old old house. 0:30:10.880 --> 0:30:15.040 I literally had my arm so tightly wrapped around her. 0:30:15.080 --> 0:30:16.760 I did not let go all night. 0:30:17.000 --> 0:30:18.920 And this is the first night you slept with. 0:30:19.880 --> 0:30:21.960 One of the first ones, yeah, because she was in 0:30:22.040 --> 0:30:25.640 nurse and killed apartment. Literally cuddled her all night and 0:30:26.360 --> 0:30:28.760 in the morning she was like, God, you've after six 0:30:28.880 --> 0:30:30.959 years of like talking to me, you definitely didn't want 0:30:31.000 --> 0:30:31.360 to let. 0:30:31.280 --> 0:30:34.160 Me go because you've been trying to get out. 0:30:34.280 --> 0:30:35.840 I was like, yeah, I did not want to let 0:30:35.880 --> 0:30:36.760 go of you last night. 0:30:37.000 --> 0:30:38.400 That's so cute, you know. 0:30:38.440 --> 0:30:41.680 It was some of the most beautiful nights of sleep 0:30:41.760 --> 0:30:44.120 I've had with. Like Michael is when we'll just cuddle 0:30:44.160 --> 0:30:46.560 all night long, and it's just like sometimes it's for 0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:49.280 a reason and sometimes just because we're feeling extra loved art, 0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:52.200 but it is a really nice feeling to when someone 0:30:52.280 --> 0:30:54.480 wants to cuddle with you all night. And like, I 0:30:54.480 --> 0:30:56.840 remember the night that Michael told me he loved me, 0:30:57.080 --> 0:30:58.959 or the day he told me he loved me, and 0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:01.720 that night we just like cuddled so tightly all night. 0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:03.600 It was just so cute. It's very romantic. 0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:05.600 It is very romantic. That is cute. 0:31:06.040 --> 0:31:09.520 Okay, So next we have the nuzzle. So this is 0:31:09.520 --> 0:31:14.520 the ultimate trust and protection position. So this is common 0:31:14.880 --> 0:31:19.000 in new relationships but also rekindled relationships. So if you're 0:31:19.040 --> 0:31:22.000 getting back with your eggs, apparently the nuzzle is the 0:31:22.040 --> 0:31:24.200 common one that you go for. So this is when 0:31:24.640 --> 0:31:27.720 one partner sleeps with his or her head on the 0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:32.280 other's chest, creating a very nurturing environment, and then the 0:31:32.320 --> 0:31:33.840 other partner sleeps on their back. 0:31:34.400 --> 0:31:35.480 Have you done this with Michael? 0:31:35.880 --> 0:31:36.840 Yeah for sure. 0:31:37.120 --> 0:31:39.680 But sometimes he like will snuggle into my chest and 0:31:39.720 --> 0:31:41.280 I'll be on my back when we're watching TV. 0:31:41.640 --> 0:31:43.440 It's like I do like a bit of the nuzzle. 0:31:43.680 --> 0:31:46.080 I do that I couldn't fall asleep with the nuzzle. 0:31:46.200 --> 0:31:51.640 I know, I think and correct me. This is just 0:31:51.680 --> 0:31:53.800 an opinion. I think that if you can fall asleep 0:31:53.840 --> 0:31:58.040 on your back, you're a psychopath. What I just I 0:31:58.080 --> 0:31:59.959 say it to gen all the time. I reckon, if 0:31:59.960 --> 0:32:02.560 you can just literally lay in bed on your back 0:32:03.640 --> 0:32:07.120 and fall asleep, you've got demons just. 0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:09.400 Because you have like a psycho X who used to 0:32:09.440 --> 0:32:13.160 fall asleep on their backs. I'm hearing a bit of 0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:15.360 trauma coming through from you because. 0:32:17.880 --> 0:32:21.440 Basket and fall asleep, and I'd be like, woah, you're 0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:22.440 you know, well. 0:32:23.800 --> 0:32:25.040 Fall asleep on my back. 0:32:25.120 --> 0:32:27.440 It doesn't mean I can't. I can't, I can't. I 0:32:27.680 --> 0:32:32.720 just associate that with just yeah, stress, trauma, trauma, and 0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:35.960 just I always say to Jane, if you're falling asleep 0:32:36.000 --> 0:32:38.280 on your back, you're a psychopath. That's my opinion. Sorry, 0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:38.520 if he. 0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:40.520 Really wants to go to sleep on her back and 0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:41.880 now she's like, fuck, I can't. 0:32:42.240 --> 0:32:45.320 This guy's going to think I'm crazy. 0:32:45.000 --> 0:32:48.440 I reckon. She said that to me before. Actually so funny. 0:32:48.520 --> 0:32:50.440 Next we have the tangle. 0:32:51.040 --> 0:32:54.760 The tangle is the sleeping position that they classify as 0:32:54.760 --> 0:32:58.360 like the young love sleeping position, like the fresh relationship, 0:32:59.040 --> 0:33:01.640 you can't bear to be separated. I mean, if I 0:33:01.680 --> 0:33:03.800 think of you, Matt, this is the position that I 0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:06.720 would imagine you being because I know how neaty you are. 0:33:07.560 --> 0:33:09.719 Like I said before, it does make sense for me, 0:33:09.760 --> 0:33:12.480 but I hate being tangled up with all limbs everywhere. 0:33:12.680 --> 0:33:14.440 Really, Well, look how long were limbs are. 0:33:14.480 --> 0:33:15.600 They're just like everywhere. 0:33:15.800 --> 0:33:16.080 Yeah. 0:33:16.160 --> 0:33:19.440 True, So this is an incredibly intimate position that means 0:33:19.440 --> 0:33:22.640 you can't get enough of each other up. But for 0:33:22.760 --> 0:33:27.960 anyone who is sleeping in the tangle position, beware it 0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:30.560 can mean that if you're doing it six months into 0:33:30.560 --> 0:33:33.680 a relationship, that you are too dependent on each other 0:33:33.760 --> 0:33:35.040 and that's not where you want to be. 0:33:35.560 --> 0:33:38.840 Okay, dropping big facts there that people should just, you know, 0:33:39.160 --> 0:33:40.200 ye look out for. 0:33:40.360 --> 0:33:42.320 But like, yeah, you said that you're not a fan 0:33:42.360 --> 0:33:44.000 of it, and a lot of people agree with you. 0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:46.840 There's only two percent of couples who do prefer that position. 0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:49.120 Not surprised on that at all. 0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:51.720 Okay. The next one is the leg hug. 0:33:52.120 --> 0:33:54.080 So you just cuddle their leg No. 0:33:53.920 --> 0:33:56.680 No, no, So you're not cuddling a legs. Otherwise you'd 0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:57.000 be like. 0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:05.440 Way down that imagin on your legs. 0:34:05.760 --> 0:34:09.680 It's basically when you put a leg over, or you 0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:13.560 can both put we can both your legs over. There 0:34:13.640 --> 0:34:16.200 is a couple of things that this can mean. So 0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:19.600 if it's one person doing the hugging, so putting a legover, 0:34:19.800 --> 0:34:21.880 it could signal that they're craving. 0:34:21.840 --> 0:34:22.800 More of a connection. 0:34:23.640 --> 0:34:27.040 If you're both intertwined, then it means that you're equally 0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:30.920 passionate and the emotion and sexual connection is strong. And 0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:34.920 then the third interpretation of this actually means that there 0:34:34.960 --> 0:34:39.200 could be some mixed feelings and some worry about expressing 0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:42.439 affection and emotion and a bit of a fight and 0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:46.120 trying to maintain connection despite maybe some heated emotions. 0:34:46.160 --> 0:34:49.040 So there's lots of different things that can mean. 0:34:49.280 --> 0:34:50.439 Have you done the leg hug? 0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:52.880 I think occasionally like here and there, but. 0:34:52.800 --> 0:34:54.880 Like I do it if I need, Like if I 0:34:54.880 --> 0:34:58.320 want affection, you're watching TV or something, I'll throw the legover. 0:35:00.600 --> 0:35:02.680 You know, leave heaven for a bit and throw the 0:35:02.760 --> 0:35:06.160 leg over. You're like more more more, Yeah, like drag 0:35:06.200 --> 0:35:07.279 her in. Yeah. 0:35:07.320 --> 0:35:10.399 It's so funny though, because when you're single and like 0:35:10.719 --> 0:35:14.200 you sleep with someone for the first time, like it is. 0:35:14.160 --> 0:35:15.480 Interesting how you sleep. 0:35:16.280 --> 0:35:18.719 I know that I've had a lot of friends, or 0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:20.480 like if you have sex with someone and then you 0:35:20.560 --> 0:35:23.959 like both like turn ways, that's a bad sign. 0:35:24.000 --> 0:35:25.000 I reckon, do you. 0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:28.120 Think here's here's one for you that I've flag been 0:35:28.160 --> 0:35:30.160 in bed with people? And like when you cuddle and 0:35:30.200 --> 0:35:33.319 you spoon in that it just you don't fit. Yeah, 0:35:33.560 --> 0:35:35.480 You're just not there and it's just like, well, this 0:35:35.640 --> 0:35:38.880 sucking sucks. So just like this doesn't comfortable. And I 0:35:39.239 --> 0:35:41.400 genuinely say this a lot, like when we go to 0:35:41.400 --> 0:35:44.799 heaven that it actually is perfect. It's like two puzzle fit. Yeah, 0:35:44.880 --> 0:35:46.960 two puzzle pieces just fitting into each other. 0:35:47.000 --> 0:35:50.400 Well, sometimes I reckon when I say that I'm only 0:35:50.440 --> 0:35:53.240 into tall guys, it can come across as pretty shallow. 0:35:53.560 --> 0:35:55.319 Yeah, but there is a reason. 0:35:55.200 --> 0:35:58.839 And like one of the main reasons is that when 0:35:58.880 --> 0:36:02.359 we spoon or cuddle, if I'm not with a tall guy, 0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:06.200 it just doesn't fit. Like we don't fit in together. 0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:07.640 It's just a fact of life. 0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:09.200 Like I'm a tall girl. 0:36:09.400 --> 0:36:12.279 If I'm with a guy, my heart like I just 0:36:12.360 --> 0:36:14.440 feel too big, Like I want to feel little. 0:36:14.480 --> 0:36:15.520 I want to feel like. 0:36:15.480 --> 0:36:17.360 It would have made sense a short king would have 0:36:17.520 --> 0:36:19.960 like his head like resting on the back of your 0:36:20.040 --> 0:36:22.200 neck and then like to make it fit in or 0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:23.840 if he was to get up higher. 0:36:24.800 --> 0:36:26.400 Do you want the parts to connect? 0:36:26.480 --> 0:36:28.040 Yeah, you want it to make sense. 0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:30.040 Like the booty needs to go into the. 0:36:31.920 --> 0:36:35.640 Into its little cavity, little clothes, a little cave that 0:36:35.680 --> 0:36:36.760 it has to sliff into. 0:36:37.239 --> 0:36:40.480 Yeah. If that's like not aligned, it's it's not a 0:36:40.560 --> 0:36:41.080 vibe for me. 0:36:41.880 --> 0:36:44.360 I agree. That's a big point on picking a partner 0:36:44.440 --> 0:36:45.800 that has to align, I feel. 0:36:45.960 --> 0:36:49.800 Yeah, okay, So the next one is the stomach snoozeres 0:36:49.840 --> 0:36:51.640 Have you ever slept on your tommy before? 0:36:52.320 --> 0:36:52.520 Yeah? 0:36:52.600 --> 0:36:54.640 I reckon that's how majority of my nights I sleep 0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:58.120 faced really almost stomach really Yeah, do you know? 0:36:58.520 --> 0:37:01.000 I used to, but then only like I heard it's 0:37:01.040 --> 0:37:02.920 like not great for your boobs and like it kind 0:37:02.920 --> 0:37:05.600 of hurts, so so so I don't anymore. 0:37:06.520 --> 0:37:08.680 Yeah, I probably would crush the balls and that I 0:37:08.680 --> 0:37:10.120 should probably maybe rethink it. 0:37:10.400 --> 0:37:13.560 If you're a couple sleeping both of you on your stomach, 0:37:13.600 --> 0:37:19.120 it's indicating signs of anxiety, emotional fear, vulnerability or lack 0:37:19.160 --> 0:37:23.040 of control, and also a lack of sexual trust in 0:37:23.080 --> 0:37:24.040 a relationship. 0:37:24.760 --> 0:37:28.319 So that's some like big maybe potentials. 0:37:28.480 --> 0:37:30.600 But I would sleep by myself if I was single 0:37:30.680 --> 0:37:31.280 on my stomach. 0:37:32.120 --> 0:37:33.640 I mean, that makes a lot of sense. 0:37:34.200 --> 0:37:42.160 When you're single, you're very anxious, high emotional fear from you. 0:37:43.160 --> 0:37:46.319 So that might be true. Then okay, all right, well 0:37:46.520 --> 0:37:49.200 at least we're at least we're guaranteeing these facts are real, 0:37:49.239 --> 0:37:50.800 and then. 0:37:51.360 --> 0:37:55.080 That's actually amazing. Okay. 0:37:55.320 --> 0:37:57.920 The final one we have for you guys is the 0:37:58.040 --> 0:38:00.920 space hug, and this one is a red flag. So 0:38:01.000 --> 0:38:04.760 this is the one sleeping position where alarm bells should 0:38:04.800 --> 0:38:08.880 potentially go off. So if your partner spreads out with 0:38:09.040 --> 0:38:12.520 little regard for you and the bed, this could be 0:38:12.520 --> 0:38:15.719 a really negative sign for the relationship. It's kind of 0:38:15.760 --> 0:38:19.200 like behaving in a selfish manner, little regard for your needs, 0:38:19.239 --> 0:38:21.319 and they're kind of trying to, like, I guess, be 0:38:21.400 --> 0:38:22.520 the dominant partner. 0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:25.160 Yeah, if Jen turns around and says I'm a space hog, 0:38:25.200 --> 0:38:27.759 it's because we're established actually on a walk the other 0:38:27.880 --> 0:38:30.040 day that we should never have got a queen bed. 0:38:30.120 --> 0:38:32.800 We need to get a king I need a king bed. 0:38:32.760 --> 0:38:35.600 So I've got a queen too. I'm like, this is 0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:36.200 not it? 0:38:36.280 --> 0:38:37.960 Not it? I used to have a king bed and 0:38:38.040 --> 0:38:39.879 it was just so much better, Like there's so much 0:38:39.880 --> 0:38:41.400 more room for me because I'm obviously. 0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:43.239 Does Jen say you're a space hug. 0:38:43.080 --> 0:38:44.799 She say, I'm a space hodg. She says, I take 0:38:44.840 --> 0:38:46.560 off a lot of room, which I mean. 0:38:46.680 --> 0:38:49.160 I guess you kind of. Yeah, well, I mean it does. 0:38:49.400 --> 0:38:50.799 Apparently this is what it means. 0:38:50.800 --> 0:38:53.880 If the one partner dominates the bed, it's likely they 0:38:53.920 --> 0:38:59.960 dominate the relationship, relegating their partner into a secondary, submissive role. 0:39:00.680 --> 0:39:02.200 I wouldn't say I do it on purpose. I'd say 0:39:02.239 --> 0:39:04.320 it because I'm six foot six and like one hundred 0:39:04.320 --> 0:39:06.239 and five kilo. But I take up a lot of 0:39:06.239 --> 0:39:07.120 the bed. You know. 0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:08.520 That's like, don't blame me. 0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:11.200 I'm a big gun guy, and I have a tendency 0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:13.839 of moving down the bed for some reason and then 0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:16.640 so then like to keep my feet and chins and 0:39:16.719 --> 0:39:18.719 knees on the bed, I have to flick them to 0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:19.320 the side. 0:39:19.400 --> 0:39:19.560 Fuck. 0:39:19.640 --> 0:39:21.479 Don't you hate when your feet come off the bed? 0:39:21.600 --> 0:39:24.400 I has a very bad Yeah, it's very common for me. 0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:27.320 Yeah, not idea, idea. 0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:29.360 Okay, well, look, I guess it's that time of the 0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:30.040 show we've been. 0:39:29.960 --> 0:39:32.560 Waiting for Matt, where we ask you to ask us 0:39:32.640 --> 0:39:38.880 where our heads are at let's do it, okay. So 0:39:39.040 --> 0:39:43.440 the first question comes from our listener Kearley. She asks, 0:39:43.800 --> 0:39:47.200 I'm always cold and my partner runs quite hot. I 0:39:47.239 --> 0:39:48.600 can relate to this straight off the bat. 0:39:48.680 --> 0:39:50.920 Yeah, I was about to say, this is sounding familiar. 0:39:51.840 --> 0:39:54.680 He can sleep in underwear with just a sheet and 0:39:54.800 --> 0:39:57.520 aircon or fan going the whole night. On the other 0:39:57.600 --> 0:39:59.959 end of the spectrum, I am in full winter peede. 0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:01.680 This is sounding too familiar. 0:40:02.320 --> 0:40:04.320 I feel like you've written this in about yourself? 0:40:04.520 --> 0:40:08.520 Is this gen Because of this, we always argue about 0:40:08.520 --> 0:40:11.200 how to set up the bed. He insists that the 0:40:11.239 --> 0:40:14.080 body heat will keep me warm, but after the initial 0:40:14.080 --> 0:40:18.680 snuggle we part ways. I'm absolutely freezing, tips Kally. This 0:40:18.840 --> 0:40:22.400 is literally the first world and this is literally one 0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:24.759 of the problems that Jen and I have. Yeah, to 0:40:24.800 --> 0:40:27.120 be honest, we've had We've gone to arguments about this 0:40:27.200 --> 0:40:29.160 in the middle of the night because I absolutely wake 0:40:29.280 --> 0:40:31.799 up in the sweats, to the point where Jen has 0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:34.080 been like, you know what I mean, like you're wet, 0:40:34.200 --> 0:40:37.080 like get off me sort of thing, because I sweat 0:40:37.160 --> 0:40:39.839 and just on just a sheet and naked. I don't 0:40:39.880 --> 0:40:42.080 know what it is about me. I run hot my 0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:46.800 tip is in the changing of weather. I bought her thermals. 0:40:46.880 --> 0:40:50.319 I bought her like a big winter like sort of pajamas, 0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:51.799 and I bought her a heater, and I bought her 0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:52.640 an extra quilt. 0:40:52.680 --> 0:40:53.400 That's kid. 0:40:53.480 --> 0:40:55.400 Yeah it was. Yeah, it was a cute gesture of me. 0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:57.959 Shit it was. I left it on the bed because 0:40:57.960 --> 0:41:00.600 we argued and we left for that day and I 0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:01.719 went out of my way to buy it for it, 0:41:01.840 --> 0:41:03.560 so it was there for like an idle cute gesture. 0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:05.280 And she swears by the thermals. 0:41:05.320 --> 0:41:09.040 Yeah, love some thermals on a cold winter night. But fuck, 0:41:09.080 --> 0:41:11.120 there's nothing worse than arguing in the middle of the. 0:41:11.120 --> 0:41:15.720 Night like that, I know about something so insignificant because 0:41:15.760 --> 0:41:17.520 like I'm sweating and she wants to full and at 0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:19.040 the end of the day like if he can just 0:41:19.160 --> 0:41:21.480 like maybe you have the douna he has it. But 0:41:21.520 --> 0:41:24.360 then again, I love There's nothing better than being just 0:41:24.400 --> 0:41:26.600 a little bit cold and turning the fan on for 0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:29.480 a little bit more zest and zang to it, you know, 0:41:29.600 --> 0:41:31.200 And I love that feeling. 0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:34.000 Okay, the next one is for you, Matt. This is 0:41:34.160 --> 0:41:36.479 a question directly for you. 0:41:36.880 --> 0:41:41.960 Should I be nervous, maybe ge. Okay, So I want 0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:44.920 you to start having full sleepovers at my boyfriend's, but 0:41:45.000 --> 0:41:47.879 I'm terrified i'll far and talk in my sleep. Will 0:41:47.920 --> 0:41:51.600 he care or notice? Okay, I think. 0:41:51.440 --> 0:41:53.360 You'll care, surely. 0:41:53.040 --> 0:41:57.239 What do you think? Like, I don't think you'll care, 0:41:57.400 --> 0:41:59.840 Like if he loves you and he's like a mature 0:42:00.040 --> 0:42:02.960 age man, he'll just laugh it off. I've heard one 0:42:02.960 --> 0:42:05.000 of my partners fart when I was like sixteen. She 0:42:05.120 --> 0:42:07.600 was asleep and she fared and woke herself up while 0:42:07.640 --> 0:42:09.839 we're watching a movie. And I was like, did you far? 0:42:09.960 --> 0:42:11.040 And she was like no, And I was like, oh, 0:42:11.160 --> 0:42:17.080 pop off girl it after, But I didn't care, Like 0:42:17.320 --> 0:42:21.799 who cares fartings? I literally in front of gen like town, 0:42:21.880 --> 0:42:23.600 I go to town. I let it rep like I 0:42:23.640 --> 0:42:25.000 have no shame when it comes to that. 0:42:25.239 --> 0:42:27.239 See like I don't mind when Michael farts in front 0:42:27.280 --> 0:42:28.759 of me, but I care when you fight in front 0:42:28.760 --> 0:42:28.920 of me. 0:42:28.960 --> 0:42:30.000 I'm like, can you not? 0:42:30.280 --> 0:42:32.279 I do I fight in front of you when you. 0:42:32.200 --> 0:42:34.520 Fight in front of me, because it's like you're not 0:42:34.600 --> 0:42:35.320 my boyfriend. 0:42:35.480 --> 0:42:36.000 So just like. 0:42:37.680 --> 0:42:38.319 Lench it up. 0:42:39.760 --> 0:42:41.239 If I'm in front of someone, I feel comfortable, I 0:42:41.560 --> 0:42:43.600 far and sleep talking can be funny. 0:42:44.239 --> 0:42:46.480 Yeah, I wouldn't worry too much unless. 0:42:46.200 --> 0:42:48.279 You're opening up saying that you love fucking Kurt from 0:42:48.320 --> 0:42:48.879 down the road. 0:42:49.120 --> 0:42:50.279 I mean it is funny thought. 0:42:50.280 --> 0:42:53.080 The start of relationships, we have to admit it, like 0:42:53.120 --> 0:42:55.880 we all hold in our farts, and then it's like 0:42:56.120 --> 0:43:01.600 interesting because I mean I have had times and I 0:43:01.600 --> 0:43:03.959 think we can all relate to this where like you'll 0:43:03.960 --> 0:43:06.680 go to sleep and because you've been holding in all 0:43:06.880 --> 0:43:09.680 like the whole time, then like you're full asleep if 0:43:09.680 --> 0:43:12.320 you're going to relaxation, and then all of a sudden, 0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:15.880 you're like, holy shit, I'm fighting in my sleep. 0:43:17.320 --> 0:43:19.239 I would used to hold on to like my whole 0:43:19.280 --> 0:43:22.120 bow movements when I first started dating Gen, right to 0:43:22.160 --> 0:43:27.880 the point that my roommate's girlfriend would be home and 0:43:27.920 --> 0:43:30.719 would know when I'm home because she'd hear me just 0:43:30.760 --> 0:43:33.640 slam through the front door and just bel and straight 0:43:33.719 --> 0:43:34.520 from the bus. 0:43:35.280 --> 0:43:38.000 Matt, you used to literally Matt would like before he 0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:40.520 would go see Jen, he would be like, hey, can 0:43:40.560 --> 0:43:41.160 I come over? 0:43:41.400 --> 0:43:44.520 I need to do a number two in your toilet. 0:43:44.560 --> 0:43:46.680 I was like, can you not do this somewhere else? 0:43:46.719 --> 0:43:48.919 And He's like, no, I'm about to say Jen's house 0:43:48.920 --> 0:43:50.839 for the night. I need to quickly do this at 0:43:50.840 --> 0:43:51.360 your house. 0:43:52.560 --> 0:43:58.200 Yeah yeah, no public toilets from the much I would Yeah. Look, 0:43:58.239 --> 0:44:00.440 I wouldn't be ashamed if it happens. If you material, 0:44:00.480 --> 0:44:02.000 he'll laugh it often, and you know what, it could 0:44:02.000 --> 0:44:03.759 build another layer to your relationship. 0:44:03.960 --> 0:44:04.840 Yeah true. 0:44:05.040 --> 0:44:07.440 Okay, Well, look, I think that's all we've got time 0:44:07.480 --> 0:44:08.200 for today, Matt. 0:44:08.239 --> 0:44:10.080 That was a really fun episode. I enjoyed that. I 0:44:10.120 --> 0:44:11.600 think I learned quite a lot about. 0:44:11.640 --> 0:44:14.319 Yeah, the sleeping positions. I mean, if anyone's having some 0:44:14.520 --> 0:44:16.520 problems with their sleeping positions or wants to try a 0:44:16.560 --> 0:44:18.440 new one, let us know. 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