1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apologie Production. 2 00:00:10,641 --> 00:00:18,281 Speaker 2: Welcome to She Rises, Freaky Friday, Secrets, Horror, Scandal, Mysterios, Wild, 3 00:00:19,441 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode of Friday. Say that and 4 00:00:24,081 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 2: sync and it just doesn't seem to happen every time, 5 00:00:26,681 --> 00:00:27,721 Speaker 2: but we try. 6 00:00:27,881 --> 00:00:30,961 Speaker 1: We love your Freaky Friday is so much fun. 7 00:00:31,521 --> 00:00:35,441 Speaker 2: It's spicy, it's raunchy. It's real, anonymous, raw stories that 8 00:00:35,481 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 2: have happened that you know you might not want to 9 00:00:37,561 --> 00:00:39,721 Speaker 2: talk about or you don't feel fully comfortable to share 10 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,601 Speaker 2: with your day to day friends and life. So we 11 00:00:41,681 --> 00:00:45,281 Speaker 2: bring them in here and Deephanie and Tatiana give their 12 00:00:45,361 --> 00:00:50,881 Speaker 2: unhinged raw Here's elicited advice, untasked for, advice you didn't 13 00:00:50,881 --> 00:00:52,241 Speaker 2: ask for, but you kind of do. If you're gonna 14 00:00:52,241 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 2: sumitt your opinion literally so you know to buy. 15 00:00:54,321 --> 00:00:56,121 Speaker 1: Sometimes it's just like opinions. 16 00:00:55,681 --> 00:00:58,601 Speaker 2: Like it's a strong opinion. Yeah, like you're going to 17 00:00:58,681 --> 00:01:00,441 Speaker 2: hear the real thoughts and guess what. 18 00:01:00,521 --> 00:01:02,001 Speaker 1: Both of our periods were late. We're like, when are 19 00:01:02,041 --> 00:01:04,041 Speaker 1: they coming? When are they coming? And we both got 20 00:01:04,041 --> 00:01:06,521 Speaker 1: our period this morning. Are singed up and you bet 21 00:01:06,601 --> 00:01:08,241 Speaker 1: you just definitely and Tatiana are out to play. 22 00:01:08,281 --> 00:01:11,481 Speaker 2: Feeling spicy, They are feeling spicy, bleeding and feeling spicy. 23 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: Someone caught me off today and I was like, oh 24 00:01:13,321 --> 00:01:17,161 Speaker 1: my god, how dare they? And we'd like you go sweetie, 25 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,441 Speaker 1: all right, okay, first one, the chef, the flirt in 26 00:01:21,481 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: the big fat secret, take it away, Tatiana, she's here. 27 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 2: She's ready. I got a new job as a bartender 28 00:01:27,721 --> 00:01:30,321 Speaker 2: at a resort. At the time, I was seeing a fella, However, 29 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 2: it wasn't serious. At the new job, I met a 30 00:01:32,761 --> 00:01:35,321 Speaker 2: guy who was a chef. From the first moment, he 31 00:01:35,481 --> 00:01:39,961 Speaker 2: stole my heart. He was seductive, flirtatious, and handsome. He 32 00:01:40,041 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 2: turned me on hard. I had wet dreams about him 33 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 2: and just wanted his body on and in mind goodness 34 00:01:46,081 --> 00:01:48,321 Speaker 2: me a fighty girl. I feel like I'm reading a 35 00:01:48,321 --> 00:01:53,121 Speaker 2: smart book. He would make sexual jokes towards me that 36 00:01:53,201 --> 00:01:55,361 Speaker 2: made me so horny. While we were working, I would 37 00:01:55,361 --> 00:01:57,321 Speaker 2: look over towards him in the kitchen and find he 38 00:01:57,441 --> 00:02:00,681 Speaker 2: was already looking at me. The butterflies I felt were crazy. 39 00:02:01,521 --> 00:02:03,961 Speaker 2: During shift, we made sure we took similar breaks and 40 00:02:04,001 --> 00:02:05,761 Speaker 2: would sit together and when no one was around, we 41 00:02:05,801 --> 00:02:09,281 Speaker 2: would flirt. There was times my pussy was tingling because 42 00:02:09,321 --> 00:02:12,081 Speaker 2: he would make me feel excited. Just his voice enough 43 00:02:12,161 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: was enough to turn me on. After the weeks of 44 00:02:14,361 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 2: this strong, intense flirting, we started to touch each other. 45 00:02:17,121 --> 00:02:18,761 Speaker 2: We would go into a room and I would touch 46 00:02:18,761 --> 00:02:21,001 Speaker 2: his penis through his clothes, and he would kiss my neck. 47 00:02:21,481 --> 00:02:23,961 Speaker 2: Sometimes he would even give me a sneaky slap on 48 00:02:24,001 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 2: the ass and a tit grab. Any chance we got, 49 00:02:26,841 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 2: we were hands on. Then one day I found out 50 00:02:29,841 --> 00:02:34,121 Speaker 2: he had a partner. Oh no, I was shocked. I 51 00:02:34,161 --> 00:02:35,921 Speaker 2: felt guilty, and I felt sick. 52 00:02:36,161 --> 00:02:37,761 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't like where this story is going. I 53 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,241 Speaker 1: was like, oh, this is so hot. 54 00:02:39,321 --> 00:02:41,761 Speaker 2: This is not what I was expecting. I couldn't believe 55 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,721 Speaker 2: I didn't know and that he had kept it a secret. 56 00:02:44,201 --> 00:02:46,081 Speaker 2: I was new to the town, so I didn't know anyone, 57 00:02:46,081 --> 00:02:47,641 Speaker 2: and I ended up putting a stop to it all 58 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 2: and moved jobs. I still sometimes think about the man 59 00:02:50,281 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 2: and what he was capable of doing to his girlfriend, 60 00:02:52,321 --> 00:02:54,441 Speaker 2: and I strongly believe I wasn't the only other one. 61 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:57,041 Speaker 2: After my experience, I never spoke to him again, and 62 00:02:57,081 --> 00:02:58,921 Speaker 2: I'm so glad I never had sex with him. 63 00:02:59,001 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: Oh good babe. Oh that rah, Yeah, that's rough. 64 00:03:02,201 --> 00:03:04,241 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, No, that's tough. 65 00:03:04,401 --> 00:03:08,361 Speaker 1: Suck yeah, damn, yeah, Hi, why are you with your girlfriend? 66 00:03:08,481 --> 00:03:10,161 Speaker 2: That's so shit. If you want to do that, just 67 00:03:10,161 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 2: go be single, Like you don't need to have a 68 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,521 Speaker 2: girlfriend at home waiting for you when you're going and 69 00:03:13,641 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 2: entertaining other women behind closed doors, like. 70 00:03:15,921 --> 00:03:16,641 Speaker 1: Poor girl at home. 71 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 2: If you want to be single, be single. Or if 72 00:03:18,121 --> 00:03:20,201 Speaker 2: you want multiple people as something that you want to 73 00:03:20,281 --> 00:03:22,641 Speaker 2: be open about it and give somebody the opportunity to 74 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 2: say no. 75 00:03:23,441 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, that sucks. I was like, oh, this 76 00:03:25,841 --> 00:03:29,921 Speaker 1: story is hot, like the workplace, you know, proximity fun blooding. 77 00:03:30,041 --> 00:03:33,081 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's oh I'm sorry. I'm sorry you didn't 78 00:03:33,121 --> 00:03:37,041 Speaker 2: give you the opportunity to be honest with you about that, 79 00:03:37,081 --> 00:03:39,121 Speaker 2: because that's fucking shit, because now you have guilt for 80 00:03:39,161 --> 00:03:42,201 Speaker 2: something that you didn't actually your self choose. Yeah, like 81 00:03:42,241 --> 00:03:43,841 Speaker 2: if you hadn't, by the sounds of it, if he 82 00:03:43,881 --> 00:03:45,761 Speaker 2: had had a girlfriend and you knew that, you absolutely 83 00:03:45,801 --> 00:03:47,241 Speaker 2: would never have entertained that. 84 00:03:47,441 --> 00:03:48,921 Speaker 1: You can tell that she's the type of girl that 85 00:03:48,921 --> 00:03:53,361 Speaker 1: wouldn't absolutely so good on you far out. That's tough. 86 00:03:53,681 --> 00:03:56,361 Speaker 1: Hard of me would want to let the girlfriend know. Yeah, 87 00:03:56,601 --> 00:03:59,001 Speaker 1: even if it's anonymous, I just feel she deserves to know. 88 00:03:59,121 --> 00:04:00,761 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's something you would explore, but 89 00:04:01,361 --> 00:04:02,761 Speaker 1: I just feel like I would want to know if 90 00:04:02,761 --> 00:04:06,321 Speaker 1: my man was groping and with another woman at work. 91 00:04:06,601 --> 00:04:08,521 Speaker 2: And it's interesting that you say, like, I don't think 92 00:04:08,561 --> 00:04:10,641 Speaker 2: that I was the only one, Like, obviously you know 93 00:04:10,681 --> 00:04:12,081 Speaker 2: what that man is like, and you know what the 94 00:04:12,121 --> 00:04:14,201 Speaker 2: connection was like and the way he was with you, 95 00:04:14,841 --> 00:04:16,601 Speaker 2: and it makes sense, like, obviously he can do that 96 00:04:16,601 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: with you'd probably deal it with other women as well. 97 00:04:18,481 --> 00:04:19,801 Speaker 1: I suppose think about it, if you were in the 98 00:04:19,841 --> 00:04:22,521 Speaker 1: girlfriend's position, would you want to know? Maybe you could 99 00:04:22,561 --> 00:04:24,681 Speaker 1: just I don't know. Yeah, she deserves to know, and 100 00:04:24,721 --> 00:04:25,921 Speaker 1: she deserves someone better than that. 101 00:04:26,161 --> 00:04:28,281 Speaker 2: Yeah, he just needs to be set free to go 102 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,841 Speaker 2: live a single life. You know what's interesting, I would 103 00:04:30,921 --> 00:04:33,041 Speaker 2: love to know how you knew that he had a partner, Like, 104 00:04:33,281 --> 00:04:35,361 Speaker 2: obviously he didn't tell you, so it must have come 105 00:04:35,361 --> 00:04:38,481 Speaker 2: from a third party, true, l she stalk with social 106 00:04:38,521 --> 00:04:40,721 Speaker 2: media and there's photos of her, maybe or like someone 107 00:04:40,761 --> 00:04:42,481 Speaker 2: from work maybe had said that he had a partner. 108 00:04:42,481 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 2: Don't know, how would you have found out? Yeah, but 109 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,241 Speaker 2: the fact that he was sneaky about it is that, 110 00:04:47,361 --> 00:04:50,321 Speaker 2: like shows his character. He's willing to do that willing 111 00:04:50,361 --> 00:04:55,281 Speaker 2: to lie, willing to be deceitful, lack of transparency out tough. 112 00:04:55,281 --> 00:04:57,241 Speaker 1: It's not just men, obviously, women know too. 113 00:04:57,521 --> 00:04:59,521 Speaker 2: No, we're not man hating at all in any sense. 114 00:04:59,561 --> 00:05:02,201 Speaker 2: It's this person specifically chose to. 115 00:05:02,121 --> 00:05:04,641 Speaker 1: Do that yucky. Yeah, no, I thank you. It's a 116 00:05:04,641 --> 00:05:08,321 Speaker 1: bit of an that I would feel so guilty if 117 00:05:08,361 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: I was to ever entertain something like that, invite that 118 00:05:11,241 --> 00:05:14,721 Speaker 1: attention in touch another man while I've got my partner. 119 00:05:14,801 --> 00:05:15,521 Speaker 2: I just couldn't. 120 00:05:15,681 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: I could not go home to Steve, look him in 121 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,121 Speaker 1: the eye and love on him and continue as per 122 00:05:20,121 --> 00:05:22,041 Speaker 1: normal and have sex with him, and like would I 123 00:05:22,121 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: just I would vomit. 124 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,561 Speaker 2: I would feel that sick. I think inside myself. Ah, 125 00:05:25,681 --> 00:05:27,881 Speaker 2: it's a hard note for me. That's a fucking ick. 126 00:05:28,081 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 2: Anybody who can willingly do that and like genuinely have 127 00:05:30,361 --> 00:05:32,561 Speaker 2: a good time, I'm like, there's gotta be some screws 128 00:05:32,561 --> 00:05:34,921 Speaker 2: and bolts loose, like for you to be okay with 129 00:05:35,001 --> 00:05:37,481 Speaker 2: that and continuously entertain that whilst for having a partner. 130 00:05:37,561 --> 00:05:39,161 Speaker 1: Do they not think about how they would feel if 131 00:05:39,201 --> 00:05:40,281 Speaker 1: that was being done to them. 132 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,721 Speaker 2: I don't know. Like that just screams lack of integrity. 133 00:05:42,721 --> 00:05:45,321 Speaker 1: To me. Yeah far out. 134 00:05:45,921 --> 00:05:48,161 Speaker 2: Oh thanks for bringing, thanks for sharing, and we're so 135 00:05:48,201 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: sorry that you had to carry the guilt of somebody 136 00:05:50,401 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 2: else's actions as well, and also so glad you didn't 137 00:05:53,201 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 2: he didn't get access to your body fully. Yeah, and 138 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:56,921 Speaker 2: you decided to cut it off the moment that you 139 00:05:56,921 --> 00:06:00,961 Speaker 2: found out. Respect, Yeah, a lot of respect. You could 140 00:06:00,961 --> 00:06:03,121 Speaker 2: have so easily could have stayed at that job and 141 00:06:03,121 --> 00:06:05,041 Speaker 2: then just ignored him, but like you did the fucking 142 00:06:05,201 --> 00:06:06,161 Speaker 2: right thing, or. 143 00:06:06,121 --> 00:06:11,481 Speaker 1: Even like let your emotions and desires, sexual desires take 144 00:06:11,561 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: over and be like, fuck it, I'm gonna do this. Yeah, 145 00:06:13,801 --> 00:06:16,801 Speaker 1: you didn't, so a lot of respect and thanks Johny 146 00:06:16,921 --> 00:06:19,321 Speaker 1: for sharing. Have a beautiful weekend, and we've got a 147 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,361 Speaker 1: big episode on Monday, so stay tuned. 148 00:06:21,841 --> 00:06:23,401 Speaker 2: Bye.