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Speaker 1: Apodjake Production.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode about I a bad podcast.

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Speaker 3: The podcast that continually gives I was laughing about it

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Speaker 3: on the way here, going if it's not my children,

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Speaker 3: it's animals. I had to run in with an animal

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Speaker 3: on the way here. Yeah, and I was late. But

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Speaker 3: you're expecting that, You're always expecting that. I think you

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Speaker 3: told me, like, be here at one, and you know

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Speaker 3: I'll be here at two.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I always have in my head. Oh,

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Speaker 2: Rachel said one, okay, cool, one thirty and probably less.

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Speaker 5: Than a handful of time.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you've come early, and that's when I'm not here,

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Speaker 2: or every other time i'm here, I'm like, oh.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, one clock.

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Speaker 2: But I know Rachel'll be another half an hour, so

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Speaker 2: carry on with what I'm doing.

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Speaker 4: But then on the way here, I have run in

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Speaker 4: with the dog.

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Speaker 1: Someone else's dog, not mine.

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Speaker 3: It's lost, so I go run in. You didn't run

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Speaker 3: and run into it. I've pulled over and helped it.

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Speaker 3: But the run in was that once I got it

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Speaker 3: into the car, I couldn't get it out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I got a photo saying sorry, I'm gonna be late.

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Speaker 2: You need to just rescue this dog. The dog's in

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Speaker 2: like your foot well of your car, loves cars, just

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Speaker 2: laying there. Yeah, you're a stranger. You don't know this dog.

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Speaker 3: I'm quite like hesitant because I'm going up to a

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Speaker 3: strange dog, you know how you go, Oh, whoa wonder

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Speaker 3: if it's not gonna like me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I was just like.

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Speaker 3: Hey, and then it came sort of like, oh gosh,

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Speaker 3: there's someone here. And then it's standing looking at my door,

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Speaker 3: and I was like, oh.

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Speaker 1: I gotta get you my car.

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Speaker 4: So I just literally opened the.

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Speaker 3: Door to get my phone to ring her owner because

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Speaker 3: it had it on its collar. Yes, just jumped up,

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Speaker 3: just straighted sat there, but then stuck itself right in

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Speaker 3: the back where your feet go.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, well, I guess I'm

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Speaker 1: taking you back.

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Speaker 3: So in my head I was like, just ring and

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Speaker 3: I'll just see hopefully they'll just be home and I

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Speaker 3: just sleep and they'll just come over and yeah, that's

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Speaker 3: all well and good.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not the case.

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Speaker 3: I then though, drop the dog back to its home,

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Speaker 3: which the lady is working in the city and the

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Speaker 3: dog is not getting out of my car.

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Speaker 1: So then I'm going, fuck, I've got to be it.

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Speaker 4: Podcast get get aca.

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Speaker 3: But at this stage, it's like a bit shaking. She said, Oh,

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Speaker 3: it doesn't like rain or storms. I was like, this

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Speaker 3: poor dog must be going through this all the time. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: she says, I just got to go put it out

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Speaker 3: the back in the shed and then lock the door,

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Speaker 3: and then she won't get back out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sure.

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Speaker 3: I'm also looking around at this house. Never been to

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Speaker 3: the house. I don't know who I'm talking to. I'm

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Speaker 3: thinking if they got cameras, this is gonna be fucking hilarious.

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Speaker 1: I've got a white jumper on.

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Speaker 3: I don't actually want to carry your dog.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually clean, and so I'm in there and I'm going,

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Speaker 1: come on, trying to pull its colot.

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Speaker 4: And then it's just literally said that. I was like, fuck,

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Speaker 4: so ring lady back, excuse me, I can't get your

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Speaker 4: dog out of my card. Like, have you got food anywhere?

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Speaker 3: I'd tried Grace's afternoon tea bag. I'm shaking it going here.

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Speaker 4: I want cheese and biscuits. I'll give you cheese and biscuits.

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Speaker 4: I know cheese. Dogs can't have cheese, but I'll fucking

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Speaker 4: give it to you.

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Speaker 3: Just fuck anyway, another ten minutes past us. I had

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Speaker 3: to drag it out with rope. With the rope, I

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Speaker 1: And I'm going, oh, sorry, do you know what its

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Speaker 1: name was? Tinker Bell?

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Speaker 3: Tinker Bell was a thirty kilo lab that had not

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Speaker 4: A really long time. Anyway, I made it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you did late, yeah, late, but at least this

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Speaker 2: time there was a great excit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I did say that to you.

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Speaker 3: I was like, well, it might be late, but I've

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Speaker 3: just done my good deed for the week.

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Speaker 1: Yes, please don't late. You dog out again.

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Speaker 2: No, and how about that lady that just say don't

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Speaker 2: work and stay to work, hard work.

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Speaker 5: Oh the god, you can just.

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Speaker 2: Drive it to my house, go round the back, find

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Speaker 2: a rope, drag it out, give it your kids afternoon tea.

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Speaker 4: Good on you mind your kids. I've got nothing on.

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Speaker 5: I can clean your house.

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Speaker 2: Am I bad mum for introducing responsibility equals privilege? Whoa, yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is a new thing, Rach, Responsibility equals privilege. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so you want to stay up later at night, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you need to show me that you are responsible.

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Speaker 5: Enough, you'd be able to do that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So it's good.

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Speaker 5: Last night, Rach. Ten fifteen, Amelia comes.

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Speaker 2: Down and I'm like, I want to be in bed.

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Speaker 2: There is normally a rule in our house in that

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Speaker 2: everything goes on charge at nine o'clock.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: One of the girls has said, please, Mum, can we

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Speaker 5: And I was like, oh, yeah, sure.

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Speaker 2: In my mind, I'm thinking, oh, they must not have

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Speaker 2: any schoolwork to do if they're suggesting going for dinner.

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Speaker 2: So we've done that, we get home, it's about eight

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Speaker 2: o'clock and they've gone, oh, yeah, we need to get

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Speaker 2: our assignment done. I was like, what you need to

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Speaker 2: start your assignment now, Like you came for dinner. Why

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Speaker 2: did you come for dinner knowing that you've got to

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Speaker 4: You're having to feed them.

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Speaker 5: I don't understand it, Like, yeah, I know, but they

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Speaker 5: could have been doing their work.

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Speaker 1: No, I know. I'm one hundred percent with you.

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Speaker 5: It's like, I say, understand that.

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Speaker 2: And so then literally ten point fifteen she comes down

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Speaker 2: doing shit and then having a shower and all the rest, and.

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Speaker 5: I'm like okay, just let them.

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Speaker 2: Let them and I will then say to them, just

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Speaker 2: so you know, we're introducing responsibility equals privilege. So you

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Speaker 2: have come down at ten fifteen, it's a lot later

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Speaker 2: than you're supposed to do that. And so the responsibility

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Speaker 2: part is you need to show me tomorrow you get

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Speaker 2: yourself up. I am not coming in going come on.

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Speaker 2: They both got an alarm clock, Rach. I hear those

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Speaker 2: alarms go off again and again again and again, and

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Speaker 2: the amount of times that I'm like, come on, upe

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Speaker 2: you get and like walk past the rooms and they're

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Speaker 2: like hurrying them up.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I am not doing that.

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Speaker 2: You have to get yourself up so to get to

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Speaker 2: seven fifty five. Really, do you know what time they

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Speaker 2: got out of bed? Oh, no, seven forty five. The

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Speaker 2: alarm had been going off for like an hour, snoozing

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Speaker 2: and snoozing and snooze it.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I absolutely am not.

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Speaker 1: You can't go there.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going in there.

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Speaker 2: And there's a part of me, Rache it was like

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Speaker 2: kind of wanted them to not get up, So I

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Speaker 2: could be like, oh interesting, ten fifteen Yeah, yeah, oh

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Speaker 2: you can't do it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they made it. They made it.

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Speaker 2: They got up ten minutes, ready for ten minutes, ten

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't have even coaxcu. I would have been like,

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Speaker 3: if I'm going to be late, I'm leaving. I don't

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Speaker 3: know what you're going to do today. You're not going

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Speaker 3: to be at school.

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Speaker 2: I have absolutely no doubt that this afternoon they're going

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Speaker 2: to be your last holes because that's always what happens.

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Speaker 2: Ye when they've had a late night. If they cope

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Speaker 2: with the morning, they don't cope with the afternoon or yeah.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, this responsibility.

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Speaker 4: Versus it calls privilege.

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Speaker 2: Privilege is something that I am going to have in

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Speaker 2: lots of different things. Because they're sixteen, they often tell me, oh,

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Speaker 2: that doesn't happen for kids our age. We're sixteen, we

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Speaker 2: should have this, We shouldn't be allowed to do this,

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Speaker 2: there shouldn't.

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Speaker 5: Be rules around this, blah blah blahlah blah.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, cool, I'm happy for that, happy to

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Speaker 2: is reponsibility because if you're not being responsible like a

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Speaker 2: sixteen year old. Yeah, then you don't get treated like

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Speaker 2: a sixteen year old.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I'm going to say, there's going to

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Speaker 3: be moments and that what is your backup? What's the

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Speaker 3: backup to it? So I feel like there might be

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Speaker 3: a few moments where they'll fail at this, then this

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Speaker 3: afternoon might be the first one.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, what's the backup to it? The backup?

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Speaker 3: It just means that you regress in steps, right, is

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Speaker 3: that what it is? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: So if you're an asshole of somefternoon.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So like let's use this afternoon as a scenario.

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Speaker 3: So if you're an asshole this afternoon, and I absolutely

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Speaker 3: get punished because you haven't had enough sleep and you've

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Speaker 3: gotten up with ten minutes to spare, and now you're

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Speaker 3: asking me to pay for your lunch because you had

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Speaker 3: to use your spreaking card because you didn't make any lunch.

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Speaker 1: Like, what's the repercussion of that?

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Speaker 2: No, So if there is food at home to be

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Speaker 2: made into for lunch boxes, then I'm not paying for that.

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Speaker 5: This comes out of your account.

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Speaker 1: I know about. This is the thing.

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Speaker 3: I would have been laughing if they didn't make it

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Speaker 3: this morning, though I would have been laughing. I was like,

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Speaker 3: one hundred percent was waiting for you to go there

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Speaker 3: to say they didn't make this.

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Speaker 5: It would definitely be a I told you so.

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Speaker 4: You're going to be a seven fifty five departure.

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Speaker 1: See you later.

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Speaker 3: They'll be running out the door after your mom and you're.

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Speaker 5: Like, oh, raage, I listened to all the drama. Where's

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Speaker 5: my drama top? Where's it? I'm like, Oh, I should

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Speaker 5: have gone yesterday.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I would have packed myself yesterday.

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Speaker 4: But you know, you know best, you know best, you

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Speaker 4: know best. I say that Gracie all the time, you

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Speaker 4: know best.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what I'm doing, but that's just me.

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Speaker 1: I would have done.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, God, what would I know?

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Speaker 1: Yeah,