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Speaker 1: Welcome back to hear me out. I am your host

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Speaker 1: is the Armitage. I find that some people sort don't

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Speaker 1: know how to pronounce my last name. It's not a

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Speaker 1: very hard last time.

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Speaker 2: We get a lot of and no shade, but submissions

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Speaker 2: spelling your name wrong.

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Speaker 1: I also get a lot of issues like they with

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Speaker 1: an ns and my name is on the screen.

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Speaker 3: That's fine.

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Speaker 1: Note like that's common, but it's you know, funnily enough,

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Speaker 1: my last time is actually pronounced Armitage, but we pronounced

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Speaker 1: like even my whole family pronounces Armitage except my drab

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Speaker 1: bark and he's like, it's hermitage.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, that sounds so snooty. I'm not saying.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have to commit to it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a bit. It's brady snobby.

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Speaker 3: It's not my style. Very royal. It is very royal.

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Speaker 3: But that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Also side note, I need to ask everyone if you

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Speaker 1: ever start seeing someone like let's say like one date

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Speaker 1: or not even a date, you're just like, ooh, I'm

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Speaker 1: interested in this person. Never know, tell me and make

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Speaker 1: me feel better that you will say your name and

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Speaker 1: their last name out loud to see how it sounds.

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Speaker 3: Wait, your last name is Manus.

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Speaker 1: Or Man's manner'd be like if I'm going on a

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Speaker 1: date with you, well, I'd be like, oh, I'm really

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Speaker 1: excited to take meet Blake, like it's really hot and

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Speaker 1: like you never know, like we could get married.

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Speaker 3: What would my last name sound like? I go, Isabelle Manus.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I'm with you.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yes, And I see said does the same thing, so

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Speaker 1: I know it's not like maybe it's just a no.

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Speaker 3: I know everyone does it.

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Speaker 2: I think you need to do it early on because what.

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Speaker 3: If it sounds shit?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I am someone that would absolutely take my husband's

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Speaker 1: last name unless I liked it less than mine.

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Speaker 3: That's the only reason I'm the.

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Speaker 2: Exact say, ah, you know what, I don't know. I'm

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Speaker 2: in a different sitch, Like it's kind of like I

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Speaker 2: didn't even know who gets right away there. But we've

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Speaker 2: been through this on the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Don't you dare hyphenate?

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Speaker 1: No, your poor children's I think hyphenation is child cruelty.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, Like it's not an intense argument, it's not conflict

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Speaker 2: at all, but we do discuss often between the last names,

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Speaker 2: and I don't think we've hit a nice middle ground

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Speaker 2: jat so the saying Hackenberger, Ah, yeah, love.

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Speaker 1: You knowah, children might have to take the Manus.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But then it's like that's not fair, do you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? But Heckenberger Manus, that's like, like, that's.

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Speaker 2: Not okay, it's actually worse.

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Speaker 1: Or I also don't agree with people hyphenating their children's

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Speaker 1: first names. And it is it is obviously your your choice,

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Speaker 1: but like if my name was like Isabelle Marie, like

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I just don't want that, like make my

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Speaker 1: middle name Marie, which it isn't. My middle name is Heidi,

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Speaker 1: but if my full first name was Isabel Heidi, I'd

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Speaker 1: be like no, but I probably would take Heidi if

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Speaker 1: I had to pick one, I think I prefer.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I just like the novelty of it,

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Speaker 2: but I do find it funny thinking of a scenario

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Speaker 2: where you're trying to recap something and someone does have a.

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Speaker 1: Isabelle Murrie Heckenberger manus, like that is not okay.

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Speaker 2: And trying to say that several times in the story,

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Speaker 2: and if it was Isabella Marie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Isabelle Marie sounds like she's obsessed with herself because

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Speaker 1: she has two names.

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Speaker 2: Have one sounds like yeah, I don't know, there's something

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Speaker 2: off about Isabelle Marie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I also find it so funny in like TV shows

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Speaker 1: and ship that people always like hate on people that have.

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Speaker 3: Two first names.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like I mean no, meaning, like their last name

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Speaker 1: is like a first name, Like they'll be called like

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Speaker 1: I can't even smith. I don't know if no one's

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Speaker 1: no one's first name is Smith, and did we really

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god right over?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's okay, it happens like fuck. I can't even

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Speaker 1: think of like a last name that is a first name.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like Jack Alexander. Actually I feel like that's

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Speaker 1: someone's name and they're going to be like maybe Jackie Jack. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but like, no females are really called Alexander. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: it would be like a boy called like Matt Alexander.

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Speaker 1: They like get that pisce taking at them all the

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Speaker 1: time because their last name is the first name as well.

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Speaker 3: But like, I don't really get what's the problem with that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's just a bit of a bit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a bit in TV shows only.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why that this is like made me

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Speaker 2: really happy, Like this is funny.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I actually have a hear me out this that

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was looking just through Instagram and

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Speaker 1: someone like I saw like someone made a video on it,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I disagree, hear me out. I don't

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Speaker 1: agree that drunk vine speak sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: I agree, you agree with me? Yes with you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I've never actually gone on such a drunken rental. I've

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Speaker 2: actually never exposed anything drunkenly. Yeah, maybe a few things slip, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like it, come on, I'm not in full control of

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Speaker 1: my mind. Yeah, but like when I get angry when

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Speaker 1: I'm drunk, it's like which I honestly it happened a

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Speaker 1: lot more when I was younger. I would go on

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Speaker 1: like these you know how they are like angry drunks.

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Speaker 1: I could have potentially been classified as that I reckon

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Speaker 1: when I was like twenty one, twenty two vibe. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I disagree. Like I think even when you're like drunk

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Speaker 1: texting someone and you want to hang out in the

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Speaker 1: next morning, you're like, thank fucking god, I didn't. I

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Speaker 1: don't want to see that person ever again. It's like

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I wanted that. I don't believe

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Speaker 1: that my drunk mind is telling what my sober me wants.

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Speaker 3: It's just being drunk and needy and annoying and rude.

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Speaker 2: And there's probably like some scenarios that I'm open to,

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Speaker 2: but I usually do find it. It's in a sense

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Speaker 2: of a guy like absolutely going to town and like

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Speaker 2: saying everything he feels. Yeah, it's usually something like we'll

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Speaker 2: drunk mine speak for thoughts. I'm like, no, he just

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Speaker 2: like he's just plan to communicate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I think, yes, maybe sometimes like you'll

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Speaker 1: dislike for someone can go on drinking, maybe dislike that

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Speaker 1: you've been potentially holding in. No, but I don't agree

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Speaker 1: that like the things we say we're drunk are things

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Speaker 1: that we really like mean and wish we could say sober.

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Speaker 3: I don't agree with that at all.

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Speaker 1: I think people need to cut some people some slack.

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Speaker 1: Like I've got friends that like riot me in the

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Speaker 1: shruds every time they're drunk. No, actually not me specifically,

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Speaker 1: but they You know, there's always those people that like

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Speaker 3: And I'm sure, as I'll hope that that's not what

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Speaker 3: they're thinking, do you know what I mean? It's like

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Speaker 3: they don't like any of us. No.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes nice to watch.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah it's nice to witness, but no, it's

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Speaker 1: not nice to witness because then you've to.

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Speaker 3: Pick up the pieces.

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Speaker 1: I just yeah, the whole concept of it. I think maybe, yes,

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Speaker 3: Liquid courage, absolutely, But.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we can take it as bible, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: she said this to me when I was drunk, she

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Speaker 1: must mean it, Like no, she was probably just being

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Speaker 2: Okay, well this is a bit of a pivot. But

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Speaker 2: you did speak about it on your TikTok, and it

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Speaker 2: would be like a week old by the time this

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Speaker 2: comes out. Kind of sober mind drunk mine speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: But Brooke, on maths, I say that you were that.

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Speaker 2: Oh One, I don't know if this is a fact,

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Speaker 2: but I feel like she was drinking that night.

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Speaker 3: She was absolutely drinking.

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Speaker 2: But two, I guess kind of on that argument, do

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Speaker 2: you believe in an addit as well?

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Speaker 1: I do not think they could edit her to look

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Speaker 3: I think she is a.

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Speaker 1: Cow quite frankly, and I'm sorry, I don't feel bad

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Speaker 3: She doesn't feel bad being rude to anyone else.

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Speaker 1: She's come now defending herself, saying I was sitting in

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Speaker 1: we learned with Jamie last year, like the dinner parties,

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Speaker 1: et cetera, can take quite a while. She said that

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Speaker 1: she drank two hot bottles of champagne. I do not

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Speaker 1: visibly far more drunken intoxicated than she was. Yeah, she

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Speaker 1: And then she like very much in that moment, everything

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Speaker 2: She thought she was eating.

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Speaker 3: Don't touch me, get your hand off me. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: you are fucking disgusting.

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Speaker 2: It was foul.

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Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like that, and I really do

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Speaker 1: think the producers should have jumped in while it was occurring.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. And I also think the men in that room,

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Speaker 2: oh I once.

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Speaker 1: Spoke hello, even the fucking girl's husbands, like maybe they

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Speaker 1: attempted to pretend like they were about to say something

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Speaker 1: they kind of really didn't.

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Speaker 3: Like someone should have been like, shut the fuck up someone.

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Speaker 2: Actually I didn't watch a fillip sde but that girl

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was only the moment it turned.

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Speaker 2: To her, Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: She was laughing and giggling.

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Speaker 1: And Mel and Rebecca the Mel's the one that is

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Speaker 1: paired up with you Luke the young guy and like

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Speaker 1: gave him not a bar because he didn't look like

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Speaker 1: Bradley Cooper for the first like two fucking weeks. And

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Speaker 1: then Rebecca's the slightly older woman pad with Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: know you, if you watch the show, you'll know how

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Speaker 1: doot sitting alongside it. Gea is obviously she sucks to

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Speaker 1: but these ones were like guilty by association. You are

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Speaker 1: literally sitting there fucking laughing, not saying stop or guys

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Speaker 1: a bit too far are like, come on, calm it down,

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Speaker 1: just giggling, laughing because it's not turned on you, which

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Speaker 1: I think is just as bad. Being a fucking sheep

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Speaker 1: in a situation like that is just as bad. And

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Speaker 1: I think that happens far too much in real world

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Speaker 1: scenarios as well. I don't care if it's reality TV,

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Speaker 1: like that to them is like something happening real world

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Speaker 1: in their lives and giggling, loving And then beck, oh,

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Speaker 1: your husband said, I was the whole world crashes down, babe.

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Speaker 1: How do you think the other girls have been feeling

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Speaker 2: See. I love her, I actually do, and I love

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Speaker 2: It is and I actually, do you see both sides?

442
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Speaker 3: I completely do.

443
00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:05,000
Speaker 2: I think I would challenge a lot of people to

444
00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:09,359
Speaker 2: almost question the way they view influencers because I do

445
00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,760
Speaker 2: find a lot of the enraged people that they're in

446
00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:15,240
Speaker 2: Facebook comments and they're older men or older people, and

447
00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:17,240
Speaker 2: it's like they don't deserve to be there, and like

448
00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,600
Speaker 2: if you actually go there, I go there as a

449
00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,600
Speaker 2: normal person. I don't get any access through brands or anything.

450
00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,879
Speaker 2: It's very secluded where the influencers are, like, they're not

451
00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:28,960
Speaker 2: in your face. You're not going to get in the

452
00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:31,359
Speaker 2: back of one of their photos. Like I think people

453
00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:34,280
Speaker 2: are just so overwhelmed by the idea of influencing.

454
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like it's not fair that it deserves to

455
00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,080
Speaker 1: be there, But it's like we also wouldn't turn down

456
00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,280
Speaker 1: these amazing opportunities, and a lot of the time where

457
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Speaker 1: people that also love these sports and would buy tickets

458
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Speaker 1: ourselves if we.

459
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Speaker 3: Won't invite it.

460
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Speaker 1: I just think it's not the influencer's fault that should

461
00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:51,200
Speaker 1: be getting the comments online of like, oh, you don't

462
00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:52,480
Speaker 1: deserve to be there. Why are you even there? Do

463
00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:53,760
Speaker 1: you even like the f one? Do you even like

464
00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:56,280
Speaker 1: the AO? It's like, if you have a problem, take

465
00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:58,080
Speaker 1: it up with the brand that's inviting us, do you

466
00:18:58,119 --> 00:18:59,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean? But I would never turn down

467
00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:01,560
Speaker 1: these amazing opportunities, and a lot of the time they're

468
00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,040
Speaker 1: things that I only would dream of doing be able

469
00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:07,080
Speaker 1: to do, and it's like, I'm so blessed and grateful

470
00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,840
Speaker 1: and lucky. But I do completely get the other side

471
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Speaker 1: of it. I just think that culture of like taking

472
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Speaker 1: it out on the influence as that were there.

473
00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:18,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, kind of needs to stop. And it's not really fair.

474
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Speaker 2: Look at the bigger picture. It's not like you were

475
00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,720
Speaker 2: getting sent for a ticket to promote going to the

476
00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,720
Speaker 2: tennis and for other events as well. I think they're

477
00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:30,600
Speaker 2: trying to create like bigger machines outside of just the

478
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,800
Speaker 2: tournaments itself. Like I've always gone to the tennis. It's

479
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,600
Speaker 2: literally my favorite sport. No one was coming with me

480
00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:39,160
Speaker 2: during school, none of my girlfriends are interested, Whereas now

481
00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,320
Speaker 2: you have the mecha pop up and you have all

482
00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,520
Speaker 2: these brand activations. It's exciting and now it's actually easier

483
00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:45,240
Speaker 2: to get my friends.

484
00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:46,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like these brands are paying a lot

485
00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:48,880
Speaker 1: of money for these Like the Mecca thing at Ao

486
00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,600
Speaker 1: was insane, and it's like, of course they're gonna want

487
00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:56,080
Speaker 1: promotion of it. Therefore they're gonna invite people that you know,

488
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,679
Speaker 1: can promote that. Yeah, and Mecca, I'm like, girl, I'm

489
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Speaker 1: a lit Beauty Loop member, like, and people say invite

490
00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 1: people that buy mecha. Hello, I spent all my fucking

491
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,920
Speaker 1: money on mecha, Like I would be in the top

492
00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:10,520
Speaker 1: five percent, So like, what does that just because I'm

493
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Speaker 1: an influencer, doesn't I don't know. I just this may

494
00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 1: sound brady, it may be come across bad.

495
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:16,280
Speaker 3: Obviously.

496
00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,880
Speaker 1: I'm speaking just directly, maybe without thinking, and I hope

497
00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 1: it doesn't come across rudely because like, I completely do

498
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,120
Speaker 1: get the frustration of witnessing this sort of stuff when

499
00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:27,679
Speaker 1: you do love and maybe wish that you could be

500
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 1: there or that they could do these like fan invites things.

501
00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 1: But I think maybe the reason they don't is because

502
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,239
Speaker 1: then they just don't get the promotion that ends up

503
00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 1: making up for the money they're spending on these activations. Yeah,

504
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,000
Speaker 1: that's I think, just the reality of it. And that's

505
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:42,160
Speaker 1: influencer marketing, Like that's what it is.

506
00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:43,520
Speaker 2: It's how the cookie crumbles.

507
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:44,800
Speaker 3: It's how the cookie crumbles.

508
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 1: I don't know how now, but I am very blessed

509
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,119
Speaker 1: that I'm gonna be the one and I can't fucking.

510
00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,760
Speaker 2: Wait to And just to ease your mind, I don't

511
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:53,399
Speaker 2: think you were rude or anything. I think you're just

512
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,399
Speaker 2: opening the conversation. Yeah, it happens event after event and

513
00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:57,680
Speaker 2: it actually is interesting.

514
00:20:57,840 --> 00:20:59,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's an interesting concept.

515
00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,280
Speaker 1: And also, like you go a link pr trains, I'm

516
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 1: just trying to trying to open the conversation.

517
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 3: So anyway, that's my thoughts. All right, guys.

518
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 1: As you well know, last week we did some submissions

519
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Speaker 1: on situationships, tis mout times, you know that old chestnut,

520
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 1: And we're just going to do a part too this

521
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Speaker 1: week because we didn't get into too many because we

522
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Speaker 1: reappens for.

523
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Speaker 2: Some Yeah and quick, FYI, I knew it wasn't Bale

524
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Speaker 2: Time's day this week, so I kind of changed the

525
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Speaker 2: wording in our Google forms, so we have dating and

526
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Speaker 2: situationship horror stories wonderful Okay.

527
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Speaker 3: Submission one, hi Isy love the Pod.

528
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Speaker 1: I had to submit this because I fear I've unlocked

529
00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: a new level of hinge hell and escape plan from

530
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 1: Ocean's eleven. If anyone, by the way side it hasn't

531
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 1: seen Oceans eleven, even Oceans eight, the newer one, or

532
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,399
Speaker 1: any of the Oceans movies, they are so fucking good.

533
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 2: I think I've watched Oceans eights.

534
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 3: Oceans eleven is so fucking good.

535
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Speaker 2: Oceans eight's the female one, yes, I watched that in

536
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,639
Speaker 2: year twelve with a girlfriend. Yeah, and we switched it

537
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 2: on and I think someone in her family had watched

538
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 2: it before her, so we literally got on without knowing

539
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 2: at the exact heist. So yeah, the movie went for

540
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 2: like twenty minutes.

541
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 1: But it's so fun, like seeing them pull something off

542
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 1: and then them re showing you kind of all the

543
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 1: little bits and pieces on how they did it.

544
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:21,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

545
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like now you see me movies like they're

546
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 1: really good like that. Anyway, A couple of weeks ago,

547
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 1: I went on a date with a man I actually

548
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 1: can't remember his name, so let's call him Josh Beij

549
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: guy beij name. I love people that like write things

550
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:41,439
Speaker 1: out in the way. They're like really fun to rate honest. Yeah, okay,

551
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 1: we met on Hinge as you do. I've used Raya before,

552
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 1: you know, the celebrity dating app that's actually just real

553
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 1: estate moguls and finance boys and footy players who think

554
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 1: they're famous. In Australia, Raya is challenging because it's international.

555
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Speaker 3: You can't. Actually this is me saying that I'm not

556
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Speaker 3: reading it. You can't.

557
00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 1: Yes, you might be in Melbourne, but you're still going

558
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 1: to see peo from around the world. So like when

559
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 1: you're saying in Australia, it actually might be really hard

560
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: to meet someone even in a distance with you that

561
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: you could actually go on a date with them, unless

562
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 1: maybe you go to America and kind of readjust it.

563
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 1: Then you just get a lot more American people. Yeah,

564
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,160
Speaker 1: there's not that many people in Australia, and I think.

565
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 2: The American options more exciting than the Australian see not really.

566
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, well it's kind of like I get people in America,

567
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 1: but it's like they might be gorgeous, but like I

568
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:23,679
Speaker 1: live in Australia, it's hard to get how we're going

569
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: to go on a date.

570
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 2: Now, figure it out.

571
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 3: I'll figure it out.

572
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: And honestly, Hinge seems to be the most decent, as

573
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Speaker 1: decent as dating in Melbourne can be.

574
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 3: Anyways, half the men on Raya are on Hinge. Anyway.

575
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Speaker 1: In his photos he was gorgeous, European tan, brunette, curly hair,

576
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: green eyes, looked tall, stunning.

577
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 3: Can you ask for much more? Honestly, we didn't speak much.

578
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 3: For fourhands.

579
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: I usually liked too, but I thought I'd take a chance.

580
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: He booked an Italian restaurant in Carlton for seven thirty.

581
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Speaker 1: Tell me why this man shows up outside my apartment

582
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Speaker 1: at seven thirty. The restaurant is forty five minutes away

583
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Speaker 1: with traffic. I also usually don't let them pick me up,

584
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 1: but I was feeling gerous and whimsical mistake when he arrives,

585
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 1: and girl, he looks nothing like his photos. I think, pale,

586
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: light haired, blue eyes about five seven. Wait, like literally,

587
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: meaning do you think his photos were not him or

588
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: like he's because like, I don't see how it's.

589
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 3: Something you can look like they're different.

590
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

591
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: I was so taken aback that even my concierge, who

592
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: was fully across my dating lure, told me as I

593
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: left that I could do better.

594
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 3: Humbling.

595
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Speaker 1: We then walked to his car, which is parked two

596
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Speaker 1: blocks away for no reason.

597
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 3: There were parks right outside my building. Hear me out.

598
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Speaker 1: I have a personal issue with people who park unnecessarily

599
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:39,679
Speaker 1: far away.

600
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Speaker 3: Why do you have a car if you refuse to

601
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Speaker 3: use proximity?

602
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: I will walk when I'm on a walk, but I

603
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: didn't drive somewhere to walk through k to get there.

604
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 3: I totally understand that, girl, I'm a lazy fuck. Too.

605
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:49,479
Speaker 3: All right.

606
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 1: We get into his Toyota camera and immediately I see

607
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 1: the mess and smell something, a stench. I don't know

608
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: what it was, but apparently I attract chaotic and unclean.

609
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:01,360
Speaker 1: It is not hard to clean your car if you're

610
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 1: picking up a date. I have maybe a bit of

611
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 1: a messy car. It's not gross, like there's no food

612
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 1: or drinks in it. It's a lot of like receipts

613
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:13,160
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, like papers and packages. But like

614
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,120
Speaker 1: if I was picking up a guy, that thing's gonna

615
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,159
Speaker 1: be fucking spotless, just because you want to make a

616
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: good impression, you know, And I don't think that's a problem.

617
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 1: You can see my uncleanliness when you fall in love

618
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: with me, okay. I try to overlook it and start conversation.

619
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Speaker 1: It is painfully awkward, like how's the weather on loop?

620
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 3: He's dry.

621
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Speaker 1: I'm carrying this entire thing like I'm the Olympics of

622
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 1: small talk. Small talk, Like, oh, me and Riley are

623
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 1: watching this show the other day, last night, actually fifty

624
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: six days. I don't know how I feel about it yet,

625
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna recommend. But they're watching a movie

626
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: and like the guy put his hand on the girl's

627
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: like me, and she like looked up at him, and

628
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: then he like looked down at her, and I'm like

629
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: and right, I go, I have to do that, Like

630
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: I have.

631
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Speaker 3: To get through that small talk one more time.

632
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah to even just like knowing that cues.

633
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: And oh wow, Like I need to find out about

634
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 1: their lives before I can marry them. Do you know

635
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like I need to ask questions. Oh,

636
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 1: maybe you can give me some tips, girl. He tells

637
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,400
Speaker 1: me he works in family law and wants to become

638
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 1: a family lawyer, but hates family law and hates dealing

639
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 1: with families, which feels like the foundation of the job. Also,

640
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: this was an instant dick like family law, Like if

641
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: someone told me they were doing that, I'd be like wow.

642
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 1: But then yeah, not enjoying it.

643
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 3: His voice is nasally.

644
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 1: And he has this verbal tick where he ends almost

645
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: every sentence with that's not too bad, is it? Or

646
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 1: that's the way mate, completely out of context, think me,

647
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: how are you him? I'm good, that's the way, mate,

648
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: chrammatically unwell, another non negotiable broken. We arrive at the

649
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: restaurant at eight forty five, an hour and fifteen minutes later,

650
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 1: he bucks three blocks away. This time knows how I

651
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 1: would have had something? Why are we adding steps somewhere already?

652
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 3: Late? As we walk in, I'm mortified. And he keeps

653
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 3: saying it's fine.

654
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 1: They have to keep their because he's a man, and

655
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 1: they'll say yes, bro red flag flapping aggressively. We get

656
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: inside and the kitchen is closing in fifteen minutes because

657
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 1: it's a Tuesday night, and this guid demands our seven

658
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: thirty table and says, and I quote, we booked, so

659
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: we should get this table. It doesn't matter who's sitting

660
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 1: there now. We want the table. And I'm a man,

661
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: so you need to listen to me. Someone like Brook

662
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 1: from mass would say something like that. I bet she

663
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: wishes she was a man so she could say something

664
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 1: like that, I have never been more embarrassed in my life.

665
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: They give us the table, absolutely, so we'll eat and leave.

666
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: We sit down and he immediately starts talking about Donald Trump,

667
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 1: how he listens to Joe Rogan and how Australia has

668
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: an immigration problem. See people say they would like leave

669
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: on dates. I, as the anxious human being I am,

670
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: would really struggle to leave midway through, like I would

671
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 1: eat din, I would eat, I would only order a

672
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 1: Maine and I would leave. I've done that before, but

673
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 1: like leaving like midway through a day and really really

674
00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 1: struggle with it's.

675
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 2: So hard because it isn't it it is and it

676
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 2: isn't straightforward, like you're like, oh, this doesn't align it.

677
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 3: It's so scared. It would be hard to be.

678
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't know the individuals sitting across from you.

679
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: It's also yeah, there's just level like I respect anyone

680
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: that can just be like now, fuck this. But like

681
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: I just think I'm a bit too scared to ever

682
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: do not because I'm scared of that react. I just

683
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 1: like I feel, I don't know. I just I hope

684
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: she did this. He's talking at me for fifteen minutes straight. Also,

685
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 1: I forgot to mention he smells great, not just the

686
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: car him. I could smell his breath from across the table.

687
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: Bro Bad breath kills me, and dental hygiene is a

688
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 1: non negotiable for me. At this point, I physically cannot

689
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: sit through the whole dinner. So I do something I've

690
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: never done before.

691
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 3: Good good girl.

692
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 1: I go to the bathroom and text my friends. I

693
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: asked them to call me with an emergency, so my

694
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: best friend and I devise an escape plan. He rings,

695
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: pretending to be my concierge, saying someone has broken into

696
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: my apartment and the police are on their way. That

697
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: is a good one. That is a really good one. Yes, diabolical,

698
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 1: but necessary. I go back to the table, order a water,

699
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: pretend to look at the menu. Ten minutes later, my

700
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: phone rings. I'm trying not to laugh because the acting

701
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: my friend is giving is oscar worthy. I act shocked

702
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: and tell Josh what's happened. He's understanding, but keeps insisting

703
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: on driving me home. Keeps pushing it, and I refuse

704
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: and say I'll get an uber. He walks me outside,

705
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: and as we're leaving, the restaurant owner comes out to

706
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: check everything is okay, because it clearly looks like we

707
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: were storming out. I felt terrible for them. Josh asked

708
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: me to text him when I get home. I texted

709
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 1: them to say sorry, and then I've sorted the break in,

710
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: but then never texted Josh again.

711
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 3: Instead, I ordered Freddy's Pizza Slay. She's very much. She's

712
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 3: a Melbourne girl, and watch tell me lies.

713
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: That is a dream, A perfect ending to a horrendous

714
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 1: night and we never spoke again, and I'm eighty percent

715
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: sure he unfollowed me, and honestly, fair enough, I hopefully

716
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: never have to do it again. I did feel guilty,

717
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: but he can't fish me first, true, So lesson learned.

718
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 3: VET your men, ladies.

719
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: I was actually talking about that exactly the other day,

720
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: of like you want to meet someone organically. I think

721
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: that's everyone's dream, is to have one of those little

722
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: like meet cutes, Like you're in a cafe, you're on

723
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: the street and someone comes up to you and it's

724
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: like I know nothing about.

725
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 2: You, nothing, you could be a serial killer, and people

726
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 2: just switch.

727
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that's kind of what this show

728
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: I'm about to, like The fifty six Days is kind

729
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: of like getting it is that like they're both obviously

730
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: a little bit fucked up, but it's like, yeah, unless

731
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: it's a mutual friend, which I love everyone in my life,

732
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: I have no desire to day anyone that I presently know,

733
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have to give a stranger a chance.

734
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 3: And that's really scary.

735
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 2: Maybe you should do maths. M I'm joking.

736
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 3: No, I actually no, I could never.

737
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: No, Well, I'm glad you left, And I think the

738
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: only way to leave a date like that is to

739
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: actually just make up a fake emergency, because at that

740
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: point it's like you're saving their feelings a little bit

741
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 1: by pretending there's something going on, but they kind of

742
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: know that there isn't something going on, and they'll probably

743
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: just get the hints. Yeah, all right, Hey, is Iam

744
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: Blake love the part? Here's one of the rogue stories

745
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: that unfortunately had to happen to me.

746
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 3: Enjoy it.

747
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 1: For context, let's call my ex Lee and his best

748
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: mate Jake. Liam and I dated for almost two years.

749
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: Fast forward. I found out he cheated on me and

750
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: we broke up. Bumma tis. A whole year later, I

751
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: happened to run into Jake, one of his best mates

752
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: at the time, at a random party.

753
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 3: Oh I know where this is going.

754
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: We clicked instantly, easy laughs, real chemistry. Yeah, that's what

755
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: happens when you just sometimes I'd said this before, you

756
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: might just meet the wrong friend in the re friendship

757
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: group first, and then there's another friend that's better suited

758
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: for you and is way better anyway. After one very

759
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: honest conversation about boundaries and potential messiness, we decided to

760
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: talk of once mature communicated no hidden agendas. The next day,

761
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: Jake says, for Liam's sake, I don't want to pursue anything.

762
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt him. I remember blinking at him,

763
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 1: hurt him, the same man who treated a commitment like

764
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: a free trial subscription. But fine, whatever, I wasn't looking

765
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: for anything anyway. A week later I get a text

766
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: from Jake saying, you are not going to believe this. Liam,

767
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: my fully grown, tax paying ex boyfriend, had decided that

768
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: the correct emotionally regulative response to two single adults hooking

769
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: up was to pop all four of Jake's tires, all four,

770
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: and then, because that wasn't enough, the man took an

771
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 1: actual physical shit on Jake's winscreen.

772
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 3: No way.

773
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes I hear this shit and I go, you're lying,

774
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: that's crazy. In broad daylight. Liam took it upon himself

775
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: to send me photos of the evidence, with the next

776
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: message saying, I hope you never go back to Oh

777
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: my god, that's fucking disgusting, as if there was even

778
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: a microscopic chance. Now I haven't spoken to either of

779
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: them for two years, and I hope anyone who listens

780
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: so this never experiences something.

781
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 3: As grim as this.

782
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 2: Good on her for exiting.

783
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: Exiting both like, I'm not dealing with either of you anymore.

784
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 2: It's so I don't know how much you're going to

785
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,719
Speaker 2: agree with me here. But what I thought, because I've

786
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,719
Speaker 2: read this, of course, but I genuinely thought you'd be like,

787
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 2: sometimes you want a man to fight for you, but

788
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 2: like this.

789
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: As in, there was a little bit of me, a

790
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: little bit of old is he in there that goes,

791
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: oh he's jealous.

792
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 3: It's not shit on someone's bore.

793
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 2: So as this was building and that I was reading it,

794
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, he's about to do something kind

795
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 2: of hot. But the ship.

796
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, the shit's not. You ruined your chances,

797
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: But I yeah, there was, it was. It did run

798
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: through my mind.

799
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 3: You know me too? Well, Okay, hey, is he and Blake?

800
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 3: I love it? I mentioned Blake my shailer's.

801
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 1: I thought I'd share one of the most unexpected plot

802
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: twisting situationships because I'm at the stage where we can

803
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: laugh and not cry about it. So it's fake name obviously,

804
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: right right. This starts from a throwaway comment from one

805
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: of my friends. Daniel is so hot. I disagreed naturally.

806
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: He later adds me on Snapchat. I was six in

807
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: at the time, so it was cool and trendy. Don't

808
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: hate me. People keep adding me on Snapchat and I'm like,

809
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: when can I delete the app?

810
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 3: Can I do it now? Or am I gonna? Like?

811
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 3: Is there?

812
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's maybe one person that's still randomly text

813
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 1: me on there occasionally, but they're way too old for

814
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: Snapchat as well, and they shouldn't be doing it.

815
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 2: If you communicate on other channels.

816
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 3: I'll just delete it. I'm gonna do it right now.

817
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 2: Fuck the pods.

818
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: Because I keep getting notifications of people that I don't

819
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: like that I'm still friends with on Snapshot and I

820
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: don't want to.

821
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 3: I just don't like their name on my screen.

822
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 2: Can you show it to the camera? Because I feel

823
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 2: like this has been years in the making.

824
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 3: It's gone. I feel so light, I feel so fresh.

825
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 3: She's grows, she's grown.

826
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 1: Okay, now that we got that either way, Daniel starts

827
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 1: snapping me. He asked me out, but I had really

828
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: strict parents who said no boyfriends until after high school.

829
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: I really wanted to go on this date. So we

830
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: ended up going on a date to go and get dessert.

831
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: Meaning I'm assuming you did think Daniel was hot.

832
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 3: You just disagreed because she probably did think he was.

833
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 3: Was just like, no, he's not.

834
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: We ended up going on a date to get dessert.

835
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: Secret dates lay and it was actually a really good time.

836
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 3: It was my first day ever.

837
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: We were both very nervous and plus said, but it

838
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: flowed really well and we got along like a.

839
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 3: House on fire.

840
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: Anyways, fast forward a couple more dates, back to the

841
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 1: same dessert place. Hilarious, great, I reckon it was yogi,

842
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 1: and a lot more secret visits to his house. He

843
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 1: started to really, you want to take things more sexual,

844
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: and I was like, look, I'm not there yet, and

845
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: we put it on the back burner.

846
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 3: That's okay, glad he took that.

847
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: I started going over to his house more and more

848
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 1: in secret, of course, so we're moving along well. But

849
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:14,320
Speaker 1: then we would run into each other in public and

850
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 1: he would pretend I didn't exist and then message me

851
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 1: to come over later. A strange, very rude in my opinion.

852
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: This was my first situationship, so I didn't really know

853
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 1: what to expect and if this was normal behavior. I

854
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 1: feel like when you're like sixteen, like hiding shit like

855
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: that's just like fucked, like so rude. Why are we

856
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: hiding it? If less there's like anyone involved, you know

857
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: what I mean? That could potentially be an issue. He

858
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: told me he loved me, okay, And I asked with

859
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 1: him his girlfriend after like three months or whatever, and

860
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 1: I said, no, I want to know if he asked

861
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: you to be his girlfriend. Was he still ignoring you

862
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 1: in public? You know, like I need to know the

863
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 1: answer to that. Something still felt off, and I felt myself,

864
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: but I felt myself liking him more and more. He

865
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:58,879
Speaker 1: started telling me to turn my location off of my friends.

866
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're not asked me to be your girlfriend.

867
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 1: If you can't even tell people that were dating, do

868
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? That is a fuck that

869
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,439
Speaker 1: my best friends didn't have my best interests at heart,

870
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: and they were talking major shit about me behind my back.

871
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 1: His friends would call and ask what he was doing

872
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,479
Speaker 1: while I was over, and he would shush my mouth

873
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: and laugh and pretend it was a game.

874
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 3: I hate this.

875
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,720
Speaker 1: Anytime his phone would ring it or make a noise,

876
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,360
Speaker 1: he would hide it and not let me see.

877
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,720
Speaker 3: Like I cared diva. Some men are such fucking divas.

878
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: Anytime his friends would want to catch up and I

879
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: was with him, he'd tell me I had to leave, like,

880
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: if you're dating, what the fuck? I hate that we

881
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 1: continued seeing each other. He would complain that I never

882
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: opened up to him, and that I wasn't in love

883
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: with him, and that I didn't want to have sex

884
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 1: with him. Every time I saw him. From there, all

885
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 1: he wanted to do was hook up. We decided to

886
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: be exclusive. Why did noone stop me? Well, because your

887
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 1: friends didn't know. And this was continually the case. I

888
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,280
Speaker 1: was getting constantly hidden from his friends while his family

889
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,760
Speaker 1: all knew we were in some sort of situation relationship.

890
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: He broke off and ruined pretty much all of my

891
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: friendships and made me feel like I needed him as

892
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: my emotional and physical support.

893
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 3: I was isolated and alone. One night when I had the.

894
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 1: Most rough day, abused at work, no sleep, and was

895
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 1: just not feeling hot, we had a conversation about where

896
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,439
Speaker 1: this was going, and he told me at the start

897
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 1: of the year, him and his French Oh my god,

898
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 1: him and his friendship group made a bet and who

899
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: could lose their virginity first, and I.

900
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 3: Was basically part of their twisted game and dare.

901
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he said he never really wanted anything

902
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: with me from the start and faked all his feelings

903
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: towards me. Oh my god, girl, I can't even imagine.

904
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: That's so sad, your poor thing. But we could stay

905
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:34,839
Speaker 1: together if I slept with him.

906
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I hate him.

907
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: He was crying, but I comfort him, comforted him the

908
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 1: fuck who's got the balls in this situation?

909
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 3: Ship.

910
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: His mum also messaged me this massive paragraph justifying and

911
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: reasoning his behavior, like, I'm sorry, do you really condone

912
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: this type of behavior? All our mutual friends take his side.

913
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 1: I find when you're younger, a lot of your girlfriends

914
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 1: that you think of your friends always end up taking

915
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: the guy's side, probably because they think he's hot, Like

916
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,240
Speaker 1: it actually been so fucking much and it's disgusting, yeah,

917
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: or his friends Yeah, well his friends obviously will. Anyway,

918
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: time moved on and for two years we saw each

919
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: other on and off. Got to go back until you

920
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 1: hate them, right, And about a week after the last

921
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,720
Speaker 1: time I saw him, his new girl posted a photo

922
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,280
Speaker 1: of them on Instagram saying about time we hard launched

923
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 1: hashtag six months so basically I loved and watched the

924
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 1: movie after that many times, and I manifested my life

925
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 1: to be a spin off of it.

926
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 3: And he was not even that hot.

927
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 2: Oh my god, no one so hot that.

928
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 1: But fuck if you don't have to, yeah, gotta learn

929
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: at some point. Those are brutal.

930
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 3: They were brutal.

931
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 1: But it's like when you really write down a story

932
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: like that, Like so many people go through shit like that,

933
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 1: but writing it down and having someone else read it

934
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 1: out like makes you realize how fucking insane it is.

935
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: Like if I wrote down my stories with my ex's

936
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: or my friends, like it would be fucked.

937
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 2: I also feel like when you're in the depths of

938
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 2: these stories, it does feel not heavy, like yes sometimes,

939
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 2: but like it like triggereds me, like a remind me, Yeah,

940
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 2: it's just really sad.

941
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: Well, I'm sorry to all of you girls, but I'm

942
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 1: sure we're only on bigger and better And I honestly

943
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: feel like everyone has to go through something like that

944
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: to learn and move forward and like not be experiencing

945
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 1: that stuff when you're older in character, well just not boundaries, now,

946
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, I really really do

947
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: believe that future me when I meet my human, my human,

948
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 1: my penguin.

949
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 3: When I meet my.

950
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: Man, I will know boundaries and I will know the

951
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: right things for me, because back then it's like you

952
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: just want, you like give up so many of your

953
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,439
Speaker 1: boundaries and let them like push it back, just because

954
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: you want to be loved.

955
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 2: And sadly you almost learn what your boundaries are.

956
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 3: And by having cross yeah.

957
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 2: Oh, by being hurt so much, like yeah, well care

958
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 2: about that.

959
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 1: Here's to boundaries, ladies and gents. Love you guys, and

960
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: we will chat next week.

961
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 3: That